Spot on reading! He acted like a fool, and now I'm seeing that he is a coward. He will respond if I were to reach out, but I refuse. He has to come correct and realize just how much I bring to his life. The chemistry is intense and I love him. Glad to hear the good news in this reading. We shall see.
If we believe in our own transformation, we have to believe it's possible for all. Forgiveness and self love will bring you the best energy to you for your highest good.
Having my next level wake up. I know he's hurting and I have to watch from a distance. He doesn't love himself. He needs to forgive himself, etc. I love him so much, but I've worked too hard to go backwards. Best to you 💝
Spot on with everything. I’m a Leo. He cheated, lied, put me down behind my back to everyone and then publicly shamed me calling me a narcissist and paranoid when I found out. August 3 was when I walked away from him and walking away was the best thing that ever happened to me. You’re amazing ❤️
Cowardly Sagittarius abruptly dumped me (Capricorn). I did nothing to deserve him doing that. I’ve blocked him on everything. I’ve since healed myself ❤️🩹 and if I ever see him again it will be too soon. Come on 2025!!🎉🎉❤❤😂
As a female Sag with Venus in Capricorn I feel like I have to say something about this. I dated a couple Capps who were funny, a little bit dark, with strong values and opinions which I'm attracted to. But as soon as we were getting serious, they lost their opinions and values. Just got sappy comments all day, which, I have to be honest, wasn't so attractive. I love strong conversations. And as a Venus in Cap recently I had to realize I did the exact same thing in relationships. I lost my fire, and it turned off the other. I had to heal this last year and learn to keep my discernment even when dating. Maybe this helps clear things up a bit...
@ I’m an Aries with a Cap rising. The Sag I know was a liar and a cheat. But also a coward. He killed the fire because I realized that he does this same game on every woman he meets. He can’t be loyal to anyone. It’s impossible for him. However, it took almost a year of crying and torture to reach the point where I could say that so casually. No honor whatsoever. But no worries. There always seems to be another woman waiting around every single corner. To me, I think Sag will be the worst sign on earth for the rest of eternity.
@@katherynemero4118 So sorry to hear that...he sounds like a very unhealed Sag. We can be fluttery in love at times, but usually not with the intention to hurt. On behalf of all Saggies I apologize😔 And if it helps, I got ghosted by my Aquarius and waited 15 years for him to return. Only to find out last year that he moved on and married someone else. So I also had a year of (very Capricorn) crying and torture. I ruined my own love life, waiting for someone who didn't feel the same as I did.
@ I’m sorry to hear yours too. I think this is all a bit overwhelming, having your feelings crushed by someone else. But I think you just validated my thought process. I now realize that what I have been feeling is unrequited. I see that there is nothing more that can be done. It’s best to just keep going my own way so I don’t ruin my chances for a love life. I mean, if love is even meant to be in my life at all. I don’t know. Maybe it’s not. Thank you for having this conversation with me. You have helped me process this information positively.
Yep I did put him in his place - the last message I sent him was telling him I don’t play games with players , I don’t lower my standards to entertain liars , manipulative men who have zero stability in their lives. I told him to seek therapy for his childhood wounds. I did tell him when he’s ready to apologise I would listen but until then I release him with love and light. He then blocked me.
Thank you 🙏🏻. I needed to hear this. He was a player and he struggled to admit he fell deeply for me. He pulled back, dated many more serially whilst I stayed grounded and worked on myself. I watched him with different women. Last night (New Year’s Eve) he came to give me a hug. He was alone in the local bar and I sensed his loneliness. He said he spent Christmas alone. I was with my family and friends. I know he still loves me but he has so much pride to admit it and return to me. I’m not going to give him an olive branch. I’m moving on. ❤
I’m grateful for Karma! I saw him on a dating app last night and said hi, just to annoy him! Then removed him! Painful ending for me. But I’ll come up better than ever. He will never have access to me again.
