I've been married to a Canadian white woman for 28 years. Although there is a lot of cultural differences to overcome during the course of our marriage, at the end of the day it's really about the chemistry between the two individuals and their commitment to their relationship. I didn't purposely look for a white woman, but she happened to show up in my life at the right moment and we complement each other and the rest is history. IMO both Chinese and Western womens are equally attractive in their own special ways.
Fun video! Nice to see an AMWF couple break down a video with this subject matter. But yeah, we need more foreign women in China/Asia and for the men to pursue them!
U're both intellectually compatible, able to accept each other's culture n converse in each other's language. So, continue to deepen ur relationship n good luck !
Kristin hit it right on the head! It’s mostly a numbers game and a situation of supply and demand at a specific time and circumstance one finds oneself in. To me, Kristin is very pretty, just the kind of looks I prefer. I in fact dated a girl that looks just like her in Penn State eons age. Zhiyi is very lucky to have her as his wife, a beautiful and intelligent woman who even learned Mandarin. Best of luck to you both!
Zhiyi is indeed extremely lucky, if he didn't meet Kristin, he would probably never meet another American this pretty and is crazy about Chinese culture. Let's be generous here, say there's maybe 1% population in the U.S. are actively learning Chinese and want to marry Chinese guy. Kristin is at least top 10% quality girl overall in the U.S. based on my experience on swiping dating apps. That's 1/1000 chance for Zhiyi to find a girl like Kristin. On the other hand, there's is 100% Chinese in the U.S. are actively learning English. PHD, masters, scholar like Zhiyi are common in the U.S. Girl like Kristin, would have an easy date with any Chinese guy, nobody would say no unless the guy is not confident enough to date her. Basically guaranteed to find a Chinese boyfriend more or less like Zhiyi. I'm not saying Zhiyi is not outstanding, he is. He could be top 1% easily in overall China, but in U.S. there are many people that's on a close level as him. Because the people Kristin can meet who can come to U.S. and get to master degree and above are all elites. (of course there's china town chinese only dudes, they won't have the balls to date american girl) If she walks on the street in China, every single man wants to have a shot at her. If he walks on the street in U.S., average single ladies would have 0 romantic interest in him.
Don't think you two look alike but you two are compatible with each other. Main thing is getting along well together, give and take. Happy wife happy life!
I had a crush on Sharika too, after watching her live performance for WC 2006. She ended up marrying my favorite football defender Pique. BTW Kristin is much prettier than Scarlett Johansson or Emma Watson by Chinese aesthetics.
I'm a couple of years off of retirement and seriously eyeing China as a place to retire. Maybe I'll have better luck with guys there than I am here. (Canadian in Alaska). 🇨🇦🇺🇸
It was definitely a numbers game for me. My teenage years and early adulthood (until college) were spent in communities that are primarily white. I could count the number of Asian girls in my schools with two hands.
I'm American polish descent girl and I now have a boyfriend from Chongqing city. I wouldn't say we look alike at all but I'm curious what advice you have for me in terms of dating? So far we date two months but things are moving a bit fast. We are both a bit passionate towards each other. I know in order to make a relationship last it's best to go slower. I find asian men very attractive but my other boyfriend before him was Asian American Vietnamese , Not from China. So I want to understand him more and his way of thinking so we can meet more halfway sometimes. I would love to hear your advice ! ❤
In fact, it is a very simple issue: cultural export。 In the framework of more than 100 years of global capitalism, whoever has more economic power has gained leadership in all aspects.
A very good wife, able to cook tomatoes n fried eggs.., adding new taste of ingredients of onions.,. That's how I cooked in Britain., onions are a must ingredient in most dishes.
Your wife is cute and pretty. The content is the most important. Simple and happy life, with 2-3 children, love care sharing everything of hardship and happiness,
I’m so much like American girl because they’re often laughing and very postive . I really like making friends with America girl. Important America girl often have some interesting hobbies like skating dancing or something . I’m very quiet down boy but when I meet America girl make myself so much sunshine 🌞
I think it depends on the relative level of economic development.For example, more Eastern European girls marry Chinese boys than Chinese girls marry Eastern European boys.
