Im 59 yr old male and let me tell ya....It gets REAL STRANGE at this age....You get a REAL Perspective on Everything!!!....I just put ALOT of time into being with my sweet dog and spending quite time/walks with her.
I'm 32 & it's the same. Just with my kids & guinea pigs. Screw people. The majority of them are riddled with insecurities. I feel bad for people who have to grind, as an employee (at a 9-5) for 40 years. That will scrap your soul away.
@@infjmale91yeah I feel sorry and grateful for my dad who was a cop for 40 years and now my mom lives off the widows pension after torturing all of us with drunken rages. When I read book People of the Lie I was stunned to find out the evil people the author was describing were so much like my mom.
@@scaredholy My mum & dad are both vulnerable narcissists. My ex was a covert one (fell into them due to my parents upbringing). Best friend backstabbed me to steal my job. Brothers were turned against me by competitive upbringing. I just gave up with people. I'll ensure my kids will be raised right. It takes time & so many people would rather make you out to be the bad guy to justify their horrible actions to you. Remember, it's NEVER their fault.
It's hard having friends because a lot of them end up removing themselves from your life whenever you succeed in something and they find out. Instead of congratulating you, they decide to cut contact instead.
I used to be very social and more than friendly and people just got more hostile. I have become more introvert and got peace. Free of toxic family and manipulation and guilt to be obligated to show up and be there for them. Now I understand why families move out of state.
Guys, I rather would have No friends and family and be happy than miserable with toxic friends and family that would ruin my peace, mental, and physical health.
We need a dating site for like minded people going through this great awakening. I'm 50 and most of my family and friends have crossed over. No choice now but to become stronger just to survive .
During covid when the vax mandates were happening all of my friends turned on me and told me i deserve to be fired from my job and be thrown in prison for not taking it. All while i am actually about to be fired from my job. Never spoke to them again and have a hard time making friends since. Just dont know who i can trust anymore
@@AbraCaStack1nobody was saying it was a lie, it just wasnt any worse than a bad cold.. babies and elderly should be cautious but the country shouldnt have been shut down and masks shouldnt have been mandated, the vaccine did not stop transmission. It was about control, not safety. The same goes for gun control
You are very wise for your age! I’m a 50 year old woman. What I can tell everyone is that people come and go in your lifetime. Unfortunately not that many people are people who have a good heart and want good for you. I personally made the huge mistake to give unconditional love to my nearest family members. My dad was a very wise man with a good heart and he only wanted the best for everyone. My narcissistic mother and my narcissistic siblings were always jealous and only want the worst for me. I also ended up all alone with no friends or family. But after that experience I decided to only more have good people in my life. I can now build up a circle of only more good hearted people. Unfortunately there are mostly bad or even pure evil people out there. But there are also good people out there and these are the ones we need to find and connect with.
The older I get the more I understand that rejection and lonesomeness is a great blessing and also God's protection. As a youth I couldn't quite connect to mainstreamers and I hated myself for that, now I'm 40 and I am learning that it was ALL God's doing, and accepting myself to be set apart for Him.
42 years old, my father just passed a few weeks ago, I was in and out of hospital with him for 3 months, had to take that time off work. Went back last week and got a termination letter. It’s amazing how clear you see things sometimes, never take anything for granted.
They sacked you because you wanted to be with your father in his final weeks...this is a perfect example of the world we are living in today. You did what was right and true and I wish you all the best.
He will find out more and more how fake a lot of people are. I'm a woman in my late 40s and I've dealt with so many fake people that I prefer to keep to myself. I feel it's safer.
I got divorced because my wife left me. Everybody in my life treated me like I had a disease and slowly ghosted me. I had no idea that getting divorced would be like this. Apparently it is fairly common for a divorced guy to be treated like something is horribly wrong with him and should be avoided. My whole family still keeps in touch with my ex-wife though. She was having an affair and was mentally checked out for my entire marriage because of it. Nobody believes me. I haven't spoken to any former family or friends for five years. During this time I reached out to several people who I thought would speak with me. Evey single one has ignored me as though I do not exist. I feel like I am in the twilight zone. These are people I have literally been there for when they were in similar situations. My only theory is that some unknown lie has been told about me, causing this situation.
It happened to me too after a divorce. I came to the conclusion that if people that have known me my entire life and accepted my support when they needed it listened to a lie instead of checking with me then good riddance. Thank them (silently in your head) for showing you how shallow, disloyal and easily swayed they are. Stay strong, make a great new life for yourself with hobbies, pets a garden, sport or whatever brings you joy. Much love and blessings.
We pray for your healing and restoration in Jesus Mighty Name. Many people are deceived by the devil and his temptations. Take heart, keep strong, press on, hold on to God's Word. What matters is you are on the right path yourself, for that road leads to LIFE. God is able to keep you there no matter how hard. He is faithful.
The exact same thing happen to me. My ex-wife divorced me. Her “excuse” was that I was too strict with my son and you know what YES I was and still am. Guess who thanks me for being the way I am til this day? My soon to be 21 year old son. My 16 year old daughter also thanks me. It’s been 3 years since I left my old residence and guess who is still miserable, resentful and is easily triggered when my son and daughter are over my place?…Yup, my ex-wife. When she filed for divorce, she began telling false stories about how I was a horrible father. She told all her friends and family members to include my siblings. They all ignored me and didn’t talk to me nor reached out to at least get my side of the story. She also tried to turn my kids against me. It only worked in the beginning but then backfired shortly afterwards. But you know what? I didn’t give a flying F*%!. All that mattered was that my son and daughter know the truth. I cannot thank her enough for doing what she did. It really was a blessing in disguise. I now have a very small circle of friends that were there for me and my kids when my divorce began and are still actively part of my life. Each and everyone of them know the type of person I’ve always been and stuck by me. Each and everyone of them offered they’re home to me and my kids when all of this began. But not just offered, but actually delivered. Amazing!! I’ll forever be thankful and grateful. So my friend, stay strong, don’t worry nor waste time and energy on the things you have no control over or toxic people. Focus on yourself, your wellbeing, eat right, stay active, truly love yourself, find genuine inner joy, avoid buying crap thinking it’ll make you happy cause it worn’t and embrace a simple life. It truly is a beauty! Solitude is my best friend and stoicism is my guide. Take care!
As i got older, i started to have less friends. And i got to the point where im not afraid of losing friends. I aint got time to waste with people who are not my level. I like company but i been liking my solitude more.
My advice is that people should not be too trusting of people and should not get too close to other people, because people are unpredictable and emotionally dangerous and physically dangerous !
Yeah but if you think this abt literally everybody then you're overly paranoid and even fearful avoidant. I am in the same boat, but I make sure I don't fall too deep into this and end up loosing my mind. "This" being not having and family or friend.
