"Black Women Are Too Hard To Please, Have To Pay Their Rent For Dates..." Man Fed Up With Atlanta 😳

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  • @AntonDaniels
    @AntonDaniels  9 місяців тому +18

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    • @cameobelafonte4975
      @cameobelafonte4975 9 місяців тому +3

      The price of the brick has went down significantly 😂😂

    • @QB-ul5lq
      @QB-ul5lq 9 місяців тому

      What show is this

    • @Lyrical.ThreatLT
      @Lyrical.ThreatLT 9 місяців тому

      Thank 4 letting me rock with you water bufflows last night EGG HEAT BRAH lol but id never tell u what i do ,,, you a lier to big DAWG an yoo shit dont impress ME who give a fuck. Why im here NOT 4 U Or your dufuss YAHWIC what ever the fuck lol other then that im checking you, keep being here for our entertainment big dawgggg lol we make u hot son not u the people lol smh i got 7 shows i watch on here an you by far got tha most dee riding members on you tube i was FLOORED watchin lmao like i said i mess with you cuz u pure ENTERTAINMENT an here for us to use you feel me lol ayoooo what up doe 🎉😂😂😂😂😂 they put me on time out lmao on pimpin

    • @Lyrical.ThreatLT
      @Lyrical.ThreatLT 9 місяців тому

      ​@@QB-ul5lqits entertainment but dont be smarter then a 5th grader 😅 u be on time out lmao they on all the bullcrap in life ....come check it out he got 15 cars

    • @Lyrical.ThreatLT
      @Lyrical.ThreatLT 9 місяців тому

      ​@@cameobelafonte4975AD should run for president no lie you feel me

  • @curtissalter9539
    @curtissalter9539 9 місяців тому +1124

    I teach my son if she is not your wife, she is not your responsibility.

    • @steviemak10
      @steviemak10 9 місяців тому +44

      Facts💯🔥

    • @slinkiegirl2001
      @slinkiegirl2001 9 місяців тому +45

      you taught him right

    • @blacknight88
      @blacknight88 9 місяців тому

      Thats good because these chicks sure will use him while they lay up with some lazy crappy dude

    • @ericrobinson1789
      @ericrobinson1789 9 місяців тому +29

      Absolutely 💯 agree.

    • @michaelmarion7360
      @michaelmarion7360 9 місяців тому

      It is a man's responsibility to establish a maintain a proper culture. That doesn't mean paying rent, but it does mean refraining from taking her virgin cooch. This is just an example of establishing a culture where young men honor young women who are chaste. Leaving young girls to be virgins will make for stronger families, which will fortify our culture.
      Teach your son this aspect as well.

  • @hvathlete2
    @hvathlete2 9 місяців тому +764

    We gotta stop glorifying “my mom was a single mother and made it happen”. Your mother was a fool to make the same mistake 3 times like it’s a badge of honor. Shame

    • @erickn7985
      @erickn7985 9 місяців тому +102

      Facts like is this suppose to be a badge of honor😂😂

    • @Saito232005
      @Saito232005 9 місяців тому +71

      Exactly. If I went to jail and then got myself together, I can't wear that like a badge of honor. If I was doing what I should've been doing in the first place, I could've been further with more opportunities.

    • @kashawnbynum3129
      @kashawnbynum3129 9 місяців тому +15

      Exactly 🎯

    • @Stevey_Montage_Official
      @Stevey_Montage_Official 9 місяців тому +31

      Calling Somebody Momz A Fool Is Wild.

    • @brandonholloman6835
      @brandonholloman6835 9 місяців тому +4

      Exactly 💯

  • @hardlessons9732
    @hardlessons9732 9 місяців тому +529

    If u want to know who a woman is , look at her friends.😢

  • @fadsa342
    @fadsa342 9 місяців тому +70

    It took me over 30 years and having a kid with the wrong person to realize that the less you spend on a woman up front the more likely you are to find a woman who actually likes and values you. Any woman who expects you to lead with your wallet will quickly leave you for someone willing to pay more. Any woman who wants your lifestyle but needs you to pay for it is not on your level. Any woman willing to watch you go into debt to court her will not want you long term because she doesn't want that debt.

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 9 місяців тому +8

      So in summary...choose better fellas. Take it slow and don't get blindsided by the cat...set boundaries.

  • @JustSaying83022
    @JustSaying83022 9 місяців тому +55

    “The man is the head of the household” when it’s convenient for you

  • @mudiabubakar8503
    @mudiabubakar8503 9 місяців тому +324

    It's not just Atlanta. The financial entitlement of black women happens in Houston, Dallas, Miami, NYC, Austin, Los Angeles. It is a BIG problem!
    Guys are FED up!!!

    • @geraldallen6023
      @geraldallen6023 9 місяців тому +10

      All facts💪🏼

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 9 місяців тому +28

      All races ..all regions. If you have a pushover environment, women will have the leverage on average

    • @poindextersheelturn436
      @poindextersheelturn436 9 місяців тому +36

      Thats why they hate Passport Bros, PPB takes their leverage away. Thats why your hearing the SIGN language. @@Cahluvca

    • @shaheemtaylor960
      @shaheemtaylor960 9 місяців тому +13

      Especially in NY where I live got dam their legit after your pockets and spot you from a mile away if u look like you got it

    • @kenyattathompson6685
      @kenyattathompson6685 9 місяців тому +8

      It’s cultural
      Yall need to normalize the fact that this is all cultural

  • @PanasheDakurah
    @PanasheDakurah 9 місяців тому +179

    A lot of Relationships these days aren't different from prostitution , sad but true

    • @fadsa342
      @fadsa342 9 місяців тому +8

      Honestly the only differences are it's easier to see if your wife was promiscuous back in the day do to social media and women have more partners they admit to before marriage. Dating has always been a cash grab problem today is that men make less and women make more than in the past so have different perspectives. I remember back in the day some women were happy with a $15 plate of ribs now some women want a $100 dinner because they can afford the ribs on their own if that makes sense

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 8 місяців тому

      Ain't no WAY I would pay some female a rack on 3 dates just for a CHANCE to smash. Most married men have never spent that much on dates for their wives, this is ridiculous!
      Trust, the dudes she really wanna smash, they not paying for nothing, nor is she asking them for anything. The pay to play is for the dudes she's not interested in.
      If she hits you with a paywall, that lets you know she not interested in you, move on. If you have no game, and you that desperate, just pay a prostitute, at least it won't cost a rack and it's guaranteed pussy.
      These women you "dating," they ran through anyway, so really ain't no difference.

    • @jeffcole4203
      @jeffcole4203 8 місяців тому +1

      That's absolutely right !

    • @rondz1234
      @rondz1234 8 місяців тому +6

      Men need to stop looking for Love. Cause these Women ain't. Everything is expensive these women want Men to pay for everything but still be a "independent Women"

    • @adim00lah
      @adim00lah 8 місяців тому

      @@fadsa342It shouldn't matter if you can buy your own ribs, it's the gesture that's important. Buying you 100 dollar dinner doesn't mean I have good intentions for you.
      I never spent 100 bucks on a dinner for my wife ever, and we been together 23 years this year. I courted my wife, I met her family, and had dinners at they house before we even went out on a single date.
      I'm not interested in dating any woman, because I'm not a simp who's gonna pay for box through expensive dinners. I want to get to know you, the real you and I want to see your pedigree.
      Dating is like a combination of prostitution and gambling, because you have no idea you gonna get what you are paying for. If all it takes is an expensive dinner to get the draws, I'm not interested. Because God knows how many other dudes bought you expensive dinners and got the box. I don't want or have any need for a woman who has been ran through for the cost of a meal.