大家記著任何外國女性也是人,他們與你們自己國家女性有所不同是文化背景和成長環境,用害怕結識她 everybody remember that everyone foreign female is human, they and yourself country female is different of culture background and grow up environment, don't fear date it
Glad you two are changing stereotypes that Caucasian women don't like to date or marry Asian men. The western media has propagated this racist stereotype by portraying Asian men as weak, shy, geeky, introverted emasculated men that are sexless. I am Chinese but born in Costa Rica living in California and unfortunately I've seen that those stereotypes do play a part in the dating world sometimes. Luckily I'm not shy and being born in the west, I don't see western women any different than other women though there are slight differences so to me dating them isn't a new thing and I'm not shy to approach them.
There is still a portion % of that is true however. But there is also the lingering misconception that white women assumes asian men aren't interested in them because they are hardly approached by them and such. I wonder which one outweighs the other. I'm asian myself and more interested in a Caucasian women than an Asian women aha.
Here's another perspective ... perhaps Alpha males like dependent women while Sigma males like independent women, and vice versa. This perspective cuts across cultures as it focuses on the intrinsic parts of males and females.
I don't know where the image of chinese girl are dependant came from. To be fair, it is a personal behaviour that either women and men could have, regardless to what their race is. And, yes, I agree that it is tiring. I also wrote 'behaviour' because one may changes from dependant to independent, vice versa, due to many factors in life. Btw, thx for the video guys. Keep busy and healthy. 😊
Yeah I also wonder if this stereotype of Chinese women being "dependent" is even true 🤔 Most of the Chinese women I know are very confident and capable! -Kristin
Has Kristin ever received comparisons to Ronda Rousey or Julia Stiles? The Chinese standard might overtake the American standard one day if China becomes the world's leading superpower, lol. You're already seeing pockets of Asian influence in the West with South Korea's K-pop and K-dramas, though.
My question is actually I was thinking whether any of the Westerner Girls from either North America or other Western Countries who are independent have been to Singapore until now still staying in Singapore to become Singapore Citizens who can drive a car, intelligent like my mom doing good things, always bringing me out for fun, cooking food for me, taking care of me still as a kids, speak fluent Mandarin & so on...I'm over 40 years old but I don't drive any cars. So, I was wondering does anybody who can help me that I just mentioned please? Thank you!
You are like each other. Not all people see and perceive similarities, such as faces. The resemblance is not a copy. It can manifest as eyebrow slope, eye position, nose shape, facial expressions, grimaces and the like. ( This is due to the anthropological unconscious choice of partner.) When you see two faces side by side, those who are able to see what is common or different, immediately perceive this unifying quality, although sometimes they cannot even substantiate what they are really seeing. Of course, not all couples are necessarily the same. When it comes to the same-race couples, the similarity is easer to perceive. I follow many international couples - bloggers , so I can say for sure that the similarity of couples does not depend on the race. ( Also in this - the choice of best genetic partner - sense as well).
Honestly and genuinely speaking, as long as the girl ain't looking like navii people in AVATAR who gives a rat's ass about if she is white, black, yellow, and brown. As long as she is a Homo sapien and she knows how to face life with a sense of humor F@#!k it let have a laugh.
Kristin的长相在中国审美里也很漂亮,笑起来很好看,性格也很自然开朗,不矫情。这可不是什么美国大妞,明明是“美国甜心”。
中国人只要是白都喜欢的啦
I've been married to a Canadian white woman for 28 years. Although there is a lot of cultural differences to overcome during the course of our marriage, at the end of the day it's really about the chemistry between the two individuals and their commitment to their relationship. I didn't purposely look for a white woman, but she happened to show up in my life at the right moment and we complement each other and the rest is history. IMO both Chinese and Western womens are equally attractive in their own special ways.
Well said. 👍
英文是多年來國際化的語言,學習漢語也是近年來國際化的趨勢,21世紀以來比較強勢的語言溝通工具。思婷姑娘,個性活潑,滿面笑容,人緣很好,有緣與中國先生結為夫妻,利用年輕時記憶力好,學習力強,好好把漢語學好,多認識一種文化,豐富自己的精神生活,視頻中感覺您已努力的在學習中文,God bless you, thanks for sharing !
思婷的汉语水平越来越好了!Kristin speak Mandarin much better than before, congrats!
