@@YogitavlogsI’m shocked Chinese people still thinking India is poor …….india is rich believe me there is so many billionaire in Indian Indian only spending big money on weddings
@@Yogitavlogssame like in china also so many people poor they don’t have food no house but never say about them anything …if u want keep it marriage longer u have to accept reality n go on forget about your parents don’t listen unnecessary talks
You are a daughter of Mother India now......Hold your head High with pride and honour ......may you and your dear ones stay blessed by the Almighty Bhagwan Mahadev and Mata Bhawani
Understand 100 % with great clarity because I am an Indian that worked in a Chinese environment for 10 years in China. Even my family cannot understand how difficult that was. I was the only Indian & all the others were Chinese, my Boss was European. I have seen that when Chinese girls marry foreigners, they express themselves a lot more. What is your Chinese name ? And what is your hometown?
@Anonymous1512-_- - Many young Chinese people now know English. - Many cannot speak that well because they don't get a chance to practice speaking...but reading & writing basics are just fine. - That's because they are all taught English in schools now.
Yogita, don't be upset and don't bother about peopls version too much. Please don't be ashamed also. You have taken right decision on your life and your life partner indeed. So, welcome to India and wish you will feel nice to embrace Indian culture. With 💖 from 🇮🇳
You are a high thinking, spiritual, very soulful, graceful lady. World needs more of your kind to fill it with goodness. People forget their past quickly - both India and China have gone through very troubled times. Learing to be humble is important for both countries, which are the most populace and oldest civilizations on this earth,
Miss Yogita @ 1:35 in India every women doesn’t feed to cow & doesn’t take care of sheep . This is your misinterpretation about Indian village. In china every woman’s not a millionaire, like that in India every woman doesn’t doing same .
Modern people have education and resources to set up a home quickly without a dowry. In the olden times, people lacked education, good paying jobs to collect the resources to set up a home, so this responsibility was put upon the parents of the bride and groom, to give the young couple a strong head start, so when the baby comes along, mother can afford to stay with the child instead of running around trying to find money , or food
As an Indian, Your parents had real concerns, not all of it was morally correct but still, they were not 100% incorrect. Well saying that, You got a good husband , that's good. May both of the families someday come together, and find peace.
Yogita you did the right thing by following your heart and the true love you found in your Indian husband…..you don’t need anybody’s approval for your happiness, you live your life for yourself and not for other people. I’m happy to see your happiness that you shared in your vlog. Thank you for sharing your vlog, it took a lot of courage for you. By the way my wife is Chinese and I’m a Sikh, we have been married for over 20 years….however having born and brought up in Singapore’s multicultural and multiethnic diversity it was much easier for our parents and relatives to embrace our interracial marriage. And I picked up speaking Mandarin from my wife, though we primarily communicate in English. God bless you and your family Yogita.
After hearing your story my prespective about chinese people changed also...i think everyone should respect every person not matter country is bad or good ..its matter only how that person is❤❤
She is honest, practical and broad minded. It's a fact that Chinese girls want rich husbands, way more richer than a girl's own overall worth... For such unrealistic aspirations of Chinese girls and their parents, many Chinese girls don't find a partner and many live as spinsters past their marriageable age. She should have thrown some light on this problem in Chinese society.
Why do you think the rich Indian looking for their rich Indian husband doesnt this also happening in India...why are the poor cannot be rich due to your class system isnt it
@@areebachewa8318 Arranged marriage ensures that female stupidity & expecting impossible men is put to rest as her parents arrange her marriage with a practical candidate.
@@areebachewa8318I am sorry to say this , but in India, we do have such things but not as aggressive as there is in China. There indeed are caste related discrimination but it's only in few towns which are not really developed. Also, there are many more problems with Chinese society than in an Indian society. And if I start putting out pointers you won't be able to defend yourself. Let's start with Olympics, suppression on human rights, ethnocide of Tibetan religion , oh, I don't wanna remind the cause of the event happened in 2019-2022. Do u want more?
@@rashmikiran4602 Really where the Indian are good in lies and raping their women where most of them are silence by their corrupted politicians and elites where money buy their actions out .. Is your western media give you info about Tibet and western China where you need to do research about the history of China .. Btw the Chinese do not prosecuted these two ethic where the chinese have supported them financially,medical and education then their majority geez learn the facts rather from the fake info from the media … If India is that great how come millions of their people still in poverty and how will India be able to elevate their poverty from their people instead of blaming the chinese why not try to work something positive toward your country to improve the standard of their living
@@rashmikiran4602 Btw your comments are humorous while all your infos from the fake news while no one force the Olympic participants and they do it on their own will …. Also do you really think India have their own human rights where their suppression of their most populated Muslim in India as per from the Media
She did fine by marrying Ravi...there are so many unmarried girls in China in 30s and 40s Secondly, internet promotes lies about India being bad and unsafe... Most ppl should travel and learn
Well india is not safe , Not promoted by any foreigners ,but it is a reality accepted by Indian women. Not for tourist, women , female child , hunger index, education etc it goes on bro
Actually lol I recently watched a few videos on Chinese marriage life...and damn it was a huge mess, either men don't want marriage or women and there is a prediction that in 2060 (30b years from now on) Chinese population will be reduced to half and ccp is very worried about it, all in all, their standards are too high....i mean it is the same everywhere tbh... Om Shanti
@@areebachewa8318Lee's points are quite valid but their solutions are more important and lee didn't mentioned them anywhere bcuz noone in this world can actually run a country like India with so much diversity and on top of that with democracy where there are tons of problems. China and Singapore 's success stories are linked directly or indirectly. Maybe bcuz china's founding father was hugely inspired by lee's vision. India lacked , not bcuz he didn't desired to progress but bcuz of internal stability and due to federal structure. India's federal structure has always been like that from 15th century when Mughals from central Asia invaded Indus civilization and now , they are also called as part of India's history but in reality , they are nothing more than invaders. Indians believe that equal rights are for equal people not for all people and that's where we are lacking. Caste system is not to be blamed since most foreigners don't know that but lower caste people ( according to old caste system that has been abolished in India ) has more advantages in indian modern society than anyone else. It's just that they don't want to work for their future
Yogita most important thing is that Raiv likes you and LOVE you. Nothing else matter in life. Yes we yearn for acceptance from relative but instead of accepting you as is they will make every effort to pull you down. I am an Indian and my son and daughter they married non Indians. I realized how blessed I am to have son in law and daughter in law I got. Enjoy life
@@Aryboba Many people always use other people's words to judge the good or bad of a thing.I don't like it. I like to see and hear for myself. I trust my judgment
I am in vietnam and same situation here, Vietnamese people look down at Indians and marriage with Indian isn't considered respectful in upper class society. Lower class people do not have much problems though and they are very friendly. But Middle class and Upper class people behave exactly same as Chinese
This is mind-blowing, with so many beautiful Chinese ladies single, unable to find a Chinese fellow of their calibre and education, they should be overjoyed that you found a handsome fellow whom you can live with and have a family. He's made many sacrifices as an Indian for you.
