My Body After Breastfeeding 👶🏼 *Honest* Weaning Journey + How & Why I Weaned.
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Thank you so much for watching, if you enjoyed today’s video or found it helpful, please take a second to like this video - it helps out my channel a lot. ✨💞🙌
Not sure if you are looking for ideas how to put on weight but if yes, this is what helped my sister who was really skinny because of stress (my mum was sick and died of cancer) : smoothies with protein powder, organic plant based one. Slowly , week by week, she was gaining a bit of weight:) she was really happy and l was happy for her:)💕💕💕💕
From what l can see, you eat healthy so one smoothie a day with your favourite fruits and vegetables (and of course the protein for example from pees) it won’t be a big hassle but it can really help. Wishing you all the best 💐💐 you are a lovely person 💗💗
You know there is a fashion now breastfeed your baby for 2 months and then you can leave Him/Her for weeks and you shouldn't be guilty because they said it's great to be selfish in this world
Thank you Brittany for this video❤️
I started following you when I found out I was pregnant. Your honesty about every aspect of pregnancy, postpartum, and parenting has helped me a lot. And I completely agree about the weight loss while breastfeeding - it just doesn't happen like people say it does.
It’s BS. It didn’t help me lose wait at all. Now that I’m not breastfeeding and my periods are back I actually lose more weight.
thanks so much! still breastfeeding, and yeah, that promise of loosing weight... pfffff
It might be the case for everyone. And of course it wouldn't we are just not the same. But it did work for me. I lost all the weight and a bit more. It helped my uterus go back down very quickly. Of course I'm left with saggy skin but I'm actually having to eat more than before just to keep a healthy weight on me and produce enough milk for my baby.
I gained 40 lbs while breast feeding. I gained nothing from pregnancy, but breast feeding hunger is no joke
@@Simplelivingslowliving My stomach is completely flat, so it for sure helped my uterus shrink, but my hips and thighs have DEFINITELY put on a few inches.
My lactation consultant told me that breastfeeding is a contract. Both parties must agree. If baby doesn’t want to, breastfeeding is over, if mom doesn’t want to anymore, it’s over 🤍
Not really how contacts work LOL
@@halloweellahere7602 I meant they must both agree to enter the contract, you know what I meant hahaha 😂😂
@@monica_zulkerine468 yaaaaay someone with humour! Yes I knew what you meant but couldn't help myself :D
Thanks for not being offended at a joke! Yes the world has gone that crazy.
@@halloweellahere7602 hahah I HD a good laugh too and it’s crazy how the internet can be, at first I was like what if she says “no I don’t know what you mean” hahaha
I’m all seriousness, that is such an important/ beautiful message to share.
Just found out I’m having a baby girl ♥️ I wanted to tell someone.
My son is not even a year yet but he is going to be a big brother 😭😭 PRAISE GOD
omg congratulations!!!
Wow congrats! You're gonna be one BUSY mama with kiddos that close. What a blessing ❤❤
Congratulations 💜💜💜💜
Congrats!!!!
Congratulations!! Same here😁 8 weeks pregnant and I have a 10 month old ❤🥰
I've been following you since I was in High School in 2011watching your hair videos and the Our Daily Riot vlogs, and now I'm a mom to my 14 month old son. Being pregnant around the same time as you felt so cool honestly. It really is like having an older sister that I'm growing up with😊💗💗 Thank for all these years🌻🌻🌻🌻
I definitely cried the last time I breastfed my baby-- such a hard thing to do and I was proud that we even made it the seven months!
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Yes! My daughter and I went as strong as I could until I went back to work. But I didn’t even think I would be able to because all the women in my family never could!! 7 MONTH CLUB
Same. My son just wasn't interested when he was older (I won't disclose how old he was because it's not a competition). He fed for like 10 seconds 2 nights in a row when I got home from work and then picked up his water! I was truly offended for about a year.
I’m in the process of weening my baby, she’s 7 months too! It’s very emotional but ever since I started breastfeeding I lost 30 pounds and HOPE to get my weight back now that I’ve stopped.
You are so incredibly resilient and inspiring. My daughter is 7 months, so we have a long ways to go but I am already dreading weaning. I have absolutely loved breastfeeding so far. I’m also so glad you talked about how you’re feeling about your body. These frank discussions are SO important. You are amazing, Brittany.
