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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @asltogether631
    @asltogether631  4 роки тому +6

    Hey! We'd love to hear your story about how you learned ASL! If you haven't yet, we would love to help you get started! Let us know what questions you might have and we'd be happy to answer :)

    • @melissawilliams2325
      @melissawilliams2325 Рік тому

      I really loved your story. I'm hearing and am fluent in ASL. I have friends and family who are Deaf, my boyfriend Necoas is Deaf and black, but he's a total sweetheart. I'm an ASL freak. Me and my boyfriend met on Facebook. He's a good christian man.

    • @MsNoelleASL
      @MsNoelleASL 4 місяці тому

      My late husband was deaf. He had a CI in his 30's, he didn't go deaf until he was 6. His parents abandoned him after he became deaf. He was adopted after that, but he was very angry at God for SO long after that. Your husband is really lucky to have an entire family that learned ASL. That is super rare. I myself am hearing and I met my late husband on Livejournal. I didn't know ANY asl when we met and he was super rusty because he never used it (he was also legally blind) . We got married in Houston and went to a deaf LDS branch in Houston and it was the best time in my life until he passed away. I have made SO many deaf friends and I learned so much. They supported me through my grief. But even that led me to more. I met my current husband interpreting for a friend (when I was a widow) at a Fireside for Single Adults. He learned ASL then (by then I was fluent). We now teach ASL in San ANtonio area (supported by the church) and interpret for the deaf in our Ward, which is the ASL magnet ward.

  • @marcianzalone3287
    @marcianzalone3287 11 місяців тому +2

    You two are adorable! Thanks so much for sharing your story! God is good and faithful!

  • @RatheeshKumarP
    @RatheeshKumarP 9 місяців тому +2

    😊

  • @scott_elliott1922
    @scott_elliott1922 Рік тому +4

    Thanks for sharing this. I grew up with 2 deaf cousins. I spent a ton of time with one and know some basic signing, but he read my lips really well and so I didn't have to learn much. I went to a school for the deaf he attended and got separated from him. Noone there was able to hear so for the first time table's were turned and I understand how he must have felt his whole life. Very very eye opening experience.

  • @learnasl1644
    @learnasl1644 3 роки тому +4

    Please create more content. I really enjoyed this video. I'm self taught so I heavily depend on You Tube to practice, learn and closely watch how deaf people sign and interact (body language etc) just don't stop signing as you speak that is how I learn. God bless you both🤲🏾❤

  • @katiekadaver9131
    @katiekadaver9131 3 роки тому +2

    Your story is so relatable! I had a Deaf classmate growing up and learned to fingerspell and some basic signs. The fingerspelling stuck with me into adulthood and when my daughter (hearing) was a baby I taught her some signs and she picked them up really well. Fast forward about ten years and I discovered the show Switched at Birth and I was hooked! I loved the focus on Deaf culture and ASL on the show really renewed my interest in Deaf culture and ASL, as well as my daughter's and she started reading about it, doing projects at school and learning more A couple years after watching the show I met a guy at a party. I had been noticing him all over town and on social media. He was always looking at me, but never said anything to me. Finally at this party he interacted with me by typing a message on his phone and showing it to me. In that moment I realized he was Deaf and it made sense why he hadn't tried talking to me until then. I used my fingerspelling skills to communicate a bit and we immediately sparked a friendship. His name was Steve and I told him I was interested in learning more ASL, so we started working on it together and that's when it happened. When you're inches away from someone, looking into their eyes and communicating with your hands, if there's any chemistry at all, that's when you'll find out... And we did! We fell in love and after we started dating my daughter started learning more ASL too. Steve and I have been together almost 2 years now and learning ASL has been a highlight of my life and our relationship. It's even inspired my friends to learn to sign, so we're all learning together. Steve grew up as the only Deaf person in his hearing family and unfortunately none of his family or friends has learned to sign, so my daughter and I learning ASL has been such a wonderful thing for him. I believe the Universe brought us together for a reason and I'm so grateful to have him in my life and to have ASL, too. It's been life changing!

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  3 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your story! Wishing the best for you, Steve, and your daughter!

  • @melissadoner933
    @melissadoner933 Рік тому +1

    Such a beautiful story!!!

  • @yelnats61
    @yelnats61 4 роки тому +3

    My aunt was deaf, who died 10 years ago. I took some sign classes to be able to communicate better with her, although she read lips well. I also enjoyed approaching anyone I saw signing, and introduced myself. Sometimes they knew or remembered my aunt from the deaf community. Now, in my work, I occasionally encounter deaf people, so I’m grateful to know some sign language. They are always patient and appreciate my signing effort, and help me improve. They seem to know what I want to say and help me sign. Now with Covid, and no lipreading, it can be harder for me. Keep this channel going! Good luck.

