TikToker Berates Employee For Not Getting Her Pronouns Right
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- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- Today we're gonna be taking a look at tiktok stream where a woman had a temper tantrum because her pronoun wasn't correct
Twitter: / xenoshot
Twitch: / xenoshots
Dumb glasses: Check
Nonsensical outfit: Check
Undeserved pretentiousness: Check
Overall lack of self and social awareness: Check
Yeah, what's with the babushka scarf???
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692its neck and hands get extremely cold but not its legs.
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692the scarf is to cover the Adam's apple. 😂
slew of degenerate followers in the live comments affirming his delusions: check
When you have no drama around you but you still want to be outraged.
💯
@@rhichey reminds me of junior high drama.
Back in the day parents prepared their kids for the world. Now they prepare the world for the kids 😂
Oooh! That's good! Definitely stealing.
Well said.
Notice how the white person is typing this… (most likely a male who bangs homosexuals on Grindr) and thinks that he’s better then everyone… that’s the problem.
No truer words have ever been said.
And if you don't change the world to their preferences, they scream abuse. My 13 year old thinks the exact same thing.
It’s hard for anyone to have sympathy for people like this. Going after random employees for a very harmless “mistake”.
Why is the employee smiling thoe? It’s mocking someone but you being a white person who thinks that your better then everyone else ,, you wouldn’t understand
No mistake. Dude told the truth and should be respected for doing so.
The funny thing is their target is always servers( restaurant, retail clothing, etc) they victimize these staff and then want simpothy... But it's all well and fine to berate people to your terms and need for acknowledgment. They don't realize how hard they make it for others... They don't understand certain cultures, but find all cultures must understand them. It's wrong and unjust.
@@stkyfngrszmooth the Pizza guy does not even know what a pronoun is and just tried to smile his confusion away...
@yasmeen6790 That, too. 😁
1st world problems
Exactly
My thoughts exactly 💯
Well said. Because where I'm from original country Iraq. He wouldn't be able to even leaving the house looking like that.
Berating and antagonizing people with a clear language barrier and assuming malintent could also definitely be seen as xenophobic. I kind of can see it ngl
Says the ⚪️ person who thinks they’re better then everyone…
Dude just take your food. I feel bad for the employee
So ur calling the trans woman dude because you think your better then people and your defending the worker (who’s smiling at the situation/ mocking her)
Then you go to gridnr with the name “Down Low Str8” or “👀4Trans” like the majority of straight people do. Pathetic
@Dumbmoviereviews that's because he is BIOLOGICALLY A WOMAN
@@Dumbmoviereviewshe is a guy
@Dumbmoviereviews Yes. Any more dumb@$$ questions?
Love the way that "She" assumed the "Guy" in the pizza shop is a "Guy"....
HE.
@@sorrowfulvixxx I didn't want to assume.......
I’m old and suffer from hellish hot flashes, I keep my hair short because of the sweats, I am always called Sir, I don’t get upset and the look on the person’s face when they notice their own mistake tells me it was not intentionally done!
yeah it's aggravating because you know it's nothing to really do with the fact that this woman is transgender because the rest of the female population with deep voices and short air and strong builds don't act like this. it's because she's so entitled and likes making people feel bad about themselves so she gets a power trip out of it.
Im from Texas and lots of people here speak Spanish. They get he and she mixed up ALLLL the time. If you want to preach about respect understand that a language barrier doesnt mean they can't speak English, it means they'll get some things wrong here or there from time to time. SHE/HER or whatever the fuck they are, is the ones being disrespectful in this situation.
Also, it was pretty clear this was a guy.
@@thruyou yes. And that lol
Exactly. Everyone preaches about tolerance, but don't even think about the fact that people who speak other languages will mix up pronouns all the time.
@@thruyouyup.... I'm so sick of these demonic freaks having their delusions affirmed by this sick world. so glad Jesus is returning very soon & all this evil is about to end. that's why it's getting worse & worse everyday....cuz satan knows his time is almost up. he's using his demon minions to recruit as many souls to the eternal lake of fire with them as possible.
