Live in relationship is good but only when the partners are educated and knows it's pros and cons and can know that they can handle them.. Nice video..
@@viralbajpai8027 I'm sorry u r taking it in a wrong sense. He's saying that couples should know the pros and cons while they r in live-in relationship. If u know the cons then both the partners can handle the situation hand in hand so it won't come out a problem in the society or the parents
@@kajalgautam5652 dude..u cant just take some handful of examples and comment against on something. I've seen my frds being 12yrs of live in relationship since class 10 and now they got married and have kids
Everyone is commenting about future generations but tbh , let's focus on present and start to try the change the society from present generation only!!
Now a days even in arrange marraige there is a gap of one year between the engagement and marraige so that a couple can know each other better. And also there is consent of brind or groom in arrange marrage for chooseing their partners😇😀
Tbh marriage is actually shit what if after time u come to hate them?? All money for marriage waste and at the end divorce rather in live in a person can just simply break up
@@milkwhite5483 hahaha... Even today in south arranged marriages are held and partners are happy too. Having multiple partner may look morden but it's not atall ok!!! Indias love following shits from west
@@milkwhite5483 then you don't value a person's feeling. Kiuki bore to tum honge hi kabhi na kabhi lekin the love will make you live with the person forever. Also divorce is not easy to take everytime.
I just want to live as Single & die as virgin. I just want peace. I keep myself busy by job and freelancing. Saturday spent doing social service and Sunday with family.
Since my childhood I have seen my parents fighting a lot all arguments and vocal violence put me into a situation where I don't want to get married just to avoid all bullshit that I personally gone through so I decided to be alone but I love to think about my own family and kids. So,a person like me with all doubts and insecurities living relationship is the only solution where you don't have pressure like need to proof the society that I m a suitable mate and to showcase best couple all those pressure where you forgot yourself and mental peace good topic to think about carry on girl love ur channel
Live-in Relationship may be good or may be destructive but all this just depands on our generation, their mentality, ideology and feelings. For some people love means just having s*x, for some it means just marrying.
Exactly And I don't think someone is this mad to be in a live in relationship without knowing both pros and cons of it that also in India where you know maybe even your own parents are not going to support you.
My main problem is live in not having any commitment. It's a risk tbh. Idk how people have the energy to invest in multiple people both emotionally & physically in a live-in
Hey Nikita, is everything alright ? Are you eating and sleeping properly ?? Today you look a little dull like always your are too enthusiastic... But still you're doing a great job... 👏👏❤️
I feel live in relationship could be done in a good way too... Only if the two people agree after the engagement they should live together for a yr but without getting intimate with each other to develop an bonding of understanding within each other... I feel this would be the right thing for the Indian society to move in the right way too🇮🇳
What abt sexual compatibility? Isn't that required in a romantic relationship too? How do u knw if ur partner can satisfy u. If u both can fulfill each other's intimate needs, shldnt that be considered an important pillar before marriage too? And before u come at me abt Indian culture traditions n all remember we r over the age of virginity and it's direct relation to honor...... Any man or woman is as honorable virgin as non virgin so don't come at me with that crap...... All I mean to say is consent between partners and discussion abt all these concepts prior to live in is important
@@supriyaojha8716 every man in our india are sexuallly very active....sb bhare pre h....bs girl ki thinking dekhni pregi ki how she consider about being physical....
