Bride Refuses To Settle And Gives Up After Trying 11 Dresses! | Say Yes To The Dress: Big Bliss

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  • Jessica has lost a lot of weight and is excited to try on dresses to flaunt her new figure. However, her and her entourage are not too excited over the dresses Jessica tries on.
    From season 2 episode 4
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  • @xxarianahiltonxx5116
    @xxarianahiltonxx5116 2 роки тому +375

    Her first wedding dress was very beautiful on her. It's unfortunate that everything went wrong for her on her day.

    • @rachelmm05
      @rachelmm05 2 роки тому +11

      Agreed her 1st dress was beautiful but in her mind it wasn't.. a lot of these gowns were equally beautiful. But it's hard to see beauty in yourself when you living in a negative mindset. That's definitely the most difficult thing to overcome.

    • @mariesmith1616
      @mariesmith1616 Рік тому

      The dress was beautiful and she looked great on it. Now she comes back with more weight and unrealistic expectations.

    • @gardenjoy5223
      @gardenjoy5223 5 місяців тому +1

      Pretty sure NOT everything went wrong on her day. That was a very good dress for her and she's degrading it.
      This girl doesn't need another dress. This girl needs therapy. If the glass isn't full 100%, to her it's totally empty. My best guess is, that she's dissatisfied with life, because she's actually dissatisfied with herself.

  • @VictoriaGates
    @VictoriaGates 2 роки тому +346

    This bride really needs a store that specializes in fitting plus-size brides. There are structural things that can be built into gowns for bigger women that flatter and enhance the good aspects of their figures. That said this could very much be a mental block she had.

    • @daetyme998
      @daetyme998 2 роки тому +9

      are Jo, and Al only in Briton?

    • @TheScarlett618
      @TheScarlett618 2 роки тому +3

      @@daetyme998 Yes.

    • @indigohalo3421
      @indigohalo3421 2 роки тому +4

      I love say yes to the dress..I think it's in Australia..I just get so happy when the brides end up loving themselves..

    • @ThePrInCeSs910624
      @ThePrInCeSs910624 2 роки тому +13

      She doesn't hate the dresses.. She hate her body actually..that what block her mind to see her beauty..

    • @thingyado
      @thingyado 2 роки тому +9

      It really annoys me that they always act like dresses for plus sizes are so few and hard to find. Most of the women in the western world require larger sizes. Why aren’t they making and selling dresses to accommodate them?

  • @jemmaj2919
    @jemmaj2919 2 роки тому +733

    The problem with her is not liking herself in the mirror, this needs Jo and Al's magic

    • @s.constanze8496
      @s.constanze8496 2 роки тому +17

      Exactly my first thought. Bless her heart ❤️

    • @lynnemunro1
      @lynnemunro1 2 роки тому +9

      I was thinking the same!

    • @danahashcroft9482
      @danahashcroft9482 2 роки тому +16

      Or Auntie Gok

    • @heavenlymilano
      @heavenlymilano 2 роки тому +4

      or Gok's :))

    • @GAPeach58
      @GAPeach58 2 роки тому +11

      I feel for this woman. I had to rent my wedding gown 35 years ago; as a plus size woman there just wasn't anything available in the bridal salons. I wasn't happy on my wedding day either. I'm glad we have people like Jo & Al now; & Gok, he designs gown while woman is wearing it! Note; these people AREN'T in the USA 🇺🇸. American designers need to open up their eyes; there's a market out there for curvy brides. The average American woman is NOT a size 6.

  • @maryannfelice6326
    @maryannfelice6326 2 роки тому +399

    I'm an obese woman and I felt Jessica, Randy, and Joan did their very best given the budget. Two grand is a lot of money for most of us though we do see many of their customers spending thousands more. I tend to think Randy was right; this lovely customer was so fearing having another fiasco that nothing was good enough. I felt a couple of them looked quite nice on her but if she doesn't see that there's not much anyone can do. I certainly hope she was eventually successful in finding a gown. I feel for everyone involved.

    • @AdrianaNicholeCosmetics
      @AdrianaNicholeCosmetics 2 роки тому +21

      $2000 for a wedding dresse is decent, but she should’ve shopped somewhere else. Kleinfeld is it the place for a $2000 budget when your plus sized.

    • @kathyscheiman2715
      @kathyscheiman2715 2 роки тому +21

      Plus she is shopping in NYC which is expensive

    • @RaquelPereira-fj4kt
      @RaquelPereira-fj4kt 2 роки тому +11

      @@AdrianaNicholeCosmetics exactly. if you want to go to the most expensive wedding dress store either you have the budget or you'll get the worse dresses. plus the alterations. they have the best seamstresses so double the price as in other salons

    • @immealldayeveryday9425
      @immealldayeveryday9425 2 роки тому

      @@AdrianaNicholeCosmetics yup ur right

    • @crivket1233
      @crivket1233 Рік тому

      🤣😆😅😅😆🤣🤣😅😅😆🤣

  • @stacey5440
    @stacey5440 2 роки тому +39

    I'm a US size 22, and I would recommend to brides shopping for their dream gown to wear your best foundation garments, an approximation of the hair you'll have the day of, and your absolute favorite makeup look when you shop. Stick with no statement jewelry to distract from the looks, too.
    This bride is a cutie pie and I hope she finds the perfect dress for her!