I am a female with a deep raspy voice. I get called Sir often. SHE knows this will happen and that it is an innocent mistake while they are trying to be respectful. Tik Tok and cell phones have ruined everything
Who’s she ?
Ha! I have a deep voice too, was worse when I was younger. I had to train my voice to not sound so monotone. But I would go to a drive thru at a restaurant. Would that complete your order sir😂 I didn't like it but I understood how my voice sounded.
The person insisting on being not called Sir.@@nemecioreyes4711
Tik Tok and phones aren’t the problem. People need to stop blaming technology and look at the people abusing it. A gun isn’t a deadly weapon until it’s in the hands of an idiot. Same with the internet.
@@Jessaroonie23it's a huge part of the problem. wake up.
More like a grown up baby Man.
Social media is the worst thing to happen to this world. I’m so glad I won’t be alive in 50 years to see how much worse this world becomes. God I hope things go back to normal but I doubt it
There are kids getting chemo tomorrow... and she is causing an international incident over that?
She asked the guy “do I look like a boy or a girl” and when the guy answered, “a boy”, she gets offended. Don’t ask a question if you know the answer could be something YOU DO NOT WANT TO HEAR!!!!
But but but - He put on some nails, grabbed a purse, and wears his hair long - All it takes to be a woman!
I can think of a few nouns to call “it” Guaranteed self defence will quickly follow….
@@norka5185 that’s really what they think it takes to be a woman.
@@Allie_phelps It's so very frustrating and wrong. Trans individuals are quick to point out how CIS individuals could never understand what it's like to be them, but think they intrinsically know what it's like to be a woman just because they change some cosmetic elements about themselves. I understand not wanting to be forced to observe cultural gender norms, but there's no such thing as understanding what it is to live life as something you never were, and never will be.
@@norka5185 I completely agree with you. Outer looks is not what it takes to be a woman and no matter what they do, they will never know the true joys (and miseries haha), of being a woman. So many of them don’t even look like women and get upset because they’re “misgendered”. I don’t want to know what it’s like living in a body that has mental illness and the thought of changing ganders is going to solve it. People can live however they want, but to harass people for misgendering them is just ridiculous
How much you wanna bet, the MAN with the dog IN a restaurant calls it "an emotional support animal" just to give him something else to start stuff with.
People like this are why aliens haven’t visited us yet.
But they have.
This one gets on my last nerve every time he says it's like a knife in the heart to get misgendered if that's your only problem in life you're doing pretty damn good then. He does it on purpose because well I don't know but who in the hell goes out to eat and sets the camera up pointing at you like you have a companion there. He's doing it so he can catch the heartbreak of being misgendered. He also has his speech down pretty good because he seems to use it in every single solitary video.
Also when he's complaining he called the server he. Did he ask for their pronouns. Or did he assume. He also tells women Cis is not a slur and it's okay for him to call you that
"Calling me sir is like a knife to the heart" ok, sir sir sir sir sir sir sir
"It's like a knife in the heart"
"See you in the next video" lmfao
I am not sure what this is. Misgendered. We do not have to do what you want pal. A dress or wearing ladies clothes does not make you a women. Wear what you want but do not push your agenda on others that do not agree with your POV. Then to act like a spoiled ass. That does not help your destructive agenda SIR! If he want rude, I am happy to assist.
This “person” is pissed bout pronouns & feels disrespected…yet immediately calls the worker ugly. That’s sad & pathetic.
