Men Long To Feel THIS (With A Woman)! Dr. John Gray
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- Опубліковано 16 вер 2024
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Dr. John Gray of MarsVenus fame and author of Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus helps men and women experience greater love, passion, intimacy and romance in their relationships with men. Men need to feel needed and appreciated to give his best to a woman, When men and women understand the dance between masculine and feminine energy they feel greater attraction and to find romance. Women need to be able to express their needs and know how to ask a man for help or support and to be open to receiving from him. When she is in touch with her needs, is willing to receive from a man and appreciates and acknowledges him, it creates a win-win.
John shares what men and women experience in relationships and the importance for both and women to balance their masculine and feminine energy. When women can receive from a man this fosters romance and brings out the best in him. When a woman can share her thoughts and feelings with a man in a way that men can hear it creates greater intimacy. When you understand your own wants and needs and what men want and need in a relationship and how they fall in love you can find deep love and passion.
When women understand more about men they can get more of their needs met and experience greater intimacy. John Gray teaches how men connect with women and how a woman can invite attraction, get her needs met, share her feelings with a man in a way that will make him feel successful, make her feel heard and draw a man closer to her! When a woman is on the masculine side she often gives too much and her feminine energy can be depleted.
Want to know what makes a man fall in love? John Gray says a key for a woman's happiness is to be in a receptive energy and be open to what a man can give to you. If you, as a woman, are giving too much to a man, you are unlikely to attract a high-quality masculine man. This is why learning more about how to invite his attention with your feminine energy is important as is balancing giving and receiving. If you are a single woman or woman in a relationship or marriage and want to enjoy a great relationship with a man, then polarity between a man and woman are essential! If a woman is showing up with masculine energy and like she is the better man it can be very hard for a man to feel attraction. Dr. John Gray from Mars Venus fame and author of Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus answers this question about men and women and what his advice is so that you can enjoy a loving, passionate, committed partnership relationship or marriage with the right man for you.
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A woman needs to feel loved,cherished and safe.
A man needs to feel needed,appreciated,and respected.
Either one cannot exist without the other.
A woman is often safer being single
I exist without the other?!? And with the other.
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I can exist without a needy ungrateful wife. I'm even better off 😂
My husband of 46 years still opens my car door
Im glad men were created 💝
Me too, my gracious!
I just met a wonderful man. He’s bright and emotional intelligent . I hope my avoidant attachment doesn’t f it all up
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Never mind he’s into men too
Intellectually, I understand this. I've given up on being in a relationship and I'm very happy on my own. I trust myself and appreciate what I've done and what I've brought myself through these 65 years. No man has ever "been there" for me.
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I’m 49. Same thing here.
When I see couples around me, I’m always surprised at what kind of stupid women men are with while I think I’m awesome. I probably have too much testosterone in me. 🙃
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I hear you! I think I too much testosterone as well. I'm on my own, and that means doing it all all by myself. I did call on a neighbor for help when I had a massive water leak. I'm not opposed to marriage or men. They're both wonderful, but as the saying goes, a good man is hard to find. No worries. God has blessed me with so much, and I'm grateful.
My sister tells me that I am strong and I think, where's the glory in that... yet I can take care of myself.
I just think men are not attracted to me... again, too strong, not a damsel in distress and too many needy women out there.
oh well, life goes on.
Take care, and thanks for replying to my comment 😊
@@patty271 I watched another video about men this afternoon and it was said that the woman should thank her man for what he does for her everyday. Like : «Thanks so much for taking out the garbage, it means so much to me.»
Seriously ???? The garbage ? HIS garbage ??? The garbage belonging to the house HE LIVES IN ????? Is that supposed to mean a lot to me ??? Am I his mother ????? Or am I supposed to give him the best sex of his life if he does it on Valentine’s Day ? 😂😂😂😂😂
@@patty271 Take care too. We are worth much more than that ! 😃
I didn't realize testosterone in women is secreted when they are in protective mode. I now know why I didn't date for years after my marital break down and the subsequent relationship break up afterward. I was in my masculine energy and I was probably secreting extra testosterone for years😢
Same here.
Me too 😮
Conversation is the base of a great marriage. I had one. You have to be open with how you feel to the other person to move forward.
What makes testosterone rise - when a woman delivers that which boosts the best in a man ~ from the male perspective... Many Thanks
I had previously heard John's advice, at the end of vid, for women who are in the dating world.. goal is just to have a positive dating experience and don't worry about every other detail and the future.. this helped me get from just chatting with men on dating sites to actually meeting in person, going on dates.. is great advice and takes the pressure off!!:))
I love all your interviews with Dr John Gray!!!
Thank you for sharing your content! I'm so happy to have run across these videos! I'm learning sooo much on how to bring a man back into his masculine energy as I'm in my feminine.
So useful and clear. Thank you so much
I love it john. Thank you 🌟💙
I believe in Laws Of Attraction with my SP. Which has been working out well.
