The first breakup is never a break up we feel like we need them back.The second breakup is usually a wake up call and this is the time we move on completely and never wanna look back
My personal opinion was that 1)he is too young and he still wants to play around just as you said 2)you Need someone who is a little older and is probably stable financially 3)someone who surprises you *positively* the moment you never expected
My ex broke up with me his reason was he was tired of the relationship. I was so broken and cried endlessly. After two months he wanted us to get back. I said no. I feel so happy without him. He deleted my contact and now he is trying to get it but with no success. You can break but you can't break beyond repair. You will always heal.
I don’t think people know your other side , you should do more videos like this like take time to talk ... you sound very smart and switched on something I must admit I didn’t know or think ... your so ambitious Vera ... very Strong Woman ... You deserve A good Guy
Otile umetuangusha kama machali u don't ask a lady for cash with a stone face boss heri ungesema u r having cancer...........Otile this was an opportunity but to be happy but Mercedes confused you
Can we just take the time to appreciate her diction? I've watched her interviews before but girl here be expressing herself with such eloquence...I'm floored.
I was also dating a guy lower than me and wanted to use me for cash and elevate himself up. Thank you Vera for speaking up because men always stereotype us that we just want them for money! They think a woman above them can never date them and if they do its most probably that we just want sex or they think we are lonely. And look at you, you humbled yourself and dated him for who he is. ASANTE sana dada!
Thank God I'm getting lessons on how to nurture my daughter and son,whom we are suffering a lot trying to get back in track after my baby daddy really pulled me down financially.to an extend of me n my kids starting again life allover in the streets....vee wanipa nguvu.
It's not otile alone nowadays most men request for Money in relationship, i hate it too when a man request money from a lady. Sorry vera forget about him. Personally nimewai pitia haya na niliwachwa broke i thank God He is faithful. Wangu alijua nimebaki broke na akapotea
I honestly love u Vera... U deserve someone better than him... Umefanya hako kamtu kakuwe famous alafu hakana hata asante... Nkt. Wish I can meet u personally n tell u he is not ur type
Preach it Vera! Men have become so lazy! All they do is ask for money! Am not in the country and I used to date this guy , back in Kenya, all he did was ask for money, I don't know he is doing road Trip, I don't know he is in a club and he overwent on bill, all these Petty asking for money, and just like you, if I don't come through, he goes quiet, all said and done☺️ I got the man of my dreams and getting married soon Love from Chicago!!!!
rehema khamis Ohhh really!! You’ve heard men say that their women should provide for them as well? Luckily I don’t associate with men of that caliber. I don’t think I could stand to listen to such rubbish.
Sugar Hartley some men don’t like leeches too. As women we should be independent and if you have a man. Talk about funds and how you guys will share responsibilities. Most relationships thrive because of that simple communication and sharing duties.
relationship is a two way traffic. ya all suppose to be building each other and supporting each other. anything a part from that is the reason relationships hardly last these days. its all about whats in for me instead of whats in for us.
the reason why they ask for money is what matters, if he doesnt want to work but beg for money, something is wrong somewhere.... same goes for ladies as well
It hurts when people try taking advantage of you,I'm going through it, I'm a very good hearted person but even my friends took advantage of me.it even Got me suicidal but thank God I'm coping.no friends no relationship just me and God
The main issue with this relationship is Otile is a boy and Vera is a Woman,it can never work it will always be cat and mouse games...Vera get u a Man who can match your level of maturity not this boys who don’t know the difference between a yam and a cassava 🙄🙄
Trust me Vee you deserve someone better..yur such a classy lady and yu deserve someone who will take care of you instead of just asking for money everytime.. #BOOT HIM FOR GOOD!!!
