Bullying happens in every country, society, ages, or even corporations. When we were young, we deal with it like bruce lee. In England, physical conflict is rather common and lightly treated even by the police. The most important thing is to keep yourself sane or give the victims a lot of support. Some character or act may easily attract bullying. It is a learning process for all of us parents or individuals. We need to deal with it in every stages of our life.
Unfortunately, bullying behaviors stem from families. When a child bullying, most learn from parents who are physical violence and anger. Schools should have more Counselors.
Agree with your advice don't give small presents to all. This will really create jealousy among some students/young children. For adults, we are mature, we don't mind and we love free gifts. 😂😂😂
Just to inform you that the flying ants are an indication of a storm is coming. This was typical back in the old days in HK when there was a typhoon. The most recent encounter was a few years back in the UK, after a full day of two rounds of golf competition, going back to the car park. We noticed that the "skin" of the car of a fellow competitor was melting. At a closer look, it was hundred and hundred of ants with wings which caused the shimmering effect. It was fortunate that this didn't happen to our car. But these flying ants were much bigger than those that I had come across back in the HK days when I was young.
我接Head of year 電話都接咗5，6次,見家長都見咗2,3次,根本好難解決。老師每次只勸被欺凌者不要還手, 然後離開現場,跟住向head of year 講, that all, 明白的，就等於離開現場打999差唔多!😅 你一還手就兩個都罰(明白罰的程度有點不同,但不是好大)，頂😤! 無第一個出手先，大家又點會開拖呀! 下下叫佢走/被, 在學校內點走呢？而家係人哋主動攪你呀! (老師無聲出), D學生又鐘意食花生，同學會勸交情景我未聽過。在香港都知D鬼仔玩得癲，但香港D鬼仔感覺上叫得佢停, 呢度好似有D失控。真係爆粗!😤😡
一講起如果個仔比人打
鬆太即爆粗😂
呢啲咪母愛囉👍🏻
解決學校欺凌問題的關鍵人物是班主任。每年開學我都會和同學討論分析欺凌問題，我會揭穿欺凌者的心理狀態，告訴同學欺凌者其實是弱者，性格有缺陷，外表扮大佬作掩飾，同學切不要順從他無理的要求。但被欺凌者亦要反省自己是否有問題，惹來同學不滿，例如個人衞生、自私… 亦要學會say’No’，保護自己。
班主任要清楚告訴同學，如有欺凌事件，一定會嚴肅處理。
講規矩之外，另一方面亦要動之以情，以自己為例，告訴同學，中學同學是一世朋友，要好好珍惜。
這樣輔導，通常一年都相安無事。
同意，關鍵人物係老師。
好多時，引致欺凌的就係老師對個別同學的態度。
我遇過，大部份老師心裡係認為被欺凌者爲佢幫來麻煩，畀多咗嘢佢做，然後，有意無意再會引致更多欺凌。
鬆太講粗口好自然，笑L死😂
Bullying happens in every country, society, ages, or even corporations. When we were young, we deal with it like bruce lee. In England, physical conflict is rather common and lightly treated even by the police. The most important thing is to keep yourself sane or give the victims a lot of support. Some character or act may easily attract bullying. It is a learning process for all of us parents or individuals. We need to deal with it in every stages of our life.
