If u have an open marriage. ..what's your problem. ...she's a doormat....she gave him a hall pass and now she's mad.....why are yall even married lady??
She never loved him anymore, she loved the idea of having a happy husband and the big family with the successful business and the big house. And letting him sleep with other women is a small loss than to lose it all
She kind of played herself by agreeing to an arrangement that she really wasn’t ok with. Not to mention, she had to know it was a risk that he might develop feelings for someone else that he’s sleeping with.
This woman is delusional. Thinking so much of herself to guilt trip her husband for having feelings for someone else when she’s the one that’s pushed him away yet still wants him all for herself. All for what? A bakery? Get outta town. Hopefully he’s happy with Jennifer now and she can have plenty of time to rest and make her pastries.
Cheating on people may be wrong completely however much like substance abuse it can be stemming from a deeper unresolved problem. That being said, I can't help but feel that he felt lonely in the relationship and it made him have a lapse in judgment and he slept with someone else. Physical intimacy is one of the three main pillars of having a healthy successful relationship. If she was letting him down physically and he seems to be the kind of person that wants to be physical and intimate and demonstrative then they have a bigger problem than trying to set rules for sex. I went through similar with my now ex-husband. He was never very physically demonstrative he was not affectionate and I thought I can handle it at first but once he settled in with being that way I was so lonely... And short of having other people in our bed sexually altogether as some kind of a sick group thing I tried everything I could to make that marriage work before I finally walked away from it. Right now we're still dealing with custody issues for our daughter but I'm still glad that I got out of the marriage. These 2 should not be married.
She sounds like the one using him. She wants him to be her husband cus its convenient but has issues with Intimacy so expects other women to fulfill that part for her. Shes looking for a guy to just do the manly things in her life without having to tend to any of his needs. More convenient for her than him
Loved when she said He comes home & there's a hint of GUILT , So he plans a family day & buys me flowers.... Pretty obvious to me that he's not really into the New set up either...#jmo
As a woman I like it at least twice a day and no men I ve been with has been able to keep up lol. This woman was an idiot to think her husband would not develop any feelings. Intimacy brings feelings with it
“Oh so it’s MY fault you cheated?!” Bitch YES it’s your fault! At least partially because you are the one who wanted an open relationship but told him to not fall in love with someone else! How the fuck else is someone supposed to take it when you value your career and other things and giving your time and energy to them but not the person you’re supposed to be in a relationship with?! This is why I am against open relationships as a whole. They make things needlessly complicated when they don’t need to be.
For those who think a divorce is terrible for your kids, you're wrong. My parents divorced when I was 4 years old and I survived. Sure, I remember being very confused at the time (like why is my mom unlocking a door to a new home?), but it didn't really take a huge toll on me.
I don't think this one was very fair to the husband. She can't physically satisfy him, so she gives him the all clear to sleep around... SHE says "don't embarrass me" yet comes on the air and embarrasses him, and then Ryan says to the husband "we don't need to hear it from you"??? The wife is NOT the victim here, no one is, just 2 people who need to end a relationship before another one starts.
OK this is messed up of course he would keep cheating and lead to him having feelings for another person. They should have split up not given him permission to sleep around than get up set when he fall for another
Excellent! Yes! Karla the w#$## rules the roost and controls everything. Very sad. I know what he's going through and have been there. Karla NEVER said " I'll try to do better". She led him on re:sex so that they could have their 2 children.
I’m sorry but if you can’t take care of your husbands needs, What is he supposed to do? That’s part of the marriage. She really needs to look at herself and stop placing all blame on him. It’s really sad. Everyone deserves to feel loved and wanted.
She doesn’t need to be married to anyone. If she has no sex drive, never had had one; don’t commit to a marriage vow. She broke her vows by neglecting her husband and then telling him to stray so that he doesn’t bother her with normal, natural needs-intimacy.
9:01 "Oh it's my fault that you cheated?" He must have did something wrong and he blames it on his wife that it's her fault that he cheated I'm not buying it and I don't believe in any of this at all, how dare he blame it on his wife.
I agree will him right now. Yes he cheated and that was wrong. But she shouldn't have let him carry on. And now she surprised! This is not a healthy relationship at all. Split up.
Although cheating is wrong, I can see what he means about her not carring. She was trying to be “cool”, but the truth is there can’t be emotions when their is a physical relationship. She is fooling herself. That’s why intimacy should only be in marriage. That’s why God has that commandment. We don’t know how their relationship was before. Maybe he was missing that connection and that’s why he cheated. They sound doomed.
