Past relationships matter, no high value man wants to be safe choice , every high value man wants to be the first pick. Ladies, if he doesn't care about your sexual past, he's not planning on stick around.
We shouldn't judge, but folks don't compromise your morals, beliefs, and values for someone with a high body count. Definitely not relationship material, like how many chances did they have to be in a serious relationship? 10 bodies means 10 chances, and they all didn't work out, there must be a reason. Maybe she can change, but be cautious because behaviors become habits and subconscious patterns.
personally I think body count disproportionately matters more to men than women , Many women don’t seem to mind whether a man has experience or not; in fact, some even prefer someone who has experience. For them, there's nothing to lose in that context. However, for men, the stakes feel higher, and it could even impact the success of a marriage , I perceive a high body count in women as a liability. This concern isn't about moral judgment but rather practical implications. A partner with extensive experience may bring comparison and nostalgia into the relationship, potentially undermining intimacy and satisfaction. Habits and expectations formed through past encounters can create compatibility issues, making it challenging to establish a unique and fulfilling connection. While God's forgiveness and redemption are paramount, the practical consequences of past choices cannot be ignored
A woman won't date a broke man. That's just the truth. A man is valued for his ambition and resources. A man will date a broke woman. That's just the truth. A woman is valued for her past /purity. A man is valued for his wealth and future/potential. As Paul says : "Be not deceived: God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." Galatians 6:7
The is quite interesting , many men tend to prefer marrying someone without experience over someone who has, of which it is reasonable for some practical reasons ,However, I turn to have a problemm with double standard that often accompanies this preference. It's hypocritical for men to hold women to a higher standard, They expect women to meet a certain ideal of purity , you cannot "test drive" multiple cars and then demand to buy one that has never been driven by anyone. What happens to all the cars you’ve test-driven? Although prioritizing inexperience above all else I think it is misguided. In today's world, people with a lot of experience can still become inexperienced by just going to a Doctor , People can present themselves as inexperienced even when that may not be the case, and they can conceal their past in ways that make it impossible to know. It's very tricky , We should just pray for wisdom and discernment to choose the right person .
Hi there Khaya👋🏾. "What happens to all cars you've tested driven?" Food for thought🧠. Indeed let us seek the Lord and He will grant us discernment. Thank you for watching😁.
Stepfathers are matured guys! Supporting other men kids😬💔. Talk about Christian former baddies are now handling honorable church broers🤣. Stepfathers are the guys women wouldn't date if they didn't have kids...
About the stripper girl that Sihle talked about, how does she even get judged in the church cause the saints in the church don't go to strip clubs so that means no one knows about her past. Once she's being judged it means someone also went where there weren't supposed to be and are subject to judgment as well
If i had to choose one of these ladies to marry, i would choose none. They started talking about God but their tongues is not even close to obeying and knowing Him
This is by far my favourite AdventPod episode!!!
😭the honest truth my sisters , honorable good men eat last when mileage is heavy 💔💔💔.
Hi there 👋🏾. "Nice boys finish last"? 😔 Is it all doom and gloom?
Past relationships matter, no high value man wants to be safe choice , every high value man wants to be the first pick.
Ladies, if he doesn't care about your sexual past, he's not planning on stick around.
Hi there👋🏾. Interesting view 😊, thank you for sharing this. Thank you once more for watching😁.
We shouldn't judge, but folks don't compromise your morals, beliefs, and values for someone with a high body count. Definitely not relationship material, like how many chances did they have to be in a serious relationship? 10 bodies means 10 chances, and they all didn't work out, there must be a reason.
Maybe she can change, but be cautious because behaviors become habits and subconscious patterns.
Insightful contribution of caution, Mr Moroe👌🏽. In the same wavelength, we do not condemn but we remain cautious of the consequences.
Interesting conversation on such a deep topic! Shumi and the panel need more airtime
Hi there Brad👋🏾. Thank you for tuning in😁, we are delighted that you found the conversation edifying!
personally I think body count disproportionately matters more to men than women , Many women don’t seem to mind whether a man has experience or not; in fact, some even prefer someone who has experience. For them, there's nothing to lose in that context. However, for men, the stakes feel higher, and it could even impact the success of a marriage , I perceive a high body count in women as a liability. This concern isn't about moral judgment but rather practical implications. A partner with extensive experience may bring comparison and nostalgia into the relationship, potentially undermining intimacy and satisfaction. Habits and expectations formed through past encounters can create compatibility issues, making it challenging to establish a unique and fulfilling connection.
While God's forgiveness and redemption are paramount, the practical consequences of past choices cannot be ignored
Shaming men just because you don't meet their requirements.
That's true.
Thank you for this episode ❤
I really enjoyed it
It was balanced and informative
Hi there KM👋🏾. Thank you for tuning in, we are glad that it was a delight😊.
Thank you for the consistency🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hi there Adventist Gospel Ministry👋🏾. You are more than welcome😊, thank you for watching😁.
A woman won't date a broke man. That's just the truth. A man is valued for his ambition and resources. A man will date a broke woman. That's just the truth. A woman is valued for her past /purity. A man is valued for his wealth and future/potential.
As Paul says : "Be not deceived: God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." Galatians 6:7
Indeed🙏🏽. For every action there is a reaction.
The is quite interesting , many men tend to prefer marrying someone without experience over someone who has, of which it is reasonable for some practical reasons ,However, I turn to have a problemm with double standard that often accompanies this preference. It's hypocritical for men to hold women to a higher standard, They expect women to meet a certain ideal of purity , you cannot "test drive" multiple cars and then demand to buy one that has never been driven by anyone. What happens to all the cars you’ve test-driven?
Although prioritizing inexperience above all else I think it is misguided. In today's world, people with a lot of experience can still become inexperienced by just going to a Doctor , People can present themselves as inexperienced even when that may not be the case, and they can conceal their past in ways that make it impossible to know. It's very tricky , We should just pray for wisdom and discernment to choose the right person .
Hi there Khaya👋🏾. "What happens to all cars you've tested driven?" Food for thought🧠. Indeed let us seek the Lord and He will grant us discernment. Thank you for watching😁.
Stepfathers are matured guys! Supporting other men kids😬💔.
Talk about Christian former baddies are now handling honorable church broers🤣.
Stepfathers are the guys women wouldn't date if they didn't have kids...
No church guy is honourable. You guys have this delusion of thinking that you’re holy whereas you’re not
😥This is sad!
I Love the statement that, "marriage isnt a reward"
About the stripper girl that Sihle talked about, how does she even get judged in the church cause the saints in the church don't go to strip clubs so that means no one knows about her past. Once she's being judged it means someone also went where there weren't supposed to be and are subject to judgment as well
Hi there Panashe👋🏾. Haha😆, the older brother of the prodigal son syndrome, we hear you loud and clear! Thank you for watching bro😁.
If i had to choose one of these ladies to marry, i would choose none. They started talking about God but their tongues is not even close to obeying and knowing Him
Adventists and food😂😂.