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +1

      Thank you for sharing, that’s a sweet story!

  • @karlaestrella1136
    @karlaestrella1136 4 роки тому +10

    I started learning ASL by myself in High School and loved it, now I am in my 3rd year in college and taking ASL classes to hopefully become a ASL interpreter in the future! love your videos, hope you and your families are safe during this crazy time :)

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +2

      That's super exciting! We appreciate interpreters for sure!!

    • @SC_jamesbond007jua
      @SC_jamesbond007jua 4 місяці тому

      Please stop waste your time and Cued Speech instead.

    • @mbu8340
      @mbu8340 3 місяці тому

      I encourage you get involve with deaf people. Bec some interpreters had no idea what it was like to hang out or being around with deaf people. They could effect on your thoughts, emotions and point of views in different ways - which could be negative and positive. The key is being interpreter MUST learn to love deaf people. From my experience, for example, I never went in interpreter's room (much later I learned that room is also for aides) at school where I worked as DHH Aide for deaf program. I am deaf and love to work with students and know mostly people at school. By the way, I went in that room bec one of interpreters invited me to eat lunch with her. I thought that was cool. So, while I sat by the table eating my lunch. One of others just came in the room and saw me. She immediately get her lunch and went out of the room. I thought she might hurried left for her schedule to interpret. But then interpreter who invited me made her face and said she did not want to sign in front of me in same room and wanted to get out to be alone by herself. I was puzzled and dumbfounded. I noticed her behavior from time to time avoid around me. To be honest, her being interpret is so amazing but I don't understand why she acted that way until one day she told me when she was high school student or after high school (can't remmy which), she learned some signs. Her mother encouraged her to take course to become an interpreter. She thought that was a great idea which she did. But she really experience hang out with deafies before? Not know about that? Few yrs later, she left her job. I have no idea if she continue her job as interpreter in other place?? Anyway, My personal experience facing with interpreters in some good ways and some not. So, in my life and thought myself, I feel I need to tell anyone who is interesting to become interpreter... strongly encourage all should get involve with deaf people to help them understanding better for themselves and know what is best for their future.

    • @SC_jamesbond007jua
      @SC_jamesbond007jua 3 місяці тому

      @@mbu8340 Many hearing parents think ASL is difficult but Cued Speech (Cued Language Transliteration) is not difficult

  • @heatherhaskell2333
    @heatherhaskell2333 4 роки тому +2

    YAY! I LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!!!! I was born hard or hearing in both ears, then i lost all of my hearing in Jr. High in my left ear becoming completely deaf in my left ear, i recived a cochlear implant and it has been amazing help. I enjoy both worlds for sure, and especially the deaf world because it feels home. Love it! I too served a mission, i served in the South Dakota Rapid City Mission where i was able to sign to alot of people there (Sioux Falls had a school for the deaf there, and alot of deaf people- blessings)! I love our world! I am happy to meet you both! Keep up the amazing videos! ♡♡♡

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your support and for sharing your story with us!

  • @yelnats61
    @yelnats61 4 роки тому +6

    Here’s a tip: I find myself replaying parts of the video to catch all the signs. Then I had the idea to slow down the playback speed. It works great.

  • @tiffanywalls7480
    @tiffanywalls7480 3 роки тому

    Ive always been passionate about the Deaf community and when my son was 4 he became friends with our friend Zach who was 3 and deaf. Long story short Zach’s MLM and I have been best friends for 27 years and we all sign, teach ASL and enjoy doing life together! God really has an incredible sense of humor putting us all together and I am forever greatful for that! Thanks for sharing your story. Oh and I am blessed to share ASL with the homeless community. They are under served so I am blessed that I can help them with resources!

  • @Eternal.faith316-gh8jp
    @Eternal.faith316-gh8jp 5 місяців тому

    lol…the ol’ clap routine before it was mandatory that all hospitals test newborns.. a lot of us deaf will never forget the way we found out we were deaf. Thank you for sharing!! I am also deaf! Nice to meet you both!

  • @TheJacobydavis
    @TheJacobydavis 4 роки тому +3

    Lds missions?? Awesome!!!! Love watching you two 💕

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +1

      Yeah! Ben served in California and I served in Romania

  • @carrieboekweg1987
    @carrieboekweg1987 4 роки тому +3

    First off you guys are so cute!! I love your story almost as much as I love you guys! It's so cool how it all came together.

  • @skyelightshining7847
    @skyelightshining7847 11 місяців тому

    I’m excited to take my first ASL class next semester 🥳 I’m hard of hearing but never really been exposed to ASL besides looking up phrases and watching videos online. I know maybe 15% at the moment and really wanna learn more !

  • @nia_symonne8078
    @nia_symonne8078 4 роки тому +1

    I'm a new subscriber and love your videos! Please keep them coming! I just started learning ASL.