I remember weaning my oldest daughter and feeling SO much of this and feeling alone. No one tells you how to wean only how to start. Your courage to share such an intimate experience is empowering!
Thank you for being to brave and vulnerable. You helped me so much when I was preparing for motherhood. From hacks, to newborn essentials, and postpartum recovery. So grateful to know what it might look like when my breast feeding journey comes to a close. Sending you so much love and hoping things get easier!
I’m so glad I found you when I found out I was pregnant. My baby is almost a year now and you’ve helped with all sorts of aspects throughout my pregnancy and first year year of motherhood and breastfeeding journey. Thank you for always being so helpful and transparent!!
Thank you so much for sharing this! I have no kids and can’t relate to the struggles of breastfeeding or weaning but I have been struggling with my health for a few years (I actually found you from your endometriosis surgery video) and I struggle to maintain a healthy weight because of the physical and emotional stress of it, I hate that so many people see me and look up to my body when I know that I am too skinny and not the healthiest I could be.
Breastfeeding mom here… thank you so much for sharing your journey and honesty about your unintentional weight loss & mental health. I have been going through the same thing and it’s nice to know we’re all in it together and not alone. Appreciate your raw honesty.
Thank you for making this video 🧡
My son was born July 13 2020 and we're still on our nursing journey. I have struggled so much with weight gain throughout the whole breastfeeding process. I actually weigh more now than the day I went in to give birth. It's just very empowering to hear someone openly talk about what breastfeeding can be/do to your body that's not always 100% positive
You are literally the most relatable woman on UA-cam. I am in the weaning process and my son is 14 months old. I’m having a hard time ! Thank you for being open and honest because I don’t feel so alone .
I gained 50+ lbs. with both pregnancies, a lot on my small frame and the journey has been a crazy one. As a person who never worried about body image, I struggled, tried not to care, tried to not let it get to me. Sure I was never going to be back to my prebaby body. And now I'm in the same boat as you, running all day, not eating enough, not sleeping enough; not sustainable at all. Wish you all well Mommas! Our jobs are important and we need to be healthy inside and out to show these littles how to be great humans. ❤️
Thank you so much for this! I am 13m postpartum and going through the weaning. I really appreciate you sharing this. I am going through it! The emotional and physical changes no one warns you about! I was feeling crazy, but this video helped me realize like, yes, my body is going through A LOT. And I need to give myself grace. Appreciate you!
At 5 months I went through a very stressful time and I body just stopped producing. I tried everything to get it back but sometimes you just have to listen to your body. I wasn’t prepared for the hormones changes and body changes at that time either. I’m trying everyday to be kinder to myself and really appreciate all that it’s gone through. Thank you for this video. I needed it. ❤️ you’re doing great mama.
Wow Thank you so much for this video. I really needed this! Breastfeeding is a journey that no one really talks about how it takes a toll on your weight and just in general mentally. I applaud you for putting your thoughts out there because us mamas need to feel like we're no alone.
I’ve watched your videos since I was pregnant (your daughter is three months older than mine) and I’ve always watched your videos. My daughter is currently 14 months on the 22nd and we’ve been weaning from breastfeeding. I still do one afternoon feeding and nighttime feedings and it is extremely hard. I look forward to your videos and especially ones like these because weaning past 1 is extremely hard. Thank you for always being you and sharing what you can and always trying to not be biased. I truly appreciate you sharing and look up to you so much. 🤍
My breastfeeding story is completely different from yours, but man, did you hit that right on with how i felt when i had to wean. The mom guilt, feeling heartbroken and also the mental health aspect. I am really glad i found your channel last year. I got pregnant with my son right when covid happened so i never got to experience classes or support groups because of it but your channel really makes me feel like i’m in one in the comfort of my own home. You are so real and i appreciate that because as a new mom it gives me inspiration. Thank you. 💕
Bravo Miss B. Conversations like this is exactly why I watch your channel. I'm currently 5 months PP and our bodies do change rigorously. I went from a very petite size to about 3-4 dress sizes up (depending on what I'm wearing). I have not lost or gained weight since breastfeeding....it has just been stagnant. Somedays I love my body for what it has been through and other days I want to lose the weight overnight. I thank God for a husband who reassures me everyday how beautiful I am. But I know its a gradual process...and with time, the weight will come off. Much love to you and your little one on your continued mother/daughter journey.