@@TurbulantSynider Anybody that's always running around screaming all men or all women is broken. You constantly get into relationships like that because you're in idolatry against Yah. And/or you're attracting spirits in ppl that are similar to the ones in you or your bloodline. Ppl with soul fractures/trauma attract each other. Then there's agendas against men/the head and anti-family system agendas have been pushed for for ever. The elites wants everyone turnd out. They want men with men and women with women. Ppl who don't know where the good men or women are either aren't looking, are in idolatry, or are attracting what's like them. Maybe even some relation trauma from family, which goes back to your parents have the jezebel spirirt or others. And then from your family system and parental abuse, you become married to the jezebel spirirt in the spirirt realm, which makes you constantly get into relationships with ppl who have the jezebel spirirt. Which means you have the Ahab spirirt and may have jezebel, leviathen, and other spirirts too.
@@m.htruth8880 yeah. We are. The lone wolves. That's why we are scary. Others stuck in the rat race pretending to be something they aren't to impress others or their SOs have lots to lose. They lose their jobs, people they want as friends & ultimate their fake lives as they are too afraid to step away from the fakeness & look for personal growth/something better. They are scared to lose that. People, like us, who are alone & already done the growth are the scariest because we don't have that fake facade we are scared of breaking which will disappoint bad people in their lives.
Today is my 53rd birthday - July 4th in America is awesome. I have no family or friends to speak to or hear from, I received no cards or gifts and have no birthday cake. Very tough...I could easily go out and see fireworks and parades and do stuff alone, but it's not worth risking the crowd issues we have around Chicago. Mass shootings there all day today. Cheers everyone.
Happy birthday my friend. We share the day and I had similar lone birthday. I don’t make a big deal of it. It’s a consumerism construct so I’m not expecting any special on the day. I’ve learned to fill my days with things and people I like. Good people are rare but you recognize them when you meet them.
We only have one birthday and that was the day you were born. Even though we become a year older on that date. It was a man made celebration for us to spend more money.
Its more like if they a Narc...They dead inside, so they need someone to leach on, just to feel something or somewhat alive..Leaching kinda like todays whamen does for resources, physical doing favors, and or just to be seen(admired in their twisted head)...Narcs all so need some free spirited soul, to copy of...Like good useful ideas, projects around the house, garden etc....Seen that all to many times....They dead inside..No morals ethics values or principles 😣...They might as well be six feet under...Oh well all in good time...Stay clear and stand back from the NARCS ⚠️
@@nightowl6811 so many fake and narcissistic people. That's a big part of it. They mostly are self centered and don't care if they annoy or disrespect others
I can relate. 62 no friends to spend time with. Frequently alone. Have my son and granddaughter but am usually with self! No romance for many years. Spend lots of time near rivers, woods and peaceful places.
Late bloomer here. Took me years of foolishness (chasing worldly pleasures) but at 50 I did a 180° turn to better my physical and mental health and it feels great. Thanks for this video, these talks help me to stay on the grind to better myself.
Family and friends are F-words as far as I'm concerned. Family members are a complete write-off and the true friends I've ever had in all my years I can count on one hand - maybe two if I really gave the benefit of the doubt. My only true best friend was my wife and she passed from cancer last summer. The last of our four dogs died this past spring so now I'm alone and accepting it'll be that way from here on in until its my turn.
@@Go_Play_Outside Thank you for the advice. I have thought about that option but, being alone, I wonder that if anything happened to me than who would take care of the dog? He/Her would end up going back to a shelter again and I wouldn't want to traumatize them a second time by that happening.
You are spot on Terry!! I don’t tolerate the chaos anymore. I enjoy a clean healthy happy fit life. If shit heads towards me, it is jock blocked. End of story. Thanks for your positive attitude. So healthy!!!
Staring at a phone, being chained to social media, being in debt, self destructive behaviors, lying, stealing, being selfish, having no morals/ethics or accountability is the norm in this world. The other path is a path of solitude. Walking that path is very difficult in this world but the dividends can be huge if you are strong enough to take it.
friends - Go meet and connect with different people online or overseas. family - Accept them for who they are and move on with your life. Wait for God to send you the right woman so that maybe you can create a family with her. nothing - Your life is going to become better. Your problems are going to end/disappear. Just stay positive and keep doing the right thing.
Im tired of looking at the modern day woman on streets 😂, all seeking attention, validation 😂, driving and walking, wearing very tight yoga pants, and walking dogs 🐕 and glued to phones waiting on red lights 😂looking all important 😂😂
@@tinasmith7630 lmao oh trust, I understand, it’s crap when the content is the same each day, the moment he stops making this type of stuff is when you know he’s healed and has become better, it’s easy to see the pain when you come from the same place, it’s not a bad thing, just sucks cause I can relate.
I follow 190 channels...Of many kinds..Redpill, Terry here, even Pakistani mecanics welders and metal workers who fix trucks tracktors in the third world...Very fulfilling and inspiring to watch...Ill never need or want any pay to watch tv channel company's. ..I have my UA-cam family..Every day new content. And learning new stuff/skills too....Very content man here 😊
54 here.. never had a friend in my life , never been in a relationship ! walked away from my toxic family and my toxic career. I do not need people in my life PERIOD
I have never had friends that stick around, like I love having people around me but some people just never ever stick around, it’s awful, it’s not the way things were supposed to be what so ever, but it’s the circumstances we’ve dealt with, and had to deal with, it’s just hard to know who to trust because there are a lot of scum who disguise themselves as friends.
WE ARE BORN ALONE AND DIE ALONE. WE ARE ALL ALONE. STOP DEPENDING ON SOMEONE ELSE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY. YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY UNLESS YOU ARE A CRYCRYBIGIDIOTBABYMANBOY ALWAYS WAHWAHWEEWEE
I lost my mother and girlfriend from COVID and I've been alone ever since.No friends or family.Im so numb to it all.I could disappear and noone would even notice.
The bible say in the last days becauce of the increase of wickedness the love of most will wax cold.... The bible says those who sow injustice reap emptiness. I'm a follower of jesus and spirit filled It's happening bro. GOD is drawing a line in the sand GOD is separating the sheep from the goats .... Its totaly true please believe me If you realy look at it all you will see the big picture. And the big picture is GOD. The bible says you reap what you sow,you harvest what you plant. GOD Bless you Chris.....
The strong make many, the starving make few..the dead make none. Just keep grinding fellas..no down time. Fill your week with hard work, min 8 hours sleep daily, and your hobbies etc fill the rest. Dont move in with a girl until fully vetted. And don’t knock her up!
Truly, being alone is better than being with a person who is a negative influence, a barrier to your progress, or passive aggressive towards you. We must take full responsibility for our progress in life. We must take full responsibility for our vibe and self esteem. We must take full responsibility for the people we associate with. We must take full responsibility for our goals and any progress towards them. As you said in another video, "nobody is coming to save you."
my dad was military and I now am so thankful he was strict and tried to instil a good work ethic and discipline. I'm 61 now and this young generation has lost that. They are into being seen and not working so they can post pics on IG ....all well and good but remember where you ganna be in retirement? Nobody coming to save you..you take care of your own damn self...buck up butter cups...shits getting real and you need to have some backbone. Nothing wrong with struggle if you gain wisdom and knowledge along the way. But whining and crying does nothing for ya!
