MWANAKE WAKWA MENA ITHE MANYAMARITIE NGINYA NGAKINYA MUICO NDEITHINITU URIA NGWIKA
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Me I left home at 18yrs.at 24yrs Nikaoa ,at 27yrs I had 2 children.now at 2*.sasa Niko na mali yangu settlement and Gari and affording three meals a day.wonderful to God .
Mom needs to let her son to depend on himself ajue nyumba hilipwa, ajisimamie mambo yake. If he dont work to get food he will go hungry for a day, the second day he wil work to get it. Ati pocket money at 28 na anaenda tu kukunywa huko?
I must share with my dad hii story just to appreciate him coz he would take us to good schools then ukimaliza he would literally chase us and we thought it was bad but now I understand coz he was teaching us to be grown and fight with world.I love you daddy
Mwanake ucio ni gitunio, kwaja kuhea heo mbia onagara itithiraga nadaranogera, ira mutumia usio darateithia Njenga onahanini
Kabisa.
I agree
Nampea akifanya kazi
@@cecilianjogu6249,
I understand the mother's love, it's hard to see your son suffer. BUT mum you should understand the best love you can give your child is prepare him for tomorrow. Life is unpredictable kesho hatujui mahali tutakuwa. Simo is correct tough love is the best gift you would ever give to your child. Aende ajitafutie from scratch akilala njaa leo kesho the next day akili zitaamka aanze kujipanga.
Kweri
Well done Symo K very practical advice to mum.ona mukuru nieragwo no kurumwo atarumagwo.🛐✝️✍🏽🙏🏽📖📖🙌🏽🙏🏽
The problem is you are trying to fill the gap you didn't raise him but it's not going to work because he is taking advantage of you .....you can take him to rehab then you do canceling together that way you can bond and build relationship slowly by slowly..you are a good mother and you are doing what you think it's right and he is behaving like a child because he is finally with his mom he doesn't hate you ...I'm sure he is a good son ☺️☺️
Mom niahe wira ngire njenga eno namanga ndimihurite haro njeke ta uthi, nie ndaumire hee aciari akwa ndina miaka 23
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Mother you have spoilt your son. He keeps coming back to you, because you are always there for him.
Waheo ciana njega na njathiki ni tha CIA jehovah
Symo ira nyina wa Njenga ethe councilor na kuma hau aingate kimwana kiu gwake ..ni kunana niundu wa guikara a comfort zone
its hard for many women to be strick on their children.dont blame mama njogu. its hard, very hard. i know this woman though i dont know njenga. but she tries. kikuyu saying- mundurume ni mugambo. the presence of a dad is voice is very important. i was also chased by my dad. he told me to stay very far from him and neither could i go home to mum. i decided to go to mombasa and looked for a college and we became friends with dad again. otherwise i could have been a a pain in the neck in my family if dad was not tough. symo- your advice is good. let mama njenga take a step , although its difficult. especialy for a woman parent. pole mama njogu.
The problem is not Njenga and alcohol....its you, mother.
I thank God because I know this mother she is a very hard working mother in manga town
Symo umeuliza a good question that I intended to ask
Am a mother of adults, I have passed through the same but I became hard to them and I know what am saying. The rest is history
Pole mum woyee na vile umejitolea kusaidia huyo kijana,Na sisi huku ni kustruggle kai guthiaga atia maa.
So sorry Wanjogu.. A very hardworking mum here in namanga, mungu atakupigania, namanga sijui kuna roho gani ya pombe.. njenga needs prayers n mpelekeni rehab
Let him go to rehab first there is counselling sessions, but keep praying for him,let him stand on his own so that he can be responsible, he is still young he can put his life together if he want there is still room for improvement all the best mom
Mwanake ucio nimutuniye,muno ni mum washana na huyo kijana
Tough ❤️....love, works, l did that with my son, ako poa sasa.
At 28 there are Men who are still relying on their parents upkeep Mama Njenga accept what Symo has told you niutunitie Njenga ATI unaenda kumuamsha wwcha aamshwe na shida zake.
Ooh waoh,1st time to see someone I know on this interviews!
