Days N Daze - Damaged Goods [Official Music Video]
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- Опубліковано 1 січ 2017
- Filmed by Jak Kerley/Shibby Pictures in Houston, Texas.
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This was filmed over the course of a week I spent in Houston. The split-screen concept was Whitney’s idea, which I absolutely loved. Lately I’ve been trying to avoid music videos that are just people hanging out/going through their daily routines, but the slip-screen concept seemed like a new, interesting way to tackle that. For about half of the days I was with her, she was always wearing these same clothes because we never knew when we would end up filming something for the video.
I first heard this song when I was filming the Leftover Crack video, Days N Daze played this song in their set. I immediately fell in love with it, and was very happy when Whitney said she wanted to do a video for it!
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Every second, every minute, every hour, every day
We burden our minds with trivial bullshit, same face a different name
Recycle Conversations, stare at the same four walls until the paint chips away
Well, I'm a blind man, searchin' for color in a world that's so long been grey
Well I'm a deaf man, chasin' the echoes of a song that's already been played
[Chorus]
If I could talk to my younger self now I'd say
"Don't take nothin' for granted, kid
You haven't seen just how bad things can get
And you never know what'cha got 'till it's gone
You'll never know 'till it's gone..."
[Verse 2]
Well I could spew some cinematic apology
But it wouldn't do no good
The damage is done, so now all we do is run
And pretend our choices haven't killed the best in us
We'll fly a white flag, and both say everything we had never meant anything at all
And when I'm not passed out, and I'm really sleepin'
I'm always dreamin' of you
[Chorus]
If I could talk to my younger self now I'd say
"Don't take nothin' for granted, kid
You haven't seen just how bad things can get
And you never know what'cha got 'till it's gone
Never know 'till it's gone..."
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I don't regret being that annoying drunk who told everyone how much I loved them when I was young.
Me neither
I still am tho. Every friday.
me neither, especially because alot of em are dead.
@@xxxNyshaxxx AMEN. POOR EM OUT
I do that on the rare occasion i go to the bar and drink liqour
I lost my nephew last year he was only 20 yrs old. At his funeral all his friends sang this song while his casket was being lowered into the ground. This song will never be the same.
Damn I wish I had friends who knew this song
His homies were the real ones ✨
May he rest in peace.
This comment gave me goosebumps
@WayRay007 excuse me!!??
One of my best friends listened to crust punk/folk punk most of highschool. Dude was bright, big smile, full of love and energy. Bout a year or so ago he picked up the banjo, wish I could hear him play. He got me into the genre, it made me want to start playing harmonica. I wanted to start a band with him, and he wanted to help me work out and improve my image. If he was here today, he'd give thanks to the bands that made life less hellish. Died just 11 days after this video went up, miss him more and more every day. Love you all, wish he could hear the new album
Rest In Power
My best friend died 2 years and 11 days after this came out. And he loved this song. I just thought that was a weird coincidence
Omg gosh. My heart aches for the entire circle affected by his passing. May you all sing loud and proud and not give a flying fuck. Go get him back in spirit and song.
This made me cry. My friend showed me this song a week before my other friend shot himself like An ass hole and left us all here to miss his ass.. haha no seriously im mad at him. Can't wait to i see him again. Im gonna kick his ass. But he was into this kind of music and would have loved the vibe. Wish I could have enjoyed this with him
Start a band dedicated to them.
"Just a deaf man chasing the echoes of a song that's already been played" shit hits deep dude...
I know right?!!
Yeah that hit me.
I'm 16, just discharged from a mental health Institute after an extended stay, went through days of horrible withdrawal, went through more extensive psychological evaluation and when they were ready to release me my parents decided they didnt want me in their home anymore, now I've been homeless and incomeless for nearly a month. My parents never even knew about the drugs. I've had problems with psychotic related disorders and personality disorders since I was a small kid and my mother was sick of worrying about me so she made me unwelcome back home while she had the chance. I always imagined what being on my own would be like, and I never thought it'd feel quite like this. I really miss everything.
