My Hmong sisters, please dont cheat if u r not divorce & please dont steal other Hmong sisters' husbands to cheat with. You didnt like it when ur husbands cheat with other women, so dont cause heartache for other sisters too.
Viv ncaus aw txhob rawm ntseeg2 ib tug txiv neej siab phem os nws twb siab phem rau nws tus poj niam ne es koj xav tias nws siab zoo no los yog nws siab zoo mas nws tsis muaj poj niam pob cov txiv neej muaj poj niam es tham hluas nkauj cs zoo ib yam li koj Tus txiv xwb os
You might think you are happy but you forget to think about that you take the expenses of another woman and her children’s expenses. Everytime you are with this cheater you take his family time and his children time do you understand? What an evil woman. If you are going to cheat why not do with a single man?
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os. Lam muaj lub npe muaj txiv xwb…twb tsis muaj neeg nrog yus ua ke, tsis muaj neeg pab yus, tsis muaj neeg ua yus luag, tsis muaj neeg pab yus nqa qhov nyhav li os. Cas kuv lub neej es tsis txawv koj lub li os sister aw…ntshe lwm tiam xwb. Tiam no ces ntshe tsis muaj li os. Xyov puas muaj neeg zoo li lawm.
I'm speechless about this story. Most likely men like that never last if they can do to they're wife in the future they can do to you also, but Good Luck sister. wreckering your own home ain't worth know your worth.
hais tau tu siab thiab zoo mloog heev li os kv tus txij tus nkawm kuj tau thuam kv li tus niam tsev no thiab tu siab tshaj thaum yus tus txiv thuam yus tias phem nkauj tus siab tshaj
What a beautiful story . All I can say is that you deserve better and congratulations with your new love. May God bless you both to the end. Do not turn back just keep going and enjoy life.
Wow…. Cas hais tau easy ua luam nas! He got what he deserved. Most Hmong man are very mentally abusive to their wife. Mine also. But I Dnt have the courage to cheat like that on my ex hubby. At the end. We didn’t work out and he choose a Hmong plog lady. I think I’m happy where I’m at. Just being single and to have my grandkids make me happier than catering to a man.
Cov niag ntsej muag txiv neej hmoob siab phem siab dub quav dev...thuam yus li thuam yus xwb...yog ua tau li koj ua ces yog tshaj plaws li o yom..thov qhuas koj o..keej tshaj li..ua li koj ua Los yeej phim nws kawg li lawm thiab ma
LMFAO two wrong doesn't make it right, but then it's a two-way street. It would've been better she just divorce her husband and move on. Instead of playing cat and mouse cheating on each other. But understand that when a person have put up and tolerated enough is enough.
Sis, I feel for you. I understand your pain. I am sorry that you are going through that. I don't support you but I understand why you did it. Best of luck.
Even if she won’t end up with the bf, it’s still better than living in hell. Bf helped her have the courage and see her self worth. That’s all it matters.
Your bf cheated on his wife with you, disrespected you while you’re still with your spouse. Bc if he respects you he won’t place you in that situation. In conclusion, he doesn’t love you, it’s only lust not love.
@@ooinkssies1142 that's just what he told her. She sounds like she was making excuses to why she did what she did. She's no better then her husband. Why would you hurt
As much as everyone frowns upon cheaters, sometimes it can’t be helped. When someone treats u better and cares for you, you kind of sway their way and realize. You can be loved too. It’s so sad that as woman in the Hmong community we should just wait for the man till he’s done cheating on us, then he’ll come back! I’m glad she cheated, she would of never knew she could be loved, n had to live that miserable life never knowing happiness. People can keep saying she should of got divorced first. Well your not in her shoes n your not her. Fate has it’s way, sometimes this is the only way to make people see they deserve better and can have better! Love yourself first❤
Tus niam tsev cas kv lub neej g txawv kj lub deb kiag li os g tag kev cia siab os mog Nws g paub tias tseem muaj ib tug meeg sab tov tos2 yus ib nplooj siab g lwj es ua hnub ua hmo xav lo lus zoo tuaj txhawb siab g tseg yus nco nws Noj g qab pw g tsaug zog Niag hauv tseg g hlub yus tab g kam nrauj yus es yus nim hnov tau tias laj nrog nws nyob lam ua lub neej qaug2 zog g muaj kev hlub os
This is exactly us women's heart n thoughts when our husband betrayed us cheated with another women. Once we have enough n done being hurts. Once we go we will never returned. They started the way n road we just follow. I'm happy you are strong to do what you do sister
Peb ib txia poj niam tau tus txiv zoo li no cov muaj peev xwm ces ua tau ho cov tsis muaj pheev xwm ces tseem niaj hnub nyob lub neej tsaus2 ntuj tsis muaj suab luag li os lawv
U don’t need another man to revive u. Don’t need to jump from one man to another. If u have enough self-love & prioritized urself, u would’ve left a long time ago. This woman is still too dependent on a man making her feel good about herself.
