I thought the same thing. In what universe does a woman only have their kids 2 days a week? They didn't call that out in the conversation & it hit me like a truck!!
I consider myself a single parent and I only have my kid 2 days a week during the school year and it varies during the summer. Crazy is women calling themselves a single parent and not being single.
As a man with children, I have dated women with kids and when I refuse to pull resources together and don’t wanna live with them, they exit stage left. I was born at night but not last night
100%! These hypocrites don't want you sharing your resources with your OWN children! It's greed pure and simple. Baby mamma drama doesn't bother them, just as long it doesn't cost them 🤑
It's called Machiavellianism. Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy. This is why only modern women are notoriously known to severely lack a moral compass, no humility, never take accountability and often gaslighting playing victim. The dark Triad personality traits have became disgustingly common among women due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count. Women were never biologically designed to sleep around, they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30, and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner. This is why modern women have a grandiose ego and narcissistic superiority complex. You witness it everyday women get a degree and develop that superiority complex all of a sudden they think they are settling even when their man/boyfriend paid for their education. Have you also noticed women don't ever see themselves as broke bum losers they instead feel they are dating the wrong men. Due to machiavellianism and Solipsism being in women's nature they Rarely ever hold each other accountable instead they validate and yasslight each. We literally have the worst generation of women. The most promiscuous women ever with 30 to 40% DNA paternity fraud, women cheat at rate of 50% and 43% of women have stds like herpes
This is facts. They try to put you on the plans of moving in or buying a house with them soon after you make it official. Them having control over your resources is where it all starts and ends.
Am I tripping, or is she the same exact person who had said herself FIRST that she won't date a single dad, but then when the man proceeds to explain why he won't date a single mom, it's a problem???
I’m glad someone else noticed it.? Her calming her own point she made in the beginning “pure stupidity” is so ironic bc she began the show talking about how she wouldn’t date a single dad bc of his drama. The contradiction is crazy. Putting your kids above your man is exactly what you are doing and you don’t realize ain’t slow him to lead the family. Shameful that she doesn’t realize it
The fact that she explained why no one dates a single parent and dismantled her own argument of “not having drama” but doesn’t see the double standard is staggering
@abwexposed9890 Naw, it's not that. These women really do believe they are better than the average man. They really do believe they "deserve" a man making $200k/yr with no kids while they have two kids, two baby daddies, and public assistance. They get offended when you suggest they should maybe date a man with two kids making $60k/yr.
“I have nothing to offer, I am loud, combative, used spiritually and physically, and I’m bringing another man’s offspring with me. Why does no one want me? This must be waycism”
Was just thinking that. She basically only learned how to talk back to men. Because somebody hurt her. Or she was already like this. That's why the BD left. Lol
Every woman knows why she is a single parent they just dont want to own up to the truth, but they can tell a man everything thats wrong with u but can't take accountability. Why are u a single parent
Scratch the spirituality part. She has no spirit- the world took it. Most women POSE as religious, virtuous women, but are straight Jezebels. That's the consequence of following what sounds good instead of what's real.
I'm lost with her annoyance because she mentioned from the beginning that she doesn't want to date a man with kids so I don't get mad if a man doesn't wanna date her because she has kids. Like it's fine. You have preferences, and men have preferences, simple.
Saying the "It's a preference" doesn't change anything really. The offended sensitive men & women will always get offensive when they don't fit a person they want standard/boundary.
I don't understand how wanting a father would inspire you to want to be a stepdad. I could understand wanting to be there for your own kid. But i definitely don't understand why you'd want to play dad like he said lol to someone else's.
That part right there. You're not a man for dealing with kids, but she is fine for not dealing with kids. A lot of them think like this. It's disgusting
She literally said she didn't want to deal with the baby mother behind the kid not the actual kid. In which she stated repeatedly the kid wasn't a problem Sigh. Selective hearing at its finest
Go out to be promiscuous really.. I'm sure aborted a couple child after her first.. she single for a reason.. she looks down at men that dnt want to be with a woman with kids all while she wouldn't date a man with kids.. she never grow up mentally cause she had good ppl around her that are willing to removes some of the adulting responsibilities.. so the end result is this..in conclusion she is dating around to find the next victim to take her responsibilities away from her while she continues to do her.. 😢
I actually had a woman with a child tell me this ten years ago. She actually said, "Oh it's different if I have a child and he doesn't. There's no money leaving out the house." I respected the honesty, but I saw just how selfish she was in that moment.
Because she believes her own hype. She will age and her number one value of age and associated beauty will fade. What will be left other than a deluded shadow of her younger self. The kid is barely a factor as she just babysat them 2 days a week. 🤷♀️
I don't know if it's the worst thing because a stepfather knows from the start he's not the child's father. Worst would be "I don't care about you" or name calling.
The fact that everyone else raised her child, makes her even less desirable of a woman with kids. Looks like an individual with no accountability or responsibility.
It's called Machiavellianism. Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy. This is why only modern women are notoriously known to severely lack a moral compass, no humility, never take accountability and often gaslighting playing victim. The dark Triad personality traits have became disgustingly common among women due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count. Women were never biologically designed to sleep around, they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30, and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner. This is why modern women have a grandiose ego and narcissistic superiority complex. You witness it everyday women get a degree and develop that superiority complex all of a sudden they think they are settling even when their man/boyfriend paid for their education. Have you also noticed women don't ever see themselves as broke bum losers they instead feel they are dating the wrong men. Due to machiavellianism and Solipsism being in women's nature they Rarely ever hold each other accountable instead they validate and yasslight each. We literally have the worst generation of women. The most promiscuous women ever with 30 to 40% DNA paternity fraud, women cheat at rate of 50% and 43% of women have stds like herpes
It's called Machiavellianism. Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy. This is why only modern women are notoriously known to severely lack a moral compass, no humility, never take accountability and often gaslighting playing victim. The dark Triad personality traits have became disgustingly common among women due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count. Women were never biologically designed to sleep around, they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30, and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner. This is why modern women have a grandiose ego and narcissistic superiority complex. You witness it everyday women get a degree and develop that superiority complex all of a sudden they think they are settling even when their man/boyfriend paid for their education. Have you also noticed women don't ever see themselves as broke bum losers they instead feel they are dating the wrong men. Due to machiavellianism and Solipsism being in women's nature they Rarely ever hold each other accountable instead they validate and yasslight each. We literally have the worst generation of women. The most promiscuous women ever with 30 to 40% DNA paternity fraud, women cheat at rate of 50% and 43% of women have stds like herpes
She has literally announced herself as the perfect fun time kind of single mum. Which is the biggest red flag for any guy willing to take a single mum serious. Imagine thinking that not being around your kid so much that dudes think you have no kids, is a flex !