3:43 I think the exchange of Money , car or Gold should not happen from both side. Marraige should be like marraige. In India , many people have already talked against or abondoned Dowry or modern day 'Gift' system but still it is prevalent in majority area.
I live in California. I’m Indian and my wife is Chinese. Our cultures are very similar emotionally, although we speak different languages and eat different food. It can totally work.
@@bixby797India already is a strong nation. Even uncle Sam thinks twice before muttering anything. CCP tasted the power in galwan. N India is the only country in the world which can visit and keep trade n defence deals with both west and the Russia.
Media & politics are dividing people, I love your honesty to speak the truth... it's not country or place which binds people... it's all about The mutual love,respect & cooperation between Two or more Human-Beings... That makes a Happy Family...other than that Everything is just A Blink of Eye... Life. Keep Going Forward.
Your English is fine.. We understand everything you said and your feelings.. Ignore your relatives.. You've got such a handsome beautiful son Aman.. And your love ..And support from all of us .. They must be jealous.. .. And your opinions are honest and you are a good person.. Keep going .. lots of love
Hi, I thought you are a serious person. But this video proved me utterly wrong. You are such nice girl and Ravi is so lucky to find true love. Aman is sooooo cute. God bless your family and make your wishes come true.
It is not easy, but we can make it work. Mutual respect, enthusiastic communication, ability to compromise is the foundation of a great relationship. Blessings and best wishes from an Indian American with multicultural exposure. 🙏
"Yogita: "EDUCATION DOESN'T EQUAL WISDOM" Beautiful . Yogits I admire your determination and rational . You are a strong woman I and many others support you and encourage you so you do not get discorage. Looking forward to hear more and learn from your experience
To be honest with you,if any Indian girl do the same like that ,the situation will be the same ,for men of any country it's not hard as girl to marriage international..
No I don't think so you can see many indian girls married to korean men and foreigners. The thing is family in india don't go this hard . Even in my family , if someone marries foreign girl we don't bothered that much . Even if she's chinese or korean . How have seen a lots of indians and listen about it marry out of religion, caste and foreign people. I never heard someone family ashamed of marrying black or to religion. People are afraid surely but not ashamed in india .
are you blind? there are more indian girls in international relationships than indian boys. Indian girls love playing the victim card with no evidence 🤦♂️
@@vanlalkpvlogs4244 TO BE HONEST, THE CHINESE ARE FRIENDLY PEOPLE, BUT THE FRIENDSHIP ISN'T IN FAVOR OF CHINA. THE REASONS ARE VARIOUS, LIKE THE DALAI LAMA IN INDIA, OUR BORDER DISPUTES, ARUNACHAL, AND TWO WARS IN THE PAST. NEITHER INDIA CAN TRUST CHINA, NOR CAN CHINA TRUST INDIA NOW.
@@vanlalkpvlogs4244 TO BE HONEST, THE CHINESE ARE FRIENDLY PEOPLE, BUT THE FRIENDSHIP ISN'T IN FAVOR OF CHINA. THE REASONS ARE VARIOUS, LIKE THE DALAI LAMA IN INDIA, OUR BORDER DISPUTES, ARUNACHAL, AND TWO WARS IN THE PAST. NEITHER INDIA CAN TRUST CHINA, NOR CAN CHINA TRUST INDIA NOW.
Hey congratulations. I married a beautiful Chinese smart girl some 27 years ago. We both are enjoying and at the same time proud of our respective cultures
You took a very bold step mam... Going against your family for love. And I understand the mindset of common chinese people , and they are correct in one way or other..India is very far behind of China when it comes to development , safety , cleanliness and we too aspire growth like china. But corruption and less bold steps by government due to bad politics hamper India's growth. But with time slowly we will rise...🤕 India is a vast country there are good people also and bad people also. But most Indians are humble in nature and Ravi bhai is one of them..😊 Hope u always be happy in your life and may u and Ravi bhai prosper so much that your family will feel proud of u...🎉 Love from ur brother from..🇮🇳
You have a fair comment and if Ravi is a very good person he will find a way to unite her with her family since he is rich instead of him taking away from her family where he will find a way to compromise for her .... Living 1/2 year in China and living 1/2 year in India
The correct sentence will be: "My family is ashamed of me." Don't worry about mistakes, your english is still quite Understandable. I believe you'll definitely improve.
Thank you for sharing your story so eloquently. Your body language and thoughtful word choice made it easy to understand, even without a perfect command of the language.
@@amarjeetsingh6569 - :) 😀. Please check the divorce rate especially in the cities. - Culturally Chinese men don't think they need to be loyal to their wives. - So what do you imagine will be the result ?
@@Yogitavlogs - I can imagine... cultural divide is a lot. - Both need to be really patient. - One good way is to create good loving memories for each other every day. - Please please both MUST do this. - Marriage is a long journey. - At critical times, good memories will pull it through. - Asian men especially from traditional rural backgrounds can be egoistic. - They need to be aware & be very very sensitive to their partners needs & inner voice. - Because, reacting from their subconcious mind, without awareness, they will mess up, unknowingly. - Really Really hard for them to absorb that they are not the Boss of the family ... very hard ... only sustained love can cross that bridge ... & stresses of life can put pressure on that...
