Goodbye My Lover

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  • Опубліковано 21 вер 2024

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  • @jydeinden
    @jydeinden 2 роки тому +72

    there is nothing wrong with loving a person that doesnt love you back.. Its hard, but its real

    • @hennew.4386
      @hennew.4386 2 роки тому +3

      Well said!

    • @kellyvaughan7781
      @kellyvaughan7781 2 роки тому

      💔

    • @jydeinden
      @jydeinden 2 роки тому +2

      @@hennew.4386 Thanks :)
      Love is pure, love is real, love is what keeps us up, but sometimes it can also get uus down

    • @mrtibbz10
      @mrtibbz10 Рік тому

      Never experienced it myself but when someone falls out of love with you it's different, If they never loved you it's creepy.

    • @viikmaqic
      @viikmaqic 10 місяців тому

      @@mrtibbz10 Feelings are hard, not everyone get those crystal clear emotions. Especially if you are younger. Like if your 16 its hard knowing its just the sex or true love for example

  • @nightonthetiles8833
    @nightonthetiles8833 2 роки тому +26

    If you have truly loved and lost,this song always touches that pain, feel you bro

  • @Keffertje666
    @Keffertje666 2 роки тому +16

    All things happen for a reason my friend! You will be happy again sooner then you think.. take care!

  • @craiggibbons8228
    @craiggibbons8228 9 місяців тому +2

    To all those who have loved and lost, remember that the darkness never lasts forever.
    Weeks, months, years, it will eventually end and it will shine bright again.
    Brighter than ever before, and you will be stronger for it.
    Yes it hurts, painfully so.
    But it will get better over time if you let the light in.
    Never close yourself off.
    Live life with laughter and love in your heart, and strive towards the light ❤

  • @danbrown535
    @danbrown535 Місяць тому

    Appreciate your openness and can tell you wear your heart on your sleeve. Was watching this on TV, but felt I had to get my phone and comment. Strongest thing you can do is open up and show how you actually feel. Hope you're doing well brother x

  • @Haltiamnoel
    @Haltiamnoel 5 місяців тому

    I’ve watched this several times and I’m so glad you posted this! I have been feeling the same lately. I hope things have gotten better for you!

  • @marksmith-pz5yx
    @marksmith-pz5yx 2 роки тому +2

    You have at least loved, pain won't go but will get easier, love from the UK

  • @krisjohnson-proctor355
    @krisjohnson-proctor355 5 місяців тому +1

    I hope you find peace ❤️…breaking up is sooo hard 🙏

  • @caroline_scotland
    @caroline_scotland 2 роки тому +1

    Aww… wish I could give you a hug😕
    Loads of love from Scotland💙🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @isabelriquelme8744
    @isabelriquelme8744 2 роки тому +3

    I can see the pain in your eyes....hope your life is better now...Cheers from Australia.

  • @humphrey_bulldoguk22
    @humphrey_bulldoguk22 Рік тому +3

    Dude….I saw your raw emotion..what a beautiful soul you are! Cream always rises to the top! Love you bro!

  • @paulbriody297
    @paulbriody297 2 роки тому +3

    You will love again.

  • @MusicByHallen
    @MusicByHallen 7 місяців тому +1

    Since its a year later i hope you're not mad anymore. Wish you all the best!

  • @OnMyWay1968
    @OnMyWay1968 2 роки тому +9

    I can understand how painful this is. I understand the anger too. Unfortunately, anger is not a good advisor and I wish you very much that you overcome it.
    Unfortunately, this kind of pain affects many of us. I know it myself and my husband knows it too. He was kicked by his wife after 17 years and she estranged the children from him. It destroyed him mentally, but he still had the courage to start again with me. We've been together for 10 years now and I really hope that many more will follow.
    I hope you can turn the anger into sadness, because I think the loss of a partner should be mourned. At some point it will be time to raise your eyes again and go further and have the courage to find new people. I wish you the strength to get through it all well and above all I wish you dear people as soon as possible who can catch you a little.

  • @stefaniagombi6528
    @stefaniagombi6528 2 роки тому +1

    I deeply understand you. After 33 years...I was 18...Love and a huge hug from Italy

  • @masterwolfishentertainment
    @masterwolfishentertainment 10 місяців тому +2

    This song always hits me.. I miss my ex so much 😢I never wanted a family.. then met the most amazing woman il ever meet had 2 beautiful kids with her she's the most amazingly strong beautiful woman I ever had, with her my love feels more like addiction, she makes me feel like I was worthy of something but life fucked it and it will always be my biggest regret, i had a dream that we were still together before the thing that broke us up and I held her and cried and begged not to go out on that day, and then I wake up and realise its gone 😢 if I could turn back time I would.
    Don't think il ever really love anyone as much as I do her.