鬆太，好正呀，聽到個仔俾人欺凌，真情流露❤
Ykiu nji j
多謝鬆仔分享資訊，鬆太呢集嘅表現非常超卓，深深感受到她的“愛子深切！”，揼實佢確係好主意！不過我冷靜過後都係跟鬆仔嘅方案好啲！
我女就是在year 10遇到言語欺凌，壓力大到爆發濕疹兼失眠，天天請假4個月，6月中轉到新學校，開心返學。在新學都有言語欺凌，經一事長一智，馬上通知學校，老師即時做野。
希望你女兒新校快點適應。選校好緊要！我的女兒和另一朋友女兒幸運無遇到。其中之一，當初選校就選多種族的學校，例如：有部份係南亞、部分係華裔 （總數加埋20幾個%）, 其餘local，同學之間相處會幾好, friendly，學校好注重融和...係Good 的學校，多種族要outstanding 的學校大城市就唔多，有都較難插班。
請問𨍭到邊間新學校，因嚟緊想移民怕學校欺凌
最難處理係小朋友講一半唔講一半 , 似被欺凌 , 但又好似係自己小朋友唔合群 , 似被針對, 但又好似係自己小朋友太敏感 ,
正確指引先真正係幫到人，thanks🙏🏻
仔女被人欺凌，真係會觸動每一個家長，聽鬆仔你咁耐嘅節目，今集係聽到最多‘七’字嘅。連鬆太都忍唔住要講返幾個🤣🤣🤣
鬆太講，蝦我個仔啊啦，搵人揼柒佢🤣🤣
鬆太好可愛😂😂😂
鬆仔非常認同你講嘅總結👍感謝鬆仔鬆太長盡分享😊😊
今條片必須比讚！
小朋友係邊道都唔可以膽小怕事，唔好淨係識得喊，一定要反擊，家長都要教子女一啲自衛術。
老師角度是有家長投訴先會處理.我最注重受害者有被關注,首先受害小童的表現見否家長過敏反應,鬆太正是愛子的表現,仔女受欺負都會起火不能忍受,但試試想另一方家長也很頭痛,在英國學校在容忍的尺度是比較寬容,而父母一聽到子女被欺負一定必站在子女一方甚或有情绪失控的可能😊
15:12
Tup👉🏻👉🏻實👈🏻👈🏻佢
鬆太😂😂😂😂👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
非常有用的資訊，謝謝鬆仔鬆太！❤
喺香港，我仔係畀老師欺凌。
鬆仔你真係講得好 ideal 😅
要明白一樣嘢，每一個step，都會對孩子帶來壓力的。這是家長們的顧慮。
我只係講個process 出黎
係呀係呀～唔好鋒芒畢露，要低調呀～。要教佢哋互相幫助，多啲欣賞別人，人地做錯或輪盡都唔好笑人就夠。
支持鬆B 良心頻道！
🙇♀️🧡🙏🏻
多謝鬆仔咁詳細講個D投訴跟進的步驟！👍🙏very informative,我地會save低，希望唔需要用到。
正👍，有片睇，thank you for sharing.
多謝鬆仔鬆太嘅真情分享🙏🏻😄
多謝你嘅分享！
被欺凌同學有一半通常都會當有機會都會欺凌返人, 因為中國小朋友被欺凌後心態上我欺凌人先就唔會被欺凌, 所以最後會輪迴不斷. 再加上學生家長先係一個好大主因, 有家長會教子女反擊, 有家長就會教投訴(但經驗係會之後更嚴重).
我以前都接觸過部份小學有同學欺凌人同被欺凌, 最後由小朋友心理學家推薦每年多啲過時過節都去參加下啲弱勢社群, 如老人院, 殘疾人士, 長期病患小朋友, 比佢地多啲接觸比自己差人士以增加小朋友同理心, 久而久之啲小朋友心態會改變, 會心同感受. (以前童軍有冇發覺冇唻啲問題出現?)大大改變小朋友心態, 家長反映小朋友係屋企態度都有改變.
鬆太好可愛 😍
講得好好，就算無仔女既我聽左之後都明白英國事事講程序，處理其他問題都比較無咁無從入手。
Like 到爆！鬆太真性情話「搵人去揼柒佢囉」🤣
鬆太講粗囗好正… Like.😄
雖則以暴易暴不是最好方法！ 可是，區區年少時在一所名校，曾遇到校園欺凌事件便曾反抗，令他嘗到苦果(幸好自小家父便教區區自衛術)，繼而向學校訓導主任報告；後來，他找來幫手，正當我們打作一團，老師亦已介入，亊情也隨著時間淡化！想起來，已是數十年前了，現在仍然是朋友。其實，當年校方沒有作出嚴厲重罰，他們三個月要到校內小聖堂念玫瑰經贖罪，區區則一個月。
我自己或許較幸運，三個仔女從小到大都未受過被欺凌，或者他們自己都惡死（但絕對不會冒犯他人）。
要從欺凌中得到快感的人係會進化嘅唔係單單欺凌同班同學、有高年級嘅會响轉堂放學期間在走廊從後大力撞低年級學生、而被撞者無法認出係邊個😢
鬆太真係好錫啲仔。如果有人恰我啲仔！我會揼柒佢😂非常應同😅我都係😅（不過）我會了解成件事因由先。
應該笠佢麻包袋，佢得罪咁多人，等佢估下邊個覆桌，白色恐怖自我審查下
好祥盡👍👍
Thanks, Mr. & Mrs. Zon
Unfortunately, bullying behaviors stem from families. When a child bullying, most learn from parents who are physical violence and anger. Schools should have more Counselors.
