Memory of your spouse works in every cell in your body - Sadhguru about Break up

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2024

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  • @amantin
    @amantin 4 роки тому +15

    0:50 - BODY = complex amalgamation of memory
    1:00 - MIND = 99,9% memory (now)
    Give your body/mind time to wash out the memory of a previous relationship

  • @bheenachoytooa1604
    @bheenachoytooa1604 5 років тому +87

    My auntie got divorced and went to live in France and when her xhusband died, she knew it tru her body! Sadhguru is very right to say that our body is also memories.

  • @nathaliecowong
    @nathaliecowong 2 роки тому +2

    1:10 memory goes into you through our 5 senses (see, touch - deepest)

  • @simontay1187
    @simontay1187 5 років тому +12

    It has been said 'absence makes the heart grows fondier'. On the contrary, it can be 'out of sight, out of mind'. This is exactly what Buddha decides through the lonely dark night and finally leaves his father's kingdom, without saying 'good bye' to his wife and his only son. In seeking of the truths for humanity. This is the GREAT ONE ONLY!

  • @aanandee3306
    @aanandee3306 9 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes the pain is almost not ther for breaking up because u have already dettached from them due to abuse or u found someone better inshort if theee is a feeling that this breakup will save my life then that breakup will give u happiness and sense of freedom ❤

  • @rosisunny9302
    @rosisunny9302 5 років тому +10

    Everyone you gat involved with Physical and Emotionally gives you Memories!Lives Memory From the Past lives in your Bones on ,as Memory!

  • @racingheart92
    @racingheart92 4 роки тому +7

    Looks like he doesn't like or not satisfied by the answer, but the last line "u come alone, die alone" is sufficient to understand the importance of self remaining life and move on.

  • @SantoshKumar-en4vh
    @SantoshKumar-en4vh 5 років тому +16

    Sadguru is like mahabaratam... When we tap his video we will get some solution related to our problems that we r currently facing in our lives.. My life has changed a lot after I met this macho man sadhguru...

  • @a_new_life_41
    @a_new_life_41 5 років тому +12

    Wisdom is one of the sweetest fragrances of life.

    • @lizafield9002
      @lizafield9002 4 роки тому +1

      Good nutrients too, like roots & fresh dark greens. Kids don't like it (even older ones who sit in oval offices & throw fits, in the case of my homeland). When you make it your food, over time, it's way better than cake & koolaid. Like climbing a mountain vs watching cartoons.

  • @karthikapoornima4241
    @karthikapoornima4241 5 років тому +26

    Sadhguru makes a lot of sense and am somewhat shaken a bit at the same time by this narration.
    Yes, memories do linger till the end of breath.
    Consequentially this video has incited me to spend more time with loved ones.
    I'd like to have as many beautiful moments so that the cells of my physical body will someday remember and react to them..!
    Thank you and Namaskaaram 🙏😊

  • @alwaysbeeurself
    @alwaysbeeurself 5 років тому +17

    Sadhguru is saying that the way you move on is to not just jump into more memories, don't take this power for granted. The memories you create will be with you forever, every decision you make will be stored as a memory, not realizing this, you can create some hurtful and regretful memories by taking this power for granted. This is not to say you should live to create good memories, but realize that memories will be with you until you die. He is saying to not take your life for granted and don't do whatever you want without realizing you have this power to make choices and to see how these choices will work with or against you, the outcome of these choices will be with you forever in memory. Otherwise, you will be creating a life based on memories that lacked self control, or of not understanding of this power, and therefore not have a clear direction of what you want to do with your life, remembering your life as you did it this way or you did it that way, and just be living based on not taking this life seriously, or thinking you were but you really weren't. And in the end, regardless of how well intended you make choices, no matter what memories you create, you can still be at peace because you made these choices out of respect of who you are rather than out of instinct or desire, and made each decision important rather than just doing whatever you wanted. You can then look back on your life, or be on your death bed saying, "Every part of my life was well intended, I am happy that I got to experience it and I made it important regardless of the outcomes." Whether life works out for you or not is irrelevant, consider being your best self and not taking life or your power of choice for this life granted.