I am well independent by money but can’t live without Family!!! ❤️ Because I’m love with someone after 4 years She engaged to someone else And then after 2 years of timing I’m agreeing to arrange marriage!!! And now after 8 years of Happily marriage and she is Just Devine by her actions;value and emotion and now my parents take side of her insisted of me! No work done in our home without her Awareness and agree on that topic!!! Sometimes feel like I’m done good karma in past life😅
As parents said we will help uh if uh fought with ur partner but when i see people around me parents always scold their daughter for misbehaving and forces them to live with him even if he is abusive . In this case we should be independent a make our own discissions bcoz our parents only thinks about society
7:22 It's absolutely true Di.......my parents aren't very strict but I don't know why they don't trust me , they don't like my male friends , they always wants to control my life....and this is really very irritating for me and I can't take it anymore
They are concerned about you maybe all your male friends are not good. There are many boys which are not good I'm a student and many of my classmates have female friends but many of those who have female friends are not good
Jab yeah baat mai bolta hu toh merey parents boltey hai ki jab khudh baap bano gaye Tab patachaley ga abhi samjh nahi aayega. Parents Kay prospective say soach behen
@Precious Moment see if we have to proof that we r a better generation than our parents then we have to understand things more deeply. Main problem is that our generation doesn't goes deep into the reality , just by watching what our parents and grandparents are doing we have made a narrative that this is our Indian culture. But if we good really into facts we all will discover something new. Basically what I'm saying is ki hmlog ko ek hybrid model leke chalna hoga. Thoda modernization and thoda traditional 😌. Warna aaj kal modern hone ke naam par sab American bante jaa rahe hai. Sorry for writing so big 😅😅....kyuki mereko laga shayad aap India ke marriage system se pareshan ho. Overall I agree with u on the point ki 25 ke baad shadi karna is more preferable 👌😀.
@Precious Momentlove drama is fake 👀👀......phir aapne love ko samjha nhi hai. Khair 😂 rehne dete hai iss baat ko. But relationship ke baare me starting se hi itna negative rahogi toh baad me dikkat hoga,,.,.. anyways life hai it's own ways just move along with it 😌.
I'm in live in relationship with my bf since 2013 and we are very happy we live our life freely if your partner loves you it's doesn't matter if you are married or in a live in relationship only happiness and peace matter
I want to say only one thing that, we(you may guess yourself who are this "we" in Indian society!) want to know about these worthy and brave-enough topics more and more! As always, please keep this impartiality intact for ever.... Hats off to the team 🥳🥳🥳
In india If a man has sex on the pretext of marriage and doesn't marry, it amounts to r@pe. But if a women has s£x on pretext of marriage and doesn't marry, it is nothing. No other country except india define this consensual relationship as r@pe. If the law were gender reversed, there will be millions and millions of women who can be charged, who dump their bf. Promisr day - i will marry u After breakup - r@pe case.
A wise woman have said that I won't do it but I don't judge people. I think if two people love endlessly they'll never go for things like live in . And respect your culture and parents they never want anything for us intentionally but it doesn't mean there ways are always right.
@Precious Moment well everything is your choice whether its watching porn or doing it before marriage but it's lust and it's also not Like if once you'll do it you will get satisfied with your life. Marriage and love is something pure thing we should respect it. we should be loyal to our future life partner Besides everything is your choice i don't judge.
There is nothing against the culture ir wrong live in relationhip. If two people love each other they can live the way they feel right abd how they want to go about it. Most people today who are endlessly in love are comfortable with live in and then go for marriage. The civilization falls when you encourage people to stay I bad relationhships which promotes mire toxic behaviors in the society to destroy it.
@Jedi Kickass there is no relationhsiip with animals here but a human thing. If you are in bad relationhship or marriage you have to move our of it. Else the structure itself is questionable uf the whole idea to keep people in relationhships where they are not being treated rightly
@@aka9629 it is not suitable for country like India where people give importance to family..People who do live in relationship dump yes dump their parents in old-age home...As a doctor i have seen in geriatric psychiatric problem...Current generation have become narcissistic in terms of so called freedom..If you not have your own family to support evem death in most expensive hospital is painful...life is not Bollywood movie....People are discussing live in relationship but what about your parents....Live in relationship is fancy thing with a lot aftermath effect
We live in a country where our parents think the lord Krishna and Radha did was fair but they did not allow us to do same thing. Yar jab tak experience nahi karenge to problem ka solution kaise milega? Ek hi to life hai na bar bar kisi ko mauka thodo na milta hai. Kya hum bhi zindagi bhar apne man mutabik partner na paane se khud ko regret feel karwaye?!!🙃
@@palanichinnaguruswamy4188 if you love God, do you need to marry God? Does it make any sense?? There are different forms of love, mother love, father live, brother love, sister love, lovers..nd love towards God.
india me Parents he apne bacche ki adhi life kharab kar dete hai . Baccho pe pressure dekar .. aur baccho ke disicison khud le kar .. padhai kya karega se leke job kya karega , shaadi kis se karega yo bhi .. india me baccha apni life khud ji bhi nai sakta .. because of parental pressure and society ...