Life sucks. But it’s not to bad with the right perspective. Everything happens for a reason and through patience and perseverance you’re gonna make it. Get a couple of pallets and a tarp. Find mental healthcare for homeless in the nearest city. Love ya and wood luck
@KLAW Dreadklaw thank you for the good advice
I don’t know what your state laws are but in jersey it’s illegal to just give up a 16 year old child! I would look into that! At least wait till your 18! Or 17 if u have somewhere to go! That’s what I did
I read this and thought omg come stay with me! My house sucks but we live way out in the country and my yard is SAFE. But you wrote this 4 years ago. I hope you found a place. I hope you're ok now. I hope you made it through covid. 😢
Im late to the post and i really hope your doing well and are safe !
Time to get a bit personal.
I've loved this song for a long time, but I've never related to it more than right now. A little over two weeks ago now, my partner and I split. I really took what we had for granted, as I kept making dumb mistakes and never really tried to regain any trust or fix the problems. I didn't put in any effort to be a better person until it was too late. So please, if you're reading this for some reason,
Don't take what you've got for granted. The people you love and everything you know could go away or change just like that. Put in the effort to be the best you, it's worth it.
Huntsworth I want this comment to stay on my feed forever, because that’s EXACTLY why I’m listening to these guys. I’ve felt like such garbage for 3 days, drinking, doing dmt, bawling my eyes out because I can’t fucking stand the thought of her loss. Thank you so much for this comment, and bless your soul forever for making someone happy today ❤️
The reason why i listening to them for over a year. I had a long relationship and i thought we would never lose us so quick. We had a little scene here with perfect people and many of them moved away. We knew each other a very long time. Suddenly everything went down. There where a few punks from the past who still live here and i got into days n daze because of them. My ex and me tried so hard to be friends at least but it never worked out. We made many things together as friends and we often listened to DnD in her basement, it hurted so much and i loved it at the same time. I broke up the contact and always catch myself listening to this music. There is no single day where i'm not missing the people from my past. I never thought that they would go away or let me in this shitty town alone. I would do everything on this planet to make things like in the past. I don't talk to many people here anymore, i transformed into an distrusting introvert. But it feels sooo good to write that text under your text.. It's easier to open up when people don't see u and don't know who you are. Thanks for giving me a platform to let that out.
Im in the same boat bud. I fucked up.
misan tropic fuck I just came back to this song for the first time in forever and these make me so sad, im glad you can feel more comfortable with other people sayin the same thing
Dead best friend it's me your ex......now that I read your comment on UA-cam I've decided to take you back.
please never stop making music. you guys are more than inspiration
jesse sendejas I've never been so proud to have tattooed myself with your guy's fish bones, when I bought a tattoo machine the bones was the first ever tattoo I did on myself.
jesse sendejas my best friend moved yo Ireland today, and you're the music that brought me forth. Thank brother
I hope to meet you in the aftermath lol
Fucking yeah that's so rad!!
Jesse. You guys were the ones who pushed me to leave my drunken(and otherwise) homebum state And crust across Canada. I missed you guys at FATTAL cause I was nodded off. Never fucking stop man, I never will, we all never can; without music we're just dead and drunk inside. Thank you man for the pick me up; everytime I'm drunk alone and miserable
I was a heroin addict for years and i was content thinking that was my life forever. Jail got me sober. Life is hard but i realize now how much i lost to my addiction. Now i am trying. Its hard im sad a lot but this song helps remind me how much i have - i mean in friendships and positive memories. Its not easy staying clean but things like this help so much to remind me that addiction isnt worth losing all of this.
Luci Santiago Keep fighting for the sunrise of a new day. You’re doing great :)
! Dont know you but !'M DEADASS PROUD OF YOU FOR REAL KEEP !T UP AND ! HOPE YOUR L!FE GETS LESS SH!TTY MORE AND MORE EVERYDAY 💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You got this man
You got this, you are stronger then your addictions, ive struggled with self harm and self medicating for years now, and being clean is one of the best feelings. Im proud of you and never give up. Clean living is the way to go!
🤪🙊🙉🙈🐵
This is my depression song. It’s what makes me feel valid that my depression and anxieties are making it harder on life. It helps me not get down on myself basically. Days n Daze helps me so much on a day to day basis. Thank you guys for being the best 🖤
So good :-) thank you
This song is the song I play when I need a real good emotional super hard ugly cry
I like it
Jesus Christ
2 months and no reply to THE Jesus. You're really losing your touch man.