Does she mean "hypocritical" and not "narcissistic"? People learn buzz words and use them every chance they get without even knowing what it means. And when they are using it correctly, they're projecting. He gave her solid responses to her questions, but she's snarling, snickering, and interjecting. She REALLY didn't want to hear any proof that Single Fatherhood has better outcomes than Single Motherhood. This isn't a conversation for her anyways, she doesn't even have a hand in raising her kids, but wants to identify as a single mom.
@@Goofybear253 he’s choosing to be a stepfather because his dad wasn’t around. Pretending those children are his til the real father comes to pick them up
@@whynotyou783but the problem with that way of thinking is that no kid is the same. Some need time out, some need spankings, some need things taken away. But if he did any of these things and he is not the father of the child. He would be thrown in jail for child abuse. When all he wanted was to discipline the child that was misbehaving.
That man who's 2 daughters graduated college is physical proof how important it is to have a father in the household. Big ups to that man. WELL DONE!!!
Modern Women especially black women. Expect the man to play Step father, to come in and provide resources, for herself and her children. Men that are single dads, don't expect anything from the woman.
No, she interrupted him as well & insulted him saying his views were Stupid & Crazy! She's a Combative, Loudmouth Hyena with an Insufferable Know every GD thing Attitude!! You can tell she's use to dealing with Weak Men!! Hellll NOOO!!
Yup and she uses fake righteous buzz words like village, cause it takes a village to raise a child. She probably makes most her judgement with crystals and horoscopes while she speaks of healing and loving self.
What’s wrong with arm tattoos?? That’s like a white person judging another human because they’re black… my dad is a heart surgeon and has a sleeve…. Don’t judge books by covers. Weird comment
She literally disagreed with the dude through the entire conversation but she needs statistics and data that shows women disagree when she doing it the entire conversation
I believe women were definitely more appreciative and respectful back in the day. That is part of the reason more men were comfortable being stepfathers
Yes and also back then they would expect to get their own child from that woman. Nowadays these women want a man without child and not want him want anymore
They had more sense & humility to know that they should be grateful that a man would accept them and their child(ren). The modern day single mother feels ENTITLED to a man and blinded by her ego.
My boy is clearing over 600k a year, he started doing computer networking from high school, his first job was over 100k, this was back in 2000. We are both from Brooklyn and grew up with chicks like this, even have a few in our family. I watch as chicks like her approach him because their mothers and aunties talk to his mother and they all get "wowed" because he's clearing over 1/2 a million a year - he's swamped with this type of chick "ready to marry and settle down" they don't understand that he will NEVER consider a female like her for anything, NOT EVEN CASUALLY she's a liability, she has trauma and drama, she makes excuses and WILL TO TURN VIOLENCE ANY SECOND, this is her on her best behavior, RUUUUN! Ironically some of these women called him nerd and lame and NOW suddenly they want to marry him - aka they want to marry his money. They have 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, baby daddies, now they want to settle down with "mr boring." Fellas you can't lose if you focus on yourself and your money, they will flock. 18-23 they are the "prize" you are hitting the dating market and gaining skills - in their 30s the looks start to go and you are gaining more money because you have time and more skills. 35 her looks were better at 20 and it's all downhill from there - plus she's been used and abused since 18 and now she's brining that baggage to you?! When you get skills and have more money the tables turn, you are the prize no matter what this angry bird says.
Bold to think every woman is about her looks 😂. Those are fatherless women. Women from stable households have their own properties by 25 max… working on other things xx.
She’s contradicting herself. She doesn’t date single fathers because of the baby mama drama and the brotha said men don’t want to date single mothers for similar reasons. She’s so childish. 😢
The guy with no dad spewing out nonsense and single mother eating up every word saying yes yet the other guy speak logic and she disagrees with everything he says regardless lol so weird
"I won't date a man with kids cuz I don't want the responsibility, but I EXPECT a man to deal with my baggage". That's the majority of single moms with regrets right there. Just like they can say "keep it in your pants if you don't want kids", I can fire back with "keep your legs closed & choose better partners".
[If he has primary custody, he's definitely the superior parent as recognised by the system (judges!) He not only had to establish all his evidence and credentials for him getting custody, but also assemble counter-arguments to dis-establish her from getting the typical automatic custody! Not an easy feat to accomplish for any father in the West! Unlike the men, Effinist-mothers almost always get primary custody by-default; she didn't have to do spit to prove herself as being the superior parent! Count also zingle-fathers' results as similar to new-clear families, as opposed to zingle-motherz, and there's no contest as to which is the better zingle-parent!✌🏼😎]
NOT even you're own children are guaranteed to help support you later in life. They might be broke losers by then, or just hate and resent you. You're absolutely lucky if you're own children are in a position to help you in your retirement years. Brass facts.
She can't use herself as an example as a parent, she's not a parent, she's a baby sitter, she said her father took her child during the weekend and the baby daddy took the kid Wednesday-friday. She literally only has to watch her daughter 2 days out of the week. She's a baby sitter, not a parent
I was a step-dad to two girls about twenty years ago. After the marriage ended (about two years), I have never had contact with these two daughters. It is like I never existed. My biological daughter is like a magnet to my steel. We are attached emotionally, and I don’t think we will ever lose total contact with each other. Being a step-dad was like living a dream where there is no real substance, no real attraction.
I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. I can tell you that not all step children are the same. It's important to make that distinction. I love and cherish both of mine and would never want to lose them and I am sure there are others just like me. Just because you have a bad experience with it does not mean others should be dissuaded from it. Yes inform people of the risks but in the end that was your experience and there is no way for anyone on the internet to know how the dynamic was between you and them. Not saying you were bad or left a negative impression. More so saying that we shouldn't be so black and white on matters like this especially when people don't know the full story behind why this happened.
