Can we all take a moment to appreciate & give this father a round of applaud! 👏 We need more parents like this. Nomore ua siab ntev to only see 6ft under!
👏👏 to your parents!! You are indeed one of the few lucky daughters! I am one of those parents like yours. I have to say the daughter has to be ready to leave the toxic relationship. Parents can support you all they want but if you’re not ready to leave, it would not happen. Just let your daughters know you as parents are there to support their decision when they’re ready to leave. Thanks for sharing your story.❤
I’m totally agree with her’s father’s doing. If my son-in-law does the same treatment to my daughter, I will do the same like this father’s doing…proud of this father that he stood up for his daughter…😩👍🤠.
Wow 👏 cas koj yuav muaj hmoo los ua neeg nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no los tau ib leejniam leej txiv zoo ua luaj os me ntxhais aw....lub ntiaj teb no ntshe thiaj muaj koj niam koj txi nkawd 2leeg xwb os mog koj muaj hmoo tiag2 nawb kuv laus li no kuv nyuam qhuav hnov tib zaj neej neeg zoo li no xwb os ib tsoom hmoob aw kuv yuav khaws zaj neej neeg txoj kev ua zoo li no mus siv los coj mus ua tshuaj mob hniav thaum twg kab tsis noj hniav los tseg kab noj hniav mob2 thiaj tau coj los rau kaus hniav os ib tsoom hmoob aw
Zoo siab nrog koj os me vivncaus koj muaj zoo niam zoo txiv es pab koj hlub koj li koj yog ib tug ntxhaig tiag2 es koj lub neej thiaj zoo os niam thiab txiv ces yeej xav kom yus lub neej zoo xwb
First time I hear a story of a unconditional love father who supports her daughter. Feem coob peb cov ntxhais hla tawm mus ua neej niamtxiv tsuas yog kom uv tag los uv dua tsis tuag. He is a true hero 👏!!
Hais tau tu siab los kua muag kawg li yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej hloov dua lub neej tshiab Tawm ntawm tus neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws uas yog tus neeg lub siab Dab Ntxwg nyoog lub neej thiaj li yuav kaj siab... Ua tsaug koj muab tuaj piav ua kev kawm rau peb mloog koj leej niam leej txiv siab zoo heev Peb tsoom niam tsev txiv tsev yuav tau kawm thiab nawb hlub tej menyuam peb tej menyuam thiaj li tsis tu siab o
.......I DON'T normally post serious comment, but for this story I will. Sister, every steps you and your parents did are 100% correct. The change for the new generation for future Hmong parents. Thank you for sharing.
Should have divorced him the first time. Why? Because his cheating was intentional, and therefore, he will continue to cheat. Once a cheater, always a cheater---stop giving cheaters the benefit of the doubt! If you do, then be prepared to get hurt over and over again.
Your Parents are very loving towards you. As a Mom, I would never allow my son or daughter to go through this either. You have given your ex so many chances...I'm glad you've moved on to a better life.
sim neej no yg leej twg g tau ntsib cov niag txiv liam txv ua hluas ces txob rawm maj nyos lwm tus o txoj kev no kv twb mob dhau los lawn g txog leej twg leej twg g paub
Muaj txiv dev thiab maum dev Coob Coob li os!! Zoo siab tias koj muaj tus txiv dev veg lawm es koj tau lub neej zoo lawm os!! Koj niam thiab txiv zoo tshaj plaws!!
So glad your parents supported you fully! Wished my parents did the same. They only put me down with others. I was very young when I married my 1st hubby. After only a year, my ex also cheated on me and he got the girl pregnant and still my parents said, well you wanted him so bad so that’s your life. Unfortunately I went back to my ex 3 times as a result of the fear of being a divorced girl, fear of dishonoring my family name. I believed if my parents supported me like this lady, I would had never went back so many times. We got to support and love on our kids, especially our daughters.
When you are over 18 years old, you are legally considered an adult. Make your own decisions and stick with your choices so you don't regret down the road. I agreed completely that the sooner you leave a cheater, the better. Don't be wasting precious time and effort trying to force someone to love you. Love can't be force, so while your spouse is cheating and finding their next partner, you need to plan and find your next partner as well. You are a very lucky woman with great supportive parents.
Sister, I'm so proud of you. You gave him chances after chances to be a good husband. He fail you as a husband and a father to his children. People who cheat are insecure about themselves. You deserve so much better and you found him. Gob blessed you and your new husband.
This is how every daughter want from their parents. I will be this parent to my daughters too. Your parents are not the bad influence on you but they are the supportive parents us daughters want.