  • @theerealatm
    @theerealatm 9 місяців тому +414

    I spend 10 dollars on lunch on MYSELF and I love me more than anyone. Why tf I'm even required to spend 100 dollars on YOU?!

  • @TeeRealTakeover
    @TeeRealTakeover 9 місяців тому +51

    In all seriousness, i can’t tell the difference between most BW & 304s on the corner , i LOOOVE black women but the lack of accountability, the provocative dressing , and the masculine energy they embody all while telling you “You’re not enough” is just too much to deal with . Id rather be alone and enjoy my own time than feel like a customer in a relationship

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      Bobby hemmitt said it best before they made him have a heart attack "most of these negroes out here is cloned" 😮

    • @YouPulledOnIt
      @YouPulledOnIt 7 місяців тому

      Facts!!! Black women are SORRY AF.

    • @erickn7985
      @erickn7985 10 днів тому

      Facts bro like they want a finished product but don't want to be there from the beginning lol. Meanwhile Becky and Julia are there from day one

  • @cerogravity8653
    @cerogravity8653 9 місяців тому +51

    I knew my wife was the one when I took her on our first date to 7 eleven 😂😂😂 we bought ramen noddles and tuna, and watched her favorite movie in her dorm room, to this day 8 years later she still romances about that night with a big smile on her face. Oh and she loves the Cheesecake Factory too.

  • @Chicagoactioninvestors
    @Chicagoactioninvestors 9 місяців тому +228

    You’re right, Anton Atlanta started out as a Bastion of hope for what a modern black metropolis could be. It’s turned into a scammers paradise with people trying to live out social media fantasies.

    • @Dipset415
      @Dipset415 9 місяців тому +19

      Black Hollywood 🤙🏿

    • @Saito232005
      @Saito232005 9 місяців тому +35

      What I think is missed is that Atlanta became exactly what it was going to become. It was destined to become it's current result, due to the state of mind of the community. Nothing went wrong. Everything went right.

    • @CeeWorld69
      @CeeWorld69 9 місяців тому +3

      @@Saito232005fair enough lol

    • @kenyattathompson6685
      @kenyattathompson6685 9 місяців тому +3

      @@Saito232005great point

    • @edawg9962
      @edawg9962 9 місяців тому +5

      ​@@Saito232005and you can say that about EVERY black community in the country

  • @CalvinGroover
    @CalvinGroover 9 місяців тому +278

    Guys be letting “used box” put pressure on them like this? 🥴

  • @Viejitosoyyo
    @Viejitosoyyo 9 місяців тому +125

    There is no pressure with social media, just turn the shit off. Don’t go with the flow, be the flow.

    • @GG-jn9fx
      @GG-jn9fx 9 місяців тому +19

      Lol ong I stopped using social media in high school 2011 lol I saw the online drama spilling over to real life and said fck that. Hasn’t slowed anything down, still travel, still enjoy the nightlife, still meet women. It’s all in your head.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 9 місяців тому +6

      I agree when someone ask you about something I play dumb I tell them I don’t be on social media like that to see the reaction

    • @justinp9170
      @justinp9170 9 місяців тому

      🎯🎯
      Social media is the new "Keeping Up With the Joneses" and everybody is going broke to impress others they don't even know or like. It doesn't take much money to dress and look clean. Following name brands will always run your pockets on E lol

    • @nowlaterkiss9811
      @nowlaterkiss9811 9 місяців тому +2

      Be like water my friend. 😉

    • @honeychick4ever280
      @honeychick4ever280 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@GG-jn9fx: Facts 💯 I totally agree with you. Life is too short, enjoy it!

  • @DealwiththeReal
    @DealwiththeReal 9 місяців тому +11

    Met so many brothas overseas who refuse to consider them anymore…

  • @d.coleman6977
    @d.coleman6977 9 місяців тому +5

    I’m from Atlanta it’s rough out here. I’ve gotten asked to “Help” a woman out the first 6 hours of speaking… But it is some gems out here

  • @DonGreen757
    @DonGreen757 9 місяців тому +165

    Social medias ability to turn black women against black men outside of financial benefit is something that’s gotta be study cuz this shit done got nuts

    • @TheJusDon
      @TheJusDon 9 місяців тому

      There’s nothing to study. This the “being a H-O-E is the way to go” era

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +17

      Nobody cares we have to do the study ourselves.

    • @S-TierIguess
      @S-TierIguess 9 місяців тому +27

      Black women realized the government and/ or a simp will wait around every corner to save them from accountability, social media has amplified this as almost every black women now applauds bad behavior unless she isn’t into social media

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому +11

      Social media didn't do that. These women have always seen us as a wallet.

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 9 місяців тому

      ​@@KtotheG it's indeed social media. Men lusted and valided women on social media and we women became narcissistic bc of it. Men created these monsters via the social media platform...

  • @JonathanHebrews
    @JonathanHebrews 9 місяців тому +180

    “One chick told me, give her a loan…Shit, the only thing I’ll leave you is alone.” 😂

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +19

      Loans have to be paid back with interest. She wanted a handout.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому +11

      @@mateaukalua4426 They never really pay anything back... and if they do, they will leave you alone... which is cool.

    • @marcuscole1994
      @marcuscole1994 9 місяців тому

      I just had a bitch ask me that

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +3

      @@KtotheG Word. I go out sometimes with friends because they pay their own way.

    • @tyrishasmith-grady703
      @tyrishasmith-grady703 9 місяців тому +1

      Give her a loan 😂😂😂😂

  • @Nemesis0921
    @Nemesis0921 9 місяців тому +94

    They've hijacked the term "provider" lol

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 9 місяців тому +18

      Power of the word NO!

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +13

      They keep finding ways to change the word simp.

    • @HKVISION1
      @HKVISION1 4 місяці тому +1

      They have a niche for changing definitions to words to fit their narratives

  • @laron.henderson
    @laron.henderson 9 місяців тому +16

    Just had a woman ask me for $300 to help her buy a Louis Vuitton dress just to meet her! Then got mad cuz I wouldn't do it!

    • @taylor15589
      @taylor15589 5 місяців тому +1

      Yeah she is just straight up using you, I’m glad you weren’t fooled. Also paying $300 for a purse is already something that your not wanna do for the rest of your life. If she’s asking for one on the first date, I can guarantee there will be future purchases like that

    • @ReceptiveKing93
      @ReceptiveKing93 5 місяців тому +1

      WTF that’s how bold these women are getting 🤦🏿‍♂️

    • @supreme_vida
      @supreme_vida 2 місяці тому

      Leave them dusty alone

    • @williammason475
      @williammason475 Місяць тому

      You dodged a bullet

  • @Hairitage2023
    @Hairitage2023 9 місяців тому +12

    My beloved husband and I went to McDonald’s once a week when we were dating. It was not about the place, it was about talking and getting to know each other!! We’d got married and I was his wife for nearly 30 years!! He died during the pandemic in 2020 and I miss him, his companionship, our friendship more than anything else!! This stuff these days is beyond me!!