  • @yen3883
    @yen3883 2 роки тому +232

    I thought she looked great in her first wedding dress. It wasn't that bad that it HAUNTS her. In fact, the first wedding dress was better than all the 11 ones that she tried on here.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +4

      it wasn't as bad as some of the dresses she tried on but it still didn't flatter her. i understand why she was unhappy with it, part of the reason i keep watching these is to try and figure out what dress i could get that would look better on me than my actual wedding dress did.

    • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965
      @dorisschneider-coutandin9965 2 роки тому +26

      Thought the same. I also don't get the idea of vow renewals in the US. To me it's just wasting money. You have a wedding and your vows and promises are meant to be for the rest of your lives together as a couple. No need to repeat them again and again.

    • @erinjaynes
      @erinjaynes 2 роки тому +15

      Poor girl. I think she looked great in her wedding pictures. Beautiful girl. If this still haunts her, maybe there’s some deeper issues.

    • @janetturk2744
      @janetturk2744 2 роки тому +14

      I think her 1st dress she wore when she got married the first time looked the best. You don’t take the love out of your first wedding
      Over a dress she is so difficult to please I doubt her husband even wanted a redo. I am obese about her size and I would never behave like her she doesn’t need another wedding she need
      s something else
      Like a therapist

    • @virginiaboone8163
      @virginiaboone8163 2 роки тому +8

      I agree. I don’t know why the consultants at kept putting strapless on her…just not becoming to her figure type.

  • @PCOH051610
    @PCOH051610 2 роки тому +39

    There’s a lot going on in this appointment. I think she looked lovely in her original dress! So, her wedding wasn’t what she dreamed of but that was four years ago. She seems to not know what she wants or what will best suit her body. The problem isn’t her budget. I totally agree with Randy when he said she is her own worse enemy. I really hope that she has moved on, with or without her renewal ceremony.

  • @mmegraham
    @mmegraham 2 роки тому +97

    In this episode, Jessica is the name of the consultant, not the name of the bride. And once again, Kleinfeld is not the place to go for plus-size or less-expensive dresses. If you're a larger-sized bride with a smaller budget, go elsewhere.

    • @ericfilteau1934
      @ericfilteau1934 2 роки тому

      You absolutely right the budget for that place and plus size to low
      $ 3000.00 she will have been more lucky

  • @graceaxisa4213
    @graceaxisa4213 2 роки тому +22

    I actually thought the original dress she wore at her first wedding was gorgeous on her 😍

  • @melodied4314
    @melodied4314 2 роки тому +35

    IMO she looked lovely in her original gown and Dress #11 looked quite lovely too. The other dresses were the ugliest on any show. Too bad Jo and Al's Curvy Boutique is across the pond because they have gorgeous plus size gowns. Kleinfelds should expand its plus size selection!!! While the staff was polite and sympathetic, by not having plus sizes, the store was saying "our store carries only smaller sizes."

    • @karenhouser4123
      @karenhouser4123 2 роки тому +3

      Jo and Al cater to plus sizes beautifully and Klienfelds caters to smaller sizes beautifully. You should go to the stores that are for your size to get the best results.

    • @hennykatz-moryoussef1716
      @hennykatz-moryoussef1716 2 роки тому +4

      Curvy Boutique are expensive too

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 2 роки тому +2

      @Karen Houser I agree. Her low budget made it really hard for her to find her dress. Kleinfeld doesn't have any designers who actually design exclusively for bigger bodies. I know Christian Siriano does, and he has designs there, but he is way over $2000.
      I think she should have gone to a plus-size wedding dress store, and possibly outside NYC. But I also think she should have done a little more research into the style of dress that looked good on her and where to find that kind of dress. Brides who prep well usually find what they're looking for.

  • @gracielou1407
    @gracielou1407 2 роки тому +109

    Randy is right her expectations are so high and IMO she is constantly disappointed with how she sees herself in the mirror. My advice to her would be to put off the renewal until she can budget more for the dress and seriously consider weight loss because until she gets a body that she can admire she will never find a gown. I am saying this from her perspective since she seems unhappy with how she looks. It was my impression that she was hoping to find a dress that made her look sleeker so I think she needs to budget more.

    • @susanelrawi7080
      @susanelrawi7080 2 роки тому +22

      No Randy is NOT right. Plus size or no any woman should be thrilled with her wedding gown. Watch Jo and Al Curvy Brides. Almost every bride coming through their shop has issue with their size but the dresses there are BEAUTIFUL with a lot of shapes and silhouettes these women care about their clients and how they feel. Kleinfeld's should take a page from their book.