你们俩好好可爱!! 我是哥伦比亚人,从小时候对中国文化有趣。到现在交很多中国人的朋友,(我喜欢的男孩也是中国人嘻嘻,害羞),很多次他们觉得拉美的女生比较活力open-minded等等,我觉得就是stereotypes,不管什么国籍每个人有不同的特点,有自己的缺点。约会来说的话,可能就是按照自己的想法!
那边哥伦比亚的中国人比较少吧,你是为什么开始感兴趣的呢?
@@freddy7618 哦哦哦是因为我爸爸的公司在中国做很多生意所以他有一个中国人的同事。我四岁的时候,那个同事邀请我爸爸去吃饭,我陪爸爸去。然后他给我看中国的照片,一起试试中国的食物,教我一些单词。。。同年是北京2008奥运会,在学校历史的课我关于北京做一个项目。然后越来越多有兴趣,发现我的梦想一直是在中国学习,但是我就从去年开始自己学习中文。
@@ukiyomi 牛,不是中国人却可以自学中文到可以在网上发帖,不错
最近才知道,波哥大是一个高海拔城市呀,而且市容很漂亮,现化化,地铁系统一点也不比中国一线城市差
中国文化博大经深,文化越多,他的文化上的习惯也就越多,,想和中国人一起生活,大家要做出的文化上的让步,对彼此也就越多,
不过中国文化真的世界上少有的丰富多彩,,
You are awesome and so talented in language learning!
是的🙂↕️ 我的女朋友也是加拿大🇨🇦local白人。我们相处很融洽🎉🎉 我是篮球队的 裸身高186.5 会做饭 喜欢说唱😂 我们也在一起两年了🎉🎉
This is my favorite channel now! Love the stories of 钢铁直男学霸&American sweetheart!!
Fun video! Nice to see an AMWF couple break down a video with this subject matter. But yeah, we need more foreign women in China/Asia and for the men to pursue them!
U're both intellectually compatible, able to accept each other's culture n converse in each other's language. So, continue to deepen
ur relationship n good luck !
cool video and LMFAO Kristin, you nailed that Shakira impersonation haha
Thanks, I've been working on it for over a decade 💃💃💃
I really like you 2 who does not looks like but accent much more similar while Kristing speaking Chinese !
我很喜欢这个话题和你们讨论问题的方式。这个主题基本上是讨论表层的现象,但实际上与价值观取向息息相关。
这个老婆在华人观点就还不错。眼睛亮,身材好,看起来阳光。
感觉美国的妹纸都太过于奔放,太过于大大咧咧了!不怎么喜欢!
不喜欢美国妞,美国妞感觉都太大大咧咧!相对开讲更喜欢欧洲妞,艾玛沃特森那种的!
率真
@@FUNNY-BIRDS. 美国大妞不如中国妹纸娇小秀气!
按照中国人审美标准只能算是一般!在美国大妞里面算可以了!
不管怎么说,你们两个是最好的一对吧!都挺好的
粉丝增加了,每个视频观看量也增加不少,恭喜!加油!✊
Kristin hit it right on the head! It’s mostly a numbers game and a situation of supply and demand at a specific time and circumstance one finds oneself in. To me, Kristin is very pretty, just the kind of looks I prefer. I in fact dated a girl that looks just like her in Penn State eons age. Zhiyi is very lucky to have her as his wife, a beautiful and intelligent woman who even learned Mandarin. Best of luck to you both!
Zhiyi is indeed extremely lucky, if he didn't meet Kristin, he would probably never meet another American this pretty and is crazy about Chinese culture.
Let's be generous here, say there's maybe 1% population in the U.S. are actively learning Chinese and want to marry Chinese guy. Kristin is at least top 10% quality girl overall in the U.S. based on my experience on swiping dating apps.
That's 1/1000 chance for Zhiyi to find a girl like Kristin.
On the other hand, there's is 100% Chinese in the U.S. are actively learning English. PHD, masters, scholar like Zhiyi are common in the U.S. Girl like Kristin, would have an easy date with any Chinese guy, nobody would say no unless the guy is not confident enough to date her.