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому +1

      That's all we wanna do is see if u able to get to know we not trying to see if u jump for money cuz we know anyone who wud do tht is not loyal

  • @arcanesoothsayer6758
    @arcanesoothsayer6758 9 місяців тому +190

    You can’t say a man is supposed to provide and then sue for women’s equality at the same time. We had a society where men paid all the bills and the woman stayed at home and y’all messed that up by suing for women’s rights to work at jobs that were predominantly held by men, for equal pay. What happened, corporations put women to work and created a two income household society then proceeded to effectively cut inflation based wages by 50% to 60%, so Y’all caused this sh now deal with it.

    • @infinitytricks3716
      @infinitytricks3716 9 місяців тому +15

      Exactly, and some of us have seen this for years. We now have businesses and profits increased by two income households…especially women who spend more than 70% of consumer spending. Retailers, home services businesses (plumbers, electricians, pest control, etc..) along with brick/mortar businesses (auto mechanics, etc..) all have increased profits from two income households. Boss Chics are the best, no time/patience with excess disposable income.

    • @truthfactors9958
      @truthfactors9958 9 місяців тому

      No yall messed that up by being dead beat arse father's. The modern women have work to take care of her household. Who sue for equal rights that was way back in the day. In the 80s and some of the 90s after the whole equal rights revolution blk men were still the providers. What happened in the 21s century. Don't blame it in us for fighting for equal rights. This is the dumbest most irresponsible comment.

    • @nickthinkpainting1978
      @nickthinkpainting1978 9 місяців тому +1

      Exactly

    • @wesleytodd2002
      @wesleytodd2002 9 місяців тому

      Well I learned that women gotta like you regardless if you richer than Trump and Mayweather or got more accolades than Brady or you just smoke weed all day and get women like it's nothing either you gon have nothing

    • @cylvaniaallen4498
      @cylvaniaallen4498 9 місяців тому

      Facts

  • @njfinests
    @njfinests 9 місяців тому +167

    I'm not paying for shit. Fake hair, excessive make-up, shitty tattoos, that's all I get. No way would I ever spend 400 on a first date.

    • @getithowyoulive2.
      @getithowyoulive2. 9 місяців тому +4

      Exactly. What part of nj you from?

    • @CobraR1993
      @CobraR1993 9 місяців тому

      God i hate the tatoos. They look so ugly

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому +12

      I'm not paying anything more than a coffee, a danish or a couple drinks on a first date. No woman is entitled to my time or resources. She gets what I think she deserves. The first time we meet, we don't know each other. So she has to earn everything.

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 9 місяців тому +6

      ​@@KtotheGsounds fair. No different than the entitlement of men expecting cat on the first date. Know your worth. Set boundaries and be authentic.

    • @Brenda2Bee
      @Brenda2Bee 9 місяців тому +1

      @@misskeah8893Good word, all around.

  • @crazypkm
    @crazypkm 9 місяців тому +118

    I used to live in Atlanta & from my experience when you’re dealing with BW it wont be 2 weeks before she wants you to hand out some money for their time.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 9 місяців тому +17

      A week usually not 2 weeks I been here since the 80s

    • @dannytanner82
      @dannytanner82 9 місяців тому +15

      2 weeks? Try 2 sentences

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому +3

      ​@@dannytanner82 Y'all dealing with bots not women

    • @wr006
      @wr006 9 місяців тому +1

      I know that this may even sound far-fetched or essentially 'out of this world'; yet, what if melanation is a positive, especially when traveling intergalactic throughout the cosmos (a method of counteracting solar radiation), what if a long time ago, even very ancient times there were other melanated beings who first saw us living on this planet within our preliminary evolution? What if they saw our overall potential and our unique ability to advance much further within the evolutionary stages (even outpacing and surpassing their own Godly evolution)? What if jealousy took root within these ancient advance Beings and they thus decided to counter-act our true process of developing via genetic manipulation? Implanting within us unnatural desires and behavior patterns that were normally not part of our original makeup? Example: where as we now have limited lifespan (average 80 to 120 years), are inclined to believe more in so-called (yet, non-proven) cosmic space entities as opposed to our natural truer God-like (Self) qualities, inclining the males to be overly hostile, arrogant and egotistical whereas also then inclining the females to be 'crooked natured', soddish, selfish & narcissistic? As a possibility, even as an open possibility would a process such as that put the planetary Richly Melanated people In a situation that they, as a whole unit, would never be able to overcome? Remember as far as technology is concerned, we have gone all the way from initial rocketry & satellites to smartphones, to supercomputers and now even quantum based computers; however, as a whole, this planet's Black - Richly Melanated people are still talking about and waiting on some outside 'Gods' while getting someone (other ethnicities/nationalities) to give them equal rights????

    • @BadTV1993
      @BadTV1993 9 місяців тому +4

      shidddd..2 minutes in some areas of the A..women who dont even know you will ask for a "favor" at a gas station lol

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    @thomasdooley3702 8 місяців тому +18

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  • @vaughnhill8344
    @vaughnhill8344 9 місяців тому +3

    Born and raised in the ATL..................Its fucked up down here. You come to the "A" to PLAY, thats it.

  • @paulbunyan9436
    @paulbunyan9436 9 місяців тому +178

    This brother is making his final appeal to sistas to act right before he takes off to Brazil...💃

  • @PRINCENITTI
    @PRINCENITTI 9 місяців тому +81

    I was taught if u really like a woman you get to know her NOT Pay her...if shes expects you to start spending money , she doesnt like u and shes not for you😢

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      If she needs money she is a liability or a Hooker if she doesn't admit to being the 2nd option leave her in the dust or clown her bum arse

    • @lavelhare3723
      @lavelhare3723 9 місяців тому +1

      True

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому

      No doubt... and it's really that simple. If she looks at you and sees $$... she's a 304.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому

      No doubt... and it's really that simple... if she looks at you and sees $$, she's a I-I 0 E

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 9 місяців тому +3

      Agreed. Get to know her character. Majority of men using a scale system on looks and be forgetting about character and integrity and be wondering why they' keep ending up with the same type of failed relationship or toxic woman.

  • @TheOneAboveAll_
    @TheOneAboveAll_ 9 місяців тому +82

    Me and my wife's first date was at Friday's, 14 years later and 3 kids. We've been to 22 countries. We did easy and light dating, just grab some food and would sit on the porch, go to a festival in the park, catch a show at the improv.

    • @tam6011
      @tam6011 9 місяців тому +10

      That’s your wife and it was 14 years ago.

    • @TheOneAboveAll_
      @TheOneAboveAll_ 9 місяців тому +8

      @@tam6011 absolutely, I picked right, didn't have to send to court someone. Now how long have you been married?

    • @tam6011
      @tam6011 9 місяців тому +1

      @@TheOneAboveAll_ again you are suppose to do that with your wife.