Thank you. You are so right! It’s a VERY difficult journey! Preggo with bb#2 and I’m only 11 months pp. I’m excited, yet scared to start the journey over again... just started to get a grip on my “body”, had to end breastfeeding with my baby girl so abruptly & start the formula route. WATCHING IN THE MIRROR and FEELING your body change so drastically is part of the journey. Sometimes a battle!! There’s so much you want to control but in the end you let it go, do what you can, enjoy the 4 hours of sleep, and love on your babies and realize we’ve earned the tittle MOM!! 🥰
Your vids are TRULY PRECIOUS. Real and raw for the moms to be and moms in struggle. A genuine THANK U! You are looking so great by the way!! Snatched & healthy and then some girl! 😍👀
I don’t ever comment on anyone’s videos but this video made me feel so much compassion for your and a little worried for what is to come for me as I will most likely wean my baby after he turns 1yr old but I’m SO so glad you made this video. Thank you so so much for being so open honest and raw when it comes to motherhood or anything you create. I love you, you’re a great mother. Keep doing what you’re doing, 💜
I don’t know if I’ll ever have children, but I truly appreciate these videos. It’s nice to be aware of what the mamas in my life may be dealing with and how I can better help them out. Knowledge is power 💪🏾
Thank you Brittany, and much love to all the Moms out there 💕
Couldn’t agree more! It’s really refreshing to see such a transparent and positive voice talk about their experience so I can support new Moms in my my corner. It’s so essential to know what signs to look out for yet there is so little public info on it. Thanks Brittany for your transparency and consideration 💗
You are an amazing woman and incredible mother! I have watched your channel all throughout my pregnancy and continue to now with my 6 month old daughter. I’ve found your honesty and experience so helpful especially, your mental health struggles. Thank you for sharing!!!
I just dropped my last (morning) feed three days ago! I feel ya! Your body has done amazing things! When I dropped my day feeds, I experienced insomnia and I had posted on a breastfeeding FB page about my experience. I was just looking for people with similar experiences. I got no feedback but one person who said, you weaned to fast...I weaned in the span of almost two months...that wasn't fast. I am now dealing with hormonal acne, appetite swings (not wanting to eat till 3pm), hair loss AGAIN, and sadness and joy all at the same time. Praying for you that your body gets the love and care that it needs to thrive.
You’re the best mum to your child (just ask them, they’ll tell you) so you did nothing wrong! Be kind to your body and yourself, it just needs time. Get help if you feel like you need it.
Love this & wish people made more videos like this postpartum!! A lot of people think postpartum is just the first few months, but it definitely isn’t! I struggled with some postpartum anxiety/depression myself. My little one is 8 months old & still struggling with mom guilt. Finding time for myself is hard because I am the type of person that just drops everything to help anyone. I put my needs on the back burner and focus on my husband and baby rather than my mental and physical health. Something I’m learning and trying to work on. Thanks for posting this & being so honest!! Love you 💙
So happy you made this video! I also was not ready for the fact that stopping breastfeeding would be more difficult than starting and doing it. So great you are helping others by talking about this 🙏🏼
my baby is 5 months and we are no where near weaning but it was SO good to hear your perspective! Not looking forward to those hormonal shifts 🥲 but glad I’m somewhat informed now! Also I hope you find inner peace soon and glad you show what steps you’re taking to get healthier! We don’t even know the full story but know you’re going through so much, so thank you for sharing 💞 and helping others
Thank you for being so REAL with all your videos! I feel like everyone can relate to you in someway, it's nice to know there is others going through the same things! Love your videos, thanks again!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey. I’m going through something similar with my 7 month old. I was dropping night feeds with her during sleep training and in the midst of that I got my period. I felt crazy at times and didn’t know what was wrong. The hormones are on another level. I’m back to nursing her during the night though because I did miss that bond. I’m struggling though mentally and it’s been hard. You’re not alone! Sending you so much love. ❤️
You are such a beautiful soul! I am currently breastfeeding my LO and I could not stop losing weight after month 3 to month 6 and felt so unhealthy. It was so hard to make the time to exercise and eat enough to gain healthy weight. You are not alone! Cheers to your health and wellness!! Good luck as your journey continues. Thank you for sharing your journey!
So brave and inspiring being so honest with your journey.
I'm 16 months post partem, haven't really started weaning yet.
Didn't think my body would still be changing and adjusting because it's just not talked about enough!