欺凌者總是成群結隊行動，一種向他們的伙伴炫耀的方式。欺凌發生時，欺凌者認為他們可以毫無後果地這樣做。他們選擇目標是那些認為沒有人會幫助他們的人。向他們展示後果是阻止欺凌發生的唯一方法. 最好的方法是讓學校或自己牽涉警方。
😍早晨👏🏼多謝分享
身體健康👏🏼
local government ombudsman, just in case anyone couldn’t figure out the exact term.
請問, 家庭欺凌點處理呀? 好多移英港人都有家庭問題呢?
揼實佢😂😂😂
15:11 好正常反應，鬆太💪🏼
淨係倫敦在2021年有80名teenagers被刺死，好多。
欣賞和喜愛你們的頻道❤加油❤
原來鬆太識講粗口😂
呢兩日題材好有用已分享我喺英國所相識嘅朋友
Hello鬆仔鬆太😊
Agree with your advice don't give small presents to all. This will really create jealousy among some students/young children. For adults, we are mature, we don't mind and we love free gifts. 😂😂😂
加油。
大家好，在七月曼城Failsworth有個男學生遭同學欺凌選擇自殺結束生命..名字叫Eric Lin😢😢😢😢😢😢
其實中學時期個個都有，只係會唔會發左到有生命危險or 傷人，我小5個時都成日玩個同校車同學最後被老師罰左獲金😅，我都係覺得同小朋友傾多啲計留意下佢有沒特別變化
I like 鬆太 👍🏻
我以前讀書時有人畀人蝦， 受害者在早會時大聲嗌 嗰個同學蝦我， 就標籤咗嗰個同學 蝦人，到老師同其他高年班同學都會注意佢 ，佢之後就唔敢再蝦人😊
鬆太→揼七佢!💪🏻🤣
唔解除自己小朋友苦惱會可大可小，見過想自殺，家長凶對方小朋友!？
1)可係返/放學大大聲揚凶佢(如唔成功凶到佢，咁樣會影響日後同校方商討)
2)搵機會同小朋友嘅本地朋友friend吓，例如請嘢食，e招幾work!
Thanks !
好片
鬆太好自然咁講打柒佢....我笑左!
喺外國界刀係攻擊武器, 唔同香港, 喺文具店好輕易買到!喺美國home improvement store, 界刀係喺鎖住， 要叫人埋黎開櫃先買到！
我自己有兩個仔已成年，而其中一個都話佢有在校內被欺凌。
Teenage 欺凌或被欺凌似乎係呢嗰年齡群嘅一個普遍現象。
題外話，如果情感傷害就係欺凌，而呢個年齡群嘅小朋友，試圖使用權力，但又冇乜分寸，父母稱之為「反叛年齡」，其實都好大部份會欺凌（頂心頂肺）父母。我身邊嘅朋友都好多訴苦話呢個階段仔女好難頂。
teenage 應該係一個好大課題。
鬆仔講得啱要反省。我女玩運動，所以一向短頭髮兼唔鐘意著裙。去到新學校都留番長少少頭髮。不過，我教小朋友，我們在人群中就已經是特別的，因為我哋係亞洲人，加上我女學校華人不到5個。
Just to inform you that the flying ants are an indication of a storm is coming. This was typical back in the old days in HK when there was a typhoon. The most recent encounter was a few years back in the UK, after a full day of two rounds of golf competition, going back to the car park. We noticed that the "skin" of the car of a fellow competitor was melting. At a closer look, it was hundred and hundred of ants with wings which caused the shimmering effect. It was fortunate that this didn't happen to our car. But these flying ants were much bigger than those that I had come across back in the HK days when I was young.
即係要忍😢
請問，當學生(中學和小學)遇到欺凌，學校/老師的普遍態度是怎樣呢？受理/唔理 ?
