Body camera footage shows dead husband of Lori Vallow Daybell say she wanted him dead
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
- GILBERT, Arizona -- Newly released body camera shows the distraught father of 7-year-old JJ Vallow and 17-year-old Tylee Ryan months before their disappearance.
Charles Vallow, the former husband of Lori Vallow Daybell called the Gilbert Arizona Police Department in January 2019 after being unable to speak to his two kids for a couple of days. It's when police arrived that Charles told an officer about his wife's concerning beliefs.
"She's not here," Charles said in the video. "She lost her reality."
Charles told officers Lori considered herself a translated being and a God who spoke with an ancient prophet and Jesus daily. He said her strange beliefs were several years in the making but got increasingly worse.
"I love her to death, this is killing me officer," Charles said.
Even more concerning to Charles was Lori told him Nick Schneider took over his body and she would have to allegedly kill him. Charles said Lori told him "I can murder you now with my powers."
Charles told officers he called them fearing not only his safety but the safety of JJ and Tylee. He said earlier that day while on a business trip in Houston Texas Lori called him, telling him to take the kids.
When he landed at the airport Charles found his truck gone and Lori said she threw out all of his clothes. She also allegedly emptied their joint bank account that day. With the truck were also his keys to get into their home.
Body camera footage shows Charles, as well as officers, kicking in the door of the home. The video near and inside the home was blurred by police.
When the police came they had an order to have Lori picked up by officers for a mental health exam. They said typically they don't serve those orders during the night time and only came to check on the kids.
"The only reason why we're here is some of the statements that you made towards our dispatcher, that you provided to them ... he (an officer) made the discussion to conduct the welfare check to make sure your children are safe," an officer said.
Without any crime being committed police left the home.
The next morning Lori visited with officers to file a report against Charles Vallow. She then checked herself in for the mental health exam and was medically cleared.
Months later Lori's brother Alex Cox shot and killed Charles at a home in Chandler Arizona on July 11, 2019. By the end of September 2019, JJ and Tylee disappeared.
This is Charles speaking from the grave. The truth ALWAYS prevails. This video shows he was a stand up husband and father.
And he’s so calm and collected. This situation hes talking about is impossibly frustrating and he’s so calm about this and just looking for help!
100% !!!
Absolutely and he and those kids deserve justice.
this is the problem with cops well one of the problems,they don't listen or take things seriously.Women who are abused are a joke to them they show up and act like buddies with the abuser and turn on the woman,and when children are in danger and you tell them over and over they don't do anything.They act as if it's a joke or waste of there time.Those children and other children could have been saved if cops,cps,and the justice system cared or made it a priority.A change is way overdue.
Pen or Sword which is greater: Never depend on anyone else to save you! You are so right and that goes for doctors, policeman, and others..... like you said be Proactive and save yourself if you can.
Charles had too many people going against him for monastery purposes, the police should have known right away that she was nuts from what Charles told them she said! 🙀🥺
I'm speechless at how no one listened to Charles. He was very respectful n articulate to the officer. Im crying at knowing how this has played out till this time! God bless you Charles. May your spirit be at peace n may you guide the authorities to find your children at whatever status they are... Alive or dead so Lori can be held responsible for the evil she has caused.
Exactly! Police should have better training or take IQ tests, if they get lower than 105 they're designated parking duty. Let intelligent and intuitive police officers handle real issues/crimes..... I do understand hindsight but even so, they failed Charles Vallow and JJ & Tylee :(
You win for cutest name
Made me cry hearing him too.
@bubbles n lipgloss AMEN!😭💔🙏
Yeah, I can’t believe how many times and how hard this man tried to get help and absolutely no one actually helped him. Police were useless, they acted like it was an inconvenience to them.
Charles did everything he could to protect his kids and the system wouldn't allow him to! Shame Shame Shame!
🤔 huh 🤔???? So murder is the way forward?
Taxpayers are paying for a royal mess. ALL police systems in the nation need to be privatized - a voluntary charitable system of payment - this way taxpayers are not paying to be neglected, beaten, beaten to death, or needlessly shot, not to mention all the bogus traffic tickets. You can bet if you take the police services off the taxpayer welfare system - they would have to work in a way to serve - and a lot of the bully factor and badass attitudes would soon go away.
They should thoroughly investigate any threat to kill anyone.
Pretty much.
I don’t believe he did.
@@tinab6607 really, hrs was shot and killed trying to pick up JJ
I’m a police officers daughter and I am absolutely appalled at the cops action. What a complete jerk! I hope he learned a lesson through all of this. RIP Charles! 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
I think Charles was dead the next day?
This is such a disappointment. Didn't hear this in court. He was was scared for his and family lives.
You could tell his smart ass was disinterested from the very beginning
Bless his heart. He was trying to hold it together but those times that his voice cracked broke my heart.
It’s unreal. This is what happens when you do things by the book in juvenile/family courts. You get F*CKED.
AGREE
Taxpayers are paying for a royal mess. ALL police systems in the nation need to be privatized - a voluntary charitable system of payment - this way taxpayers are not paying to be neglected, beaten, beaten to death, or needlessly shot, not to mention all the bogus traffic tickets. You can bet if you take the police services off the taxpayer welfare system - they would have to work in a way to serve - and a lot of the bully factor and badass attitudes would soon go away.
They should thoroughly investigate any threat to kill anyone.
This man had everything stripped away from him....then even his life
He has 4 older kids, zac and three in college
I personally hear in his voice ,his concern for his children, his safety, his X wife's rantings and Strange behaviour, he comes across as a gentle person 🤔😩
This cop made a horrible mistake by not taking Charles seriously.