    • @TheOneAboveAll_
      @TheOneAboveAll_ 9 місяців тому +12

      @@tam6011 just as I thought, unmarried and emotionally broken. Not one person wanted you huh, just had their way with you for years then put the can on the curb for morning pickup

    • @olskool719
      @olskool719 9 місяців тому +15

      @@TheOneAboveAll_ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Me and my wife are laughing. Took my wife out to Logan's steakhouse (in Michigan), spent 40 dollars. Sat at the park sqeezing each other, we'll be celebrating in August 20 years of marriage. That broad you responded to goes on all the comment sections bitter and salty. Pookie beat up dem drawls and left her stankin' and she's mad bro.... Keep winning sir.

  • @thaiboxing67
    @thaiboxing67 9 місяців тому +12

    “They are trained to observe and see the sucka” lmao 😂

  • @doodlydodo
    @doodlydodo 9 місяців тому +14

    We not going to pretend that this is just Atlanta... Also 50k 20 years ago is equal to 84k today, his mom was doing decent...

  • @Will008
    @Will008 9 місяців тому +76

    I never had to spend that much money on any of the women I dated. WHY??? Because the women who I date are more into me than they are into the food. They like being in my presence more than the cost of the food. They’re more into getting to know me than they are into bragging about how much money I’m spending on them… and that’s how it should be.

    • @aM-nc8ix
      @aM-nc8ix 9 місяців тому

      If your not a pookie or a whyte man you not getting a fit BW.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому

      No woman should ever make you do anything. If you want to spend money, it's because YOU want to spend money. She should be following you, not you following her. If you don't want to spend money, it's because you don't want to spend money. Again, she can either follow you or don't. Never let her lead you, in any capacity. The modern, liberal and unfeminine woman will call that "controlling," though, and that's how many brothers get manipulated and thrown off their square by these fefails.

    • @Alumnikiid
      @Alumnikiid 9 місяців тому +7

      Its all in what you lead with. If a dude leads with his wallet, then he getting used for money.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 9 місяців тому

      @@Alumnikiid So dress like a bum and drive a bucket?

    • @ldbwa1050
      @ldbwa1050 9 місяців тому +1

      Maybe you attract a different type of woman

  • @smitht1988
    @smitht1988 9 місяців тому +73

    It’s lollipop season, don’t be the next sucker 😂😂

    • @HumbleDude46995
      @HumbleDude46995 9 місяців тому

      BRUH if issa black man i will most def be the next sucker idgaf.

    • @kellyjr22
      @kellyjr22 9 місяців тому +1

      Gettin licked 😂😂😂

    • @zion_lion340
      @zion_lion340 9 місяців тому +2

      Yea the next sucker buying lollipop lamb chop on first date lol

    • @ReceptiveKing93
      @ReceptiveKing93 5 місяців тому

      Lmfao I love that figure of speech 🤣🤣

  • @jasonmorris9900
    @jasonmorris9900 9 місяців тому +44

    My Mom is 65 years old and she's been in three marriages and has been single since she was 43 years old with this kind of mind State Wow .

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +7

      Wow I know your mental health took a hit.

    • @jasonmorris9900
      @jasonmorris9900 9 місяців тому +2

      @@mateaukalua4426 I had to learn and then unlearn and then relearn Life. I used to be a gang banger from the south side of Chicago , now I'm a construction worker and own 2 Houses . The best thing is as long as a person doesn't make excuses about their life they can always get better no matter what they go through Brother 💯💪👍

    • @ladellmimms
      @ladellmimms 9 місяців тому +6

      Damn 😮

    • @jasonmorris9900
      @jasonmorris9900 9 місяців тому +4

      @@ladellmimms 💯💪

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 9 місяців тому

      ​@@mateaukalua4426I know my mental health done hit real hard cause it happened to me too which is not good at all

  • @mrsc412
    @mrsc412 9 місяців тому +4

    You don’t have to pay my bills … but courting me is needed. Dates, spending time, communication.

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      If u a hooker then I got u... if not... we both wasting our resources to get to know each other it's gonna cost u like it cost me we not living in the old days lol more men are thinking like this so u can get mad at me if u want we growing in numbers

  • @blackdoorent23
    @blackdoorent23 9 місяців тому +8

    Factz Anton! New York is no better! Cali is worst! But i’m with you!

  • @Chicagoactioninvestors
    @Chicagoactioninvestors 9 місяців тому +26

    What I am seeing a majority of the time when I go out, are not men and women dates but groups of women going out together what does that tell you?

    • @ContextReallyMatters
      @ContextReallyMatters 9 місяців тому +5

      I see the same. I also see women by themselves. When a woman is by herself, she's a lot easier to talk to. You seem to get a more genuine and honest conversation when she's not in the presence of her social circle. I went to a cigar bar last night and there was a chick in there solo. We made eye contact but she was cashing out and I had just got there.

    • @markelraya10
      @markelraya10 Місяць тому +1

      And they probably begging each other to pay, nasty work.

  • @buttabcool6262
    @buttabcool6262 9 місяців тому +84

    Do not pay high prices for a used product...No other races of women even think like this...

    • @sendtherockets6196
      @sendtherockets6196 9 місяців тому +4

      !!

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 9 місяців тому +26

      They do...just not upfront with it as much

    • @kenyattathompson6685
      @kenyattathompson6685 9 місяців тому +13

      Yes they do
      Shouldn’t speak what you don’t know

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому

      No disrespect but yes they do especially in Denver maybe it's because there are more simps here percentage wise than anywhere else the country. These men will pay for dinner and watch her have s*x with another man right afterwards. Simp levels are super Saiyan 1000000 level. And most of these are WW etc.

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      Don't pay for a woman who isn't a hooker when u just meet her periodt

  • @lyrikalinyoswiminpoo
    @lyrikalinyoswiminpoo 9 місяців тому +46

    This is an easy issue for guys to resolve. When you first meet a chick, you can find out right away if she likes you or not. All you have to do is ask her to meet you at a park for like 30 mins. Just to have a sit down and talk to see where each other is at. The guy doesn’t come out of pocket and the girl doesn’t come out her panties. If you’re both on the same page, then you set a date. But if you’re not, you both part ways right then and there. If the woman actually likes the guy she’ll agree to the harmless park meet up. If she’s not willing to meet up on neutral grounds she’s not being transparent.

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 9 місяців тому +2

      Common sense... no harm no foul.

    • @TherandomguyTV
      @TherandomguyTV 8 місяців тому +3

      Or just get ice cream . Cheap date and everyone loves ice cream

    • @haydotzero3372
      @haydotzero3372 8 місяців тому +3

      The issue is a lot of these women standards are way too high. Not on earth high but somewhere in space. They are too picky and base a lot of men’s qualities on physical appearances. Which causes 90% of women chasing the same traits in guys. Gone are those days when you can date within your pool. An average woman is into an average man. Nowadays, below average, average, beautiful, gorgeous women all chase after the same qualities which starts with physical traits and then financial independence.

    • @thescatman5029
      @thescatman5029 8 місяців тому +2

      Nothing wrong with coming a bit out of pocket (I said 'a bit'). You are the man who does the courting. Just don't need to empty your whole wallet. If she refuses even a simple date, then you know.....!