I'M A BLIND MAN
human music
Oh jesus please like my music to
I NEW YOU LIKED THIS MUSIC HA
The depressed look of waking up and realizing you're still alive.
Every stupid fucking day
you know someone else out there has it worse than you and they still manage to be thankful they have a life.
@@wildmike85 very true n
I struggled with heroin for a decade , finally got sober at age 27 ,6 years ago . My friend who showed me this band is still strung out , anytime I hear this song I think about all my friends who died from addiction over the years. .
proud of you
stay strong brother
Miss you mom, one whole year in less than 10 days. This song hits different now.
Know how it goes freind missing my mom for 6 yrs now . It gets easier
🙏
"When I'm not passed out and really sleeping, I'm always dreaming of you"
Yes.
My best friend committed suicide a few days ago and this song finally makes sense. Rest easy Taya.
💙
My brother did the same June 7th, 2013. This song means a lot to me too. I am truly sorry for your loss.
I hope you're ok. If ya ever need anything please don't hesitate to ask!!
@@brandonglassock148 so sorry to to hear. If ya need anything just holler. Jessesendejasdnddocs@gmail.com.
@@DaysNDazeOfficial respect
I'm a blind man searching for color in world that's so long been grey. Im a deaf man chasing the echoes of a song that's already been played.. been listening to this song since u guys released it. Was going through hard times then n whitney's mom wired me tickets to a show here in Denver cuz my truck I was living in was stolen n my tickets were in it. N I spoke up hoping u guys would play this n sure enough you did! I will always remember this n how it felt
I would argue, there are no bad Daze n Days songs. That said this is one of the best.
This song reminds to never take this moment for granted. I love all of you. And I mean ALL
She's got such a beautiful voice💓 I'm a 55 yr old Gramma and I just love yas! All ya all!!
I am OBSESSED with this song right now.
Sage Warren I see you in the comments of lots of music I listen to :) hey
Dakota Hope ayeeee. Sup?
Sage Warren ME. TOO.
They tend to do that. Crust/ folk punk has very powerful music and lyrics. Definitely the best out currently 👍
"Don't take nothing for granted, kid." That's tattoo worthy.
Quentin Furlong have you never heard that expression before?
Casey, doesn't make it any less tattoo worthy.
Quentin Furlong it turns out that tattoo is fish bones just hound that out way sooner than I wanted
Axel Greene does the fish bones stand for anything? Cause I've been drawing that around places.
Quentin Furlong double negatives be damned.
My mom passed away from cancer at the end of October. The chorus of this song paired with the video fucked me up hard, but in a good way. You are amazing, as is your music. Keep making this music forever and ever. Thanks for the tears and laughs. :)
Fuck... :( sorry about your mom man
:(
Also dude your music is amazing, been following you for a while now.
Joe Cash I'm so sorry hugs ❤
Thank you all
I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm glad we could help ya out even if only a bit. If ya ever need anything please don't hesitate to ask.
Oh boy how I’ve come back to this song over the years after rough breakups.
My ex partner passed away in August. This song and blue Jays has hit home very much for me and helped process some of the pain. Last time I saw them was at a show you guys played this summer. You were one of their favorite bands. Thank you ♥️
This song man. Everytime I need to hear it I play it twice in a row. I know how personal this song is to u Whitney n Jesse but you guys wrote a life song for the lot of us seriously 100% thank you for not keeping it to yourselves.
for real
Don't ever stop making music. This is one of the realist songs written in a long time.
This song has helped me through some hard times,I'm homeless now and strung out on heroin and your music saved my life. I was so down and wanting to die and it really made me think. Thank you
Hey John. I just wanna say I feel for you man. I really do. I've been homeless, I've been strung TF out for longer I should've. I became a father earlier than I was ready for and to this day at 27 I have no fucking idea what I'm doing, but I'm making each day at a time. I just want you to know your a beautiful human being and no matter how rough shit gets and how much things seem to take a backstep in life your still out here trying to make your way and figure life out. And man I can feel for that any damn day of the week. We're all damaged goods here, but goods none the less.
@@jameskaufman4590 This is why going into the youtube comments on music is a good idea.