Same situation here, as a current stepfather, I can tell you for fact that those two I’m raising since 2 will not contact me if something happens between me and their mom.
So she's allowed to refuse to date men with children, but men aren't allowed to refuse her for having children bc "it's not manly." The contradiction is strong with this one. When she called that man a narcissist she was deflecting.
I have 3 sons, and I highly discourage them from dating a woman with kids. I discourage it because I am a divorced mom. I have minimal issues with my ex-husband. With that said, I know that the new guy would never be a priority. I want my sons to be #1 in a woman's life. A woman with no baggage.
@N.1lza Absolutely. If any of my son's end up as a single father, they've got to prioritize their child. There is no time to waste on a new woman when they have a child to raise. Therefore, they should be extremely selective of the woman they have sex with. Ideally, it would be a future wife. Also, wear a condom every time. Don't trust easy women.
@@waltdawgbosshog1816I was about to say the same thing. She has a problem with her sons falling prey to single mothers. But the fact that she said she was divorced and knows the new guy isn’t a priority tells me she had no problem expecting someone else’s son to do it for her.
@@ethanbush700 I disagree. You can't come to that conclusion without speaking to her to see what her relationship goals are. First, I commend her for facing reality. A lot of women won't do that. Secondly, if she realizes that a man can't be a priority over her kids, maybe she is open to a FWB situation. All dating doesn't have to lead to marriage. Maybe she's cool dating a guy that has kids and they see each other whenever it's convenient for both of them and they both put the relationship second behind their own kids.
She is the definition of word salad. She says a bunch of words that doesn’t mean anything. She’s strong, wrong and is standing in it. Men stay away in fact if she’s near you RUN.
I've dated a single mom once, few months in it just clicked in my head that I wouldn't want that dynamic for a wife. Now married a woman and we've had our own child and I can only imagine the drama I avoided by leaving the single mom.
Hey MTR! I would love to see you dive into the psychology of men raised in single mother households. Think that would be give a lot of perspective to this type of discussion. Keep it up G!
So many ppl have this court of law & attorney mindset, like if you can't "prove it" with "stats" its not true. They are very dark & disingenuous in there attempt to win an argument. Its blatantly wicked if you ask me.
Seriously. Not only would these people not research and read studies themselves, they wouldn't be ABLE to even understand a graph or study. "The show me stats" is just an attempt at a clapback to close the conversation because they no one generally has a study in their head in the moment, especially when we're talking about basic, obvious issues like parenting problems with step parents and step children.
@@brianalexander1922 unironically, when I was in grad school for stats, there wasn’t a single person that looked like her there, in fact I was the only black person in my class, and the one a year before and after. Same story during my bachelor studies. I noticed it’s usually the people who know next to nothing have this need to have everything backed by stats. They don’t know it’s inherently lossy. Let’s not get started with how many people think they understand how percentage work; they tend to be the same people who struggle with ratios, fractions, and decimals 😂 🤣
It’s always “both ways” when women gotta do something lmfao. They have a special ability to ignore everything you do and only remember their inconveniences…
Schrodinger feminism: simultaneously a victim and empowered at the same time. Also modern women only like double standards that benefit them if it doesn't they get up in arms and combative and shame.
I find it outrageous and hypocritical of women to use that phrase: "you're not a real man"! Last I remember, a woman's opinion doesn't make their comment true! Like my man stated, by her own comparison would she be consider less than a real woman for not being accepting of a single parent with kids?
There is a theory I’ve heard from an old gentleman I respect. He said women never mature mentally past the age they lose their virginity. I’m not sure where he heard it from but it’s on full display here.
I dont know that it's true though. I saw a video recently of a 27 year old virgin who acted like a complete toddler. I think 16 is the mental age of the majority regardless of sexual experience.
Imagine bragging about being able to be in the streets because you don't have your kids for a good amount of time while also not wanting to date men with kids. The sheer level of entitlment. I would pass out from cognitive dissonance overdose !
That finger waving is the reason she will remain single and continue to blame men for her poor life choices. The need to be right will add to her cat shelter life.
My family has always gotten together for Thanksgiving every year. I remember about 3 years ago commenting at this annual gathering that there hadn’t been a wedding celebration in a long, long time and when was someone getting married? This past Thanksgiving I listened to all of the single female in the family express opinions very similar to those of this young lady. I immediately gave up hope of there being a wedding celebration anytime soon……😢
Her mindset just reminds me of the stepdad who took care of his stepdaughter her whole life while the dad did nothing, and for her graduation, she and her mother tried to keep the stepdad out of it while honoring the father who wasn't there. These chicks make me sick.
It's crazy to me that these type of women exist smh I've literally heard a lot of women say the same crap that this woman is saying... With confidence to which is so sad
I had about three different women tell me that I would be a great catch for them because I didn't have any kids. This was like ten years ago. I just thought they were silly. Now I'm seeing that there are a bunch of women that think like this.
As a man that raised my daughter by myself for most of her life , I didn't have a problem with dating . I chose not to date much because of my responsibilities as a single father and also making sure that any woman that would be around my child was a good role model. I waited until she was older and now I am happily married and she's on her way to go to college.
But the woman couldn't accept the fact that a SUCCESSFUL single father is MORE attractive to women than single mothers are to men since the woman can play her nature role in the relationship with the single father while the guy is a cuck
31:16 the IRONY of her talking about “knowing her lane” when she has NO IDEA what the lane of a wife and mother is. You can’t make this ish up - 😂 KS voice
Pay attention to what she'to really saying. Forget about being a wife and mother. She's confused when it comes to simply dating. All that "lane talk" is her not realizing Pookie is in her "lane" because that's really what she qualifies for. She thinks she deserves a man making $150k/yr with no kids when she really qualifies for a man making $45k/yr with two like her. No man is going to put up with two kids and attitude while he's out trying to carve his niche in the world. Certain people love drama and that's the only type of man she is going to get, but she can't understand why certain men find their way into "her lane." She thinks she's better than the type of man that she attracts.
Only having your kid for 2 days a week up until they’re a teenager then saying you’re a single mother is nasty work. She barely parented that kid 😂
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And thank God she didn't. She shouldn't be influencing anybody.
She maintained the child but never raised one .
I thought the same thing. In what universe does a woman only have their kids 2 days a week? They didn't call that out in the conversation & it hit me like a truck!!
