how to stop comparing yourself to others on social media (mentalities + practical steps)

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  • Опубліковано 28 лис 2024

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  • @pearlywong
    @pearlywong  Рік тому +20

    today's video is a bit different so I am quite nervous to share, but anyway I hope you will like it hehe
    💚

    • @newton3438
      @newton3438 Рік тому +1

      Yeh I think is really helpful for language Learner to believe the process of learning language someone say great thing take time so we need to stop compare ourselves 👍

  • @glorytalbott5500
    @glorytalbott5500 24 дні тому

    I was having a hip replacement at age 34 (from a childhood hip condition) and having a hard time getting around before the surgery and recovery afterwards is a process. One of my friends kept posting pictures of her going hiking to beautiful places. I felt miserable seeing her hiking pictures every weekend. I longed just to walk without limping or pain. So I had to unfollow this friend for a while. This friend wasn't doing anything wrong, but it was my situation where I was having a hard time coping with it. I could refollow her when I became more active, but muting her for a time was so helpful and I could still keep in contact with my other friends on social media!

  • @naik_fly
    @naik_fly Рік тому +6

    i’m from Ukraine, thank you for your positive energy and inspiration to learn and especially to have joy while whatever you do

  • @susha_667
    @susha_667 Рік тому +6

    Your videos are peaceful and with your spectacular, cool, and spontaneous energy makes it x100 better! you're such an inspiration to me in many aspects. I loooovvveeed this video and I'll keep coming back to it as a reminder to boost my self-confidence, you've pointed out some really good points there. Also about the mute option in our social media, it's personally a lifesaver because it allowed me to set boundaries that limit my usage into reducing the time I waste going through unnecessary things.

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Рік тому +1

      awwww thank you for your super lovely comment! I'm so glad to hear it hehe

  • @dhc4822
    @dhc4822 Рік тому +1

    Pearly I like the point that instead of comparing yourself to others learn from them.really appreciate you.❤❤

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Рік тому

      Me tooo one of my fav tips🙌🏻

  • @mauriciosangaletti4479
    @mauriciosangaletti4479 10 місяців тому

    I think we need to know yourself. This is the key to change life. Learn to lock yorself is a great way to understand life is diversity and all the people have your own beautiful, with the flowers.

  • @djaberlyx9628
    @djaberlyx9628 Рік тому +1

    From France, You're so right.
    I've been there and I wish I could have just stopped comparing myself to everyone else and be me.
    I wish someone had taught me that sooner.
    No one on earth knows how to do everything or be everything.
    We can't be all the flowers at the same time and trying we just risk losing our own originality, I think.
    Good video, keep going!

  • @davidbagus6769
    @davidbagus6769 Рік тому +1

    Ty for you suggestion, now I'm realize that social media it's platform for showing off their achievement, hobby, hang out, to get attention from other people, nothing more than that, I just use social media for meme 😅

  • @dhc4822
    @dhc4822 Рік тому +1

    1 thing more that for language learning I prefer your channel it really helpful and comfortable.❤

  • @kitcarson_park
    @kitcarson_park Рік тому +2

    I found your video to be very helpful.
    I will listen to it a thousand more times as a podcast.
    Thank you for sharing your thoughts with everyone.

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Рік тому

      I'm so happy to hear that! thank you for your kind comment!

  • @pietersmal5903
    @pietersmal5903 Рік тому +1

    Thank you! I really get discouraged by learning a new language, and JEALOUS! ❤

  • @EnglishListening-my2jl
    @EnglishListening-my2jl 8 місяців тому

    Sometimes when i look at some people's lives,i feel like i am at zero,And nothing will ever going to get better😢

  • @ambarps5883
    @ambarps5883 8 місяців тому +1

    Great video, like always :D. Recently, I started to compare myself thanks to social media. Your video is very helpful. Thank you so much for the tips. It's going to take time but I'm sure I can do it. :3

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  8 місяців тому +1

      Yess, it definitely is going to take time^^but it's nice that at least we are aware of the problem and it's a important first step! I'm rooting for you^^

  • @noemie.blchrd
    @noemie.blchrd Рік тому +1

    Thank you for those important reminders and very helpful tips 💕 That's such a great video !

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Рік тому

      awww thank you so much Noemi :)))

  • @Markersha
    @Markersha Рік тому +1

    Thank you for your video. I use some of these tips intuitively. I still compare myself to others in real life tho 😢

  • @shoya_dori
    @shoya_dori Рік тому +1

    Very precious advices for these relatable feelings and emotions! Thank you for sharing your experience and your helpful methods!💚It was definitely worth sharing! Don't feel nervous uploading a video if you think it can make other people's lives - even if just a little bit - better!

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Рік тому

      Thanks Shoya for your lovely comments as always😄

  • @gbgvnnfg
    @gbgvnnfg Рік тому +1

    I like your videos, thanks for these steps, I think I spent a lot of time to learn this myself

  • @katherinerubigarciarivas9154
    @katherinerubigarciarivas9154 Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much, Pearly

  • @uliana6872
    @uliana6872 Рік тому +2

    Hi from Ukraine!
    It's great that you brought up this important topic.
    my experience is that I am now on the way to know myself and develop.
    I haven't used social media for some time now, and this was one of the best decisions, because I had more time for self-development, time to spend with my family and other things that i like, I literally began to notice the beauty and uniqueness of other people and my own

  • @lisavos3824
    @lisavos3824 Рік тому +1

    Thank you very much for your wonderfull advice(:

  • @默默-m4p
    @默默-m4p Рік тому +1

    Like your smile☺️

  • @daisukineko2574
    @daisukineko2574 Рік тому +1

    Like your video so much, 加油❤

  • @GorGor-TV.
    @GorGor-TV. Рік тому +1

    From Somalia

  • @dc1317
    @dc1317 Рік тому +1

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  • @JhowPix
    @JhowPix 8 місяців тому

    🆙

  • @primavera449
    @primavera449 Рік тому +1

    I'm so happy I found your channel!! It's literally like a free therapy🤍

    • @pearlywong
      @pearlywong  Рік тому +1

      ❤️🫶🏻thanks for your lovely comment!