    • @gracielou1407
      @gracielou1407 2 роки тому +18

      @@susanelrawi7080 I agree that everyone should find the dress of their dreams and feel beautiful but one thing we don't know about Curvey Brides is the cost of the gowns. Money is never mentioned. I think one of the things that Randy meant was that her expectations exceed the amount of money she has to spend. I think the staff tried very hard to find her a dress with very little to go on from the bride and I believe the consultant was right in that she did not know what she wanted. It sounds like with her first wedding more things went wrong than went right so she has a lot of negative memories and that can be very difficult to overcome. I still feel that she did not like what she saw in the mirror which is a shame. Being a plus size woman I can understand why shopping is not always very pleasant. I think Kleinfeld's problem is that they have gowns in plus sizes but not plus size gowns that are designed especially for plus sizes like at Curvey Brides, not just larger sizes in their existing inventory. Gowns designed for plus sizes have different and more appropriate structure to compliment a plus size figure.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +1

      @@gracielou1407 at the same time, though, kleinfeld's is a very high-end bridal shop. ideally they would show her dresses that WOULD make her look amazing and then she could go price-shopping to find something similar for cheaper somewhere else. but kleinfeld's doesn't make a sale that way so she'll just have to do it the hard way - browse ebay and give the seamstress overseas her measurements 🤷‍♀

    • @gracielou1407
      @gracielou1407 2 роки тому +8

      @@dietotaku I think they showed her the best they had in her price range but most of the gowns were too flowy and lacked structure. You are right in that she might be better off searching the market for bridal shops specializing in plus sizes.

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler 2 роки тому +5

      I think you hit the nail on the head when you said "it was my impression that she was hoping to find a dress that made her look sleeker..."
      That was why she was not really happy with anything the consultants brought out.

  • @jfromgausa8762
    @jfromgausa8762 2 роки тому +13

    Why is she putting herself through this? She’s happily married and only for four years. Give it 20 years and then renew vows. Renewing vows and spending time and money after four years is just plain silly!

    • @emsnewssupkis6453
      @emsnewssupkis6453 2 роки тому +1

      She is obviously suffering from a psychiatric problem and is trying to fix this via eating too much.

    • @gardenjoy5223
      @gardenjoy5223 5 місяців тому +3

      What this whole nonsense with 'renewing' vows?! Your first ones got stale? Molded? Brittle? Discolored?
      You made vows for as long as you both live. There still good. It's absolutely and totally ridiculous.

  • @L4dyShadow320
    @L4dyShadow320 2 роки тому +4

    I love how these people walk into rooms of plastic and just go "ah yes, this one's nice". How do they see the dress through all the white, plastic, and light reflection!? 🤣 Experts at their finest =')

  • @ceceliamoreno1845
    @ceceliamoreno1845 2 роки тому +8

    Anyone wanting a vow renewal only four years into a marriage has other issues going on.

    • @trotter7679
      @trotter7679 2 роки тому

      Bride wanted to create New memories from a few mentioned SNAFU'S from her original wedding. Renewal makes sense.

    • @gabrielaencina3246
      @gabrielaencina3246 2 роки тому +1

      @@trotter7679 I think that’s the point of why she has issues. She can’t move past her bad experience and thinks doing it again will solve everything. She needs to look deeper into herself and try to be happy first

    • @gardenjoy5223
      @gardenjoy5223 5 місяців тому +1

      @@gabrielaencina3246 Anything would be a bad experience for her. Look at how beautiful she looks in that first and actual wedding dress! But she is utterly degrading it!
      She has a lot of issues and probably none have to do with her wedding day.

  • @ThePrInCeSs910624
    @ThePrInCeSs910624 2 роки тому +3

    Actually the 10th dress fits her better than others and she looks beautiful.. But yeah, when the bad memory is still in your mind and you thinking too much about it.. You can't see your own beauty.. Randy is right..

  • @candacejones8578
    @candacejones8578 2 роки тому +23

    She should go see Jo and Al in UK . This store doesn't really have plus size dresses .

    • @cyflym11
      @cyflym11 2 роки тому +8

      If she can't afford to spend any more on the dress I doubt she can afford to fly to England and see Jo and Al. Really those two should start training people up and open a store in the U.S. because they'd have people queuing up.

    • @sshms414
      @sshms414 2 роки тому +1

      Agree she'd get therapy and a dress

    • @ClaireisVegan
      @ClaireisVegan 2 роки тому

      Or she could motivate herself to lose couple of stone? She would feel better about herself

  • @ronyagpd
    @ronyagpd 2 роки тому +5

    This firm are not uniquely larger size specialists. She needs the American equivalent of our Essex pair who specifically work with brides who are Large and beyond. They are psychologists as much as bridal fashion experts and truly wonderful human beings.

  • @sof1099
    @sof1099 2 роки тому +2

    dress #10 looked so pretty on her though! she looked like a goddess in that. But being overweight and insecure myself, I can totally see why sometimes we fail to see beauty in ourselves. It's hard.

  • @sshms414
    @sshms414 2 роки тому +3

    First dress looks gorgeous on her

  • @kitty62862
    @kitty62862 2 роки тому +10

    Kleinfeld needs to hire Jo & Al. Not just as consultants, but as buyers for the plus size department.

  • @vivlund
    @vivlund 2 роки тому +19

    The last 2 dresses were beautiful and looked great on her. I don’t get it.

    • @jellybeanbear7017
      @jellybeanbear7017 2 роки тому +8

      I think she dont like her body, the dress is not the problem

    • @audunique6905
      @audunique6905 2 роки тому +7

      Ya, the second to last one was beautiful on her. It was just a beautiful dress in general.