Pole Cecilia wa Njogu.
Asante
Njenga is badly brought up...he doesn't know the meaning of the word poverty,
Mum yes he's your son but he must man up. Let him be independent huyo ni mwanaume mzima. And if he's an alcoholic he can be taken to rehab.
The mother is referring to him as 'ka njenga', like he is still in diapers.
Sawa
It shall be well, mama Njenga.
Big up Symo wakiaria ta athuri atano maikariire njug'wa
Dependency can be chronic. Mother's become victims of such children because of their nurturing nature. Children with such behaviour should be ashamed of themselves. They are sheer exploiters
Pole sana
Mom let him go stop spoiling Njenga
Nowadays earth is different. May God bless you mom
We will pray for him. Be blessed mummy. U have tried
The boy needs counseling, the actions of parents affects the children, it is good you are repenting on his behalf , keep on praying for him.
Mama Njenga I am way older than you, so please listen: Symo is giving you a truth you don't want to hear - you are a problem too. You are justifying every correction point Symo brings up. You are actually very defensive of your position. I'm sorry to tell you that YOU ARE THE ENABLER. Yenda mùno ìkùraga rùrìra. Ngai akuonekanìrè.
Very true.
Pray for him and leave him in the hands of the Lord eat and sleep tight he is taking advantage of be careful next he shall bit you for your money earlier the better love him but you are spoiling him
Huyo mtoto mwishowe atamua mamake coz ya kumbembelezwa .....Mama unalea nyoka hapo.fukuza yeye akakufie mbali.
Ucio mwanake ndangiteithika tondu wa kuhuritaniyo na mum wao. Very sad he needs rehab and counseling sessions to help and support with prayers and fasting and delivarence before it's too late 📖🙋🛐🙏🏽😭
Karega nyina nigukua gakuaga kaga gukua nyina agakua wimenyerere mum
Symo very good advice 👍. Niathie agacarie ta arume aria angi!
I'm talking through experience my son was like that for many years wakati nili mwekea cavew now he is standing like a man
Nilifukuzwa home at the age of 17 nikiwa na mtoi wa 2 years. Greetings from Ludwigshafen Germany
Ooh my dear, i feel for this lady, l feel her pains, The Dad needs to be in this guy's life, like live close to him, it is well, keep praying,
Thanks
Uyo Jamaa anahjty counseling
May God have mercy on us
Woooi hakuna kama Mama may God hear your prayers mama Njenga 👏
Am for good man see in kenya soon
Mwanake usio orire gwa ithe tondu nionire mami wao niaramunyita muuno niguo njenga niasoke gwi ithe asoke eritire wira atekuheo onaki ethukumire
Pole sana village mate
Umemuongelesha vizuri symo .
That's a grown up person
May be the boy was spoiled by the step mother, pray
Mama.
Please don't spoil your son.
"You are the cause of all this.
Pia Mimi napitia hio stress watoto wangu wame gro kwa baba yao.. wame lundi juzi kwangu but mambo na pitia ni mungu too
Mungu akupe nguvu
Mum, why let this boy control you mpaka hukuli ,leave them ata huyo dadake she is not wise kwani you have strong shock absorbers than their dad who raised them brainwashing them.wakwende ukae na njogu who this dad discriminated.
Waiting. Pole sana mum.
Sometimes wanaume huharibu watoto then wanawatuma wa wanawake kuwasubua may God remember you mama
Thanks my sister
She needs to let her son work for himself and know how to manage his own money, Mom there’s tomorrow what about if you not there? You’re spoiling your son!
Sawa
Symo k.that is a good piece of counsel to her son!!!.
I think this woman is right. Let this boy go back to his father. Why did he not allow her to carry the boy. I echo all what she's saying.
Waah! This lady is my neigbour in my working place ,,, ifeel for you mama njogu bur at the same look for acouncellor to guide your son but also you have tought your son the wrong way of life let him go and hussle like other men bur hyo yakumpea food , pesa nani mtu mzima si mgojwa na ako abled apana , anyway all the best and may njenga reform and stop giving you sleepless night .
