Before you enter into another marriage, BE CAREFUL about your money!!! If he truly loves you, he wouldn't ask you about it. He wouldn't ask you to buy him things. Put a majority of your money in a trust fund or whatever for your grandkids if you have any. That money is still yours even though it's in your grandkids' names. Doing that will only protect you. Get an attorney and ask how you can protect your assets/ money if and when you get remarried, and the new hubby decides to divorce you. (If he divorces you and you are legally married, he could be awarded half of that money, so please seek an attorney's help!!!)
Your husband loves you so much reminds me of my husband. My husband is the most amazing man ever. He loves me very much too. I would surely be heart broken like you. I hope you have found peace in your heart. Big hug to you.
Cad yuav nrog neb ob leeg Tu siab ua luaj os me Sisther awiii hlub koj os mog txhob tos txog hnub zoo li no nawb peb sauv daus awiiilub Neej zoo li Npauv suav nrog txoj kev hlub xwb mog
Why people so concerned when threatened with lawyers? If you're legally married, you have every say in you and your decease spouse affairs. They're all outsiders.
These cousin (family) marriages need to stop. Marrying your daughters off to pay for the parents' debts is unacceptable and evil. Why should the children pay for the parents sins and problems?
The inlaws can't hate their daughter-in-law. The girl they wanted their son to be with took off and married. So it's not his fault and should not be hated. The mother-in-law is very evil and should be ashamed of herself. It's her loss she has no relationship with her son, grandson and her daughter-in-law.
OMG! Your mil is very evil. Glad you moved away from those evil relatives. Those sunshine $ let them eat they’re just going to get more tears in the future.
Sister, no matter how much you decide to move on or remarry, do not put your boyfriend or new husband name on your account. Keep your finances separate. Be cautious. Do not put all your trust into it. You can open a joint account and start fresh into that new account, but do not put any of your money from prior to him into that account. What you both create here on out is together, but do not let him guilt you or talk you into splurging your money on him and his children. Whatever you do, do not loan him any money, because truthfully you'll never see that money again.
Greedy assss in laws. They dont love u, dont help and/or contribute to your life but expect 1/3 of your money just bc their son passed away. And refused to give u a portion of the sunshine money is so low and selfish of them. Good for u that u didnt give them a dime. People like that dont deserve anything. Your reason for marrying someone who look like your husband is either good or bad, depends on how he takes it. However i wish u the best. Life is unexpected. U take the good with the bad and take the bad with the good. Good luck
Let her waste her money hiring a lawyer to fight you in court. She doesn't have a case !!! 😂😂😂😂 If you're legally married and your spouse passes away, EVERYTHING belongs to YOU!!! Unless there is a will stating how to divide assets, she can keep dreaming!!! 😂😂😂😂
I hope you value your decreased husband's hard work and don't use that money to lure in a new man. Many widows desperately use money to get a new man into their life who never love them, after their money is gone, that man left. Be smart, don't be desperate. Tsis muaj txi. Neej los yeej tsis tuag! Peb ua neeg, ntuj tsuas muab ib tug txiv ib tug pojniam los hlub peb xwb hos. Dhau tus hlub 2 koj lawm ces ntsib cov dag koj lawm xwb!
Es tseem nkim zog pob tsaig zog nplaig nrog extended family sib cav sib ceg txog yus tej nyiaj ua dab tsi naw. Kaw qhov rooj hu police xwb ces tiav num sav
It's not manager, lady. A manager for rental housing is a hired employee to manage property. Your husband is a landlord managing his own rental property.
What a lie! If he really loved you, you would have stayed with your sons, so you can be with him in the afterlife! He would have NOT told you to remarry.
Ua cas Hmoob tsis paub txog tias ua ib qho will no na??? Niam pog thiab cov kwv tij kos siab phem tiag tiag li os. What a bunch of money hungry people....
Mab I love listening to u , but your advertising is annoying, im.hwre here no listen to the stories, not to listen to ads , thov txhob advertising lawm tsam peb tsi pab txhawb mloog koj lawm.. yuav advertising ces ua rau thaum xaus es leejtwg xav mloog los mam mloog. ... just an input ok
Sister, I noticed that almost every story, you always insult the intelligence of a woman. You always say “I’m too dumb, have no ideas or she’s too dumb, have no idea”. Seems you always uplift the men’s character and belittle the women. So my question to you is, are the women in the stories actually saying they’re too dumb or the men in the stories actually saying his wife is too dumb? Or are you saying this on your own?