Hang on! I'm lighting candles for you! Here's to you being the bestest you!💓all of you! 🫂
I hope you found some help. I hope your ok.
Nobody is past repair or getting back to their true self. Sending you some positive vibes.
When I wake up early and start drinking I can always count on being able to play this song, and it makes me feel like less of a drunk. Keep doing what you guys do.
I’m still just as depressed 6 years now I believe? Idk but I’m still here
If it helps I've been depressed since I was 9 and I'm about to be 20 just barely pushing through. I'm proud of you.
Proud of both of you I fucking God thirty eight..... Just fuckin horrendously I don't even know what anymore..... Gonna force myself on some meds pray too feel fucking something.
Love this song. I fell in love with this group right away. So honest and raw.
Right in the feels, sat drinking whisky in my basement missing those that ain't here no more
Song hits so hard. My self-destructive ways made me lose somebody I very much will always regret being gone.
Don't take nothing for granted kid
It seems with this song so many people connect it with the idea of loss (and Im no exception.) I lost my father to liver failure last month on the 9th (so basically, he drank himself to death,) and I didn't do anything but help him do it to himself, it hurts, but when the first verse kicks off, and it hits the chrous this overwelming urge to just let go of the pain takes me over. . .This song is beautiful; I'm not entirely sure what it's about to the artists who wrote it, but to me it's just "growing up."
Thr33LastWords so sorry to hear about your father. I lost my grandfather the same way.
Thr33LastWords my Dad helped my grandmother drink herself to death and it pissed me off, I didn't understand why he would buy her alcohol when he knew she had a problem. One day I confronted him about it and he told me if he didn't bring it to her she would drive drunk to get it and probably hurt someone innocent. Then I understood. Sorry for your loss.
Well said sir
The color has faded, the songs faded away. Taking things for granted is most lamented when one no longer has the option of things being taken so. Why would it be wished, the opening of the eyes of ones younger self? Simply it would knowing without learning, poignantly, from mistakes. Those teachers are oft looked back upon with regret, a longing for that which might have been. Possibilities. At least they were, but no longer.
Everytime i hear this song it makes me miss that when it came out i was only 14 and had family problems but thats the hardest i thought it would get after my parents split my uncle died and childhood pets died but now 20 years old wish i could tell 14 year old that its gonna be tougher
I got to take my 13 yo non verbal son to them FINALLY last Sunday. Perfect introduction to live music for a child who’s spent his whole life in a hospital listening to this. Thank you guys so much for the pictures. Hell of a ride around this sun, glad we got to bump into you!!
Shibby is just as important in the scene as the bands.
Pretend our choices haven’t killed the best in us.
If only....
My favorite line in the song.
I love you all so much, Jesse your voice is incredible, your lyrics from the soul are up there with Jesse Stewart, and both of yall have been there with me at my lowest points every time i fall. Thank you. >|-|-|->
Music like this keeps me alive .....
no words could ever express how much this song speaks to me, thank you is all I really can say.
This is why I love Folk Punk so much! It actually reflects the life of the people who wrote it.
She has such a wonderful and beautiful voice. Pure enjoyment to listen to no matter how she uses it. I would LOVE to be able to sing with her. Such a unique and gifted voice!
Seen them play this song in July in Denver marquis theater . Such a hard time then totally self destructive. Whitney was crying the whole show I imagine overwhelmed by how awesome the crowd was. I love these guys they indirectly saved my life. Just wanted to shout out to the band n friends n say thank u guys sincerely
Damn, I lived the worst of my live as a child. I've made my life what it is now, I learned to appreciate things early on. This is a good massage, learn from your mistakes, don't rinse and repeat. Appreciate what you have
The first part of your life, your youth from birth till age 19, moves slower than a tortoise on Valium...but ages 19 onward moves faster than a rabbit with a hot foot on Adderall!
amen
Yup
It's just the natural order of things. Make the most of this short life, pursue what makes your soul happy, protect what you love....and never ever forget where you came from. Never lose your humanity and compassion no matter how roughly life treats you. Every adversity conceals a lesson.
Peace and love and 666! Have a blessed new year y'all 🐀🎶🛒🚬⚜🌼🤘🖤💣!