Muaj pes tsawg tus poj niam uas li koj uas. Thaum yus mus tau yooj yim, hos tsis mus, yuav nyob2 kom rov raug tsim txom ib tom ntxiv no ces hos yuav mus. Tej tug ces twb mus tsis tau thiab. Yog poj niam hmoob uas li no xawb ces yuav niaj hnub hnov cov dab neeg no tsis txawj tag li os
Divorce once filed and served, court can make it effective even if a party refuses. If it’s that bad, now that you’ve gotten the courage and realized your self worth, make it count; even if you won’t end up with that bf. Txhob nqos qub qaub ncaug, txhob cug qub phev.
2 wrongs don't & cant make it right. Now that your story is out, I would suggest for you to be aware at all times and be safe. Too many end up dead for this exact reason and it's not worth it!
Your husband cheated on you and it hurt you so why would you go cheat with another man just like your husband who also cheated on his wife? We Hmong sisters need to love another Hmong sister not to cheat with another woman's husband. I can't sympathy with you because you ruined another sister's marriage.
The lady in this story makes me sick. Your marriage is dysfunctional so you're wrecking another sister's marriage? You don't need more men, you need psychological help. Get a divorce first if you don't plan to be on the news that you're dead due to infidelity.
There are a lot of Hmong men who are psychological abusive, and we allow it by telling the women its okay when its not. We continue to teach women to settle for the bare minimum bc the men wont do better.
My Hmong sisters, please dont cheat if u r not divorce & please dont steal other Hmong sisters' husbands to cheat with. You didnt like it when ur husbands cheat with other women, so dont cause heartache for other sisters too.
Yes.
Yog kawg!
Tattally agreed she no perfect either
Yog kawg! These women have no self respect. This is not love.
Totally agree with you brother Michael.
Ua tsaug qhov koj muaj peev xwm ua tau txhua yam pauj txoj kev chim rau peb poj niam tam sis no peb yuav tsum tau xyaum muaj peev xwm li txiv neej thiaj saib taus peb
Viv ncaus aw txhob rawm ntseeg2 ib tug txiv neej siab phem os nws twb siab phem rau nws tus poj niam ne es koj xav tias nws siab zoo no los yog nws siab zoo mas nws tsis muaj poj niam pob cov txiv neej muaj poj niam es tham hluas nkauj cs zoo ib yam li koj Tus txiv xwb os
My ❤ May’s Thanks for TEACHING mind lady CHEATING!!…🙏❤️👍👏👏👏👏
Tu niam no ua tau hauj lwm zoo heev kuv mas nyiam tiag2 li os yog li os li no nyuam qhuav phim txiv neej xwb...Yeah yeah...👍👍👍❤💪💪
I don't understand these woman....your husband cheated on you....why would you do this to another woman?
You might think you are happy but you forget to think about that you take the expenses of another woman and her children’s expenses. Everytime you are with this cheater you take his family time and his children time do you understand? What an evil woman. If you are going to cheat why not do with a single man?
Dangyum!! Haib tshaj plaws!! 🫰🏻👏👏 nrog koj zoo siab os tus viv ncaus!!
Cas zaj dab neeg no hais tau zoo heev li os
Haig tau zoo hv li o niam laug aw xa hmoo kj tag li xb o
Ua tsaug ntau2 niam tij hais tau raug kuv tshaj li
It’s not love, it’s temptations. If he was truly a good man he wouldn’t cheat on his wife with you.
Tu siab tshaj plaws li os. Lam muaj lub npe muaj txiv xwb…twb tsis muaj neeg nrog yus ua ke, tsis muaj neeg pab yus, tsis muaj neeg ua yus luag, tsis muaj neeg pab yus nqa qhov nyhav li os. Cas kuv lub neej es tsis txawv koj lub li os sister aw…ntshe lwm tiam xwb. Tiam no ces ntshe tsis muaj li os. Xyov puas muaj neeg zoo li lawm.