I consider myself a single parent and I only have my kid 2 days a week during the school year and it varies during the summer. Crazy is women calling themselves a single parent and not being single.
Modern women: Ashamed by nothing, but offended by everything
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👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾FACTS!
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I can’t talk to people who always offended about a simple convo a hit dog holler😂
So, she’s got a child, yet she doesn’t date men who are fathers. This makes no sense. She’s delusional.
As a man with children, I have dated women with kids and when I refuse to pull resources together and don’t wanna live with them, they exit stage left. I was born at night but not last night
Oh so YOU JUST GOIN DO WHAT YOU'RE SUPPOSED TO DO AND DO FOR YOUR OWN SEED BEFORE ANOTHER NINJA'S SAUCE YOU NO GOOD MF🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Wise man.
100%! These hypocrites don't want you sharing your resources with your OWN children! It's greed pure and simple. Baby mamma drama doesn't bother them, just as long it doesn't cost them 🤑
It's called Machiavellianism.
Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy.
This is why only modern women are notoriously known to severely lack a moral compass, no humility, never take accountability and often gaslighting playing victim.
The dark Triad personality traits have became disgustingly common among women due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count.
Women were never biologically designed to sleep around, they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30, and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner.
This is why modern women have a grandiose ego and narcissistic superiority complex. You witness it everyday women get a degree and develop that superiority complex all of a sudden they think they are settling even when their man/boyfriend paid for their education.
Have you also noticed women don't ever see themselves as broke bum losers they instead feel they are dating the wrong men. Due to machiavellianism and Solipsism being in women's nature they Rarely ever hold each other accountable instead they validate and yasslight each.
We literally have the worst generation of women. The most promiscuous women ever with 30 to 40% DNA paternity fraud, women cheat at rate of 50% and 43% of women have stds like herpes
This is facts. They try to put you on the plans of moving in or buying a house with them soon after you make it official. Them having control over your resources is where it all starts and ends.
All she did was just show us why shes still a single mother 😂
Exactly 🚮
Yoooo😂
And why her baby's daddy bounced
@@tomferguson9250and kept/keeps bouncing
Exactly we all see why the kids father left her
Am I tripping, or is she the same exact person who had said herself FIRST that she won't date a single dad, but then when the man proceeds to explain why he won't date a single mom, it's a problem???
I’m glad someone else noticed it.? Her calming her own point she made in the beginning “pure stupidity” is so ironic bc she began the show talking about how she wouldn’t date a single dad bc of his drama. The contradiction is crazy. Putting your kids above your man is exactly what you are doing and you don’t realize ain’t slow him to lead the family. Shameful that she doesn’t realize it
Yep that is her, a modern woman , confused not concerned about anything but herself
The fact that she explained why no one dates a single parent and dismantled her own argument of “not having drama” but doesn’t see the double standard is staggering
@@Fattedemu she even acknowledged that her relationship with her fathers child is the anomaly yet wants others to fuck around and find out 😂
Her baby daddy drama might not be active but it's definitely Pending n waiting to happen 😂
Exactly...that part.
She destroys a lot of her own arguments... crazy work
@abwexposed9890 Naw, it's not that. These women really do believe they are better than the average man. They really do believe they "deserve" a man making $200k/yr with no kids while they have two kids, two baby daddies, and public assistance.
They get offended when you suggest they should maybe date a man with two kids making $60k/yr.
She's a kid. Immature. No responsibility because her village takes care of her kid.
And there it is
Shes a bum and a user.
Exactly
All women are
@@niamtxiv fax 📠
I hate when a woman can’t answer a question directly but expect us to answer directly. I like that term “deflect” bro
“I have nothing to offer, I am loud, combative, used spiritually and physically, and I’m bringing another man’s offspring with me. Why does no one want me? This must be waycism”
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Was just thinking that. She basically only learned how to talk back to men. Because somebody hurt her. Or she was already like this. That's why the BD left. Lol
Every woman knows why she is a single parent they just dont want to own up to the truth, but they can tell a man everything thats wrong with u but can't take accountability. Why are u a single parent
Scratch the spirituality part. She has no spirit- the world took it. Most women POSE as religious, virtuous women, but are straight Jezebels. That's the consequence of following what sounds good instead of what's real.
My thoughts exactly 💯 😂
Soon as they say narcissistic I ain’t even listening to them anymore
Facts!
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They overuse that word. It's a big word they learned, and over use
@@malachishakurThey have no idea what it means.
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She is a walking contradiction. She says, "I was raised with traditional values," but then she says that she is a modern woman! 😂😂😂
I'm lost with her annoyance because she mentioned from the beginning that she doesn't want to date a man with kids so I don't get mad if a man doesn't wanna date her because she has kids. Like it's fine. You have preferences, and men have preferences, simple.
This
Saying the "It's a preference" doesn't change anything really. The offended sensitive men & women will always get offensive when they don't fit a person they want standard/boundary.
She had so many red flags it was disturbing. The biggest was the Hypocrisy & Selfishness.
Then she went on to say a man that does not want to date a single mother is not a real man...????
@@zayinseven7923
Either that or tied with the fact she only had her kid for 2 days out the week for YEARS! Meaning she didn't even raise the child.
She really thinks she’s a prize as a single mother to the man she truly wants…bless her heart.
Literally. I'm a woman and I dont everrr want a kid out of marriage. It just makes things harder especially if you want to get married
She not really a mother, she only has her child on Monday & Tuesday 😂
😂😂😂😂@@jamarrallen2181 you caught that too 😂😂😂
@@jamarrallen2181huh so cap
@@jamarrallen2181 How fortunate for the child. Hopefully the father has a feminine woman that can fulfill the missing role for them.
When she said “That’s it” in regards to marriage explains why she’s a single mother.
The host is proof of why men need fathers.
FACT
Man i was thinking the same thing, he doesn't want to offend the women by telling her the truth its so pathetic.
He seems to have low self esteem.
@@OverEast34He's a simp he's acting like he wants to date this girl
I don't understand how wanting a father would inspire you to want to be a stepdad. I could understand wanting to be there for your own kid. But i definitely don't understand why you'd want to play dad like he said lol to someone else's.
"I don't want to deal with your kids, but you're not a man cuz you don't want to take care of my kids"
Hypocrisy at its finest.
