I like the girl's attitude toward money. She wants to be real and understands that love and money are not synonymous. She cannot just relate with somebody just because of money. Money cannot buy happiness. She knows what she wants in life. I like her confidence.
Nobody is talking how mature they are... Azn no darmas,,no fighting,,,not the give me my thing back type..... They just left peaceful.... Alafu baby girl hope kwenye unaenda the the bill guy loves you.. coz you said you feel alive when you with him,,, the guy didn't say he loves you or he's gonna be ready to fight for you utoke kwa hio relationship...... He just said you two are goals....the fact that wanajuana na your boyfriend he can try to keep you the way you were kept he won't be real he will fake.... Anyway good luck girl
Haka kasichana hakana hakili, sijui huyu boy aliona nini Kwa hii mifupa bila akili, mtu anasema aligrow in Christian family yet she cheats, does Christianity allow cheating? She doesn't have concrete and substantial reasons but only excuses.
My favorite line that rich dad said is that, money may not be everything in the world but it affects everything that is,it affects your lifestyle, your level of education, your healthcare,it affects everything on day to day basis.
For the first time dem amecheat n for some reasons nmeelewa why she did it...for reall money aint everything..she was being brutally honest n i appreciate her💯
When I met my wife, we were each other's first love; all she needed was love, or so I thought. Now, she needs financial security for her and our two lovely kids. Sometimes she just wants to "torture" me with her "emotional burden," which seems to manifest during certain times of the month, and I should be available - or else? In short, women are complicated, and it frustrates us, men. It appears we both (male & female) do not know what they want (female), so we (men) are put in a place where we always need to figure it out and help educate them on what's suitable for them. But again, women, what do you really want?
My point is she should have left a long time ago. Why string him along going on all these trips and only come clean about how you feel once you're caught.
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I've never seen or heard of such a Lady, stands her ground, knows what she wants, confident of her hustle, believes she can make it without him, knows the facts of life and everytime she refers to her mum's advice #itsnotallaboutmoney. And if it is she can make her own money. Kudos young girl your future is bright. Usijinyime Raha we only live once.
Dem anajifanya mpole from a christian family na anacheat. There is no justification for cheating. She would have told the guy she doesnt feel him anymore.
If the guy loved her... maybe angejaribu kumuinua. His mind is crowed with money. A person who loves you empowers you and brings the best out of you. The lady's maturity is beyond imagination 💖💖
Stevo please a follow up of this. These young couple only luck good communication. I believe they deserve each other. The calmness in both of them...they shouldn't part just like that. They need understanding of each other
once for the gutters... always for the gutters...Bill is giving you attention coz he's enjoying your cookies...wait till he's had enough, utashangaa!!!
@@deekiki1924 what do you understand by cheating?... cheating goes beyond sex young girl....plus sex starts from somewhere:friendship,attention...sex.maybe one day you'll understand when your hubby is spending all his time with another woman he's not sleeping with,yet he shows up just to sleep with you.You will then know what cheating is
@@dennisbill5098 love language means that you have your own way in which when treated by a lady you feel completely loved, same way applies to your lady. Some value gifts, others affection, others quality time, etc. If you understand each other from that point, believe me the rest is easy to handle.
@@felistamakau4367 it would be more easier if the loved one make this language known to the other half...other than someone doing something to you as a gesture of love but you don't like it
I admire this girl so much.In today's life is so hard to find a girl who is looking for true love and affection all they think is all about money.I wish you all the very best dear am proud of you.
Difference between cool kid's argument na sisi wengine sahii tungekuwa tushachukua mawe na kukimbisha mtu but cool kids just taking things slowly no dramas at all... nothing like bring the things I bought you
What women want is a normal distribution, skewing the relationship to only love, no money is a problem, and skewing it towards money and fancies is also a problem. Just give a portion a bit at a time, let lucking sometimes be part of growth, or else you become a prince/princess without the royalty. In short, love yourself first to share your love elsewhere, accept your situation, and understand your partner before fully committing. Cheers!!😘😘
I am a lady yes but sometimes I fail to understand 'us' you get money but still you want attention, affection e.t.c and when you get that person maybe hana dooh still kuna something missing. In this world saizi it's better nililie kwa Range than boda boda, it's a golden opportunity juu love, love is a scum, I just hope hata regret later in life na afind the happiness anatafuta.keep them coming big man.
i met a lady january this year and it was when i started staying alone. i had only a matress,blanket and a gas cylinder in a bedsitter,i took her to see where i stays if she could change her mind,but to my surprise she leave her good bed plus a furnished house to visit me every weekend. She got men with money plus cars,those who want to even give money to start business but she declined...she told me what this is saying,(money is not everything). Find love and grow together and you will enjoy..sahii nyumba yangu hiko furnished........A beutiful girl enjoys omena i cook for her..she travels all the way from Karen to umoja......
Opinions are the cheapest commodity, it doesn't matter what peeps are saying about this girl. She is thinking form the heart and most of the comments peeps are thinking with their heads... I'm assuming she's of age and knows what she wants, just imagine a girl walking out on money? Isn't she just rare?? Kuddos big girl.❤️may God be with you.