@Ms. Buschhorn AMEN Sister
Unfortunately the officers have to follow the law.. Lori was very wise in her wording and being as manipulative as she is its not surprising they didn't have anything to use against her. She was not in violation of any law. Charles knew she was up to no good, but that's not enough to do anything further.
Ms. Buschhorn I really hope you’re joking when you said “I believe there was no amber alert on the kids because they didn’t know where they were....” THATS WHAT AMBER ALERTS ARE FOR! IT WAS CREATED TO FIND KIDS WHEN THEY DONT KNOW WHERE THEY ARE! Jesus Christ the stupidity.
He was a fine cop! He was very very helpful and smart too. He also believed this man and was patient and kind. I would hope to get a cop as fine as him when I need help but hopefully I won’t.
I disagree, i think cops did take him seriously. The cops hands are tied since there is no crime committed
Anyone else think this cop is being a jerk to him?
He did the absolute right thing by calling the cops and they act like they don’t want to be bothered.
Not a jerk, just disbelieving imo
Dismissive POS.
Probably dismissive and rude because the guy is Mormon. It’s disgusting.
The cop is HORRIBLE
Why is this cop so condescending? I hope he realizes what a colossal mistake he made.
@Tiny Princess Want some salt to put on that boot?
@Tiny Princess that man died b/c he did not take Charles serious
Typical cop isn't it ?
@Tiny Princess what man died? Are you clueless?
@Tiny Princess protect
This is so incredibly sad.. he knew his children were in trouble and was practically begging for help 😭
If only there was some way you could report people like Lori who was exhibiting schizophrenia at this stage. So they could be removed from society forcibly for treatment or permanently. Instead, as no crime had been committed YET that was the end of that.
@Rhonda Bothelio the cops did everything the law allows them to. They definitely believed him and thats why they broke into the house when they didn't have to. Their hands were tied by a legal system that favors mothers no matter what. Dont blame the cops for it. Blame our legal system that has done this for years while fathers and children suffer.
Your spot on, Danielle
Gut wrenching to hear him desperately asking for help. So awful that no one took him seriously enough to stop his murder and the disappearance of the children. Simply heartbreaking that the authorities couldn't do anything to prevent this tragedy 💔
Then when Alex murdered him the police was like oh ok it was in self defense. No investigation that I heard of? What I didn't understand is if Alex could get away from Charles to go to the his bedroom to get his gun why didn't Alex just leave the home, call the police for help? The lack of any kind of investigation into that matter is like there's cops on someones payroll.
Its heartbreaking.
I notice he is actually Very quiet,calm.
She took his $$$$ truck.
Emptied the bank account.
Has threatened to kill him.
I know if someone took my truck and cleaned out 35000$ from my bank account and took everything from the house I wouldn’t be that calm. He did everything he could to get help and help his children to only end up being killed and now the children missing. The system failed him and them kids!!
I’ve been in these shoes trying to get a family member help for mental illness. It’s a bunch of crock. He’s got an order to have her evaluated and they don’t have any concern to put a bolo for her. All the stories I could tell, however it would take too much space here. My heart breaks it just reminds me of how this feels to try to get help for someone you love. Rest in peace sir
They could have done their jobs, but didn't chose to care about the safety of his children. This is what his tax money got him. Missing children and then murdered!! I blame them police!!
The fact that he wouldn’t even go in through the garage or try to break in to his OWN home without being sure he could legally, makes it completely unlikely that he would come at Alex with a Bat. This is not an aggressive man
Agree
He never came at him with a bat Lori vallow brainwashed her poor brother then the brother realized it and killed himself
💯
@@bennyb8068 Don’t call him a poor brother. He’s a murderer and did those things willfully. He’s hardly a victim.
@@bennyb8068 Allegedly “killed him self!” 😬
That cop was a jerk! So rude and egotistical! That poor man was telling him very calmly that he was in fear of his life! Look at the fallout! Some cops need to get over themselves! I hope when he closes his eyes he recalls this moment forever!
Or a new career that has nothing to do with defending the law or protecting the innocent.
He followed the law
The problem is cops are going to hear a lot of couples saying that they been threatened to be killed by their partners. He probably heard that so many times before that he got desensitized to it.
I actually thought they did the best they could, tried to advise him of what he should and can do. Just my opinion
They were very rude and condescending
This police officer sucks at his job and he failed this man.
Name one more thing the police officers could have done. They don’t know where she went. They reported a stolen license plate. They cleared the house. And they filed a report. With the little evidence there was nothing else could have been done.
@@calebwalser3710 oh look at the boot licker with the blue lives matter flag.
@@calebwalser3710 Caleb you're clueless.
@@calebwalser3710 he failed the kids too.
@Lisa Young exactly
Omg!! He told the officer everything that was gonna happen!! Poor man and kids!!
“take the kids, i don’t care what happens to them” police responds back “that’s not a direct threat to harm them” EPIC FAILURE POLICE EPIC FAIL
No that is not a direct threat and direct threat is “I’m going to kill you, I’ma going to shoot you, I’m going to cut you” law enforcement doesn’t have a crystal ball this lady was gone crazy for over a month he waited until it got really really bad before calling police it was plenty of things he could’ve done one being calling police when it first happened and continued to call everyday after. Law enforcement can’t just go arrest people without no substance that’s a violation or rights.
@@kxn5163 the problem is, Lori should of been interviewed by a woman detective. She played the men very well. A woman, would see right through her. Regardless, a man died, at the very least, if I was a police and walked into a scene and had a “victim” telling me his brother in law hit him with a bat, yet while his sunglasses ARE ON HIS HEAD, would be a pretty big, wth indicator that this was a little fishy.
He made it up to cover his ass he killed the kids
@@MoonChild-nw6oy what are you on?
@@kxn5163 they do all the time.