I'm sure the other lady was jealousy that's why she was conspiring with your husband be careful with friends
Symo that's the best advice. Hugo mama amedekeza njenga
Mother's love is special but sometimes love yourself first. My mum has high blood pressure coz of my brother.
same here,mlifanya aje?
Uchio ni mundu mugima niatige guthumbura nyina apelekwe counseling kwanza
Mugambo mi muru muno wacha arudi kwao juu ya sauti ya guka yake am witness wangu nilimuacha juu.ya.hiyo sauti na ako sawa
Mimi kijana yangu alinipeleka kwa chief ati simpi food nilambiia chief hata bibilia imesema lazy bones wasipewa chakula na nikamuacha nikaenda majuu Sasa akitaka pesa lazima kwanza anifanyie kazi ndio apate yangu imagn siku Ile utamnyima utaona Kanyoni WA Ngethe
Mum Niko side ya symo Njenga ni mwanaume wewe niwe uratuma anyue juu Hana kitu ya kufanya na pesa utamlipa nyumba mpaka lini mum akuna mtu hapendi mtoto yake mache apelekane na wanaume you have done ur part
May God bless mum, it's well,
But I think your son needs some sort of help as he is drinking and using miraa, his age does not matter when it come to addiction, As you suggested could be his dad might support him or even take him to rehad and also check about that voice you mentioned, good luck mum!
Symo....umepeana very good advice.
Ucio kwanza hau aiyaga, angiararaga borithi🤔
Helping your son at this age will only make him dependant.
Keep him off your property strictly, don't set any business for him now, do it when he reforms. Haki wamama kuchezewa na watoto.
Symonds umeongea vizuri sana this lady akusikize huruma yake ina mumess mwanawe.She seems to listen to people's opinions.God bless ha
Mwanaume mzima hata hana akili kubuf yeye he should manup
Don't ever quit praying for your child. Continue to pray for him and even after you are gone God will answer many of your prayers. Your son will never never as long as he live get away from the prayer of a praying mother and a father. Believe God don't give up.
Njenga enagikundi kiuru kia raha na dawa Ngai aromiririkana
Ndure mukuru mama Njenga urio minji minji.
Sawa
May God fight for you mama
This looks like venye tu umesema mugambo wa guka wao...
Mungu yupo
Remember he have his own choice live him and world
Please mother, you spoilt your son
You gave him food, even when he was working and could feed himself.
He grew up with dad
No.hiyo ni sauti ya Guka yake akirudi kwao atabadirika
Njenga is extremely a spoiled child, he needs the earth's lessons.
Symo that’s a totally solid advice to the mom
That is guilt tripping by the daughter and father and he needs to be shown the door to grow up 📖🙋✝️🛐🙏🏽
NDUGU ZANGU WALILIGAIWA, MASHAMBA, NA BADO WANAISHI, KWA WAZA NA WAMEZEEKA, WAKO JUU YA 60YEARS,
Mama njenga,,ndigûgûkua ûru,but 90% ya ciama iria ûrenda ihanîkîre njenga,niwe winasio,,accept you have failed as a mother,na ûrîa wesiragia nî wendo harî njenga nî kûmûte wamûteaga na ndwamenyaga,infact îra Ngai akuohere,,Then mûnengerane harî Ngai, literally,,ûgathie kanitha one of these days wîre Ngai,ûreciragua no icenjie njenga,but nîûramenyire it's all in vain,na no Ngai peke yake ûngîmûgarûra,,,mwîre akûrere ciana,na after that,upigane na roho ya kufkiria na njenga akiuliwa,,ikikuja,unasema kwa sauti njenga will not die but live to see the goodness of the lord in the land of the living,then ukiskia ni mlevi unasema,,Mungu atamwokoa,awe analewa na roho mtakatifu,,Yani unasema opposite ya vyenye shetani anasema,But fight the spirit of fear,,na ûtûeka mûndû wa kîgooco,nunua earphones,,weka nyimbo za kîgooco,,ukiwa job,weka earphones,,usiku,aamka na tikûhoera njenga,but kûinîra Ngai,ndûkareke njenga oe position ya Ngai,the Bible says He is a jealous God,akiona unampatia 80% of your time, yeye mwenye ndiye atakuja kukuliza kama Solomon, Cecilia what do you want,,in fact mwambie ,,Leo sijakuja kulia ama kulalamika,nimekuja kukushukuru,juu hata nifanye nini siwezi badilisha Kijana wangu hata sekunde Moja ya maisha yangu ama watoto wangu,lakini wewe uko na uwezo,that's why I'm here to worship you for who you are.kigooco nikîeheragua stress
Peleka yy rehabilitation
I wish i had an older bro 2 work on my younger bro whose exactly like that n same age.