    • @lyrikalinyoswiminpoo
      @lyrikalinyoswiminpoo 8 місяців тому +2

      @@thescatman5029 The truth is that the more a woman is into you (not just everything around you) the less you have to pay. You can make it clear that there’s almost no limit to hanging out. But that initial face to face neutral interaction can weed out the pile of BS you could regret later. People can pretend through text for days and flake and not take you seriously. You set yourself apart from all the guys vying for her attention by suggesting that first innocuous meet up. If she turns it down, there could be a lot of reasons like other guys. You cut through and see how much she desires you. You can simply not prolong the rejection. And she’ll respect your time more. She’ll know that you’re not someone she can manipulate whether she says yes or no.

  • @pinarellorider9023
    @pinarellorider9023 9 місяців тому +8

    I live in Atlanta and the dating scene sucks. Ratchet "culture" has taken over most BW's minds and it is an absolute rarity to see a woman with an ounce of class. I'm beginning to think Atlanta is the Real Life GTA 6 game.

  • @ContextReallyMatters
    @ContextReallyMatters 9 місяців тому +3

    My sister lives in a suburb outside of Atlanta. My 24 year old niece told me to not mess with any women in Atlanta. She says these women are superficial. My people rarely ever even go into the city and they're only like 15 minutes away.

  • @paulbunyan9436
    @paulbunyan9436 9 місяців тому +153

    Prostitution...There, I said it...

    • @Respectedthoroughly
      @Respectedthoroughly 9 місяців тому

      Moral prostitution.... there, i said it

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 9 місяців тому +12

      It's a service fee why increase it.
      Just get an escort at least she is paid to leave you alone

    • @paulbunyan9436
      @paulbunyan9436 9 місяців тому +14

      @@justhomas83 Cleaner, nicer and way more convenient...It's about time these nice guys get over the stigma...

    • @ericrobinson1789
      @ericrobinson1789 9 місяців тому

      Prostitution is exactly what it is. Point blank!

    • @justhomas83
      @justhomas83 9 місяців тому

      @@paulbunyan9436 correct remember we Gents are paying for time not a waste of time. Cost to time ratio I have projects to manage and clients to lead.

  • @Aggie4life77
    @Aggie4life77 9 місяців тому +22

    I left Atlanta 13 years ago and purposely moved to Dallas over Houston because of this!

    • @edawg9962
      @edawg9962 9 місяців тому

      Them black brawds the same over there too....I always mess with the Latin ladies before the black ones....sad but true...they much easier to deal with

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому

      Man I lived in oakcliff Dallas for 23 years. Man its not a whole lot of classy women there. In dallas county its still not a whole lot of classy women least you go to the deepest part of the suburbs or something.

    • @shemireyahlilly5521
      @shemireyahlilly5521 9 місяців тому

      ​@@mateaukalua4426he didn't say what part of Dallas. I live in Dallas there are many classy women in all parts of the city as well as the suburbs. I was raised in Oak Cliff so I know the area has changed over the years. Gentrification has taken over, it's not the same as it was when you may have lived here.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +1

      @@shemireyahlilly5521 Oh I visit oak cliff months ago and it has kind of changed. But it's still hood. I am talking about population wise it's a lot of Pookies and Keishas let's be honest. That's not everyone but it's enough that it can't be ignored.

    • @Brandon-rl7le
      @Brandon-rl7le 9 місяців тому +1

      I stay in Plano right now and the whole DFW is probably worse than atlanta pookies Ray Ray and Kesha's. Run the metroplex its bad out here. He talking like he move to something better

  • @MsDesiree39
    @MsDesiree39 9 місяців тому +5

    i saw a bw who said any man who wanted to date her had to pay the babysitter. smdh

  • @sanchoelmatador
    @sanchoelmatador 9 місяців тому +9

    If she likes you enough and you're THAT guy, you don't gotta pay anything. She needs to know she's replaceable if she acts out.

  • @YoungGrizzly
    @YoungGrizzly 9 місяців тому +41

    Remember black American ain’t the only black. Way too many places to choose from for black love.

    • @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
      @PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp 9 місяців тому

      Passport Bros!!! Be out, fellas. leave this skrong, queen bossses alone with their claw nails and blonde wigs

    • @jamesrecknor6752
      @jamesrecknor6752 9 місяців тому +14

      Ethiopia has a lot of sweet ladies

  • @ChocolateAfterDark
    @ChocolateAfterDark 9 місяців тому +40

    Yes Anton. Simpin’ in ATL is out of control. These guys have destroyed the game. The trickin’ these guys do on a daily basis is ridiculous. Seen it with my own eyes when I was there.

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +3

      There are tricks everywhere thats what ruined the game. Some men are so garbage their online trying to find women to trick on 😂. Can't even go out and hunt for a sugar baby lol they're online so they're an easy mark.

    • @DariusFoster-bu5kw
      @DariusFoster-bu5kw 9 місяців тому +1

      The rappers

    • @ChocolateAfterDark
      @ChocolateAfterDark 9 місяців тому

      @@DariusFoster-bu5kw Definitely.

    • @haydotzero3372
      @haydotzero3372 8 місяців тому

      @@ChocolateAfterDarknot just rappers but rappers influenced that lifestyle there. I am sure scammers are many there and do the same. Even a small percentage of the entrepreneurship men there too

    • @tima.478
      @tima.478 8 місяців тому

      I'm from the "A," and still here. a lot depends on what boundaries you set for yourself and the people around you. I'm a no nonsense type person so I have rarely been around a lot of simpin' azz dudes or otherwise. My approach with women was the same way. I simply discard BS on the first sign of BS and don't look back! One trick I used to filter out these ridiculous azz females was to find a woman NOT on Tiktok, Insta, Snap, Facebook or any of that other "fake life" BS. Consequently, my girl gets half the mortgage, her car note and 1 of the household bills. I hold down everything else, trips abroad, eating out, concerts etc. My situation is this way because I set the mf'ing table! As men, this is how we should be governing. ✌

  • @Chicagoactioninvestors
    @Chicagoactioninvestors 9 місяців тому +15

    We have to keep in mind that social media just like Atlanta is not a real place. People act like superheroes and superstars when the camera light goes on social media is mostly play play

    • @kellyjr22
      @kellyjr22 9 місяців тому +2

      Bingo 🎯

  • @jayjuggrnaut
    @jayjuggrnaut 8 місяців тому +2

    I live in Atlanta, but I've lived other places as well. The women in Atlanta are def more entitled than any other women I've dated.
    I dated this one chick who gave me a list of her sizes after about a month or so. Mind you, she made good money. I ignored the list.

  • @pastorche1722
    @pastorche1722 9 місяців тому +3

    I'll never forget when this bw asked me to pay her car note after the second date

  • @fudgematthew33
    @fudgematthew33 9 місяців тому +22

    No words. I got nothin'. Simps are messing it up for everybody.

  • @TheJusDon
    @TheJusDon 9 місяців тому +31

    Go overseas 😎 Black ain’t just American. Passport boys 🙌🏾

    • @noone20111
      @noone20111 9 місяців тому +1

      Boom! I live across the ocean most my adult life, and honestly I can't relate to the men in these videos, but its entertaining tho... That passport make ya boujee. I visit the states and refuse to even smash anything.. see the family and bounce.