What pisses me off is he is telling Chandler police that he is totally freaked out about his wife's behavior. They're taking his words like a grain of salt and nothing to worry about. Because Charles is so soft-spoken and stable they are acting like it's no big deal, nothing to become alarmed about. Like cleaning out his business bank account, canceling his flight, and taking his vehicle, locking him out of the house and no one is nowhere to be found. And they're just having Charles walking around the house trying to get in. it should be the police that are trying to get him in and checking all the doors and windows. The freak. Part is this will be where Charles ends up being murdered. And the Chandler Police Department racked it up as self-defense because that is what Laurie's brother told them. Not one question asked even after a video like this.
Somebody high up is involved cuz that murder was sooooo NOT self defence!?! How did thst happen??? It breaks my heart that the only good, sane parent among them all had to die. 😥
This is the approach that law enforcement usually take. It’s absolutely maddening. They wont take action until someone gets hurt, and by that point, it’s too late.
And this cops condescending tone, "I'm not LDS, you're using LDS terms" what a jerk
It’s Chandler, Arizona. These cops deal mostly with gangs, drugs and domestic abuse, not a crazy murdering cult mom about to leave a string of bodies and missings in her wake.
Its horrific!
This cop just keeps asking “ how is she a threat to your children??” BRUH
Wonder what the idiot cop thinks now
Candace Gutherie honesty I just found out that hairdressers train more than cops and I think it shows HEAVILY
Rianne West and have a license and cops do not.
Guess the cop knows now doesn’t he???
Well now we know.
Charles seems such a loving man. He still loves her and is so worried about his kids.
He is pleading for help😔
@Tiny Princess Charles loved Lori, Tylee and JJ. I CAN’T IMAGINE how draining this would be. He spoke up and it’s on camera, where’s the support???
She cheated on him, threaten to kill him and take his kids. Then said a mam who can't even kick down a door was killed in self defense because she and her fully armed brother feared him. I honestly lost it when I heard this .. I can't even finish the story of the case where the kids are dead.
The cop was a jerk to Charles. Lori has destroyed so many lives. Rip charles
Aoife , I am not a cop hater. I support law enforcement. I have blue lives matters support decal in my car. I have several friends that are LE. But this cop was a jerk.
@@kimnicks8590 When? he did his job. And don''t you think these officers feel bad enough?
@@kimnicks8590 You are ok Kim....cop is a jerk.
I think they are talking down to Charles. How do they feel now???
No he wasn’t you snowflake.
What an arrogant condescending prick, he caused this situation to end in horror, he alone. He will have to live with his in actions for the rest of his life. This vid should be shown in every police training school worldwide because this must never happen again. My condolences 💐 to all the families affected.
Yes Dave and usually the cops can break into any door within seconds, yet they stand back and watch desperate Charles trying to enter his own home. His truck has been stolen, his bank account is now drained so he can’t pay his employees , he’s worried about his kids, he’s just driven a long drive home, tired, confused and frustrated. The cops are not being supportive and are so LAZY. GO GET SOME DOUGHNUTS 🍩 AND A NICE EXPENSIVE HOT COFFEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!☕️
That’s the typical behavior of power hungry narcissist cops. They’re in control, they have power over everyone and everything and they get off on it! They hear stories from druggies and lunatics all day every day and it has to be enough to drive them crazy. At some point they become hardened and the lowlife citizens are nothing more than a pain in their rear.
@@Cantstandtherock in a nutshell 👆👆👆👆👆👆👆👆
I wonder what the officer thinks of the situation now, now that Charles is dead...
I was just wondering the same thing.
He thinks it’s a coincidence
Clarissa Explains it All
I wouldn’t doubt it. This video is literally making me so sick I can’t finish it. The way he’s pleading for help and this officer just doesn’t seem to take him seriously. The way he even says he still loves her to death. I just can’t.
I’m sure that officer is sickened by it but there wasn’t anything legally he could of done!! Y’all obviously have never been in law enforcement, had a very close friend or family in law enforcement either!! Quit assuming all law enforcement are heartless, idiots, racists, SOBs, etc that don’t give a crap about nobody because most are fathers(mothers), husbands(wives), sons(daughters), brothers (sisters) & they have hearts just like everyone else except they have to tuck it away sometimes to do their jobs because if they don’t they would lose their minds!!!!
He could not care less
..so, 6 months later he's dead and the children are gone.
Nothing to see here folks. "Don't take the law into your own hands, people!" We are _protected_ by this nonsense.
So awful. This never had to happen!
You mean We arent
Police protect property not people
@@Marxnchill -In this case you're right.
But from the Idaho Police code of ethics:
“As a law enforcement officer, my fundamental duty is to serve the community; to safeguard lives and property; to protect the innocent against deception, the weak against oppression or intimidation and the peaceful against violence or disorder; and to respect the constitutional rights of all to liberty, equality and justice.
I will keep my private life unsullied as an example to all and will behave in a manner that does not bring discredit to me or to my agency. I will maintain courageous calm in the face of danger, scorn or ridicule; develop self-restraint; and be constantly mindful of the welfare of others. Honest in thought and deed both in my personal and official life, I will be exemplary in obeying the law and the regulations of my department. Whatever I see or hear of a confidential nature or that is confided to me in my official capacity will be kept ever secret unless revelation is necessary in the performance of my duty.
I will never act officiously or permit personal feelings, prejudices, political beliefs, aspirations, animosities or friendships to influence my decisions. With no compromise for crime and with relentless prosecution of criminals, I will enforce the law courteously and appropriately without fear or favor, malice or ill will, never employing unnecessary force or violence and never accepting gratuities.