Love love love your parents. They love you so much that they put your life and welfare before their reputation. This is the kind of love I have for my daughter.
Hais txog lub neej uas yus txiv ua hluas tsim yus lub siab mas mob tshaj. Xyov Ua cas yus pheej muab chance rau nws. Muab xav los más yus ruam tshaj plaws.
Many parents don't support their daughters because they know their daughter can't leave that toxic relationship so they don't want to look like fools/waste their time and money to support only to find their daughter running back to that toxic relationship.
kv tus txij nkawm yeej tsis tau tsim kom yus mob siab lwj puas tsus tab sis nws yog ib tug neeg ua tsis tshuam khwv noj khwv hau li luag lwm tus txiv tsev tsuas npav nyob xeb me nyuam los yug tau tsheej pab tsis nrog luag muaj noj hnav li tu siab kawg os niam ntsuab teev aw
Koj niam thiab koj txiv hlub koj tab koj tus txiv hos tsis koj. Hos kuv tau tus txiv hlub kuv tshaj li tab sis Kuv niam thiab kuv txiv hos tsis hlub kuv li koj niam lawv
Ugh Hmong OGs on a dude's side of the family always got something smart to say to degrade the wife and her family even when it's their son who is wrecking his own house! I am a mom of two girls and they may be small today but in 25 years I will still stand by my girls if their men act up and disrespect them. As a mom and a wife, no one gonna love my kids as much as me cause I tore my flesh and bled to bring them into this world. Good for her parents who stood their ground and supported her while her man was acting a fool.
Kuv tus no mas yog neej tsa tsis yog neej qhau, yog kuv saib zoj tsis yog tim kuv tus ces kuv xum pab kuv tus tub thiab tus ntxhais xwb, tus vauv thiab tus nyab cia tso tuaj tom qab vim ob tug ntawd yog los sab nraud los xwb.
Sister I'm with you all the way. I'm glad your parents were there for you all the way. If it wasn't for them you would have suffered. I'm glad you hit rock bottom in your relationship to leave. I have only 4 girls and your parents are what I idolize to be for my girls. XOXOXOO
You should've gotten a restraining order against him. Your parents especially your father is 100% a great guy. Father of the year award. Why would let him in the house? You should've called the police and have police present for him to get his things. He's a liar and a cheater. He'll not change.
Your parents are super parents those who understands the new generation Life... tsis hais tej niag lus ruan ruam kom ua siab ntev vim tej me nyuam yug muaj...you one and lucky girl
Thaum yus ua li qhov yus ua tau tag lawm ces once you removed yourself from that life, you moved on without any regrets. You should have never give him another chance when he came with her to pick up his stuff.
Lawv aw Cas kuv yuav ruam ua luaj tsis kev hlub li Los nim nyob laus li no Los vim kuv niam thiab kuv txiv es kuv thiaj tsis tau kuv xaiv tus kuv tsis tau xaiv Los siab phem heel nws yog tus siab phem Los tseem mus dag tias yus tsis zoo niam lawv tseem cem yus thiab ua rau kuv tu siab tshaj plaws thaum kuv niam yuav tuag mam paub yog Tim kuv tus txiv ces kuv twb tu siab txaus lawm niam thov txim Los tu siab tshaj plaws li os
Disagree! Kev tho neeg taug. Cai tsim tswj neeg. Tsa tw ntxiab lawm. Txoj cai muaj, yog hais cai ces raug lawm. Tab sis mloog mas zoo li tsa tw ntxiab xwb ua ntej mam hais cai tom qab ces txoj cai tsis hais li
Your dad is a true Hero! You are so lucky to have a hero in your life.
You are lucky to have loving parents who supported you through out this ordeal. Not many women have that.
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Yes i agree
Can we all take a moment to appreciate & give this father a round of applaud! 👏
We need more parents like this. Nomore ua siab ntev to only see 6ft under!
Forreal!
Yes!!! 👏👏👏👏
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Yes absolutely 💯 🙌 👏
Yes we need more Hmong parents that support their daughters and daughter in laws and not just the sons. All children have values.
Your parents are the change we need in our community.
Your parents are what other parents needs to be. This is how I’m going to be with my children.
👏👏 to your parents!! You are indeed one of the few lucky daughters! I am one of those parents like yours. I have to say the daughter has to be ready to leave the toxic relationship. Parents can support you all they want but if you’re not ready to leave, it would not happen. Just let your daughters know you as parents are there to support their decision when they’re ready to leave.
Thanks for sharing your story.❤
Props to the dad for protecting his kid !
I’m totally agree with her’s father’s doing. If my son-in-law does the same treatment to my daughter, I will do the same like this father’s doing…proud of this father that he stood up for his daughter…😩👍🤠.