I'm glad I'm not the only one who can see this. I'm sitting here on July 4th all by myself. I'm not sad about it. My identity is found in Jesus Christ. It actually feels good to not be around all that negative energy. Im jjust disappointed that people have to be so selfish, especially family.
Man I clicked on this one fast. My whole family is dead I won’t go into it and my friends weren’t really friends. Now I can’t even find a girlfriend and even if I do I could end up worse off than I already am.
Unfortunately sometimes you just have to let go. People who were once fine can change. It's sad, but if they are going to pull you down in life it's the best way to do things.
A lot of people live in denial, escapism, instant gratification and vapidness. I choose to walk away from people like that as well. It does bring you down and it reminds you of the growth you have made and they are like anvils and sinkers. They subconsciously trying to bring you back down to their level. There is total wickedness running rampant throughout the world.. I want none of it either. Too exhausting and depressing to see others stay stuck.
We are in the last days, the end is very near. When God reveals this to us we shall fear no more. This all shall pass very soon. What matters is don't let the devil trap you through his dark minded agents that appear very loving and helpful. His agenda is only to steal kill and destroy. Pray to God that we do not be deceived as Jesus warned deceivers shall be rampant in last days, even holding prominent church leadership positions. Wolves in sheep clothes. Pray that we are led by The Spirit and not any flesh.
Perilous Times 2 Timothy 3 The Character of Men in the Last Days But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traiters, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
I fully agree! keep persevering, we were warned of these days and dark times, it is all unfolding before our very eyes. I will stand strong with our Lord, with courage, bravery and strength. Keep focusing on God, keep your sight on His Word my brethren. God’s grace and peace be with you! 🌷
Even with the razor-sharp insight that I possess.I know when i'm gettin a great sermon and it won't be coming from the preacher man in the church.Most won't go to church, so Give bro his flowers now.❤
Seeing the title of this video I thought where’s “Hey David,” Isolation brought about by God has been one of the greaTEST times of my 65 year life! In 15 years of training living in the wilderness has taught me how much God loves me . . . How could I possibly ever be alone with A loving Creator who can not will not for sake you . . . Think about what you are able to learn and discern to become the best version of yourself by looking within and DOing the work . . . Thank you for sharing the trUth you have sought and gained in your journey brother Peace ~Dwd~
My family talks about being positive, tells me to smile, and yet I've done everything right. I constantly and I feel like a miserable sack of crap... I eat junk, don't drink, smoke or anything. When I was living with them, I was more miserable I was overweight. And I already know that most of my immediate family members either have sleep apnea, suffered a stroke, having seizures and bladder problems. I think these health problems are often the result of the bad habits I mentioned they have done... And now it's catching up with them. In the last several years I moved out on my own I've lost weight, and I most likely mitigated a lot of possible risks especially during the pandemic, but yet I've been more alone, when I'm with them, I'm belittled, treated like a child what's the point where it becomes self-loathing. They're very passive when I look clearly upset, I brush them off when they ask what's wrong, because clearly they aren't going to listen to me anyway. Plus they act like nothing they unconsciously say was never said. And anything loving or encouraging me to tell me feels hollow... And when I feel emotionally drained they feel happier and are more passive... It just shows that when you do walk a true path that everyone who claims to be righteous... When they themselves are far from it... It shows they all secretly hate me.
I am 40 female and I am on a similar path. I was the wet mop for 34 years. I am learning and growing everyday. It is fun. Thank you for this. Thank you for being here for me to listen to. It really is helpful. 🙏👍
You can't get a silver dollar if you have an old penny stuck in your hand. You're doing the right things, dropping the pennies and keeping your hand empty until a shiny new healthy silver dollar comes along.
Bro, you are blessed to have these understandings & cracked on the right way at an early stage. *for me: procrastination, toxic friendships,alcohol abuse the list goes on. I’m 50 now, somehow things have worked out ok but in my late teens, 20s I definitely knew I wasn’t on the right path but still continued. Unbelievable
Thanks for the video. My son, who is 36, is at this point with family and other people, co-workers, etc. Now I understand he's not the only one. He lives with me. I am his only friend, and he relies on me. I'm working on myself to understand more. Press on.
You are so right on. I would like to speak to you in real life. I'm 56 y.o. with everything I need to complete my life happily. I've lost everyone that matters to me. But there's no one that is worth spending time with. ❤
I am 61. I am working on a money making system. I look at young girls. What do they offer? Will they help me conquer the world? Can they help me do so? I say no. They only offer that pink hole.
I cannot believe im seeing and hearing that there are more people out there like myself...that there is nothing mentally or physically wrong with me...its SELF PRESERVATUON! we are living in a very strange time where nothing is sacred or respected...no privacy, legitimately vile...ive chosen to honor my sense of self, everything i fought so hard to preserve...staying in the present moment, being aware...The book POWER OFNOW is a tool i use everyday..folks think im weird
Thank you, I have been a year now in 19 days of getting used to being alone most of my time. I was extremely depressed for quite some time. You are 100% right in that it gets better, and better. I have learned how to be content with this now. I have my moments, but it keeps getting better with time. I keep my eye on this compas to stay focused on this lifelong path. There are few people to be a joy to be around, yes, I too would rather be by myself. I am mentally healing!
Nobody ever wants you to do better than them. Or at least most people, I’m the only person I’ve ever known that doesn’t get extremely jealous of people and their success. I’ve always been happy for other’s success. I’ve never quit being friends or had a problem with someone because of that. But it’s weird because I’ve had people in my life get extremely jealous over the smallest good things that have happened to me, even when they have had more. I think it’s so strange that most of us seem wired that way. Not that I’ve never been jealous before, we all have but I would never try and hurt someone’s feelings over it or quit being friends with someone because I can’t get over myself. I think I can humbly say I don’t understand that mentality. In fact if someone does well I’ve always been a support system even if I do feel jealous. I realize that’s my problem and I need to get over it and be better as a person. One of the things I look forward to most is being a support system for a spouse and their being that mutual respect between us and celebrating him and his success.
Beware any individual telling you to separate from your family for any reason that isn't perfectly logical. If you walk away then you walk away forever. Don't do it unless you're 100% certain - it's not good advice to leave everyone.
I stay to myself most the time and you can elevate faster in life and have peace I’m glad I mastered being alone and most people not on the same path in life as us chosen ones that’s why we have to be alone most the time.