Our government and health care system REALLY dropped the ball or just got tired of trying to explain mental illnesses and basic biology
Okay so I’m a trans male and I’d like to say that thankfully MOST of us aren’t like this (I say most because there is a very small minority in the community like this). Also I get misgendered constantly and in my opinion if it’s family/people you’re out to it’s kind of understandable (but you still don’t just lash out at them-) BUT if it’s a complete stranger you’re never going to see again I don’t understand why it’s such a big deal. Just my opinion though. 😀👍🏻
unfortunately the transphobes won't listen to you. they'll be extremely quick to slap the "they all do this" label on a singular person in a minority
You're cool, dude (trans male means you're a man, yes? If not, I'll delete my comment)
Honestly, a few years ago I had some friends who were transgender. I stopped being friends with them because not only did one of them harass me everyday for several months for accidentally misgendering ONE time through a quick text, but the other had the audacity to consider both me and my family to be transphobic even after everything me and my has been there for them.
Ironically, those experiences *almost* made me not want to support anyone in general, but my brother told me that's how sexism and racism start out.
Now I know better, but it's still hard meet people who won't interpret anything you say as something negative.
Sorry for the ramble, I just really feel like these issues need to be discussed more. Also, I hope you're having a good day.
@@Kilvieo thank you for not giving up so easily. need more people like you. i will agree, some people are a way too sensitive to simple mistakes and that also needs to be dealt with.
I agree -another trans guy
Lmao! We don’t need to bow down to their delusion😂
Waow, what a coincidence that about 40% of these troubled immature idiots end up taking their own lives...
That's not a woman that's a HE. THAT'S A MALE MAN MR SIR😂
I know 😂
So… laughing and mocking makes it ok?
Being negative and making fun of someone makes it ok?
Please tell me your 10 year old logic
@@DumbmoviereviewsInstead of maybe politely correcting the employee, she decides to bully him by calling him ugly and mean. What kind of logic is that? I would almost bet that’s why the employee was smiling because he can’t believe that someone who wants compassion and understanding from others would end up being so hateful.
@@williepearl278 he*
@@Dumbmoviereviews THAT'S A MALE!🤣
So it was upset at being called exactly what it is instead of the lie it wants others to believe it to be.
"You Tell Them Girlfriend" Blessed Be.
"I was called sir" with the deepest voice ever... and now people are obligated to know why??
How do we interact with the angry porcupine that is now such an outspoken part of society? Many of these people seem to crave the attention of being misgendered so they can be consoled and convinced by their followers that they were wronged, instead of simply acknowledging the mistake and letting it go. Not every negative interaction is malicious!
Bro, I'm biologically female, and I still get misgendered every now and then, and I don't make a huge conundrum about it. Like, I can see why people can misgender me, and I'm just like "Oh it happens..."
Edit: Also, some men dress feminine and some women dress masculine, so asking for someone's gender isn't anything crazy either. Why is she mad about that?????
The narcissism required to maintain these fragile dellusions must be so tiresome. Irl I imagine these people aren't endured for long even by the most sympathetic people.
These are some of the most divisive & obnoxious people around. You will not force me to use language that you deem acceptable.
Watch out for people who have their cameras set up and ready.
People get my name wrong all the time, guess the wrong religion. I have been called my sister’s name on accident and I’m a guy.
But never freaked out with someone whom is mistaken. The people who freak out like this is just false flagging shit just for views, making it worse for others whom actually experience hate for who they are.
Be whom ever you want to be, but don’t demonize others for whom they aren’t.
😂 he could not have been that offended. I mean he set up a camera and went live. 😂 I think he needed the tiktok morlocks to all tell him “sorry that happened to you!” 😢
Little cry baby!😢😢
That ain’t no woman, man. It’s a man, baby!
I identify as broccoli
I worked with this now 'female' and still say what's up dude to her all the time. Super tough chick. Funny enough we go shoot guns and ride dirt bikes together still. She just likes to dress and act feminine but isn't all annoying about it like this one.
Once I was a long haired man driving through Oregon and I forgot you couldn't pump your own gas. So this guy runs up behind me and says, "excuse me, ma'am..." And I turned around and said, "I'm a miss, lady." Nobody got anyone's pronouns right that day. I know trans-people and although I do my best I don't always get their pronouns right and it's never a big deal. You've got to think a lot of yourself to make a production out of such a thing. Especially with strangers.
biggest non issue in history ....