I agree Men who ask for cash from ladies are such a turn off.. vee baby we gotchu..😘 most of us didn't know him as a musician until you introduced him to us.. you will be better without him♥️♥️ and we'll still be here to support you♥️ #fanlove
You are one of the bravest person I know at the moment. Clearly, he didn't have good intentions. Plus life is too short to give 1 person so many chances. Keep doing you, and stay happy 💓
Woow!! feels like you were dating my ex only that he was borrowing 2k not 500k😂. and he still cheated on me btw 😂. I was devastated. Ladies don't baby a man let a man be a man especially if thats the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with. coz trust me he will still cheat on you or worse.. Vee I'm so proud of you don't look back😘
Hold up! Did you just say your watch costs more than the car (shhhaaadeeee)😂.... I must say you really know how to serve TEA! ☕😂...His loss anyway sis!.
You deserve 10 times better, he is immature, your beautiful, successful and truly a Gem, why should you come through for someone who has never come through for you, move on you will find love elsewhere and be truly happy. inshallah God bless you sweetheart and looking forward to more content.
I don't care about the negativity others may have on you Vee but you truly a boss lady....big up mwaaah..As for Otile men don't allow women to know when they're broke,.
O.B= Original Broke___That is mediocracy...Otile unatuangusha bana. mimi ningekuwa wewe naezabehave mbaya makosa...kupendwa na watu kama Vera hii nairobi ni favour maze.
Honestly how does a man ask you for that amount of money for a car? Can't people learn to earn their own money to spend on the things they want Vera i support you 💯
If there's something we pray for daily. God give us Veras of this world. Who in the world shows you so much care? They are therr but Vera you really are a nice person. Alafu hiyo part ya my watch costs more than his dream car🤣🤣😂
Bby gal don't be fooled....I know you are smart ...you deserve better than that go go go.live your life to the fullest I admires you every day I love you Vera
My dear, you deserve better. He was looking for a woman to outsmart but instead found one who outsmarted him. Some men have lost their dignity. Lady Vera, remain smart as always. Mr. Right will come when the time is right by God's grace. Be blessed
queen vee i think u talkinh on behalf on soo many women stay blessed hun cause i know u opened someones eyes thru this video cause toxic r-ship are real
you are a hardworking lady and will fall victim of such ticks, which doesn't make you different...even if a socialite, you have feelings like any other gal...but we wish you the best, ur a role model to many
I work with a lot of couples going through divorce. Reconciliation and stuff but your scenario is really interesting. It's was not a relationship, not even a partnership. And I'm not gonna sit here and pretend to figure it out. I just saw you switch from being a financial advisor to a relationship expert etc etc. And really you've over- explained yourself, that I found myself drifting at some point. And I mean this very sincerely, I'm not here to mock you or go on an advisory spin on how you should live your life. I'll only say this- Vera you DO NOT OWE ANYONE ANY EXPLANATION of how you chose to live your life, or who's in it, or whom you had a one night stand with or who you broke up with etc etc. Nobody! That said some East Africans would concur that we kinda miss the mysterious Vera. The Vera who nobody really knew about and you'd find yourself scavenging through the internet to find out what's this lady upto nowadays. Frankly speaking exposing yourself to people like this will leave you vulnerable. I have some Lunje blood and I feel like I'm speaking to a sister when I say that you HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU GAL. Focus on your long-term goals. You are one of the few Kenyans who have managed to keep "fans" so to say... We might not know what you're going through but we really don't need to know. Don't air your personal issues in public not even whem someone wants to lie about things that involve you. At the end of the day it's gonna be your word against theirs. And your "fans" don't really care about that... Trust me you know as well as I know what they really care about. You have a platform now, use it wisely. Keep your private life away from your public life. You're are a businesswoman, maximize on that, emerce yourself in it fully. Try your hand at every opportunity you come accross. These chances come only once in a lifetime. Be yourself, most of all Be happy!