飛蟻日以前香港有時都有
如果咁啱去游泳池會見到成個水面滿晒
會專門有清潔啊姐撈
我在南部，幾日前已遇到大飛蟻日，當時已經好奇怪，點解咁多飛蟻呢？😅 但幾個鐘頭之後就走晒了
生活外地基本自衞術由其重要，應該自小便學習強身健體！文武兼備！
國與國之間除了友好關係也要說自我保衛力量，才會被受尊重！不要忘記！我們也是動物，弱肉強食適者生存是自然定律！
we have it flying ant these 2 days in Canada where I live
hi gm
Good afternoon 😊Zon氏夫婦💑
有冇D欺凌人地的家長，可以點教下佢地的仔女？ 比佢地日日睇D欺凌人的電視
係呀！好多飛蟻呀！!!!!
三十六着，走為上着。打得贏就打，打不贏就走。讓你的孩子練好身體，由其是要跑得快，對方 見你“大隻”,就不大敢欺負你。但要記得教你的孩子，人不犯我，我不犯人，人若犯我，我必犯人。這樣，被欺凌的機會必小。
我會令小朋友對手就係武器，小朋友係需要識得自己保護自己
保護自己係啱, 不過都要保持克制, 非必要先至出手。
😢
❤❤❤❤❤
心靈脆弱嘅人最容易被欺凌。
搵英國“ 東張” 解決校園欺凌事件！😂😂👍👍
其實報警係咪一個Option？
暴力事件喎
特別好俠😂
早晨
Support
逐層escalate上去都要好多時間。個學生都好慘，好恐懼。校長都攪唔掂就去報警
i.e. 報警有無用呢？
報警大部份時間嚟講冇用
雖然我未有小朋友，但我成日都諗，如果我小朋友俾人欺凌，我會點做？
諗返自己返學時既經歷，其實小朋友既欺凌事件，老師做到既野其實好有限，如老師做左野，佢只會係老師見唔到時恰得再勁啲，因為係人地父母冇教好小朋友先係問題既根源。
所以我第時會教我細路，如果俾人打，還手先，唔好還手要同老師講呢啲真係9up既。😊
補充一句 我既宗旨係 唔可以恰人 都唔可以俾人恰☝🏻
Hello 鬆仔鬆太 👋🏻👋🏻
今日係咪俾飛蟻嚇親，
搞到遲咗出片？😂
絕對係
會變成白蟻嗎？我每年在花見到這種飛蟻，在泥土裏面空群而出超恐怖
鬆太個回應我笑乸左，搵人揼柒佢，講得幾咁流暢同平常🤭
關於派禮物同show off才能勁真係唔太建議😂想當年我讀小學同班就有個咁嘅人，拎咩獎都返嚟同老師講，加開心派禮物😂最後，我諗9成5嘅同學都好討厭佢😂
我同鬆太一樣，你對我唔好我可以忍，你蝦我小朋友。我即時燥爆。
40%已經好高
鬆太好想揼人喎😆😆
我接Head of year 電話都接咗5，6次,見家長都見咗2,3次,根本好難解決。老師每次只勸被欺凌者不要還手, 然後離開現場,跟住向head of year 講, that all, 明白的，就等於離開現場打999差唔多!😅 你一還手就兩個都罰(明白罰的程度有點不同,但不是好大)，頂😤! 無第一個出手先，大家又點會開拖呀! 下下叫佢走/被, 在學校內點走呢？而家係人哋主動攪你呀! (老師無聲出), D學生又鐘意食花生，同學會勸交情景我未聽過。在香港都知D鬼仔玩得癲，但香港D鬼仔感覺上叫得佢停, 呢度好似有D失控。真係爆粗!😤😡
我仔仔在英國讀A level, 沒有欺凌。反而有一位美國來的老師歧視亞洲學生😮💨後被強國大媽家長投訴😂
我上星期去BATH玩,,見超多飛蟻飛來飛去
😂😂❤❤
松太話揼柒佢😂😂
鬆仔講粗口會唔會比youtube 黃標㗎
骨摩零🔆鬆仔＆鬆太🌈🌈
約15分鐘時段，鬆太疑似講粗口
有人敢搞鬆仔仔，鬆太真係會同佢死過😂
絕對會😂