I am so happy for you that you've discovered who you are , where you stand your grounds and who you can associate with. It pays off with peace of mind and feeling happy every day ! I support you and your values. The earlier you realise it the better your mature days will be.Best of luck , but being kind spirited lightens you up even more !✌
I came across your channel when you first started it…. I was at the same stage at the same time and now I have just come across you again I have also cut out a lot off people and find it better alone or with people that are better for me. Glad you are feeling better too❤
I never felt like a fit in society. All my life, I always felt different. No friends or family at all. Been living a more recluse life. I connect more with dogs and cats than people.
Same here. I had to cut out my family because of the narcissism, toxicity, backstabbing bad mouth talking calling my employers to talk bad about me trying to take my son away from me. Just really vile people. I did everything in the world for them and gave them so much. It’s just their tragic. And I’m not gonna be that way. And it’s on them because we cannot change other people they have to see themselves for who they really are. I’m sorry anybody has to go through what I did.
I’m 70. It doesn’t get better. Well, it’s sometimes better but mostly it’s not better. It’s not a straight up hill. It’s more hills and valleys. Buck up. It’s ok to be alone. If you have Jesus in your life, you’re never alone. It’s true.
Sounds like me. On my 15th year of living alone. Moved to another state 11 years ago. I do not know a single person here other than the people at work. Could not believe I could have been doing this all along. It is total bliss. No noise. Nobody nagging. I have company when I feel like having company. It is the best way to live.
Wonderful, wise messages. I recognize a winner and a warrior when I see and hear one. Sometimes I think there are very few of us on this journey. I'm so happy and glad to see more people on the path. Spanish is my first language, and several of your colloquial expressions opened my eyes and ears, clarifying my own experiences with new words. Someone said to me recently that he was very bored, and I thought it was because he was addicted to the cycle of pleasure and wickedness. It made me think that he was empty within. I can never be bored with myself. I try to help others, but only those who truly want to be in a better place or live a better life will change. Everyone learns at their own pace.
I totally get you recently left another toxic situation. I’m living in my jeep and I’ve hit the road. I don’t know where I’m going. I don’t know what is going to come of life being around toxicity and negative people isn’t gonna get me anywhere either.
I am 45 and alone, by choice. Seems I attract every toxic individual walking. It's hard, why I got dogs but it is a blessing mentally for me to isolate. I use to party, hang out ect, not these days. All I'm focused on is Jesus and trying to get up outta here....
100% correct, been that way for quite awhlie for me now. I would rather be alone than be associated with toxic types. Ride the wave till the time is right,and l finally meet like minded people.
I'd rather be alone than pretend that the lies are the truth... People think you are crazy if youre a honsest person... I'm alone most of the time, but not lonely ❤️
@@maxmeeks9910 I remember seeing that book with a blue eye on the cover. I read the intro a while back. Good stuff. Been working on American Zombie intermittently since 2006. I'd like to invite you to do a livestream on my channel whenever you're free. We can talk about our publications and the state of the zombie apocalypse of the mentally dead. We can only look for other survivors.
I dropped EVERY TOXIC person that was in my life over a year ago. The PEACE is a blessing.
Strange, isn’t it. The fear we felt of letting go. The fear of being alone. Only to feel the strongest freedom.
Im 59 yr old male and let me tell ya....It gets REAL STRANGE at this age....You get a REAL Perspective on Everything!!!....I just put ALOT of time into being with my sweet dog and spending quite time/walks with her.
You're not alone brother
I'm 32 & it's the same. Just with my kids & guinea pigs. Screw people. The majority of them are riddled with insecurities. I feel bad for people who have to grind, as an employee (at a 9-5) for 40 years. That will scrap your soul away.
@@RoyGJones-bd7jw Dog Power. Underrated. They don't lie. Or bitch.
@@infjmale91yeah I feel sorry and grateful for my dad who was a cop for 40 years and now my mom lives off the widows pension after torturing all of us with drunken rages. When I read book People of the Lie I was stunned to find out the evil people the author was describing were so much like my mom.
@@scaredholy My mum & dad are both vulnerable narcissists. My ex was a covert one (fell into them due to my parents upbringing). Best friend backstabbed me to steal my job. Brothers were turned against me by competitive upbringing. I just gave up with people. I'll ensure my kids will be raised right. It takes time & so many people would rather make you out to be the bad guy to justify their horrible actions to you. Remember, it's NEVER their fault.
It's hard having friends because a lot of them end up removing themselves from your life whenever you succeed in something and they find out. Instead of congratulating you, they decide to cut contact instead.
Sounds like demons
👆🏿 this is true. It happened to me. I changed my life, found God, got sober, still sober...and everyone left.
It’s so bizarre
Happened to me aswell
Yes.
It can be summarized as
Crabs in a bucket.
No friends is better than bad friends
Exactly man!
Amen.
Part of waking up is realizing we idolize human relationships. We put other people on pedestals where they don't belong.
People will see this as losing, but this is the winner's starting position.
Yeah for real tho
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I used to be very social and more than friendly and people just got more hostile. I have become more introvert and got peace. Free of toxic family and manipulation and guilt to be obligated to show up and be there for them. Now I understand why families move out of state.
Yes you're correct 💯 people are so angry, and family are so jealous
Amen
@@RoyGJones-bd7jw💯
Narcs are everywhere.....
we call them Conservatives aka Trump supporters.
Listen to HG Tudor. He’ll tell you everything you need to know
Backstabers also
@@michaelharned8741 All Narcs are backstabbers.
Well one of the principalities in America is the jezebel spirit
I like being alone. No reason to complain about anything. Totally at peace.
Guys, I rather would have No friends and family and be happy than miserable with toxic friends and family that would ruin my peace, mental, and physical health.
Amen..no ..double amen !
Yes I stopped all communications with the past I'm moving forward
@@RoyGJones-bd7jw, I had to learn that the hard way. Let the past go and live in the present
@@RandyBaker87 brother you area chosen one, all the guys here understand your struggles, stay strong brother, be the last man standing
@@RoyGJones-bd7jw thank you
We need a dating site for like minded people going through this great awakening. I'm 50 and most of my family and friends have crossed over. No choice now but to become stronger just to survive .
🙋👍🙋
It sure would be nice to talk and share with like minded people our age or any age... I agree Rose
Sometimes God works on us in silence so don't be afraid to stand alone if you must. Better to be alone than in the hands of the wrong company.
Amen
Amen
God is a hoax.
Finally. Someone mentions GOD! Your relationship with Him is the ONLY THING that REALLY matters. ❤
So True. Amen.
During covid when the vax mandates were happening all of my friends turned on me and told me i deserve to be fired from my job and be thrown in prison for not taking it. All while i am actually about to be fired from my job. Never spoke to them again and have a hard time making friends since. Just dont know who i can trust anymore
Sounds like you were surrounded by zombies
I'm an essential worker. Babies were suffocating in the hospital. I know this because I brought them breathing masks. It wasn't a lie.