You are really brave mam ❤ Bt i think indian marriages last longer than any other countrys'(if you marry any Indian boy/girl). You did like it's said : Be yourself, rest of the world will adjust 💪💪
@@mSolace847 but in india or any democracy alimony & maintainance is compulsion. doesnt matter dowry was takem or not. and there is no Dowry in USA or Europe. still they have to give alimony. if u compare dowry with alimony then ban alimony in india as dowry is banned. the diff is u can avoid giving dowry. u van deny it. but aliomy is state sponsered extortion. there is no escape.
You have so much courage, and you faced so many obstacles just to follow your heart. I wish you all the best. Your story was truly inspiring! Your English was easy enough to understand for me and your sincerity shined through.
😂 i don't know if I should laugh, but sorry to say that there are millions of Europeans and Americans have Indian husbands,they love Indian men, while you are Chinese so you must feel proud of having a good Indian husband, in fact I saw whenever a Indian youtuber visits China he gets many marriage proposals 😅we don't leave our wives like others do ,so congratulations 🎉👏🏽
I started to do some of my own work after my child started kindergarten, so I don't have enough time to update. This is my problem, I will listen to your opinion 🤔
Blessings for the future, things will normalise as it grows, India is more row and pure at its core. China too but it’s going more artificial that’s not good in long run
Interesting to know what you are going through. I have similar experiance like you. I am Indian my wife is from Shanghai we got married and lived in Shanghai for 8 years. I have experianced similar issues like you. But we are doing good now. you need to speak to my wife to find ways to overcome these problems. Me and my wife are blessed with a little girl and I hope we could connect to share experiences and hope to support you. I'd love to hear from you. Take care and all the best.
I think there is nothing to be ashame of being married to Indian guy. Many white women are married to indian guys. Plus, India is one of the greatest civilizations beside china. I understand that chinese give high preference to money but money is not everything. Money will come and go. Our karma decides our journey.
you are very intelligent! It was a good talk Afriendly one.Let India and china be friends! India depends on china for many products Thank you for the video! From India!
The reaction from your parents is natural. Even in India, we can not imagine an Indian girl marrying a Chinese and go to China to live. We indians also have negative views about Chinese culture and people. Both countries needs to work on something to improve people to people relationships. But yes, it takes two to Tango 🙂
As an indian ,I think u and ravi should live in china bcz it will be hard for u to adopt in india 🇮🇳 and also hard to find job.In india u will find lots of hatred against chinese gov bcz of 1962 india china war and china has captured our land. You will face racism as well in india.China is a developed country and u can live easy life, u can come to india for vacation .
She will not get the hate for Indo-China war, Indians are not that cheap. There are many chindian couples living in India. Example Jwala Gutta(a badminton player from India) mother is Chinese and they recently posted pictures on social media on Votings in India, she also voted as an Indian citizen. About racism, yes you might have to face it everywhere and come out strong. Indians too face the worst kind of racism in most countries and yet they become successful abroad.
I'm an American married to a German, while living in Korea and we have two children. You should marry Ravi if you want. Good luck in your life and be happy while your time on this planet is not long. ....Okay, I finished watching and congratulations on your 5 years of marriage. ...and your English is spoken well. Take care.
@@mypackmypower1996 Indian men are crying when divorce rate is not even 1% in India...lol. imagine if Indian women start asking for divorce like Chinese women.. Chinese women get dowry Money also... DOUBLE BENEFIT. Indian women don't even get social and family security...and bs husbands too. They are not allowed to work also... BUT CRYING BECAUSE *WOMEN GET ALIMONY BRUH*...In a country where women are thrown out of her husband's house without divorce also.
Hi Yogita. Your parents were genuinly concerned because news channel show negative about India and China as well. Indians are the most successful immigrants in whichever country they go. More than half of doctors in USA and UK are from India. Indians from Gujarat dominate the Motel Industry in USA. Computer Engineers and scientists from India form backbone of industries in USA and Europe. That is a fact. Anyways we are proud that Ravi bhai chose one of the most beautiful slim tall and good girl from China. Also we are proud that you stood by Ravi all this time. Things will get better with time with your parents. After all they care about you. But Ravi is a gem who will be there for you till his last breath. I can tell that just by looking at his videos. All the best lovely girl....❤❤❤❤❤❤
@@shantanusingh7600 Bro India is no 5 economy soon to be no 3. Be proud of it. We need to work hard to beat China and USA one day.............. But we need to support NDA For that
India has place for Fashion entrepreneurship,think about it..Yogita,as you're.Coming to invest in a India City,first take time to explore that city,then shortlist buying property there for your new business development, whether it's fashion or small Chinese Restaurant that will make yourself self-financed and powerful in future family growth.🌲🌹🌳🙏All the best 🙏
Chinese people highly intelligent and kind people ,but what your parents told you about our country is correct ,this is facts and reality of this country ,we are not civilized country ,when you live here you will get it and feel what your parents told you is right ,here problems are infinite ,china 70 years ahead in everything in India ,i still think it is better for your family to live in china ,and your son ,for good education and civilized upbringing of him , people leaving India in large numbers for a reason 😢 understand
@@ankitbhattji do you know reality of our country ,what fake I'd ? What her parents said about our country isn't true ? Or do you live anywhere else , woman not get respected as men ,so many girls killed by man just because they said no or break up , foreigners getting raped , students exam leaks, students died by electricity in coaching institute ,fake IAS officer , train accidents happened one after another,Delhi airport accidents,Bihar road collapse,woman gets killed because she didn't serv husband dinner ,is this called respect , civilized society , Chinese thinking and way of living you can't imagine cause we used to our backward third class society and thinking
We were friendly nation for over 1000s of years but after colonisation our cultural connection was shattered..we can dominate this world even in this age but only if we work together.
@@Bhavishiavaniso true , it's been 76 years and still we Indians believe in collectiveness and open society where everyone is good enough. But in Chinese society , it's quite opposite it's like they are in some sort of race that they need to win at all cost. Indian thinking is so much different from them. Indians don't desire to win that much dedicatedly as Chinese. And yeah , they are very cautious about things as well and in modern era , they got India as a poverty stricken and rapist country image in their mind and I can't really deny this thing since India ranked one of the most raped countries though china as well but you know , cleanliness , infrastructure and civic sense. They have better than us
@@Êíøw57 - You are trying to highlight rape in India indirectly. - Look through all the comments by Chinese people & you will not find a single negative comment about their own country. LEARN SOMETHING - is China perfect ? - The answers my friend are blowing in the wind :).