WHY would it hurt if somebody accidentally called you sir or mam.... WHO CARES...
isnt the most important thing what YOU feel inside!!??..
they just want to pick fights so they can feel like a victim and get validation ...
As a lesbian, who looks very much more like a man than a woman I get miss gendered all the time. While it hurts my feelings I understand that I look the way I do. I politely correct them and move on. There was no reason for her to keep it going.
Going to a new York Pizza shop expecting politically correct behavior is kind of wild in itself
I feel like in this generation people just want so badly to be a victim for some reason. It’s sad and I honestly fear for the future of the world
This seems more like someone going around for a free meal or discount.
This kind of reaction and behavior is why people have trouble respecting pronouns. I have yet to see anyone explain this issue in a meaningful and positive manner that makes sense. Respect is earned!
because it doesn't make sense
It's hard for me to respect pronouns because my English skills have seriously degraded, hell my grammar is terrible.
Whinging about being called "SIr" whilst eating at a restaurant with a dog.
Seriously asking "do I look like a boy or a girl" is setting someone up for mis-gengendering you.
As a former server this is why I called people I served as hun and sweetie. Nothing more frustrating than getting chewed out because I accidentally misgender someone it’s better getting yelled at for flirting
As a trans male, people like this make us look incredibly bad. I'm embarrassed for her.
Wow, now we can't say anything because we're going to be called out for mislabeling and be berated for it. I think I'm going to call people thing, person or something along those lines. This is why I don't like being in public anymore
I work at the register in a trampoline park and most of the time it's moms bringing their kids in. So of course I'm saying "ma'am" most of the time. This basically became a reflex and I'll sometimes accidentally say "yes/no *ma'am*" to a dad. Obviously I'm not doing it on purpose and always correct myself.. so why doesn't this woman use the same logic for employees just trying to get through their shift instead of going after them and complaining??
Guy with long hair that partially covers my face here. Have a small twink build and wear the occasional womens jacket simply because they fit better and compliment my physique. Get called maam all the time in restaurants but it doesnt bother me one bit. They usually realize their mistake when they hear me talk and we both get a good laugh out of it. No drama is needed for these situations
Isn't he lovely, such a delicate flower. Truly a credit to all trans women everywhere. No narcissism or mental illness there.
His/her voice alone would of had me saying yes sir, no sir
My girlfriend is trans and would never act so much of a child like this
"I think you speak English just fine! Use my pronouns!" This is the type of classist, privileged behavior that I can't stand.
Literally mad he's not psychic. Absolute tool.
That last one was only playing a game to see how many places would give him a free meal. There real names should be I'm here to con as many people as I can.
The normal trans people have to pay the price for these crazies. It’s so infuriating.
They definitely dont know what a knife feels like.
being misgendered does suck when its on purpose, but when its accidental it is NEVER that serious.
I've actually been through a very similar situation with one of these people. I, matter-of-factly told them that I wasn't going to participate in their illness, and if this offends them, then be offended. The "be offended" part is something I learned from Matt Gaetz and ended the conversation on the spot.
You’re my new favorite person!
So many people think if they carry a situation, especially in a retail setting, to the point where they are "offended" they'll get some sort of pandering or compensation. The number of times I saw irate customers blue-screen because I told them I was not going to emotionally invest in their "issue" was golden. Just because someone is at work does not mean customers have them at some social gunpoint to act the way they want them to.
He is going all out of his way to be offended to create TIK TOK'S
It’s great to see the pizza guy’s smile and the happiness he exudes, despite the aggressiveness and insulting behaviour from this transsexual.
This is a great example of why we shouldn’t buy into this pronoun BS. It enables people like this.