@@AbraCaStack1👌
same, except it was my aunt
@@AbraCaStack1nobody was saying it was a lie, it just wasnt any worse than a bad cold.. babies and elderly should be cautious but the country shouldnt have been shut down and masks shouldnt have been mandated, the vaccine did not stop transmission. It was about control, not safety. The same goes for gun control
its better to be alone and keep working brothers.
It’s better to be an 1nc3L than taking care of another man’s kids.
Right on
Time is the only true wealth we have. Spend it on yourself wisely and don't waste it on others who don't deserve it
You are very wise for your age! I’m a 50 year old woman. What I can tell everyone is that people come and go in your lifetime. Unfortunately not that many people are people who have a good heart and want good for you. I personally made the huge mistake to give unconditional love to my nearest family members. My dad was a very wise man with a good heart and he only wanted the best for everyone. My narcissistic mother and my narcissistic siblings were always jealous and only want the worst for me. I also ended up all alone with no friends or family. But after that experience I decided to only more have good people in my life. I can now build up a circle of only more good hearted people. Unfortunately there are mostly bad or even pure evil people out there. But there are also good people out there and these are the ones we need to find and connect with.
That's only in America where people come and go in your life.
In Africa and Europe people remain family and friends for life.
The older I get the more I understand that rejection and lonesomeness is a great blessing and also God's protection. As a youth I couldn't quite connect to mainstreamers and I hated myself for that, now I'm 40 and I am learning that it was ALL God's doing, and accepting myself to be set apart for Him.
@@user-wk8mw6to2gEurope is worse than America
42 years old, my father just passed a few weeks ago, I was in and out of hospital with him for 3 months, had to take that time off work. Went back last week and got a termination letter. It’s amazing how clear you see things sometimes, never take anything for granted.
❤️🎚🕊
I’m really sorry that your dad passed away …that’s a hard thing to deal with ..you did the right thing by staying beside your dad ❤
🙏🙏🙏🙏
God is paving a new way for you.
They sacked you because you wanted to be with your father in his final weeks...this is a perfect example of the world we are living in today. You did what was right and true and I wish you all the best.
My son is 20 and talks about this all the time he stays to himself because of fake people
He will find out more and more how fake a lot of people are. I'm a woman in my late 40s and I've dealt with so many fake people that I prefer to keep to myself. I feel it's safer.
Exactly very sad
My 25 year old son was murdered by fake friends
@@Mary-ne5we so sorry to hear about this. Fake people can be so dangerous
I don't blame him
hard world we live bro. its difficult can only get through this crazy life. ever since covid hit the worlds been a disaster
It’s a nightmare since
@@maxac8162 basically
yup me too the people around me went mental then the "social Distanceing" is an oxymoron
@@neal-stewart834 same
@@booberryjackson thanks !! we are not alone
I got divorced because my wife left me. Everybody in my life treated me like I had a disease and slowly ghosted me. I had no idea that getting divorced would be like this. Apparently it is fairly common for a divorced guy to be treated like something is horribly wrong with him and should be avoided. My whole family still keeps in touch with my ex-wife though. She was having an affair and was mentally checked out for my entire marriage because of it. Nobody believes me. I haven't spoken to any former family or friends for five years. During this time I reached out to several people who I thought would speak with me. Evey single one has ignored me as though I do not exist. I feel like I am in the twilight zone. These are people I have literally been there for when they were in similar situations. My only theory is that some unknown lie has been told about me, causing this situation.
Sorry to hear about what you are going through. I wish you all the best and stay strong.
most importantly try to move on
Stay strong brother we are with you 💪🏻😎
It happened to me too after a divorce. I came to the conclusion that if people that have known me my entire life and accepted my support when they needed it listened to a lie instead of checking with me then good riddance. Thank them (silently in your head) for showing you how shallow, disloyal and easily swayed they are. Stay strong, make a great new life for yourself with hobbies, pets a garden, sport or whatever brings you joy. Much love and blessings.
We pray for your healing and restoration in Jesus Mighty Name. Many people are deceived by the devil and his temptations. Take heart, keep strong, press on, hold on to God's Word. What matters is you are on the right path yourself, for that road leads to LIFE. God is able to keep you there no matter how hard. He is faithful.
The exact same thing happen to me. My ex-wife divorced me. Her “excuse” was that I was too strict with my son and you know what YES I was and still am. Guess who thanks me for being the way I am til this day? My soon to be 21 year old son. My 16 year old daughter also thanks me. It’s been 3 years since I left my old residence and guess who is still miserable, resentful and is easily triggered when my son and daughter are over my place?…Yup, my ex-wife.
When she filed for divorce, she began telling false stories about how I was a horrible father. She told all her friends and family members to include my siblings. They all ignored me and didn’t talk to me nor reached out to at least get my side of the story. She also tried to turn my kids against me. It only worked in the beginning but then backfired shortly afterwards. But you know what? I didn’t give a flying F*%!. All that mattered was that my son and daughter know the truth.
I cannot thank her enough for doing what she did. It really was a blessing in disguise. I now have a very small circle of friends that were there for me and my kids when my divorce began and are still actively part of my life. Each and everyone of them know the type of person I’ve always been and stuck by me. Each and everyone of them offered they’re home to me and my kids when all of this began. But not just offered, but actually delivered. Amazing!! I’ll forever be thankful and grateful.
So my friend, stay strong, don’t worry nor waste time and energy on the things you have no control over or toxic people. Focus on yourself, your wellbeing, eat right, stay active, truly love yourself, find genuine inner joy, avoid buying crap thinking it’ll make you happy cause it worn’t and embrace a simple life. It truly is a beauty! Solitude is my best friend and stoicism is my guide. Take care!
As i got older, i started to have less friends. And i got to the point where im not afraid of losing friends. I aint got time to waste with people who are not my level. I like company but i been liking my solitude more.
"not on my level" youre literally insufferable...people like you gross....
It's okay to be alone, take care of yourself..
My advice is that people should not be too trusting of people and should not get too close to other people, because people are unpredictable and emotionally dangerous and physically dangerous !
+100. Too many issues going on in the world that can put you on the opposite side of the dividing line with each other.
Yeah but if you think this abt literally everybody then you're overly paranoid and even fearful avoidant. I am in the same boat, but I make sure I don't fall too deep into this and end up loosing my mind. "This" being not having and family or friend.
@@m.htruth8880Sir i disagree. But everyone eill do it. Evey girl. Eachand every..if she doesn't then she might be furiosa of something like that.
@@TurbulantSynider Anybody that's always running around screaming all men or all women is broken. You constantly get into relationships like that because you're in idolatry against Yah. And/or you're attracting spirits in ppl that are similar to the ones in you or your bloodline. Ppl with soul fractures/trauma attract each other.
Then there's agendas against men/the head and anti-family system agendas have been pushed for for ever. The elites wants everyone turnd out. They want men with men and women with women.