Nikama drama nikama video. Mlirudiana mkanipea morale ya kusamehe ex sasa mumeharibu mood yangu. I have refreshed my mind and am now single.. officially. Acha niregain Virginity by 2025 ntaingia market tena..hehee
This guyz are doing business....you can see how she want us to click on her bio....she want more views....she will earn from this.....another things she will get more followers on ig.....they need attention.....wait and see their next step....kurudiana
@@nancysunday2665 Hahaa,,,,, i understand it's ShowBiz.....Business lazima. Ni vle nmeona watu wana-symphathize naye kwa comments nikaona nisichange mtindo niandike anything. But their strategy is really working, today i have subscribed to her channel and made the first comment. Kwa channel ya Dreamland Empire and Otile na mimi ni mwenyeji since 2015 and 2016 respectively. She is benefiting from me courtesy of #Otile..hahaa
Giving the whole story is an extra thing, for me i will always understand a girl child first because we sometimes go thro alot we cannot even talk about.
Nampenda sana Vera jaman....embu kaa urelax kwanza coz y usaidie mtu then aje akutangaze vibaya?.Naomba nikuombe dada Vera(naomba uzae hata mtoto mmoja jaman...mi napenda kwa stage uliyofika ungeitwa hata mama fulan.Thanks
Before you attach as temporary things as "instagram" to parts of your family, ask yourself ukikufa nani atakuzika. Your instagram following is not a sure bet. Just saying kuzikwa as an example, think illness, debt, good times, bad times. Who's there for you? Share your good and bad times with them. Social networks is a plus. But what is your REAL foundation? All said, watching this and where it goes, love the new Vera, love the artistic Otile! Wishing you all the best, together or apart.
Vera just know your someone we look up to.Never go down to any human being please!. And anytime u feel weak remember the 1m woman who follow u and see you as their queen.
You did the right thing btw...if he wanted the car he should have worked for it...nway vee...i suggest that when you meet someone keep it to yourself...dont publicize it waaay too much.love you girl
who else is watching this almost 3 years later and Vera is in love again, happily married and pregnant! so happy for you Vera.
Who else was pausing the video to read the convos they had?😌😂😂
Eddie Brook haaa I have to pause to get the messages Queen Vee
Hahaha guilty
Eddie Brook me ofcourse 😂😂😂😂
But of course .... 😂
😂😂😂
😂😂niko full time job hapa... 👉👉perusing comments like nobody’s biz... who else watching +reading comments 😂😂😂😂
Tupo wengi.
Meeeee
Clinto 254 me
I love you Vera..your a nice gal...very smart gal..no 3rd chance
Nikama Otile aliconfuse Sidika na Saidika
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂cheeeeiiiii
😂😂😂😂
@DJ B254 with the same person?
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 u deserve a bottle for that
Am I the only South African whose obsessed with Vera 😭..the level of maturity🙌🏽 you are goals my lady and you inspire me so much.
Girl... you the only one, am obsessed with Vera Sidika. She inspires me, I see my self in her business level in the couple of years🤗
She is such a genuine, smart, mature and hard working woman ❤
No she is my role model ...such a beautiful woman
who else had their eyes widely open after pausing the video to read the conversation
The first breakup is never a break up we feel like we need them back.The second breakup is usually a wake up call and this is the time we move on completely and never wanna look back
Say this again
My personal opinion was that
1)he is too young and he still wants to play around just as you said
2)you Need someone who is a little older and is probably stable financially
3)someone who surprises you *positively* the moment you never expected
Otile is here reading the comments I can smell him😂😂😂😂😂
i smell him too😂😂
HEHEHE
😂😂😂
😂😂😂pia mimi na munusa sana
👃
😂 😂 😂 I love KENYA
My ex broke up with me his reason was he was tired of the relationship. I was so broken and cried endlessly. After two months he wanted us to get back. I said no. I feel so happy without him. He deleted my contact and now he is trying to get it but with no success. You can break but you can't break beyond repair. You will always heal.