U r right but lord Krishna is a God so unke liya problem kuh ni h h....tum or hum insaan h or jis din tum parent banogy uss din samjogy because bhaut hurt hota jab aapka baccha takleef Mai ya kisi problem mai Ho samje mere khena yeah h ki saare parent bure ni hote bss rape case ko yeah duniya ki galat cheezo ko dekh k woh baccho ko khona ni chahte.... Mai aisa isliya bol re hu q ki meri ek billi h or 3 dogs h unko mai apne bacche maanti hu Lekin Agar woh ghar c bahar jate h tho mujhe dar laga rehta h ki unko kuh ho na jay so jab parent banogy tab samjogy. How they feel 🤧or marriage pe Mai kuh ni bolugi q ki marriage Mai love affection hona zaroori h or meko love mai interest ni h or meko marriage b ni krni 😌😌
I'm live in gujarat {jamnagar} and I'm also live in relationship since 2018 and trust me it's more healthy I feel really free and my partner is also felt same 👍😊😍❤️
me gujrati(Ahmedbad) and still single........but hook ups and live in relationship is ofc not my cup of tea........and marriage is not my dream............any suggestions for me?
Bhai mummy papa ae kai rite ha padi?? 😂 Ane bhai same caste ni che ke nahi? Nake parents lagan nahi karva de😂 Amara patel na toh nahi karva deta alag caste ma😂
@@viviul2003 Coz my parents had divorce in arrange marriage and my mother faced 2x more struggels and hardships to raise 3 children as a single mother and even parents of that bride too gives her temporary sympathy and on other hand that groom is open free and even loved by his parents and quickly marries other women which z hard for a women coz she handles herself and her children too being a single parent which men don't.
@@lipipachadhri720 u r absolutely right I am against arrange marriage coz they don't worked well in my family and always choice of my grandparents failed badly and then even they forced their girls too compromise which a Boy's parents don't do so arrange marriage and our Parents choice sucks coz they r getting their girl to marry a complete stranger coz in love marriage the girl and boy both knows each other alredy and they can handle their things well after marriage without blame game and without unnecessary drama of their parents and them.
Listen Nikita when i was a teenager that time I thought my parents r wrong but at my adulthood I believed whatever they did that was good for me and now I can live much better life.
For us, our parents are as much (or more degree wise) educated than us, naturally our IQ is also somewhat similar... and obviously they have lived 2-3times more than us... So it's unlikely that they are every going to be more wrong than us. Plus they are much more social than me, so it would be dumb for me to every believe that I can understand people better than them. IDK about people from rural areas or backward areas...