This is the saddest story I’ve heard in awhile . It’s always the good ones that never have a happy ending . I’m sorry for your loss . 🥺
Before you enter into another marriage, BE CAREFUL about your money!!! If he truly loves you, he wouldn't ask you about it. He wouldn't ask you to buy him things. Put a majority of your money in a trust fund or whatever for your grandkids if you have any. That money is still yours even though it's in your grandkids' names. Doing that will only protect you. Get an attorney and ask how you can protect your assets/ money if and when you get remarried, and the new hubby decides to divorce you. (If he divorces you and you are legally married, he could be awarded half of that money, so please seek an attorney's help!!!)
Nobody can sue you for YOUR money.
Your husband loves you so much reminds me of my husband. My husband is the most amazing man ever. He loves me very much too. I would surely be heart broken like you. I hope you have found peace in your heart. Big hug to you.
😭😭 this MIL the audacity to ask for part of the assets.
Most Hmong OGs live above all laws lol
Live yah you are not alone this happens to many many Hmong people too
The audacity of the mother in law! She needs a visit from her deceased son!
Cad yuav nrog neb ob leeg Tu siab ua luaj os me Sisther awiii hlub koj os mog txhob tos txog hnub zoo li no nawb peb sauv daus awiiilub Neej zoo li Npauv suav nrog txoj kev hlub xwb mog
It doesn’t matter who you are if you didn’t pay for the insurance monthly don’t even think about asking that’s so selfish and embarrassing.
Why people so concerned when threatened with lawyers? If you're legally married, you have every say in you and your decease spouse affairs. They're all outsiders.
Work so hard and didn't get to see the world, such a sad story
These cousin (family) marriages need to stop. Marrying your daughters off to pay for the parents' debts is unacceptable and evil. Why should the children pay for the parents sins and problems?
Lub neej ntsuag ces tu tu siab li os.viv ncaus aw cas kuv tus es twb tsis hais ib los li can li
Ua ntej nws ncaim mus.
Your husband died of a mother’s ❤. His heart ❤ was so heartbroken 💔. Your in laws don’t deserve anything from you. There was no love ❤️ received.
Wow your mil has a lot of nerve to ask for 1/3 of your income. Screw that!
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The problem with our Hmong people is that... everything is about the kids so we forget about loving ourselves
The inlaws can't hate their daughter-in-law. The girl they wanted their son to be with took off and married. So it's not his fault and should not be hated. The mother-in-law is very evil and should be ashamed of herself. It's her loss she has no relationship with her son, grandson and her daughter-in-law.
OMG! Your mil is very evil. Glad you moved away from those evil relatives. Those sunshine $ let them eat they’re just going to get more tears in the future.
Sister, no matter how much you decide to move on or remarry, do not put your boyfriend or new husband name on your account. Keep your finances separate. Be cautious. Do not put all your trust into it. You can open a joint account and start fresh into that new account, but do not put any of your money from prior to him into that account. What you both create here on out is together, but do not let him guilt you or talk you into splurging your money on him and his children. Whatever you do, do not loan him any money, because truthfully you'll never see that money again.
Mloog koj thiab o, kab lias
Thov kom.koj nrog lub suab qab zib no nyob nrog peb kom ib sim nawb kuv nyiam.mloog heev
Txhob tu siab os tej niag nyiaj ntawd yog nyiaj ploj nyiaj tuag xwb os! Cov neeg siab phem yeej tsis zoo luaj twg thiab os!
Greedy assss in laws. They dont love u, dont help and/or contribute to your life but expect 1/3 of your money just bc their son passed away. And refused to give u a portion of the sunshine money is so low and selfish of them. Good for u that u didnt give them a dime. People like that dont deserve anything.
Your reason for marrying someone who look like your husband is either good or bad, depends on how he takes it. However i wish u the best. Life is unexpected. U take the good with the bad and take the bad with the good. Good luck
I can't believe the AUDACITY of these ppl! Thaum tseem ua neej nyob, twb tsis hlub! Tuag lawm tseem muaj plhus ntxeeb nyiaj! Ohmygaaahhh!!! Plhus tuab tiag tiag li os!!! Tsis tas li ntawv xwb, lawv yog niam yog txiv tabsis lawv twb tsis tsa yus lub neej na!!! Kav tsij foom tiag! Lawv yog niam yog txiv lawv txawm foom koj los yeej tsis khaum tsis npam koj kiag li os! Vim lawv twb ua tsis yog tag lawm ne! Thiab qhov loj tshaj mas lawv twb tsis hlub neb lawv tawm ntxub neb na!