  • @raynatha4450
    @raynatha4450 3 роки тому +4

    I got divorced in 2000. Still single till now. Not because I couldn't move on. It''s just I have to be very selective now. Don't want to make the same mistake again. I've been in couple of relationships of course. Finding my forever partner in life. :)

  • @pavank6
    @pavank6 5 років тому +21

    A must see video till last for all the modern couple

    • @munira1422
      @munira1422 3 роки тому

      Looks like u hv a very negative picture of modern couple. U sound like being modern is a big sin.U can't judge anyone.. Be it modern or Orthodox... This has nothing to do with being modern.. It is an indvidual choice

    • @AayushR1
      @AayushR1 3 роки тому +1

      @@munira1422 modern times is bad, very bad

    • @veekshithcb
      @veekshithcb 2 роки тому

      @@AayushR1 yes

  • @pinki3dt
    @pinki3dt 3 роки тому +3

    Wow! This was so deep. These words are so true! 🙏❤️

  • @carlosvelasquez3279
    @carlosvelasquez3279 5 років тому +24

    Basically we should somehow use memory in the best possible way, many relationships will cause craziness, I totally know that hahahaha.

  • @Thelittleclipstore
    @Thelittleclipstore 3 роки тому +8

    I got divorced few years ago and I was told I will feel like a limb was ripped away from me ,but to my surprise just the opposite happened and I think it’s because there was no emotional connection I was married to a mask ,to a unhealthy person . I felt on a high after my divorce . Until then it was very tuff .

  • @ramavarapu1
    @ramavarapu1 4 роки тому

    YOU ARE BEYOND YOUR MEMORY THAT IS WHAT ONE SHOULD KNOW ABOUT.👍

    • @Aww_ishaax
      @Aww_ishaax 4 роки тому +1

      Connected to galaxies 😃🙏

  • @SHATRUJEET-sj7sx
    @SHATRUJEET-sj7sx Рік тому +1

    That's why premarital sex is prohibited.

  • @kesimayers7155
    @kesimayers7155 4 роки тому +9

    I don’t know if this is a good speech for those who are suffering with an abusive spouse. For safety I recommend leaving an abusive partner to preserve your “self”

    • @kesimayers7155
      @kesimayers7155 4 роки тому +3

      @@leo-zh4zv I’m married with a wonderful guy. lol

    • @Thelittleclipstore
      @Thelittleclipstore 3 роки тому +4

      Exactly my thoughts.. I left a abusive marriage few years ago after being together 10 years and I don’t miss him at all and I don’t even feel like we were connected I was married to a mask ..it wasn’t easy first few weeks but then it felt amazing and I was on a high .

    • @kesimayers7155
      @kesimayers7155 3 роки тому

      @@Thelittleclipstore I’m happy you found your peace! I hope you enjoy life to the fullest whether you chose to be single or with someone. Because we all know attaining happiness is more internal than anything!! Just be free and continue loving yourself in every way!

  • @Justin7th
    @Justin7th 5 років тому +8

    What is the song in the beginning of this video? Its absolutely incredible

    • @vishwav20
      @vishwav20 5 років тому +2

      Buddh Hai, from Sounds of Isha.

    • @rosisunny9302
      @rosisunny9302 5 років тому

      Justin Bosman Isha Musik!!

  • @MrVishalkankatala
    @MrVishalkankatala 2 роки тому

    I agree every experience be it marriage or break up needs to make us wiser and not just wounded. But I don't want to judge people who get divorced more than once. Life is just unfair to certain people and getting out of abusive relations needs to happen at any cost.
    Especially, parents influence relatively introverted kids into arranged marriages in India and partners get abused by their in laws for money, sex, status or whatever consistently. Life loses meaning for such people and they develop anxiety.
    Kids need to be put in boarding schools if parents can afford it so they build individuality from a young age and make good decisions.