    • @ptcpowerup1350
      @ptcpowerup1350 8 місяців тому

      In my opinion, we’re culturally different hence why I don’t date foreigners or Caucasians.

    • @klab9603
      @klab9603 8 місяців тому

      Can't wait till you realize that women over seas will ALSO use you. They'll even set you up in their country then poison you or rob you later because they think you have money. Keep your ahh over there. Hopefully you'll have friends or family willing to rescue you when you get caught up

  • @305youtuber
    @305youtuber 9 місяців тому +14

    i love the thought of dating them and once did, but i can't seem to push myself to do it anymore ✋😏🤚

    • @spentshellz
      @spentshellz 9 місяців тому

      Same here… I save more money and I’m happier by myself, every so often I’ll go out and get me some 🐱…I’m good.

  • @Vincent_Van_Dough
    @Vincent_Van_Dough 9 місяців тому +4

    As an Atlanta resident i can confirm it is now fantasy Island. Nothing like it used to be..

  • @zephaniyahbenyisrael7728
    @zephaniyahbenyisrael7728 9 місяців тому +18

    I always laugh now when I hear some of these women refer to the scriptures when they don't do any of TMHs laws and commandments; she talking about Proverbs 31, but what she really needs to read is Psalms 50:16-23 kjv and Ecclesiastes 12:12-14 kjv.

    • @ContextReallyMatters
      @ContextReallyMatters 9 місяців тому +1

      Proverbs 31:10 specifically says a woman should contribute to a household from her own purse.

    • @nowlaterkiss9811
      @nowlaterkiss9811 9 місяців тому +1

      Yes. Have to obey all God's word.

  • @bcusaaus4749
    @bcusaaus4749 9 місяців тому +15

    Nope, men, set a budget for small amounts( pending your budget) expensive restaurants is not a necessity to get to know another person. You pay bills, car note, rent for your married spouse!!! If she ask-, ghost, delete, blow off , run! My partner and I did everything together that required No money .

  • @icecold8974
    @icecold8974 9 місяців тому +3

    I’ve dated mostly black women, but have not run across any that I see on these podcast. I want to believe they are a very small percentage. I have never and will never pay bills at any place, where I don’t live and not on the deed or lease. My wife is Latina, these conversations don’t even come up. We both work and take care of each other. This guys proved to be a sucker.

  • @jboogie722
    @jboogie722 9 місяців тому +3

    I love how they use the excuse, ooo the man has to be the provider…..yea for the essentials of life not $400 dinners, expensive hair/nails etc.

  • @AGirlNamedVan
    @AGirlNamedVan 9 місяців тому +18

    thats sad . i always tell my guy he doesnt need to even get me perfume . im bad at receiving gifts ...andi would never be disillusioned to even think i can make a demand on anyones time and money. heck he can do the least and im always amazed that someone is doing something nice for me. also on dates id go anywhere to spend time with him. even if its a walk and an icecream .

    • @mobbbarley5292
      @mobbbarley5292 9 місяців тому

      Go be with your boyfriend and get out this comment section

    • @AGirlNamedVan
      @AGirlNamedVan 9 місяців тому

      @@mobbbarley5292 so the internet is only for single people? Also I'm only seeing him in a few weeks. Long distance 😭

    • @ronaldmczee9064
      @ronaldmczee9064 9 місяців тому +1

      Van you a good woman

  • @bryantworley2922
    @bryantworley2922 9 місяців тому +23

    It spoke volumes when that girl asked: "You don't think she should be compensated?" 😊they gave each other sex, so, any compensation should be canceled out (just kidding, but I'm serious). This woman is a part of the "Entitled" group that this brother is talking about

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      ​@@user-th7gl7yp1xwhen u get sum cat it's a liability cuz she can get preggo that cost u she can put u on child support that cost u she can give u a disease that can cost you so since u can't convince her sex is a fare exchange then realize women are agents for the matrix no man has figured this out yet😂 they doing all this cuz they dont have a mind of their own 95% of them we live on a plantation and this how massa changed the game on us he went covert on us by using her as a tool. She already knows she wants to have kids so she can sell them to the plantation for benefits and throw u under the bus to keep those benefits. It's over for women they are done and bcuz of that so is melonated ppl we gonna be in bondage forever unless simps wake up n that's not gonna happen

  • @johnnydunlap3644
    @johnnydunlap3644 9 місяців тому +11

    It's TRUE!!! That's been this way in Atlanta since I moved here to live in 1991. I've NEVER fell for that BS!!! They'll ask you to "PAY THEIR RENT OR ELECTRIC BILL" before you even order your meal!!! I've Gone To The Restroom And Never Returned. Some of them are completely DELUSIONAL!!! Happy I was Blessed with a Marriageable Woman, and Not a DELUSIONAL little girl!!!

    • @haydotzero3372
      @haydotzero3372 8 місяців тому

      I am sure then you were still able to find some reasonable and considerable girls to date back then. Now, you might not even find any.

  • @jonathan_brutus
    @jonathan_brutus 9 місяців тому +2

    Never feel pressured my guy, just keep kt pushing

  • @carlallen8392
    @carlallen8392 9 місяців тому +2

    Anton be talking that ish, 💯 percent agree with him

  • @depthgod7672
    @depthgod7672 9 місяців тому +31

    Honestly feel like it's only the soft and weak men being treated this way . Dudes paying thousands of dollars just for her to turn them down in the end das fuckin Krazy

    • @Danthomas829
      @Danthomas829 9 місяців тому

      Nahh it’s the street Ns and the dudes who getting real money in the streets who is doing it.. regular square lames ain’t getting to no money like that and also can’t access certain levels of bad Bs.. unless they go to the strip club.. but once again.. u only see Street Ns scammers and d boys in there tricking off

  • @larryconnerjr1835
    @larryconnerjr1835 9 місяців тому +15

    I ain’t neva paid no female’s bills unless we’re living together or married, other than that I wouldn’t talk to no female that would ask me some shit like that on a date , that would be the last time I would see her

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому +1

      You allowed to be my homie cuz u represent us blk males correct 💯 that's all homie had to do in the video then move around

    • @larryconnerjr1835
      @larryconnerjr1835 9 місяців тому

      @@insanebeatjunkie Respect ✊🏾

    • @JS-4169
      @JS-4169 9 місяців тому

      It's Christmas ho ho !!!!!!!!

  • @gwaapgutta8553
    @gwaapgutta8553 9 місяців тому +28

    If it ain't snowing I ain't going..

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm 9 місяців тому +18

      Im close to getting in that boat.

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 9 місяців тому +4

      They finnese is covert and are very enabled by the system

    • @keithmurray3827
      @keithmurray3827 9 місяців тому +4

      😂😂😂

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 9 місяців тому +2

      😅

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 9 місяців тому +1

      @@Cahluvca💯

  • @bootseytwofly9454
    @bootseytwofly9454 8 місяців тому +1

    I’m from Atlanta and I’m still here- I actually quit dating . Most of these ladies can’t be satisfied and they feel entitled. I don’t feel like the juice is no longer worth the squeeze

  • @janiecel
    @janiecel Місяць тому

    I’m so glad I met my husband in college when we were both broke and just in love. We are now in the 1% income and NW wise and we STILL don’t splurge on stupid stuff. We live humbly and happy together.