Basically guaranteed to find a Chinese boyfriend more or less like Zhiyi. I'm not saying Zhiyi is not outstanding, he is. He could be top 1% easily in overall China, but in U.S. there are many people that's on a close level as him. Because the people Kristin can meet who can come to U.S. and get to master degree and above are all elites. (of course there's china town chinese only dudes, they won't have the balls to date american girl)
If she walks on the street in China, every single man wants to have a shot at her.
If he walks on the street in U.S., average single ladies would have 0 romantic interest in him.
@@MarcoAshford🇨🇳❤️🔥🇺🇸!!
🚹 🚺
Kristin is beautiful to the current Chinese aesthetic.
Thanks for your patience while we've been VERY BUSY these past few weeks! 😅😬🙏💖💖
Just do the best you can - Don't sweat it.
不喜欢美国妞,美国妞感觉都太大大咧咧!相对开讲更喜欢欧洲妞,艾玛沃特森那种的!
Social media definitely helps change many things in this area. 百闻不如一见。
Really great topic for discussion, I hope we see more of these 🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍
Don't think you two look alike but you two are compatible with each other. Main thing is getting along well together, give and take. Happy wife happy life!
Thank you for this wonderful video. Keep it up.
我不认为现在的中国女生很小鸟依人,我觉得中国女人很做作,而且娇气,外柔内刚,我很喜欢西方的女孩,他们很懂浪漫,然后特别有趣,不会要求男生有车有房还完全顺着女生的意愿去做各种事。
What did Kristin major in? She sounds like an intellectual. A down-to-earth couple!
只看长相每个地区各有特点都有好看的,相处在一起还要考虑文化教育三观等内在的
思婷很有明星气质!
I had a crush on Sharika too, after watching her live performance for WC 2006. She ended up marrying my favorite football defender Pique. BTW Kristin is much prettier than Scarlett Johansson or Emma Watson by Chinese aesthetics.
your channel is wonderful, jia you Jia you !!
I'm a couple of years off of retirement and seriously eyeing China as a place to retire. Maybe I'll have better luck with guys there than I am here. (Canadian in Alaska). 🇨🇦🇺🇸
Fun, light hearted conversation. Unfortunately wide of the mark.
You guys make a beautiful couple.... show the world that love conquers all
You two are prefect match!
Okay, now THIS was fun to watch
As people we are all the same but different culture gives some spice to it.
It was definitely a numbers game for me. My teenage years and early adulthood (until college) were spent in communities that are primarily white. I could count the number of Asian girls in my schools with two hands.
其实每个国家的女性都有不同的特点,是否约会成功心仪的对象,主要还是看你自己怎么去对待了和那位约会的对象是否真的合的来了。
I'm American polish descent girl and I now have a boyfriend from Chongqing city. I wouldn't say we look alike at all but I'm curious what advice you have for me in terms of dating? So far we date two months but things are moving a bit fast. We are both a bit passionate towards each other. I know in order to make a relationship last it's best to go slower. I find asian men very attractive but my other boyfriend before him was Asian American Vietnamese , Not from China. So I want to understand him more and his way of thinking so we can meet more halfway sometimes. I would love to hear your advice ! ❤
In fact, it is a very simple issue: cultural export。
In the framework of more than 100 years of global capitalism, whoever has more economic power has gained leadership in all aspects.
我希望你们能够快乐生活在一起。亚男是地位最低的,但我希望你们包括我作为亚男能够不断变强也让白女接受我们。祝你好运,美国女孩kristin。
They look totally different; Kristin is much much much more beautiful and attractive
赞一个,好像很久没跟新了吧👍
视频中这个男生完全不行。能找到这么高质量的美国白人女孩纯属运气,不具有代表性。也就是中国男生在国外能不能找到白人女孩完全取决于有没有喜欢中国文化的白人女孩撞上他。其他什么气质长相生活习惯等都是配菜,是次要的。
Interesting topic
不管哪国的女生,只要感觉对,而且她觉得和你在一起很有安全感。
比较喜欢外国人,主要是因为好奇,新鲜和未知,其实除了成长环境,教育/价值观和文化因素外,每个人都是一样的。
感觉美国的妹纸都太过于奔放,太过于大大咧咧了!不怎么喜欢!