To funny you did that. Not that you got hurt. But it's like with the "hi" you gave him a spiritual punch and walked away. Great job. Happy New Years. Here's to finding someone who reciprocates, takes accountability and has that mentality of when apart before doing someth8ng be able to see how it could make the other feel and not do it if it would hurt the partner. Sending love and light. ❤
Thanks for another great reading, Elle! It resonates in many ways. SP is sag, Im gem, and we are TF’s. He chose to stay in his old connection without affection or appreciation due to fears of harm to his reputation, financial loss and loss of material comfort. I never completely cut him off, so the Universe stepped in! Everything is lining up so he has less and less privacy and can’t even text anymore. At the same time his shortness of is getting worse, yet he is in great physical health. Go figure!… I deeply love him and always will. But I am okay on my own. Surrendering TF connection to the Divine and focusing on myself. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️
As a gentleman and a high vibrational Scorpion 🦂 male, I have respectfully and honestly expressed my true thoughts and feelings, as opposed to holding these powerful truths inside. These get heavier as time goes forth and eventually get expressed in ways that may not be so healthy or clear. This is considered my duty as a decent human Being, but also, as a child of God who takes full responsibility of my whole Being. So, as far as the man making the move towards who he is in love with, I have overdone more than expected. I have also written that regardless of outcome or any creature in existence, that there is always a place, space, and energy within me belonging to her which shall be found eternal. I, myself, cannot steal, kill, or destroy this Sacred Love for her, within me. This Being so true, leaves much much to be managed. Great reading. HNY!! All the love dear one. Namaste 🙏 🌹🙏
I love this, my person is high vibrating scorpion, but shy of commitment and enjoying his bachelor hood. So whilst I’ve expressed he is my favourite person/fwb, I won’t go further then that as I don’t think he wants further then that. I’m all about freedom and liberation and courage to be and live in one’s authentic truth from the heart space❣️ 💟☮️🌄🌈
Again I resonate with your reading. Thank you Soul Fire Tarot. 🙏💜 Our love was so intense. We are soulmates and this is a divine connection. That's right, I did not take his bs! Yes, he is a player, and I even told him that. He is 42 years old, and his longest relationship lasted only eight months! He has lots of fears and insecurities. But I can feel that something is shifting in his energy now. I recently got a message from him saying that he has feelings for me and that he misses me, but that he prefers to be single and free. And now he has friendzoned me! I have walked away from him now, focusing on myself now. 🙌❤ I know that he will be back in the right divine timing, when he has learnt his lessons, grown, evolved, and transformed. He might apologize to me. Either he steps up, or he steps out! All or nothing! Because I'm an empress, knowing my value and deserving more than he has offered me. 💃✨💗I will see if I will take him back or not.
I’m just going to put this out there. This is the new year and a new beginning. Reading all of your comments mirrors mine and none of this is healthy. It’s torture and not good for us. My guy stalks me knows everything I’m doing, shows up to my regular places, uses business to come to my place to stay for hours in my company but won’t say how he feels. He does this yet has a lady companion. So why should any of us put up with this? I say take your energy, love and power back. Love yourself first, you deserve it and cut them off. They’re only using us for an energetic boost like a drug addict just to come and go. You deserve way better than this. Why would you want to make yourself miserable tethering yourself to someone toxic. Cut them off, don’t look back and move into bigger and better things in 2025. Find someone who will give back to you in equal measure. Life shouldn’t be hell it should be bliss. That’s my dream for us all.
When you are on a spiritual path, things do not hold the traditional meaning to you; and others rules, standards, expectations etc. do not hold as much water. Then you operate from heart & intuition. Beautiful. It’s taken me 75 years to trust this. But I do now 🎉
You ( I wish I knew your name) were so accurately describing what is and has happened to “us” in the last 2 1/2 yrs. Here’s my question. You sounded like this relationship has really high potential. I go between “feeling like I know” and “can you go from “not trust worthy in many aspects of your life (his,) , to trusting 15:42 knowingly knowing?”
Had a crush on a neighbor yrs ago. Didnt realize he was much younger than me. So i only wanted friendship. But since i didnt physically look as beautiful as my sis he pursued her and after i confised in her, she betrayed me by dating him behind my back and she slandered my reputation so he can avoid me. Both of them shattered my heart . Thanks
You hit the nail on the head! HE HURT MY FEELINGS VERY VERY BAD. This is the “only child “ the son of a momma that doesn’t want another woman in her son’s life but her (his mom). He is a COWARDLY LION. He is a Leo!