take more time find yourself in God, and a man who truly want to build a legacy with you will have to deal with God to find you. cheers dear
I'm single bae
pray for the right one my friend
They always want to come back
Aki na tunapenda Mushene!! 45k views within 10 hours, no wonder tukona deni China. We are too idle😂😂
Ukweli😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Kabisa
😂😂😂😂 ii nayo ni ukweli
Ken Tembe 🤣🤣🤣🤣waa
Who else tried to zoom the conversation between them after Pausing the video 😂😂😂....?🙋
true hawa wako na mchezooooooooooooooooooo
@@kipkemoijumah6129 yeah 😂😂😂 but Vera is strong
umul_kheir tazahun ..i even screen shot it
@@mercyzephania5507 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Me
Watu wa Facebook wakipata hii udaku kesho hawatalaa ... meanwhile wadakuree hit like if you saw this break up season 2 coming 🤣🤣
Some people aren't looking for love these days, they are just looking for help. Period!!!
:-)
i love her attitude very clean and packed....... and the English mmmhh on point...such a strong woman, nakupenda bure.
I don’t think people know your other side , you should do more videos like this like take time to talk ... you sound very smart and switched on something I must admit I didn’t know or think ... your so ambitious Vera ... very Strong Woman ... You deserve A good Guy
Vera is totally different from how people judge her ..I love you girl
I think so too
Thats true
leah wangeci good comment
She's such a beautiful soul. I love her😍
Otile umetuangusha kama machali u don't ask a lady for cash with a stone face boss heri ungesema u r having cancer...........Otile this was an opportunity but to be happy but Mercedes confused you
Kwa kweli ametuangusha
😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂
Kevin Omondi 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kevin Omondi 😂😂😂😂😂😂 aty cancer
one thing I love so much about you is your maturity, the way you argue out things and the fact that ur not selfish,among women ur my role model...
The way otile kept on writing 'cush' then Vera replies with 'cAsh' that caps😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂yeah right
Loaded but foolish!
Hahaha
😂😂😂😂 you got sharp eyes sha
😂😂😂😂
Can we just take the time to appreciate her diction? I've watched her interviews before but girl here be expressing herself with such eloquence...I'm floored.
GOOD THING YOU COMMUNICATED .I respect you for being honest about that issue.
Ati OB aliconfuse sidika na saidika😂😂...Don't look back cus we all love you
Hehehe
Hahaa😂😂😂 nkt aki
Ladies, You are not obligated to give money to anyone just coz you are rolling in the hay ..
Vera, you dodged a bullet
everlyne karingithi she sure did..i wonder whats up with men nowadays..
Finally a Queen who is honest about her age. Vee you are the most real.
I was also dating a guy lower than me and wanted to use me for cash and elevate himself up. Thank you Vera for speaking up because men always stereotype us that we just want them for money! They think a woman above them can never date them and if they do its most probably that we just want sex or they think we are lonely. And look at you, you humbled yourself and dated him for who he is. ASANTE sana dada!
Vera is a fluent and wise strong woman who is so underrated. We really don't understand someone until you are in their situation.
By the way plz next time do a video with Victor pleaseeeeeeeee!!!! The vibe is woow , feels like flying to Kenya in no minute😂
Thank God I'm getting lessons on how to nurture my daughter and son,whom we are suffering a lot trying to get back in track after my baby daddy really pulled me down financially.to an extend of me n my kids starting again life allover in the streets....vee wanipa nguvu.
Who else feels like Vera deserves a man like those cute and rich NBA players?
@Noreen Khakayi, en what do you deserve ? your comment reflects self esteem problem..
@Caleb Okola😂😂😂😂waaah😂😂
@@Thechamp254 Much more. Please re read my comment. I didnt say I deserve less. No one deserves less in this universe
@@Thechamp254 i dont bash women but gotta agree with you on this!!