You can’t forgive them hold it over a person head I’m in his side any women that cares not gone allow another to have you she should have tried to work it out but that’s not the only thing if you don’t care about your partner needs which is prolly why he cheated to begin with then you don’t care about the relationship
Can't believe she wants to play the victim card! She was so LAZY that she couldn't be bothered to love her husband...then he goes to find love and SHE is offended? I can't!
I feel she’s with her husband for the business and money and now that she feel it’s at risk now she wants to step in she’s definitely with someone else to she just not emotionally attached but you can expect a man to be the same a lot of women can be cold hearted specially when money involves I think she’s controlling and real her way or the high way she says hes changing I think she doesn’t care for her family she just in it for the money and lifestyle she don’t have feelings for him she’s tranna make him the blame
This lady is a nut! What did you expect to happen he will fall in love eventually with someone else. She does not love this man at all she just enjoys the life that comes with her marriage to him
@Oceaneyes 805 "You can't blame the guy" gtfo here and go live in your fairytale world. Just cause he gets a pass doesn't mean you have to go through with it. You sound like you have no common sense just like her husband. "Oh it's okay to do because she said so" Grow up and have some morals especially when theirs kids involve.
@@Freddyfrm18 Haha. You realize telling someone it's okay for them to do something and then getting mad and blaming them when they choose to do it is emotionally manipulative, right?
Are you really kidding me, AN OPEN MARRIAGE. They never work and her husband proves it. Give him the opportunity and he’s going to cheat. A partner that gets to have sex once he’ll have sex again and again until a new relationship comes. If she doesn’t have the want she should get a divorce and be do with. This woman is living in a dream world. If it’s so open why doesn’t she start screwing around and she how her husband feels?
Honestly, I give props to this woman. Sex isnt everything in a relationship and I know it goes against most of our sensibilities a relationship is so much more than 5 min of bliss. Allowing her husband freedom in this area pales in comparison to keeping her family together.
I understand open relationships - not my thing, but I dont judge and I understand. What I DONT understand, is when people have an open marriage. Like WTF? You CONSUMMATE the marriage with sex, thats one of the tenants that its ONLY you two. Not you, bob fred and sarah lol. "But I love my wife / husband" Well, you can love / have a main partner with someone and open relationship and NOT get married. I mean, how does that work? Hey, bob, where's your wife? Oh shes bangin Ron right now. WTF?
WTF - he gets to sleep around within their 'friends circle?' Whatever else their agreement entails, that's just fucking stupid. She should have bitten the bullet and divorced him when he cheated - not made a deal. Oh, he got upset that she LET him cheat? He didn't have to. This is a big "Who cares?" This is like a super bad sitcom idea.
this woman is seriously stupid, she let her husband to cheat but her only rules is "ok but don't fall in love just sleep with her " if u let ur husband to cheat then don't complain , in love or not in love it doesn;t matter u let ur husband to cheat. She is married and loyal to their businesses. Let ur husband go let him be happy with his real relationship that he wants.
She’s awesome more women should be like her it’s 2019...let the man get his physical needs while still married that’s how it should be...I’ll be yours just let me get mine when I want 😎 I talked to woman that said her and her husband was sexuality compatible...clearly they’re not sexually compatible
My wife and I have sex like once every 2 to 3 years. I've never cheated, but my hand is my only friend. It's brutal (and lonely) and I wanna cry whenever I hear someone is in a sexless marraige cause they only do it once a week when I would give my left lung for once a month😥
A bad guy got away with it because she could't be a wife. I can hire a nanny to take care of kids, ONLY a wife can take care of them growing up and me sexually. IF i was doing it, hell ANYONE doing it with whoever... OVER time one of them is GOING to push all the right buttons and wife is gone.
They have multiple business, children and a household to take care of. I get her exhaustion. Stress and exhaustion is probably the number one killer of sexual desire. Sounds like he has a lot of free time for romancing and falling in love with Jennifer. Does his wife get time for herself? So she can decompress? This isn’t all her fault.
Does this lady even hear herself?! This is absolutely absurd. She’s letting him get his needs met elsewhere, that’s an open invitation to other feelings and emotions duh. She’s completely kidding herself. No self esteem either if you’d allow this kinda BS to happen
He’s a jerk for cheating and then agreeing to go along with her plan. He should have maned up and said no I made a mistake I want to be with you. She’s probably self conscious and didn’t want to leave him for multiple reasons. He’s a douche!
I actually agree with him. I’d feel the same way. She acts like he isn’t attracted to him anymore and that would hurt anyone.
He seems like a nice guy
@@markie91724 wow yes such a nice guy for screwing other people. Saint award.
She’s out of her mind!
Who would let there husband do this! crazy!
He needs a wife omg!