I recognize the badge of my office as a symbol of public faith, and I accept it as a public trust to be held so long as I am true to the ethics of police service. I will never engage in acts of corruption or bribery, nor will I condone such acts by other police officers. I will cooperate with all legally authorized agencies and their representatives in the pursuit of justice.
I know that I alone am responsible for my own standard of professional performance and will take every reasonable opportunity to enhance and improve my level of knowledge and competence.
I will constantly strive to achieve these objectives and ideals, dedicating myself before God to my chosen profession… law enforcement.”
Edit: Or was this Arizona? Lori's where abouts are always confusing.
"I will DESTROY you!" Officer: "That's not a threat to kill you." WTF?!
I can see how that isn't direct enough to count as a death threat. That could easily be someone threatening to ruin a career or a reputation. People even use it to mean they will win at something against another person.
And she kept her word,so sad and her children too.
OMG Right?? Listen to these cops?? WOW... SHAME ON THEM! They let her get away with murders:(((
Strange, all these comments and I received no notifications until the seventh comment. Go UA-cam!
@@desertskies3542 They didn't let her do anything. WOW They acted on what they knew there and as they explained very well they are not allowed to do more whitout a judge allowing them to. I do understand that people need to blame someone. These police officers did what they could and they are not to blame.
So sad the police completely ignored Charles fear absolutely a disgrace. 🥺
I can’t even listen to this, this cop sounds like he’s just thinking this guy is making shit up. Charles was just totally ignored... that’s why he and his children died
They didn't die....they were "KILLED". There IS a difference.
@@HK-uj9qc last time I checked any state in which someone is no longer living or alive is deemed to be deceased or dead. Whether or not they were murdered or committed suicide they are dead. May they rest in peace
@@troypollonais9143 yes, dead is dead. But there IS a difference between killed and died.
@@HK-uj9qc it’s both. we can all love eachotherr
@@l6tus Agreed. Online, people always try to take any opportunity to gain leverage on anyone they encounter that they feel misspoke, misspelled, mistaken...
He expressed so much how his wife was losing it. And now he's gone! This is so sad this man worked his ass off to provide a good life for her and his kids. I hope they prosecuted her to the fullest!
This cop was really condescending to him. This poor man and his children. Just heartbreaking.
The cops in rexburg are garbage.. I lived there my whole life.
Years ago, when I called the police on my then-husband, who had busted through two locked doors to get at me, and who took my phone out of my hand and broke it up to stop me from calling the police- Well, know what those (horrible) police said in Louisiana? "What did you do to him?" You have to be flippin' kidding me! He was much larger than me, and I did nothing! He was the abuser, not me.
Even with protective measures he still came after me! It was horrible!
I would rather be broke than with that horrible man.
@@kerirobicheaux6629 I'm so sorry to hear what you went through. It reminded me of my very first love when we were both young. Due to circumstances that happened at the time we were forced to stop seeing each other. Almost 30 years later we reconnected and became best friends and soul mates. She was married to a man (I hate to even refer to him as a man) that constantly abused her both mentally and physically. At one point this low life actually put a gun to her head and made a comment saying "it's hard to not pull the trigger". She finally got away from him after this piece of scum harmed her autistic son. She had called the police several times, but the cops did nothing and refused to do anything to help her. It was in a small town and I think the cops knew his family so they did nothing to help her.
She passed away in 2016 from a heart attack which I took very hard, I'm just glad her last 9 years of her life was away from this evil person. I found out he died from Lou Gehrig's disease a few years ago. I really hate thinking this way, but I hope he suffered as much as he made her suffer. I'm a true believer in Karma.
I hope that cop has trouble sleeping at night but I doubt he does. How dare he treat that man like that when he was begging for help? To hell with that cop. All he had to do was HELP.
I agree
This cop should be fired! How unhelpful and biased. He made up his mind about Charles and did nothing to help. Now, he's dead.
Susie L what a jerk cop!
Yeah, he was in need of a donut
I wonder how these officers feel that this man and his children are dead at Lori's hands just as Charles tried to tell them would happen. This is so sad and horrible
They dont care.
So very sad..
That poor man. What he and those babies must have gone through.
How did they allow that woman to do the same to her children? Did they not even try to investigate when this man turned up dead?
She's been lucky
Seriously. He _knew_ something was wrong but no one _took him seriously._ And now he’s dead, Tammy’s dead and 2 children are missing. I feel like this all could have been prevented if they had just _listened_ to Charles.
@@Luv2LuvEm Yes. Police tend to become jaded. That does not help in crime prevention. God knows, Charles was pleading for assistance. No one took him seriously. Now he's dead and the children have vanished. So terribly sad 💔
This cop is annoying me, he's disregarding everything the husband says and tries to make the husband look bad.
Look at this from the officers point of view and knowing only what the officer heard and saw from this interaction. People lie to the police very often, and often try to setup and wrap others in drama that is not what the officers were initially told. US citizens and people in America also have those pesky things called rights, and innocent til Proven Guilty. I feel horrible for all involved including the officers and investigators, as well as this officer. I hope that bitch who killed those kids lives a very long life, and enjoys her life sentence. Be kind to the cops, they have a hard job. They deal with the problems, and shit you don't want to see. People hate them til they need them. Bet you think it's the Cops fault, for giving you a ticket for breaking the law?
@@jamesdoesitmatter that makes sense :( but he was talking very calmly, cop could have tried to check the moms mental health
@@jamesdoesitmatter Maybe so but every time you talk to a cop they're dismissive and ignorant. So they see bad stuff....this doesn't give them the right to go around being assholes. It isn't my fault you chose that job so don't be an ass to me and you need to at least PRETEND to take my complaint seriously. If what you are saying is true this would mean every first responder would be the same way. They see way more death than any cop does.
