Ask Nick - My Broke, Boring Boyfriend | The Viall Files w/ Nick Viall

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  • Welcome back to another episode of The Viall Files: Ask Nick Edition! We start off the episode with a deep dive into new dating trends. Then we get to our callers…
    Our first caller’s husband wants her to quit her adult job. Our second caller is struggling to date as a digital nomad. And, our third caller’s boyfriend doesn’t make enough money to have fun.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 63

  • @julipowellsmith9575
    @julipowellsmith9575 День тому +55

    Wow! The first girl.... I can't 🤦🏽‍♀️ Nick is really good with her and keeping her accountable

  • @emilymeade8280
    @emilymeade8280 5 годин тому +6

    AMAZING job with the first caller! Held her accountable and got her to dig deeper and get closer to the truth. SO talented with this Nick!

  • @MrBOOBOORO
    @MrBOOBOORO День тому +46

    The first caller is a pathological liar, she can’t even keep her story straight in her head

  • @kyliehaag3136
    @kyliehaag3136 23 години тому +36

    First caller said that her husband told her she looked great after having a kid and gave her the thumbs up to do OF and then proceeded to say that he called her fat and ugly after having a kid. Then she said that their relationship is the best it’s ever been bc they haven’t been fighting and at the end of the call references a big fight they had two days ago. Can’t keep her lies straight.

    • @mrsjessicasmith
      @mrsjessicasmith 20 годин тому +9

      All seems a bit made up to me too since it kept switching. She said it wasn't cool to have someone besides herself do the chat with people on OF and then directly after that said she has someone doing it. say what?

    • @kyliehaag3136
      @kyliehaag3136 17 годин тому +1

      @@mrsjessicasmith OMG YES how could I forget about that one too?? She’s a walking contradiction.

    • @Brandimom
      @Brandimom 17 годин тому +1

      @@mrsjessicasmithI think it’s a made up story too

  • @candy07831
    @candy07831 23 години тому +17

    First caller 11:30
    Second caller 1:15:10
    Third caller 1:54:55

    • @marou55ia_
      @marou55ia_ 18 годин тому +1

      Thank you!

    • @acd1168
      @acd1168 9 годин тому +1

      Bless you. I didn’t have time earlier today

    • @LaaLaa901
      @LaaLaa901 4 години тому +1

      Thank you: I didn't have the patience for Caller 1.

  • @allysonreilly
    @allysonreilly День тому +21

    Omg caller 1 is insufferable. “I told him because I’m not that person” about her affair… but she is that person because she had one. I’m glad Nick called her out. Whether or not she keeps doing OF, her marriage will dissolve.

  • @embeth446
    @embeth446 20 годин тому +10

    First caller is addicted to the attention on OF. It’s plain as day. It’s an addiction. She can’t stop it. She’s trying to justify and come up with a thousand reasons why her husband should be fine with it. The level of delusion is unmatched. Her husband needs to get out of this ASAP.

  • @andreegodbout868
    @andreegodbout868 23 години тому +10

    I've never heard a person love to listen to themselves more than caller number 1. Why did she call if she has all the answers? Man, I'm exhausted.

  • @lindsayburns7236
    @lindsayburns7236 День тому +16

    The first caller is pretty much the worst. She wants her cake and to eat it to without accountability. Her husband should leave, she will never be accountable in their relationship.

  • @mrshale223
    @mrshale223 День тому +16

    Not even done the episode but- Incredible take on the first one!!!! So spot on

  • @Alli-j5p
    @Alli-j5p 23 години тому +13

    First caller actually hates her husband

  • @caseyclayton7084
    @caseyclayton7084 23 години тому +14

    I’m back for more. You’re making $20k/month and you have debt? I do have follow questions

  • @Haley0308
    @Haley0308 21 годину тому +10

    My facial expressions would be uncontrollable during caller one 💀🤣

  • @ms_trial
    @ms_trial День тому +12

    Hard to reason with someone who refuses to take accountability and believes everything is owed to them. Caller 1 needs to stay in therapy, take a break from OF and work on her relationship with her husband and children. Sex work will always be there, but your family may not.