  • @tyrecarmon20
    @tyrecarmon20 9 місяців тому +20

    I love my mexican wife. I didnt have to deal with NONE of this before we got married

    • @erickn7985
      @erickn7985 9 місяців тому +3

      Bro facts i feel you bro

    • @tyrecarmon20
      @tyrecarmon20 9 місяців тому +8

      @@erickn7985 fuck all that shit. I can't imagine being single now in this damn climate smh. I might just fuck around and leave the damn west

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 9 місяців тому

      Congrats, but best believe it's women that take advantage of men regardless of race

    • @hiphopmusic2470
      @hiphopmusic2470 9 місяців тому +3

      Me as well brother I’m an black man with an Latina women

    • @HondaXr650L
      @HondaXr650L 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm with an Latina woman aswell n don't have those issues at all.

  • @slarsp2
    @slarsp2 9 місяців тому +23

    I would rather get robbed in Bogota. ✈️✈️✈️✈️

  • @mudiabubakar8503
    @mudiabubakar8503 9 місяців тому +4

    It is so MESSED UP today!!!

  • @damienkirksey7026
    @damienkirksey7026 9 місяців тому +5

    They want to blame social media for their bad decisions, but don't take accountability for their actions, and when he said he raised by a single monster. It was a wrap for him. SMH

  • @DeeKay-yy7op
    @DeeKay-yy7op 9 місяців тому +3

    This is why some men just avoid them altogether...and then they wonder why they are the least married...
    The worst part is the symps the single-mothers raised that think this situation is normal...and acquiesce to this demonic behaviour...sad sad sad!!!

  • @RedClayBaby
    @RedClayBaby 9 місяців тому +19

    I'm born and raised here in Georgia and he is 100% correct on 90% of black women versus the other races in Atlanta. Expectations that they can't achieve themselves

    • @mateaukalua4426
      @mateaukalua4426 9 місяців тому +3

      If it makes you feel better there's a lot of entitled women everywhere in America. Name any major city and at least half the young women think like this.

    • @RogerSanGabriel
      @RogerSanGabriel 9 місяців тому

      I see fat chick's with weaves.

    • @kirawong4629
      @kirawong4629 7 місяців тому +1

      But IF a woman is independent and has her own house, own car, is into her career and doesn’t let men buy them or influence her boundaries men call her masculine… so what’s a woman to do if she is slandered for being independent or hypergamous… many times they will say well damn let me just get something out of the deal

    • @RedClayBaby
      @RedClayBaby 7 місяців тому +1

      @@kirawong4629 true as well. I don't mind independent as long as she knows that I am her to "lead". Not be controlling but trust me to guide us in the relationship. Especially if she has seen me be successful on my own before meeting her. It's a win win for her. If I take her stress away, there's no need to be masculine. Not all men think like that. And that's life.

    • @kirawong4629
      @kirawong4629 7 місяців тому +1

      @@RedClayBabywhat about you leading where you are strongest and in areas that she’s stronger you trust her to take the lead on things .. you can’t be the best at everything.

  • @TXFM27
    @TXFM27 9 місяців тому +4

    You are not my wife and I am not obligated to you...compensated? Get the hell on!!!

  • @Miss_Loving
    @Miss_Loving 9 місяців тому +33

    Being raised by a single mother, you can see the effects its had on this man. His gender role confusions and his insecurities. If he'd had a father in his life growing up, it could have helped with things that he still to this day seem to struggle with, such as relationships with women and his role as the man/husband. He seems like a nice man and I wish him well and much success. 😊

    • @Lifeisab
      @Lifeisab 9 місяців тому

      Clown

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 9 місяців тому +4

      I agree he don’t seem like a bad dude but I must say I live in Atlanta if he haven’t found a woman it’s cause he don’t want one in married and if I didn’t have a wife I know at least 2 other women who would have been good candidates for me so I know he can find one he just want perfection lol

    • @aaronbrooks4091
      @aaronbrooks4091 9 місяців тому +3

      Exactly. His dad would have given him this wake up call at 16-18….he done been through trials and tribulations and ready to cancel out. Passport prices still the same.

    • @DaveSincere
      @DaveSincere 9 місяців тому +9

      I disagree. When you meet someone there should be no pressure to pay for anything on their end.

    • @nonyabiz12
      @nonyabiz12 9 місяців тому +1

      Very true. U can tell he's used to being the submissive one in the relationship. He comes off as a physical manifestation of the idea of what modern women call a "real man" when they're trying to gaslight men into doing what they want them to do.

  • @dubspoon
    @dubspoon 9 місяців тому +4

    Men paying for all these dates when the going market rate for box in the streets is $100-150, and a guaranteed hit. That’s all cat is worth

  • @GrenshawHomes1977
    @GrenshawHomes1977 8 місяців тому

    In the 90s had a 72(clean) cutlass supreme...We went out to movies,skating,bowling,..had a great memories..30 years later my friend girls still laugh and enjoy those memories...

  • @livingoutloudwithDrMimiCheri
    @livingoutloudwithDrMimiCheri 9 місяців тому +4

    The words we choose to speak of others aren't a reflection of them but a clear indication of the condition of our heart! It's easy to speak of problems, but transformative leadership has the ability to not only see a problem but also have solutions to rectify said problem. I pray that Black men and Black women would heal because the generational and collective trauma continues to keep us in fight or flight mode, survival mode! We need to heal, learn healthy coping, and communicate skills so we can articulate our emotional needs to get them met in healthy ways!

  • @PAIDWITHLAY
    @PAIDWITHLAY 9 місяців тому +15

    these people have no connection to god, just money. and thats why their relationships don't work out. human connection is becoming obsolete

    • @Bidness100
      @Bidness100 9 місяців тому +3

      💯

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      No these women are useless they worried about ppl being attracted to them so they can use them instead of getting they shut together so we can have a community as a ppl 😂 if they was doing that instead things would be different out here

    • @misskeah8893
      @misskeah8893 9 місяців тому

      No one cares about human and spiritual connection. Everyone is superficial. Dude wants cat. Girl wants money... time rebuild and rebalance the narrative.

    • @ronaldmczee9064
      @ronaldmczee9064 9 місяців тому +1

      Facts

  • @Remember-Death
    @Remember-Death 9 місяців тому +7

    @ 5:57 - "She was making $50K 20 years ago, raising us."
    Nah bruh, you left out the *government assistance* she received being a single mother of 3 kids.

  • @midwestmami
    @midwestmami 4 місяці тому +2

    If this is an ongoing problem for men they really might want to think about the type of woman they’re attracted to. There are plenty of genuine non high maintenance women who are nothing like what’s being described and don’t expect a dime from a man but they often tend to be overlooked. Personally, I don’t expect a man to pay for anything for me.

    • @Duvalle-g5q
      @Duvalle-g5q 3 місяці тому

      Well they're going to have to date non black or biracial if these men are black

  • @boparks3204
    @boparks3204 8 місяців тому +1

    Thats why you should only be dating with intention..... Stop frivously dating.

  • @santana444
    @santana444 9 місяців тому +14

    Your boy KS was talking about how men should spend that kind of money on dates too.