@@HeavenlySunset24 she wasn't there! How are they supposed to check her out if they don't know where she is??
@@msdarby515 You're right but he could have had someone keep an eye on the house
This is so hard to watch, knowing what eventually happened to this poor man and the two children he’s searching for... pitiful...
It’s eerie hearing him speak about her knowing how much worse things would get. Her brother killed him about 6 months later, right?
July 11, 2019
www.fox10phoenix.com/news/body-camera-shows-aftermath-of-2019-shooting-that-killed-charles-vallow
She could have killed him and the brother took responsibility. Witnesses are all dead or missing.
That’s correct , Charles was murdered in July of 2019
So the story went.cant believe everyone buys it as gospel.
Cathleen Cavanaugh tf that suppose to mean ?
She said “take the kids I don’t care what happens to them” and now they’re missing.....
Until I heard that, I had been hopeful that the kids were still alive, but now I doubt it .
Yes he mentioned it to the officer and nothing was done smh
He so worried about his kids and not there missing smh 🤦♀️😡
But she's convinced her family she's a great mom who would never harm them . She's counting on all this to gain sympathy
Charles was begging for some help and all he got was a lot of questions and what sounded to me like a bit of disbelief. If they would have listened to Charles and gave him some help, he would still be alive and the children would be safe. Then Charles gets killed and the police claim it was self defense. Are you kidding me? Charles sounds so broken and scared. There was nothing that happened in this video or nothing that Charles reported that was the least bit normal. I didn’t know there was a time limit on crime. Anything happens between the bourse of such and such is not our problem. Wow
Margene Kiefer thank you for your post! I agree wholeheartedly.
I am also putting it out there that I AM NOT A COP HATER not do I find you to be a COP HATER.
Just thought I wou ls pre-empt trolls who are already making such comments on similar threads.
My husband is LEO, and I agree with your post completely.
So true Margene!
I can only imagine his heartbreak that night. I have a lump in my throat just listening to him...Let there be justice oh lord!..Let there be justice.
This is so incredibly sad - three lives lost because he wasn't taken seriously.
Almost a fourth. Remember Lori’s nieces husband was shot at by Alex.
@@pattimessenger6214 And probably Tammy Daybell!
There is 7 deaths connected to lori.
NOW 5 BODIES, RIP JJ AND TYLEE
@@Shared-Experiences 7 dead ????
This is so sad that man tried to tell him that she was a danger to him and his children and they’re all dead because no one would listen to him !
Lori is innocent
I would say that police officer is very young and not experienced. Sad.
Police definitely failed this man, someone needs to hold them responsible.
Well at least they have this recording of him saying what kinda happened and his worries bow
It's gna happen in tis cop fam idiot of a law man
The cops did all the law allows them to. Its not their fault. The police didn't fail him. The politicians and family courts that make the rules did. Place blame where it belongs
@@lolasmom5816 bur when you have a crazy talking women with your babies, just pickin them up, if over state lines, which you cannot do anymore without authority from other parent. But I don't know where I am here, if the deed was done, but they could have got a well child no matter what. And these monsters would've had to produced those darlins.. Like what's happening now.... where are the boys? Those monsters need to be in a cell til they are produced and receipts they've been a family of 8 since last week of SEPT... I'm offering $100. For just one receipt they were all together. All I see is 2019-xmas pics
I think if the children where taken that same night the officer came ... they would be alive. Am I wrong ... it's my belief that if there are children involved they are taken out of the home until investigation is done and cleared? The children were not protected is how I feel.
This husband sounds like a genuinely good guy. 👦
OMG!!! The family of this man should SUE the police department!!! He’s dead because they didn’t believe him on treats on his life and he’s kids!!
This footage should be played over and over at every "New Police officers Training" on HOW NOT TO TREAT a potential victim!! This police officer is so frustrating.....
Word up😠🎻's on his rookie ass
Good point and idea.
That is a great idea! He is too young to handle this situation. Not taking it serious at all.
Diane diane I agree that's a great idea!
@@gagato4boys922 age is irrelevant. If we can send 18 year old boys to fight for our country we can properly train police officers to not act like this officer. He completely blew this man off and treated him like he was a child. Now that man is dead along with many others and two children. I wonder if this officer feels ANY guilt for this at all.
My God can you imagine how Charles's heart sunk into his chest upon entering the home seeing it completely empty...
This officer is not “actively listening” to what this man is saying. He should be charged.
So if I stood in the middle of JF Kennedy and yelled out “I will destroy this place”, I can’t be charged? Ok.
“That’s subjective”
Ffs! How is “I will destroy you!” Subjective?
And how is she legally allowed to take him out of school??? That’s not legal. You have to prove that he’s going to another school or you’re homeschooling.
Are u so right
This is so tragic. I hope the police learn from this terrible experience.
I hope the cop watches this and realizes it is time to for him to find another career. When you're so jaded, defensive and suspicious of everyone it's time to do something else.
1000000000% shame on this cop!!!!!
They are trained that way. Everybody's GUILTY EXCEPT the GUILTY.
YES!!!
The cop has blood on his hands.Including 2 kids.People we must protect our children.
Well said sir!
Action should have been taken at this point. Lori's wake of murder and lies is now on the hands of the police who didn't act to prevent this.
Officer is a jerk with an ego,no one took him seriously. The PD should be sued.
Adrian Rose including the city, and Mayor how hired him. If it were taken seriously all those who were murdered might still be alive today. Two little children and a loving wife of Chad Daybell ....all innocent 😇 people who didn’t hurt anyone.
He’s a bully. And rude. Wonder what he thinks now, Mr. Smarty Pants!
That officer had no sympathy for this man !! Now it’s too late !!!
Omg. This poor guy! He knew what was coming... I wonder what this officer thinks today after the fact... So sad.