Jenni
This is so true :/
DnD
Days n Daze
Dungeons n Dragons
Drinking n Drag-Ons
Drinks n Depression
* Drunk n Depressed
Drugs and diagnoses
Diarrhea n dinosaurs
cheers.
Due Knot Disturb
This song i play over and over on sad raining night and i think it make life a little smoother.
my wife left me for my best friend and this song has made me cry laugh and think your music touches people who need it
This song hits me like a damn freight train to the heart every time ... I love you guys please... dont stop writing you have saved my life many times over... thank you
Jim henson? Love your work Man
Too Real ...love the song and perfect timing for my life.
Well, I'm a blind man, searchin' for color in a world that's so long been grey..., ... i can
agree cause im still searching for being colorful and happier on what i got in life and thanks to my boyfriend who suggest me to listen to this masterpiece so thanks ot for thhis masterpiece +_+ it chase my anxiety as u do.
I threw up a little while this video was loading... Glad I pulled thru.. Love you guys
Nice, I threw up while uploading it!
Follow up post: I was sick last week, better now :D
you guys give me hope for modern music. been listening almost everyday since I found your music 7 months ago
I know ! I am so into finding obscure bands on YT whose music still means something, unlike every popular singer (I refuse to call them "artists", as that word still has meaning and meaning is the last thing they have) nowadays. Another one that hits to the gut- Amigo the Devil. He's kinda Metal/Folk if that makes any sense, but these guys, him, The Devil Makes 3 and a few other bands have brought music back into my life, into a place that had been cold and quiet for far too long. Keep rocking guys, cuz the day you stop is the day you start dying inside.
"well im a blind man searching for color in a world thats so lonely and grey" hit me hard
So long been grey
ive been in love with this women's voice for years now itll never get old
Drinking, by myself agaaain...listening to you play your music with the voices from you two great people. Fuck yeaaaa
all your old music has been popping up on my playlists recently & then yall drop this golden magic 🌟🌟🌟 keep it up
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I love your pictures. From Michigan.
I stumbled across this band UA-cam surfing. I am in love. This song is amazing. This band is awesome. I have watched videos, bought music on iTunes and generally obsessed over this band. Great sound, excellent writing, great tag team vocals. Definitely a gem of a band!
I just found out about y'all. I was diagnosed with testicular cancer and had a daughter in the same month a little over a year ago. I've always found solace and comfort in lyrics that are relateable but this is on a whole new level. This music hits me in the core and it's fucking beautiful. Thank everyone of you. Come to Florida y'all! 🤘❤️🙌
he gave her the good beer at the end thats so sweet it made me tear up
Most heartbreaking song and video I've ever seen/heard... so relatable and it really makes you think your shit through
this band and song are everything i feel and love. I hope we meet someday and I say that with the most hopeless way possible. the world needs more beautiful souls like them.
My best friend in my early 20s passed away a little over 2 years ago now from an opiate addiction. This song is what I would have played at his funeral when I couldn't pick a song. Thank you for the words I can't seem to find even 2 years later.
Chad Hatcher 💕💕💕
confirmed: Whitney wakes up cute
We all wake up cute, putting on our masks makes us ugly. Covers up what really makes you you.
Steven Bridgewater corny
@@raymanmottet4472 if that's corny than corn me up...simpsons refrence woop
nice one haha@@stevenbridgewater7593
@@LessThanJared facts
I needed this song in my life right now.
thank you.
never knew my hometown would have such sweet people in it who make music that isint chopped and screwed . wish I can visit yal one day make Houston feel better for me.
Thank you Shibby for putting up all the great music and thanks to Days N Daze for creating that great music. I'm glad I found you.
I spent the last couple years angry with my mom. Some personal shit I don't wanna get into too much, but let's just say she wasn't the person I needed her to be at that point. I lost her the day before Halloween this year. I found this band shortly after. One night I listened to this song until I broke down and cried. It's songs like this that make it a little easier to cope.
love this song, so much power. you never know what you have til its gone. miss you, rest in peace pops....
So very cool that this comment had got a response. Much props.
Such an amazing band, I don't know where I'd be without your music, I need to see them live someday
Its so great to see such amazing talent working together. Amazing music and a visionary video. Keep it up. Anxious to see and hear more.
