1. Overly emotional 2. Overly groomed 3. Short, small bones/facial features 4. Soft hands 5. Soft body (high body fat content, man boobs) 6. Clean shaven 7. Soft skin 8. Shaving body 9. Being vulnerable (expressing emotions) 10. Passive 11. Not standing up for yourself 12. Skinny jeans, feminine shoes/clothing colors, etc. 13. Wearing a lot of jewelry 14. Weak body language.
@@Kai_075Yeah i agree, If a guy has a really structured masculine face then they can mostly like get away with both being clean shaven and having a beard If someone doesn't have a well structured face and they look like a kid being clean shaven then they should consider growing a beard
A few professional sports teams or managers have had clean shaven policies. In addition, this depends on appearances for certain types of jobs or professions
cope. facial hair 100% makes you more masculine, but more masculine ≠ attractiveness. girls are attracted to guys who have a mix of feminine and male dimorphic features, and that’s why supermodels / actors do it. However, bearded men are scientifically more masculine without a doubt.
i feel like the only people who hate on alpham are people who don’t watch his channel 😂 like if they actually watched they’d see he isn’t like one of those Tate guys, he’s very real, rational, easygoing and inclusive :) i love this guy honestly
These are traits I've always had throughout my whole life even if I'm not trying. So I've come to the conclusion that I was a woman in my past life/lives. But the thing is we all carry traits of both within us so there needs to be a balance. Use them to your advantage depending on situation. That's how you win life. Thanks for making this video, Aaron. This needed to be said.
Brother, l also had these trait. l even cried during grade 9 because l couldn't stand up for myself where l had no fault. lt is because l had a lot of things going on family and l had a very strict parents who just locked me on home and even come to pick me up at school or tuition class. Yeah, l am over sharing right now but it has a purpose. My point is, it really depends on how you grew up . If you had a f up life , where you get bullied here and there, you are most likely to be emotionally very weak .
A good balance for a man that has softer facial features such as small nose, pouty lips, etc is to try to let the facial hair grow. Whether it’s a full beard, goatee or just a mustache. Anything helps. Also try to practice dialing down your facial expressions. Use your eyes more to convey your emotions rather than your face
Some of these comments he’s making are nothing more than ideological nonsense. He’s entitled to express his opinions which we don’t have to agree with. Plenty of men doesn’t wish to confine themselves to these ridiculous rules just to conform to this homophobia
@@Gonzi-c6lCan one change the shape and tilt of their eyes with minimal negative repercussions? Plus the width of their nostrils? Also flatten the nose bridge? And flatten the chin and widen the lips?
@@Gonzi-c6lBecause I have dabbled in wanting my eyes more upturned than they are, plus maybe widening my nostrils, and maybe flattening the nasal bridge, and thickening the lips even though they are thickish.
He’s not making fun he’s just spitting out facts . It’s actually masculine to wear feminine stuff it shows confidence but yeah that’s the social stigma . It’s all good at the end of the day and some chicks like it oddly enough 😅
People are too sensitve and always trying to find something to complain about... you have never came across as homophobic or anti-feminine or whatever...and this is coming from a gay man. Keep doing what youre doing
I disagree with pink t-shirts making a man look feminine, as long as they can pull it off. I you can pull it off nothing makes you look more mainly then a bright pink polo.
Haha Alpha tellin it like it is!!! Thanks man. Whatever features, or choices, or styles etc that you choose or have it's important to know what message you are putting out to the world. Communication is important and most communication is done before or without saying anything. How you present yourself to the world and those around you is important communication. Thank you, Alpha for once again telling the world what is what and setting things straight for those who need it.
Here's how a man dresses to be masculine. However they want. Sorry don't like black it sucks in the summer, so grey, blues are good. Dark grey in the winter time.
Number nine: not true. If you read classical books, those old tomes are full of men weeping. Look at Homer’s Odyssey, for example. Odysseus, King of Ithaca and veteran of the Trojan War, spends A LOT of his time in tears, yearning for his ever-faithful wife, Penelope. This is while he’s stranded on a deserted island with a supernatural, mega-hottie sea nymph, mind you.