This makes me physically sick. Why would any person make a stupid deal like that...they're sick!
What? This is crazy...cant even imagine living like this😫
If u have an open marriage. ..what's your problem. ...she's a doormat....she gave him a hall pass and now she's mad.....why are yall even married lady??
Seriously! What in the world? This is absurd.
She basically said that she didn't want her cash flow affected. It was about her and their businesses. SHE IS JUST AN IDIOT.
Lol she sounds crazy..sooner or later hes gonna fall for someone.
Nalini Ramnauth Exactly !
She never loved him anymore, she loved the idea of having a happy husband and the big family with the successful business and the big house. And letting him sleep with other women is a small loss than to lose it all
This whole situation is ridiculous. You're probably, eventually going to develop feelings for someone that your intimate with. AND, NEVER SETTLE.
She kind of played herself by agreeing to an arrangement that she really wasn’t ok with. Not to mention, she had to know it was a risk that he might develop feelings for someone else that he’s sleeping with.
This woman is delusional.
Thinking so much of herself to guilt trip her husband for having feelings for someone else when she’s the one that’s pushed him away yet still wants him all for herself. All for what? A bakery? Get outta town. Hopefully he’s happy with Jennifer now and she can have plenty of time to rest and make her pastries.
"Once your heart strays, that's it." But she was OK with a certain other part straying.
THAT IS ONE SICK ARRANGEMENT...
This made my head hurt
Me too
Me 3 🥴
Cheating on people may be wrong completely however much like substance abuse it can be stemming from a deeper unresolved problem.
That being said, I can't help but feel that he felt lonely in the relationship and it made him have a lapse in judgment and he slept with someone else. Physical intimacy is one of the three main pillars of having a healthy successful relationship. If she was letting him down physically and he seems to be the kind of person that wants to be physical and intimate and demonstrative then they have a bigger problem than trying to set rules for sex. I went through similar with my now ex-husband. He was never very physically demonstrative he was not affectionate and I thought I can handle it at first but once he settled in with being that way I was so lonely...
And short of having other people in our bed sexually altogether as some kind of a sick group thing I tried everything I could to make that marriage work before I finally walked away from it.
Right now we're still dealing with custody issues for our daughter but I'm still glad that I got out of the marriage.
These 2 should not be married.
She sounds like the one using him. She wants him to be her husband cus its convenient but has issues with Intimacy so expects other women to fulfill that part for her. Shes looking for a guy to just do the manly things in her life without having to tend to any of his needs. More convenient for her than him
She deserves it. How do you expect your husband to not have feelings for someone else when you don’t give him his emotional needs... 💀
You fine af
exactly @Careena you don’t communicate then its not going well
Agree 💯
I’m so confused, why is she even in a relationship???
That’s an f’ed up relationship if you ask me lol
His wife allowed it ! Smh
I call it!!!! Ryan ending up with Tanya 🤣🤣👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Seriously? 😲
This one was crazy!!!!! The one for Monday was crazier did anyone catch it !!!
I am listening to the first 3 minuets of this. Already, I feel like the wife has brought this on herself.
I Love how she says: There's bigger things at risk & she mentioned all their busines!! Um Hello, what about STDS & AIDS!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤣😂
She's not having sex with her husband ! He's living in a sexless marriage !
And don’t forget Dateline lol
Loved when she said He comes home & there's a hint of GUILT , So he plans a family day & buys me flowers.... Pretty obvious to me that he's not really into the New set up either...#jmo
Nooooow she’s worried ???she allowed this
"You can have sex with whoever you want, you just cant fall in love with that person" WTF?!?! Why get married then?
I'm sorry. But what does she expect? She allowed him to go on. He's going to get feelings towards someone else.
I LIKE KARLA 👍
In these sort of open relationships someone always gets hurt Always They should divorce and move on .
As a woman I like it at least twice a day and no men I ve been with has been able to keep up lol. This woman was an idiot to think her husband would not develop any feelings. Intimacy brings feelings with it
Ooh Ron! You did wrong.
“Oh so it’s MY fault you cheated?!”
Bitch YES it’s your fault! At least partially because you are the one who wanted an open relationship but told him to not fall in love with someone else! How the fuck else is someone supposed to take it when you value your career and other things and giving your time and energy to them but not the person you’re supposed to be in a relationship with?! This is why I am against open relationships as a whole. They make things needlessly complicated when they don’t need to be.
They weren’t in an open relationship when he initially cheated, Einstein. You have issues.
the voice of the guy
For those who think a divorce is terrible for your kids, you're wrong. My parents divorced when I was 4 years old and I survived. Sure, I remember being very confused at the time (like why is my mom unlocking a door to a new home?), but it didn't really take a huge toll on me.