I'm speechless about this story. Most likely men like that never last if they can do to they're wife in the future they can do to you also, but Good Luck sister.
wreckering your own home ain't worth know your worth.
Haig tau zoo hv li o niam laug aw
hais tau tu siab thiab zoo mloog heev li os kv tus txij tus nkawm kuj tau thuam kv li tus niam tsev no thiab tu siab tshaj thaum yus tus txiv thuam yus tias phem nkauj tus siab tshaj
Txiv neej ces yeej yos li koj kaws thaum yus tuas siab lawm lawm mam khoo ces tu siab dhau lawm os viv ncaus aw
Zaj neej neeg no tu siab thiab raug siab heev li os
Yog lawm os 😭😭😭😭😭
Niam laus koj ua yog lawm os koj mas thib ib kiag lawm nawb yuav tsum ua li koj mas thiaj haum txiv neej siab ho
Yog kawg kuv lub neej zoo ib yam koj lub tiag kuv muaj tu hlub kuv yam koj thiab kuv xa ua neeg nyob ib yam koj hais
Wow... thov qhuas koj nawb me viv ncaus xav kom peb cov poj niam ua tau li koj es txhob quaj2 rau lawv os..
yog ma niam laus txiv neej lub siab phem heev li peb cov poj niam no yuav tau hlub peb tu kheej thiab os
Leej muam dai2 siab, Kuv nyon no os
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏zoo mloog ta ta li nej ma thiaj li txawj ua lo sib phim tiag2 !!
Emotional abused..sister glad you found happiness 💃💪
Zoo kawg yog peb cov poj niam muaj peev xwm li ko
Wow!! Very proud of you sister. A lesson to be learned for those men who never gives credit to their wives.
Viv ncaus kuv tus txiv ces thuam kuv thiab ib sim neej yeej g qhua kuv ib zaug li
Niam ntsuab teev aws zaj no ma zoo kiag li kv ntag os kv tu txiv ma coj zoo li tu txiv neej ntawm ko ntag ho
Koj tseem mus txeeb luag li xwb ces koj yeej tsis Yog ib tug neeg zoo. Yog koj zoo tiag yeej tsis ua rau lwm tus poj niam
Pojniam ruam ces pab tsis tau.
YES kj ua tau zoo kg lawm
Zoo heev lis
One man's junk is another man's treasure
Yog kawg koj hai yog tshaj plaw li lawm os
Kuv nrog koj zoo siab os tu me viv ncaus aw.
cheater will always find ways to justify his/her cheating.
ฉันชอบสิ่งที่คุณทำ ยอดเยี่ยมมาก สามีเก่าของคุณสมควรได้รับสิ่งนี้แล้ว อยากให้ผู้หญิงทุกคน ทำแบบนี้ กับ สามีที่นอกใจ
What a beautiful story . All I can say is that you deserve better and congratulations with your new love. May God bless you both to the end. Do not turn back just keep going and enjoy life.
Wow…. Cas hais tau easy ua luam nas! He got what he deserved. Most Hmong man are very mentally abusive to their wife. Mine also. But I Dnt have the courage to cheat like that on my ex hubby. At the end. We didn’t work out and he choose a Hmong plog lady. I think I’m happy where I’m at. Just being single and to have my grandkids make me happier than catering to a man.
Zoo kawg li
Nyob zoo mas
Nws ua dau nws tus poj niam ib yam li koj tus txiv ua rau koj thiaj ntag yog koj zoo no koj tham tus g muaj poj niam thiaj yog
Cov niag ntsej muag txiv neej hmoob siab phem siab dub quav dev...thuam yus li thuam yus xwb...yog ua tau li koj ua ces yog tshaj plaws li o yom..thov qhuas koj o..keej tshaj li..ua li koj ua Los yeej phim nws kawg li lawm thiab ma
Very true sister. You did well. Proud of you. For those who shame you will never understand. Happy for you
This story sure seems like dejavu. It's sad and love seems to never goes as planned. Thank you for sharing your story. Love oneself more is the best.
Kv ntxub cov niag txiv zoo li no tshaj li os
Just bc your husband committed adultery doesn’t mean you can/should commit adultery too. We sin to God, not other people.
LMFAO two wrong doesn't make it right, but then it's a two-way street. It would've been better she just divorce her husband and move on. Instead of playing cat and mouse cheating on each other. But understand that when a person have put up and tolerated enough is enough.