Today l'm proud of this girl Life isn't all about money Let her hustle for her own, Unlike wengine will do anything to get money. Though they are young,l believe they got a future
she only brought this affection thing up because her chat with her crushie/bff was exposed. Think about that. Its also clear that the two have a thing for each other. once that guy gets to smash her, issover for her. Take that to the bank. Most men are led by their innate mating instinct
Been reading comments before watching the episode. N the moment i heard the guy emphasizing about money, i just thought that he wont be a caring man. Pesa ni kama chumvi kwa chakula, inaleta ladha...
The gal is right ,it's not all about money,you can have money but you don't have peace what's for??This gal has reminded me of so many things when I was dating.
I don't see what it is to be admired, but of course we are entitled to having opposing opinions. What I see is a girl who was enjoying a 3 + year lifestyle that money brings just to bash it when caught seducing her crash. All for what? To pass the blame on to the boyfriend. Hawa ndio watu tunawaita wenye kiburi cha kiwango cha lami.
The truth is that the lady don't love❤ the boy full stop. She was just waiting for a way to get herself out of the relationship ,vile wasichana wengi out there wana fake love bcoz of money wewe ndio hio pesa unaitoroka that means hakuna mapenzi hapa
JUST saying "balance" doesn't help here,... She just needed to TALK to him & Not "Cheating (SECRETLY)", ...tell him or leave Him--> Not Cheating secretly, hypocrisy/chritian!?... cheat can't be a solution...No some MEN bit up these kind of girls !!
Why do most cheating spouses/partners resort to blame games and reverse psychology when nabbed? This female plays the victim when she's supposed to explain her infidelity.
This "he is not giving me attention", is an out dated lie. Why didn't she address the issue with him before looking for someone else? What happened to COMMUNICATION as being one of the pillars in any courtship? Using suggestions is not communicating but trying to communicate and not emphatic verbal communication as required. If money wasn't the issue why did she continue receiving till the day she is caught, she could have broken up long ago and be with the other dude since "money was not an issue" for her if she was that "principled" .
The way she took the phone when mshikaji was not there, that show pretty much how she badly wanted that phone. Huyu atalilia chooni ata sio long, a matter of time.
It's simple: she didn't love this guy AT ALL. She's always wanted to leave him, but didn't know how to do it. And when BMS came along, BOOM, she got the perfect opportunity to break the bad news!
From her body language, she meant the guy was not giving her sex not attention. Some of the ladies out here are addicted to sex, if they can't get they will go outside. A relationship is not based only on sex, I hope she is only about attention. The guy did not react well also coz he failed to give it to her all the time.
Heeeeeee eeee ati you can't survive without me ,take the phone I can't Keep it coz it's too cheap for me🤔 thanks Steve for helping this girl untie herself off this proud man!!!!
I love this girl. The moment she said 'watch me'. You're gonna making it girl. You look so tiny but mature upstairs. You don't survive because of a man or money, you survive and liveth because God's grace is abundance. Go make your money girl. Receive hugs and love from mama Tukufu💘💘💘
In life God made it in such a way that you can never have everything, if u get a man with affection, time and attention, then he will be broke, and once u get a man who is hustling, financially stable then he will lack the other aspects, ladies should learn to appreciate what they have and nurture that into what is best rather than cheat and give all sorts of excuses just to look innocent, life is all about appreciating what u have and grooming it into something of value. No lady, I repeat, no lady would ever wish to date a poor man who can only offer love and affection, love and affection can't pay bills or build u a house, even to those who offer u such will soon taste the wrath of being damped for those who have a future (money and hard work) Love and affection is not the future my dear sisters.....am even annoyed. Just stay blessed y'all
This lady is using the statement Money is not everything to conceal her infidelity which the other guy has assured her heaven which she is going for. In the beginning she states that she loves her guy for he is caring....But towards the end....that statement is withdrawn once infidelity is noted.....Guys need to be careful of being used...
Oh dear, absent emotions and affection. Babygirl run run run it will only get worse and worse. Some people don’t have it and do not realise what they lack and this started in their upbringing as a baby. You can’t communicate with them it’s like talking to a rock. Their don’t understand affection or intimacy it was never part of the upbringing you will bleed to death trying to get to understand you. Leave when you can, it’s get even worse in marriage ……..
The girl will soon realise that affection over money gets you nowhere in this world...but the guy has to realise that money is a big factor yes but it still isn't everything
Is affection a form of love? "Affection" is popularly used to denote a feeling or type of love, amounting to more than goodwill or friendship. Writers on ethics generally use the word to refer to distinct states of feeling, both lasting and spasmodic. Some contrast it with passion as being free from the distinctively sensual element.
Nko side ya huyu boy.. for real, ako mature hajampokonya Kila kitu, stevo tell that girl atateseka huko nje vile maisha ni ngumu kenya, watu wanatafta wazungu kilimani yeye anafuata watu wa vibanda, na hiyo pesa akipewa hajawahi fikiria kusave afungue bihashara yake hata akiachana na boy ako na kitu ya maana anajigamba nayo, ni mapenzi na attention anataka? Next year atakuwa githurai 44 akitafta mubaba..bill atakuheartbreak mpaka maini.