Because you let him over work
😢mob siab ces yeej tsi yooj yim os kawg tshuaj ntsuab xwb peb ua neeg ces yeej khiav tsi dhau li os lawv aws
Txawm li ntawd los ok! Tab sis koj yuav tau tsa koj 3 tus tub yim thiab them lawv cov nqe tshoob nawv.
Nrog koj tu siab heev os sister aws..peb cov niam txiv OG no mas lawv tsis nyiam thiab ntxhub yus mas lawv yeej tsis nyiam tsis hlub yus kiag li os..
Tsis thas muab nyiaj rau leej twg kiag lis os. Tseg rau koj thiab koj cov me nyuam os. Cov niam pog zoo lis no tsis hlub los tsis npam os.
Oh my gosh this is the saddest story , kuv mloog mas kuv kua muag ntws si xwb os, cas luag tej niam txiv es yuav sib hlub ua luaj li os,
Let her waste her money hiring a lawyer to fight you in court. She doesn't have a case !!! 😂😂😂😂 If you're legally married and your spouse passes away, EVERYTHING belongs to YOU!!! Unless there is a will stating how to divide assets, she can keep dreaming!!! 😂😂😂😂
I hope you value your decreased husband's hard work and don't use that money to lure in a new man. Many widows desperately use money to get a new man into their life who never love them, after their money is gone, that man left. Be smart, don't be desperate. Tsis muaj txi. Neej los yeej tsis tuag! Peb ua neeg, ntuj tsuas muab ib tug txiv ib tug pojniam los hlub peb xwb hos. Dhau tus hlub 2 koj lawm ces ntsib cov dag koj lawm xwb!
Es tseem nkim zog pob tsaig zog nplaig nrog extended family sib cav sib ceg txog yus tej nyiaj ua dab tsi naw. Kaw qhov rooj hu police xwb ces tiav num sav
It's not manager, lady. A manager for rental housing is a hired employee to manage property. Your husband is a landlord managing his own rental property.
Let her sue you. Tell her if she nicely ask than you will give her something as a gift.
Cas cov txij nkawm sib 2 hlub 2 es pheej sib ncaim ib tug tso ib tug tseg hos cov txij nkawm tsis sib hlub ces sib ncaim rau qhov sib nrauj
Why would the grandma demand so much when she refused to pay for their wedding.
Hugs
What a greedy selfish mother in law!!
What a lie! If he really loved you, you would have stayed with your sons, so you can be with him in the afterlife! He would have NOT told you to remarry.
Please tus mes vivncaus awb tsis tas sib yuav lios. Some men will change after marriage so stay as you are.
Lawyer faib tsis tau 3 phuv os tej nyiaj no yog nyiaj niam txiv property ....yog koj thiab koj cov minyuam li xwb.
this entitlement must be an og hmong woman thing.
Teb chaws US muaj tshaj 50 lub states, wrong. Koj tus txiv tsev neeg thiab nws cov kwv tij tsis nyiam koj los ntshe twb vim nyog koj coj tus xeeb ceem ntxhib dhau lawm pob.
Pathetic of a mil…no sharing any of his and your money to the parents…she has no right to claim anything of his and yours assets…😩👍…!
Ua cas Hmoob tsis paub txog tias ua ib qho will no na??? Niam pog thiab cov kwv tij kos siab phem tiag tiag li os. What a bunch of money hungry people....
Mab I love listening to u , but your advertising is annoying, im.hwre here no listen to the stories, not to listen to ads , thov txhob advertising lawm tsam peb tsi pab txhawb mloog koj lawm.. yuav advertising ces ua rau thaum xaus es leejtwg xav mloog los mam mloog. ... just an input ok
Sister, I noticed that almost every story, you always insult the intelligence of a woman. You always say “I’m too dumb, have no ideas or she’s too dumb, have no idea”. Seems you always uplift the men’s character and belittle the women. So my question to you is, are the women in the stories actually saying they’re too dumb or the men in the stories actually saying his wife is too dumb? Or are you saying this on your own?
These women that y men these day suffer so many jealousy even with the family