That part smdh
The Audacity 😂😂😂😂
That part right there. You're not a man for dealing with kids, but she is fine for not dealing with kids. A lot of them think like this. It's disgusting
She literally said she didn't want to deal with the baby mother behind the kid not the actual kid. In which she stated repeatedly the kid wasn't a problem
Sigh.
Selective hearing at its finest
Dat b!tch is a complete psychopath.
Any dude that gets caught up with her is going to have his life completely wrecked.
Letting other people raise your kid so you can go out and have more kids is absolutely nasty work!!!
Go out to be promiscuous really.. I'm sure aborted a couple child after her first.. she single for a reason.. she looks down at men that dnt want to be with a woman with kids all while she wouldn't date a man with kids.. she never grow up mentally cause she had good ppl around her that are willing to removes some of the adulting responsibilities.. so the end result is this..in conclusion she is dating around to find the next victim to take her responsibilities away from her while she continues to do her.. 😢
The real hypocritical reason for baby mammas not wanting men with baby mammas is simple. They don't want to SHARE HIS RESOURCES.
I actually had a woman with a child tell me this ten years ago. She actually said, "Oh it's different if I have a child and he doesn't. There's no money leaving out the house."
I respected the honesty, but I saw just how selfish she was in that moment.
Bingo
Exactly
Bringing 2 families together is hard
What u said is 100% fact I've heard a couple girls say this exact thing
I think she would be a headache even without a kid
lol oh yes and this is coming from a woman
Because she believes her own hype. She will age and her number one value of age and associated beauty will fade. What will be left other than a deluded shadow of her younger self. The kid is barely a factor as she just babysat them 2 days a week. 🤷♀️
Exactly
That's why she single lol
@@1lifeexo293 as an over 60 woman “ I agree “with you!
You're not my dad is probably the worst thing you will ever hear as a step-dad
I don't know if it's the worst thing because a stepfather knows from the start he's not the child's father. Worst would be "I don't care about you" or name calling.
The fact that everyone else raised her child, makes her even less desirable of a woman with kids. Looks like an individual with no accountability or responsibility.
Talking about it takes a village. She is just trying to avoid accountability.
It's called Machiavellianism.
Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy.
This is why only modern women are notoriously known to severely lack a moral compass, no humility, never take accountability and often gaslighting playing victim.
The dark Triad personality traits have became disgustingly common among women due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count.
Women were never biologically designed to sleep around, they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30, and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner.
This is why modern women have a grandiose ego and narcissistic superiority complex. You witness it everyday women get a degree and develop that superiority complex all of a sudden they think they are settling even when their man/boyfriend paid for their education.
Have you also noticed women don't ever see themselves as broke bum losers they instead feel they are dating the wrong men. Due to machiavellianism and Solipsism being in women's nature they Rarely ever hold each other accountable instead they validate and yasslight each.
We literally have the worst generation of women. The most promiscuous women ever with 30 to 40% DNA paternity fraud, women cheat at rate of 50% and 43% of women have stds like herpes
It's called Machiavellianism.
Machiavellianism in psychology refers to a personality trait which sees a person so focused on their own interests they will manipulate, deceive, and exploit others to achieve their goals. Machiavellianism is one of the traits in what is called the 'Dark Triad', the other two being narcissism and psychopathy.
This is why only modern women are notoriously known to severely lack a moral compass, no humility, never take accountability and often gaslighting playing victim.
The dark Triad personality traits have became disgustingly common among women due to the fact women's mental stability and ability to pair bond gets tarnished or permanently damaged the higher their body count.
Women were never biologically designed to sleep around, they lose 90% of their eggs by age 30, and their ph levels changes with every new sexual partner.
This is why modern women have a grandiose ego and narcissistic superiority complex. You witness it everyday women get a degree and develop that superiority complex all of a sudden they think they are settling even when their man/boyfriend paid for their education.
Have you also noticed women don't ever see themselves as broke bum losers they instead feel they are dating the wrong men. Due to machiavellianism and Solipsism being in women's nature they Rarely ever hold each other accountable instead they validate and yasslight each.
We literally have the worst generation of women. The most promiscuous women ever with 30 to 40% DNA paternity fraud, women cheat at rate of 50% and 43% of women have stds like herpes
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She has literally announced herself as the perfect fun time kind of single mum. Which is the biggest red flag for any guy willing to take a single mum serious. Imagine thinking that not being around your kid so much that dudes think you have no kids, is a flex !
Sleeve tattoo, double piercings, loud, abrasive and a nose ring. Stereotypes exist for a reason lol
You missed the Chest tattoo 😅
@@redbunnyclassic Really? The attitude kept me from really paying attention to her lol
And don’t forget the claws 💅🏾
@@brandonwilliams7464 she’s a proud modern woman lmaooo with all the modern woman accessories lmaooo
She a 304
Does she mean "hypocritical" and not "narcissistic"? People learn buzz words and use them every chance they get without even knowing what it means. And when they are using it correctly, they're projecting. He gave her solid responses to her questions, but she's snarling, snickering, and interjecting. She REALLY didn't want to hear any proof that Single Fatherhood has better outcomes than Single Motherhood. This isn't a conversation for her anyways, she doesn't even have a hand in raising her kids, but wants to identify as a single mom.
The simp is making life decisions based on his trauma as a child.
Bad way to make decisions
What?
Your a few decades to late😂😂😂😂😂😂 nice try though
@@Goofybear253 he’s choosing to be a stepfather because his dad wasn’t around. Pretending those children are his til the real father comes to pick them up
@@whynotyou783but the problem with that way of thinking is that no kid is the same. Some need time out, some need spankings, some need things taken away. But if he did any of these things and he is not the father of the child. He would be thrown in jail for child abuse. When all he wanted was to discipline the child that was misbehaving.
Facts he sounded goofy as fuk
Shame, insult, guilt, needs to be right RIP KS!!
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That man who's 2 daughters graduated college is physical proof how important it is to have a father in the household. Big ups to that man. WELL DONE!!!
She don't wanna date a man with kids but she has kids herself, Then continues to Contradict herself and justify it...
your type of girl bro lol
She doesn't want to date a man with kids because she doesn't even deal with her own! it's ashame lol
She's the perfect reason why marriage is not happening in our communities sassy and ratchet as hell with Manish behavior
She probably wants to come 1st in a man's life, but won't reciprocate
women like things to be unfair in their favour.