    • @craiggibbons8228
      @craiggibbons8228 9 місяців тому

      Sending love and best wishes fella.
      Life is always worth living, and we shall always see the darkness through until the light shines once more.
      Stay strong my guy, it will eventually be bfught again x

  • @yano3029
    @yano3029 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for sharing - yes love hurts bad. ……

  • @annmcclure3426
    @annmcclure3426 2 роки тому +5

    I’m going through exactly the same thing, I know how you feel, it’s ok to be angry , all the stages of grief come all the time , but I promise you will be ok ♥️

  • @mbulluss5669
    @mbulluss5669 2 роки тому +17

    Sending love from Australia mate. Been through what you're going through. Be rest assured that IT DOES and IT WILL get easier with time. Focus on what you loved as a child and get back to the roots of you

  • @liaqathussain3011
    @liaqathussain3011 Рік тому +1

    My bro... Watching you, I feel you 100%
    The song is so beautifuly written it's hard not to get emotional.
    Stay strong.

  • @jeanettesmith765
    @jeanettesmith765 5 місяців тому

    I love this song. I especially loved the performance that he did live at Oxford.

  • @overthewebb
    @overthewebb 2 роки тому +1

    It should read Captain James Blunt. He's a retired British army Captain, a great guy by all accounts

  • @reneestuart2586
    @reneestuart2586 7 місяців тому +1

    I feel for you I love this song it came at a time when my heart was broken all I can tell you is time is a healer please don't feel alone reach out to your listeners we hear ya ❤️

  • @elbow8144
    @elbow8144 2 роки тому +2

    You'll get there man. It's clear its still so raw for you. Keep busy and focus on you and time will do the rest. Peace

  • @irollerblade13
    @irollerblade13 2 роки тому +1

    I've stopped giving out some many hellos because im tired of the goodbyes.

  • @Costebeats
    @Costebeats 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks!

  • @RetroMods
    @RetroMods 2 роки тому +5

    I love ya man!

  • @carolcarol3938
    @carolcarol3938 2 роки тому

    Oh , your face breaks me as well as the song...thanks for sharing the song AND yourself

  • @dinastanford7779
    @dinastanford7779 2 роки тому +2

    He sings your soul. Let the emotions out. Sending hugs

  • @HatefulAlex
    @HatefulAlex 2 роки тому

    I really want to post double like for you, man. Your eyes are just something, I never saw a man with such raw and natural feelings. I'm with you, thank you for yor reaction

  • @mpnaguilar
    @mpnaguilar 6 місяців тому

    I see and feel your pain. 😢 I couldn't imagine not being with my husband.

  • @bettygrisi1213
    @bettygrisi1213 2 роки тому

    Having love and losing it takes a piece of your soul. Don't let the vacancy become a void. Keep your memories of the love shared, and leave the rest behind. This type of hurt can incumber a new love coming your way. Take care...and keep smiling. Your smile is lovely.

  • @alexzarraga3257
    @alexzarraga3257 Рік тому

    The song goodbye my love is not about a break up of relationship its about the girl that dies in the hospital

  • @calmit23
    @calmit23 2 роки тому

    Losing a love is raw and you go through stages of grief but you will get through it stay strong & life carries you on...You must watch his !Carry you home..."

  • @cherylh.1910
    @cherylh.1910 8 місяців тому

    God brings people into your life for a reason, takes them out for a reason. I’m here for you that was a beautiful reaction.

  • @mardiyahs9742
    @mardiyahs9742 Рік тому +3

    Really feel for you mate. Hope you can find someone else who'll b there for you. Thanks for sharing your story. Respect man !

  • @patriciacloix71
    @patriciacloix71 Рік тому

    Quel talent quel artiste love James émotion toujours émotion OMG merci à vous réac bonne continuation très bon choix James blunt 🙏💖👍👏

  • @hermananderson7859
    @hermananderson7859 11 місяців тому

    It takes 2 to tango 😮

  • @debstownshend3359
    @debstownshend3359 11 місяців тому +1

    I hope you are in a good place a year on from when you posted this ❤

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd 2 місяці тому

    Dude. I got ur back. So painfully nonunderstanding

  • @melissaleigh5220
    @melissaleigh5220 Рік тому

    ❤😮carry you home 😢

  • @zanecombs5170
    @zanecombs5170 Рік тому

    Your sweet..you will be fine ❤️

  • @FinarfinNoldorin
    @FinarfinNoldorin Рік тому

    Life changes...but we live to build memories that last a lifetime.