This officer seems like he is kindof a jerk. Is he not?
This woman is pure evil. I wish Charles would have left this evil monster and found a nice loving woman that he deserves.
Reading all the messages. I agree with this statement. He should of left her along time ago..
Poor man was concerned about his life and that of his children and the police did not listen to him ,he know that something happens to him and the kids
It's appalling, when someone is crying out for help, he sounds a kind gentle man, and the law didn't really believe him or his urgency...on the other hand if he'd been slightly more agitated they still wouldn't have believed him or his urgency. He lost either way. VERY SAD 😩
Unfortunately, he would say one thing but when questioned he would say she said something else.
The officer is so damn rude and insensitive
This cop now has blood on his hands. Should have listened to him. Now the 3 of them are dead. LAZY COP!!
He didnt seem rude but definitely not DV trained and experienced. He should hv called CPS IMMEDIATELY. They hv authority to ck on kids without a warrant and good CPS workers know exactly what to do.
ps. im a child and family advocate
The biggest problem with CPS is underfunding... thus hiring inexperienced emoloyees.
WHAT A PROFOUNDLY HEARTBREAKING STORY
💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@@CheyennefromTaos CPS for what they have a house the have food. CPS would not remove them because the mom is crazy is so many steps and so many calls need to be made before CPS immediately remove kids they have to be directly in harms way not a maybe potentially possibility of being in harms way if that’s the case they could take anyone kids.
@@CheyennefromTaos the husband could’ve called CPS they still wouldn’t take them right away. But this guy waited a whole month to call knowing she was going crazy it’s plenty of things he could’ve done during that month time span instead of waiting until it’s really bad because if it’s no crime law enforcement can’t do anything. He could’ve tried to get a protective order from a judge during the first week she started everything
They usually are.
Charles Vallow, my heart goes out to you. You seem to be such a calm and reasonable man. Justice will be served!! May your soul rest in peace.
Love to see this “officer” interviewed.
I guess fathers have no rights.. if he had taken off with the kids, they would have been chasing him.
Definitely
Exactly!!!! 100%
Amber alert.You ever notice no women are apprehended in an amber alert.
Yup! But they sure want your money for child support, don't they?!
True! It happens al the time. This makes me so upset.
This is why people don’t depend on the cops nowadays. R.I.P Charles
Such a nice man and what a sad outcome. He and the children didn’t deserve this.
Boy the cop's screwed this one up. They went out of their way to put him off. They were basically putting off hunting the man's wife.
THERE WAS NO FUCKING EVIDENCE. WHAT COULD THEY POSSIBLY HAVE DONE???
@@calebwalser3710
If a man told you he was going to destroy your children,
Would you take that as a threat?
WELL she had HELP.....new man in her life.....
Ur absolutely right. However I will say that I was in a very similar situation. Begged officers to help, but bc there was no proof & only "he said/ she said", there was nothing they could do. It sucked so badly, but I understood why they couldn't do anything without proof. It took me having to fight for my life, then my ex admitting to the judge, what he did, b4 we finally were granted our lifelong injunction. After that was in place, the police would immediately respond & the last few times, went out of their way, to ensure my babies & I were safe, bc they knew the injunction was in place. When my ex told them on the phone that they couldn't stop him from killing us, they intervened the best they could. It's a crappy situation all around, & I def had my fair share of encounters with cops that simply dismissed me, but once the injunction was in place, they handled everything way differently.
It's very easy to look at things, with the advantage of hindsight always being 20/20, but bc there's so many men & women that cry wolf, simply to punish their partner / ex, the cops have to make decisions about what they know they can do, vs what they can't, bc they've got to make sure they don't infringe on somebody's rights, unless they're certain a crime has been committed, or they risk law suits🙁
@@subixbarbarasson1990 they don't know she said that. All they know is that he, a possibly disgruntled husband, said she said it.
Poor guy tried to save himself, this is so sad.
And his children, breaks my heart
I’m tired of saying this - the cops dropped the ball again!
This man needed help, and ended up dead after asking for it.
Clearly, she needs to be placed in a mental institution, treated medically, and finally get answers to where her children are. Locking people like this up does nothing.
This man had a full life to live! Unreal
Lori and chad both,deserve the electric chair(NOTHING MORE HUMANE),for being the cause of those innocent children's lives ending,(IMHO).😭😡👊👊👊👺😈👹🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕
Charles is dead, his killer is dead, and they just dug up two children's bodies in Chad Daybell's backyard.
😟😟😟😟😔😔😔😔💔💔💔💔🙏🙏🙏
I'm just learning about this story. Who killed Charles? The wife?
@@jenniferponzini2433 the wife's brother
@@jenniferponzini2433
Basically the master mind, with then lover Chad Daybell now husband. She had her brother kill her then husband Charles whose on this video reporting to police that his wife Lori threaten him.
Wow! This is soo chilling!! I believe every word of Charles! I don’t think they took him seriously!!
I really HOPE THE JUDGE ALLOWS THIS AS EVIDENCE INTO THE COURT!! AND I DON'T LIKE HOW THIS COP IS MAKING CHARLES SEEM LIKE THE CRAZY ONE!!
This cop should be questioned as to why he believed this was not a threat. There was something that could have been done but the police got tricked by the beautiful Lori.... she. His life should have been protected under the guise of darkness and religious beliefs
The cop attitude is what we see every day in people. They have been brain wash to think is normal for people to sound as if your farthing constantly. This is typical behaviour of modern people. They pretend they have no feelings or understanding of people needs. Besides he doesn't sound American, he sounds European whos trying hard to leave his racist ways behind. That's the reason he sounds like that
How haunting was the question from the officer when he asked how is she a harm to your children?