My dad died when I was a baby. I married a baby momma in the mid 90s.
The single WORST move I ever made.
That’s insane😂
Bearded dudes are Beta.
@@luyolomifyno tf we not lmfao
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Modern Women especially black women. Expect the man to play Step father, to come in and provide resources, for herself and her children. Men that are single dads, don't expect anything from the woman.
Y’all see how she respect the man she disagrees with when he speaks but continuously interrupts the man that’s on her side.
Wòmén don't like a yes-man but a lot of guys thinks agreeing with everything women say no matter will get sex(best sex) which is NOPE
@@KingComp67_-io3iz Trust me, they'll settle for a mere pat on the head.
No, she interrupted him as well & insulted him saying his views were Stupid & Crazy! She's a Combative, Loudmouth Hyena with an Insufferable Know every GD thing Attitude!! You can tell she's use to dealing with Weak Men!! Hellll NOOO!!
Good point!
Time stamp? I'll try to notice
That sleeve tattoo says good time to me. And what she means by village is she only has her kid when she absolutely has to.
Yup and she uses fake righteous buzz words like village, cause it takes a village to raise a child. She probably makes most her judgement with crystals and horoscopes while she speaks of healing and loving self.
What’s wrong with arm tattoos?? That’s like a white person judging another human because they’re black… my dad is a heart surgeon and has a sleeve…. Don’t judge books by covers. Weird comment
Village bicycle gets mad at truth..BYE
She said herself she only has her daughter Mondays and Tuesdays
Village= delegating her responsibilities to other family members.
She literally disagreed with the dude through the entire conversation but she needs statistics and data that shows women disagree when she doing it the entire conversation
I believe women were definitely more appreciative and respectful back in the day. That is part of the reason more men were comfortable being stepfathers
That was then this is now
Even then, those Men still preferred their own children.
Yes and also back then they would expect to get their own child from that woman. Nowadays these women want a man without child and not want him want anymore
They had more sense & humility to know that they should be grateful that a man would accept them and their child(ren). The modern day single mother feels ENTITLED to a man and blinded by her ego.
@@xaviconhaweh4129 been there and it ruined me!
My boy is clearing over 600k a year, he started doing computer networking from high school, his first job was over 100k, this was back in 2000. We are both from Brooklyn and grew up with chicks like this, even have a few in our family. I watch as chicks like her approach him because their mothers and aunties talk to his mother and they all get "wowed" because he's clearing over 1/2 a million a year - he's swamped with this type of chick "ready to marry and settle down" they don't understand that he will NEVER consider a female like her for anything, NOT EVEN CASUALLY she's a liability, she has trauma and drama, she makes excuses and WILL TO TURN VIOLENCE ANY SECOND, this is her on her best behavior, RUUUUN!
Ironically some of these women called him nerd and lame and NOW suddenly they want to marry him - aka they want to marry his money. They have 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, baby daddies, now they want to settle down with "mr boring." Fellas you can't lose if you focus on yourself and your money, they will flock. 18-23 they are the "prize" you are hitting the dating market and gaining skills - in their 30s the looks start to go and you are gaining more money because you have time and more skills. 35 her looks were better at 20 and it's all downhill from there - plus she's been used and abused since 18 and now she's brining that baggage to you?! When you get skills and have more money the tables turn, you are the prize no matter what this angry bird says.
Well Done, and Protect your Son at All Cost!
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Dang this was perfect
Bold to think every woman is about her looks 😂. Those are fatherless women. Women from stable households have their own properties by 25 max… working on other things xx.
Yo, been awhile, this was a good one!
Your village was so good that NO ONE KNEW YOU HAD A DAUGHTER. Sounds like a dead beat mom.
She makes my head hurt because she makes no sense and tries to justify the bs.
Imagine what her ex went through???
Mine hurts too. She makes no sense
She embarrassed herself with everything she said. She is lost and doomed to be a single mother forever. Her karma is her life….
She’s contradicting herself. She doesn’t date single fathers because of the baby mama drama and the brotha said men don’t want to date single mothers for similar reasons. She’s so childish. 😢
Super fact 😆
Right, she's weird
"X-Files" weird...👽👽👽
Shes lying, she doesn't want any man that has to share his money with someother woman!
If you spoil your kids, you will have to raise your grandkids
@thelifep that or you never see them.
@@marymeeks6680not true at all. You can spoil your kids without spoiling them rotten.
They love to use the word Narcissistic at a man and Yet never takes accountability for her own actions. OH THE IRONY!!!
This is the prime example when they say most women has the mindset of a 14.years old child.. and must be led.
Black men, my heart goes out to you guys. You guys have your hands full with some of these chics.
You're the only reaction podcaster I can watch a whole 50 min video for , much love from NYC brother keep doing ya thing 💯✔️
That’s why she’s alone lol 😂
she's so bitter its hilarious 😂💀💀💀
She makes black women look bad…
@@Jh-cs2yn well she’s not always alone she does get her kid from the village Mondays and Tuesdays 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
And will always will be
Just wrong and single smh 😅
This woman does not need no man, she needs a village.
🚴🏻♀️😂😂
This is why they vote for socialism (Hitler,Maduro, Lula, etc)
LOL
@@sharthun2009 lmaooo with her 2 day a week parenting ass lmaooo
And unfortunately the village has failed her
Dawg ate !!! He used every talking point I would not saying I’m cold or anything but it’s nice to see your mindset in action
He didn't need a village. He was the village for his kids.
When someone says they don't want drama, it's because they don't want competition with the drama they bring.
Great video much improved format and great timing with the commentary makes it easier to watch fully 💯💯
Clearly, she refused to accept that she comes as second place regarding the priorities in her situation.🚩
I can’t believe they let her avoid describing this “village” she hails from.
No need for her to do that lol, did you miss the part when she said she only had her child on Monday & Tuesday 🤦🏾♂️ but claims to be a great mom 😂
Everyone has a podcast and shit nowadays and these mfers ARE NOT GOOD INTERVIEWERS.
Her family watches the kids while she goes out, that’s the village she speaks of, see this scenario all the time
She did describe it.
Her “village” is freeloading off her family.