Bruh my dad has long hair and he's only been mistaken for a girl once and he didn't act anywhere close to how this guy acted
His outfit alone tells me all I need to know about his mental problems.
bro stop saying her. stop feeding into this insanity
real victims dont go out of their way to be victims.
Why is he calling this confused man a “she”
Ever since I grew my hair out I’ve been mistaken as trans and a woman or someone who tries to get under my skin but I laugh at all of it
“Take a guess!” He did 😂😂😂
“She’s” the one being ignorant and rude.
This person is clearly an immigrant and doesn’t know the language well. To expect someone who is in their own uncomfortable environment to recognize and react “correctly,” (in the mind of the person recording), is ridiculous!
I don't understand why people assume random strangers know someones pronouns or even cares what their pronouns are. Personally I don't care about pronouns because they have zero effect on my life.
I new someone whos a guy who has long long hair, they wear heels and dresses sometimes. Even kinda talks a lil like a female, someone called them ma'am and after they left he mentions how he's not a ma'am
So just because you look like something doesn't mean it's obvious.
Someone in her same boat doesn't really like being called a female pronoun.
This is also why I avoid saying any pronouns now lmao
That's a whole man
This is the reason I just call everybody Yo "
Love that pizza guy, so happy. The other guy should take notes and chill
Soooo in a way, this person is actually reinforcing stereotypes and gender roles with their argument.
"How you gonna tell me I'm a man with a purse...with long hair...with nails?"
Who says women have to have long hair, use a purse or have nails? Why does a women *have* to be feminine? Why can't we be whatever tf we want?
Same goes for men.
I have no problem with folks identifying in whatever way makes them happy, but sometimes this really seems counterproductive. I don't have a purse, long hair, do the fake nails/makeup thing- does that make me less of a woman? And who says a man can't do those things if it makes him happy?
Idk dude, it kinda feels like you have to believe in gender roles to feel this way and fck that.
its all about validation for these people...
You look like a sir, you can leave sir lol
It seems like the culture now is, for people to put themselves in positions to be victims and to be hated on because they think it's gonna get them a check or clout it's absolutely disgusting.
A bullied child identifys with the perpetrator. They take all their impotent rage and hug it tightly, compressing it. They feed it their pain, waiting till the day they can unleash it and make them all understand them.
A bullied child identifies with victim. They sit with themseves and stay there through the pain dont look away. The vow that they do their best to make sure this never happens to others and tend wounds for the ones who suffer.
Guy is such an entitled brat. Your feelings don't mean you get to harass defenseless workers
I hate this planet
He asked what am I a boy or girl not what do I like to be known as lmao so technically he got IT right 😅
Her dog with a berret on LMAO, this "woman" is sick
Ironically it blows my mind how close-minded it is to think that hair nails and a purse makes a woman
I feel it's people like this try and set themselves up for discrimination
Sounds like a duck looks like a duck walks like a duck...... But wants to be name a chicken
hahahaha
I like how people who change their identity revert to their genetic identity when upset. I have long hair and my pronoun is KING 🤴. All address me as such 😅. Can my bank account identity as a millionaire???
Agreed with "HER"?
LOL🤣LOL🤣LOL🤣LOL🤣
It doesn't take "rocket science " to know this is a dude.
That person literally says "am i a girl or a boy...?" And then gets mad when they answer, "boy?" Like ok that shows he thinks you look like a boi! You clearly aint passing yet dont get mad just do better.... 🤔
Scammers... they hope to be compensated with free food!
Xeno dont be afraid to call this freak out for what he really is. a MAN!!!!
Well,l thought he looked like he was wearing a Halloween costume!
Theres literally a whole community of people out there who dont understand that you dont have to agree with someone elses beliefs to respect them? But respect does not mean mindless obedience. Why does that community think respect is just straight slavery to their beliefs?
Its like that one video of the mother and daughter fighting. "I'm educating you!" "No your trying to brainwash me."
Theres a huge difference and these people do not understand it at all.
That's not a woman