You know what's masculine and alpha af? Having your own style and personality to go with it, without caring what others think or what's "masculine". Notice Aaron wearing earrings while telling you they're feminine. That's alpha
Thats self-confident what youre talking about. But there are so many traits that can be perceived as manly or feminine. Nothing wrong with any of those though
Regarding of the fact of this, that obviously gave me a reminder I cope with it, meaning I get a lot of compliments based on my appearance, I may have some masculine qualities but also some feminine mixed in with it as well, I'm not necessarily tall I'm only 5 ft 6 I am a kind sweet but I'm also naive... I do express myself a lot I do wear earrings and there was a time that I have even painted my nails black and I'm gay, LOL I also wear skinny jeans too but I also wear a pair of work boots, regular shoes don't last to me at all because I exercise without taking a single break, I've even broke in two of my bikes for that especially... But I do not wear lip piercings or nose piercings because of the triangle of death
Hey Alpha! Great video. But i always wondered, what's the difference between standing up for yourself, and being a jerk? People in my class always tells me I'm a jerk, but in me, i know I'm just standing up for myself.
Like, there was this one time i had to complain to my teachers because they are always late in class, and also late to dismiss us. Isn't that annoying? Anyway, i stood up for myself, like a Karen (you could say), and talked to the teachers. But friends only viewed me as a jerk.
The thing is that in my opinion, you weren't really standing up for yourself. Standing up for yourself is defending your-self worth and yourself. You were just making a scene because the teacher was late, or you got dismissed late.
My ex-wife would consistently tell me I dress and carry myself as too masculine. And despite her best efforts, I retain my masculinity, despite my soft hands and good skin lol
Alright , what l am supposed to do if l have a small hand and feet? Can l change it? Can l grow my height to 6 ft tall ? Its so stupid that people are viewed as feminine when they have things absolutely out of their control. Another sample, l store more fat on my lower body part and l am working out to minimize it. What l am gay? hell nah. l admit that l did some things that are considered feminine. l didn't stand for being bullied back and cried when l was in grade 9 in class, but things are different now. l am no more that and l agree some of your points and l have improved a lot. However, what about the things people really can't change?
So what would you suggest for us military guys who are required to shave everyday and keep our hair cut more on the shorter side? What are things we could do to our heads and faces to kinda curve that "feminine" look
No 10 passive, how? woman never let anything just go, they sure as hell have an opinion, and if you don't have the same opinion your in trouble, paired with No 11 not standing up for yourself that's some next level argument, that the make up, must be great or you wouldn't see him for dust.
It’s okay to be feminine, it’s good to have a balance of both femininity and masculinity. I love this. Thank you for the video. But also, certain traits are perceived as feminine like doughy body and not being able to grow facial hair because the men who have these issues produce less testosterone and more estrogen. And as you said that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s bad but it can be detrimental to your health if you aren’t careful.
I had my first A/fib 2 years ago! They had to shock my chest! I had a hairy chest! I then started shaving my chest! My balls! Not my arms! I do get my wife to shave my back!
I don’t have big strong hands or fat soft doughy hands I have these grandpa looking hands skinny but also wrinkly and veiny idk if that’d be considered attractive or not
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Fingernail painting is a WHOLE other level of feminine.
Eh not really imo
Actors wear make up like Jason mamoa , Chris hemsworth, henry Cavill
So are they highly feminine men?
Rockstars do it
@@Sigma77-n2u If you are rich and famous you can get away with it.
@@rodolfo_rlf good for you i have no idea the point or benefit of watch half naked sweaty grown men touching each other
@@Sigma77-n2uOoh big difference 😂
1. Overly emotional
2. Overly groomed
3. Short, small bones/facial features
4. Soft hands
5. Soft body (high body fat content, man boobs)
6. Clean shaven
7. Soft skin
8. Shaving body
9. Being vulnerable (expressing emotions)
10. Passive
11. Not standing up for yourself
12. Skinny jeans, feminine shoes/clothing colors, etc.
13. Wearing a lot of jewelry
14. Weak body language.
Being clean shaven doesn't make a man feminine, most classically handsome men like James bond is clean shaven and most male supermodels.
Many would argue that hairy men are more masculine. Body hair is biochemically caused by testosterone, hence more manly.