Didi mene ye video mere papa ko send ki or mene bola isko dekhne ko but unhone living relation ship ka title pada to wo bolte hai bewakuf hai. Ye Indian parents ki mentality hai even wo chizo ko ek baar fir se dekhna bhi nahi dekhna chahte. Wo apne mind ko change nahi Krna chahte hai. Thank you di aap hume society ke baare mai batati ho. Seriously India need people like you. ❤️❤️❤️ Iska solution ye hai ki parents apne bacho ko moral and sex education de Or saath hi relationship ko kese nibhate hai or ladke ladki ki kya responsibility honi chahiye relationship mai wo sikhna chahiye
@UCdxXFG1VVlQkQEcWmE9D02g mai kisi bhi relationship mai believe nahi rakhta Mera kehna ye tha ki bacho or parents ke beech jo bound hai aaj kl wo door ho rahi hai or isi wjh se se relationship mai break ups and divorce zyada ho rahe hai Because parents didn't teach there children. Btw aap ko kisi bhi mother or sister ko ye baat nahi karna chahiye I hope aap apni mother or sister ki izzat krte ho kyuki Jo Banda kisi ki ma behen ko izzat nahi krta iska mtlb wo apni ma ya behen ki izzat nahi krta After all wo bhi to female hai na Apni ye tone please saaf kare aapki mother ki parwarish ki laaj rakhiye God bless you friend
@Find It freaking nonsense. Just because female's independent hona chahti hai is liye divorce, i just can't understand what a typical mentality!! You're directly saying that womens ko independent hone ka haq nhi hai or humesa kisi ki seva karna or unke kadmo main pade rehna unka kaam hai. Tum jaise mardo ki problem mujhe samaj nhi ati tumhe kisi ke development se kya problem haii!! Huhh!!
@Find It but you wrote that divorce is happening cause of females can support them by own, i know i over reacted but this I don't think divorce is happening cause of this
I think the main motive of a marriage is to be a happy and socially secure being (atleast for a girl) and the other one is to build a progressive society... Live in is an unnecessary stuff i feel... If you want to live with your loved one then go and get Married nah... It will be beneficial for you and the society... And your upcoming children also.... The point is try to choose wisely before marriage... marriage ke bad bhi or bachhe hone ke bad bhi agar tum seperation ke decision me kabhi ha kabhi na ke beech me latakna padhe to tumhari life hell h... Ye chiz life me grow krne nhi degi bilkul bhi... So choose wisely... Actually humara society me divorce or separation ka concept hi nhi tha... Ye aya hi h foreign cultural se... And see iska apna hi nuksaan h .... Our culture taught us to grow spiritually together not to indulge in 'abhi tum pasand ho kal achhi nhi bhi lag sakti ho'... Ek baar sadhi karo apne hisab se and be with each other till the end and ek dusre ke adhatmik growth me saath do . That is our society and our culture ✨
@@arijitroy4792 bhai she is just viewing her opinion and she is not wrong. I would like say that modern bano but itna modern mat bano ki apna culture hi bhul jao.
Love precedes intimacy and lasts longer than life. If only we understand this fact we'll save our generation and the future ones from destroying the institution of family. Marriage is old school but that doesn't mean it's outdated
Ek baat h "Parents kabhi humara bura nahi sochte." I strongly believe this. Aise hi nahi bolte kuchh. Aajkal toh parents love marriage k liye v mann jate h. Humein v apne parents k sath openly baat karni chahiye. They will obviously understand us. Aisa nahi ki unko kuchh nahi pata. Woh jo bolenge bass tumhe rokne k liye hi bolenge. Aisa nahi hota. You are their most precious gift. Aise kaise woh tumhe barbad hone de. Woh achcha hi sochte he Achcha hi suggest karte h. 🙂 My opinion 🙂
@Khyalo Ki Duniya that's called illusion and lust total disconnection from reality and making your own fantasy world... Capable of this thinking itself makes human different from other species... Infact true love never exist it's.. true love exists but that love is what parents do to their children that is helping them to reach to their goal.. for ex.. when tulsidas wife gone to visit her mother, tuslidas relentlessly had wanting to meet her in any situation as he wasn't able to live without his wife and to do so he gone out during heavy storm, and crossed lake with human bones thinking those as sticks and climbed house with help of snakes tail thinking it as rope then finally met her then he realised, his wife was annoyed bout it and then she told that if you have invested your love for just 1% in bhagwan ram then he would have got to u.. so this itself is true love
Yes, but not a single person in the universe can understand you properly, not parents also. Parents do everything for us what they think is good. But if parents doesn't understand us we should talk to them what we really want
Di basically I feel like live-in relationships are good only if there's a proper commitment. Uk otherwise as u said there'll be a lot of cons especially for females as they'll get pregnant, also the financial condition for both the genders. 99% Indians live-in relationship ko nibhaana toh durr, accept bhi karte nahi unlike US and UK!