  • @whatevergoesforme5129
    @whatevergoesforme5129 2 роки тому +7

    Kleinfeld does not have any flattering dresses for plus size women. There was this episode of a preacher's daughter when they actually raised the price and the chosen gown was still a big fail. Compare the dresses in the UK shop for big women and one can see the difference.

    • @salifyanjikunda5426
      @salifyanjikunda5426 2 роки тому +1

      That dress was awful on her body, yet very exorbitant. Not even Randy could rescue that situation.

    • @nayahri
      @nayahri 2 роки тому +2

      I remember that one. It was a Pnina dress. Great dress but it still looked terrible on her.

  • @nphipps9406
    @nphipps9406 2 роки тому +1

    that second to last dress was perfect for her

  • @marciabenson9371
    @marciabenson9371 2 роки тому +2

    Too bad that Jo and Al don’t have a shop here in the States.

  • @carableu
    @carableu 2 роки тому +3

    Don’t try to recreate a bad experience. It simply cannot be done.

  • @rosinaferrante8532
    @rosinaferrante8532 2 роки тому +2

    I think that if this bride dropped about 50lbs she would feel so much better about herself,she's decided that she does not good in anything and it's not true,the last 2 dresses looked good on her.

  • @CharChar876
    @CharChar876 2 місяці тому

    The last 2 dresses she looked beautiful in!

  • @sarahdee374
    @sarahdee374 2 роки тому +1

    Sad! But if I had a $2K budget I would not go to Kleinfelds. I'd check out more budget places, resale shops etc.

  • @finfan83
    @finfan83 2 роки тому +6

    This Jessica the consultant in this episode was really trying high and low to find something for this client, hope they didn't cut her bonus or something for letting the client go with no purchase. I think that the budget was the main obstacle here, to select something with enough wow factor to overcome her insecurities.

  • @tcconnection
    @tcconnection 2 роки тому +5

    If we could all just go to Gok

  • @gardenjoy5223
    @gardenjoy5223 5 місяців тому +1

    "Renewal" of the vows. Were the original ones stale? Molded? Damaged goods? Expired after less than 4 years? Plus I absolutely love her REAL wedding dress!
    So many people have nothing in this world. They can't afford 1 wedding dress. And here is someone to spend another big amount on a wedding dress, that is not even a wedding dress. Her wedding was 4 years ago. I can't help but find this very self-centered. Maybe she would be more happy, if she'd help others have a small dream come true, instead of totally focusing on her big day, which was already.

  • @cornishmaid9138
    @cornishmaid9138 2 роки тому +2

    Al and Jo would have had her fitted in the perfect dress in a jiffy. Klienfields and staff really needs to get up to speed with the larger sized dresses and fittings. So so many brides are not skinny Lizzies any more.

  • @beckykazeks6827
    @beckykazeks6827 2 роки тому +4

    She definately needed a corset back. It's too bad the store couldn't help a little on the price.

  • @valeriedflaum4217
    @valeriedflaum4217 2 роки тому +2

    I am a former New Yorker. Wish Kleinfelds had been there for me.

  • @mindyedwards7576
    @mindyedwards7576 2 роки тому +4

    None of the dresses she tried on were good enough. I think she looked lovely in her original dress. As a plus size person myself i think it's more to do with how you see in the mirror than the dresses themselves. A plus size specialist would be better as they have more idea.

  • @sandisteinberg731
    @sandisteinberg731 2 роки тому +4

    American brides don't need to go abroad. There's a wonderful store in Chicago (sorry, I forgot the name), and I can't believe that it's the only shop that specializes in larger size gowns. If it is, most brides are really in trouble. Sad

    • @dorisschneider-coutandin9965
      @dorisschneider-coutandin9965 2 роки тому +1

      You mean Shanelle of Haute and Co. Bridal Boutique. That shop no longer exists. She gave up.

    • @sandisteinberg731
      @sandisteinberg731 2 роки тому +1

      @@dorisschneider-coutandin9965 I'm very sorry to hear that. She was very good to her brides and seemed to have a happy staff.

  • @elenigrigoropoulos1872
    @elenigrigoropoulos1872 2 роки тому +1

    A lot of the dresses really looked good on her, I think she is confused I don't think she knows what she wants. She wants her dress but she needs to be specific with what she wants.

  • @tarynsmell4811
    @tarynsmell4811 2 роки тому

    the second dress was so pretty and looked good on her

  • @monaessam4567
    @monaessam4567 2 роки тому +1

    I love that episode..it is realistic...so sorry for the bride whishing her luck else were.

  • @cornishmaid9138
    @cornishmaid9138 2 роки тому +5

    I thought she looked lovely in the dress she got married in.

  • @lillyrose6568
    @lillyrose6568 2 роки тому

    I wish the title didn't spoil the ending!

  • @janevandervoort6507
    @janevandervoort6507 2 роки тому

    Gok would’ve changed her into an absolute princess WITHIN her budget!!!

  • @Teresia12
    @Teresia12 2 роки тому

    I love Randy's tie!!

  • @devong7124
    @devong7124 2 роки тому +7

    Last 2 dresses looked best. Pretty, and suited her body type. Definitely needs dress with straps. I can't see spending time looking for misery when there are other things to be happy about. If she really wants a Dress to light her firecrackers , she needs to go visit Jo, or Wok.