Yeah but bond doesnt look like a oversized baby. Clean shave only if it suits you if it makes you look like a child again please grow your beard
@@Kai_075Yeah i agree, If a guy has a really structured masculine face then they can mostly like get away with both being clean shaven and having a beard
If someone doesn't have a well structured face and they look like a kid being clean shaven then they should consider growing a beard
A few professional sports teams or managers have had clean shaven policies. In addition, this depends on appearances for certain types of jobs or professions
cope. facial hair 100% makes you more masculine, but more masculine ≠ attractiveness. girls are attracted to guys who have a mix of feminine and male dimorphic features, and that’s why supermodels / actors do it. However, bearded men are scientifically more masculine without a doubt.
Guys with both masculine and feminine features are very attractive
You sound gay. Are you?
That's what many dudes don't get, they think life is either black or white 😂😂
This is one of those videos that lowkey proves that Aaron doesn't give a fuck about what anyone think, he does and say what he has to
i feel like the only people who hate on alpham are people who don’t watch his channel 😂 like if they actually watched they’d see he isn’t like one of those Tate guys, he’s very real, rational, easygoing and inclusive :) i love this guy honestly
Keep up the great work Alpha!
Alpha drives a masculine BMW now, he used to drive a Subaru.
BMW isn’t a masculine brand bru
I love my subaru!
@@BC08I’m 69% sure that comment is sarcasm
No, he used to also drive a BMW.
Mercedes Benz over BMW
W alph we are always with you thanks for making our style to improve
the video ending was hilarious, great delivery, always super entretaining
I wouldn't call most of these feminine but they ain't masculine either, being short just makes you short.
Alpha M femboy tutorial dropped
Agree with all of these Alpha, great video Aaron!
These are traits I've always had throughout my whole life even if I'm not trying. So I've come to the conclusion that I was a woman in my past life/lives. But the thing is we all carry traits of both within us so there needs to be a balance. Use them to your advantage depending on situation.
That's how you win life.
Thanks for making this video, Aaron. This needed to be said.
Brother, l also had these trait. l even cried during grade 9 because l couldn't stand up for myself where l had no fault. lt is because l had a lot of things going on family and l had a very strict parents who just locked me on home and even come to pick me up at school or tuition class. Yeah, l am over sharing right now but it has a purpose. My point is, it really depends on how you grew up . If you had a f up life , where you get bullied here and there, you are most likely to be emotionally very weak .
Agree the MOST with the 1st talking point, and # 1, in how he started off the video.
A good balance for a man that has softer facial features such as small nose, pouty lips, etc is to try to let the facial hair grow. Whether it’s a full beard, goatee or just a mustache. Anything helps. Also try to practice dialing down your facial expressions. Use your eyes more to convey your emotions rather than your face
You're great,love you being so transparent
Thank you
Man, where from that Hulk voice came 😮
If a man paints his nails black,its probably more cooler & masculine than a man painting his nails Red or Blue
This video is fire dude keep it up grind no stop
There are feminine men and masculine women. It cannot be changed.
Some of these comments he’s making are nothing more than ideological nonsense. He’s entitled to express his opinions which we don’t have to agree with. Plenty of men doesn’t wish to confine themselves to these ridiculous rules just to conform to this homophobia
you can change almost everything about yourself
@@Gonzi-c6lCan one change the shape and tilt of their eyes with minimal negative repercussions? Plus the width of their nostrils? Also flatten the nose bridge? And flatten the chin and widen the lips?
@@Gonzi-c6lBecause I have dabbled in wanting my eyes more upturned than they are, plus maybe widening my nostrils, and maybe flattening the nasal bridge, and thickening the lips even though they are thickish.
Funny how both men and women with the right balance of both are always objectively the most attractive
He’s not making fun he’s just spitting out facts . It’s actually masculine to wear feminine stuff it shows confidence but yeah that’s the social stigma . It’s all good at the end of the day and some chicks like it oddly enough 😅
Using a stone cold Steve Austin photo in your is a big W🔥😅
Video *
You may want to rethink the clean shaven one. I’m in the Army and required to shave regularly.
People are too sensitve and always trying to find something to complain about... you have never came across as homophobic or anti-feminine or whatever...and this is coming from a gay man. Keep doing what youre doing
A friend of mine is 5.5 feet tall and he looks really small. He had a lot of trouble finding a woman because practically all women want taller men.