@@Êíøw57 - Because a foreigner thinks it is unsafe it is ? - Have you fact checked ? ;) - India is NOT ranked as high as media has led you to believe ! - We don't need to look to outsiders for validation... for how long shall we do that ? - Are you aware that 5 % of European women are raped and that 10 % have been sexually abused ? - That Sweden , Norway etc have more rape than India. - There are many Chinese women who travel to India on business alone freely (now visa issue) and love India. - When you write the way you do, people get wrong ideas about India. - So I request, please don't use social media to exaggerate negativities about your own people. - If a Chinese person and they never criticize their own sees you write like this, coming from their own culture , they think things are a war zone for women in India.This is not true. - So much of India is extremely safe for women in India who live normal lives . - All the negativity in our newspapers that is systematically spread across that country constantly. - India is bad news in China, to the extent that rarely would a Chinese girl marry an Indian. - So I request please be balanced about what you write on social media. - Thats all. Rest is up to you. - Learn good things from the Chinese : )
Come to Singapore.
Here, Chinese marrying Indian or Indian marrying Chinese is very common.
Best of Providence.
Singapore is heaven
Thats true.. Indians and Chinese intermarry.. no problem there..
I'm from simgapore too, I'm chinese and punjabi mix, and my wife is tamil. Hahahha singapore the best
@@qiteindashenggreatsage3621 don't introduce yourself and your wife as punjabi and tamil . Say you both are Indians .
@@qiteindashenggreatsage3621wow awesome
True line :- Education never equals to someone's Wisdom💯
Umm. Indians are the most educated in the globe.
😅
Yogita, tell your rich family members that the RICHEST MAN IN ASIA is an INDIAN ✨, and Indians love Yogita. ❤
@@rc2rahulchatterjee826 actually they don’t know this,and they just care they are richer than Ravi 🤣🤣
@@Yogitavlogs 😂😂
Watching from Bhutan,god bless your family and give regards to Ravi brother.
@@YogitavlogsI’m shocked Chinese people still thinking India is poor …….india is rich believe me there is so many billionaire in Indian
Indian only spending big money on weddings
@@Yogitavlogssame like in china also so many people poor they don’t have food no house but never say about them anything …if u want keep it marriage longer u have to accept reality n go on forget about your parents don’t listen unnecessary talks
You are a daughter of Mother India now......Hold your head High with pride and honour ......may you and your dear ones stay blessed by the Almighty Bhagwan Mahadev and Mata Bhawani
lol
no you are not its just what you say to hide from your real faces
Bs kr bhai😅
Bas bas😂 india ki ladkiyon ko toh izzat di nai kabhi. Aye badey😂😂😂
Understand 100 % with great clarity because I am an Indian that worked in a Chinese environment for 10 years in China.
Even my family cannot understand how difficult that was.
I was the only Indian & all the others were Chinese, my Boss was European.
I have seen that when Chinese girls marry foreigners, they express themselves a lot more.
What is your Chinese name ?
And what is your hometown?
@@Bhavishiavani xiajinghan ,Henan Province
@@Yogitavlogs
- Very nice.
- Extremely friendly & down to earth people from Henan.
- If Shanghainese wife , maybe problem for an Indian man ! 😀
@Anonymous1512-_-
- Many young Chinese people now know English.
- Many cannot speak that well because they don't get a chance to practice speaking...but reading & writing basics are just fine.
- That's because they are all taught English in schools now.
@Anonymous1512-_- School 😂
@@Yogitavlogs 🤣
Yogita, don't be upset and don't bother about peopls version too much.
Please don't be ashamed also. You have taken right decision on your life and your life partner indeed.
So, welcome to India and wish you will feel nice to embrace Indian culture.
With 💖 from 🇮🇳
I am from India.Trust me you are a very kind, good and pure hearted girl.
bhabhiji ki koi chhoti sister hoto bataiyega XD XD XD
How about dalit rich man your views please bhatji
@@RajaToDos maybe men like u are reason why her parents were against her marrying an indian man
Plz don't rap€ 🥹🥹
@@Mygrandmacalledsmehandsome😢😢😢
You are a high thinking, spiritual, very soulful, graceful lady. World needs more of your kind to fill it with goodness. People forget their past quickly - both India and China have gone through very troubled times. Learing to be humble is important for both countries, which are the most populace and oldest civilizations on this earth,
India and China are old civilization and both countries are good relationship between ancient times ! ❤
We are your family now !
My niece is married to a Chinese boy. She is a physician and he is a computer engineer. Our families love them and their baby. ❤❤❤
@@SUN-it6rf the baby is black or brown
She is too innocent girl..hope god bless her forever and give her power to fight the world!!
Miss Yogita @ 1:35 in India every women doesn’t feed to cow & doesn’t take care of sheep . This is your misinterpretation about Indian village. In china every woman’s not a millionaire, like that in India every woman doesn’t doing same .
This shows she has no idea about village life and she doesn't know what to do in a village .
Both side forgive each other's dowry😅😅😅😅
😂❤
white women come with a dowry and a job.
Modern people have education and resources to set up a home quickly without a dowry. In the olden times, people lacked education, good paying jobs to collect the resources to set up a home, so this responsibility was put upon the parents of the bride and groom, to give the young couple a strong head start, so when the baby comes along, mother can afford to stay with the child instead of running around trying to find money , or food
What you mean by dowry can you explain were in India and why you support that
Love it😂😂😂😅😅😅
Relatives are same everywhere. They count on person's downfall so that they can assert dominance over one's life.
Stupid
As an Indian, Your parents had real concerns, not all of it was morally correct but still, they were not 100% incorrect.
Well saying that, You got a good husband , that's good.
May both of the families someday come together, and find peace.
Yogita you did the right thing by following your heart and the true love you found in your Indian husband…..you don’t need anybody’s approval for your happiness, you live your life for yourself and not for other people.
I’m happy to see your happiness that you shared in your vlog.
Thank you for sharing your vlog, it took a lot of courage for you.