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому

      Thanks for the support! We will definitely have more videos coming!

  • @sujinahh
    @sujinahh 3 роки тому

    Love to see how God has brought you guys together

  • @barbarariordan3069
    @barbarariordan3069 4 роки тому +1

    Hey Alex, I watched you growing up with my step daughter. I didn’t know that you got into relationship with Ben and you know my son Ben is deaf too. I was surprised to see you on this video I thought I recognized you I was waiting for your comment about your hometown. I knew it! It was you ! Miss you!

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +1

      Hi Barb! Yes, I remember you both. I am thankful for the role you played in my journey and I think I could hold a conversation a little better now than when I was in elementary school LOL! Miss you too!

  • @sarhar571
    @sarhar571 3 роки тому

    I’m completing ASL 2 this summer I have learned so much. Although ASL is a helpful tool I really enjoyed learning about the culture

  • @jamesmcdaniel1485
    @jamesmcdaniel1485 7 місяців тому

    Awesome yur story..very interesting 👍.

  • @mickiecamp6855
    @mickiecamp6855 4 роки тому +1

    Beautiful story! I am deaf and use cochlear implant. Never went to deaf school, I was mainstreamed. Didn't know ASL until after I graduated high school. It's sad that my parents never told me about it. They didn't want me away from home. Oh well!

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  3 роки тому

      Thats still awesome you could learn ASL later down the road!

  • @tiffanya83
    @tiffanya83 3 роки тому

    Just found you guys, love the video and stories! I'm learning ASL now 😊

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  3 роки тому

      Thanks for the support! Best of luck learning ASL!

  • @sandy_sd10
    @sandy_sd10 4 роки тому +2

    Trying to learn ASL, just to help we have a large deaf community in Sioux falls

  • @austinlang4540
    @austinlang4540 4 роки тому

    I took ASL 1 and 2 in the summer now in 3. But have finished Bill Vicars ASL 1-4 on his website you can sign up for. Half way through his vocab expansion series. I also work with a tutor from Gallaudet she’s a masters student in education twice a week. So in 4 1/2 months I’ve become conversational. Understood 90 percent with no captions. Dialect is interesting it’s cool how different places all sign a little different but can still understand. Now, I watch on the setting one slower than normal, but I’ve fallen in love with the language and for anyone reading you can accomplish a lot really quick if you’re willing to dedicate yourself And get around fluent skilled signers and be willing to learn and be corrected etc..Really great video guys I enjoyed it!

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +1

      Wow, that’s super impressive! Thanks for sharing!

    • @austinlang4540
      @austinlang4540 4 роки тому

      ASL Together thank you. It’s been a lot of hard work like easily was putting in 30 hours a week before the spring semester started. Still have a ton to learn but I’ve enjoyed every second of it! Looking forward to more videos! God bless

    • @TheJacobydavis
      @TheJacobydavis 4 роки тому

      Austin Lang how do you slow down the video on UA-cam?

    • @austinlang4540
      @austinlang4540 4 роки тому +1

      Julie Davis in the video you go up to the 3 line/dots on the top right side click on it and go to playback speed

  • @judyvalentin8994
    @judyvalentin8994 11 місяців тому

    Congratulations

  • @luckystar6871
    @luckystar6871 Рік тому +6

    no hate but this is not ASL, it's signed english (PSE). this is important for anyone learning. nothing wrong with it, but you should not call this ASL. it's totally common for people to sign heavily with english influence and that is why it is "easy" to pick up, it's not a language like ASL is. just signs in english word order and grammar. ASL is very very different.

    • @luckystar6871
      @luckystar6871 Рік тому +1

      also, newborn hearing screening was not nationally implemented until 1999....

  • @hafizsiraj3280
    @hafizsiraj3280 2 роки тому

    Nice Meet to u .. I am Malaysian deaf man … I use a bit about using asl but not detail… I use Malaysian sign language but it a bit similar to asl

  • @sharimajka2886
    @sharimajka2886 3 роки тому

    awesome🤟🏻🤟🏻🤟🏻🤟🏻

  • @SC_jamesbond007jua
    @SC_jamesbond007jua 4 місяці тому

    I don't understand ASL but I know how to Cued speech/Cued language

  • @pippineily8424
    @pippineily8424 4 роки тому +2

    Im hard of hearing nyself i have tinnitus ringing in both my ears i have hearing aids just got them

    • @asltogether631
      @asltogether631  4 роки тому +1

      Best of luck with your new hearing aids!

  • @mashshupe7348
    @mashshupe7348 3 роки тому

    i want know how u and her meet together

  • @rachid-nador-27rachid-nado94
    @rachid-nador-27rachid-nado94 3 роки тому

    Holaaa 😇😇😇😇😊😊😍😍😍🤟🤟🤟