  • @kevinp8175
    @kevinp8175 Рік тому

    it gets better my man

  • @darrengooding8785
    @darrengooding8785 2 роки тому +2

    look after yourself man, i know exactly how you feel, its pretty tough at first trying to put on that mask that your ok, but i promise it will get better. keep strong

  • @jennywren7822
    @jennywren7822 2 роки тому +2

    You can use this song for self help, I know I have.
    When ever you feel sad and angry, there's no shame in that, and want to let it all out, because crying is the bodies way of relieving emotion and hurt, use this song and video, believe me it does help.
    It's helped me lot....

  • @tayhulett9526
    @tayhulett9526 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so sorry for what you're going through, you're not alone. I've been there. Never regret the way you loved her. In this life YOU get to choose what kind of person you want to be. And to be that person, sometimes you give more than you get.
    It won't always hurt this bad...

  • @seblander9537
    @seblander9537 2 роки тому +3

    You should check out Cold by James Blunt it’s amazing

  • @GunPowderGelatine
    @GunPowderGelatine Рік тому

    ❤️🙏🏽😘

  • @dochubbell
    @dochubbell Рік тому

    Keep reminding yourself that your self worth does not hinge on another person, no matter how much you are facing a relationship that has passed. Sorry you are having to go thru all this breakup angst. Your pain is yours to deal with and no one can tell you to get over it or time will heal. Hope by now the feelings you were going thru in this video are now a distant memory.

  • @stevenbussell633
    @stevenbussell633 2 роки тому

    your a cool cat !!

  • @lbopp8661
    @lbopp8661 11 місяців тому

    LOVE HURTS...

  • @richardrobin5837
    @richardrobin5837 Рік тому +1

    I was married for 12 yrs and got a divorce bc she cheated while I was in afghanistan. When I hit home I was depressed bc of that and bc of combat. I never thought it would get better but it does. Ik it's hard but it will get better. Trust me. Push through the pain

  • @80s_kid.
    @80s_kid. Рік тому

    i was with my olé girl for 24 years, then she just decided she didn't love me no more.. that was 10 years ago, soon as we ended she went out on the town and found a new guy straight away and she's still with him, i've stayed on my own since, but for me i think i've been there, done that, so i'm happy on my own now. didn't think i would ever get over it but i'm way over her. i still see her in the street, but to me, she's just a girl i used to know.

  • @shawnabplanalp3860
    @shawnabplanalp3860 2 роки тому +2

    I don't think she left him, I think she passed away.

  • @QuakerJones268
    @QuakerJones268 2 роки тому

    James Blunt is a master songwriter. Watch the video "Carry me Home" its up there with Monsters.

  • @matthewthomas9556
    @matthewthomas9556 2 роки тому

    You kept your stuff together pretty well.

  • @littlegremlin12
    @littlegremlin12 2 роки тому

    She is on her own at the end, if he died and left her this could be a message from the grave

  • @robinbeerman4726
    @robinbeerman4726 Рік тому

    I'm so sorry. Need to stop listening to such sad songs for awhile.

  • @davidgilmour2299
    @davidgilmour2299 2 роки тому

    Holy crap bro, hope you're ok, sounds tough :(

  • @Yyyyyy5
    @Yyyyyy5 Рік тому

    Do Tears and Rain by James blunt. There is no music video for it but you could do a reaction to him singing it live. It makes me emotional like Monster. Tears and Rain reminds me of a song you might here at a funeral for someone who has taken their own life.

  • @shawshank967
    @shawshank967 2 роки тому +4

    Thats life. It sucks....

  • @MrHihihihihi19
    @MrHihihihihi19 Рік тому

    carry me home try that

  • @EnglandsLastPatriot
    @EnglandsLastPatriot 2 роки тому

    Great reaction. I understand your pain! Been through it. Do not listen to music like this. You carry the same pain for years otherwise!

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd Місяць тому

    It is tough. U are so sad😢

  • @TnL-nt2kd
    @TnL-nt2kd 3 місяці тому

    You are more hurt. Im sorry❤

  • @jimmybobsap8729
    @jimmybobsap8729 Рік тому

    Shit if that kind of break up where is the Eminem? @0:30 Kim them lol