"Give you the business like a bxtch" lmao 😂 I hear you alpha 💪🏽💯
Dude you are hilarious
Good skin is femm!! Btw buy this skim care package!! 😆
Nice disclaimer at the start Alpha M.
Alpha m: “It’s also feminine for a guy to wear earrings”
Proceeds to wear earrings 💀
And he wears skinny legged pants and pants with a cuff.
I disagree with pink t-shirts making a man look feminine, as long as they can pull it off. I you can pull it off nothing makes you look more mainly then a bright pink polo.
Love all your vedio’s alpha!
I am a transwoman coming here for advice. Thanks for sharing.
Same but closeted, I’m not the target audience 😅
Ethan Hawk in Training Day was right you gotta control your smiles and cries :D
Later for Ethan Hawke! 👎
There's an episode of Hot In Cleveland where Victoria goes on a blind date with a guy named Chester and who has man boobs lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks alpha
Thank you for teaching men and young men things that everyone else is too afraid to teach them.
Tiege Henley is the thing, if you want to have perfect, girly skin!
Haha Alpha tellin it like it is!!! Thanks man. Whatever features, or choices, or styles etc that you choose or have it's important to know what message you are putting out to the world. Communication is important and most communication is done before or without saying anything. How you present yourself to the world and those around you is important communication.
Thank you, Alpha for once again telling the world what is what and setting things straight for those who need it.
Hahaha how you drop the sponsors
Here's how a man dresses to be masculine. However they want.
Sorry don't like black it sucks in the summer, so grey, blues are good. Dark grey in the winter time.
Agreed and ur opinion is 100% respectable as most of them if not all of them are facts
I will use this as a checklist...
Number nine: not true.
If you read classical books, those old tomes are full of men weeping. Look at Homer’s Odyssey, for example. Odysseus, King of Ithaca and veteran of the Trojan War, spends A LOT of his time in tears, yearning for his ever-faithful wife, Penelope. This is while he’s stranded on a deserted island with a supernatural, mega-hottie sea nymph, mind you.
Feminine is attractive 😉
Bro is Tommy from goodfellas..
LMFAO. I can’t unsee it now.
😭
@@matthalo89I should start commenting in every one of his videos “day # of asking alpha M to say “funny how? Like I’m a clown?”
You know what's masculine and alpha af? Having your own style and personality to go with it, without caring what others think or what's "masculine". Notice Aaron wearing earrings while telling you they're feminine. That's alpha
Thats self-confident what youre talking about. But there are so many traits that can be perceived as manly or feminine. Nothing wrong with any of those though
Thank you very much.
Regarding of the fact of this, that obviously gave me a reminder I cope with it, meaning I get a lot of compliments based on my appearance, I may have some masculine qualities but also some feminine mixed in with it as well, I'm not necessarily tall I'm only 5 ft 6 I am a kind sweet but I'm also naive... I do express myself a lot I do wear earrings and there was a time that I have even painted my nails black and I'm gay, LOL I also wear skinny jeans too but I also wear a pair of work boots, regular shoes don't last to me at all because I exercise without taking a single break, I've even broke in two of my bikes for that especially... But I do not wear lip piercings or nose piercings because of the triangle of death
Watch all Clint Eastwood movies to be more masculine.
W Alpha M 💯🔥
Hey Alpha! Great video. But i always wondered, what's the difference between standing up for yourself, and being a jerk? People in my class always tells me I'm a jerk, but in me, i know I'm just standing up for myself.
Like, there was this one time i had to complain to my teachers because they are always late in class, and also late to dismiss us. Isn't that annoying? Anyway, i stood up for myself, like a Karen (you could say), and talked to the teachers. But friends only viewed me as a jerk.
The thing is that in my opinion, you weren't really standing up for yourself. Standing up for yourself is defending your-self worth and yourself. You were just making a scene because the teacher was late, or you got dismissed late.