You are so strong. I know I'm a stranger on the internet in another country - but Brittany you have done amazing.
You are raising a beautiful, smart, strong, amazing little girl. You are running a business. You are going through so much that you don't talk about (and that's ok!), and still uplifting other parents.
I know how it can feel to not be proud of your body - but please try and give yourself grace. You have made the right choices for you, and have done so much for your daughter.
Thank you for being so open and raw with us. Thank you for sharing such a personal part of your life. I couldn't breastfeed long - but I have learned so so much from your videos that have helped me to understand what others have gone through.
I am sorry if I've overstepped as a viewer, but so often we forget that the creators we watch may need words of strength as well. (I also have a hard time judging boundaries both in real life and online, so usually err on the side of saying nothing, but wanted to say something since you've helped me through some really tough times without even knowing)
Thank you for making this video and sharing your raw feelings and emotions on this topic. I'm 4 months in to an extremely difficult EBFeeding journey and am grateful for the 'heads up' for when the time comes to wean - I hope I can make it to a year and beyond but I don't know at this point. I hope you can find a pathway back to what healhti and happy looks like for your body soon and look forward to seeing you continue to flourish! Lots of love, you are doing amazing and Arrow is so lucky to have such a strong, inspiring and beautiful Mama 💗
I never leave comments but I am so grateful for you I really hope you know your honesty throughout your postpartum journey has dramatically helped my mental health. i am so so grateful Brittany.
Your honesty is inspiring! I’m having a baby girl in March so when I look at different perspectives and experiences it helps so I can then make my best decision. I totally related to the part about you saying you need to ask for more help. I just found your channel & subscribed but I wanted to say you are a strong mama and very inspiring! Thank you so much 💕
my first baby is due in january, thank you for making this video! I learned a lot about breast feeding that I really haven’t heard people talk about before.
Thanks so much for this! Our girls are about a month apart even though I’m a mom of 2 I can relate so much. This is new territory for me because I never had to wean my first because she was supplemented on preemie formula and didn’t really take to nursing so that breastfeeding journey lasted 3 months before everything dried up. Fast forward to now I’m trying to wean a 15m old who’s refusing all methods. Never in a million years did I think stopping breastfeeding would so tough. Thanks so much again for sharing this. ❤️
I have weaned 3 of my children up until now, and I am currently nursing my 4th and dreading that day! Every one of them have had a little different of a story but by far my second was my hardest.
I was 20 at the time and she was 15 months and found it the most difficult. She had experienced seizures at 12 months and since then nursing really brought her so much comfort. She had finished her night feeds at that age also, which I think made it harder because that early morning feed were so so special.
I also experienced a lot of breastfeeding weight loss with her. This time around I am struggling to loose anything. It’s insane how different my body can react at different stages of life and ages. I agree being kind and slow to your body is the way to go.
The crazy thing is, she is now almost 10 and absolutely loves watching her sister (6 months) nurse and she can tell how special the bond is between her and I when we feed, it’s almost like she remembers being in the same position ❤️
Thank you for sharing your journey 🤍
I truly just love how real you keep it. I have an 8 month old anddd I’m also 6 months pregnant anddd also working full time. Your videos brighten my day! I also just bought 3 bras from neiwai, can’t wait!
Thank you for always expressing how I feel.
My daughter was a 3rd July 2020 babe so we are on a similar timeline. I also had the 1st birthday blues but went the opposite to binging unhealthy food and energy drinks and put on a lot of weight which exacerbated the C section pooch. My FF boobs stayed large but deflated and seemed to slide down my body 😭
I'm sorry you're struggling too but it's also so comforting to hear a relatable 1y postpartum experience. 💕
This made me so emotional. I know all of our journeys are different but I’ve always experienced ED and now 1 year PP I keep falling back into my ED. It’s so hard to eat the amount I know I’m supposed to bc I just don’t feel hungry. But I got up and made myself food after this video. Thank you for sharing.
I relate to this so much. I’m only 5 months postpartum but I feel every part of your comment. I have to remind myself that me eating helps my baby gain their calories and I have to be my best for my baby. I also have to keep reminding myself that I grew and housed a human for 9 months so am I being so hard on myself about my weight. You’re not alone mama❤️
I feel the same way. My appetite is gone, I have to force myself to eat. It's triggering because I like how much weight I'm losing however I know it's unhealthy. For me, for my baby. Its hard and no one talks about it.