The guy with no dad spewing out nonsense and single mother eating up every word saying yes yet the other guy speak logic and she disagrees with everything he says regardless lol so weird
"I won't date a man with kids cuz I don't want the responsibility, but I EXPECT a man to deal with my baggage". That's the majority of single moms with regrets right there. Just like they can say "keep it in your pants if you don't want kids", I can fire back with "keep your legs closed & choose better partners".
she laugh when he said "men give u the biggest honor by marrying you"... means she doesn't value marriage... she can't see the sacred of marriage...
“My village” - the people that absolve me of my responsibility of being a mother
Men who have children should date women who have kids … people with children should leave childless people alone!
Facts
True
I can't date a chick with no kids but hey they be wanting niggas with kids shit we can't help that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Exactly
She thinks so highly of herself and believes she is all that. However, she is a headache and will make a man’s life very unpleasant!
I can see that her narcissism is coming out. She is actually blaming men for her mess up and he really is holding her accountable.
46:35
She is the biggest liar saying "this household runs effortlessly" and she doesn't need or want a man's financial contribution 😭🤣
Those braids alone tells me she doesn't make well over 6 figures....she was just talking to hear herself talk.... she needs therapy
@@mryoungstown1219 Seeing that hair and clothing I was wondering when welfare started hitting 6 figures, unless she is including the 2 decimal points.
She only has the kids for only 2 days a week.😮
making over six figures, with that gum-ball machine watch on her wrist
We need to blame her Father and Her Village for her lack of character and accountability.
Lack of father. Lol
Dude, this was a great convo 👏 👌🏾 i learned a lot..
It’s a big difference when a man has a kid and a woman has a kid smh. She’s lost
[If he has primary custody, he's definitely the superior parent as recognised by the system (judges!) He not only had to establish all his evidence and credentials for him getting custody, but also assemble counter-arguments to dis-establish her from getting the typical automatic custody! Not an easy feat to accomplish for any father in the West! Unlike the men, Effinist-mothers almost always get primary custody by-default; she didn't have to do spit to prove herself as being the superior parent! Count also zingle-fathers' results as similar to new-clear families, as opposed to zingle-motherz, and there's no contest as to which is the better zingle-parent!✌🏼😎]
No hate but why not use the s😂it’s right above z. Cool lingo tho
@@ender-ez9bb[ScrevvTuub is salivating over dropping my existence off the platform! Not my first rodeo, yo!🤠🐎💨]
There’s actually not, people with kids should stick with each other and leave us childless people alone.
@@GraduateJLNI support this 👍
NOT even you're own children are guaranteed to help support you later in life. They might be broke losers by then, or just hate and resent you. You're absolutely lucky if you're own children are in a position to help you in your retirement years. Brass facts.
so true thats why it makes even less sense to do it for someone else kids statiscally speaking
To do it simply to have someone to take care of you when you're older feels very transactional
The childs father was the single parent, not her. Guarantee you she didn't pay a dime of child support.
She can't use herself as an example as a parent, she's not a parent, she's a baby sitter, she said her father took her child during the weekend and the baby daddy took the kid Wednesday-friday. She literally only has to watch her daughter 2 days out of the week. She's a baby sitter, not a parent
The man who didn't have his father is completely lost.
Simpin fa Love
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She didn't answer any questions, just asked him the same questions to avoid answering.
I was a step-dad to two girls about twenty years ago. After the marriage ended (about two years), I have never had contact with these two daughters. It is like I never existed.
My biological daughter is like a magnet to my steel. We are attached emotionally, and I don’t think we will ever lose total contact with each other.
Being a step-dad was like living a dream where there is no real substance, no real attraction.
I'm really sorry that you had to go through that. I can tell you that not all step children are the same. It's important to make that distinction. I love and cherish both of mine and would never want to lose them and I am sure there are others just like me. Just because you have a bad experience with it does not mean others should be dissuaded from it. Yes inform people of the risks but in the end that was your experience and there is no way for anyone on the internet to know how the dynamic was between you and them. Not saying you were bad or left a negative impression. More so saying that we shouldn't be so black and white on matters like this especially when people don't know the full story behind why this happened.
Same situation here, as a current stepfather, I can tell you for fact that those two I’m raising since 2 will not contact me if something happens between me and their mom.
This guy is 100% right.
🗣️🗣️She does not represent all women!!
So she's allowed to refuse to date men with children, but men aren't allowed to refuse her for having children bc "it's not manly."
The contradiction is strong with this one. When she called that man a narcissist she was deflecting.
She was so passionate in her shallow points.
She is so ignorant and embarrassing 🤦🏾♀️
A lot of ur sister act just like this🤧😮💨
This is why dating women with kids it’s hard
This is what a lot of blk men deal with sis until we don’t a get called sassy.
Why would I EVER want to share that moment between me and my daughter, with ANYBODY.
I have 3 sons, and I highly discourage them from dating a woman with kids. I discourage it because I am a divorced mom. I have minimal issues with my ex-husband. With that said, I know that the new guy would never be a priority.
I want my sons to be #1 in a woman's life. A woman with no baggage.
Would you say the same if one of them ended up a baby daddy ?
@N.1lza Absolutely. If any of my son's end up as a single father, they've got to prioritize their child. There is no time to waste on a new woman when they have a child to raise.
Therefore, they should be extremely selective of the woman they have sex with. Ideally, it would be a future wife. Also, wear a condom every time. Don't trust easy women.
Although I like your opinion… you are exactly like this woman speaking on the podcast. lol
@@waltdawgbosshog1816I was about to say the same thing. She has a problem with her sons falling prey to single mothers. But the fact that she said she was divorced and knows the new guy isn’t a priority tells me she had no problem expecting someone else’s son to do it for her.
@@ethanbush700 I disagree. You can't come to that conclusion without speaking to her to see what her relationship goals are. First, I commend her for facing reality. A lot of women won't do that.
Secondly, if she realizes that a man can't be a priority over her kids, maybe she is open to a FWB situation. All dating doesn't have to lead to marriage. Maybe she's cool dating a guy that has kids and they see each other whenever it's convenient for both of them and they both put the relationship second behind their own kids.
She is the definition of word salad.
She says a bunch of words that doesn’t mean anything. She’s strong, wrong and is standing in it.
Men stay away in fact if she’s near you RUN.