  • @beckyluvstoscrapnsew
    @beckyluvstoscrapnsew 2 роки тому +3

    I think her wedding dress looked pretty good….maybe she needs to work at getting into that dress made back to its original size before they took it out to fit when she gained weight…….. I was a very big woman and after struggling for years to lose weight I had gastric sleeve surgery and lost most of my excess weight but stopped losing when the loose skin became a bigger issue than those last few kilos…. I think it could help her lose weight if she can live without eating as she used to .

  • @alisonfraser8231
    @alisonfraser8231 2 роки тому +2

    I think she was right. They kept making reference to her size and budget. It is their fault if they don’t carry enough of a size range. It’s not her size. It’s their stock. And the reference to a “perfect size 6 or size 2” Big difference between the two. Who decides what’s perfect? Christian Siriano never makes clients feel like their body is inconvenient. That is completely unnecessary. You should strive to sell as many gowns to as many customers as possible. I see a lot of fat people wearing wedding bands out there. You are missing out on $$$.

  • @pennylehrer1306
    @pennylehrer1306 2 роки тому +5

    If you say large women deserve to look beautiful.....WHY DON'T YOU HAVE A BIGGER SELECTION?!

    • @MsAngelique
      @MsAngelique 2 роки тому +2

      I don't think the consultants control the stock.

  • @Rhieshoteats
    @Rhieshoteats 2 роки тому

    The dress she wore the first time around looked better than any of the ones she tried.

  • @zabindhanji
    @zabindhanji Рік тому

    I thought that the last 2 dresses were flattering on her. Perhaps she does need the Jo and Al magic touch.

  • @doctorderpage2848
    @doctorderpage2848 2 роки тому

    Joan is awesome, I love her voice.

  • @GioiaFede
    @GioiaFede Рік тому

    I love it how the bride is fierce and doesn't settle just because she's on a budget and a non standard size and I totally disagree with Randy this time: this bride did not have trouble finding the dress cause she's her own worst enemy, she didn't find it cause you made it look like her size and budget forbid her to have even one decent dress out of thousends in the story (though I agree with some of the comments that say that's not the right salon for her). I think the last couple of dresses were of the right style for her, she looked good in them, so the consultants should have shown her those ones much earlier on and jacked her up with a veil or something to give her the vibes of the complete look as an actual bride. The dress she got on her wedding is nice and looks good on her, but I can see why, linked to bad memories, she wants something completely different now.

  • @vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540
    @vsbaretummysugastonguetech1540 2 роки тому

    Good for her!

  • @virginiapalmer5669
    @virginiapalmer5669 2 роки тому +1

    Yeah that second the last dress is very pretty on her.... She just doesn't like her body 🤔 and being a plus size woman myself I can understand her fear.... but you have to see what looks nice on you and accept it and accept your body for the way it is.

  • @kristic4472
    @kristic4472 2 роки тому

    I liked the last 2, especially the 2nd to last. That being said, ballgown would've been better on her than some of those dresses. When you're a larger size, dresses that cut at the hip/butt area don't do any favors. Have the skirt start at the natural waist or an empire waist. Or for the more mermaid direction, have it kick out at about the knees, but anything at hips and thighs are not going to work. I hope she found her dress.

  • @margotk538
    @margotk538 Рік тому

    I have gained a lot of weight after the pandemic and giving birth to my son, since then it’s hard to be happy with how clothes fit on me.
    I can understand why this lady is not happy with the dresses as she has gained more weight than when she first got married 4 years ago.
    Perhaps its time to have a healthy diet to get back to the size she’s comfortable with before picking a wedding dress. As many mentioned, she’s already married so there’s no real rush after just 4 years, maybe wait another year like 5 years?

  • @ceramicvases
    @ceramicvases 2 роки тому

    I think some cap sleeves (fluttery mid length) would have really suited her.

  • @rachelmm05
    @rachelmm05 2 роки тому +1

    A lot of these dresses looked beautiful on her and fitted her plus-sized shape but I think it's her self-deception. For a renewal she could've just gotten a beautiful bridesmaids dress or an evening gown. Tbh, she could find a beautiful dress at this store or someplace else, but until she learns to control her eating and emotional wellbeing it will be the same thing. No dresses will be good enough as long as you see yourself unworthy to wear them. Smh

  • @mariettaborders1647
    @mariettaborders1647 11 місяців тому

    Honestly I don’t see why she needs to re-do her wedding she looked beautiful in her wedding pictures she and her husband should spend the money going on great unforgettable second honeymoon trip

  • @sherrymason2275
    @sherrymason2275 2 роки тому

    The #10 looked good

  • @anitasinclair8160
    @anitasinclair8160 2 роки тому

    What makes size 6 or size 2 perfect?

  • @WatchingBadTV
    @WatchingBadTV 2 роки тому +1

    I feel like say yes to the dress is really trying to meet the demand that Jo and Al have created in the viewers. Literally nobody could ever replace them. Randy's a doll but he definitely does not know how to deal with these plus size brides the way he does with the size twos.