Affection and attention wau wat does girls really want with money they cheat claiming attention wen u vice versa they cheat with wababas bcoz of money... Nothing more to say like ur show big man stevo am ur biggest fam
Such an Intelligent Young Lady....... "It's Not all About Money & Travelling, I need Affection more, Intimacy, someone to talk too, someone to listen to me"....... Kijana wake up........
When you have problems everywhere even in your reasoning, money is the problem. When you are smart and sure you can make it by yourself with nobody's help, friendship and partnership supersedes everything.
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Oh dear, absent emotions and affection. Babygirl run run run it will only get worse and worse. Some people don’t have it and do not realise what they lack and this started in their upbringing as a baby. You can’t communicate with them it’s like talking to a rock. Their don’t understand affection or intimacy it was never part of the upbringing you will bleed to death trying to get to understand you. Leave when you can, it’s get even worse in marriage ……..
Must you cheat so as to communicate whatever to your partner 🤷,if you live together, initiate your issues and talk about them, don't think hurting someone this way will make you feel better. That's cheating, infidelity!!!
@@lavoste007 The way she tried communicating it but still somehow that guy just did the same exact thing and ended up talking about "money and trips" .......He is not listening to her .........just ignoring what she is trying to communicate............ not an excuse for cheating though....
The girl has a valid point. Kijana name ni kama anafikiria pesa yake everything. He thought the lady would run after the phone and he realised that's not working, he tried to give the phone back....
I wish we have more of this girl, she is a gem! The boychild is losing it! You can’t just bluff about the places you have taken your woman to on air! He makes the little and gorgeous girl insignificant 😢
THIS HAS BLOWN ME OFF "I need affection, I'm a woman!" Is this not selfishness, how else can I describe it? What is there for us men!!? Love is sometimes a scam!
Comrades flavour advice hii couple advice is much needed here than anywhere else don't let them break up advice them sanasana the boychild and am sure the two will be the best couples ever
I wonder all comments are in favor of a cheater...she lacks no affection she is not attached to this love herself...go eat attention poor girl...u will soon miss this guy.
This gal is reasoning like a kid,,she has emotional issues,, that kind of person will always talk about nonsense kama attention,, when you go places na mtu is that not attention? She's still neive so I can't blame her
I like how stevo gets creative with his words and stealthily ingishas majamaa box wakubaliane na hii kitu bana juu mi naye ukinikuta ivo tu direct uniambie sanitization siezi kubali😂
I think the youngman is not listening the lady is being very honest,steve try and talk to the guy to reconsider his decision I think the lady is very honest and she's not all about money.
The ladies of this century,,God come to the rescue of a boy child,,you give her money she wants attention,,you give her attention again money is a problem,,
Why she playing the victim in this case when she's the one clearly on the wrong? She's been found cheating. She should have informed the guy of her discontent and left earlier if at all she wasn't happy in the relationship.
"Wacha tuskie attention unataka" 😂😂 haki big man stevo 😂😂😂 huyu dem hataki Doo 😂😂 ,anayekupenda humpendi anapenda mwingine anayependa mwingine weeuh this life 💔 mnipee hiyo simu haki 😂
If your man is not the man you wished for...make him the man you want to be,don't wait him to change to be the" man"....this is where the lady failed but anyway wishing her the best of luck To the guy...take it easy💪
She not honest you can not get a complete being in this world, we all learn to leave with our blessing, God can not give you money and affection same % when one is high another one is low.
A girl once told me all this gal is saying here,, after 3 years she left bcoz of money
Money it's everything
Izah joh😂
*_ Money is not everything its the only thing_*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌 mapenzi ilikua opaque, izah bradha
Huyu anadanganya..money is the only thing.. talking bila pesa ni noma..haka hakajielewi
The guy is so proud with his money. I can understand where this humble girl is coming from.
I like the girl's attitude toward money. She wants to be real and understands that love and money are not synonymous. She cannot just relate with somebody just because of money. Money cannot buy happiness. She knows what she wants in life. I like her confidence.
aty money cannot buy what?
your opinion is strange, this girl will regret
The same gal will cheat on that Bill in the name of looking for money
Nobody is talking how mature they are... Azn no darmas,,no fighting,,,not the give me my thing back type..... They just left peaceful.... Alafu baby girl hope kwenye unaenda the the bill guy loves you.. coz you said you feel alive when you with him,,, the guy didn't say he loves you or he's gonna be ready to fight for you utoke kwa hio relationship...... He just said you two are goals....the fact that wanajuana na your boyfriend he can try to keep you the way you were kept he won't be real he will fake.... Anyway good luck girl
A relationship is only safe when it is initiated by men ,this girl will regret coz I'm very sure bill doesn't love this girl but enjoys free sex
Haka kasichana hakana hakili, sijui huyu boy aliona nini Kwa hii mifupa bila akili, mtu anasema aligrow in Christian family yet she cheats, does Christianity allow cheating? She doesn't have concrete and substantial reasons but only excuses.
Living with someone who has nothing to loose mkiseperate ni noma , let her go 2 Mr Bill wakule hiyo attention na affection
I feel this lady is mature speaking her soul out. We go where our souls fit then work out things together.
My favorite line that rich dad said is that, money may not be everything in the world but it affects everything that is,it affects your lifestyle, your level of education, your healthcare,it affects everything on day to day basis.