By the way my wife is Chinese and I’m a Sikh, we have been married for over 20 years….however having born and brought up in Singapore’s multicultural and multiethnic diversity it was much easier for our parents and relatives to embrace our interracial marriage.
And I picked up speaking Mandarin from my wife, though we primarily communicate in English.
God bless you and your family Yogita.
You are a brave woman who’s mentally very tough….
Love to you & Ravi from Thailand 🇹🇭
After hearing your story my prespective about chinese people changed also...i think everyone should respect every person not matter country is bad or good ..its matter only how that person is❤❤
She is honest, practical and broad minded. It's a fact that Chinese girls want rich husbands, way more richer than a girl's own overall worth... For such unrealistic aspirations of Chinese girls and their parents, many Chinese girls don't find a partner and many live as spinsters past their marriageable age.
She should have thrown some light on this problem in Chinese society.
Why do you think the rich Indian looking for their rich Indian husband doesnt this also happening in India...why are the poor cannot be rich due to your class system isnt it
@@areebachewa8318 Arranged marriage ensures that female stupidity & expecting impossible men is put to rest as her parents arrange her marriage with a practical candidate.
@@areebachewa8318I am sorry to say this , but in India, we do have such things but not as aggressive as there is in China. There indeed are caste related discrimination but it's only in few towns which are not really developed. Also, there are many more problems with Chinese society than in an Indian society. And if I start putting out pointers you won't be able to defend yourself. Let's start with Olympics, suppression on human rights, ethnocide of Tibetan religion , oh, I don't wanna remind the cause of the event happened in 2019-2022. Do u want more?
@@rashmikiran4602
Really where the Indian are good in lies and raping their women where most of them are silence by their corrupted politicians and elites where money buy their actions out .. Is your western media give you info about Tibet and western China where you need to do research about the history of China .. Btw the Chinese do not prosecuted these two ethic where the chinese have supported them financially,medical and education then their majority geez learn the facts rather from the fake info from the media … If India is that great how come millions of their people still in poverty and how will India be able to elevate their poverty from their people instead of blaming the chinese why not try to work something positive toward your country to improve the standard of their living
@@rashmikiran4602
Btw your comments are humorous while all your infos from the fake news while no one force the Olympic participants and they do it on their own will …. Also do you really think India have their own human rights where their suppression of their most populated Muslim in India as per from the Media
She did fine by marrying Ravi...there are so many unmarried girls in China in 30s and 40s
Secondly, internet promotes lies about India being bad and unsafe...
Most ppl should travel and learn
India highest rape case
India is not a safe country
Well india is not safe ,
Not promoted by any foreigners ,but it is a reality accepted by Indian women.
Not for tourist, women , female child , hunger index, education etc it goes on bro
I accept your comment 👍👍👍👍
But still india is not safe in some areas even in cities
Actually lol I recently watched a few videos on Chinese marriage life...and damn it was a huge mess, either men don't want marriage or women and there is a prediction that in 2060 (30b years from now on) Chinese population will be reduced to half and ccp is very worried about it, all in all, their standards are too high....i mean it is the same everywhere tbh... Om Shanti
As a Indian, Feeling sad for India! we loose to protect our self respect against china! We should be better one day !
Get rid of your corruption and your class system and learn from former president of Singapore he did mention why India is so poor ...
@@areebachewa8318Lee's points are quite valid but their solutions are more important and lee didn't mentioned them anywhere bcuz noone in this world can actually run a country like India with so much diversity and on top of that with democracy where there are tons of problems. China and Singapore 's success stories are linked directly or indirectly. Maybe bcuz china's founding father was hugely inspired by lee's vision. India lacked , not bcuz he didn't desired to progress but bcuz of internal stability and due to federal structure. India's federal structure has always been like that from 15th century when Mughals from central Asia invaded Indus civilization and now , they are also called as part of India's history but in reality , they are nothing more than invaders. Indians believe that equal rights are for equal people not for all people and that's where we are lacking. Caste system is not to be blamed since most foreigners don't know that but lower caste people ( according to old caste system that has been abolished in India ) has more advantages in indian modern society than anyone else. It's just that they don't want to work for their future
@@areebachewa8318 Brain rot
@@areebachewa8318 a single person can't do anything to change a whole country.
@@areebachewa8318 We all wish to change that, but if only we have had the power to do so. If it's so easy, why don't you help us?
Yogita most important thing is that Raiv likes you and LOVE you. Nothing else matter in life. Yes we yearn for acceptance from relative but instead of accepting you as is they will make every effort to pull you down. I am an Indian and my son and daughter they married non Indians. I realized how blessed I am to have son in law and daughter in law I got. Enjoy life
It happens but u choose what u believe...
@@Aryboba Many people always use other people's words to judge the good or bad of a thing.I don't like it. I like to see and hear for myself. I trust my judgment
@@Yogitavlogs you are a strong woman. I respect that.
@@Yogitavlogs you are so sweet 💖💖💖
@@Yogitavlogsyour judgement was right. As of now are you both happy with each other? With more time, as Aman grows, things will fall in place
@@Yogitavlogs wow that's a great thought, I think you will teach me something really good today. 🤝🤝🤝
I am in vietnam and same situation here, Vietnamese people look down at Indians and marriage with Indian isn't considered respectful in upper class society. Lower class people do not have much problems though and they are very friendly. But Middle class and Upper class people behave exactly same as Chinese
Never heard anything so stupid like the comment I just read. Vietnamese looking down on Indians.😂😂😂
@@ANL111 india is even poorer than Vietnam.
That’s because the upper classes are mainly ethnic Chinese
@@KFaizan4857Pakistan are beggars
@@KFaizan4857most of the Muslim nations are poorer than India
Theres so many languages but Yogita ji chose to speak the language of truth.
And your English is good.
Very very honest personal story. Bravo for that
You are very thoughtful, mature and wise woman. My deep respect to you
This is mind-blowing, with so many beautiful Chinese ladies single, unable to find a Chinese fellow of their calibre and education, they should be overjoyed that you found a handsome fellow whom you can live with and have a family. He's made many sacrifices as an Indian for you.
3:43 I think the exchange of Money , car or Gold should not happen from both side. Marraige should be like marraige.
In India , many people have already talked against or abondoned Dowry or modern day 'Gift' system but still it is prevalent in majority area.