  • @Hibbity_Hobbity
    @Hibbity_Hobbity 2 роки тому

    I truly hope she found what she was looking for. I really wish they did a “where are they now” kind of thing to see what happened but maybe that’s just me being nosy and getting attached to the idea of people’s dreams coming true

  • @thisgurlownsgames843
    @thisgurlownsgames843 Рік тому

    This bride needs to love herself more. The dresses looked beautiful on her but she hated every single dress and at that point the problem is the brides opinion of herself. She even stated she hated how she looked on her original wedding day. It’s time for her to learn to love herself

    • @micheleM-wn8qf
      @micheleM-wn8qf 4 місяці тому

      No it is time to REALLY love herself and see a qualified health professional who can help her lose the weight. HUGE health risk...

  • @RichardPennetti
    @RichardPennetti 14 днів тому

    This woman is blaming the gowns because she is extremely overweight and not happy with herself. Plus, the budget isn’t compatible with Kleinfeld.

  • @cheekypiper512
    @cheekypiper512 2 роки тому

    Yes the 10th.....

  • @alisonshanahan1237
    @alisonshanahan1237 7 місяців тому

    Pink is the wrong colour for this lady, she's an Autumn, yellow based colours are needed.

  • @terecee1204
    @terecee1204 2 роки тому

    I wonder if Randy does a big beautiful range

  • @Iceharuyuki
    @Iceharuyuki 2 роки тому

    I felt she looked gorgeous and slender in the last dresses I think she's not seeing her own beauty.

  • @soimsha.
    @soimsha. 2 роки тому

    With as much money as Klienfield makes there’s no reason they shouldn’t have a bigger selection of plus size gowns

  • @lyndaa7560
    @lyndaa7560 2 роки тому

    All the dresses looked the same but no dress will be right for her as she’s not comfortable in her head with anything she’s sees on herself. She should get a lovely plain, flattering dress & jacket, I couldn’t see anything wrong with her original wedding dress but I could see plenty of things wrong with the wedding photos. Good Luck & best wishes for the future to you both xxx

  • @DestineeBedoya-x1u
    @DestineeBedoya-x1u Рік тому

    Good morning

  • @ivettesantana4319
    @ivettesantana4319 2 роки тому

    If you dont wanna settle, get a custom made, loose weight, shop online or go to curvy show.

  • @georgielancaster1356
    @georgielancaster1356 2 роки тому

    This is utterly appalling. If she had gone to Jo and Al in England, she would have had dresses that looked amazing, and in different pinks, whites, creams, greys... They have had at least 2 purple wedding dresses that were stunning, as well as red - and black and black and white. and not that hideous flesh underwear colour this store claimed was pink.
    Given the huge numbers of obese Americans, it is shameful that these stores stock such small numbers of dresses and stock hideously made dresses that do nothing to flatter.
    Given the American love of capitalism, it utterly stuns me that nobody has set up a supreme bridal store for women size 16 plus.
    I know 16 is a different size in America - but I don't know it. The rest of the world knows my reference.
    There needs to be expert fitters who understand what fits and flatters all the shapes that go with a size...
    A short, heavy breasted woman, to a tall smaller breasted woman who are officially the same size - and everything in between. This shop should actually admit they don't care about big women and stop wasting their time and giving them such horrendous, depressing experiences.
    They just shove them into anything. They have no idea what suits, what can be done - they stock hideous dresses because they just shove anything on these fat women.
    Whatever they say. they clearly don't give a stuff.
    Any big girls watching this, watch Jo and Al in UK. And Gok just did a Polish bridal fitting for a big girl - and he also gave some tips for improving a dress look. The dresses were so much nicer in POLAND, FFS!

  • @cheekypiper512
    @cheekypiper512 2 роки тому

    What's with the necklace?

  • @marilaucher9989
    @marilaucher9989 2 роки тому

    I am guessing that the fabric and alterations would have taken this woman way over budget. Is this all just for show? The poor client. They also had to know that stocking a few larger dresses would have enabled her to see the dresses in a better light. She said that her original dress did not fit. Wow .Poor salesmanship . Thankfully they were very polite.

  • @stephanieheck9786
    @stephanieheck9786 2 роки тому +2

    So many salons that carry bigger sizes.. Kleinfelds selection is small. Any designer who wont make bigger sizes or diff colors when people are spending thousands, sucks. No reason to size people out of their dream dress

  • @kimmichaud7741
    @kimmichaud7741 2 роки тому

    I'm confused why she hasn't lost weight if she hated the way she looked at her first wedding in fact I think she's alot bigger now

  • @evelynmoreno3919
    @evelynmoreno3919 2 роки тому

    I have a solution, a Hefty bag and a. Elt!

  • @lazyriver53
    @lazyriver53 2 роки тому

    She looked beautiful in her first wedding dress. I think there are deeper issues here

  • @armpitfuzz
    @armpitfuzz 2 роки тому +3

    I do wish the brides would wear suitable foundation garments.

  • @TriniWoman.com7991
    @TriniWoman.com7991 2 роки тому

    WROOONNNNGGGG DRESS STORE...!!!
    JO AND AL WOULD'VE HAD HER FEELING AND LOOKING LIKE A MILLION DOLLARS AND MORE...!!!!