This song brought tears to my eyes. You guys are amazing, and your music is just as awesome. Keep doing what you love doing guys, because I know the rest of us love ya for doing it.
this song hits me in the heart every time I listen to it ever since it came out I remember being one of the first hundred on youtube and ever since listen to it atleast 3 times a day to help me get through I feel like I can emotionally connect to all there songs but this one always brings a tear to my eye never take anything for granted no matter how big or small
One of my favorite DnD songs...off a split! If any video could do it justice it's this one. So beautifully broken, like all of us. ☆☆☆☆☆
It's a shame that I'll probably never be able to see you guys in person, lovin' you with all my heart, keep doing your music, it always gets me through hard times. It's the best there is
NEW DAYS N DAYZ FUCK YESSSSSS .. Christmas was apparently on Jan 2nd this year :D love you guys, your sound/voices are so unique and complimentary.. it sure feels more like home then this box I'm in 🤙🏻 keep me going guys! I live off your music
Curtis Carpenter its not new, just a new video
Thank you guys for the memory. Jesse thank you for playing this song in corpus. An i got to sing it with yall. Really made my coming back to the free world that much better. I cant wait til yall come back. Much love from the 361
This music really helps when the mental is about to explode. Or when things are good.🙏
The amount of feels I get from this song is overwhelming. sooo good.
We the Heathens sticker! Emotional video and song, love this band.
Met them when they came to dallas. Wonderful folks. Also met Jesse's dad and mom. He gave me his card, said if I was in Houston to come see them. The whole time I talked to Jesse he was just worried about if I like the show and it came off well. I will never forget that night, don't care who else I ever meet, it was special.
No other piece of art has ever captured my feelings and emotion so well Jesus Christ i am without words
love from Vienna, Austria
TheTomatenfisch Vienna and Salzburg were so kind to DND last year. Thank you for being so awesome and welcoming, hoping to get back soon
I adore these guys so much!🤗😎. I love The Neutral Milk Hotel "On Avery Island" reference👌.
What reference?
Dru Ely "On Avery Island" is a Neautral Milk Hotel album reference😊
2:09, Whitney loves the band, especially Jeff Mangum.
Same here
Next time they're in town, talk to her about them.
When you are just trawling through facebook and suddenly find a vein of pure gold. This is perfect :)
Two beautiful people singing about being damaged goods. What an amazing song.
You guys never dissapoint!
Lots of support from Montana. My friends and I love attempting covers of your music.
I love you guys. i sat and watched this video a thousand times.you are great.
beautiful.
everything you do is great
this is Crazy.. i played a show with them back in 2014 with my old punk band, like in a garage haha i had no clue they blew up like this . that is so awesome.
I love this... thank you for your music... cheers from costa rica
and another good one, keep em comming!!!
Every second, every minute of this song hits hard.
Whitney's voice is music to my ears😍
"When I'm not passed out & really sleeping I'm always dreaming of you..." 💋
when I'm not passed out and I'm really sleeping I'm always dreaming of you.
I woke up this morning dreaming of someone tearing me apart. it was a nightmare. and I woke wishing I were still in that dream. because I miss her.
You have a way with words. Find a way to put that into a song, and once you're finished send me a link cause I'll listen to it
@Marshall B oh, I'm sorry.
itll be okay dude. pick up the baggage and move on. it sucks,. but thats what you have to do.
I went into Detox for the first time on 1/1/17. Heard this for the first time at a sober living house about a month later. I fucking love you guys.
I'm dying of kidney failure, I'm also on dialysis in hopes of getting a kidney transplant I listen to your music all the time and it's expired me and help me stay clean and reminded me that I shouldn't hate myself for stuff I can't change. Your songs mean so much to me. I lived on the streets in Seattle downtown for 10 years on drugs and trying to get clean and lost my boyfriend 4 years ago to heroin overdose. Your music has really helped me. Thanks
By the way only 34 years old
I hope you pull through fren I lost my best friend to a drug overdose. The pain never really goes away but we can keep them alive by honoring their memories. Take care of yourself fren
Please come to Canada I've been dying to see you!!
Specifically Calgary I love you guys and you've gotten me and my lady friend through so much