Woh accept nahi karte because we indians have a very incorrect mentality of judging couples. Agar ek ladka ladki saath ghoom rahe hain toh ham maan lete hain ki woh lovers hain and phir unke character aur sanskaar ko judge karne lagte hain. Aise mein agar koi couple accept kar le ki woh relationship mein hain and live in mein hain, toh ye society na keval unhe but unke parents ko bhi bhala bura sunaayegi. And ham log ek baar ke liye khud ke liye bura sun lein but apne parents ko bura thodi na banne denge. Isiliye, jab tak hamari socitey ko apne kaam se kaam rakhna nahi aayega, live in taboo hi rahega!!!
@@melovesjenniekim6430 i agree 👍 society ki thinking change hone ka tym aa gya h 😇 i hope future gen will do better , kyuki old gen se to kya hi expect kre
@@LoveMaze-kw1le So true!! I know old gen ka apne kuch concerns hote hain and they were really conservative but they shld understand ki time ke saath saath logon ke jeene ke andaaz bhi badal jaate hain. Our gen is more of a 'pehle istemaal karein phir vishwaas karein' sort of gen. We r more practical than them. I hope we don't judge our kids or anyone like tht
The other day, I saw a video in which some women were saying they just need babies and not husband. And, sadly, many are thinking like this these days. They think being single parent is some fashion. May God bless them.🙏
@@athul7545 no it's society's cultural idiology, when you are living in society, so you should do according to it, being alone or in secret do whatever you want but that shouldn't come out
Experience teaches a lot. Parents have seen what youth have yet to see. Live in is a need for sex, a hormonal thing, not some relationship development thing. Otherwise even in arranged marriages, the engagement is done and some time is allowed for girl & boy to understand each other. Many engagements do not materialise in marriage. If a girl or boy wants to gain experience, instead of relying on experience of parents, he or she is becoming the guinea pig/test tube of that experiment. If all goes well...too good. But if things go wrong, you will be left with emotional scars for life. Most boys are dogs. Most girls are gold diggers. Sad fact of life.
Living in itself describes you are not confident with each others...and very insecure about handling the pressure of relationship How the hell do even people think it will work out..
Yes you can get real Character, be the friend of your future partner because a friend in friendship can extract real Character of human being rather than being nude before marriage or have sex before marriage because of the problem that they start doing you blackmail and destroy your happy married or single life.
I feel the only logical advantage of live in over marriage is if a relationship doesn't work out partners can easily move on without going through any legal hassles for divorce.. rest all pros n cons are very superficial n can interchangeably happen in both cases..
There is another advantage that in live you get to.the know if the person is bad before kids, while in a marriage, kids are faster . So you have to do a divorce with kids .
if you aint gonna make mistakes and learn from them yourself how arte you gonna become a good pparent , you shall take advicce from them rather to just ask them your every next move
I like the fact that you leave the answer on us that Whether LIVE-IN should allowed or not...but we would really love to know your opinion on this too..make sure to share your opinion
I think it has more benefits for boys because I saw several boys who didn't get married to girls with whom they are living in the last they just easily say my parents are not ready for this marriage. In the end, girls have no other choice. She can't go anywhere for justice.so I think if we have bf or gf it's ok but doesn't live with them before marriage
Single parents exist through divorces as well. In india there are more single parents than America. But many haven't divorced. They dontbget alimony and the husband is living with someone with seperate kids. Till now all my maids are single moms. None of them ate divorced. Their husband's are with some other woman
@@jindersingh2268 For me, a virgin girl matters as I'm also a Virgin guy. which is quite impossible nowadays. that's why I chose to be single forever. haath chalake adjust krlunga😌
If there is true love and sex is not considering as love but part of love then you can go with live in relationship. Even many times they tied the knot in marriage 😇❤
To be honest these things can't be judged whether the love marriage life will be happier or arrange marriage life will be happier. Until your spouse is loyal to you, no matter what you will be ended up being broken. That's why sometimes love marriages are mess and sometimes arrange
Honestly, may this video is very beneficial for all of the people who are watching it and they will gain a vary nice knowledge for there minset if they want to change it...