Such a brave, wise and beautiful girl. Ravi is lucky. Wish you a happy life ahead.
Its changing but usually its the same attitude when you marry a foreigner in India. Same parochial attitude.
I live in California. I’m Indian and my wife is Chinese. Our cultures are very similar emotionally, although we speak different languages and eat different food. It can totally work.
I believe india will rise it again. Golden era will come......
India n china will rise
it'll never happen man
@@bixby797India already is a strong nation. Even uncle Sam thinks twice before muttering anything. CCP tasted the power in galwan. N India is the only country in the world which can visit and keep trade n defence deals with both west and the Russia.
China already Risen, India needs to come way up cannot happen untill corruption, reservation, bad politics, caste system these things are dealt with
Communist Chinese mentality difficult to change
Good luck to you, God bless !
Media & politics are dividing people, I love your honesty to speak the truth... it's not country or place which binds people... it's all about The mutual love,respect & cooperation between Two or more Human-Beings... That makes a Happy Family...other than that Everything is just A Blink of Eye... Life.
Keep Going Forward.
Everyone gets along except for Muslim people.
I fall in love with a Nepali girl and now I'm with her in a long distance relationship.
Your English is fine.. We understand everything you said and your feelings.. Ignore your relatives.. You've got such a handsome beautiful son Aman.. And your love ..And support from all of us .. They must be jealous.. .. And your opinions are honest and you are a good person.. Keep going .. lots of love
In our culture 🇮🇳 we considered women as a devi ( Goddess ) 🙏❤️
Jai Hind ❤️🇮🇳🚩
really？
Hi, I thought you are a serious person. But this video proved me utterly wrong. You are such nice girl and Ravi is so lucky to find true love. Aman is sooooo cute. God bless your family and make your wishes come true.
Being an old Indian old baba. Give you lot of respect and good wishes for your future always god will keep you happy
You dont need to learn English you speak good english, you Learn Hindi we all will get impressed god promise 😂
Pure hearted girl .
Dear girl u are in safe
hands...salute ......
It is not easy, but we can make it work. Mutual respect, enthusiastic communication, ability to compromise is the foundation of a great relationship. Blessings and best wishes from an Indian American with multicultural exposure. 🙏
"Yogita: "EDUCATION DOESN'T EQUAL WISDOM" Beautiful . Yogits I admire your determination and rational . You are a strong woman I and many others support you and encourage you so you do not get discorage. Looking forward to hear more and learn from your experience
To be honest with you,if any Indian girl do the same like that ,the situation will be the same ,for men of any country it's not hard as girl to marriage international..
No I don't think so you can see many indian girls married to korean men and foreigners.
The thing is family in india don't go this hard .
Even in my family , if someone marries foreign girl we don't bothered that much . Even if she's chinese or korean . How have seen a lots of indians and listen about it marry out of religion, caste and foreign people.
I never heard someone family ashamed of marrying black or to religion.
People are afraid surely but not ashamed in india .
Come on how many member of your family marry a dalit SC boy?@@oxy2986
are you blind? there are more indian girls in international relationships than indian boys.
Indian girls love playing the victim card with no evidence 🤦♂️
@@oxy2986well we don't marry outside generally and those korean men those guys were against the marruage but then were okay
@@oxy2986we indian women don't marry black or foreigners
You are a good daughter who respects, appreciates and understands your parents. They raised a good daughter.
We need good friendship 🇮🇳 India and 🇨🇳 china
Yes,i hope so
@@vanlalkpvlogs4244 TO BE HONEST, THE CHINESE ARE FRIENDLY PEOPLE, BUT THE FRIENDSHIP ISN'T IN FAVOR OF CHINA.
THE REASONS ARE VARIOUS, LIKE THE DALAI LAMA IN INDIA, OUR BORDER DISPUTES, ARUNACHAL, AND TWO WARS IN THE PAST.
NEITHER INDIA CAN TRUST CHINA, NOR CAN CHINA TRUST INDIA NOW.
@@vanlalkpvlogs4244 TO BE HONEST, THE CHINESE ARE FRIENDLY PEOPLE, BUT THE FRIENDSHIP ISN'T IN FAVOR OF CHINA.
THE REASONS ARE VARIOUS, LIKE THE DALAI LAMA IN INDIA, OUR BORDER DISPUTES, ARUNACHAL, AND TWO WARS IN THE PAST.
NEITHER INDIA CAN TRUST CHINA, NOR CAN CHINA TRUST INDIA NOW.
Hey congratulations. I married a beautiful Chinese smart girl some 27 years ago. We both are enjoying and at the same time proud of our respective cultures
Ravi is a good person and you also No bad habit atall
what bad habit?
@@vloggerhomemakermatlab bidi gutka tambaakj😅😂😂
😂@@jeetadityabiswas4819
wow!! well said! you are an amazing person with high morals!
Your are good person and morally High value woman, Ravi got a good person.
You are a strong person. Everything will be allright. I have lots of friends from china. I belive everything will be alright down the road.
You took a very bold step mam...
Going against your family for love.
And I understand the mindset of common chinese people , and they are correct in one way or other..India is very far behind of China when it comes to development , safety , cleanliness and we too aspire growth like china.
But corruption and less bold steps by government due to bad politics hamper India's growth.
But with time slowly we will rise...🤕
India is a vast country there are good people also and bad people also.
But most Indians are humble in nature and Ravi bhai is one of them..😊
Hope u always be happy in your life and may u and Ravi bhai prosper so much that your family will feel proud of u...🎉
Love from ur brother from..🇮🇳
You have a fair comment and if Ravi is a very good person he will find a way to unite her with her family since he is rich instead of him taking away from her family where he will find a way to compromise for her .... Living 1/2 year in China and living 1/2 year in India
God Bless You !!! You have done good thing to marring to Indian Guy. You are always safe in Indian Culture.
The correct sentence will be: "My family is ashamed of me."
Don't worry about mistakes, your english is still quite Understandable.
I believe you'll definitely improve.
@@Elysian_520 now i learned
@@Yogitavlogs 您可以使用 HelloTalk 学习英语， 我用它来学习中文。
Teri maa England se hai ya tera baap?
