My first best friend in childhood hated me. I carried the friendship for years until someone else had to tell me the truth. I think it really messed with my heart and head and ive spent years attaching myself to people who were not genuine. I leave all that behind in 2024!
That "becomes friends with you for the asthetic, for the feeling but after a time..." part rang so true for me. I know i'm fun to be around, but it's not cool to get a friend like a social boost or a accessarary
22:04 I learned this just recently. I ended a "friendship" after 12 yrs. I've always kept her at a distance, never really told her anything personal. There was a lot that didn't make sense. I believe in following my gut and discernment. Honestly, i remember when she claimed me as her big sister, that's when I PUSHED away. I know that should be an honor. But I dont have any sisters, I have 3 older bro's. The female cousin I was close to, well was, should say it all. Anytime a female wanted to claim me as family, including family, it was normally something to it.
My first best friend in childhood hated me. I carried the friendship for years until someone else had to tell me the truth. I think it really messed with my heart and head and ive spent years attaching myself to people who were not genuine. I leave all that behind in 2024!
I understand that feeling, I wish you all the best coming next year
You deserve better!!
That "becomes friends with you for the asthetic, for the feeling but after a time..." part rang so true for me. I know i'm fun to be around, but it's not cool to get a friend like a social boost or a accessarary
@@SteppingStonevlogs it’s mostly short lived always
Great video, keep them coming they’re so helpful! I’ve always unfortunately experienced having friends that are jealous of me sadly!
@@tamaraford6634 thank you I’m glad it helped💕 sorry to hear about your experiences, it is well.
22:04 I learned this just recently. I ended a "friendship" after 12 yrs. I've always kept her at a distance, never really told her anything personal. There was a lot that didn't make sense. I believe in following my gut and discernment. Honestly, i remember when she claimed me as her big sister, that's when I PUSHED away. I know that should be an honor. But I dont have any sisters, I have 3 older bro's. The female cousin I was close to, well was, should say it all. Anytime a female wanted to claim me as family, including family, it was normally something to it.
@@blaquepearlzchocolatediamndz77 lesson learnt 👍🏾
Sad but true❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
Truth tho
@@nekocat12 glad you enjoyed it