  • @elsadrummond2428
    @elsadrummond2428 Рік тому

    "Big girls shouldn't have to settle" then not even a minute later "well with her budget, size and colour choice there isn't much"

  • @bethjay5225
    @bethjay5225 2 роки тому +507

    Jo and Al could solve this!! A corset would work wonders, but dress #10 looked really nice and suited her shape.

    • @angrydonutface7420
      @angrydonutface7420 2 роки тому +26

      Yeah these dresses lacked the structure of the dresses Jo and Al have.

    • @dawnywarthog6642
      @dawnywarthog6642 2 роки тому +10

      Absolutely, no question.

    • @simren7286
      @simren7286 2 роки тому +20

      I always wonder if the dresses in Jo and Al's boutique cost more than the ones here because plus size dresses are always a lot more pricey in the sister syttd shows. I hope that they are more affordable because every bride deserves to feel gorgeous without breaking the bank :)

    • @malpqueen2.057
      @malpqueen2.057 2 роки тому +6

      That was exactly what I was thinking watching this. Al and Jo could easily help this beautiful woman find her dream dress.

    • @DeathByBlonde1
      @DeathByBlonde1 2 роки тому +5

      Yes!!!!!!!! I came here to say this exact thing!!! This bride needs to see Jo and Al!!!! It would be an absolute life changing experience for her….

  • @_lithp
    @_lithp 2 роки тому +589

    She hates her body, not the dresses.

    • @somebody-br2hm
      @somebody-br2hm 2 роки тому +43

      Sad but true

    • @mahnazqaiser3371
      @mahnazqaiser3371 2 роки тому +8

      Surprise surprise.

    • @erikarascon1347
      @erikarascon1347 2 роки тому +10

      💯 agree

    • @cyflym11
      @cyflym11 2 роки тому +29

      It says at the top that she's lost weight but I can't see it. I think she looked slimmer in her wedding photos.

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +20

      lots of us heavy women hate our bodies, but if the bridal industry hasn't figured out how to make dresses that make us look fantastic that's on them.

  • @nicolefox777
    @nicolefox777 2 роки тому +173

    I just don’t get the whole idea of spending so much money for a vow renewal, especially after just a few years. If I had the money i would much rather take a fabulous trip with my husband.

    • @cyflym11
      @cyflym11 2 роки тому +23

      I agree and I also can't understand why people go for the full bridal gown for a renewal. Don't they feel a bit daft walking down the aisle in all that when they are already married? She could have looked very stylish say in a fifties style gown with a little hat and veil and made the whole thing fun instead of all this stress for nothing.

    • @angrydonutface7420
      @angrydonutface7420 2 роки тому +15

      Given that it's only been 4 years, I think she wanted a do-over more than a renewal. Personally, I'd spend my money on something else, but each to their own. I hope her second ceremony met her expectations and helped her heal from the first one!

    • @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat
      @MrsSlocombesPuddyCat 2 роки тому +20

      ... I don't understand the point of vow renewals at all. The vows I said 30 years ago are good enough. I would spend the extra money on a great holiday too.

    • @bodybalancer
      @bodybalancer 2 роки тому

      This :P

    • @Anonymous4212
      @Anonymous4212 2 роки тому +4

      @Nicole Fox I'm sorry but I have to disagree with you ladies and I'll tell you why because most people that get married don't even make it through the first year of marriage let alone the first 10 years and half end in divorce. The initial wedding is actually less important than a vowel renewal because you haven't even started the real work yet which is the marriage not a wedding. The vowel renewal is especially important because it shows that you have made it over tremendous milestones and still have come out strong and still in love that's what it represents. This is coming from a woman who has been married for almost 10 years now and in a almost 20 year long relationship and yes I also will be renewing my vows too because it is just as important if big even more important. 😉

  • @kitterglitter7777
    @kitterglitter7777 2 роки тому +146

    I think the brides original gown was very pretty and it looked good on her. Idk why she said it looked terrible because it really didn't at all

    • @mravina1614
      @mravina1614 2 роки тому +9

      I thought so too! She looked beautiful in the pictures.

    • @emsnewssupkis6453
      @emsnewssupkis6453 2 роки тому

      She needs a psychiatrist, not a dressmaker.

    • @OrlaAfikiruweh
      @OrlaAfikiruweh 2 роки тому +2

      Same here! I loved the look 😍

    • @soimsha.
      @soimsha. 2 роки тому +1

      It could’ve been the back of the dress

    • @emanhabib7202
      @emanhabib7202 Рік тому +1

      Totally agree 👍

  • @perlamoreno7400
    @perlamoreno7400 2 роки тому +167

    The dress before the last it’s was absolutely beautiful and I think that dress really fit her the best

    • @suepost9026
      @suepost9026 2 роки тому +8

      I do agree with you. That was nice in her.

    • @jorayagregorio5135
      @jorayagregorio5135 2 роки тому +1

      I agree!

    • @mimi-xx
      @mimi-xx Рік тому +1

      right?? it looked gorgeous on her, the ballgowns they pulled at first just made her look wider.

  • @JustMe-ks8qc
    @JustMe-ks8qc 2 роки тому +144

    This lady needs to take a trip to Essex to see Jo and Al at the Curvy Brides Boutique.

    • @devong7124
      @devong7124 2 роки тому +4

      Exactly!!