  • @Charlize10
    @Charlize10 22 години тому +9

    Didn’t she say it was disingenuous to have someone else chat for her and then next says she has someone doing it. This girl psycho. This guy better off w/o her for sure

  • @lanerzzz123
    @lanerzzz123 3 години тому +2

    Can callers have a time limit? Jesus, taking over an hour for one caller is insane when you’re just taking in circles after 30 mins

  • @cblynn8295
    @cblynn8295 День тому +8

    So the first caller only fans girl starts off saying she signed up bc they needed money and her husband said she was hot and she should sign up....later on the call she says he calls her fat and ugly....seems like she's feeding herself a narrative she wants to believe.

    • @kyliehaag3136
      @kyliehaag3136 23 години тому +1

      YES!! Then later on she said their relationship was the best it’s ever been because they haven’t been fighting and then proceeds to say that they just had a fight two days ago towards the end of the call 😂

  • @featherxchild
    @featherxchild День тому +10

    Idk about other women, but I like effort. I like when a man is thoughtful and makes it clear they want to be with you.

  • @caseyclayton7084
    @caseyclayton7084 День тому +9

    Caller one girl bossed too close to the sun 😂

  • @edemfiadonu2444
    @edemfiadonu2444 День тому +7

    You can also get the ick, from how someone smells, their laugh, how the dress ect.
    Also, I can't stand this first girl. I'm mindblown by how she can't take any accountability.

  • @shelby6144
    @shelby6144 3 години тому +1

    The first girl said they don’t fight anymore.. then says when we fought last weekend… then goes it’s disingenuous to have someone else talk to my only fan viewers.. then says I don’t even talk to them anymore, someone else does it for me. What?? Girls trying to manipulate hard. I don’t think your marriage will work, I think it’s time to call it quits

  • @eliskacharlottew.2408
    @eliskacharlottew.2408 День тому +10

    God the first woman is so defensive, like even the way she speaks to Nick about the situation is harsh.

    • @allysonreilly
      @allysonreilly День тому

      Because deep down she knows she’s wrong.

  • @blakeclancy7741
    @blakeclancy7741 День тому +7

    Ummmm...that first caller...talk about burying the lede..."Oh, and I also had an affair..."

  • @Ryanh1010
    @Ryanh1010 День тому +3

    Yikes this first caller really lives in her own world. Cant believe a single thing she says. Blaming someone else for you having an affair is wild behavior. She will 100% cheat again if she hasnt already

    • @kristysensei
      @kristysensei 4 години тому

      For real, it’s giving Tom Sandoval blaming Ariana for his year long affair

  • @keiralaciskey2486
    @keiralaciskey2486 День тому +4

    I’m scared about the land of delusion that first caller is in tbh. 😅

    • @keiralaciskey2486
      @keiralaciskey2486 День тому

      I’m not one to tell people to break up, but I think they just need to cut the tie

  • @emiliasvensson6125
    @emiliasvensson6125 6 годин тому +2

    The first girl… shit.. husband run 😅

  • @sugarNspice244
    @sugarNspice244 2 години тому +1

    The first caller is psychotic.

  • @RebelFitz
    @RebelFitz 22 години тому +1

    I can relate to caller number two sooo much. And yes Nick is spot on, after doing a lot of therapy and finding a great therapist I actually feel excited about staying in one place and am now with a great man who I'm excited to settle down in one place with (while still regularly traveling :) )