  • @poindextersheelturn436
    @poindextersheelturn436 9 місяців тому +12

    Why do these dudes sound like spaghetti armed victims? "Its alot of pressure on black men to date black women" no its not, dudes who have it aint pressured, we just not going to pay $400 dollars on the first date, NO! If we like you and we together then sure.

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому +2

      This is how it starts 😂 then u die and reincarnate then come back as a beta then be this same guy salty for sum simping you did in the past lifetime

  • @Djd271
    @Djd271 9 місяців тому +122

    Black women demand the most a give the least

    • @For35too45min
      @For35too45min 9 місяців тому +10

      “Peeped it back in my teens”👊🏿

    • @d.baileyspeaks
      @d.baileyspeaks 9 місяців тому +23

      They can’t afford to “demand” anything. Why is this even entertained?

    • @k.r.truthseeker7156
      @k.r.truthseeker7156 9 місяців тому +4

      FACT!

    • @grateful2tmh199
      @grateful2tmh199 9 місяців тому

      ​@@d.baileyspeaksThey are like children playing pretend. It's fun to see how deep the level of delusion actually goes.

    • @GETBIG4WARD
      @GETBIG4WARD 9 місяців тому +15

      @@d.baileyspeaksit’s being entertained cause some men aren’t holding the line

  • @Elden555
    @Elden555 9 місяців тому +17

    This trend started with Destiny’s Child: Can you pay my bills, can you pay my telephone bill, can you pay my automobile.

    • @cle-chi
      @cle-chi 9 місяців тому +5

      wayyyy before that. Try 1980s with " aint nuthin goin on but the rent" - gwen guthrie song. When being a d r u g dealer was King!! I was there & born 1972

    • @ContextReallyMatters
      @ContextReallyMatters 9 місяців тому +6

      Destiny's Child also said, "I pay my own car note and I pay my own rent, always 50/50 in relationships..." Women ignore that part though.

    • @deetaylor2202
      @deetaylor2202 9 місяців тому +1

      ​@ContextReallyMatters and most of them don't even do it

    • @ronjenkins9129
      @ronjenkins9129 9 місяців тому

      Ironically Kandi & Tiny who are from College Park wrote that song & TLC No Scrubs.

    • @haydotzero3372
      @haydotzero3372 8 місяців тому

      I think it started in the 80s when guys were getting money off moving drugs but the thing about that time was women were not just using teasing men to play. They actually gave it up and men will take care of their lifestyles. Nowadays, women for the main part just scam men to take care of their expenses without giving up any play and if they do, it is just temporary until they move on to the next person

  • @bros9034
    @bros9034 9 місяців тому +4

    I was born and raised in ATL. It WAS the black Mecca, and everything that black people wished for, but with rising popularity came a rise in population. It watered down and took away from the what made ATL great. So what y’all see today, is NOT what made ATL great!

  • @Phanbot01
    @Phanbot01 14 днів тому

    Back in the 80's I was in love with Atlanta, wanted to relocate down there but unfortunately none of the applications and job postings I applied for came up zero. Now it's turned into a place I wouldn't even want to visit for a vacation. The Atlanta I saw back then and what it is now makes me say what the hell happened? How did it go so wrong so fast?

  • @CryptopediaNetwork
    @CryptopediaNetwork 9 місяців тому +6

    It's cap, Atlanta is like a 10 to 1 ratio from women to men, the men there are playing on easy mode.

    • @spentshellz
      @spentshellz 9 місяців тому +1

      🫵🏽 definitely don’t live here, & that’s a fact

    • @alexisc7565
      @alexisc7565 9 місяців тому +2

      Thats...very false lol. You won't find any statistic to support your 10-1 claim.

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому +2

      ​@@alexisc7565most of the men are effing each other them is the guys they like in the AtL but Cleveland is baby Atlanta also

    • @CryptopediaNetwork
      @CryptopediaNetwork 9 місяців тому

      @@alexisc7565 ALT is easy.

    • @CryptopediaNetwork
      @CryptopediaNetwork 9 місяців тому

      @spentshellz u know I'm right, ATL is very easy. Stop complaining.

  • @tooneov
    @tooneov 9 місяців тому +11

    Stay married Anton lmao. I'm from Atlanta and have a little sister. It's finesse capital

  • @Saito232005
    @Saito232005 9 місяців тому +10

    He's glorifying the wrong mindset. He halfway in halfway out. He wants to be traditional and modern at the same time.

    • @cle-chi
      @cle-chi 9 місяців тому

      exactly

    • @qamyahsharalha2630
      @qamyahsharalha2630 8 місяців тому

      Yeah he still tryna please them with his word choice

  • @Lovedis4
    @Lovedis4 9 місяців тому +1

    Your first statement was my EXACT thought when he said ATL. Realistically, no man is responsible to you unless he’s married to you. I’m single(not married,but in a relationship),37 and have 3 daughters and make right at $100,000.
    I don’t expect him to do anything except take care of our child- we live in separate homes; and with all of that… I get far more than some woman demanding things for my time and love.

  • @BillyTimes-dw7vs
    @BillyTimes-dw7vs 9 місяців тому +3

    I love Black women but the one's I dealt with was to much work to keep happy and I'm not simping for nobody, when I was to masculine they argued with me, when I was to soft they thought they can walk all over me, I had enough got a passport ✈️ flew to the Philippines 🇵🇭 and got close to a Black woman a Morena Filipino women dark complexion long hair to her a butt, fit, friendly, feminine. Gives me my peace and respect me as a man. You brothas quit wasting time with these women out here these days.

  • @balloonmanalvinpitts
    @balloonmanalvinpitts 9 місяців тому +8

    What happened was when some guys made it financially they got lazy and started spending money 💰 to get their way with women. Women got uses to the fantasy and forgot about reality.

    • @insanebeatjunkie
      @insanebeatjunkie 9 місяців тому

      Yes that's why men get to the bag 💰 so they can be lazy I blame the men in the south they started the tricking culture

  • @Marcthegaurdian
    @Marcthegaurdian 9 місяців тому +4

    This should be called chronicles of a simp...

  • @GeecheeSlim
    @GeecheeSlim 9 місяців тому +4

    It's funny he started talking about their entitlement and low and behold he's part of the problem by putting them on a pedestal 😂

  • @devaughnchristopher
    @devaughnchristopher 8 місяців тому

    "if you can't spot the sucker, you're the sucker!" whewwwww!! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @engineered-mind
    @engineered-mind 9 місяців тому +1

    I tried dating this black gorgeous chick and on our first date I planned at Hibatchi she wanted a highly expensive restaurant not the one I selected - I’m Nigerian and I ended that chase and she from ATL - remember I’m 6”3 making 200k but that was a major red flag for me

  • @EverMostGemini
    @EverMostGemini 9 місяців тому +5

    Date outside da race & especially they will love way sincerely fr.

    • @hiphopmusic2470
      @hiphopmusic2470 9 місяців тому +1

      Been telling brothers this I have an Latina girlfriend have never dealt with any of this I would suggest men to try it out at least

    • @EverMostGemini
      @EverMostGemini 9 місяців тому

      @@hiphopmusic2470 latinas are 🔥 too you da champ 🏆 #respect.