Pog luas..............new pee is always good fron the start.....bad ending....
Divorce before cheating to avoid getting killed 🤦♀️
Noj mov cuav zos yeej qab dua os
Nyuaj lawm Lau kuv poj niam
Maum twm o maum twm aw
Pauj kua zaub ntsuab tau zoo kawg nkaus ..cov txiv neej no siab phem dhau lawm zais siab nyiag ntsis mus tsuav ntsuag sab nraum xwb..peb cov niam tsev los nrog cov txiv khwv khwv rau lub neej kawg tabsis cov txiv dev siab phem no ho coj pojnrauj mus siv nyiaj, mus motel, mus noj qab2 yuav tej khoom khim pub pojnrauj xwb tseg peb mob siab quaj txhua sijhawm nyob tsaus ntuj nti nrog lub kuamuag si..peb tsis muaj peevxwm mus ua pauj
nej cov muaj peevxwm li no kav tsij nrog txiv neej sib tw ua seb leejtwg yog tus swb thaum kawg os.. kom lawv thiaj li paub txog tias mob npaum licas..
zoo tshaj plaws li nawb
Yus tuaj piav yus txoj kev liam kev xyob txhiaj xwb es yus zoo siab dab tsi na
Good job.
Wow sounds like my life!!
Great 👍! I’m glad it worked out for this lady.
Wow uaca e hnov tsawg zaj neej neeg lo hmoob mekas e tseem ua txiv muaj poj niam lo cia li sib tham li lm od ca zoo li ua si li lm nahhhhh
Koj tsis ntshai tsam muaj ib hnub twg es . Koj tus hluas nraug rov qab mus thov yuav mws tus poj niam .ib yam li niaj hnub no koj tus txiv thov yuav koj lov ..
Yog lawm os niam laus kuv tug txiv los kuj zoo li ko thiab
Lawv qhua dag kom tau nrog yus pw xwb os, koj tseem paub txov neej lub siab tsawg xwb os, lawv yeej tsis qhua tiag tiag na
Sis, I feel for you. I understand your pain. I am sorry that you are going through that. I don't support you but I understand why you did it. Best of luck.
Amen sister
You did everything right, I’m so proud of you sister .
Except that she was messing with a married man.
There nothing to be proud here … she’s cheating with a married man and being a hoe and still married . 🤦🏻♀️
Two wrong make no right .
Whatever men can do now days, we women can as well. Life isn’t fair guys. Good job to this lady to finally know your worth
You sound like lesbian. There men and women in this world
Waiting for part 2 with Your Bf. Good luck
Murder -suicide on the news soon . 😂
Even if she won’t end up with the bf, it’s still better than living in hell. Bf helped her have the courage and see her self worth. That’s all it matters.
Her boyfriend dumped her and now she cried like a goat😂
Your husband is a cheater but you became a homewrecker
A-F'ing-Man! I was feeling sorry for her until she became a hoewreaker. She's just as bad. You can't play the victim card when you a cheat too.
So proud for you sis. You did this cover for all hmong sis. I like that
Amen!
Your bf cheated on his wife with you, disrespected you while you’re still with your spouse. Bc if he respects you he won’t place you in that situation. In conclusion, he doesn’t love you, it’s only lust not love.
But his wife is also seeing someone else so… it’s a win-win situation 😂
Well as long as she's happy. Her husband doesnt deserve her at times like this. She should've left him. So happy she gave him his own medicine
I agree!!
@PhoojYwg lmao fr. She starting to sound like a hmong man on here. Calm your tits
@@ooinkssies1142 that's just what he told her. She sounds like she was making excuses to why she did what she did. She's no better then her husband. Why would you hurt
As much as everyone frowns upon cheaters, sometimes it can’t be helped. When someone treats u better and cares for you, you kind of sway their way and realize. You can be loved too. It’s so sad that as woman in the Hmong community we should just wait for the man till he’s done cheating on us, then he’ll come back! I’m glad she cheated, she would of never knew she could be loved, n had to live that miserable life never knowing happiness. People can keep saying she should of got divorced first. Well your not in her shoes n your not her. Fate has it’s way, sometimes this is the only way to make people see they deserve better and can have better! Love yourself first❤
So the lady is a fish, that's cool.
Wow, so proud of her 👏 way to go girl
Ok
They r all wasting each other times.. just leave each other.. this is the new century…. We all understand..