"she's lost her reality" pretty much sums it up...
why is this cop not being held accountable for this?!
@First Last yes they are, if they know a crime is about to happen they have a moral duty to serve and protect!. Otherwise, what would be the point in calling them in the first place!!!???!!!!!. And to threaten someone's life either physically or verbally IS A CRIME!.
This is America.
@@pattyn.974 lmao. Sure they CAN DO SOMETHING. are they legally obligated to? No.
Why should he be held accountable. What exactly do you expect him to have done?
Because they have a license to kill ... their badge sets them free
If that was a WOMAN they would have NEVER EVER disregard her like that.
this cop, the police dept. and the city need to be sued for a wrongful death,
for this man and both kids.
Yes utah pd and utah district attorney killed these people.
This cop handled this first interaction absolutely terrible, treating him like a suspect, and it seems like he’s not even taking it serious.
I am just crying ...he is begging for support here, and just hits a brick wall!
Typical Phoenix... they could serve her, they didn’t want to.
She sounds delusional! You have to say that they threatened you (or they won’t pick up your sick loved one). She did threaten him with the word “destroy” and being delusional. She didn’t believe it was him!
She ran! or she would of been served.
Cops are a bigger problem than the wicked
Cops are thugs
Seriously, if he had done all of that to her, he would have been hunted down by the police. It’s like they were saying Lori had all the rights and he didn’t, yet jj was actually his blood relative and not hers. He worked and provided all the money and she took it all. That woman never worked at all! Just spent her 3rd husband “bank” money trying to win a texas beauty pageant. She lived in Texas then. She’s lived in like 6 places since her 3rd husband died. Yet in court in Hawaii and later in idaho-both of her attorney’s tried to make her look so stable, like each of those places were her “home” even though she had been there less that a couple months!
Charles death should have been investigated more by the AZ police when it happened, especially with them having this information and the info in his divorce papers. If Alex or Lori killed him -and one of them did-they should have been taken to jail then!
Destroy is a compound word. Thats hard for these cops. They cost this guy his life. Typical government employees.
These Chandler,AZ police,need to be held accountable,for their failure to help Charles(and his adoptive nephew and step-daughter).Charles loved J.J. and Tylee,otherwise,he wouldn't have gone through all of this for them.SO disrespectful and demeaning,was the treatment,by Chandler police,towards him,(Charles).😡👊👺
I REMEMBER THIS FOOTAGE, THIS POOR MAN NEEDED HELP ,HE SAID TO POLICE MANY TIMES THAT HIS KIDS WERE ST RISK AND ALSO HIS LIFE ,THEN POLICE NEED TO BE HELD TO BLAME FOR HIS DEATH AND THE KIDS POLICE MAKE ME SICK !! THEY ARE TO BLAME FOR SO MANY VICTIMS DEATHS NOT DOING THEIR JOB
This poor man. It breaks my heart to watch this. He was put through the ringer in the time leading up to his death. And sadly he said it best himself, "I love her to death". May his soul rest in peace.
this cop is partly responsible for the death of this man. incompetent.........
@@taynathibault9752 What did you want him to do? Stay with this man 24 hours a day? Put out an APB on Lori and have her arrested? For what? The threats to destroy him were reported by Charles and it would have been her word against his. This officer had no background on this man or the wife and he could see no crime. He went by the facts that night.
It's hard to watch this poor worried man and knowing what happens
I have to wonder how this law enforcement officer feels now knowing if he had taken him seriously that the officer could have saved the lives of this man and the children. I don't know how this officer sleeps at all.
Why was this footage and this incident report and this officer not referred back to and questioned as evidence when this man was murdered? Wtf is wrong with police in the US?
Police in the usa are out of fucking control power tripping.
Cops today get all their training from television shows and movies.
Most likely didn't have the files connected at the time because it was different departments that handled this report and the murder
Anthony Hayden yeah such a joke. These ones should be penalized for this too
Honestly, I feel this cop didn’t take him seriously because Charles is a man complaining about his ‘crazy’ wife, but the officer thinks he’s the crazy one. As if women couldn’t be dangerous or capable of murder. Such a terrible, terrible shame....
So the next day is when he supposedly stole her lip gloss and her purse? That interview showed how she manipulates by trying to be cute and how much she had manipulated Tylee to protect her
Ya, $35k buys a lot of lip gloss! From information supplied, by all appearances Lori plays the victim role, everyone rushes to her aid. Summer asked Alex to go over to the house because Charles might get aggressive. Alex, tazed husband #3, kills #4 Charles. Tylee is protective for Lori, Melanie is protective of Lori. Lori's mother is protective of Lori. Now Chad is protecting Lori aka enablers !!. The pattern repeats itself in Melanie !!!
Given facts presented, ( Joe Ryan, Charles Vallow, Tammy, Tylee, JJ, & yes even the police officers) … Alex, Chad, Brandon, Ian, & JJ's grandparents, and even the other offspring of ALL of them, were and are victims of Lori's! I do not fault the cops the night Charles was talking to them, because their hands are tied, they are not legal counsul. Now I do fault the officers the day of the shooting however! If that was any one of the rest of us, we would have been in the back of the squad car! Now we know why Lori had to book out of AZ for fear of her mental exam.
I dont like that the cop seems to be against him , had he taken him serious, he may still be alive today :-(((
Yes and the children
Poor Charles, everybody failed him :( RIP
I tweeted this video to the Gilbert PD and told them they had plenty of warning! If anyone else wants to do that, here is their tweet address: @GilbertPolice
I don't use Twitter but if I did I'd support that!!!!!!
Twitter has silenced the truth
The level these cops show such lack of concern cost this man his life! Shame on them.