This is one messed up/gross relationship 😶
What a shitshow!!!! Karla, girl. You expected him not to catch feelings??? Cmon
I don't think this one was very fair to the husband. She can't physically satisfy him, so she gives him the all clear to sleep around... SHE says "don't embarrass me" yet comes on the air and embarrasses him, and then Ryan says to the husband "we don't need to hear it from you"??? The wife is NOT the victim here, no one is, just 2 people who need to end a relationship before another one starts.
OK this is messed up of course he would keep cheating and lead to him having feelings for another person. They should have split up not given him permission to sleep around than get up set when he fall for another
She’s treating this like a business transaction & he’s looking for affection. Never gonna work.
I think he wanted her to prove she loved and was willing to fight for her man...
Just a guess.
Excellent! Yes! Karla the w#$## rules the roost and controls everything. Very sad. I know what he's going through and have been there.
Karla NEVER said " I'll try to do better". She led him on re:sex so that they could have their 2 children.
yes but if she doesnt have time for the husband then why the hell get married then it so so confusing
Whats she doing on the radio?
What exactly did she expect to eventually happen? Sex is a very intimate act.
What did she expect ¡.
I’m sorry but if you can’t take care of your husbands needs, What is he supposed to do? That’s part of the marriage. She really needs to look at herself and stop placing all blame on him. It’s really sad. Everyone deserves to feel loved and wanted.
These types of relationships never work. You kind of did this to yourself. I feel bad for the kids that they THINK they're hiding it from.
She doesn’t need to be married to anyone. If she has no sex drive, never had had one; don’t commit to a marriage vow. She broke her vows by neglecting her husband and then telling him to stray so that he doesn’t bother her with normal, natural needs-intimacy.
She played herself and opened the gate for this situation to happen. Shoulda just got a divorce, fam. 🤷🏽♂️😂💀
9:01 "Oh it's my fault that you cheated?" He must have did something wrong and he blames it on his wife that it's her fault that he cheated I'm not buying it and I don't believe in any of this at all, how dare he blame it on his wife.
Totally opened herself for that . Don't let your spouse sleep with other people period .
She is crazy
I agree will him right now. Yes he cheated and that was wrong. But she shouldn't have let him carry on. And now she surprised! This is not a healthy relationship at all. Split up.
Although cheating is wrong, I can see what he means about her not carring. She was trying to be “cool”, but the truth is there can’t be emotions when their is a physical relationship. She is fooling herself. That’s why intimacy should only be in marriage. That’s why God has that commandment.
We don’t know how their relationship was before. Maybe he was missing that connection and that’s why he cheated. They sound doomed.
4:48 what a trainwreck
They're really running out of Roses ideas...
This is so ridiculous. If this were real, they would not make the call.
You can’t forgive them hold it over a person head I’m in his side any women that cares not gone allow another to have you she should have tried to work it out but that’s not the only thing if you don’t care about your partner needs which is prolly why he cheated to begin with then you don’t care about the relationship
Ryan hated when decided to let them know she caused the embarrassment on the radio.. he cut him off
Can't believe she wants to play the victim card! She was so LAZY that she couldn't be bothered to love her husband...then he goes to find love and SHE is offended? I can't!
Is she know what is marriage?!?!?
You shouldn’t settle, but you should also do your best to meet your partner’s needs 🤷🏼♂️
Her fault period for letting him cheat.
This is strange and needlessly drawn out.
I feel she’s with her husband for the business and money and now that she feel it’s at risk now she wants to step in she’s definitely with someone else to she just not emotionally attached but you can expect a man to be the same a lot of women can be cold hearted specially when money involves I think she’s controlling and real her way or the high way she says hes changing I think she doesn’t care for her family she just in it for the money and lifestyle she don’t have feelings for him she’s tranna make him the blame
I just fell in love with karla....
She singed a prenup that’s why she doesent wanna divorce him she does not want to loose that money
Sounds like she gave up on their marriage long before he cheated. She cared about her family and image. Not her marriage.
Bruhhh. Where is her dignity? I don’t know how I feel about this one🍿👀
This lady is a nut! What did you expect to happen he will fall in love eventually with someone else. She does not love this man at all she just enjoys the life that comes with her marriage to him
This woman is a nut case. She deserves everything she gets.
They can have his body but not his heart wahahahhaa!! This woman shouldn’t get married to anybody.
He wants his cake and eat it too.
She told him it’s cool then used it to paint a bad picture of em
No girl should ever have to put up with this, I feel so bad for her...