@@powerfulstrong5673 Up主就很可爱啊,我觉得她性格超棒
A very good wife, able to cook tomatoes n fried eggs.., adding new taste of ingredients of onions.,. That's how I cooked in Britain., onions are a must ingredient in most dishes.
Your wife is cute and pretty. The content is the most important. Simple and happy life, with 2-3 children, love care sharing everything of hardship and happiness,
克里斯汀比很多女明星要漂亮,并且很爱笑。我非常喜欢你们的内容
「情人眼裡出西施」,只要真的愛上、喜歡上了,眼裏就是潘安,就是西施,所以標準是沒有絕對的......
很好看
Both of you have very pretty teeth and are very smart.
I’m so much like American girl because they’re often laughing and very postive . I really like making friends with America girl. Important America girl often have some interesting hobbies like skating dancing or something . I’m very quiet down boy but when I meet America girl make myself so much sunshine 🌞
I think it depends on the relative level of economic development.For example, more Eastern European girls marry Chinese boys than Chinese girls marry Eastern European boys.
I think the Korean beauty standard is more influential over here in Asia though.
大家記著任何外國女性也是人,他們與你們自己國家女性有所不同是文化背景和成長環境,用害怕結識她
everybody remember that everyone foreign female is human, they and yourself country female is different of culture background and grow up environment, don't fear date it
我个人觉得瞳孔颜色很吸引人,很期待和瞳孔颜色漂亮的交往,要是是异瞳就更美了
80 年代我爰西方女人,90s 喜欢华人女子,印度女人,2000s 喜欢 thai girl,,现在喜欢韓国的韓佳人,孙艺珍,,so, u see what i mean....也是一种 influence,+ culture,,,,,
I guess by 夫妻相,it really means that you have a *couple look* not necessarily that you both look alike. Like you fit well as a couple
Admiring is the word not staring at
现在的一般华人背景,Kristin 是一个 很漂亮的女生。
Glad you two are changing stereotypes that Caucasian women don't like to date or marry Asian men. The western media has propagated this racist stereotype by portraying Asian men as weak, shy, geeky, introverted emasculated men that are sexless.
I am Chinese but born in Costa Rica living in California and unfortunately I've seen that those stereotypes do play a part in the dating world sometimes. Luckily I'm not shy and being born in the west, I don't see western women any different than other women though there are slight differences so to me dating them isn't a new thing and I'm not shy to approach them.
There is still a portion % of that is true however. But there is also the lingering misconception that white women assumes asian men aren't interested in them because they are hardly approached by them and such. I wonder which one outweighs the other. I'm asian myself and more interested in a Caucasian women than an Asian women aha.
哇...你们好像诶.....特别是牙齿! 我学到新知识了!
Good lucky bro you’re find very good American girl she is so positive and like laughing
我觉的那个男生说的爬山和冲浪,可能就是字面意思,没有那方面的联想!
因为她们俩是老司机😂😂
我也是这么认为,女孩觉得这个太普通了以为是什么暗语哈哈
What amazing about white girl is their colour eye , thin hair and softly skin. Mostly they are really nice and open minded .
能不能做一期节目评价老外喜欢眯眯眼的中国女性?
我觉得西方姑娘的美丽不仅在外貌,更是因为她们作为西方人的真性情,诚实无伪,直率坦白的心思意念再加上她们的外貌而更为美丽。我出生在中国,18岁去了日本,37岁来到了加拿大,我发现自己的审美观变了。以前觉得亚洲尤其是日本女人比较美,后来才发现可能是错觉,因为发现现在的自己更喜欢金发蓝眼的白人姑娘了,那种美实在是让人陶醉。
两个人能交流感情,经济,文化,爱好一些基础上契合才能结合一起生活,中国的男女比例失调,女权主义横行,加剧婚姻人口等问题,up能去美国娶老婆摆国内也不是一般人
独立和小鸟依人,可以并存的吧
很好奇外國女生對(亞洲)東方男生的刻板印象是什麼?
😂所有的理工科大学都是7:1吗 老哥是哪个大学的
Here's another perspective ... perhaps Alpha males like dependent women while Sigma males like independent women, and vice versa. This perspective cuts across cultures as it focuses on the intrinsic parts of males and females.