Ain’t that like pretty much most women these days
Her closing shaming language was crazy,”You, You, You” is crazy talk to to me.
She is calling him narcissistic for having the same preferences
I've dated a single mom once, few months in it just clicked in my head that I wouldn't want that dynamic for a wife. Now married a woman and we've had our own child and I can only imagine the drama I avoided by leaving the single mom.
Hey MTR! I would love to see you dive into the psychology of men raised in single mother households. Think that would be give a lot of perspective to this type of discussion. Keep it up G!
Her asking for stats as if she is sophisticated enough to understand anything beyond basic measures of central tendency 😂
Gaslighting over 9000 lol
So many ppl have this court of law & attorney mindset, like if you can't "prove it" with "stats" its not true.
They are very dark & disingenuous in there attempt to win an argument. Its blatantly wicked if you ask me.
This the best comment on here!!😂😂😂😂
Seriously. Not only would these people not research and read studies themselves, they wouldn't be ABLE to even understand a graph or study.
"The show me stats" is just an attempt at a clapback to close the conversation because they no one generally has a study in their head in the moment, especially when we're talking about basic, obvious issues like parenting problems with step parents and step children.
@@brianalexander1922 unironically, when I was in grad school for stats, there wasn’t a single person that looked like her there, in fact I was the only black person in my class, and the one a year before and after. Same story during my bachelor studies. I noticed it’s usually the people who know next to nothing have this need to have everything backed by stats. They don’t know it’s inherently lossy. Let’s not get started with how many people think they understand how percentage work; they tend to be the same people who struggle with ratios, fractions, and decimals 😂 🤣
So she doesn't expect his resources for her kids but says if he steps thru the door why would he not want to share his resources
It’s always “both ways” when women gotta do something lmfao. They have a special ability to ignore everything you do and only remember their inconveniences…
Right. Single dads aren’t online crying about being unwanted or about how they need a 6 figure wife to take care of lil dink dink lol
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It's called narcissism. Their favorite word to accused others of when they look in the mirror
Schrodinger feminism: simultaneously a victim and empowered at the same time. Also modern women only like double standards that benefit them if it doesn't they get up in arms and combative and shame.
They say "both ways" but then complain about going 50/50 on the bills.
How is she a single parent when the dad has the kids wed-fri & her dad has the kid sat & sunday?! She's only on the clock 2 days a week 😂😂
Exactly
Crazy
This same women said she would not date someone with kids. The boomerang 🪃 of truth hurts. Instead of answering questions she would rather deflect.
I find it outrageous and hypocritical of women to use that phrase: "you're not a real man"! Last I remember, a woman's opinion doesn't make their comment true! Like my man stated, by her own comparison would she be consider less than a real woman for not being accepting of a single parent with kids?
There is a theory I’ve heard from an old gentleman I respect. He said women never mature mentally past the age they lose their virginity. I’m not sure where he heard it from but it’s on full display here.
I dont know that it's true though. I saw a video recently of a 27 year old virgin who acted like a complete toddler. I think 16 is the mental age of the majority regardless of sexual experience.
In my language…women are referred to, “abesintwana…(those who are childlike…)” despite their age
bro, thank you for all of your insight.
Imagine bragging about being able to be in the streets because you don't have your kids for a good amount of time while also not wanting to date men with kids. The sheer level of entitlment. I would pass out from cognitive dissonance overdose !
Lol, that proud single momma that has her kids Monday and Tuesday. You are not a single mother, you are a part time babysitter.
That finger waving is the reason she will remain single and continue to blame men for her poor life choices. The need to be right will add to her cat shelter life.
Especially, her being the only person on the panel using profanity. When women start cursing with logic in her argument, she is far gone from reality.
She wasn’t raising her kid.
My family has always gotten together for Thanksgiving every year. I remember about 3 years ago commenting at this annual gathering that there hadn’t been a wedding celebration in a long, long time and when was someone getting married?
This past Thanksgiving I listened to all of the single female in the family express opinions very similar to those of this young lady. I immediately gave up hope of there being a wedding celebration anytime soon……😢
dam
Her mindset just reminds me of the stepdad who took care of his stepdaughter her whole life while the dad did nothing, and for her graduation, she and her mother tried to keep the stepdad out of it while honoring the father who wasn't there. These chicks make me sick.
It's crazy to me that these type of women exist smh I've literally heard a lot of women say the same crap that this woman is saying... With confidence to which is so sad
I had about three different women tell me that I would be a great catch for them because I didn't have any kids. This was like ten years ago. I just thought they were silly. Now I'm seeing that there are a bunch of women that think like this.
Back in the day, Step-Father had rights. He had the authority with the responsibility. Nowadays, they want sponsors.
This girls talk so much she don’t even see the truth. She needs to shut up and listen
MTR Stand up!👍She had a village to help her?What about the child’s father???
3:39 She said that the child’s father would get the child Wednesday-Sunday. So it sounds like he was included in the village she was speaking of.
She makes no sense at all. She will be a single mom forever
😂😂😂😂😂 yep. Or someone's midnight snack lol
And she say she don't date single fathers? You can't make this shit up!
As a man that raised my daughter by myself for most of her life , I didn't have a problem with dating . I chose not to date much because of my responsibilities as a single father and also making sure that any woman that would be around my child was a good role model. I waited until she was older and now I am happily married and she's on her way to go to college.
But the woman couldn't accept the fact that a SUCCESSFUL single father is MORE attractive to women than single mothers are to men since the woman can play her nature role in the relationship with the single father while the guy is a cuck
31:16 the IRONY of her talking about “knowing her lane” when she has NO IDEA what the lane of a wife and mother is.
You can’t make this ish up - 😂 KS voice
You are a real one! 😂😂😂
Pay attention to what she'to really saying. Forget about being a wife and mother. She's confused when it comes to simply dating. All that "lane talk" is her not realizing Pookie is in her "lane" because that's really what she qualifies for.
She thinks she deserves a man making $150k/yr with no kids when she really qualifies for a man making $45k/yr with two like her. No man is going to put up with two kids and attitude while he's out trying to carve his niche in the world.
Certain people love drama and that's the only type of man she is going to get, but she can't understand why certain men find their way into "her lane." She thinks she's better than the type of man that she attracts.
Thats why she isnt a wife and barely a mother.