Nice to hear but not making the first move, I do want to stay in that Empress energy haha. So if the universe wants us to end up together I will let the powers that be make it happen.
Whatever was left in 2024 will stay... no more settling for breadcrumbs... keep moving forward and dont look back 💯 he had the chance to act right... he chose to ghost me for his actions or lack there of...no sir kick rocks
Dec 27 he called to catch up and say sorry for everything...when I asked him why now he just said nothing..Im not naive to think he is hoovering me after nc 4 mths...ignoring his calls...i just want to move on...2 yrs on off narc avoidant behaviour im done...i want a new true love
He needs to PROVE TO ME BEFORE I WILL EVER LET HIM BACK IN MY LIFE ESPECIALLY CLOSE TO MY HEART! I do intimidate him. Tell him he needs to come to me. He just lives 5 miles east of me.
6:27 💯 until someone can really introspect and take accountability for their actions or behaviors, any apology is just to feed their ego and lower self. No thanks
He’s the one that walked away, he’s the one that’s hiding ( hermit ) He caused unnecessary drama and made an impulsive decision to break up with me for nothing! Yeesss he’s totally playing the victim Grow up & apologize!!! He has to come forward I will not reach out ! He’s the one that broke up with me for no reason The last time he contacted me on Thanksgiving after three months he had not changed. He was still angry. If he wants to come back, he has to change and fix his issues bc I’m not gonna take any more BS !! The last time I talked to him, I sent him a message and said the reason that we’re broke up is because of YOUR issues !! I’m not flirting with him and I’m not reaching out He’s LUCKY if I give him another chance if HE DOES come forward
He needs to communicate to me with his voice. Yeah I wanted attention from him for a very long time. Terry come and be honest with me and straight up come tell me in person!
Lol the punk can't get his shit together with her and that's why he can't have her because he communication skills are trash and can't handle my baby. The punk thought that he was so smooth and she broke him down 😂 I love the fact that he can't have her but yet he keeps trying to get with her and I am going to make it hard for this bamma. If anyone wants to be with her, they will have to meet me b4 I let her be in another relationship. She is my best friend and the mother of my kids. 💯💔❤️🩹✌🏽
Oh please lol he ghosted me after like one week before our one year anniversary to go and throw his new girlfriend I guess in my face on social media and I didn’t react to it yes he’s young then me he’s calling her his wifey lol but said the same thing to me he has a big ego because he’s a handsome man but I don’t play into that it seems he’s doing things to get my attention and it’s not working I actually glowed up after so I look at it as a win he can stay with who he thinks is better because it wasn’t me he ghosted me so now he has to deal with what he went after
Spot on reading! He acted like a fool, and now I'm seeing that he is a coward. He will respond if I were to reach out, but I refuse. He has to come correct and realize just how much I bring to his life. The chemistry is intense and I love him. Glad to hear the good news in this reading. We shall see.
Not for me. It's OVER. DONE. PERIOD. I have moved on.
If we believe in our own transformation, we have to believe it's possible for all. Forgiveness and self love will bring you the best energy to you for your highest good.
Having my next level wake up. I know he's hurting and I have to watch from a distance. He doesn't love himself. He needs to forgive himself, etc. I love him so much, but I've worked too hard to go backwards. Best to you 💝
True!
@@TheDailySherpasame
If he'd come forward, I'd let him speak his piece...
Men are natural hunters, remember that.
He can speak it. Not a thing will change my mind or feelings. It is over. Done. Period. I have moved on.
@solvsg1977 that is exactly why I will not reach out to him. I'm standing in my Empress energy.
This was spot on for me even down to August 3! He walked away and I did not chase after him. Thank you for this reading.
He needs to grow up!
OMG! You are so right in. What you just said. He is a LEO!
Has he gone through the Karmic cycle yet?
Spot on with everything. I’m a Leo. He cheated, lied, put me down behind my back to everyone and then publicly shamed me calling me a narcissist and paranoid when I found out. August 3 was when I walked away from him and walking away was the best thing that ever happened to me. You’re amazing ❤️
Exactly
Cowardly Sagittarius abruptly dumped me (Capricorn). I did nothing to deserve him doing that. I’ve blocked him on everything. I’ve since healed myself ❤️🩹 and if I ever see him again it will be too soon. Come on 2025!!🎉🎉❤❤😂
It’s funny. It seems like the Sagittarius people are pretty cowardly because mine was too.