  • @xirkira
    @xirkira 3 роки тому +2

    So how to go on after a breakup? He did not answer it on the second part. Just how not to create a bad relationship. What if already happened. 🙈

  • @asnnxbxhsj1285
    @asnnxbxhsj1285 4 роки тому +5

    This video is too deep & worthy only few will get actual meaning.

  • @GoldChocobo77
    @GoldChocobo77 3 роки тому +2

    So are we getting clean from other people's memory as time goes by?

  • @PriyaSharma-uo5et
    @PriyaSharma-uo5et 5 років тому +1

    Namaskaram Sadhguru 🙏🏻

  • @nasrinsultana8515
    @nasrinsultana8515 5 років тому +4

    If I am forced to accept divorce it is more painful. If one is already decided to giving divorce because he already decided to go to the another woman. In this situation partner is forced to accept divorce. Every thing happened one sided. I think who is doing this type of thing they are so confused.

  • @pamelastewart1442
    @pamelastewart1442 2 роки тому +1

    Do not diverse my self? 30years marriage. Can I learn more about the phrase, keep a little distance?

  • @Jagritidhariwal
    @Jagritidhariwal 2 роки тому +1

    How do i get rid off my ex's energies inside me?

  • @Musicwithnature-b9f
    @Musicwithnature-b9f 4 роки тому +2

    If this is the problem with runnaanubandh, then one relationship lifelong is better option, which leads to healthy memory.
    Unfortunately I am in-between incests! While I am still virgin.
    I am not able to accept my husband.😔😔

  • @shekhar82sharma
    @shekhar82sharma 5 років тому

    Hello, love you Sadhguru 😀

  • @nehakhatri2826
    @nehakhatri2826 4 роки тому +3

    Aah! This answered a hugeee doubt i had 🙏🏻🙏🏻✨but one more doubt came up... is it really true or just a thought/belief that can vary... Cos I believe we are what we accept to believe.
    For example, If one refuses to believe what he said, he/she has made up a mind/belief... And then nothing is as powerful as our thoughts which we deeply inflict in ourselves willingly... So he/she won't experience what Sadhguru said...
    So what is more powerful? Our thoughts & emotions or what you are saying...

    • @mahdev3017
      @mahdev3017 2 роки тому

      Wat Sadhguru is saying is powerful

  • @yahavi8211
    @yahavi8211 3 роки тому

    Thank you
    9:50pm ftwc 29/1/2021

  • @arathykrishnan6974
    @arathykrishnan6974 4 роки тому +6

    Its not true to everyone.. my ex husband forgets every joyful moments of us fast and left. I wonder how someone gets memories cleaned in such short time.

    • @Amitbeats21
      @Amitbeats21 4 роки тому +7

      You havent listened carefully then. Even if emotionally and mentally he left it behind, his body will go through the suffering one way or another.

    • @niveditharayappa7899
      @niveditharayappa7899 4 роки тому +1

      No ...its wrong....every dog has its own day....that day he will....you have to see....in depth...🙄👍some day or some way everything will comeback to you....you can't escape 👍we can't fool universe!!!

    • @kaneo3243
      @kaneo3243 3 роки тому +3

      How would you be sure he truly erased the memories of you and your experiences together? You can NOT tell his story for him.

    • @arathykrishnan6974
      @arathykrishnan6974 3 роки тому

      @@kaneo3243 its strange but it happened with me, strange things happens..
      I dont know how it happens, but he totally forgot the good moments and good words he had for me, and living his life, forgetting how I would deal with it. Only god can give the answer, I think even he is not aware of what he has done.