Noreen Khakayi but this NBA players like light skinned or black.... She's fake light skin
It's not otile alone nowadays most men request for Money in relationship, i hate it too when a man request money from a lady. Sorry vera forget about him. Personally nimewai pitia haya na niliwachwa broke i thank God He is faithful. Wangu alijua nimebaki broke na akapotea
Thanks vera finally you spoken it. I thought i was also the only one who feel turned off when I date someone who ask me for money. It's disgusting
Am shocked!!! kumbe Vera ako a brain hivi i don't judge people but i think she is right she has proof and evidence. Now waiting for the baby.
Vera’s pettiness is a whole mood. He wrote cush and she replied with cAsh! 😂😂😂😂
I honestly love u Vera... U deserve someone better than him... Umefanya hako kamtu kakuwe famous alafu hakana hata asante... Nkt. Wish I can meet u personally n tell u he is not ur type
love you vera
She has said what most women in this kind of relationships are afraid to say. Yass gal!!
Girl you are still the wisest human I follow. You did the right thing. We still love you.
Otile is the kind of guy who asked for more writing sheet in an exam😆😆
😂😂😂😂noma😂😂😂
Maxiel ...
Nailed it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
You do not need him. many women have gone through this, thanks for voicing it up.
You go girl....love your strength n honesty baibe gal.you are a wise woman.I love you moooooore!!!!
Preach it Vera! Men have become so lazy! All they do is ask for money! Am not in the country and I used to date this guy , back in Kenya, all he did was ask for money, I don't know he is doing road Trip, I don't know he is in a club and he overwent on bill, all these Petty asking for money, and just like you, if I don't come through, he goes quiet, all said and done☺️ I got the man of my dreams and getting married soon
Love from Chicago!!!!
I wanna meet you Esther.
This boss lady right here deserves more than people like otile
Vera ni mtu cul tu sana. Sijui why people don't like her.... My queen i love u to the moon and back ❤❤❤❤maupendo
I think tu ni wivu
No matter how much money you have, your man should never ask you for it. He should be a provider not a leech! You deserve better
Exactly , his trash
Sugar Hartley there is a new breed of shameless men who have no problem wasting a woman’s time and living off her.
Sugar Hartley That’s what men say about women too sweets.
rehema khamis Ohhh really!! You’ve heard men say that their women should provide for them as well? Luckily I don’t associate with men of that caliber. I don’t think I could stand to listen to such rubbish.
Sugar Hartley some men don’t like leeches too. As women we should be independent and if you have a man. Talk about funds and how you guys will share responsibilities. Most relationships thrive because of that simple communication and sharing duties.
Men asking for money from women is a serious turn off, plus i also never understand how people take loans to buy a car 💁
Yvonne Wanjiku it’s called leaving wayyyyy out of one’s means. It’s just a sense of misplaced priorities. Those people are usually very entitled
Me too
relationship is a two way traffic. ya all suppose to be building each other and supporting each other. anything a part from that is the reason relationships hardly last these days. its all about whats in for me instead of whats in for us.
the reason why they ask for money is what matters, if he doesnt want to work but beg for money, something is wrong somewhere.... same goes for ladies as well
Men of this generation have no shame. I actually speak from experience. There men out there who are actually gold diggers.
It hurts when people try taking advantage of you,I'm going through it, I'm a very good hearted person but even my friends took advantage of me.it even Got me suicidal but thank God I'm coping.no friends no relationship just me and God
The main issue with this relationship is Otile is a boy and Vera is a Woman,it can never work it will always be cat and mouse games...Vera get u a Man who can match your level of maturity not this boys who don’t know the difference between a yam and a cassava 🙄🙄
TRUTH 105% . Well elaborated. we support your informed decision. hakuna kulea KUPE.
Vera you are a very smart lady.Haters are just jealous of you.wacha waseme usiku watalala...go girl.
Trust me Vee you deserve someone better..yur such a classy lady and yu deserve someone who will take care of you instead of just asking for money everytime..
#BOOT HIM FOR GOOD!!!
He spells "cush" instead of "cash".. girrrrrl run for your life
HAHHAHHHHH guess was not the only one who noticed that afterall
@ Vera kept replying “cAsh” na bado huyu Boy hashikii smh
+Mommy Mom She was grammar shaming him and he wasn't even 'getting it'. Lol!