This is philosophical! ✔️
Rich dad poor dad
I like the quote 👍👍
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Money is the opium of exchange, it covers all aspects of our lives.
This is the show that has never lost taste and it ain't losing big up manstivo
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Young lady ukianza kupata watoto utajua it is all about money, the bills will be there everyday, the love you're talking about comes second
Yes pesa yake sio ya mwanaume....she's a wise lady
What makes you think she must depend on a man to raise her kids? She can make her money and choose who to love
Eti "every time I tell you I have a problem you always think it's money" I want such problems 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ukipata nafasi naomba uniongeze pia 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Aki 😂😂😂
Ala c n kma wanadarau pesa..😂
Akii😂😂😂
Enda ulale
For the first time dem amecheat n for some reasons nmeelewa why she did it...for reall money aint everything..she was being brutally honest n i appreciate her💯
When I met my wife, we were each other's first love; all she needed was love, or so I thought. Now, she needs financial security for her and our two lovely kids. Sometimes she just wants to "torture" me with her "emotional burden," which seems to manifest during certain times of the month, and I should be available - or else? In short, women are complicated, and it frustrates us, men. It appears we both (male & female) do not know what they want (female), so we (men) are put in a place where we always need to figure it out and help educate them on what's suitable for them. But again, women, what do you really want?
😂😂hawa watu huwezy waelewa
Money 🤣🤣🤣mi mambo na affection na hii inflation hapana kwa kweli.
Remember when you love one another you can grow together financially..ie true love and not fake love
Now this gal is a rare species. A genuine one. In a way you might not understand her but a true listener will feel her.
True
Bt why was she faking it,si angemwambia 2 straight b4,xai ndio anadai io shiet afta amepatwa akicheat,ths is not a rare species,ndio wngi uku.
My point is she should have left a long time ago. Why string him along going on all these trips and only come clean about how you feel once you're caught.
@@rajiculous exactly 💯 💯
The why did she have to wait apatikane akicheat?
usiwai kubali mwanaume akutoe kwa mwanaume mwengine utanyanyasika na mwenye unataka nikama akupendi sababu ashaa kuambia anatafuta maisha haiya 💪🇪🇺
Kazi safi BMS
2K more subscribers fikisheni huyu jamaa amejituma kazi safi. Amevunja mifupa mikavu. Retrieving more relationships from toxic pple.
Its the look of the passer by woman.
I've never seen or heard of such a Lady, stands her ground, knows what she wants, confident of her hustle, believes she can make it without him, knows the facts of life and everytime she refers to her mum's advice #itsnotallaboutmoney.
And if it is she can make her own money. Kudos young girl your future is bright. Usijinyime Raha we only live once.
Yeah sure 😊
She's just naive reality is something else
First time in history waa
@@onasisthegreat1946 very true she is super naive
kwa ground vitu ni different..
Dem anajifanya mpole from a christian family na anacheat. There is no justification for cheating. She would have told the guy she doesnt feel him anymore.
I love the way you've approached the issue from the Roots.... 💯Pure facts
In deed! And I think ni defense mechanism juu amepatikana!
If the guy loved her... maybe angejaribu kumuinua. His mind is crowed with money.
A person who loves you empowers you and brings the best out of you.
The lady's maturity is beyond imagination 💖💖
The obviously have different goals. Men, men,men if you don’t water your flower garden with attention there will always be a Bill to do it for you
Yeah. Women go where they feel loved,given attention and true intimacy...
Yes please @Mrs. Kenya tell them for us. Water your garden and make sure the flowers bloom
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Does it means To give someone Attention is one way traffic
Bill🤣🤣🤣
Stevo please a follow up of this. These young couple only luck good communication. I believe they deserve each other. The calmness in both of them...they shouldn't part just like that. They need understanding of each other
once for the gutters... always for the gutters...Bill is giving you attention coz he's enjoying your cookies...wait till he's had enough, utashangaa!!!
Utashangaaa!!! I like
She spoke with him but nowhere stated was cheating with him. Ama hii cheat ni ya kuongea mastory?
@@deekiki1924 what do you understand by cheating?... cheating goes beyond sex young girl....plus sex starts from somewhere:friendship,attention...sex.maybe one day you'll understand when your hubby is spending all his time with another woman he's not sleeping with,yet he shows up just to sleep with you.You will then know what cheating is
True🤦♀️😁😁
The guy doesn't understand his girl's love language but treats her in his own love language. Big mistake
I agree with you most men don't understand girls won't to be treated with their love language wanafanyanga vyenye hao wanataka
Hii ni upuzi. I love straight forward ladies. No need beating around the bush. Be you!
@@dennisbill5098 love language means that you have your own way in which when treated by a lady you feel completely loved, same way applies to your lady. Some value gifts, others affection, others quality time, etc. If you understand each other from that point, believe me the rest is easy to handle.
@@felistamakau4367 it would be more easier if the loved one make this language known to the other half...other than someone doing something to you as a gesture of love but you don't like it
@@dennisbill5098 that's true but you can also get hints by listening to your person, needs keen observation
I admire this girl so much.In today's life is so hard to find a girl who is looking for true love and affection all they think is all about money.I wish you all the very best dear am proud of you.