Hi Brittany! This is my first time writing a comment ever but I just felt like I needed to write this to you (hopefully you will read it or anyone who might need it). I started following you when I was pregnant, my daughter is now 7 months old and our journey with postpartum and specially breastfeeding was really hard, going from chapped nipples, tongue-tie, exclusively pumping, nipple shield, blisters… But watching your raw and real journey made me feel like I was not alone, like even if we have different journeys we as mothers going through motherhood were together. After fighting for breastfeeding so much i can imagine how hard, heartbreaking it has been for you to stop, how much guilt for also feeling relief that you stopped. You are doing f*cking amazing, you are rocking motherhood, you’re body is the perfect representation of your personal war and it will get to where you want it to be with time and healing. Thank you for been real and honest, for been my online friend even if we don’t know each other, for the massive help that your videos have been for me as a mother and a woman. I’m going to stop now, love from Spain!
I have an almost 22 month daughter and she decided she didn’t want to breast feed anymore around 18 months and I was heartbroken but at the same time relieved. It’s hard with the hormones even right now I have days where I get sad and emotional for the smallest things but I have to keep it together for her. I don’t have any friends that can talk to who have kids but I think that would have definitely helped. You’re such an inspiration! Love your channel!
I never expected my pregnancy and postpartum to be this way. I never expected the agony, traumatising labour with the best gift. I never expected my body to completely change. I am so grateful for your videos❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this. Not enough info out there about weaning. ❤ You're a wonderful mother, and I am so happy that you are doing things for yourself. You work so hard at all times, and your health is most important.
Post breast feeding blues are real and hardcore! You are so brave and strong for sharing this, don’t let anyone take that away from you!
I’m still currently BFing my 9 month old and the thought of weaning make me so sad, so this is so helpful for me 💗
Breastfeeding and postpartum are no joke. I struggled with really bad PPA right after my son was born in January. I wasn’t eating well, wasn’t sleeping well, and breastfeeding around the clock. I unintentionally dropped 40 pounds in the first few months. Looking back now, I realize how bad my mental health was. Now, almost 10 months later I’m starting to feel more like myself. I’ve watched you since I found out I was pregnant, and your honesty is so refreshing. I think we can feel so alone in this, and think sharing our stories reminds us that we aren’t. Thanks for being a light 💕💕💕
Please know you are making such a difference in women’s lives by being 100% love you Brittany.
I am considering weaning my son who is almost 1 because I am also dealing with some rapid, unintentional weight loss. I feel so depleted . I would be doing it for my physical and mental health, but the mom guilt is so real. Even though breastfeeding has been difficult at times, it’s been such a source of joy and love on my motherhood journey. thank you for sharing your experiences and making me feel less alone 💜💜💜
My child is 19 and I wish there were resources like this when she was small! I feel your struggle as I was in a similar single situation and there were hardly any online people to connect with with. I watch you because I find it soothing, which may sound strange but there it is. You are doing a wonderful job and will be JUST FINE.
Thank you for sharing this. I shared with some friends before about how I felt the journey of all the body changes doesn't really end until breastfeeding is fully done. They thought as soon as your period is back but it really isn't! Glad you know have the video and I can share. 💗💗2
My baby is 6 weeks and we've only just started our breastfeeding journey, obviously, but I really dread the day we aren't breastfeeding anymore. It's comforting for me too. I know I might feel differently months and months down the line, but I will definitely keep this video in my back pocket for when that time comes. Thanks for sharing your motherhood journey with us, it's made my journey a heckuva a lot easier since Is started watching you when I was trying to get pregnant.
I absolutely love your videos and your honesty, I’m currently 34 weeks pregnant and you’ve helped calm my nerves and anxiety over pregnancy and postpartum, Thank you 💕
I loooove your videos. I have a 7 month old daughter and fell like I can relate to you a lot. I’m not feeling myself right now and you inspired me to go get help, so thank you. You shouldn’t feel mum guilt (easier said than done, I know). Even though you’re coparenting, you are still the one who implements all the decisions most of the time, and it’s not easy. You don’t have the luxury of just giving her to someone at the moment you feel like you need some time for yourself. You have to deal and continue to be there for her until naptime, bedtime or whatever else and even then, you have to work and provide for you both. If you can afford, few hours a day or even like 3 times a week at daycare or a nanny outside your home would maybe do you good. It doesn’t have to be a whole day, but some time where you know she’s safe but she is also away from you so you dont have baby monitor to think about or whatever else. I feel, as long as I’m near my daughter, I’m the one in charge and that’s stressful. I know you get one day a week, but it still isn’t much. And think about it this way: you will be more present and genuinely happy around your daughter when you get time for yourself. Being mum is just one aspect of you, it’s also closely related to your work so I think you should get some small distance (speaking from the experience). Of course, it’s just a thought and also, based only on what you share online, so please don’t feel affected by it if it isn’t what would work for you.