In combination with this Channel it makes for a successful , loving relationship
Love your content with John
That was a fascination discussion, thank you! I read your book Dr Gray, Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus, and benefitted grately7 from it!
@9:04 no i noticed that males are Only romantic with females they actually want!
This has come into my life just at the right time. Thankyou
Thank you. Good advice for me.
That was very valuable thank you
Just fantastic, wow!
That's so contradictory. She became a friend yo said. If you're not a friend along with being a lover. You will be accused of not being a friend. Men are not the prize.
Yup you are the prize!
Great podcast! I do have a question for John - what if I didn’t like the movie? What if our partner disappointed us? I shouldn’t lie. That’s not genuine. So what should I do? I’ve listened to John for years and read his book. I’m a higher intellect woman and I am trying to be more in my feminine. I want a masculine male.
I'm 54, married at 41...late bloomer😂. I learned when I have something negative to say to my hubby, I first say something positive. It works. I also ask God to word my mouth. I pray God bless you with wonderful gentleman. God bless you ABUNDANTLY!
@@godisgood5038 thank you for this advice. Will do. Positive comment then negative if I have one to share.
Oh great question- yes John teaches this method when needing to talk to our man, “It’s not a big deal honey/sweetie …” But what about when it is? I’m thinking in terms of safety for example there are some guys that fly by the seat of their pants! Literally.
Question, I've experienced many Narcisstic individuals. Including my mother. Who is it, that teaches me, how to be romantic. And what age did it start?.
Dear Mr. Gray …. He needs to know his priorities and woman want more caring actions as well. Actions,
What about all the times you ask the man the things you like and want since they can’t mind read , they still don’t do it ????
Happened to me too
Exactly! Which is usually the case.
I’m not sure if its true but some coach says we should change how the way we tell them what we want: should start with ‘ i will be happier if (insert what u like him to do) or I feel loved when you…..
Thank you!!! Please come to Washington DC for a lecture!!!!
DC is the last place most of US🇺🇸would want to be.
Agree. I should have said around DC like Virginia or Maryland. Cheers
@@Laura-rx9mp I was being snarky..& inappropriate…you are very kind to respond in such a way.
All the best to you!🌞🙏🏾🇺🇸
Same to you. I really didn’t see it as snarky. Ha. Cheers
What about when you ask and he always says no? But I am attracted to him it gets confusing and disappointing. I think obviously he doesn't care about losing me. I think he's listening to bad advice you tubes on how to treat a woman. Well I don't want a mean guy or a bad guy I want a nice guy who is helpful and kind!
Start listening to Princella.
Ok thank you..
What about listening to your gut? If he likes you, he will show up and invest in you .. not because you ask him, but because he wants to. Learn to receive, take care of yourself and don’t make your happiness depend on anyone else. Grow up.
And by the way… if it gets disappointing and confusing, that’s your gut telling you already what you need to know. Don’t waste your time.
@@JuLia-hn1oh Yes! Trust your gut and learn to be good to yourself!
Wow !
@13:35 does it actually though?
This is great John, but what should I do when the man loves to give, to support but says he has been let down by women and colleagues and family etc etc to the point that he is hurt and scared to trust a woman… this is what he says and his actions are proving it so far. He will give and then take back, goes into self protection mode. His marriage ended 6 years ago and he hasn’t had a relationship that would last more than 2 months, since. He says the women all put their girlfriends first and their true colours came out.
I'd like to understand, when you say he gives and takes back, what does he do exactly? If you can give one or two examples...
The guy is high maintenance
Research avoidant attachment style
Run far far away and block his number.
Run before you invest further. Don’t even attempt to change a person.
☝️THIS IS GOLD‼️🙌 😊 👍
My man from Mars gave up on my Venus.
What does it say about a man that has little interest in doing what I like or 'providing' an experience for me? Does he have less need of that testosterone ? Also he doesn't seem to like when I ask for his help and tells me to figure it out myself. 😔
The question is...what did you do to deserve him? Modern feminism seems to want everything, but not give an inch.
@@willowburmeister9438 he is independent in nature and doesn't respect people who don't or can't do for themselves. I don't think all men find fulfillment the way that the author interviewed was conveying. I am a more traditional female and thought we would support each other in our respective roles. Whereas he's more of a lone wolf and doesn't like to help or be helped.
It says he is not a nice man to be with. Sounds self-centric, is a role reversal, perhaps no testosterone 😆
Maybe the key is to find someone that matches with your needs…we go into relationship with some specific needs, if the person we’re with doesn’t matches with it… we need to learn to walk away and believe that what we’re going to get what we really need…. I think and I believe…this.