Before I watch, let me congratulate BMS for reaching 200K 🎉🎈🎊. THE JOURNEY HAS BEEN FULL OF FLAVOR. I have been hooked up since BELOW 10K 👏🏽
All ze best in
200k
After being flown to Seychelles , given iPhone 13, money... women😭😭
@@kimutairuto4119 at least she was honest, the only mistake I find is not telling him before starting to cheat 🤣🤣
Difference between cool kid's argument na sisi wengine sahii tungekuwa tushachukua mawe na kukimbisha mtu but cool kids just taking things slowly no dramas at all... nothing like bring the things I bought you
Hakuna kutolewa nguo na viatu. Mpaka anambembeleza achukue phone
Give me the hood I bought you
Hadi the tone of the voice has going down when the argument started!? wuueeh!
What women want is a normal distribution, skewing the relationship to only love, no money is a problem, and skewing it towards money and fancies is also a problem. Just give a portion a bit at a time, let lucking sometimes be part of growth, or else you become a prince/princess without the royalty.
In short, love yourself first to share your love elsewhere, accept your situation, and understand your partner before fully committing. Cheers!!😘😘
I am a lady yes but sometimes I fail to understand 'us' you get money but still you want attention, affection e.t.c and when you get that person maybe hana dooh still kuna something missing. In this world saizi it's better nililie kwa Range than boda boda, it's a golden opportunity juu love, love is a scum, I just hope hata regret later in life na afind the happiness anatafuta.keep them coming big man.
I support you here.
Daughters of Jezebel is hard to understand you
Pesa lazima love kwa umbali kama sauce/pili pili 😂😂😂
@@jacksonngulu6653 😂😂😂😂😂weeeeh was that necessary
i met a lady january this year and it was when i started staying alone. i had only a matress,blanket and a gas cylinder in a bedsitter,i took her to see where i stays if she could change her mind,but to my surprise she leave her good bed plus a furnished house to visit me every weekend. She got men with money plus cars,those who want to even give money to start business but she declined...she told me what this is saying,(money is not everything). Find love and grow together and you will enjoy..sahii nyumba yangu hiko furnished........A beutiful girl enjoys omena i cook for her..she travels all the way from Karen to umoja......
Hoping it will be that way forever siku isifike aregret
But she was not caught cheating with yu by her previous boyfriend for her to come in yua place, was she?
Better know she's very lost. Don't be blinded with such silly infatuations.. she'll be coming to her senses in no time
@@josephmwangi5644 i am always my own DCI..
@@deekiki1924 😂😂😂😂Kwani wewe ndo unajua those who are lost!!
Opinions are the cheapest commodity, it doesn't matter what peeps are saying about this girl. She is thinking form the heart and most of the comments peeps are thinking with their heads... I'm assuming she's of age and knows what she wants, just imagine a girl walking out on money? Isn't she just rare?? Kuddos big girl.❤️may God be with you.
Today l'm proud of this girl
Life isn't all about money
Let her hustle for her own,
Unlike wengine will do anything to get money.
Though they are young,l believe they got a future
she only brought this affection thing up because her chat with her crushie/bff was exposed. Think about that. Its also clear that the two have a thing for each other. once that guy gets to smash her, issover for her. Take that to the bank. Most men are led by their innate mating instinct
Been reading comments before watching the episode. N the moment i heard the guy emphasizing about money, i just thought that he wont be a caring man.
Pesa ni kama chumvi kwa chakula, inaleta ladha...
The gal is right ,it's not all about money,you can have money but you don't have peace what's for??This gal has reminded me of so many things when I was dating.
I don't see what it is to be admired, but of course we are entitled to having opposing opinions. What I see is a girl who was enjoying a 3 + year lifestyle that money brings just to bash it when caught seducing her crash. All for what? To pass the blame on to the boyfriend. Hawa ndio watu tunawaita wenye kiburi cha kiwango cha lami.
But all they needed was to discuss their gaps. Life without money is also miserable. She could just a job and they addresses her emotional issues
Let her go Bro....... Don't look back. She will drag you back in this life and on top, bring you disease akisema ni affection anatafuta.
The truth is that the lady don't love❤ the boy full stop. She was just waiting for a way to get herself out of the relationship ,vile wasichana wengi out there wana fake love bcoz of money wewe ndio hio pesa unaitoroka that means hakuna mapenzi hapa
For the first time i thought it was scripted,do such kind of ladies exist really?man stivo you doing good work bro.
Money is important as well as affection,just balance both🤗🤗
JUST saying "balance" doesn't help here,...
She just needed to TALK to him & Not "Cheating (SECRETLY)", ...tell him or leave Him--> Not Cheating secretly, hypocrisy/chritian!?...
cheat can't be a solution...No some MEN bit up these kind of girls !!
The girl either doesn't know what she wants or apparently she is one of those who never admit making mistakes.
This girl clearly doesn't love the dude. If a girl loves you she will find her way around you
We this economy I don't think so. One can't have cake n eat it.
So ungefuata pesa
Why do most cheating spouses/partners resort to blame games and reverse psychology when nabbed? This female plays the victim when she's supposed to explain her infidelity.
