ALL SINGLE CHILD HAVE BEEN PUSH THEIR MOTHER TO SUPPORT THEM TO GIVE OF THE BUSINESS COST; SMART MOTHERS SHOULD GIVE THEM THE ACCOUNTING COST;BENEFIT ANALYSIS COST BOOKS TO READ DEEPLY THAT ARE ONLY THEIR MOTHERS CAN SUPPORT THEM ONLY. DO NOT GIVE THEM MONEY TO INVEST THEIR BUSINESS; ALL MOTHERS SHOULD LEARN IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO GIVE THEM SOME FISH TOOLS NOT GIVE THEM FISHES ; IT IS WITHOUT GIVING ANY MONEY ONLY GIVE THEIR EXPERT BOOKS AND TOOLS THAT ARE THE TOOLS NOT THE MONEY WHICH WILL PUSH THEM TOO EASY TO GET THEIR ONLY MONEY;BELIEVE EARNING MONEY LIKE TO USING A NEEDLE TO TAKE SAND; AND EXPENSE MONEY LIKE WAVE TAKE SAND; TEACHING THEM HOW TO EARN MONEY NOT GIVE THEM MONEY DEEPLY,COMPLETELY .
多鼓励儿子吧……儿子加油🎉❤
父母離異後,父親獨自離開30多年來可曾回家看看兩個兒子?(比起母親最長有5年未回家看他,5年30多年那個長)爸爸可曾支付或承擔孩子的生活或教育費?做兒子竟対父親無怨無恨?反而対為擔負所有開支而遠離家鄉打工的單親母親百般埋怨訴說沒得到愛?這豈不是做的多錯的多,不做就不錯?沒責任感無所作為的父親就可逍遙自在這公平嗎?這個做兒子的也是單親爸爸了要小心一點,千萬要做到別讓你的孩子長大後也怨恨你!
同意!
没有爱又何来跟呢
小熊的心歷路程讓人心疼,遭受這麼重大的磨難怎可能經過短短時間就調解於無形?!看到最後小熊和媽媽和解,心頭感到一陣酸,小熊臣服於環境了,更貼切說法是--知道在社會生存需要和內心背道而馳的偽裝。
Slinya Lin大多数人都这样哈
中国人的习惯,弱小者、弱势群体的心情是最不重要、最不被重视的,亲情里弱小的孩子就更是如此,其实永远都是孩子让大人、小的让大的
把孩子放在亲戚朋友家、看受别人的白眼和冤枉、是长人不能理解的。
最讨厌这种妈妈,不站在儿子这边,而是站在弟弟那边,什么妈妈来的,喜欢弟弟多过喜欢自己儿子
孩子的心态是受父母影响的。母亲没有给够孩子理解,包容和接纳,甚至不会不想倾听,导致儿子情绪从小被压抑。这种环境下,要求孩子感恩,善良包容是不可能的。当然成年后的儿子也需要自己做出调整放下过去的不愉快。
胡老师的讲解一针见血! 膜拜胡老师! 其他老师都以往的好👌 感恩! 只是这个妈妈说的话没到位,不过无论怎样,妈妈永远是爱孩子的! 天下父母心❤ !
这个妈妈其实还是很不容易的,对两个儿子也是尽到了基本责任的,但也可能限于精力和认知的限制,对待两个儿子同自己兄弟的关系的确有考虑不周的地方。对于过去不过多纠结是对的,但是应该对过去有反思,调整同儿子相处的原则,改善将来的母子关系。
能够理解这位母亲的难处,作为单亲母亲,不得不靠娘家抚养孩子,她也怕真跟娘家人正面刚起来,到时候她出门在外,受罪的还是自己儿子~~~~只不过我自己作为家长是没有这种情怀,我就嘱咐过我娃:“谁要是跟你过不去,就是跟我过不去;只要你占理,回来跟我说,老子出去neng死他/她!!” 当然,具体情况具体处理,至今没有一起事故发展到武力解决的地步,嘿嘿~~~但至少,小孩子听了父母这话,他觉得背后有撑腰的,他不管跟谁相处他就有底气;有底气的孩子,他往往就心地光明宽大些,反而就不容易与人结怨生仇~~~~
妈妈有她自己的内心深处的担忧,当时孩子们还小自己没有能力亲自照顾。为了孩子们她委屈求全的要去讨好那两个孩子的舅舅,希望他们会对孩子们好一些。有谁会懂她?母亲是称职而伟大的!
这个妈调解了跟没调解一样,最后说的话跟一开始有什么不同吗?这样根本走不进儿子的内心。
18岁后就自己管好自己吧
可怜的小胖熊。
原谅?以德报怨,何以报德,并不是针对刘女士,是刘女士的家人
哎,不合适早点离开
ALL SINGLE CHILD HAVE BEEN PUSH THEIR MOTHER TO SUPPORT THEM TO GIVE OF THE BUSINESS COST; SMART MOTHERS
SHOULD GIVE THEM THE ACCOUNTING COST;BENEFIT ANALYSIS COST BOOKS TO READ DEEPLY THAT ARE ONLY THEIR MOTHERS CAN SUPPORT THEM ONLY. DO NOT GIVE THEM MONEY TO INVEST THEIR BUSINESS; ALL MOTHERS SHOULD LEARN IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO GIVE THEM SOME FISH TOOLS NOT GIVE THEM FISHES ; IT IS WITHOUT GIVING ANY MONEY
ONLY GIVE THEIR EXPERT BOOKS AND TOOLS THAT ARE THE TOOLS NOT THE MONEY WHICH WILL PUSH THEM TOO EASY TO GET THEIR ONLY MONEY;BELIEVE EARNING MONEY LIKE TO USING A NEEDLE TO TAKE SAND; AND EXPENSE MONEY LIKE WAVE TAKE SAND; TEACHING THEM HOW TO EARN MONEY NOT GIVE THEM MONEY DEEPLY,COMPLETELY .
這個兒子,不養也罷!