    • @dietotaku
      @dietotaku 2 роки тому +20

      if she doesn't have $2000 for a dress, guaranteed she doesn't have the money for a plane ticket overseas (to say nothing of how much jo & al charge for their dresses, which is never mentioned on the show - probably because they're super expensive).

    • @pollypockets508
      @pollypockets508 2 роки тому +7

      That would probably cost more than 2K. Lol

    • @maidahaltrecht6577
      @maidahaltrecht6577 2 роки тому +2

      exactly my thoughts.

    • @catladyfromky4142
      @catladyfromky4142 2 роки тому +2

      I bet that those dresses are way over $2000. Remember that the same number in pounds equals a higher dollar price.
      For the extra fabric, pattern changes, and better structural components, there is a lot of additional cost. There is a reaaon why the budget and price of the gowns are never mentioned on the show.
      And just because all the brides on the show find their dresses there doesn't mean that all the brides who go there always find their dresses. The ones who are on the show usually use this shop as a last-minute stop because they couldn't find anything anywhere else. So they have lowered expectations AND an increased budget because of the time constraints.

  • @kimsouders
    @kimsouders 2 роки тому +37

    She is not happy with herself. Thats sad. Some of those dresses looked really nice on her

  • @poponachtschnecke
    @poponachtschnecke 2 роки тому +27

    Why don't viewers realize these shows are over 10 years old? Randy has grey hair now! This happened before Jo and Al had a show

  • @profe3330
    @profe3330 2 роки тому +40

    I actually like the dress she wore at the first wedding much better than any of these.

  • @wanderingforester
    @wanderingforester 2 роки тому +43

    The second last dress looked so good on her. Hope she found her dress

  • @jimrebr
    @jimrebr 2 роки тому +76

    I think she looks great in her original wedding dress, 4 years prior.

    • @kyliepechler
      @kyliepechler 2 роки тому +1

      Same here, it looked better than any of the dresses she tried on now.
      I can't understand why she didn't like her original Wedding dress.

  • @ssndesigns2
    @ssndesigns2 2 роки тому +5

    Have her try a dress that is not strapless!! Why are all dresses strapless?? I use to design wedding gowns. Get her in a body foundation before the dress.

  • @chryssesandchaos
    @chryssesandchaos 2 роки тому +58

    I love dress #10, her entourage loves it too, I don't get why she doesn't, then when she found a dress she thinks she loves but her entourage doesn't, she also won't take it, yup, the problem is with her, I get that she doesn't want to settle for just anything, but maybe she needs to lower her expectations or raise her budget. I hope she did find her dress.

  • @henchyheld3925
    @henchyheld3925 2 роки тому +17

    Plus size Brides should not be shopping at Kleinfeld. They have limited options for them. They deserve a positive experience where they have a choice of dresses.

    • @ebony7177
      @ebony7177 2 роки тому

      Well part of the problem is that unless they specialize kleinfeld is probably going to have a better selection than a small boutique.

    • @susanelrawi7080
      @susanelrawi7080 2 роки тому +4

      @@ebony7177 Wrong. Kleinfeld's specializes in wedding dresses. A store their size and seemingly limitless options for smaller sizes could and should do much more for plus size brides. Kleinfeld's is not some small town mom and pop wedding store, they're a huge NY long standing business who are disproportionate in styles,volume and prices when it comes to plus sizes. They need to take a page from Jo and Al.

    • @henchyheld3925
      @henchyheld3925 2 роки тому +2

      @@susanelrawi7080 . Agree

    • @ebony7177
      @ebony7177 2 роки тому

      @@susanelrawi7080 They have a great number of dresses for plus size but as a business for every plus size they probably have 2-5 times more in the 8-14/16. So as a plus size I would love for them to have more but between bottom line and not many designers doing sample or dresses for larger sizes it's not fair but it's reality. Also Randy was correct, even when shopping for regular clothes as a plus size I know I don't get the luxury of 20 dollar jeans, 2k is too little for more options.

    • @susanelrawi7080
      @susanelrawi7080 2 роки тому +1

      @@ebony7177 First please keep in mind Bridalwear runs smaller than standard sizes so there's a built-in disadvantage right there. Second, proportionately the amount of larger dresses are far less than 10-14 sized dresses, and the few plus sizes they have are ugly and not at all flattering. I urge you to watch Jo and Al Curvy Boutique in the UK. Those ladies are nothing short of amazing and they have beautiful flattering dresses in all silhouettes. Please give it 10 minutes of your time and you will agree with me.

  • @adoseofreality8287
    @adoseofreality8287 2 роки тому +26

    In life it is very important to be honest with ourselves no matter how much it hurts. She wants Kleinfeld to do the magic only she can do. 💔

  • @vascularcambium
    @vascularcambium 2 роки тому +16

    She seemed like she had a discontent energy. I agree, her original wedding dress looked good on her and so did the 10th dress.

  • @mylife_aslisa4409
    @mylife_aslisa4409 2 роки тому +65

    I absolutely love how they treat everyone. Well done for the uploads

    • @ceramicvases
      @ceramicvases 2 роки тому

      um, they are being recorded...

  • @naturalPaths
    @naturalPaths 2 роки тому +10

    Sadly, I think this young woman defeated herself before she walked in the front door.