She never loved the man
We Sychelles, Iphone 13 and still sge cheats, na mimi hata the small town kama kamagut have not taken her, God have mercy.
Dope content, I'll never get bored of watching BMS..Very mature and educative unlike some other childish stuff elsewhere
U talking about Pluto's staff I know
Let's appreciate all of them..content creation is not easy
Sure u can't get bored with BMS mature content
Sema team dhinosh...unaogopa nn😂😂😂😂
This "he is not giving me attention", is an out dated lie. Why didn't she address the issue with him before looking for someone else? What happened to COMMUNICATION as being one of the pillars in any courtship? Using suggestions is not communicating but trying to communicate and not emphatic verbal communication as required. If money wasn't the issue why did she continue receiving till the day she is caught, she could have broken up long ago and be with the other dude since "money was not an issue" for her if she was that "principled" .
The wiseman himself...
I guess the so called Billy were using the boy child money together with this chick.
The way she took the phone when mshikaji was not there, that show pretty much how she badly wanted that phone. Huyu atalilia chooni ata sio long, a matter of time.
Wallahi
you typed all my points
I stopped dating the day I realized money is a big factor in relationship and then I decided to work on myself😊
When she grows up,she will realize the value of money,your children’s future and everything else around you,poverty with intimacy has no honor!
Money 🤑 without attention I can't stay
@@Dorismteuledestiny true it's a deadly alarm
Enyewe anafaa kutulia kwa pesa hata kama anaweza nyongwa any time!
@@Dorismteuledestiny ata Mimi siwezi 😏😏
Exactly 💯
Money is very good and very important.. however boychild anachoma! The more he speaks the more you understand why the lady is leaving..
Money is not everything, it is the only thing. When you're caught, don't lie. Let her go and and soon she will first apologise to money.. 😆😆😆
😂😂😂Bitter truth
It's simple: she didn't love this guy AT ALL. She's always wanted to leave him, but didn't know how to do it. And when BMS came along, BOOM, she got the perfect opportunity to break the bad news!
Well spoken .Attention affection etc r just excuses.
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I think the lady doesn't love that guy."maybe he is poor at 🛏️"
Dem alikua fed up na their relationship,alingoja chance ya kuexit na BMS akajileta kimiujiza.
From her body language, she meant the guy was not giving her sex not attention. Some of the ladies out here are addicted to sex, if they can't get they will go outside. A relationship is not based only on sex, I hope she is only about attention. The guy did not react well also coz he failed to give it to her all the time.
Sharp mind beib gal proud of you big time👏👏👏👏👌👌👌👌
Heeeeeee eeee ati you can't survive without me ,take the phone I can't Keep it coz it's too cheap for me🤔 thanks Steve for helping this girl untie herself off this proud man!!!!
Money is not everything?
The ONLY person with the right to use that line is the one with money in the first place.
Exactly
True
On God
I hear it's not everything, it's the only thing
My point to be precise 🤣🤣🤣
I love this girl. The moment she said 'watch me'. You're gonna making it girl. You look so tiny but mature upstairs. You don't survive because of a man or money, you survive and liveth because God's grace is abundance. Go make your money girl. Receive hugs and love from mama Tukufu💘💘💘
This gal brought hope, that there are good souls out there. that was the best decision for her peace of mind
Well said
@@mems2577 she is a cheater
Which grace, she was cheating two boys, and she will realize that grace don't pay bills
@@Gordon6514 which well
understanding differential calculus is easier than understanding what women wants
😂😂😂😂 sure
Once I have caught cheating first thing to create is a liars,to protect myself,😂😂😂this lady she's lying because she have caught cheating.
Am still regreting this statement"education is better than money" see my life now,education without money,🤣🤣
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Iseeeeee🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Girl I feel you😂😂😂😂
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In life God made it in such a way that you can never have everything, if u get a man with affection, time and attention, then he will be broke, and once u get a man who is hustling, financially stable then he will lack the other aspects, ladies should learn to appreciate what they have and nurture that into what is best rather than cheat and give all sorts of excuses just to look innocent, life is all about appreciating what u have and grooming it into something of value. No lady, I repeat, no lady would ever wish to date a poor man who can only offer love and affection, love and affection can't pay bills or build u a house, even to those who offer u such will soon taste the wrath of being damped for those who have a future (money and hard work) Love and affection is not the future my dear sisters.....am even annoyed. Just stay blessed y'all
She could have used the same money to capture the man's attention and affection...poor girl..she doesn't no how to use resources.
@@dorotheamethod347 very brilliant analysis, we really need to teach some of these young ones how sustainable marriages work
And the vise versa of your thought is also true
The same God mwenye utest wenye wanapenda men with nothing and grow together hawa watu umaliza vizuri Sana
Well spoken.This girl never loved him!!!eti attention!attention!nonsense na hii inflation who has time for attention 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
This lady is using the statement Money is not everything to conceal her infidelity which the other guy has assured her heaven which she is going for. In the beginning she states that she loves her guy for he is caring....But towards the end....that statement is withdrawn once infidelity is noted.....Guys need to be careful of being used...