Ppl who don't know where the good men or women are either aren't looking, are in idolatry, or are attracting what's like them. Maybe even some relation trauma from family, which goes back to your parents have the jezebel spirirt or others. And then from your family system and parental abuse, you become married to the jezebel spirirt in the spirirt realm, which makes you constantly get into relationships with ppl who have the jezebel spirirt. Which means you have the Ahab spirirt and may have jezebel, leviathen, and other spirirts too.
The road to recovery is full of paradoxical philosophy. "Less is more".
So true. It's like what they say: "There is NOTHING more scary than a man who has NOTHING to lose".
@@infjmale91 But Aren't we "the man with nothing to loose"? Or am I confused?
@@m.htruth8880 yeah. We are. The lone wolves. That's why we are scary.
Others stuck in the rat race pretending to be something they aren't to impress others or their SOs have lots to lose.
They lose their jobs, people they want as friends & ultimate their fake lives as they are too afraid to step away from the fakeness & look for personal growth/something better.
They are scared to lose that.
People, like us, who are alone & already done the growth are the scariest because we don't have that fake facade we are scared of breaking which will disappoint bad people in their lives.
Today is my 53rd birthday - July 4th in America is awesome. I have no family or friends to speak to or hear from, I received no cards or gifts and have no birthday cake. Very tough...I could easily go out and see fireworks and parades and do stuff alone, but it's not worth risking the crowd issues we have around Chicago. Mass shootings there all day today. Cheers everyone.
Happy belated birthday 🎂 I'm a loner too. Totally get it.
Happy birthday my friend. We share the day and I had similar lone birthday. I don’t make a big deal of it. It’s a consumerism construct so I’m not expecting any special on the day. I’ve learned to fill my days with things and people I like. Good people are rare but you recognize them when you meet them.
HBD 🥳
We only have one birthday and that was the day you were born. Even though we become a year older on that date. It was a man made celebration for us to spend more money.
It’s peaceful no drama if you get lonely pray and get some animals.
Don't pray, cartoon characters live in my head, though and I do have two great kitties!
Well said.🎯
Pray. Dogs are amazing. Making vivarium and keeping dart frogs too
Swedish? 🇸🇪
Separation of the WHEAT & TARES. I love being alone. It’s absolutely peaceful .❤
We make other people look good. This is why these toxic people want us in their life.
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lol that is kind of funny actually 🤣
That's why I removed my cousin from my life.
Its more like if they a Narc...They dead inside, so they need someone to leach on, just to feel something or somewhat alive..Leaching kinda like todays whamen does for resources, physical doing favors, and or just to be seen(admired in their twisted head)...Narcs all so need some free spirited soul, to copy of...Like good useful ideas, projects around the house, garden etc....Seen that all to many times....They dead inside..No morals ethics values or principles 😣...They might as well be six feet under...Oh well all in good time...Stay clear and stand back from the NARCS ⚠️
@@user-wk8mw6to2gthey punk you in front of others, make you the weird one
Everything you say is correct! People are now annoying, 95% of people are annoying out there everywhere
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@@nightowl6811 so many fake and narcissistic people. That's a big part of it. They mostly are self centered and don't care if they annoy or disrespect others
I can relate. 62 no friends to spend time with. Frequently alone. Have my son and granddaughter but am usually with self! No romance for many years. Spend lots of time near rivers, woods and peaceful places.
Late bloomer here. Took me years of foolishness (chasing worldly pleasures) but at 50 I did a 180° turn to better my physical and mental health and it feels great. Thanks for this video, these talks help me to stay on the grind to better myself.
Family and friends are F-words as far as I'm concerned. Family members are a complete write-off and the true friends I've ever had in all my years I can count on one hand - maybe two if I really gave the benefit of the doubt. My only true best friend was my wife and she passed from cancer last summer. The last of our four dogs died this past spring so now I'm alone and accepting it'll be that way from here on in until its my turn.
There are so many shelter dogs waiting to be adopted whenever your heart is open for another one.
They know you saved them.
Take care. ❤
@@Go_Play_Outside Thank you for the advice. I have thought about that option but, being alone, I wonder that if anything happened to me than who would take care of the dog? He/Her would end up going back to a shelter again and I wouldn't want to traumatize them a second time by that happening.
You are spot on Terry!! I don’t tolerate the chaos anymore. I enjoy a clean healthy happy fit life. If shit heads towards me, it is jock blocked. End of story. Thanks for your positive attitude. So healthy!!!
Staring at a phone, being chained to social media, being in debt, self destructive behaviors, lying, stealing, being selfish, having no morals/ethics or accountability is the norm in this world. The other path is a path of solitude. Walking that path is very difficult in this world but the dividends can be huge if you are strong enough to take it.
friends - Go meet and connect with different people online or overseas.
family - Accept them for who they are and move on with your life. Wait for God to send you the right woman so that maybe you can create a family with her.
nothing - Your life is going to become better. Your problems are going to end/disappear. Just stay positive and keep doing the right thing.
True thats why I spend my free time learning Russian but don't meet these woman online
Im tired of looking at the modern day woman on streets 😂, all seeking attention, validation 😂, driving and walking, wearing very tight yoga pants, and walking dogs 🐕 and glued to phones waiting on red lights 😂looking all important 😂😂
The story of my life pal!! 😂❤💀 Here over in The UK 🇬🇧 it's really bad look everywhere and you see it
@@ShahkhaAlomThe entire Western world.
Sounds like you’re bitter, go say hi and maybe try to make a friend out of one of them 😒
@@GabrielXDrumsHurt. Get sme understandin. Yes bitter can becme a by product.
@@tinasmith7630 lmao oh trust, I understand, it’s crap when the content is the same each day, the moment he stops making this type of stuff is when you know he’s healed and has become better, it’s easy to see the pain when you come from the same place, it’s not a bad thing, just sucks cause I can relate.
We have a collectible UA-cam family. I'm not lonely at all
I follow 190 channels...Of many kinds..Redpill, Terry here, even Pakistani mecanics welders and metal workers who fix trucks tracktors in the third world...Very fulfilling and inspiring to watch...Ill never need or want any pay to watch tv channel company's. ..I have my UA-cam family..Every day new content. And learning new stuff/skills too....Very content man here 😊
54 here.. never had a friend in my life , never been in a relationship ! walked away from my toxic family and my toxic career. I do not need people in my life PERIOD
Why are you posting for others to see?
I have never had friends that stick around, like I love having people around me but some people just never ever stick around, it’s awful, it’s not the way things were supposed to be what so ever, but it’s the circumstances we’ve dealt with, and had to deal with, it’s just hard to know who to trust because there are a lot of scum who disguise themselves as friends.
WE ARE BORN ALONE AND DIE ALONE. WE ARE ALL ALONE. STOP DEPENDING ON SOMEONE ELSE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY
UNLESS YOU ARE A CRYCRYBIGIDIOTBABYMANBOY
ALWAYS WAHWAHWEEWEE
Same brother same
Learn to love yourself the way you love for others. Be your own biggest fan.