As a female Sag with Venus in Capricorn I feel like I have to say something about this. I dated a couple Capps who were funny, a little bit dark, with strong values and opinions which I'm attracted to. But as soon as we were getting serious, they lost their opinions and values. Just got sappy comments all day, which, I have to be honest, wasn't so attractive. I love strong conversations. And as a Venus in Cap recently I had to realize I did the exact same thing in relationships. I lost my fire, and it turned off the other. I had to heal this last year and learn to keep my discernment even when dating. Maybe this helps clear things up a bit...
@ I’m an Aries with a Cap rising. The Sag I know was a liar and a cheat. But also a coward. He killed the fire because I realized that he does this same game on every woman he meets. He can’t be loyal to anyone. It’s impossible for him. However, it took almost a year of crying and torture to reach the point where I could say that so casually. No honor whatsoever. But no worries. There always seems to be another woman waiting around every single corner. To me, I think Sag will be the worst sign on earth for the rest of eternity.
@@katherynemero4118 So sorry to hear that...he sounds like a very unhealed Sag. We can be fluttery in love at times, but usually not with the intention to hurt. On behalf of all Saggies I apologize😔 And if it helps, I got ghosted by my Aquarius and waited 15 years for him to return. Only to find out last year that he moved on and married someone else. So I also had a year of (very Capricorn) crying and torture. I ruined my own love life, waiting for someone who didn't feel the same as I did.
@ I’m sorry to hear yours too. I think this is all a bit overwhelming, having your feelings crushed by someone else. But I think you just validated my thought process. I now realize that what I have been feeling is unrequited. I see that there is nothing more that can be done. It’s best to just keep going my own way so I don’t ruin my chances for a love life. I mean, if love is even meant to be in my life at all. I don’t know. Maybe it’s not.
Thank you for having this conversation with me. You have helped me process this information positively.
Yep I did put him in his place - the last message I sent him was telling him I don’t play games with players , I don’t lower my standards to entertain liars , manipulative men who have zero stability in their lives. I told him to seek therapy for his childhood wounds. I did tell him when he’s ready to apologise I would listen but until then I release him with love and light.
He then blocked me.
Thank you 🙏🏻. I needed to hear this. He was a player and he struggled to admit he fell deeply for me. He pulled back, dated many more serially whilst I stayed grounded and worked on myself. I watched him with different women. Last night (New Year’s Eve) he came to give me a hug. He was alone in the local bar and I sensed his loneliness. He said he spent Christmas alone. I was with my family and friends. I know he still loves me but he has so much pride to admit it and return to me. I’m not going to give him an olive branch. I’m moving on. ❤
I’m grateful for Karma! I saw him on a dating app last night and said hi, just to annoy him! Then removed him! Painful ending for me. But I’ll come up better than ever. He will never have access to me again.
To funny you did that. Not that you got hurt. But it's like with the "hi" you gave him a spiritual punch and walked away. Great job. Happy New Years. Here's to finding someone who reciprocates, takes accountability and has that mentality of when apart before doing someth8ng be able to see how it could make the other feel and not do it if it would hurt the partner. Sending love and light. ❤
But I mean you were on the app too ...
Thanks for another great reading, Elle! It resonates in many ways. SP is sag, Im gem, and we are TF’s. He chose to stay in his old connection without affection or appreciation due to fears of harm to his reputation, financial loss and loss of material comfort. I never completely cut him off, so the Universe stepped in! Everything is lining up so he has less and less privacy and can’t even text anymore. At the same time his shortness of is getting worse, yet he is in great physical health. Go figure!… I deeply love him and always will. But I am okay on my own. Surrendering TF connection to the Divine and focusing on myself. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻❤️
As a gentleman and a high vibrational Scorpion 🦂 male, I have respectfully and honestly expressed my true thoughts and feelings, as opposed to holding these powerful truths inside. These get heavier as time goes forth and eventually get expressed in ways that may not be so healthy or clear. This is considered my duty as a decent human Being, but also, as a child of God who takes full responsibility of my whole Being. So, as far as the man making the move towards who he is in love with, I have overdone more than expected. I have also written that regardless of outcome or any creature in existence, that there is always a place, space, and energy within me belonging to her which shall be found eternal. I, myself, cannot steal, kill, or destroy this Sacred Love for her, within me.