You got it wrong brother..did you hear who made the first move ? No infidelity ,pure intentions. This lady is a gem .I wish I met such like 👍
Chapa like kwa MBS good job
Nikose nichekwe
Oh dear, absent emotions and affection. Babygirl run run run it will only get worse and worse. Some people don’t have it and do not realise what they lack and this started in their upbringing as a baby. You can’t communicate with them it’s like talking to a rock. Their don’t understand affection or intimacy it was never part of the upbringing you will bleed to death trying to get to understand you. Leave when you can, it’s get even worse in marriage ……..
You got to balance everything. Work, money, attention, etc...
How?? Now
The girl will soon realise that affection over money gets you nowhere in this world...but the guy has to realise that money is a big factor yes but it still isn't everything
Is affection a form of love?
"Affection" is popularly used to denote a feeling or type of love, amounting to more than goodwill or friendship. Writers on ethics generally use the word to refer to distinct states of feeling, both lasting and spasmodic. Some contrast it with passion as being free from the distinctively sensual element.
Nko side ya huyu boy.. for real, ako mature hajampokonya Kila kitu, stevo tell that girl atateseka huko nje vile maisha ni ngumu kenya, watu wanatafta wazungu kilimani yeye anafuata watu wa vibanda, na hiyo pesa akipewa hajawahi fikiria kusave afungue bihashara yake hata akiachana na boy ako na kitu ya maana anajigamba nayo, ni mapenzi na attention anataka? Next year atakuwa githurai 44 akitafta mubaba..bill atakuheartbreak mpaka maini.
Nimekwama Kwa kilimani
Fatma...wacha watakula mapenzi....alaf achezwe na dem akona doh...
@@jumajoan9349 wazungu wako huko wanafanyia wasicha 3some
@@judithmueni2390 nampea tu mwaka , she will cry later
💯 you said it all
Affection and attention wau wat does girls really want with money they cheat claiming attention wen u vice versa they cheat with wababas bcoz of money... Nothing more to say like ur show big man stevo am ur biggest fam
Ladies are really confused..😢😢.some complain that their guys are broke!!
Now this one says that money is not everything...sasa..tufanyeje???🤔🤔
For sure am even confused pia Mimi. Nipesa tunatafuta ama ni attention?
@@elvisbabu1324 baana..🤣
Is because she have caught 😂😂😂 does y she say that I know ladies,once caught cheating you will come with excuses 😂
u just balance,it's that simple
Madem n manyokaaa sanaaaaa.....skia upuuzi Sasa....dem amekosea na anaturn tables to the boy.......love is a dedication
Such an Intelligent Young Lady....... "It's Not all About Money & Travelling, I need Affection more, Intimacy, someone to talk too, someone to listen to me"....... Kijana wake up........
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i think huyu kijana hajui intimacy ni nini..... the girl wants somethin....
Exactly me
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No wonder ladies date rich men bt have some other guy whom they love,,
When you have problems everywhere even in your reasoning, money is the problem. When you are smart and sure you can make it by yourself with nobody's help, friendship and partnership supersedes everything.
I love such titles, it always Twist our minds, we don't know who is who🤣
Guys keep subscribing, 500k we are coming with a bang,don't forget to like and share the videos please for BMS SAKE😊
😂😂😂 exactly
Yeah he should always give us suspense titles not mentioning who is the unfaithful party.Curiosity makes one to watch everything.
@@debbiethekenyan3274 very true
So I'm not the only one who didn't understand the tittle 😂😂😂😂ady uwatch ufuatilie yote
@@ngangamercy124 yes,you didn't know who bms was referring to..😊
This lombotove sanitisation is becoming more and more interesting,, I'm learning alot day by day,, thanks BMS for sharing this
Katika mafundisho ya leo tumejifunza.
1: its not all about money.🤑
2: intimacy
3: affection
4: naeza kula kwa kibandaski na ni survive 🥑🍛
Hahahaha
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gal stand strong and its rare to find character like this. wish comrade flavour u follows that couple and maybe u counsel them to reconcile
The audacity in "you can't survive without me" seriously...gal you made the best decision...uyu nigutee
Imagine 🤔
This is one girl in a million.
‘You can’t survive without me’ are statements made by abusive people, they abuse you in one way or the other.
Oh dear, absent emotions and affection. Babygirl run run run it will only get worse and worse. Some people don’t have it and do not realise what they lack and this started in their upbringing as a baby. You can’t communicate with them it’s like talking to a rock. Their don’t understand affection or intimacy it was never part of the upbringing you will bleed to death trying to get to understand you. Leave when you can, it’s get even worse in marriage ……..
Huyu dem ni beste yangu anaitwa caro na anapenda kuongea kizungu sana she is a good girl sikua nimeona hi loyalty test nitampigia nimu enjoy🤣🤣🤣🤣
Waaah,am speechless 😶 manze, but thank God wameachana kwa amani, peace ✌️ kitu ya muhimu sana.respect ✊to our bro steve
Makofi for this young and beautiful gal 👏👏👏
Am super proud of you baby girl,one in a million
Must you cheat so as to communicate whatever to your partner 🤷,if you live together, initiate your issues and talk about them, don't think hurting someone this way will make you feel better. That's cheating, infidelity!!!