Nah he did Tyler1 dirty 💀
My ex-wife would consistently tell me I dress and carry myself as too masculine. And despite her best efforts, I retain my masculinity, despite my soft hands and good skin lol
Alright , what l am supposed to do if l have a small hand and feet? Can l change it? Can l grow my height to 6 ft tall ? Its so stupid that people are viewed as feminine when they have things absolutely out of their control. Another sample, l store more fat on my lower body part and l am working out to minimize it. What l am gay? hell nah. l admit that l did some things that are considered feminine. l didn't stand for being bullied back and cried when l was in grade 9 in class, but things are different now. l am no more that and l agree some of your points and l have improved a lot. However, what about the things people really can't change?
You are strong bro, keep going
Work your wardrobe. Also, consider learning Argentine tango.
I guess a perfect masculine dude is a hypothetical thing
The photo you show of the hand smoking. Thats just wonderful and will age you really fast it also looked dirty.
So, essentially… you hate yourself? The self-loathing is strong with this one ☝🏻
def not trans and watching to see what i should avoid to not be masculine
First I’m bald! I started shaving my head with my balls in my 30’s!I have that 5 o’clock shadow! !
How are you using your balls to shave your head😭
I think he means he shaves his balls first then his head. Its pretty funny really.😊@nerfkingthevampire8897
@@ronervine lol
0:31 I agree with you
Please do another best brands jeans video
Thanks Alpha m!
Actually 15 things btw
The worst thing about this channel is that it has turned away from being an alpha stuff into commercial crap.
More money for alpha
Alpha's been selling TH for many years. Where have you been?
Alpha. What do you think about street workout, cause I hate going to the gym, I like to workout outside??
Does it matter what he thinks? He likes the gym. Not every guy likes going to the gym. Pick what works best for you and do that.
Does it matter if you run on a machine or on the grass? No i would even say outside is better for more sunlight
Look how George michael turned things around with a 5 O'clock shadow, close cropped hair and Leather Jacket
George Micheal was 🌈
George michael was 🏳🌈🏳🌈
Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life
Hey I’m a short guy, can’t control my height but why is that considered as a feminine 😢
I don’t get that either
So what would you suggest for us military guys who are required to shave everyday and keep our hair cut more on the shorter side? What are things we could do to our heads and faces to kinda curve that "feminine" look
I think if you are in the military you’re probably pretty masculine already 😂
Its good to have faminine features on your face
Holy... You sound so angry 😆
ALL Femenine men are BEAUTIFUL! ❤
Lol no they aren’t
@@brandonsullivan9544 Femenine men are MAGICAL! 🔥
They're not
So every rappers especially back in the days looked like women with their baggy clothes you’re sayin’ 🤣🤣
What is the brand tank top that Aaron always wears and recommends?
Anybody can follow these, their not only for guys or males
No 10 passive, how? woman never let anything just go, they sure as hell have an opinion, and if you don't have the same opinion your in trouble, paired with No 11 not standing up for yourself that's some next level argument, that the make up, must be great or you wouldn't see him for dust.
Anyone know where that tee is from?
I have tattoos so I like to shave my arms to make them pop out lol never ashamed to admit it
What about dad-bod or skinny fat 😢
Ey Man you sound like Mc gregor😂😅
You just described my co-worker. I'm sending him this video now.
Lol someone sent you an email?!?!
It’s okay to be feminine, it’s good to have a balance of both femininity and masculinity. I love this. Thank you for the video. But also, certain traits are perceived as feminine like doughy body and not being able to grow facial hair because the men who have these issues produce less testosterone and more estrogen. And as you said that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s bad but it can be detrimental to your health if you aren’t careful.
nice ad Alpha, if you want girly skin buy this product...
You forgot man bags 💼
Imagine having 7 mil followers and doing 20k views per video. Just retire already.
I had my first A/fib 2 years ago! They had to shock my chest! I had a hairy chest! I then started shaving my chest! My balls! Not my arms! I do get my wife to shave my back!
What about crying when I watch Old Yeller?
That makes you human.
And a man... yeller was man's best friend after all.
Neg yo manke gee
I don’t have big strong hands or fat soft doughy hands I have these grandpa looking hands skinny but also wrinkly and veiny idk if that’d be considered attractive or not
Bro calm down lol
Lol at minute 2:56 that's an Asian man amirite
Loose clothing make you looks more masculine my dude
Letting the girlfriend or wife set terms in the relationship is very feminine and gay
More bad news right...??
Careful man. Don’t go political. Showing DJT is not good. Half will hate you no matter what. Pick something else.