This video is a hug to so many moms in the world. You are brave, kind and an amazing mom!
Thank you for being open, honest, and vulnerable with us. Wishing you health and happiness 🥰
Just fully weaned after a long and emotional process and I’m so thankful for this video while in the think of the hormones & getting my health back💕 Thank you for sharing your story and making me feel not alone!
Im 4w postpartum and i can't imagine how hard it was for you, your journy and you sharing it as well, i felt you, i know when you can beirly talk and hold the feelings and the breakdown you are experiencing inside
I hope you are doing better now
Thanks for sharing your experiences! I'm currently BFing and going through the same thing... a lot of weight loss to the point where I look at my reflection and sometimes can't recognize myself... none of it is intentional- but I think the exhaustion of parenthood is taking a toll and taking the time to make full meals for myself is a daunting task that sometimes gets pushed down the priority line. It's sad to say but self-care at this point just seems like something else added onto my plate that I don't have the capacity for. I'm also like you where it's hard for me to ask for help, I feel like it's hard for my non-parent friends to relate and I feel like an inconvenience to others. So I just try to do everything myself and it is so taxing. Watching your video helps me realize I'm not alone but I do need to reach out to my community, I don't need to struggle alone
Honestly been following you for so long. I really appreciate where you are and how you are handling yourself. Very graceful forgiving and raw. More power to you!!
Thank you so much 💞
So proud of you for sharing with us. Even though your mental health is struggling it is doing so well Recognizing and realizing these things before it got too far. ❤
Sending you so much love. I'm starting to wean and it's incredibly mentally difficult and now I'm starting to realize that my moods/hormones are affected as well; I never put it together. Weaning is way harder for me than breastfeeding ever was but I'm craving the freedom of a night off or having someone else put my 16 month old to bed. Thank you for this reality check and you are NOT alone either 💕
I really felt tht part when you said you wanted someone else to be able to put ur 16 month old to bed.. i feel exactly the same 😓😓😓
I felt this video. I felt when you said ending breast feeding was a hormonal change. I experienced ppd with my first baby; not with my second. But when I weaned my second, AAAAALLLL those scary sad guilty feeling came rushing back. I cried for like 2 weeks, I got my period and I finished breast feeding and it was the saddest experience for me. I appreciate this video because it’s relatable.
Wow thank you for opening up Brittany, I literally have the same body type you do (well similar) i’m 5’4 and usually weigh 115-120lbs and rn i’m 38 weeks pregnant and i love the weight gain (currently 140) i’m definitely worried about how my body will change after …i hope i don’t fall into depression over how much weight i lose after the baby but thank you for your honesty and how you’ve dealt with the body changes . Love You💕
I have a 2 month old and have been so thankful for all of your videos through this journey. Thank you for being you!!💕✨
I'm still breastfeeding my 16 month old and it literally brings tears to my eyes thinking of stopping. Thankyou so much for being so open and honest with the weaning process. It really hit home when you said you need to ask for help.
14 months. I feel like weaning because it feels like ME all the time but my heart hurts thinking about actually doing it too.
This was the most real video Iv watched in a while. And I shared many feelings during my recent weaning time. Thanks for sharing this. All moms who breastfeed need to know the raw! It prepares you, and hey if you don’t experience any of it then that’s great and a good thing and may actually put a little pep in your step knowing you were lucky enough not to experience it!
You are such a strong, loving, courageous and beautiful mama. I’m always shocked by you and how full of life and love you are. Sending you endless love on your journey. Just know, you’re doing great!!