    • @kaneo3243
      @kaneo3243 3 роки тому +3

      @@arathykrishnan6974 In no way am I denying your experience or minimizing your feelings. Its just that human beings are complex. Sometimes they behave in ways directly opposed to their true feelings; some think that showing their true feelings make them vulnerable. Your "ex" could be one of them. You have no way of knowing what's going on in his head or how he's really suffering from the vacuum your absence leaves in his life. Believe it, I am talking from a personal experience.
      My suggestion to you is to understand that in life, shit happens. Your happiness is not based on the actions of anyone else. Be authentic and live your life on your own thought out terms.
      Good Luck.

  • @boingbryan8123
    @boingbryan8123 5 років тому

    tq sadhguru...

  • @termekasands6539
    @termekasands6539 4 роки тому

    Thank you.

  • @sbs_modernmeeralaxmisharma465
    @sbs_modernmeeralaxmisharma465 3 роки тому

    Awesome

  • @hemrajpandeya81
    @hemrajpandeya81 5 років тому

    Who else are searching for apple air

  • @jyotijhunjhunwala9073
    @jyotijhunjhunwala9073 5 років тому

    Is there is any workshop in kolkata?

  • @englishchannel191
    @englishchannel191 3 роки тому

    Right....

  • @lalmohanpani3
    @lalmohanpani3 4 роки тому

    Please make its Hindi version

  • @nehakhatri2826
    @nehakhatri2826 4 роки тому

    Also, Klesha Nashana... Bhuta Shuddhi... Do they really work?

  • @iamingrid6469
    @iamingrid6469 4 роки тому

    It explains past experiences..
    It was Not Love though occasionally memories of past experiences flash pass .. No thanks for the memories tho

  • @monaiannucci7831
    @monaiannucci7831 3 роки тому

    I haven't seen one non the less three plz stop saying I'm about to receive something I'm not whoever you are

  • @johnraju9816
    @johnraju9816 5 років тому

    If we keep physical memory away from thought processes would it help? Someone outside there can shed some light.

  • @virupakshakumbar4203
    @virupakshakumbar4203 Рік тому

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @kellyng6976
    @kellyng6976 3 роки тому

    🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @vidhyanaroliya2579
    @vidhyanaroliya2579 5 років тому

    Acha h n

  • @respectall731
    @respectall731 3 роки тому +1

    Divorce is voluntary death? I agree with him on some things but this is absolute crap. Sadhguru ji, are you not stigmatizing divorce? you are talking as if people get a divorce because they want to and have nothing better to do with their lives. You Sadhguru ji are saying people should stay married and suffer rather than get a divorce?

  • @peterq6598
    @peterq6598 5 років тому +1

    Does the memory of killing your wife bring Remorse or Joy to the Free Milk you are now enjoying..."The best things in Life are Free" Unquote: a SadGuru

    • @umeshsonune7018
      @umeshsonune7018 4 роки тому

      You are funny

    • @peterq6598
      @peterq6598 4 роки тому

      @@umeshsonune7018 ...KILLING his wife to satisfy his LUST for other women is NOT funny at all...but for an Evil FRAUD who uses his wit and charm to CON women to bed is PURE EVIL and he knows it

    • @umeshsonune7018
      @umeshsonune7018 4 роки тому +2

      @@peterq6598 You still funny

    • @peterq6598
      @peterq6598 4 роки тому

      @@umeshsonune7018 Point taken Umesh and Peace & Happiness be with you...from my heart and NOT a Fraudulent lip

    • @KhushiSharma
      @KhushiSharma 4 роки тому +5

      You have 34 comments on this channel, hating on him and accusing him falsely. Saying lies multiple times doesn't make them valid. Shut it already. Get a life Peter! You might be too enlightened to hear him, so just stop watching his videos. We don't need hateful morons like you pooping everywhere on the social media.

  • @arunshankars8398
    @arunshankars8398 3 роки тому +3

    Verbal jugglery. All he does is a mashup of words like energy, system, function, dimension, cosmos, geometry, aspects, blah blah. :D :D :D :D