I love all the stuff the porch releases, and am thankful that I get the privilege to go back and listen to this wisdom. May God continue to bless America so we may pursue THE truth about all of these super important life topics!!! The youth NEED this and love that the porch preaches to young adults! Thank you!!!
1. When their character is not what attracts you 2. When others don't celebrate 3. When they are not ok being single 4. When you are compromising sexually
Yes young people please embrace this teaching, it’s life and death of your emotional, financial, and physical life if you aren’t equally yoked. Honor your gut if red flags come up bc God is showing you. As a believer I tried so hard to stay in a toxic marriage with one who’s deceitful, an addict of inappropriate videos, no money management. 27 years later my self worth was destroyed, no retirement, never had emotional or physical intimacy even though I asked and brought it up so many times over the years. Now broken by divorce. You cannot change anyone else and you will grieve that the one you love won’t recognize their issues and submit all to Christ. And yes he attends church and would say he’s a believer. I can’t even explain the pain our children have gone through as observers of this dysfunction.
So he attends church but does not have a relationship with God? Isn’t being sanctified daily? This make sense I lived this way for a long time in a 6 year relationship with a man that made excuses. He’d lie, was an addict, and would watch inappropriate horror movies called grunge house movies. Over and over he’d want to watch these movies and it would get really old after a while. I was in a lot of weird relationships like this where I’d give my all. Now I’m in a relationship where we are trying to put God first he’s trying to get his business running and I’m trying to find my calling. Kind of funny because we have somewhat of the same testimony. I’ve been contacting churches to help him share his testimony and he’s going to help me with google videos so that I can learn how to teach special needs participants online. If one person isn’t willing to grow and the other person is trying to fix that person it usually won’t work. God comes first and church comes second (along with church family). But as I continue to spend time with him I’m wanting to spend more time with God more then anything. So yes it’s very important to put God in front of the relationship. If the relationship is solely based on attraction it will also lead nowhere which is why I’m finding that I want to glorify God more and continue to serve. Luckily God is opening doors for me where I am able to serve.
Had to learn the first lesson (be attracted to character) and the last lesson (sex outside of marriage) the hard way… speaking from experience - don’t over look these!
The main points! 1. When their character is not what attracts you 2. When others don't celebrate 3. When they are not ok being single 4. When you are compromising sexually
Some of Us attract people who are broken... and we fall into forgiveness and grace towards them. And that I am NOT "perfect" therefore we extend that too much.
This is such a great sermon about dating & recognising the red flags. 🚩Looking back to my last relationship this truly let me understand that there were all the red flags he mentioned. This really opens my eyes.
Every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus is Lord. Bible prophecies are continuing to be fulfilled. Life and love are miracles from God each day.
I don’t know is it really all that important to be Facebook official? How is that a red flag? Should people really be concerned about Facebook? 🤔🤷♀️ I’m on the fence about this it’s a huge step because everyone then knows and it’s kind of embarrassing does the world really need to know that you’re dating online especially those that don’t even talk to you? Think about it your church knows, your friends know and everyone knows everything about everything. Lol! That’s pretty scary to me. 🤷♀️ I don’t know I’m 37 so maybe I’m just getting older and could care less about Facebook.
I think he's joking about the Facebook official! I think it's more important that the people around you that care about you know about your dating life, than all people (for example, in church) you don't even talk to. But why not tell everyone? If all is well you can be proud of your relationship.
How does The Porch not have 44 MILLION subs and not 44 thousand? This channel has so much gold you could weigh the digital content with a scale
I love all the stuff the porch releases, and am thankful that I get the privilege to go back and listen to this wisdom. May God continue to bless America so we may pursue THE truth about all of these super important life topics!!! The youth NEED this and love that the porch preaches to young adults! Thank you!!!
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38:03 🚩
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Thank you!!! ☺️
1. When their character is not what attracts you
2. When others don't celebrate
3. When they are not ok being single
4. When you are compromising sexually
Im not in my 20s or 30s. 59 actually. But i found your relationship sermons today. I find them incredibly helpful.
Yes young people please embrace this teaching, it’s life and death of your emotional, financial, and physical life if you aren’t equally yoked. Honor your gut if red flags come up bc God is showing you. As a believer I tried so hard to stay in a toxic marriage with one who’s deceitful, an addict of inappropriate videos, no money management. 27 years later my self worth was destroyed, no retirement, never had emotional or physical intimacy even though I asked and brought it up so many times over the years. Now broken by divorce. You cannot change anyone else and you will grieve that the one you love won’t recognize their issues and submit all to Christ. And yes he attends church and would say he’s a believer. I can’t even explain the pain our children have gone through as observers of this dysfunction.