But you have to make sure your daughter is the same person as their daughter tsis li ntawd koj mov kub nyhiab nawb.
Agreed!
Wow 👏 cas koj yuav muaj hmoo los ua neeg nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no los tau ib leejniam leej txiv zoo ua luaj os me ntxhais aw....lub ntiaj teb no ntshe thiaj muaj koj niam koj txi nkawd 2leeg xwb os mog koj muaj hmoo tiag2 nawb kuv laus li no kuv nyuam qhuav hnov tib zaj neej neeg zoo li no xwb os ib tsoom hmoob aw kuv yuav khaws zaj neej neeg txoj kev ua zoo li no mus siv los coj mus ua tshuaj mob hniav thaum twg kab tsis noj hniav los tseg kab noj hniav mob2 thiaj tau coj los rau kaus hniav os ib tsoom hmoob aw
Zoo siab nrog koj os me vivncaus koj muaj zoo niam zoo txiv es pab koj hlub koj li koj yog ib tug ntxhaig tiag2 es koj lub neej thiaj zoo os niam thiab txiv ces yeej xav kom yus lub neej zoo xwb
First time I hear a story of a unconditional love father who supports her daughter. Feem coob peb cov ntxhais hla tawm mus ua neej niamtxiv tsuas yog kom uv tag los uv dua tsis tuag. He is a true hero 👏!!
Hais tau tu siab los kua muag kawg li yuav tsum hlub yus tus kheej hloov dua lub neej tshiab Tawm ntawm tus neeg tsis muaj siab ntsws uas yog tus neeg lub siab Dab Ntxwg nyoog lub neej thiaj li yuav kaj siab... Ua tsaug koj muab tuaj piav ua kev kawm rau peb mloog koj leej niam leej txiv siab zoo heev Peb tsoom niam tsev txiv tsev yuav tau kawm thiab nawb hlub tej menyuam peb tej menyuam thiaj li tsis tu siab o
Koj tau zoo niam/txiv hlub cawm txhawb koj lub neej tsis pub poob rau kev txomnyem tsaus ntuj.
This day more and more hmong parents learn to love their daughter lawm .good job
Nrog koj zoo siab koj muaj niam muaj txiv zoo es npo koj tawm ntawm txoj kev lwj siab kev txom nyem os tus viv ncaus.
.......I DON'T normally post serious comment, but for this story I will. Sister, every steps you and your parents did are 100% correct. The change for the new generation for future Hmong parents. Thank you for sharing.
Should have divorced him the first time. Why? Because his cheating was intentional, and therefore, he will continue to cheat. Once a cheater, always a cheater---stop giving cheaters the benefit of the doubt! If you do, then be prepared to get hurt over and over again.
Nrog. Kj. Zoo siab. Kj muaj. Niam muaj txiv zoo
Finally! Parents who are role models for how you should love all your kids!
You have great parents! You’re a strong woman.
Zam neej neeg no zoo heev tus viv ncaus koj ua tau zoo heev niam thiab txiv los yog niam thiab txiv ntse heev zoo siab nrog koj tus neeg muaj peev xwm..
Your Parents are very loving towards you. As a Mom, I would never allow my son or daughter to go through this either. You have given your ex so many chances...I'm glad you've moved on to a better life.
vim yu tej neej tsa niam txi lawv tsua hai tia kev tham hlua nkj xb uv tsi tuag txiv neej ce yeej tham xb e kom uv tsi pab yu li o
sim neej no yg leej twg g tau ntsib cov niag txiv liam txv ua hluas ces txob rawm maj nyos lwm tus o txoj kev no kv twb mob dhau los lawn g txog leej twg leej twg g paub
Xav kom cov niam tais yawm txiv coj li no.
Glad that u find someone love u. U lucky that got good parents support u.
What a great father.
Poj Niam lub
Superbe pour une fois qu"il y a des bons parents Hmong.
Muaj txiv dev thiab maum dev Coob Coob li os!! Zoo siab tias koj muaj tus txiv dev veg lawm es koj tau lub neej zoo lawm os!! Koj niam thiab txiv zoo tshaj plaws!!
Kj txiv thiab kj niam nkawv yeej xaiv tau txoj hau kev zoo kawg rau kj os nrog kj zoo siab ua nkawb txhawb kj kj thiaj dim ntawm tus neeg siab phem thaum kj tseem hl
So glad your parents supported you fully! Wished my parents did the same. They only put me down with others. I was very young when I married my 1st hubby. After only a year, my ex also cheated on me and he got the girl pregnant and still my parents said, well you wanted him so bad so that’s your life. Unfortunately I went back to my ex 3 times as a result of the fear of being a divorced girl, fear of dishonoring my family name. I believed if my parents supported me like this lady, I would had never went back so many times. We got to support and love on our kids, especially our daughters.
