Hold on. If she's 35 now and she broke up with her ex when she was 18. ITS BEEN 17 YEARS!! She's married with a kid on the way. Wtf is the sisters and mothers problem!?!?!?! And the Ex is a fucking creep. Its been almost 20 years and you're still pinning for the woman who dumped you?! GET OVER IT!! This whole situation is weird as fuck. The Sister is genuinely sick and unhinged for trying to push a relationship that ended almost 20 years ago. The mom is enabler for her golden child and the ex is a creep.
I feel that the ex is feeding the sister and mother "hope" of them reuniting. The ex is unhinged and does not care about his children, so I would put it past him to manipulate the narrative into the sister and mother, who are also unhinged.
i think it only ever devolved the way it did because their connection with each other ensured that they were feeding into each others delusions and keeping the fantasy alive
Damn half the family just disappeared like cold war era spies. The drama is exciting to follow but it must've been hell to experience for OP and her remaining fam.
this video was really well done, and I appreciate the way you presented such a sensitive topic. that said, I can’t help but feel that sometimes forcing a reconciliation can do more harm than good. maybe it’s better to let people come together on their own terms? it’s tricky!
they kept saying OP need to let's it go, but it's them who are still holding on to the past. Like all this shts would't have happened if they just respected OP's wishes.
@@honeyjohnson8536 ooooh, look at the edgelord here. all edge, no point. maybe try thinking that if the majority agrees with me, *they might be actually correct?*
Plot holes. Normal people just dont act like that. I might believe one person but not two. Scratch that, three or even four. A tracker on the dog vest? Getting restraining orders when nobody has even done anything illegal. Almost killing a healthy late term pregnancy because, like, stress or something. Inviting a not really in law on the apparently many family vacations not to mention holidays and such. Thinking you can call police on anybody at anytime for anything. It was really the dog vest gps tracker that got me though.
Your world must be small...you can get a restraining order on anyone. Fans put trackers on celebs stuff all the time. 😂😂😂as for the rest I've definitely seen and been around that and more.
That's the point isn't it? These AREN'T normal people. It's a trio (mother, sister and ex-boyfriend) who are all demonstrating the symptomology of untreated long-term mental illness: Obsession, narcissism and other peronality disorders. OP, meanwhile, seems fairly normal with a normal person's emotional reaction to this realisation about her kin suddenly coming out in an emotional crisis.
Did anyone bother asking the ex how he felt? I wouldn't want to be constantly push on a woman who doesn't like me. It'd be very awkward and uncomfortable.
He's a grown man ffs. He knows she moved on, doesn't want him, got a husband and has a baby. His response was to claim that the baby is actually his as he was having an affair with OP. It's been 17 years since they broke up. The ex felt like a deranged stalker.
I hope that OP and her family are well, As for her mother and sister (and *especially* her ex), they're suitable cases for treatment. It's kind of hard to get a handle on entitlement and narcissistic obsession of thise level and a lot of the vital information is lost becaues OP rightly went NC with all three of them. However, I suspect that Sister and Mother always had this overwhelming perception of a 'perfect' family with 'perfect' internal dynamics and, when OP 'went astray' they became obsessed with 'correcting' it for everyone's sake. The crisis point seems to have been when OP's relationship with her husband became serious enough for them to be talking about marriage and I suspect tthat ES (Entitled Sister) may have suggested or even demanded that one of her bridesmaids hit on him because she wanted to break him and OP up. One unansewred question is whether Ex was the driving force or whether ES and EM brainwashed him into beleiving in it. If they did, then they ruined his life and doubtless blame OP's husband entirely for it. How will it end? With a sad, lonely old woman (EM) and her younger but still sad and lonely daughter, sustained only by bitterness at OP and her husband and spending their days brainstorming about how to 'save' OP.
Hold on. If she's 35 now and she broke up with her ex when she was 18. ITS BEEN 17 YEARS!! She's married with a kid on the way. Wtf is the sisters and mothers problem!?!?!?! And the Ex is a fucking creep. Its been almost 20 years and you're still pinning for the woman who dumped you?! GET OVER IT!! This whole situation is weird as fuck.
The Sister is genuinely sick and unhinged for trying to push a relationship that ended almost 20 years ago. The mom is enabler for her golden child and the ex is a creep.
I a 💯 percent agree with you . Like he should get a life .
All girls are the same
Agreed
Right!?! This whole family scenario dynamic has cult-like vibes
I feel that the ex is feeding the sister and mother "hope" of them reuniting. The ex is unhinged and does not care about his children, so I would put it past him to manipulate the narrative into the sister and mother, who are also unhinged.
This is called gaslighting. Her mother had no other weapons left except emotional blackmail, belittling and guilt tripping.
The kids saying they are the baby's protectors is adorable! 🥰
How in the world is the sister this obsessed with this fantasy? Same thing for the ex.
Some people are just that delusional
Mental illness, it's shit.
Fr 💀
She for whatever reason fixated on the idea of sisters marrying brothers and can’t accept her dream not coming to pass
i think it only ever devolved the way it did because their connection with each other ensured that they were feeding into each others delusions and keeping the fantasy alive
If I were the brother that friend wouldn't be stalking anyone anymore 🤬 she almost lost her baby because of those thrash people.