I don't know where the image of chinese girl are dependant came from. To be fair, it is a personal behaviour that either women and men could have, regardless to what their race is. And, yes, I agree that it is tiring. I also wrote 'behaviour' because one may changes from dependant to independent, vice versa, due to many factors in life. Btw, thx for the video guys. Keep busy and healthy. 😊
Yeah I also wonder if this stereotype of Chinese women being "dependent" is even true 🤔 Most of the Chinese women I know are very confident and capable! -Kristin
@@kristinandzhiyi Maybe that guy in the video hasn't dated any girls Chinese or Western!! So he doesn't actually know
@@manwaiyeung7553 to be super honest, that's the vibe I got from him LOL 😅😅😅
小鸟依人型太累+1😂
还是很喜欢美国女孩,ig 上认识了个信基督教的美国女孩。想谈甚欢,而且美国女生交流很容易。只要有共同的兴趣爱好很容易交流
long time no see.....
Has Kristin ever received comparisons to Ronda Rousey or Julia Stiles?
The Chinese standard might overtake the American standard one day if China becomes the world's leading superpower, lol. You're already seeing pockets of Asian influence in the West with South Korea's K-pop and K-dramas, though.
作为一个14岁过后在北欧长大的中国男人,我觉得我比较有发言权,我敢100%肯定,中国男生的长绝对是外国女生喜欢的,当然我在国内也算中上的长相,但是到了北欧过后直接封神,中国男生的长相绝对没有问题的,基本上除了在东亚竞争力不那么强,其他地区女生看中国男的都觉得很有异域风情的感觉,这和我以前电视里了解到的完全相反,这是我亲身经历。
My question is actually I was thinking whether any of the Westerner Girls from either North America or other Western Countries who are independent have been to Singapore until now still staying in Singapore to become Singapore Citizens who can drive a car, intelligent like my mom doing good things, always bringing me out for fun, cooking food for me, taking care of me still as a kids, speak fluent Mandarin & so on...I'm over 40 years old but I don't drive any cars. So, I was wondering does anybody who can help me that I just mentioned please? Thank you!
You are not looking for a wife but a chauffeur and cook.
对于小鸟依人还是独立的女性,小孩子才做选择,我都喜欢。
Hi Kristin, do you think your husband looks like American Indian sometimes? The skin colour, the eyes and face shape?.
👍👍👍
You are like each other. Not all people see and perceive similarities, such as faces. The resemblance is not a copy. It can manifest as eyebrow slope, eye position, nose shape, facial expressions, grimaces and the like. ( This is due to the anthropological unconscious choice of partner.) When you see two faces side by side, those who are able to see what is common or different, immediately perceive this unifying quality, although sometimes they cannot even substantiate what they are really seeing. Of course, not all couples are necessarily the same. When it comes to the same-race couples, the similarity is easer to perceive. I follow many international couples - bloggers , so I can say for sure that the similarity of couples does not depend on the race. ( Also in this - the choice of best genetic partner - sense as well).
7:1 .... congrats, ustcer!
我认为西方男人找东方女人做妻子,多是基于好奇和误会。西方女性我喜欢,独立且比东方女性更保守
我也喜欢Shakira ,不是只听过几首她的西文歌曲,思婷哼唱的是哪一首。
Kristin很像电影明星呢
NICE
This is stereotype about white female for they are open mind to everything. It's just like all Chinese man know Kung Fu. 🤣🤣🤣
Hi.Kristin look like Katie Holmes.
up 主长得有几分像小李子,有几分像艾玛斯通,标准的白人美女,应该能排到 top 1% - 2 % 水准了。
喜欢思婷这样的女生
該獨立時獨立,該小鳥依人時小鳥依人!
喜欢阳光健康的 有朝气的女孩
小学生才做选择
Honestly and genuinely speaking, as long as the girl ain't looking like navii people in AVATAR who gives a rat's ass about if she is white, black, yellow, and brown. As long as she is a Homo sapien and she knows how to face life with a sense of humor F@#!k it let have a laugh.
Marketing, prejudice, mental health issue ie hyperbolic decay function, reason a white American girl will marry an inmate with life sentence
因為思婷的外觀,很像亞洲人!
美国女生比较开朗?,yes,it’s true.当你试图约会她的时候,她会开朗到直接叫你geek
Admire
中国男人都喜欢圆脸的美国女子!