I soooooo lucky, even one of the luckiest Indian child. My mother has given never told me, log kya kahenge and she lets me do anything I want, anybody I want to make friends. That's why I am never ever afraid to share the series of events I am going through and of course I never need to be desperate or stubborn. I love my mom the most and I have promised myself that I will never break her trust☺☺😇😇
The 2 major problems you talked about can be handled maturely: pregnancy ka risk.. Protected sex. Finance issues can be handled nicely if both of the partners are working and knows their finances well.. And live in can be treated as trial marriage successfully.
What if one of the partner leaves the other emotionally and financially broken and there won't be any legal binding to safeguard the other person?? This could also result in becoming single parent as a consequence of it and women most likely become one. So, women in a way was getting protected from state by marriage acts. Live-in and marriage are 2 institutions and unfortunately, only one of them is binded by laws.
@@kumarabhishek1064 first of all there are chances of being single parent in marriage too. If the spouse dies, has extra marital affair, wants divorce, etc. There are many cases where that person is ultimately left alone only and becomes a single parent even when they avoided live in and chose marriage over it. So neither live in nor marriage can secure you of your relationship with the other person. If someone wants to cheat, they will do it even after marriage, if someone looses interest in you, they will loose it after marriage too/you may loose interest in them either. Talking about laws, there are many laws applicable on live in couple that are applicable on married couple too. Some lacks but day by day the mindset of Judges are also changing, so they are also giving more rights and laws to protect live in couples. I remember a few months back I read a case where judiciary accepted that a child out of live in is also legitimate the way child out of marriage is. Though, not all marriage laws are applicable on live in couple right now, but I am sure with the changing mindset, judges will understand and will grant all the rights and laws for live in too.
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 Every measure has its pros and cons. The basic difference in both of them is marriage is binding by law and live-in is non binding. Single parent and their off-spring won't have following things: There is no inheritance rights There is no financial security(if woman is not capable to earn) No family support from deceased person's family as it is non-binding. If people wants to leave the other person, there is a provision of divorce and person who is earning less will get the alimony. The reason people choose this they can get free at any time whenever they want. So, this mindset of having an option to get free more or less sounds like time-pass. In marriage, people would think atleast once but here, get-set-leave. There can be exceptions but the idea is it's anti of committed relationship.
@@kumarabhishek1064 Bro please read law. I am a law student and I just read a few months back a judgement where it was mentioned that children out of live in are legitimate as much as a child out of marriage is. Thus, such children are given inheritance rights too and live in legal and live in couple is given protection against family/society/neighbours too in India. Well not true people choose may choose it for different reasons. The reason I have heard mostly is you get to know your partner well. I don't agree with it since you never know how that person changes after marriage and it goes the same for both marriage and live in. You can never know how a person is. It is not anti committed relationship unless you make it, any relationship, ideology, thing needs people, if the people are anti committed relationship, live in will be the same for them but if they want a committed relationship with the person they love, then live in will be different for them. So it just depends on the people involved. A person can make marriage anti committed too by having extra marital affair too. Thus you can not generalise live in to be anti committed whereas marriage to be a committed relationship ever.
Live in/ Arranged or love marriage , all the institutions have its own pros and cons. Security wise Arranged is the best. Freedom wise Live in. But at the end, IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH. Sadly these institution do not stress well on choosing the right person for you or most importantly being the right person for someone.
Yeah, sb situation pr depend krta h jruri nhi h ki sbke liye marriage shi h, ya sbke liye living relationship shi h,it totally depends on situation.. But the main thing is this that we should know our goals,, we should always be focused on our goals , and our goals should be clear
I think ek law banna chahiye jisme live in relationship me rahne walo ko bachche paida karne ki permission na ho jab tak ki unki shaadi na ho jaye. aur boys ke favour me bhi law banna chahiye.