Self-love is of pride/ego. The biblical word says we're to deny ourselves from ourselves and pick up the cross daily
I lost my mother and girlfriend from COVID and I've been alone ever since.No friends or family.Im so numb to it all.I could disappear and noone would even notice.
This is so sad, my heart feels for you.
The bible say in the last days becauce of the increase of wickedness the love of most will wax cold....
The bible says those who sow injustice reap emptiness.
I'm a follower of jesus and spirit filled
It's happening bro.
GOD is drawing a line in the sand
GOD is separating the sheep from the goats ....
Its totaly true please believe me
If you realy look at it all you will see the big picture.
And the big picture is GOD.
The bible says you reap what you sow,you harvest what you plant.
GOD Bless you
Chris.....
Grace Caroline Currey is such a hottie
Just get a dog their loyal to the end n give nothing but love n will protect u to the death if u train them right
The strong make many, the starving make few..the dead make none. Just keep grinding fellas..no down time. Fill your week with hard work, min 8 hours sleep daily, and your hobbies etc fill the rest. Dont move in with a girl until fully vetted. And don’t knock her up!
Neighbours don't speak
Nobody wants friends or chat
Everyone work but not get ahead
Devil toilet bowl this place
Truly, being alone is better than being with a person who is a negative influence, a barrier to your progress, or passive aggressive towards you. We must take full responsibility for our progress in life. We must take full responsibility for our vibe and self esteem. We must take full responsibility for the people we associate with. We must take full responsibility for our goals and any progress towards them.
As you said in another video, "nobody is coming to save you."
my dad was military and I now am so thankful he was strict and tried to instil a good work ethic and discipline. I'm 61 now and this young generation has lost that. They are into being seen and not working so they can post pics on IG ....all well and good but remember where you ganna be in retirement? Nobody coming to save you..you take care of your own damn self...buck up butter cups...shits getting real and you need to have some backbone. Nothing wrong with struggle if you gain wisdom and knowledge along the way. But whining and crying does nothing for ya!
I feel you on that. ❤
I'm glad I'm not the only one who can see this. I'm sitting here on July 4th all by myself. I'm not sad about it. My identity is found in Jesus Christ. It actually feels good to not be around all that negative energy. Im jjust disappointed that people have to be so selfish, especially family.
That’s me ABSOLUTELY NO ONE 🤷♀️
Man I clicked on this one fast. My whole family is dead I won’t go into it and my friends weren’t really friends. Now I can’t even find a girlfriend and even if I do I could end up worse off than I already am.
Same her bro. My solution was to leave the country with my remote job.
Unfortunately sometimes you just have to let go. People who were once fine can change. It's sad, but if they are going to pull you down in life it's the best way to do things.
It’s just me, the cats, Maryjane and Little Debbie.
Wonderful.
A lot of people live in denial, escapism, instant gratification and vapidness. I choose to walk away from people like that as well. It does bring you down and it reminds you of the growth you have made and they are like anvils and sinkers. They subconsciously trying to bring you back down to their level. There is total wickedness running rampant throughout the world.. I want none of it either. Too exhausting and depressing to see others stay stuck.
Being a lone wolf can have several benefits. 🐺👍
We are in the last days, the end is very near. When God reveals this to us we shall fear no more. This all shall pass very soon. What matters is don't let the devil trap you through his dark minded agents that appear very loving and helpful. His agenda is only to steal kill and destroy.
Pray to God that we do not be deceived as Jesus warned deceivers shall be rampant in last days, even holding prominent church leadership positions. Wolves in sheep clothes. Pray that we are led by The Spirit and not any flesh.
I cannot wait.
Let’s go
@@danieltheavatarmusicI'm ready too, if it's the end, let's go full speed ahead
Perilous Times
2 Timothy 3
The Character of Men in the Last Days
But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self-control, brutal, despisers of good, traiters, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away! For of this sort are those who creep into households and make captives of gullible women loaded down with sins, led away by various lusts, always learning and never able to come to the knowledge of the truth.
I fully agree! keep persevering, we were warned of these days and dark times, it is all unfolding before our very eyes.
I will stand strong with our Lord, with courage, bravery and strength.
Keep focusing on God, keep your sight on His Word my brethren.
God’s grace and peace be with you! 🌷
if i won the lottery i would buy Nothing. that is power. the only thing i need from the world is freedom. people are overrated. loner for life.
You sound like a Sigma male and that is a good thing. Keep on rocking in the Free World !!!
Even with the razor-sharp insight that I possess.I know when i'm gettin a great sermon and it won't be coming from the preacher man in the church.Most won't go to church, so Give bro his flowers now.❤
I appreciate your take on everything. I’m in this transition. Thanks everybody for keeping you real bro
Seeing the title of this video I thought where’s “Hey David,”
Isolation brought about by God has been one of the greaTEST times of my 65 year life! In 15 years of training living in the wilderness has taught me how much God loves me . . . How could I possibly ever be alone with A loving Creator who can not will not for sake you . . .
Think about what you are able to learn and discern to become the best version of yourself by looking within and DOing the work . . .
Thank you for sharing the trUth you have sought and gained in your journey brother
Peace ~Dwd~
This is the loneliest times with the phone scrolling world and spiritual warefare. Love yourselves and stay positive ❤
i though was the only one felling alone in this world , guess what, i was wrong
Pets are cool!👍🏻😉
When your on this path, people will think your boring.
My family talks about being positive, tells me to smile, and yet I've done everything right. I constantly and I feel like a miserable sack of crap... I eat junk, don't drink, smoke or anything.
When I was living with them, I was more miserable I was overweight. And I already know that most of my immediate family members either have sleep apnea, suffered a stroke, having seizures and bladder problems.
I think these health problems are often the result of the bad habits I mentioned they have done... And now it's catching up with them.
In the last several years I moved out on my own I've lost weight, and I most likely mitigated a lot of possible risks especially during the pandemic, but yet I've been more alone, when I'm with them, I'm belittled, treated like a child what's the point where it becomes self-loathing.
They're very passive when I look clearly upset, I brush them off when they ask what's wrong, because clearly they aren't going to listen to me anyway. Plus they act like nothing they unconsciously say was never said. And anything loving or encouraging me to tell me feels hollow...
And when I feel emotionally drained they feel happier and are more passive... It just shows that when you do walk a true path that everyone who claims to be righteous... When they themselves are far from it... It shows they all secretly hate me.
It's a blessing to have the time, space, and energy to pour into yourself.
I am 40 female and I am on a similar path. I was the wet mop for 34 years. I am learning and growing everyday. It is fun. Thank you for this. Thank you for being here for me to listen to. It really is helpful. 🙏👍
You can't get a silver dollar if you have an old penny stuck in your hand. You're doing the right things, dropping the pennies and keeping your hand empty until a shiny new healthy silver dollar comes along.
Yup " Hang around dogs, you get fleas."