Kabisa
Talk to them
I'm sure she tried
@@SO-xi6vm what makes you so sure?
@@lavoste007 The way she tried communicating it but still somehow that guy just did the same exact thing and ended up talking about "money and trips" .......He is not listening to her .........just ignoring what she is trying to communicate............ not an excuse for cheating though....
The girl has a valid point. Kijana name ni kama anafikiria pesa yake everything. He thought the lady would run after the phone and he realised that's not working, he tried to give the phone back....
I wish we have more of this girl, she is a gem! The boychild is losing it! You can’t just bluff about the places you have taken your woman to on air! He makes the little and gorgeous girl insignificant 😢
sure and mind you he takes her while they still not together coz what she wants he still dont gerrit
I took you to Seychelles recently, and we're going to Mombasa, I bought you the latest iPhone 😅😅😅
It seems this gal was suffocating, she needed a chance like this to pour her heart out, now she is freed,not living a lie now
This lady will cry premium tears......Mwanaume akiomoka he will date every skirt he meets.....amsaying this from experience....aki this is hurting
Dis Gal already moved on bro... She was waiting for da devil's timing 🤣🤣
i think... the gal akona new catch..... we act like this wen we are in love somwea else.......🤫🤫
This lady is sharp she defends herself for cheating with a friend but she won't survive without this guy
Reality
THIS HAS BLOWN ME OFF
"I need affection, I'm a woman!" Is this not selfishness, how else can I describe it?
What is there for us men!!?
Love is sometimes a scam!
Balance
Umekasirika mbaya
Not sometimes but always a scam
@@ruenyabz3344 Nop!
She never loved the guy same as for bill hapendi this guy umthanie siye mimi si wa mombasa but thats the point
And for us who want that money love tutaitoa wapi...ety "it's not all about money" little gal just listen to yourself 🤣🤣🤣
She’s the one who should be afraid of losing you ,not the other way round.
Which other affection does she need
Comrades flavour advice hii couple advice is much needed here than anywhere else don't let them break up advice them sanasana the boychild and am sure the two will be the best couples ever
It's high time BMS started surprising us on shopping center and malls while not compromise the security... 👍
Wacha akae huko. Sema me not us
@@kennte atlist tukutwe hence maybe saving time, energy and resources juu hatushikangi masimu zao
@BEING KESH 🤣🤣🤣 tena to strictly mature couples
@Robba sadika "Uko ready kucheka yako ya mwisho?" jibu hi swali BMS huuliza as a disclaimer 🙃
@@fullblastrecognize8480the earlier the better Wallai, me I won't lie by the looks of things gender equality came out strong
waaaa boy child go on live this lady belongs to streets
I wonder all comments are in favor of a cheater...she lacks no affection she is not attached to this love herself...go eat attention poor girl...u will soon miss this guy.
I like how this guy is soft spoken
This gal is reasoning like a kid,,she has emotional issues,, that kind of person will always talk about nonsense kama attention,, when you go places na mtu is that not attention? She's still neive so I can't blame her
I like how stevo gets creative with his words and stealthily ingishas majamaa box wakubaliane na hii kitu bana juu mi naye ukinikuta ivo tu direct uniambie sanitization siezi kubali😂
Tuletewe follow up ya 3some pleasw gonga like wale tunataka hii follow up
I think the youngman is not listening the lady is being very honest,steve try and talk to the guy to reconsider his decision I think the lady is very honest and she's not all about money.
The ladies of this century,,God come to the rescue of a boy child,,you give her money she wants attention,,you give her attention again money is a problem,,
Balance the 2 and she will be fine🤣
I bet they should know how to balance.
Attention is given only by broke spouses..real men provides and sometimes stretch their time to take you to Mombasa and Seychelles
Why she playing the victim in this case when she's the one clearly on the wrong? She's been found cheating. She should have informed the guy of her discontent and left earlier if at all she wasn't happy in the relationship.
Well said
I was thinking the same
Inaitwa kuekelea double chance
Surely she should have left if she felt not loved. This girl is heartless. She can't even pretend to be sorry
She is a devil
But this girl is speaking the truth..kwanza marriage money is not everything
"Wacha tuskie attention unataka" 😂😂 haki big man stevo 😂😂😂 huyu dem hataki Doo 😂😂 ,anayekupenda humpendi anapenda mwingine anayependa mwingine weeuh this life 💔 mnipee hiyo simu haki 😂
If your man is not the man you wished for...make him the man you want to be,don't wait him to change to be the" man"....this is where the lady failed but anyway wishing her the best of luck
To the guy...take it easy💪
I love this ,,provided he's ready to listen to you
The Lady is honest, I appreciate her, she is clear of her need. This girl is good. Such a principled lady is hard to come by.
She can be a good wife who can understand every situation in life
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Bado ni mdogo acha miaka zigonge ndio ataangukia ata mzee amuoe mwenye anaeza kum understand
She not honest you can not get a complete being in this world, we all learn to leave with our blessing, God can not give you money and affection same % when one is high another one is low.
Don't date an idle guy...she mistakes idle guy for attention
The moment someone tell you you cannot survive without them ...WALK AWAY AND PROVE THEM WRONG
There a guy who told me hivyo mungu naye ni nani,ni muweza yote
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