@@gaytriba...2320 this is different problem, yaha maine sirf live-in relationship ke baare me kaha hai, kyuki divorce to arrange marriage aur love marriage me bhi hote hai
I feel even Saudi Arabia is correct sometimes ,, Cause if live-in relationships should Allow then why not child marriage and even what the heck of minimum age of 21 yrs 🧐 Cause last m kha na kisi k liye direct marriage prefer karega kisi k liye live in so the same logic kam se kam 10-15% log child marriage ko preference dete h so ?? Wo bhi Legel karde ? I support love marrige but live-in is nothing more than a piece of shit , just use and throw formulla for both boys and girls. Either both are supported or both are banned
@@muktadixit 1st of all sorry to say sister but i cant read your whole essay ,, and great i didnt support live-in and you are the one who support live-in still im the who think women's are sexual object . R.I.P LOGIC and i never support child marriage ,, I just say Support both or Ban both 2nd who the heck told you that you can manipulate 18 yrs old HUMAN easily ??? if you can then sorry to say the human who are manupulated easily altough in 18 yrs old maybe he had too LOW IQ otherwise we'll able to marry in 18+ .
1.Happy or sad Chances is 50-50 (livein) because you know you have to chance that you can change ur partner. 2.Happy or sad Chances is (70-30) or (80-20) (incase of marriage) because U accept that this is your fate.🤔🤔
I Don't Believe In This Living Relationship A True Pure Love Always Ends With marriage 💑 I mean I don't have a any problem from living Relationship but for me I don't like this stuff..
True pure love doesn't exist ... it's just how much u can trust a person and how much they have understanding that's how should be a husband wife ...and it's should be their choice how they find their partner ... they will be responsible for their own choice
I think we will see more voluntary single living than marriages or live-ins in the future. People value their independence and freedom, and most younger generations are ready to forgo the benefits of companionship for peace of mind.
yes you are correct dear sister Actually these live in relationship culture are destroying our own culture and sanskar of ancient India that is called golden bird at the time of mauryan and gupta empire Actually live in culture is just like animal culture where a dog or cat be pregnant by another dog and cate and they live on I know marriage may also have some problem but the easy solution is that be the good friend of your future partner because a friend in friendship can extract real Character of human being rather than being nude before someone or engage in sex because it is common nature of some boys (not all because there too are some boys who follow their culture and dharm)that they full fill their sexual desire in the name of live in relationship and move on with another girl for marriage
I think marriage is best because yeh agar livin ke chakkar mai couple faste reh gaye toh buddhe hojayenge lekin fir bhi match nahi hoga. Livin sirf 2/3 years takke ki thik hai
@Precious Moment I think India mei legal consent ki age 18 hai.....or baat india ki ho toh gharwale ki darr ki mare iss umr mei physical relation .....iske liye ghar se nhi sidha desh denge mummy papa😂
umm i disagree with the point that its wrong to say live-in as trail marraige just based on china's example, china has always pushed the limits for career and women there are more interested in working than having a family, which was also covered by wion as how theres a new law for women to marry before 27 in china or else they will be married to low economic boys. India is a different country ALTOGETHER, where many women consesually want to get married, we use live-in so as we can complete higher education , work and secure ourselves financially and then get married, and so many times to prove to our parents that our love marraige can be succesful......
The first and foremost thing for any boy and a girl is to be financially independent and rather than going into a relationship. Because no one is permanent for any person, life is full of ups and downs only your blood relations withstand you, have some exceptions also but true love is mothers love others are for mean only. It's up to what you choose you can't judge a person in live in or in arrange marriage completely because in every situation persons reaction are different. If you are independent than you can manage everything no one forced you to do. But making your life better one should have some principles that should be followed which is given by our culture. We see European countries are falling these days and they adopt our sanatan religion because the poison of live in - sex- marriage and than divorce broke them deeply. Sanatan culture promotes peace and enlightenment.