Thank you so much
For talking about this … I agree with you 100 percent
Bro, you are blessed to have these understandings & cracked on the right way at an early stage.
*for me: procrastination, toxic friendships,alcohol abuse the list goes on. I’m 50 now, somehow things have worked out ok but in my late teens, 20s I definitely knew I wasn’t on the right path but still continued. Unbelievable
Thanks for the video. My son, who is 36, is at this point with family and other people, co-workers, etc. Now I understand he's not the only one. He lives with me. I am his only friend, and he relies on me. I'm working on myself to understand more. Press on.
You are so right on. I would like to speak to you in real life. I'm 56 y.o. with everything I need to complete my life happily. I've lost everyone that matters to me. But there's no one that is worth spending time with. ❤
I am 61. I am working on a money making system. I look at young girls. What do they offer? Will they help me conquer the world?
Can they help me do so?
I say no. They only offer that pink
hole.
People like their peace. A lot of people today are VERY stubborn. They don't want to adapt to your way of doing things.
I cannot believe im seeing and hearing that there are more people out there like myself...that there is nothing mentally or physically wrong with me...its SELF PRESERVATUON! we are living in a very strange time where nothing is sacred or respected...no privacy, legitimately vile...ive chosen to honor my sense of self, everything i fought so hard to preserve...staying in the present moment, being aware...The book POWER OFNOW is a tool i use everyday..folks think im weird
Thank you, I have been a year now in 19 days of getting used to being alone most of my time. I was extremely depressed for quite some time. You are 100% right in that it gets better, and better. I have learned how to be content with this now. I have my moments, but it keeps getting better with time. I keep my eye on this compas to stay focused on this lifelong path. There are few people to be a joy to be around, yes, I too would rather be by myself. I am mentally healing!
Its not ablout money or sucess, it about seeing them for who they show you they are period.
Nobody ever wants you to do better than them. Or at least most people, I’m the only person I’ve ever known that doesn’t get extremely jealous of people and their success. I’ve always been happy for other’s success.
I’ve never quit being friends or had a problem with someone because of that. But it’s weird because I’ve had people in my life get extremely jealous over the smallest good things that have happened to me, even when they have had more. I think it’s so strange that most of us seem wired that way.
Not that I’ve never been jealous before, we all have but I would never try and hurt someone’s feelings over it or quit being friends with someone because I can’t get over myself. I think I can humbly say I don’t understand that mentality. In fact if someone does well I’ve always been a support system even if I do feel jealous. I realize that’s my problem and I need to get over it and be better as a person.
One of the things I look forward to most is being a support system for a spouse and their being that mutual respect between us and celebrating him and his success.
Beware any individual telling you to separate from your family for any reason that isn't perfectly logical. If you walk away then you walk away forever. Don't do it unless you're 100% certain - it's not good advice to leave everyone.
I stay to myself most the time and you can elevate faster in life and have peace I’m glad I mastered being alone and most people not on the same path in life as us chosen ones that’s why we have to be alone most the time.
I am so happy for you that you've discovered who you are , where you stand your grounds and who you can associate with. It pays off with peace of mind and feeling happy every day ! I support you and your values. The earlier you realise it the better your mature days will be.Best of luck , but being kind spirited lightens you up even more !✌
Introspection =self respect
Self respect = others to comply with your standard or kick rocks❤
I came across your channel when you first started it…. I was at the same stage at the same time and now I have just come across you again I have also cut out a lot off people and find it better alone or with people that are better for me. Glad you are feeling better too❤
I never felt like a fit in society. All my life, I always felt different. No friends or family at all. Been living a more recluse life. I connect more with dogs and cats than people.
WHEN YOU HAVE GOD YOU ARE BY YOURSELF BUT NEVER ALONE AS GOD IS WITH YOU ALWAYS PEOPLE!!!
Truest Video Yet❤
Same here. I had to cut out my family because of the narcissism, toxicity, backstabbing bad mouth talking calling my employers to talk bad about me trying to take my son away from me. Just really vile people. I did everything in the world for them and gave them so much. It’s just their tragic. And I’m not gonna be that way. And it’s on them because we cannot change other people they have to see themselves for who they really are. I’m sorry anybody has to go through what I did.
Extremely well said brother
I’m 70. It doesn’t get better. Well, it’s sometimes better but mostly it’s not better. It’s not a straight up hill. It’s more hills and valleys. Buck up. It’s ok to be alone. If you have Jesus in your life, you’re never alone. It’s true.
Volcom ! Real One. Bro thank you for saying all this. I feel like you ARE the only one that understands these things fully. Thank you so much. ⚔️🇺🇸🦅🙏
Sounds like me. On my 15th year of living alone. Moved to another state 11 years ago. I do not know a single person here other than the people at work. Could not believe I could have been doing this all along. It is total bliss. No noise. Nobody nagging. I have company when I feel like having company. It is the best way to live.
This is your best video yet! Excellent musings bro! Love from England
Wonderful, wise messages. I recognize a winner and a warrior when I see and hear one. Sometimes I think there are very few of us on this journey. I'm so happy and glad to see more people on the path. Spanish is my first language, and several of your colloquial expressions opened my eyes and ears, clarifying my own experiences with new words. Someone said to me recently that he was very bored, and I thought it was because he was addicted to the cycle of pleasure and wickedness. It made me think that he was empty within. I can never be bored with myself. I try to help others, but only those who truly want to be in a better place or live a better life will change. Everyone learns at their own pace.
I needed to hear this video today thank you
I can totally relate to this…done with the toxic people who only care about themselves
I totally get you recently left another toxic situation. I’m living in my jeep and I’ve hit the road. I don’t know where I’m going. I don’t know what is going to come of life being around toxicity and negative people isn’t gonna get me anywhere either.
I am 45 and alone, by choice. Seems I attract every toxic individual walking. It's hard, why I got dogs but it is a blessing mentally for me to isolate. I use to party, hang out ect, not these days. All I'm focused on is Jesus and trying to get up outta here....
I hear ya. I’m 45 as well and my primary focus is in Yeshua as well. See ya on the other side 🥳😉😎
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Grace Caroline Currey is such a hottie
I just wanna find my person and go live off grid...needle in a haystack...
100% correct, been that way for quite awhlie for me now. I would rather be alone than be associated with toxic types. Ride the wave till the time is right,and l finally meet like minded people.
I'd rather be alone than pretend that the lies are the truth... People think you are crazy if youre a honsest person...
I'm alone most of the time, but not lonely ❤️
Stay Strong
We are surrounded by zombies
Have you read We Are The American Zombies?
@@maxmeeks9910 I remember seeing that book with a blue eye on the cover. I read the intro a while back. Good stuff.
Been working on American Zombie intermittently since 2006.
I'd like to invite you to do a livestream on my channel whenever you're free. We can talk about our publications and the state of the zombie apocalypse of the mentally dead.
We can only look for other survivors.
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I believe you speak from the heart. Subbed. R Righteous.