@@YogitavlogsChinese go back from tibet
@@tenzinnamgyal9902 cry elsewhere, you got kicked out of Tibet, live there where you are. 😂
Brilliant stuff. Good luck. I can assure you that Indian men respect women.
Thanks for sharing! You both are good souls. Your families are good and concerned about you. Time heals. Good luck!
Thank you for sharing your story so eloquently. Your body language and thoughtful word choice made it easy to understand, even without a perfect command of the language.
Very honest confessions. Hats off to you 🎉....your's English is better than many English people's...
May God Bless you Both with An Awesome Future 💕
Wish you all the BEST in your life 😀
You are a wonderful story yourself. Believe in yourself. Keep your head high.
We love you for being as a brave girl
hahahhah Ravi said i am his fighting wife now
@@Yogitavlogs I know Chinese wifes are too much loyal towards there family.
@@Yogitavlogs because I have over 150 female friends in almost all your provinces
@@amarjeetsingh6569
- :) 😀. Please check the divorce rate especially in the cities.
- Culturally Chinese men don't think they need to be loyal to their wives.
- So what do you imagine will be the result ?
@@Yogitavlogs
- I can imagine... cultural divide is a lot.
- Both need to be really patient.
- One good way is to create good loving memories for each other every day.
- Please please both MUST do this.
- Marriage is a long journey.
- At critical times, good memories will pull it through.
- Asian men especially from traditional rural backgrounds can be egoistic.
- They need to be aware & be very very sensitive to their partners needs & inner voice.
- Because, reacting from their subconcious mind, without awareness, they will mess up, unknowingly.
- Really Really hard for them to absorb that they are not the Boss of the family ... very hard ... only sustained love can cross that bridge ... & stresses of life can put pressure on that...
Yogita, your story is amazing. The way you narrated is cute. You are independent and brave. Wherever you live, you will be happy. God bless you!
You are really brave mam ❤
Bt i think indian marriages last longer than any other countrys'(if you marry any Indian boy/girl).
You did like it's said : Be yourself, rest of the world will adjust 💪💪
Chinese marriage are similar
@@comradeleppi2000 but there is no alimony in china.
@@anempath24 also bride's family don't need to give dowry in china
@@mSolace847 but in india or any democracy alimony & maintainance is compulsion. doesnt matter dowry was takem or not. and there is no Dowry in USA or Europe. still they have to give alimony.
if u compare dowry with alimony then ban alimony in india as dowry is banned.
the diff is u can avoid giving dowry. u van deny it. but aliomy is state sponsered extortion. there is no escape.
You have so much courage, and you faced so many obstacles just to follow your heart. I wish you all the best.
Your story was truly inspiring! Your English was easy enough to understand for me and your sincerity shined through.
😂 i don't know if I should laugh, but sorry to say that there are millions of Europeans and Americans have Indian husbands,they love Indian men, while you are Chinese so you must feel proud of having a good Indian husband, in fact I saw whenever a Indian youtuber visits China he gets many marriage proposals 😅we don't leave our wives like others do ,so congratulations 🎉👏🏽
there aren't millions Indo-Europeans couples. just few thousands, less than 10k. Race mixing is very low and unpopular thing in Europe.
@@browngb6628 every street you walk in US there are mixed couples everywhere. It's a very common thing
@@moonriser464 US and EU are different things. AND Indians do less race mixing.
Come on bro Don't be an asshole let them live happily!
U don’t have to be rude . Every person family backgrounds is different
You are very kind hearted.. Don't worry God is always there with you!!
Please continue regular video upload.
I started to do some of my own work after my child started kindergarten, so I don't have enough time to update. This is my problem, I will listen to your opinion 🤔
@@Yogitavlogspls take your time and upload whenever you feel like you are free to do so
In Indian culture the whole world is a family…we give highest respect to women’s …god bless all happiness to you, Ravi and Aman
If not wrong it's housewife. 2:00
Your English is good, We can understand and your articulation is excellent. Keep it up.
Blessings for the future, things will normalise as it grows, India is more row and pure at its core. China too but it’s going more artificial that’s not good in long run
Interesting to know what you are going through. I have similar experiance like you. I am Indian my wife is from Shanghai we got married and lived in Shanghai for 8 years. I have experianced similar issues like you. But we are doing good now. you need to speak to my wife to find ways to overcome these problems. Me and my wife are blessed with a little girl and I hope we could connect to share experiences and hope to support you. I'd love to hear from you. Take care and all the best.
Nice vedio ,you are strong women who don't hesitates to take tough decision ,Love from india
Positivity and endurance just radiating from this woman, I pray all the peace and happiness to her family.
I think there is nothing to be ashame of being married to Indian guy. Many white women are married to indian guys. Plus, India is one of the greatest civilizations beside china.
I understand that chinese give high preference to money but money is not everything. Money will come and go. Our karma decides our journey.
you are very intelligent! It was a good talk Afriendly one.Let India and china be friends!
India depends on china for many products
Thank you for the video!
From India!
I think no quality difference between Chinese and Indian. Same quality both. 100% matched
You are of low quality
What ?? Have u been to China !
Wish you guys all the best and accept our blessings.
Stay positive ❤❤
The reaction from your parents is natural. Even in India, we can not imagine an Indian girl marrying a Chinese and go to China to live. We indians also have negative views about Chinese culture and people. Both countries needs to work on something to improve people to people relationships. But yes, it takes two to Tango 🙂
Hahaha China, a far better country than you
@@92_09 +500 social credits you can afford real vegetables now
I love from India (odisha)
Love from China 🤗
Ram Ram ji
@@Yogitavlogs I watched your every video
Nice 👍👍
@@TarunPatra-ef9bu wow 🤩 my super fans
You are honest and brave. God bless!❤
As an indian ,I think u and ravi should live in china bcz it will be hard for u to adopt in india 🇮🇳 and also hard to find job.In india u will find lots of hatred against chinese gov bcz of 1962 india china war and china has captured our land. You will face racism as well in india.China is a developed country and u can live easy life, u can come to india for vacation .
She will not get the hate for Indo-China war, Indians are not that cheap. There are many chindian couples living in India. Example Jwala Gutta(a badminton player from India) mother is Chinese and they recently posted pictures on social media on Votings in India, she also voted as an Indian citizen. About racism, yes you might have to face it everywhere and come out strong. Indians too face the worst kind of racism in most countries and yet they become successful abroad.