Can the family first check weather this young man is alcoholic they start from there
When children are brought up on abusive environment they suffer mentally and physically and start taking drugs and alcohol to numb the pain
Thank you SYMO I feel sorry for this lady. One from the beginning of the whole story this lady is the one enabling her son. He is a grown young man he should be taking care straggling like the mother is doing. Rehab first before buying all what you are planning to do. He has to change let him hit the
rock bottom. Sorry mum your love is not helping. Don't feel guilt for those talks.
Pole mama njogu kwa yale jenga amekupitisha,naelewa huruma ya mama kwa mtoto
Lakini usijali Mungu yupo na ana uwezo wa kubadilisha.
Mama is you are too soft on the boy and trust me he will never grow. He has learned of your weakness
Woi Mama.....I Pray and hope that your son changes to be a better man and may he bring joy to your heart not sadness ....my grandmother went through the same with my cousin but it did not end well....as someone who has experienced the same first hand I tell you that there is no formulae on how to parent such kids, just do your best, what you think is best and pray for the best outcome... I wish you the best ...God is able.
Thanks Aggie
Symo good advice bro!
Ngoma inanagio niguthijiro let him be a man
Mother, you have SPOILT your son PERIOD. Mother you are an enemy to your son not a friend. You don't like him, because, you are messing him up.
@Line Wangui, I agree with you 100%. Hii ni upendo ya kuharibu. The mother should not be guilty of her marriage not working, she did her best and now that the children or this Njenga knows her mother's pain, he tries to hide under the shadow of this pain. Well, it might have impacted on his mental health and emotional health while growing up but he should be faced with the reality that he is now an adult and choices have consequences. The mother faced challenges, but she made lemonade out of it and slowly picked her pieces. Why inflict more pain to her while she has healed and moved on? This guy has been baby sat, and he knows the mother will always look for him..
I agree with you 💯 per cent, tough love works , it worked with me.
He is using reverse psychology against the mum ati mnanichukia and the mum let,s it affect her
Mwanake usioathii nambere guikara na mami wao egukorwo ena Wana ndakagimara naniekugia asiari muno Ngai niamuteithie
May God bless u more hugs mum symo ranjoz alienda wapi we miss him 👋 👋
Asante
Mum is spoiling a grown up man and should not be entertained he needs tough love he will have to work his way out of life . God bless you mum but you are now free to enjoy life and let him grow up. Let him fight, drink and sort his rent get married and before you get high blood pressure. Kindly kick him out and let him suffer like other people. 📖🙋🙏🏽🛐🙌🏽
Set Njenga free ni mundu mugima riu na umuingate muceranagire niguo muheane gitiyo
Sawa
Symo I second you.
Spare the rod,spoil the child.A kid should never call the shots,a parent should always take charge.
You spoilt the boy..The moment he started to disrespect you,that's when he was supposed to be kicked out of your fold.Afterall he was over 18'
Im sorry bt dont throw. Stones on mm njenga lets balance njenga life from his father how h ws raised by other women u never know kaspirit arirushiwa. Ndio akae that life, the proud of every mother is to see kids successful mom just release njenga from ur mind, for now seek mean akae distance from u
Always waiting to hear from you symo k. Your show is the most watched vernacular show recently. Thank you for the inspiring stories
Thanks alot May God bless you
for real btw ata tuko sai wanatoa story uku
@@essymumjay2492 Glory to God we thank God for this far
He need to be waited on that area he is adult mum you have your life