Amazing parents! Not all parents are like this. Nothing wrong with this decision.
Tau niam thiab txiv zoo tshaj plaws.
When you are over 18 years old, you are legally considered an adult. Make your own decisions and stick with your choices so you don't regret down the road. I agreed completely that the sooner you leave a cheater, the better. Don't be wasting precious time and effort trying to force someone to love you. Love can't be force, so while your spouse is cheating and finding their next partner, you need to plan and find your next partner as well. You are a very lucky woman with great supportive parents.
Agreed! Don’t be afraid to start fresh again.
Good parents ❤️ 👍 ♥️ 💕 💖 💙
Having supportive parents are so much better than being in a toxic relationship 💕 And remember once a cheater ALWAYS a cheater
yus niam yus txiv hlub yus tshaj os
Nrog koj tu siab os niam laus...thaub kawg koj kuj mus tau lub neej zoo kuv nrog koj zoo siab thiab os niam laus
Sister, I'm so proud of you. You gave him chances after chances to be a good husband. He fail you as a husband and a father to his children. People who cheat are insecure about themselves. You deserve so much better and you found him. Gob blessed you and your new husband.
Your father needs to be a leader in the Hmong community 🙏
Why can’t all fathers be like your father? Your parents are very supportive.
I love her parents. Mines are the same way. 💜💜💜🥰💜💜💜
That’s how parents should do. Protect their daughter from the assshol husband 🫵🏼
What a great parents you have. I wish I have the kind of parents you have, caring, loving and supportive.
The dream parents of many hmoob girls/ladies 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Zoo kawg li lawm. Koj txiv koj niam ua yog tshaj li. Ntshaw ib leej niam thiab txiv li ntawv
If I had a father like your’s. I wouldn’t have endured my abusive marriage for 10years.
kj mj zoo niam zoo txiv hlub kj heev
This is how every daughter want from their parents. I will be this parent to my daughters too. Your parents are not the bad influence on you but they are the supportive parents us daughters want.
I wish I had parents like you sister. You’re so lucky…❤
Her dad is her hero❤️
I am lucky like that
Tus niam tsev koj cv neej neeg zoo kawg
I love that your parents are so supportive. Like someone said in the comments not many women have supportive parents.
Tus txiv dev zoo lis no xwb tsis txog twg os. Muab nws veg tsuag tsuag es thiaj lis tsis muaj kev nyiaj siab os. Yus niam thiab txiv hlub yus es npo yus ces kwv tij thiaj lis ntshai nawb.
Love love love your parents. They love you so much that they put your life and welfare before their reputation. This is the kind of love I have for my daughter.
Koj muaj hmoov heev tau zoo parent pab koj heev os! Nrog koj zoo siab mog nws yeej tsis hlub koj lawm kuv yeej agree nrog koj txiv nrauj thaum hluas thiaj muaj time mus nrhiav dua tus tshiab os
Father of the year award goes to your dad
Cov niag txiv dev ua hluas ces tsis yog av lim ces yeej hloov tsis tau li os
You're so lucky to have such loving parents!!! Not all parents are like that. :'(
No one loves you like your parents ❤
I love ur parents
Hais txog lub neej uas yus txiv ua hluas tsim yus lub siab mas mob tshaj. Xyov Ua cas yus pheej muab chance rau nws. Muab xav los más yus ruam tshaj plaws.
Zoo tshaj plaws 3 yuav tau kawm li koj niam koj txiv.
You go girl...bust the window out! That's what he gets.
Ua tsaug ntau rau koj cov neej neeg os niam tij koj than tau zoo heev
Many parents don't support their daughters because they know their daughter can't leave that toxic relationship so they don't want to look like fools/waste their time and money to support only to find their daughter running back to that toxic relationship.
Kj niam thiab kj txiv zoo kawg kj muaj hmoo kawg, tsis zoo li kv O!😪
Your parents are great! Love before reputation!
I love this story. I have the same chance. My parents support me everyday. I love my parents
Ua neej nyob tsis paub tom ntej. Thaum mus tsis tau lawm tso tseg zoo dua.
Wow, these parents are my heroes. Hmoob cov niag kev cai quav dev nej txhob ntshai kiag. I would do the same thing these parents did.
Give it up. How many time do you have to cry for him?
It takes time…not easy if you’ve never been in their shoes!!
Koj niam koj txiv nkawv mas thiaj li paub txog txoj kev mob plab yug menyuam thiab paub hlub menyuam tiag2 li👏👏👏 Very proud of them!