Thank you! My husband sometimes watches your videos with me and we both think you are such a strong Women & Mama! Greetings all the way from Germany.♥️
Hey! German girl over here, too :)
I’m due December 13th with my first little girl and I love watching your videos. Thank you for your transparency because not enough people talk about every aspect of pregnancy like you do. Love watching you and arrow💜
@Kay I know I can’t wait. I’m honestly so excited. I’m terrified, but I’m excited. Honestly I haven’t enjoyed being pregnant at all. It’s been a very strange process for me. I was actually in the process of having a hysterectomy when I got pregnant but she’s the greatest blessing I’ve ever received. I definitely don’t think I’ll miss being pregnant though 🤣
I just had my baby girl 3 months ago. She is the joy of my life! Congrats, you’ve got so much to look forward to. 😘
Love you Brittany. Thank you for sharing, you always make me feel like I’m not alone in this motherhood journey!
Oh man. This was so refreshing but also my heart broke for you. I started watching your channel when I was pregnant. Our daughters are the same age. 🖤 Breastfeeding was a struggle for us but we worked hard at it and pulled it off with supplementing for 6 months. Weaning was beyond difficult emotionally and mentally. I actually changed my mind a few times but a bad cold basically chose for me in the end since it took out what little supply I had left. During the time i was breastfeeding I had hoped burning all those calories everyday (pumping nonstop at work and nursing all night) would shed some of the immense amount of weight I knew I needed to lose. It didn’t. I didn’t lose any of it and in fact I gained back the 10-15 I had lost when I delivered her. She almost 16 months now and my weight hasn’t budged. I have the complete opposite issue as far as the tatas go. 😭 weight gain before my pregnancy and during caused me to go up in several cup sizes but it just seems like there’s no end in sight and it’s just comical but sad at this point. I’ll leave it at that, but I can definitely relate to the rollercoaster of emotions. It’s been a beautiful but rough ride. Through it all I’ve loved watching you and Arrow. I was a little concerned about your recent weight loss so I’m relieved to here you talk about it here. You’ll find your way to a new healthy. 🖤 thank you for this video ❤️✨
I watched so many videos on pp and I relate to you MOST! I enjoy your content it’s real and transparent with I appreciate it! Thank you for the updates I’m sure most women feels the same way , I know I do!
I just want to hug you! Sending the biggest hugs your way. You’re an amazing mama and I can’t thank you enough for your vulnerability. ❤️
My baby just turned one year old yesterday and I stopped pumping 2 weeks ago after 3 weeks of weaning. She has a freezer stash so we are still using breastmilk but weaning off of pumping was probably the most gut-wrenching thing I’ve had to do. I almost gave up pumping at 4 months and then at 6 months but finally called it at one year. Even though I made it this far, I felt the guilt in a major way. Thank you for showing that others go through the same thing and that we have people on our side to show us that taking our health back into our hands is not only ok but necessary. Happy mom, happy baby.
Thank you for sharing. I’ve definitely known some moms who’ve used breastfeeding as a means of losing weight, long after the child needed or even wanted it. So it’s good that you’re being honest about this and how it could be unhealthy for mama.
Thank you for sharing this, Brittany! I'm working on weaning now with my little one being 10m and he basically breastfeeds for comfort, and we're already implementing some of the things you mentioned. Hopefully, by 1 he'll be ready to stop 🙃
Thank you so much for being vulnerable and honest! You're helping so many 🥰
Ive been looking forward to this video! My baby is 10 months old now and I have to go back to work when hes 1, I think I should wean him by then for my own sanity. Im already super emotional thinking about this stage in his life coming to an end. After watching your video I've decided to keep my morning feeds for as long as we can. Thank you for your tips and tricks and sharing your journey, there isnt enough personal experiences about weaning out there
Ps you're beautiful inside and out! Arrow is one lucky kiddo
Thank you for sharing! Exclusively breastfeeding my 9m old son and feeling not myself, excited and also really nervous about weaning at 12m. So appreciate videos like this!