Runnnnn..biggest redflag..woi
Staff instead of stuff😂
I agree Men who ask for cash from ladies are such a turn off.. vee baby we gotchu..😘 most of us didn't know him as a musician until you introduced him to us.. you will be better without him♥️♥️ and we'll still be here to support you♥️
#fanlove
You are one of the bravest person I know at the moment.
Clearly, he didn't have good intentions. Plus life is too short to give 1 person so many chances. Keep doing you, and stay happy 💓
I believe your story gal and I find it so childish of him to release a song after every break up!!!Gaaal you need a man not a boy.
even thouh,hi is still earning
Woow!! feels like you were dating my ex only that he was borrowing 2k not 500k😂. and he still cheated on me btw 😂. I was devastated. Ladies don't baby a man let a man be a man especially if thats the person you wanna spend the rest of your life with. coz trust me he will still cheat on you or worse.. Vee I'm so proud of you don't look back😘
Yessssss👏👏👏👏
Maeve Sherryl ❤❤❤
In a relationship just take care of yourself, but always be broke. They can't borrow from a broke woman. Let them hustle from their boys
I can relate sis wah!😂
Na i thought ni mm tu nliombwa dooh ikatumiwa kuspoil the other
Wanaume kujeni nyuma ya hema...yaani upatane na mrembo kama Vera na uombe pesa...?saaitani.......
Hahaha
Julius Mwaura mannerless!!
Govan Sossion mwanaume ni pesa
Sharon Awino tena sana
Aibu bwana 😂😂
Beauty and Brains...I admire you baby gal and pray that a man who will live you and value you will Come into your life.You deserve it...
Hold up! Did you just say your watch costs more than the car (shhhaaadeeee)😂.... I must say you really know how to serve TEA! ☕😂...His loss anyway sis!.
You deserve 10 times better, he is immature, your beautiful, successful and truly a Gem, why should you come through for someone who has never come through for you, move on you will find love elsewhere and be truly happy. inshallah God bless you sweetheart and looking forward to more content.
I don't care about the negativity others may have on you Vee but you truly a boss lady....big up mwaaah..As for Otile men don't allow women to know when they're broke,.
The part where she said
"Men think we can't live with out
Them" ..at that moment I press that subscribe button 😂
Juz ger out of here 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
Hahahahaha n she said the truth
You're the female version of OTILE😏 cush for cash, you here with " with out" ...ts without😏
@@ading9710 its true though they think we can't live without them lol
@@umumashrecipe3843 they shiit😊
I love you woman😘 Evidence+transparency=No kujitetea na wimbo 😁😁 Current Relationships need real people not boys.
A real man does not break up with you through a Text
Siiissss, he writes cash as cush!!??!!! You definitely deserve better😅😅😅😅
True
@@kiirithio right!!?😂😂😂😂😂😂that sent me rolling on the floor
Lmao
Vee kept correcting him with cAsh
thought he ment weed the whole time... lmao
Mi love Vera she's very honest, kind, smart and beautiful at the same time....... Umefanya vizuri anapenda slope
the way you talk, I can tell you are very intelligent.....am sure you will find a good man who will love
you unconditionally
Name a smarter person than vee..i will wait👏
The Timbuktu part kilt me tho🤣
Every time a receipt poped up... I had to stop the video and read the entire thing
hahaha attention to details...attention to details is key.lol
Nakupendaga sababu upo humble sana japo unapesa saana ila una amini dunia tunapita ndio maana unaakili Sana Vera much love from Burundi ♥🔥♥😍 😘
O.B= Original Broke___That is mediocracy...Otile unatuangusha bana. mimi ningekuwa wewe naezabehave mbaya makosa...kupendwa na watu kama Vera hii nairobi ni favour maze.