This Being so true, leaves much much to be managed.
Great reading. HNY!!
All the love dear one.
Namaste 🙏 🌹🙏
I love this, my person is high vibrating scorpion, but shy of commitment and enjoying his bachelor hood. So whilst I’ve expressed he is my favourite person/fwb, I won’t go further then that as I don’t think he wants further then that. I’m all about freedom and liberation and courage to be and live in one’s authentic truth from the heart space❣️ 💟☮️🌄🌈
Claiming he’s changed but still wanting me to chase after him tells me everything, he still the same as I left him. 😂 not falling for this again!
They never change.
I don't want anyone that plays victim. Thanks hon❤
very accurate reading, but their ego has prevented an apology.
I'll give the green light, but I won't wait forever.
Again I resonate with your reading. Thank you Soul Fire Tarot. 🙏💜 Our love was so intense. We are soulmates and this is a divine connection. That's right, I did not take his bs! Yes, he is a player, and I even told him that. He is 42 years old, and his longest relationship lasted only eight months! He has lots of fears and insecurities. But I can feel that something is shifting in his energy now. I recently got a message from him saying that he has feelings for me and that he misses me, but that he prefers to be single and free. And now he has friendzoned me! I have walked away from him now, focusing on myself now. 🙌❤ I know that he will be back in the right divine timing, when he has learnt his lessons, grown, evolved, and transformed. He might apologize to me. Either he steps up, or he steps out! All or nothing! Because I'm an empress, knowing my value and deserving more than he has offered me. 💃✨💗I will see if I will take him back or not.
Thank you for that message. You are bringing always sunshine into the darkest places. ☀️
I’m just going to put this out there. This is the new year and a new beginning. Reading all of your comments mirrors mine and none of this is healthy. It’s torture and not good for us. My guy stalks me knows everything I’m doing, shows up to my regular places, uses business to come to my place to stay for hours in my company but won’t say how he feels. He does this yet has a lady companion. So why should any of us put up with this? I say take your energy, love and power back. Love yourself first, you deserve it and cut them off. They’re only using us for an energetic boost like a drug addict just to come and go. You deserve way better than this. Why would you want to make yourself miserable tethering yourself to someone toxic. Cut them off, don’t look back and move into bigger and better things in 2025. Find someone who will give back to you in equal measure. Life shouldn’t be hell it should be bliss. That’s my dream for us all.
When you are on a spiritual path, things do not hold the traditional meaning to you; and others rules, standards, expectations etc. do not hold as much water. Then you operate from heart & intuition. Beautiful.
It’s taken me 75 years to trust this. But I do now 🎉
Exactly! Except I am not interested. I am done with love. Done. Done. Done. Period.
He needs to step forward and make an effort to communicate what happened 🙄 ❤
Spot on reading now I know he feels intimated by me
You ( I wish I knew your name) were so accurately describing what is and has happened to “us” in the last 2 1/2 yrs. Here’s my question. You sounded like this relationship has really high potential. I go between “feeling like I know” and “can you go from “not trust worthy in many aspects of your life (his,) , to trusting 15:42 knowingly knowing?”
He has a lot to prove to me. It has only been 6 months. I don’t see him communicating with me after 20+ years of no communication.
Had a crush on a neighbor yrs ago. Didnt realize he was much younger than me. So i only wanted friendship. But since i didnt physically look as beautiful as my sis he pursued her and after i confised in her, she betrayed me by dating him behind my back and she slandered my reputation so he can avoid me. Both of them shattered my heart . Thanks
You hit the nail on the head! HE HURT MY FEELINGS VERY VERY BAD. This is the “only child “ the son of a momma that doesn’t want another woman in her son’s life but her (his mom).
He is a COWARDLY LION. He is a Leo!
I’m just going to keep pushing forward. I have been patient and kind but enough is enough!!!!
Good read! Can’t wait til we start back talking about my crush because I’m over this one right here!!!!
Good description of the situation!