So he attends church but does not have a relationship with God? Isn’t being sanctified daily? This make sense I lived this way for a long time in a 6 year relationship with a man that made excuses. He’d lie, was an addict, and would watch inappropriate horror movies called grunge house movies. Over and over he’d want to watch these movies and it would get really old after a while. I was in a lot of weird relationships like this where I’d give my all. Now I’m in a relationship where we are trying to put God first he’s trying to get his business running and I’m trying to find my calling. Kind of funny because we have somewhat of the same testimony. I’ve been contacting churches to help him share his testimony and he’s going to help me with google videos so that I can learn how to teach special needs participants online. If one person isn’t willing to grow and the other person is trying to fix that person it usually won’t work. God comes first and church comes second (along with church family). But as I continue to spend time with him I’m wanting to spend more time with God more then anything. So yes it’s very important to put God in front of the relationship. If the relationship is solely based on attraction it will also lead nowhere which is why I’m finding that I want to glorify God more and continue to serve. Luckily God is opening doors for me where I am able to serve.
Glad I was led to these teachings.
Watching from Uganda 🥰
Thank you HolySpirit.
Had to learn the first lesson (be attracted to character) and the last lesson (sex outside of marriage) the hard way… speaking from experience - don’t over look these!
The main points!
1. When their character is not what attracts you
2. When others don't celebrate
3. When they are not ok being single
4. When you are compromising sexually
Pure wisdom right here. Praise God.
Some of Us attract people who are broken... and we fall into forgiveness and grace towards them. And that I am NOT "perfect" therefore we extend that too much.
Watching from Australia this series is UNREAL God bless you guys!
This is such a great sermon about dating & recognising the red flags. 🚩Looking back to my last relationship this truly let me understand that there were all the red flags he mentioned. This really opens my eyes.
So good, needed to hear this. His timing❤️
I think his timing now. What's your IG?
So blessed with this message
All the good churches seem to be in Texas 🥺
OKC oklahoma too
right these three pastors David, JP, ,jd and Voodie all in texas.. not afraid to preach Truth not watered down
This is just what I needed to hear!
Listening from Chicago ❤️
Why is the music being played censored?
Copyright on youtube
But I’ve seen other Churches play it
@@janellharper4337 the copyright changes have made it so if it's not fair use they take down the entire video
If a man is so godly and good he can lift a woman up no matter how broken
Sorry but only God can do that! I don't think marriage is doable in this broken world! I know I don't want it for me. For others I wish you the best.
Why everytime you play a song does a video go silent there's no sound
Nicole Lowande it’s probably copywrighted so they don’t have the rights to play it
Cant hear the songs that they mention if they played them in the background ...
Thank you for this video.
Does anyone know why JP left the Porch?
he was voted in as the pastor of Harris Creek in Waco, TX
Kibet Rose Thank you so much :)
@@bintimrembo24 Didn’t he have surgery? I thought he gave up a kidney for the guy named “Ryan”? 🤔
Every knee will bow and every tongue will confess that Jesus is Lord. Bible prophecies are continuing to be fulfilled. Life and love are miracles from God each day.
There's Goldie Hawn and Kurt Russell not even married but they do it great or kevin bacon and his wife (married)
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I don’t know is it really all that important to be Facebook official? How is that a red flag? Should people really be concerned about Facebook? 🤔🤷♀️ I’m on the fence about this it’s a huge step because everyone then knows and it’s kind of embarrassing does the world really need to know that you’re dating online especially those that don’t even talk to you? Think about it your church knows, your friends know and everyone knows everything about everything. Lol! That’s pretty scary to me. 🤷♀️
I don’t know I’m 37 so maybe I’m just getting older and could care less about Facebook.
I think he's joking about the Facebook official! I think it's more important that the people around you that care about you know about your dating life, than all people (for example, in church) you don't even talk to. But why not tell everyone? If all is well you can be proud of your relationship.
Why is it always negative ? Why can’t there be more messages about Gods confirmation and green flags ?
Wow!!💖💖😮💨
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mhm
Where are the green flags messages. Fr😂