@Oceaneyes 805 "You can't blame the guy" gtfo here and go live in your fairytale world. Just cause he gets a pass doesn't mean you have to go through with it. You sound like you have no common sense just like her husband. "Oh it's okay to do because she said so" Grow up and have some morals especially when theirs kids involve.
@Oceaneyes 805 Now go run a lap
@@Freddyfrm18 Haha. You realize telling someone it's okay for them to do something and then getting mad and blaming them when they choose to do it is emotionally manipulative, right?
😂😂
Are you really kidding me, AN OPEN MARRIAGE. They never work and her husband proves it. Give him the opportunity and he’s going to cheat. A partner that gets to have sex once he’ll have sex again and again until a new relationship comes. If she doesn’t have the want she should get a divorce and be do with. This woman is living in a dream world. If it’s so open why doesn’t she start screwing around and she how her husband feels?
Honestly, I give props to this woman. Sex isnt everything in a relationship and I know it goes against most of our sensibilities a relationship is so much more than 5 min of bliss. Allowing her husband freedom in this area pales in comparison to keeping her family together.
I understand open relationships - not my thing, but I dont judge and I understand. What I DONT understand, is when people have an open marriage. Like WTF? You CONSUMMATE the marriage with sex, thats one of the tenants that its ONLY you two. Not you, bob fred and sarah lol. "But I love my wife / husband" Well, you can love / have a main partner with someone and open relationship and NOT get married. I mean, how does that work?
Hey, bob, where's your wife?
Oh shes bangin Ron right now.
WTF?
Cheating is never okay but when you don't have sex with your husband... What do you expect him to do???
This woman is pathetic! If her husband loved her he wouldn't be cheating on her!
WTF - he gets to sleep around within their 'friends circle?' Whatever else their agreement entails, that's just fucking stupid. She should have bitten the bullet and divorced him when he cheated - not made a deal. Oh, he got upset that she LET him cheat? He didn't have to. This is a big "Who cares?" This is like a super bad sitcom idea.
It seems the men are always wrong & the women are coddled. Women need to start holding some accountability
Are you freaking serious SMDH
This is crazy
this woman is seriously stupid, she let her husband to cheat but her only rules is "ok but don't fall in love just sleep with her " if u let ur husband to cheat then don't complain , in love or not in love it doesn;t matter u let ur husband to cheat. She is married and loyal to their businesses. Let ur husband go let him be happy with his real relationship that he wants.
I'm sorry but she did that to herself first off....secondly I'd be sick to my stomach...that's risky and nasty
She’s awesome more women should be like her it’s 2019...let the man get his physical needs while still married that’s how it should be...I’ll be yours just let me get mine when I want 😎 I talked to woman that said her and her husband was sexuality compatible...clearly they’re not sexually compatible
Jus about every man's dream right 😏 lol
this is her fault😭
I agree with her my wife can't keep up with my sexual apatite I don't cheat I love my wife but what can I do
My wife and I have sex like once every 2 to 3 years. I've never cheated, but my hand is my only friend. It's brutal (and lonely) and I wanna cry whenever I hear someone is in a sexless marraige cause they only do it once a week when I would give my left lung for once a month😥
Wtf ...DIVORCE
A bad guy got away with it because she could't be a wife. I can hire a nanny to take care of kids, ONLY a wife can take care of them growing up and me sexually. IF i was doing it, hell ANYONE doing it with whoever... OVER time one of them is GOING to push all the right buttons and wife is gone.
She’s lost her mind! They don’t belong together! Who lets her husband sleep with other women.
Horrible guys get a divorce 😫😡😱 we do it everyday after showering👍no kids yet😳
😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 this what happens when have a open marriage
This woman needs medicated
Fake news...
They have multiple business, children and a household to take care of. I get her exhaustion. Stress and exhaustion is probably the number one killer of sexual desire. Sounds like he has a lot of free time for romancing and falling in love with Jennifer. Does his wife get time for herself? So she can decompress? This isn’t all her fault.
Seriously this is a joke. If I were her husband, I would have bailed for sure!!!
Does this lady even hear herself?! This is absolutely absurd. She’s letting him get his needs met elsewhere, that’s an open invitation to other feelings and emotions duh. She’s completely kidding herself. No self esteem either if you’d allow this kinda BS to happen
Just as I always say , girls who named Karla with a K is kinda spesh in a not so good way .
She gets what she deserves minutes in...smh
This is just wrong...on so many levels 🤦♀️
😂
He’s a jerk for cheating and then agreeing to go along with her plan. He should have maned up and said no I made a mistake I want to be with you. She’s probably self conscious and didn’t want to leave him for multiple reasons. He’s a douche!