And the kids
Hindsight is great gift but not used in the present. He has no proof of anything, other than being locked out. It's a family court issue in that specific moment. The police don't know him and nothing looks wrong... think about about the other side in nasty divorces.
The lack of action here is the same lack of action taken by the police in the Gabby Petito case in Utah. They should be held accountable when people are murdered after the lack of caring on the part of the police.
True, this man did everything in his power to protect the kids and winds up getting killed.
Never get a joint checking account you'll never know what could happen.
True! Learned that from Casino
She shouldn't have had any access to his business accounts
You got that right. I don't know why married people think they need to do that.
Amen ! If you do you have your own account and one for bills
Hmm I just got married and I thought this is what every married couple does because my parents did maybe I shouldn’t close my separate account haha
This is kind of like when you are really sick and seeking out an awful doctor for help, they just dont believe you or provide anything helpful.
As a woman myself I'm saddened by how much leeway is given to crazy women in our society.
She stole his clothes, his computer, and his truck, but no crime’s been committed?
I bet if Charles had been a fellow cop they would have done more!
Name one more thing the police officers could have done. They don’t know where she went. They reported a stolen license plate. They cleared the house. And they filed a report. With the little evidence there was nothing else could have been done.
What anna is really trying to say is "blue man bad" not completely saying that the cop was in the right but saying it would be "different" is just ignorant.
@@calebwalser3710 that is a hot fresh dog shit lie and you know it
@@calebwalser3710 how many times are you going to comment the same thing on the same video?
Yep.
Too bad they didn't take him more seriously. She was (is) cra-cra!
Yep, He' actually be alive today and maybe the kids, too
This cop has to be the WORST cop ever. He should be brought up on charges of just being a total NUMNUT!!!! Poor Charles, I really feel bad for his family. He is so respectful and soft spoken to this moron. Cops like this gives cops everywhere a bad name, he should be removed from the police force!!!!!
FelisThis amen! I hope State of Idaho see’s how cavalier this cop is. As if he could be anywhere else. This poor man just needed help and advice to no avail. Maybe they will use this video in more POLICE TRAINING to help look deeper in situations like this one. 100% avoidable dead man scenario bc this police officer is too cool for school. Yeah pfft!
FelisThis - Seems like its an issue with the whole Arizona Police Force. Some of the most corrupt and police brutality stories come out of Arizona.
Chad is her FIFTH husband. And two prior husbands died young -- this one shot.
Wow
She use to it.
This man and his family are all dead because of this inept cop. It's really upsetting to watch.
This story is heartbreaking... it is beyond sad that these police did not take Charles seriously and did not realize how important what Charles was saying really is... rest in peace Charles
Re Watching this 2.5 years later from the first time I’ve seen it … it makes me sick and feel so heartbroken for Charles , he pleaded for help . Charles supported her , supported her whole dysfunctional family and she destroyed it for a demonic fantasy. From Charles vallow , a man that truly loved his wife …to chad daybell , someone who helped her violently murder her children . Lori is so much more evil than we realize . The kids murders were nothing short of ritualistic sacrifices . Make no mistake . She’s a demon .
I can’t even finish watching this. I can not deal with this officer. He doesn’t deserve his job.
I live in another state. My childrens father lives in Gilbert. Ohhhh the stories I could tell of Gilbert PD and the corruption
This is Gilbert?
Is Gilbert pd the ones who had a chat with Lori (and Melanie and Tylee..) to "mentally evaluate" her..?
(That dumbass officer sounded like the exact one who became Alex Cox's buddy after he shot Charles 4 times in the chest "in self defense". And I thought THAT was Chandler pd...I'm confused.)
I know Gilbert and Chandler are involved. Doesn't matter, I suppose. They both failed the victims.
This poor guy! He’s so kind and humble!! She will pay someday for all wrong doings! RIP Sir; we Pray you are in Heaven with your Children!🙏❤️
Heaven? You can demonstrate heaven exist?
@@davidohara7669 not sure about that but I can guarantee you their is something with us on this world that’s something other than human not gonna say if it’s a spirit or what because I’m not sure it could be some kind of alien or maybe humans that have advanced cloaking technology but one day I was asleep in my bed and I woke up abruptly and opened my eyes and when I did their was a shadow standing next to my bed and it was leaning over my bed looking down at me it resembled an old lady with a black cloak on I couldn’t see the face because it was shadowy but the arms looked like an elderly woman’s arms. Anyways as I opened my eyes and saw this thing looking at me I instantly reacted and swung my arm to hit whatever it was in the face and it grabbed my arm as I swung it and it held my arm but not with physical flesh but more with will power energy that stopped my muscles from being able to flex at full capacity as if it was draining the energy from my arm although all that happend within about 3 secs and then it let go of my arm and flew out of my room and down the hall as fast as a shadow flees from the light you can believe me or not but the next time you get an Erie feeling that something is watching you that’s because is it you just can’t see it because whatever it is doesn’t want you to see it I only saw it by accident I was having some strange dreams also so whatever it is it affects how we dream and tries to manipulate our lives through our dreams.
@@maryharger2388 Well, we can rule out aliens because of the lack of an anal probe left behind. Also we can rule out delusion, hallucination, dreaming and trickery because obviously you, unlike the rest of us, are not susceptible to any of these things. If only you had captured some of it in a bottle, then we could just call Ghost Busters. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. Thankfully you have that in your bottle.
@@davidohara7669 you can't prove it doesn't.
I absolutely HOPE this officer will be held accountable for his LACK of action. Incredible
He won't be...
Qualified immunity should be abolished!
What was he supposed to do that he didn’t do. Lol
Wow I’ve never seen this before. Every call should be taken seriously
Wow, this cop is full of attitude for no reason!!!