I have always loved Johns work , however i have had an awakening in my life that men are just lazy, selfish and only do things that serve their own needs. Women are always doing the work to understanding men, psychology, adjusting etc, it isba Patriarchy run society and marriage serves men more than women. Been listening to Princella and she has put male nature in plain terms. John Gray is an emotionally intelligent male and he is a rare find, but the majority of males are using weaponized incompetence to get women to do things for them, they create single mothers everywhere and are draining women and their life goals to put them first. John is still a male at the end of the day and serves the Patriarchy. I tried everything in his books and advice yet never could find that relationship. But then to be blamed and gaslight more that its my fault and im just not doing it right. Im so done. Single and peaceful. 😊 no menz allowed 😂
couldn't agree with you more !
You also get taken advantage of and abused!
After reading your first sentence I immediately thought:"she's been listening to Princella".
@@rejectionisprotection4448 lol 😆 I give credit where credit is due!
So true
Well real women long to have honest respectful men!! Rare these days. All about me…. That’s a selfish man!
Amazing advice. I always follow his ideas.
Can you please help me to get my night owl husband to become a day time person routine please. I tried my best . But he is getting there for couple of days. But again he goes backward.
Thanks
That's probably just how he's wired. It's not fair to try to change him just because that's what you are. There are bound to be times in the day where you are both awake and free to do things together. You have to compromise, too.
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True. Loving someone means you accept them with their good traits and their differences.
My thing is; I don't like telling him or asking him what I prefer or little things like texting one or two times throughout the day because then I feel he's only doing it because he was asked to and not that he ever really wanted to
You need to learn to accept his being a night owl. It’s part of who he is, possibly at the *genetic* level. Who are you to try to mold him into something else? You’re only going to make him resent you. As a night owl woman, I sure would!
The wrong man will NEVER do things like open a car door. Did that for 11 yrs - he would also walk ahead of me and act impatient like I had to catch up to him.
He was extremely in his feminines, yet a mother enmeshment syndrome where his MOM thinks for him still. Sad and wow
Nice, but isn't love about loving instead of what I need for my validation, testosteron levels, etc. I need you because I love you. Vs. I love you because I need you for me to be a man. Well, be a man, man! 😄 Saving marriage is ridiculous. Save love!
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Don't ever not like something you order at a restaurant...the man will take it personally. Their egos are insane.
Maybe it’s just that they feel the responsibility to provide a good experience and they are very sensitive about it, just like a woman would be hurt if a man said she looked fat in her new dress.
A man only needs a woman to make one thing hard in his life everything else she should bring peace.
A woman's role is not to placate but to be a balance of complimentary and challenging. No man was made better by not being challenged.
@@leekflower1 life will bring a man challenges. He doesn’t need anymore piled onto him by a woman. She was supposed to be a helpmate not a burden but that idea is long gone.
How about he brings the peace too
Hehe 😂
@@nancyayo1402 men are preached at all day long what’s expected of them. You ladies make up 50% of the population and 50% of the problems but you’re never called out on your bullshit. How about for a change women take a long look in the mirror and realize and acknowledge the problems they contribute to a relationship and the world. It’s not always unicorns and rainbows.
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Mmm is that why some men are workaholics?
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Logic need not apply when talking about how to treat a woman in marriage. 70% of Husbands ultimately fail because they become emotional buddy instead of the leader. Once you try to crossover into a mythical intimate place with her that is a baited trap, it’s game over. She’ll ultimately resort to manipulative tactics because she’s hard wired to do so. There are millions of men who were hard working, righteous, caring, loving providers and fathers who ‘can’t believe she did that.’
I absolutely love men, I would never want the world without men.
What if a man opens the car door and turn into a real jerk.... He was an opportunist. 💯😎👀👌
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Not all men long to feel “this” with a woman. I know men who want to experience “this” with a man. I know it’s hard for some to be inclusive but it bears saying. Some of the greatest romances are not male/female.
The majority of the audience is straight therefore that’s the way topic is discussed. If you are guy just apply to famine/masculine figures in your dynamics. Simple.
@@M.9.m you just made my point. Non inclusivity for straights, (I’m not a gay or bi male by the way), means just convert whatever you’re hearing to fit. NO, we can all be inclusive. It really isn’t that painful and doesn’t diminish anyone. Rethink your knee/jerk reaction to my comment and my point.
Gay relationships only work when one being the female role and the other being male. Two testosterones end up fighting. Two estrogens are just best friends.
@@ToddDouglasFox it’s not a “jerk” reaction on my part. Just common sense.
But your reaction to my comment is “jerk” for sure. Whatever you mean by that.
@@M.9.m I said knee jerk, not jerk (whatever you may mean by using only the jerk word). You seem unschooled and uncouth. Do you not know what knee jerk reaction means colloquially? Maybe get out of your narrow straight jacket for a bit, and yes I mean hetero, and find out what the rest of the world is about. It’s rather sickening that people like Gray are not inclusive. The bias these days is stunningly obtuse. it’s so passe and yes, I’ll say the word again in a different context, jerky.