Tus txiv neej muaj poj niam tham tau koj ces zoo tsis txawv koj tus txiv nkauj nraug ces ham tsis hais zoo kom tau noj xwb ma los
Tus niam tsev cas kv lub neej g txawv kj lub deb kiag li os g tag kev cia siab os mog
Nws g paub tias tseem muaj ib tug meeg sab tov tos2 yus ib nplooj siab g lwj es ua hnub ua hmo xav lo lus zoo tuaj txhawb siab g tseg yus nco nws Noj g qab pw g tsaug zog
Niag hauv tseg g hlub yus tab g kam nrauj yus es yus nim hnov tau tias laj nrog nws nyob lam ua lub neej qaug2 zog g muaj kev hlub os
This is exactly us women's heart n thoughts when our husband betrayed us cheated with another women. Once we have enough n done being hurts. Once we go we will never returned. They started the way n road we just follow. I'm happy you are strong to do what you do sister
Peb ib txia poj niam tau tus txiv zoo li no cov muaj peev xwm ces ua tau ho cov tsis muaj pheev xwm ces tseem niaj hnub nyob lub neej tsaus2 ntuj tsis muaj suab luag li os lawv
U don’t need another man to revive u. Don’t need to jump from one man to another. If u have enough self-love & prioritized urself, u would’ve left a long time ago. This woman is still too dependent on a man making her feel good about herself.
Grass doesn’t always greener on the other side there’s will be more headaches ahead, is only good when still singles or not yet yours
Saj tau rab loj dua lawm mas tsi guav ntsej rab gub uas me lawd haj haj
Wow cas koj yuav leej heev li..you will have part 2 one day with your new man.
Muaj pes tsawg tus poj niam uas li koj uas. Thaum yus mus tau yooj yim, hos tsis mus, yuav nyob2 kom rov raug tsim txom ib tom ntxiv no ces hos yuav mus. Tej tug ces twb mus tsis tau thiab. Yog poj niam hmoob uas li no xawb ces yuav niaj hnub hnov cov dab neeg no tsis txawj tag li os
Divorce once filed and served, court can make it effective even if a party refuses.
If it’s that bad, now that you’ve gotten the courage and realized your self worth, make it count; even if you won’t end up with that bf.
Txhob nqos qub qaub ncaug, txhob cug qub phev.
If you’re not happy then leave. Don’t cheat and stay.
Zaj no ces nej 4 tug nyias txaus nyias siab nrhiav kev kaj siab ces kuj zoo lawm thiab….
cov niag txiv neej tsw sawm zoo .nyuam qhuav haum mas.kav tsw ua
Txoj kev hlub lus zoo lus muag txhua tus niam tsev yeej ntshaw.
2 wrongs don't & cant make it right. Now that your story is out, I would suggest for you to be aware at all times and be safe. Too many end up dead for this exact reason and it's not worth it!
Exactly! She's playing with fire 🔥
You're not wrong for doing this. You deserve happiness too.
I love your story sister.
Your husband cheated on you and it hurt you so why would you go cheat with another man just like your husband who also cheated on his wife? We Hmong sisters need to love another Hmong sister not to cheat with another woman's husband. I can't sympathy with you because you ruined another sister's marriage.
Poj niam ces tos ruam os yeej zoo li no. Luag niam qhuav ib nyuag ntxias xwb los yeej cia li swb lawm.
Too many of these stories tells me are many more out there
Zoo qhov koj muaj tus tshiab tiam sis tsis zoo yg qhov koj Tham lawv tus txiv thiab vim koj ua rau tus sab tov lawm thiab ne
The lady in this story makes me sick. Your marriage is dysfunctional so you're wrecking another sister's marriage? You don't need more men, you need psychological help. Get a divorce first if you don't plan to be on the news that you're dead due to infidelity.
👏🏼 👏🏼 👏🏼 Agree 💯!!! So many praising her but it’s nothing to be proud of.
Koj yog maum dev tiag tiag
Hais txog txoj kev mob kev tu siab uas tus txiv Hmoob tsis hlub peb cov poj niam uas txhua yam koj hais ces tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb, ntshe cov sib2 hlub ces tsawg2 couples xwb os. Tiamsis feem coob ces uv tiv mob xwb tiag !
There are a lot of Hmong men who are psychological abusive, and we allow it by telling the women its okay when its not. We continue to teach women to settle for the bare minimum bc the men wont do better.
Equality for everyone. Way to go lady.