Dj Tuff_TheWorldIcon 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Simp
more like ORIGINALLY BROKE 😂
Ladies STOP ignoring red flags!!!!!
Honestly how does a man ask you for that amount of money for a car?
Can't people learn to earn their own money to spend on the things they want
Vera i support you 💯
He is not even a man enough.... Ghai those messages 😂😂😂 Nilikuwa naandikiwa na tu X twa high school......
He is a bitch i mean who does that.
Can’t wait for the relationship experts wa pale kilimani, Meanwhile vera you deserve better honey!!Stay woke
Tupatane uko
This lady is so beautiful and she's nothing like what the social media making her look like... Girl u underated and you deserve a better person 😍😍😍
Don't worry girl... You will get a man who won't take you for granted.. Much love veebaby
If there's something we pray for daily. God give us Veras of this world.
Who in the world shows you so much care? They are therr but Vera you really are a nice person.
Alafu hiyo part ya my watch costs more than his dream car🤣🤣😂
Take up your cross and follow Jesus...He is the way the truth and the life...
You too because your not perfect!!!!
Vee your savage.. Don't be nobody's mama out here.. Your a queen and you deserve a King.
Bby gal don't be fooled....I know you are smart ...you deserve better than that go go go.live your life to the fullest I admires you every day I love you Vera
These are the kind of relationships I decided never to stay in,wastage of time with wrong people,.thumps up bbygal vere
Vera dear I really learn a lot from n we kinda view life the same way....I truly support your decision n yes otile is a golddigger kabisa kabisa
on my side, VERA mi sitaki magari, niishi poa tu 😂😂😂 wangapi tuko Lini moja, piga like tusonge
MILL DEE 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
MILL DEE 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ligi moja ama lini moja which is which?
Clinton Palmer line moja,
Emily Robi yoh niambie 😂😂😂
My dear, you deserve better. He was looking for a woman to outsmart but instead found one who outsmarted him. Some men have lost their dignity. Lady Vera, remain smart as always. Mr. Right will come when the time is right by God's grace. Be blessed
queen vee i think u talkinh on behalf on soo many women stay blessed hun cause i know u opened someones eyes thru this video cause toxic r-ship are real
you are a hardworking lady and will fall victim of such ticks, which doesn't make you different...even if a socialite, you have feelings like any other gal...but we wish you the best, ur a role model to many
I work with a lot of couples going through divorce. Reconciliation and stuff but your scenario is really interesting. It's was not a relationship, not even a partnership. And I'm not gonna sit here and pretend to figure it out. I just saw you switch from being a financial advisor to a relationship expert etc etc. And really you've over- explained yourself, that I found myself drifting at some point. And I mean this very sincerely, I'm not here to mock you or go on an advisory spin on how you should live your life. I'll only say this- Vera you DO NOT OWE ANYONE ANY EXPLANATION of how you chose to live your life, or who's in it, or whom you had a one night stand with or who you broke up with etc etc. Nobody! That said some East Africans would concur that we kinda miss the mysterious Vera. The Vera who nobody really knew about and you'd find yourself scavenging through the internet to find out what's this lady upto nowadays. Frankly speaking exposing yourself to people like this will leave you vulnerable. I have some Lunje blood and I feel like I'm speaking to a sister when I say that you HAVE A WHOLE LIFE AHEAD OF YOU GAL. Focus on your long-term goals. You are one of the few Kenyans who have managed to keep "fans" so to say... We might not know what you're going through but we really don't need to know. Don't air your personal issues in public not even whem someone wants to lie about things that involve you. At the end of the day it's gonna be your word against theirs. And your "fans" don't really care about that... Trust me you know as well as I know what they really care about. You have a platform now, use it wisely. Keep your private life away from your public life. You're are a businesswoman, maximize on that, emerce yourself in it fully. Try your hand at every opportunity you come accross. These chances come only once in a lifetime. Be yourself, most of all Be happy!