    • @RebelFitz
      @RebelFitz 22 години тому +1

      And I'm 31 for reference

  • @juliethillbrand4134
    @juliethillbrand4134 19 годин тому +2

    First caller - have ur husband run the only fans or no flirting, can't you make content without engaging with the men? Make less $ but save your marriage? He needs to hold up his end and not neglect you if you're giving up that attention. Hold him accountable too! He's not gna make double as a nurse so you need to keep your income. Also could say you need a poly/open relationship. Or divorce him cause there's too many compromises and he won't sustain this good behavior. because I've dated men like that, brilliant and aloof, they'll always go back to their natural state, they're selfish. Good luck ❤

  • @catherineritch6241
    @catherineritch6241 22 години тому +3

    caller number 1 you mentioned that millions of men flirt with you
    you make $25-$50,000 monthly and you want him to be the breadwinner ?
    your marriage is going down the tubes because your husband is not giving you attention but millions of men are.
    Sounds like a recipe for disaster😮

  • @stephanief1921
    @stephanief1921 3 години тому +1

    I literally had to stop listening to the whole episode after caller one lol

  • @kristysensei
    @kristysensei 4 години тому +1

    I’m glad everyone hates the first caller as much as I do 😂 what an insufferable selfish person. Hope her husband saves himself & gets tfo of there.

  • @sabrinacastor5263
    @sabrinacastor5263 23 години тому +3

    Caller one: keep making the content but hire someone else to actually talk to the subscribers for you. Problem solved. You get to keep making lots of money and there is no risk of another affair with a subscriber.

    • @embeth446
      @embeth446 20 годин тому +1

      But she’s addicted to the flirting and attention. That’s her favorite part. She flat out said it. She’ll never do that.

  • @catherineritch6241
    @catherineritch6241 6 годин тому +1

    What kind of a job does caller 1 have sounds very toxic😮

  • @hannahdilon3124
    @hannahdilon3124 День тому +6

    We need aspyn ovard on next 🙏🙏

    • @MarvaloHP
      @MarvaloHP День тому +1

      omggg THIS!!! after all her tik tok vids recently i feel like Nick can get some answers/ more context out of her 🤣

  • @tarenmiller4178
    @tarenmiller4178 День тому +2

    First! Been listening since Day 1, thanks for continuing to put out amazing content. 😊

  • @jessm6811
    @jessm6811 20 годин тому +1

    is the second caller crying or is that just her voice...

    • @bethanymontgomery3965
      @bethanymontgomery3965 17 годин тому

      I noticed this too! Probably her voice just mixed with nerves which can make you sound shaky.

  • @Mullie716
    @Mullie716 22 години тому +1

    Most importantly what's her OF?

  • @seven92023
    @seven92023 22 години тому

    Overall all 3 callers don't realize that choices come with consequences and accountability. Major problem for women these days. Can't have it all. Life is choices and trade offs. Relationships are roles and duties.

  • @claudiapawlak6894
    @claudiapawlak6894 День тому

    When a couple is attracting but it is not taking . He is so into skinny, hooks up with a skinny woman. They have a daughter . Comes back to his first wife. I got told , you are married, with what you do in the bedroom . Pain is when you are living on soup, restaurant on Saturday & Sunday & gaining weight . Ok it's not taking ! Does he want to be a spoiled brat ? When a woman has to stop doing things to please him . Cook diet food or go out to eat fish . How some girlfriends are eating like a pig . Whether she can afford her restaurant & grocery food . The unattractive asking a boyfriend for money & a place to live . When he gets knocked down , talking to another girl . What it takes to go to work 40 hours a week. Some girls are not attracted to a working man . Everybody wants to look like models on the runway . How strong are females & males? When one gives more than the other !

  • @mben9352
    @mben9352 5 годин тому

    Think you might ask Gyps some real questions instead of glorifying her?

  • @jennyvous
    @jennyvous 23 години тому +2

    Lord, that second caller's voice is so annoying.

    • @janineschafer3991
      @janineschafer3991 13 годин тому +1

      haha I was about to comment the same. I feel bad but it's hard to listen to her. It sounds like she's crying.

  • @nz3644
    @nz3644 5 годин тому

    Icks will save u