Lots of love to you n your husband..... May the gods bless you❤
Now I know why Ravi still don't go to his in-laws house 😮
You are a spiritual woman. You have lot of wisdom. I don't Ravi personally but I think you are wise to know right or wrong
I'm an American married to a German, while living in Korea and we have two children. You should marry Ravi if you want. Good luck in your life and be happy while your time on this planet is not long. ....Okay, I finished watching and congratulations on your 5 years of marriage. ...and your English is spoken well. Take care.
Dowry is illegal in India
only in books
Yeah, marriage without dowry is a nobility that is done only by descent families. Dowry is still practiced in many parts of India.
What about after divorce money Even husband found his wife cheat in her That doesn't matter husband have to gave money after divorce
Dowry is illegal but alimony is legal 😂
Rip to all men in India
@@mypackmypower1996 Indian men are crying when divorce rate is not even 1% in India...lol. imagine if Indian women start asking for divorce like Chinese women..
Chinese women get dowry Money also... DOUBLE BENEFIT.
Indian women don't even get social and family security...and bs husbands too. They are not allowed to work also...
BUT CRYING BECAUSE *WOMEN GET ALIMONY BRUH*...In a country where women are thrown out of her husband's house without divorce also.
you are so beautiful,independent girl and too loyal for love ..really you are a good inspiration for all true lovers ..
Hi Yogita. Your parents were genuinly concerned because news channel show negative about India and China as well. Indians are the most successful immigrants in whichever country they go. More than half of doctors in USA and UK are from India. Indians from Gujarat dominate the Motel Industry in USA. Computer Engineers and scientists from India form backbone of industries in USA and Europe. That is a fact.
Anyways we are proud that Ravi bhai chose one of the most beautiful slim tall and good girl from China. Also we are proud that you stood by Ravi all this time. Things will get better with time with your parents. After all they care about you. But Ravi is a gem who will be there for you till his last breath. I can tell that just by looking at his videos. All the best lovely girl....❤❤❤❤❤❤
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In USA not India bhai... apni bhen ki shaadi agr Africa me krega toh hum bhi yei sochenge to be honest.
@@shantanusingh7600 Bro India is no 5 economy soon to be no 3. Be proud of it. We need to work hard to beat China and USA one day.............. But we need to support NDA For that
You're every words truly from your heart
God's help you and bless you sister
India has place for Fashion entrepreneurship,think about it..Yogita,as you're.Coming to invest in a India City,first take time to explore that city,then shortlist buying property there for your new business development, whether it's fashion or small Chinese Restaurant that will make yourself self-financed and powerful in future family growth.🌲🌹🌳🙏All the best 🙏
She can earn through TRADING . By staying at home only
Very nice. You have adjusted well. God bless you!😋
Chinese people highly intelligent and kind people ,but what your parents told you about our country is correct ,this is facts and reality of this country ,we are not civilized country ,when you live here you will get it and feel what your parents told you is right ,here problems are infinite ,china 70 years ahead in everything in India ,i still think it is better for your family to live in china ,and your son ,for good education and civilized upbringing of him , people leaving India in large numbers for a reason 😢 understand
False comment and fake id
people leaving china are more in numbers and their tries to stop them even then numbers are big.
@@ankitbhattji do you know reality of our country ,what fake I'd ? What her parents said about our country isn't true ? Or do you live anywhere else , woman not get respected as men ,so many girls killed by man just because they said no or break up , foreigners getting raped , students exam leaks, students died by electricity in coaching institute ,fake IAS officer , train accidents happened one after another,Delhi airport accidents,Bihar road collapse,woman gets killed because she didn't serv husband dinner ,is this called respect , civilized society , Chinese thinking and way of living you can't imagine cause we used to our backward third class society and thinking
Are you one of those relatives she talking about?💀😭
Well Indian are good in lying for your sure and he give a true comments that you cannot handle and try to get rid of your class system and corruption
Ravi is really lucky to have a girl like you.
We were friendly nation for over 1000s of years but after colonisation our cultural connection was shattered..we can dominate this world even in this age but only if we work together.
Lol nobody loves chinese and their country except pakistan..why do we need to go with them????
@@Bhavishiavaniso true , it's been 76 years and still we Indians believe in collectiveness and open society where everyone is good enough. But in Chinese society , it's quite opposite it's like they are in some sort of race that they need to win at all cost. Indian thinking is so much different from them. Indians don't desire to win that much dedicatedly as Chinese. And yeah , they are very cautious about things as well and in modern era , they got India as a poverty stricken and rapist country image in their mind and I can't really deny this thing since India ranked one of the most raped countries though china as well but you know , cleanliness , infrastructure and civic sense. They have better than us
@@Êíøw57
- You are trying to highlight rape in India indirectly.
- Look through all the comments by Chinese people & you will not find a single negative comment about their own country.
LEARN SOMETHING
- is China perfect ?
- The answers my friend are blowing in the wind :).
@@Bhavishiavani denying and covering aren't the solution .. regardless of my comment , every other foreigner thinks India as a highly unsafe
@@Êíøw57
- Because a foreigner thinks it is unsafe it is ?
- Have you fact checked ? ;)
- India is NOT ranked as high as media has led you to believe !
- We don't need to look to outsiders for validation... for how long shall we do that ?
- Are you aware that 5 % of European women are raped and that 10 % have been sexually abused ?
- That Sweden , Norway etc have more rape than India.
- There are many Chinese women who travel to India on business alone freely (now visa issue) and love India.
- When you write the way you do, people get wrong ideas about India.
- So I request, please don't use social media to exaggerate negativities about your own people.
- If a Chinese person and they never criticize their own sees you write like this, coming from their own culture , they think things are a war zone for women in India.This is not true.
- So much of India is extremely safe for women in India who live normal lives .
- All the negativity in our newspapers that is systematically spread across that country constantly.
- India is bad news in China, to the extent that rarely would a Chinese girl marry an Indian.
- So I request please be balanced about what you write on social media.
- Thats all. Rest is up to you.
- Learn good things from the Chinese : )
You're full of wisdom, nice
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