Nikama drama nikama video. Mlirudiana mkanipea morale ya kusamehe ex sasa mumeharibu mood yangu. I have refreshed my mind and am now single.. officially. Acha niregain Virginity by 2025 ntaingia market tena..hehee
This guyz are doing business....you can see how she want us to click on her bio....she want more views....she will earn from this.....another things she will get more followers on ig.....they need attention.....wait and see their next step....kurudiana
@@nancysunday2665 Hahaa,,,,, i understand it's ShowBiz.....Business lazima. Ni vle nmeona watu wana-symphathize naye kwa comments nikaona nisichange mtindo niandike anything. But their strategy is really working, today i have subscribed to her channel and made the first comment. Kwa channel ya Dreamland Empire and Otile na mimi ni mwenyeji since 2015 and 2016 respectively. She is benefiting from me courtesy of #Otile..hahaa
So where are we applying for the Boyfriend position?
Tuma 5000 kwa hii number
Vera why lakini? You shouldn’t say the reason why you guys broke up. That’s so embarrassing
Go giiiiirl 😍😍doesn't matter who you date but we as Instagram in-laws just wanna see our girl happy❤❤❤❤ I love you too much 💋
Wooooiiii At I cUsh! Wanaume hawana aibu hadi musician mkubwa hivyo anaomba had I 1k heheehe cheeeoooo! Vera you too cute for this mediocrity
Giving the whole story is an extra thing, for me i will always understand a girl child first because we sometimes go thro alot we cannot even talk about.
its not easy being a man either
Nampenda sana Vera jaman....embu kaa urelax kwanza coz y usaidie mtu then aje akutangaze vibaya?.Naomba nikuombe dada Vera(naomba uzae hata mtoto mmoja jaman...mi napenda kwa stage uliyofika ungeitwa hata mama fulan.Thanks
I can't wait to see the song Otile is gonna come up with to try and justify this....Im really disappointed #Otile....Vera you smart...
Angalia IG yake
@@newtonmuthuri3752 Right away
Cessy Achieng ametoa inaitwa sinanga pesa 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Sasa Otile ataambia nini watu
Mutaniacha mimi sitaki kukufa ju ya kicheko..😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅HAta sitasoma comments hii imenitosha😅😅😅
Sam Chris Yes.true.very true.Luos have no brained ni mkia tu! Akili yenye a luhya lady has..you can't C ompaire to a Luo man!
@@berryperry2930 you are the most stupid creature I've ever heard...ata kukuita binadamu itakuwa aibu.....
Sexy lady What is kikuyu?Kikuyu ni nini?kikuyu ndio umeona? Only God fearing kikuyus are humans .
@@berryperry2930 so you hate Otile coz he's a luo!!!???.... kumbe you are a tribal bigot!!!???...Shame on you.
Before you attach as temporary things as "instagram" to parts of your family, ask yourself ukikufa nani atakuzika. Your instagram following is not a sure bet. Just saying kuzikwa as an example, think illness, debt, good times, bad times. Who's there for you? Share your good and bad times with them. Social networks is a plus. But what is your REAL foundation?
All said, watching this and where it goes, love the new Vera, love the artistic Otile! Wishing you all the best, together or apart.
Vera just know your someone we look up to.Never go down to any human being please!. And anytime u feel weak remember the 1m woman who follow u and see you as their queen.
Naya Faiza
@@rukiaabdullahi5433 hhhhhhh rukyyyyyyyy my love
Iwaran Cadey
Kumbe ile turn off otile alikuwa anasema ilikuwa kunyimwa pesa😵😵
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You're le fool 🤣🤣🤣
You did the right thing btw...if he wanted the car he should have worked for it...nway vee...i suggest that when you meet someone keep it to yourself...dont publicize it waaay too much.love you girl
Thumps up vera
He is a little boy, even his English is still growing..
True I hate men who ask for money from women isaa thru
😆😆😆😆😆 "cush", "The car is on SELL...", "give me some PETTY cush" 😂😂😂😂😂😂