It's really sad when dad says he would rather drink bleach than go back to back to the wife😢
Right? What a horrible woman she must've been. It's a relief he finally saw the light and escaped ❤
@@gwencatz2483 That’s the truly crazy part. She was apparently super chill and normal before she went total batshit
Damn half the family just disappeared like cold war era spies. The drama is exciting to follow but it must've been hell to experience for OP and her remaining fam.
Story 1: Sis, it's not gonna happen! Make like Elsa and let it go!
Don’t hold OP back anymore!
Hahaha 😂 y'all got problems.
It’s funny how no contact
Makes assholes seem small
this video was really well done, and I appreciate the way you presented such a sensitive topic. that said, I can’t help but feel that sometimes forcing a reconciliation can do more harm than good. maybe it’s better to let people come together on their own terms? it’s tricky!
Like, sister could have just had a best friend as a sister, but then decided to ruin that too 😂
Holy fuck. OP’s mom and sister and ex are fucking unhinged. 😳😳😳
Mom, sister, and ex need to listen to “Let it go” on repeat until they get the message.
they kept saying OP need to let's it go, but it's them who are still holding on to the past. Like all this shts would't have happened if they just respected OP's wishes.
The two crazy bints actually put a TRACKER on OP's dog???? Jeeeeebus flarpin crispy!
Ex boyfriend is a loser lol
He's a stalker
Wow the family is UNHINGED
She needs to prove she has improved took me out 🤣🤣
why is OP devastated by the loss? theres no loss there. at all. who gives a shit if OPs mom and sister are bad people?
Doesn’t matter. She knows she did the right thing but she still loves them on some level. It’s called being a person with a good heart
@@honeyjohnson8536 64 people disagree with you.
@@matthewbarabas3052 I don’t give a damn. lol I’m not a sheep who’s going to agree with the majority. I think for myself. Have a good night
@@honeyjohnson8536 ooooh, look at the edgelord here. all edge, no point.
maybe try thinking that if the majority agrees with me, *they might be actually correct?*
@@matthewbarabas3052 or y’all just slow lol either way I don’t care. You can believe what you want. It’s your choice, my opinion won’t change
Rollercoaster ride!!!
My advice is to avoid dating your best friends sibling.
I absolutely love this story. It is so great.
That was just odd.
Can't you sue for stalking because of the tracker? lt is harassment , helping the ex in his psychotic defamation about his torrid affair with you!
Plot holes. Normal people just dont act like that. I might believe one person but not two. Scratch that, three or even four. A tracker on the dog vest? Getting restraining orders when nobody has even done anything illegal. Almost killing a healthy late term pregnancy because, like, stress or something. Inviting a not really in law on the apparently many family vacations not to mention holidays and such. Thinking you can call police on anybody at anytime for anything.
It was really the dog vest gps tracker that got me though.
Your world must be small...you can get a restraining order on anyone. Fans put trackers on celebs stuff all the time. 😂😂😂as for the rest I've definitely seen and been around that and more.
That's the point isn't it? These AREN'T normal people. It's a trio (mother, sister and ex-boyfriend) who are all demonstrating the symptomology of untreated long-term mental illness: Obsession, narcissism and other peronality disorders. OP, meanwhile, seems fairly normal with a normal person's emotional reaction to this realisation about her kin suddenly coming out in an emotional crisis.
Did anyone bother asking the ex how he felt? I wouldn't want to be constantly push on a woman who doesn't like me. It'd be very awkward and uncomfortable.
He still had feelings for OP that she didn't return and the sister fed into that to keep him close for her fantasy family.
He's a grown man ffs. He knows she moved on, doesn't want him, got a husband and has a baby. His response was to claim that the baby is actually his as he was having an affair with OP. It's been 17 years since they broke up. The ex felt like a deranged stalker.
This sounds like it was written by an emotionally charged teenage girl with a wild imagination.
I hope that OP and her family are well, As for her mother and sister (and *especially* her ex), they're suitable cases for treatment.
It's kind of hard to get a handle on entitlement and narcissistic obsession of thise level and a lot of the vital information is lost becaues OP rightly went NC with all three of them. However, I suspect that Sister and Mother always had this overwhelming perception of a 'perfect' family with 'perfect' internal dynamics and, when OP 'went astray' they became obsessed with 'correcting' it for everyone's sake. The crisis point seems to have been when OP's relationship with her husband became serious enough for them to be talking about marriage and I suspect tthat ES (Entitled Sister) may have suggested or even demanded that one of her bridesmaids hit on him because she wanted to break him and OP up. One unansewred question is whether Ex was the driving force or whether ES and EM brainwashed him into beleiving in it. If they did, then they ruined his life and doubtless blame OP's husband entirely for it.
How will it end? With a sad, lonely old woman (EM) and her younger but still sad and lonely daughter, sustained only by bitterness at OP and her husband and spending their days brainstorming about how to 'save' OP.
Mom and sis doin a folie a deux