Qub neeg ces qub siab es nws yeej yuav cheat on koj forever. Kuv zoo tias koj muab koj niag txiv siab, siab coob ntawv pov tseg thaum ntxov es koj thiaj li tau pib koj lub neej ntxov li ko os.
kv tus txij nkawm yeej tsis tau tsim kom yus mob siab lwj puas tsus tab sis nws yog ib tug neeg ua tsis tshuam khwv noj khwv hau li luag lwm tus txiv tsev tsuas npav nyob xeb me nyuam los yug tau tsheej pab tsis nrog luag muaj noj hnav li tu siab kawg os niam ntsuab teev aw
Koj niam thiab koj txiv hlub koj tab koj tus txiv hos tsis koj. Hos kuv tau tus txiv hlub kuv tshaj li tab sis Kuv niam thiab kuv txiv hos tsis hlub kuv li koj niam lawv
Ugh Hmong OGs on a dude's side of the family always got something smart to say to degrade the wife and her family even when it's their son who is wrecking his own house! I am a mom of two girls and they may be small today but in 25 years I will still stand by my girls if their men act up and disrespect them. As a mom and a wife, no one gonna love my kids as much as me cause I tore my flesh and bled to bring them into this world. Good for her parents who stood their ground and supported her while her man was acting a fool.
Good for u, sister. Glad u got rid of that disease and moved onto better things.
Where’s all the parents like this in the world 😭😭😭
Good advice. I'm with you and your parents 100%
Kuv tus no mas yog neej tsa tsis yog neej qhau, yog kuv saib zoj tsis yog tim kuv tus ces kuv xum pab kuv tus tub thiab tus ntxhais xwb, tus vauv thiab tus nyab cia tso tuaj tom qab vim ob tug ntawd yog los sab nraud los xwb.
Sister I'm with you all the way. I'm glad your parents were there for you all the way. If it wasn't for them you would have suffered. I'm glad you hit rock bottom in your relationship to leave. I have only 4 girls and your parents are what I idolize to be for my girls. XOXOXOO
You should've gotten a restraining order against him. Your parents especially your father is 100% a great guy. Father of the year award. Why would let him in the house? You should've called the police and have police present for him to get his things. He's a liar and a cheater. He'll not change.
Love this niam tais yawm txiv!
Nrog koj zoo sab tas koj muaj nam muaj txiv es muaj nkawm paab koj os kuv tsi muaj nam tsi muaj txiv es tsi muaj leejtwg paab txhawb kuv lub zog le os
Your parents are super parents those who understands the new generation Life... tsis hais tej niag lus ruan ruam kom ua siab ntev vim tej me nyuam yug muaj...you one and lucky girl
Thaum yus ua li qhov yus ua tau tag lawm ces once you removed yourself from that life, you moved on without any regrets. You should have never give him another chance when he came with her to pick up his stuff.
Tsis thas yuav muab ntau chances npaum li tus viv ncaus no rau cov txij nkawm uas ntxeev siab li os. Ib zaug xwb txaus
Koj lub neej zoo lis kuv lub tiag
Muaj txoj kev kho tau, stroke kho koj xwb.
30:00 kuv teb tau qhia koj li qhia kuv tus kheej thiab tias nws tsis hlub koj ib qho me me kiag li os
Lawv aw Cas kuv yuav ruam ua luaj tsis kev hlub li Los nim nyob laus li no Los vim kuv niam thiab kuv txiv es kuv thiaj tsis tau kuv xaiv tus kuv tsis tau xaiv Los siab phem heel nws yog tus siab phem Los tseem mus dag tias yus tsis zoo niam lawv tseem cem yus thiab ua rau kuv tu siab tshaj plaws thaum kuv niam yuav tuag mam paub yog Tim kuv tus txiv ces kuv twb tu siab txaus lawm niam thov txim Los tu siab tshaj plaws li os
Awesome father and mother..parents these days needs to love their children like these parents..
If he claims he’s doing overtime and the check/money don’t line up… you know he is cheating!
🥲❤
Qub dev qub ntxhisb
Zaj no tsis muaj tseeb laj mloog
Disagree! Kev tho neeg taug. Cai tsim tswj neeg. Tsa tw ntxiab lawm. Txoj cai muaj, yog hais cai ces raug lawm. Tab sis mloog mas zoo li tsa tw ntxiab xwb ua ntej mam hais cai tom qab ces txoj cai tsis hais li
Cai dabtsi na?
Awesome parents 👏 ❤️ 🙌 ♥️ where can i get parents like this? Amazon? 😄🥲