Yep, spot on! He's a Cancer with Sag moon. Thank you
Thank you. Your clarity is appreciated. Happy New Year and blessings to you❤
Happy New Year! Thank you for another great reading.
🙏❤️ Happy New Year to you too, and thank you for watching!
He watches me but wont talk....😢
Thank you! Resonates greatly.
Nice to hear but not making the first move, I do want to stay in that Empress energy haha. So if the universe wants us to end up together I will let the powers that be make it happen.
Whatever was left in 2024 will stay... no more settling for breadcrumbs... keep moving forward and dont look back 💯 he had the chance to act right... he chose to ghost me for his actions or lack there of...no sir kick rocks
Wow, wow! ❤beautiful read resonated 100% thank you 🙏
Dec 27 he called to catch up and say sorry for everything...when I asked him why now he just said nothing..Im not naive to think he is hoovering me after nc 4 mths...ignoring his calls...i just want to move on...2 yrs on off narc avoidant behaviour im done...i want a new true love
He needs to PROVE TO ME BEFORE I WILL EVER LET HIM BACK IN MY LIFE ESPECIALLY CLOSE TO MY HEART!
I do intimidate him. Tell him he needs to come to me. He just lives 5 miles east of me.
Uve just read my story 😮😮😮 Thank you Happy New Year🎉🎉
This is all good to know. Ty
Happy New Year 🎉
Spot on ❤ thank you
I won't look back, I need something brand new😂😂😂😂😂❤🎉
same🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
No he left me there is no way I'll contact him. I want an apology so it's up to HIM not me
Thank you!
I’m not flirting with him. If he chooses to come forward then it’s okay.
Haha he can try to fix it. I am not waiting though, i live my life and he can do whatever
I made it 555 likes this definitely resonates
I'm on a glow up she doesn't like it. Going on a super glow up 2025 .
6:27 💯 until someone can really introspect and take accountability for their actions or behaviors, any apology is just to feed their ego and lower self. No thanks
Cancer walked away from sag. If he comes back correct I'll consider taking him back.
He’s the one that walked away, he’s the one that’s hiding ( hermit )
He caused unnecessary drama and made an impulsive decision to break up with me for nothing!
Yeesss he’s totally playing the victim
Grow up & apologize!!!
He has to come forward I will not reach out !
He’s the one that broke up with me for no reason
The last time he contacted me on Thanksgiving after three months he had not changed. He was still angry.
If he wants to come back, he has to change and fix his issues bc I’m not gonna take any more BS !!
The last time I talked to him, I sent him a message and said the reason that we’re broke up is because of YOUR issues !!
I’m not flirting with him and I’m not reaching out
He’s LUCKY if I give him another chance if HE DOES come forward
No Cody-I don’t want you anymore. Sorry. You had your chance. I’ve moved on.
You have me overwhlemed
August 3rd is my birthday
He needs to communicate to me with his voice. Yeah I wanted attention from him for a very long time.
Terry come and be honest with me and straight up come tell me in person!
Lol the punk can't get his shit together with her and that's why he can't have her because he communication skills are trash and can't handle my baby. The punk thought that he was so smooth and she broke him down 😂 I love the fact that he can't have her but yet he keeps trying to get with her and I am going to make it hard for this bamma. If anyone wants to be with her, they will have to meet me b4 I let her be in another relationship. She is my best friend and the mother of my kids. 💯💔❤️🩹✌🏽
August 3rd is my birthday 🎉❤ let go of a Gemini
Oh please lol he ghosted me after like one week before our one year anniversary to go and throw his new girlfriend I guess in my face on social media and I didn’t react to it yes he’s young then me he’s calling her his wifey lol but said the same thing to me he has a big ego because he’s a handsome man but I don’t play into that it seems he’s doing things to get my attention and it’s not working I actually glowed up after so I look at it as a win he can stay with who he thinks is better because it wasn’t me he ghosted me so now he has to deal with what he went after
Guy I am dealing with been married with grown kids
I no in my case, we got in to on the phone, he saind he is seeing someone, so looks like it's over
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I believe he has cheated if he hasn’t moved on
Right 😒
No!
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How ironic cus now I'm a player and cheater and all that. Where's some bubble.gum to chew
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