Thank you for this video and making yourself constantly vulnerable on the internet ❤️
I’m going through something else. I feel like I cannot fuel my body enough during breastfeeding. I feel like I’m not very hungry much or when I am and don’t have the time to immediately eat my hunger goes away after very little time and i then forget to eat. I have yet to figure out how to handle this, I was feeding on demand until 2 weeks ago and then started feeding every 3 hours. But I’m still always sick which I never used to be before pregnancy… anyways I just wanted to share this in case someone out there struggles with the same
😭😭 so relatable! I followed your pregancy journey because I had a similar body to you prepregnancy and wanted insight of what could happen. Well postpartum hit me the same too lol. Literally had 34D after birth and when I didn’t continue breastfeeding I’m smaller than before which I didn’t even know was possible. Thank you for sharing Brittany. I know it can’t be easy
Duuuude....I feel u and I am thankful u made this video. As a Mom yet to wean, it's nice to listen to someone with a conscience, who cares, and who isn't afraid to be (somewhat) raw. I can't say I would have as much guts to be so honest about everything with everyone. It's so hard to be a Mom (human?). There is so much (very subtle and very real) judgment I find, and also, massive disagreement, and large polarization there of. Not that this is anything new, only, it is a new playing field, with it's own rules and atmosphere and data. As far as your body goes, I know how painful it is to be so thin so as to attract attention. I suppose, the difference with you and me in this case, is that you are trying to do something about it and are honest about your health. Your daughter will be proud of you. Of this, I am certain.
Your doing great mama! Your not alone. The weening was the hardest part of my journey too! I lost so much weight as well, my boobs went from an A cup pre pregnancy to at 32AA after breastfeeding. I never thought my they'd get smaller 😂 definitely another stage of learning to love your new body. Here with you on your journey! You inspire me so much!
thank you so much for creating this video. I am 15m pp and, although not weaning yet, I really appreciate the real and raw information. I hope you start feeling better and that your hormones balance out quickly. You are beautiful!
Thank you so much 💞 I hope your journey is a bit easier than mine was - some people have a really easy time weaning!
It's scary how similar this is to my weaning journey! Around the 1 year mark, I too lost A LOT of weight to the point that the people around me became concerned. I thought I had an overactive thyroid but it was just because I was breastfeeding day and night. I eventually cut night feeds and that brought my menstrual cycle back (14 months pp). We're down to just the morning feed now (17 months pp) and I could absolutely cut it... But am feeling so sad about stopping. I had to cut down for my physical and hormonal health... But gosh it's so hard. Thank you for making this video. It's nice to not feel so alone. ❤️
Thank you for sharing and helping the rest of us feel less alone.
I found the same thing when I started weaning my girl!! She got so cuddly and hugs me now. It's the best 💕💕
Thank you so much for sharing this💕 I weaned my baby when she turned 6 months (about 2 months ago now) and I went through a very similar experience. It took me to go 10 pounds below my pre-pregnancy weight (I was already a petite person) to make the choice to wean for my own health. People still comment on how skinny I am but I’m back at the gym and slowly gaining some pounds back😊 I know how HARD it is and the guilt you feel about making that decision- but it’s definitely the right decision for both mom and baby
Thank you for always being so vulnerable with us. Your strength helps so many ❤️
I’m also tearing up watching this 🥺
I am 19 months postpartum with my second baby and i have loved watching your videos. You always make me feel good and i wish we could be friends, youre so lovely. Sending you big hugs from Canada!
Thanks for sharing all this info Brittany! I had to stop breastfeeding my son when he was 10months old (now 13 months old) for both of us. I Think I have shared this before but I stopped abruptly because he wasn't tolerating the breastmilk and I developed terrible POST WEANING DEPRESSION! I never even knew it existed. My husband and I had to stay with my parents for a bit until it passed because I was having terrible thoughts and feelings that I couldn't control (non about harming my son)
Watched this so many times but thank you thank you THANK YOU, for sharing this. I can relate to this so much. Currently weaning my 16 month old son & wow I was not prepared for this emotional roller coaster!! Thank you for sharing, it’s helped me tremendously
Yup 100 agree with different type of bonding. I stopped after 9 months and i saw my daughter act in a way where she would actually want to hug me. Happier and lighter with me!
My daughter is almost 13 months old and I’m so ready to wean! I actually started today so I’m glad I came across this video. I want myself back/my body back. I cannot lose weight right now so hopefully when my hormones go back to normal I cant start losing this weight
Our daughters are the same age (like a week apart) and we have been trying to wean but it is so mentally hard. You are such an amazing role model. I love you!
Thank you so much for sharing! We all need to share more of the real struggle so we can all feel just normal and okay about it!❤️
Thank you for your honesty! It's so much appreciated, I really enjoy your content!😊
I'm now 7 months postpartum and breastfeeding made me lose so much weight. I'm thinner than I was before pregnancy and I'm not the biggest fan of my body currently either... trying to go with the flow and see how things will be.🤷♀️
Same. With so much weight loss being less common it's nice to know I'm not alone and there's other women out there with similar issues!