If you're loving each other, why there is a problem with not getting married,,,? I know sometimes we regrete after married,,,, but we can manage our problems by discussion with our partners,,,, getting divorced is foolish things ever,,
Agar Aap Itne Samajhdaar yaa Mature nahi hai k Life ka sahi Decision kaise liya jaaye to behtar hai ki Live In Relationships me naa jaaye...Aur agar Aap apni life ka sahi Decision lene laayak hai to Live In Relationships me jaane ki zarurat hi nahi. Haa, agar kisi bhi tarah ki Zimmedari ka Farz nahi nibhaana chahte yaa life me Sirf personal excitement chahte hai yaa puri life bina kisi Rishte se Bandhe Akele, ekdum Azaad rehkar, bilkul Freedom k saath jeena chahte hai to aap Live In Relationships me zarur Jaaye. Jaisa jeena hai Waise jeeye, jiske saath jeena hai uske saath jeeye, Jitno k saath jeena hai utno k saath jeeye Kyuki.., Live In Relationships me aap par Committed Relationship ka Bojh nahi hoga, Aakhir Live In ka yahi to Faayda hai... Kyu?
Di thank you for making video on this there are many factors which affect relationships First those who say that it's not aur culture I absolutely belive that aur culture is great we have aur sanskriti but you know lord Krishna said that change is nature of world everything changes jo log kehte hai culture hi follow karo to kya ap 100 shadiya karenge ?? Kikuki phele ke kai Raza aisa kar chuke hai and I'm not saying ki ye galat hai Kiuki us time bohoooot se reasons ki vajah se hi unhone aisa kia but at this moment we can't do that and we should also not do that vaise hi Kai chize change hoti hai time ke sath aur culture bhi aur ye sab kuch mai nahi keh Raha swayam bhagwan shri krishn ji ne inte salo phele kaha tha, vusi tarah relationship hamare culture me phele nahi thi but iska matlab ye nahi ki ye galat hai ha uske kuch galat parinaam bhi hai but ye puri tarah Galat nahi, Mai bus itna kehna chahunga agar ap relationship me jana chahte hai to jayiye agar ap nahi jana chahte to mat jayiye lekin koi aur agar ja raha hai to usko mat rukie uske bare me galat mat sochiye ya kahiye Kiuki relationship Galat nahi hai 👍 I hope ap meri bat samaj sare ho 🤗 Jai shree krishn🤗
Solution for unwanted pregnancy is vasectomy or tubal ligation, Later the couple can adopt a child who is orphan. or one of the partner can opt for surrogacy or sperm bank. To make sure both couple's parents are happy try living with them with your partner. And introduce each other's parents.
Educated adults can handle livin relationship.. Not every couple in livin relationship gets pregnant it depends on your education and future planning. It's good to be in livin rltnshp at least you can back off if things doesn't go well. But in case of marriage we all know divorce is a huge issue for society and it affects the child too.. So if you're thinking to be in a livin rltnshp you must be RESPONSIBLE.
Love you for a couple of reasons. 1 You speak with your hands. 2 You are young and beautiful. 3 clear diction. 4 well researched. 5 great visuals 6 can't contact you.
Live in relationship allowed but also two side companion building knowing each other but the problem of one children child pregnancy happens and person can leave
As much as I love my partner I would only be together if we get married. Both think on the se lines. Live-in relationships are trash and the highest form of emotional abuse one can get themselves into in case the relationship doesn't work.
I have experienced that my parents never liked my friends , i kept changing on my friends but my parents still found something bad in them . They just want all my attention to themselves. They don't want me to be friends with anyone
Thank god.. Almost all your vdos and your advises and suggestions are there in islam..alhamdulillah already we have all these rules.. Islam is also against live-in because of these reasons u have mentioned...
Mai kudh sadhi se pahale live in relationship Mai rahana chahat hoo jis se mujhe achh partner mil sake par family isko Kabhi Nahi manegj sayad India Mai Aish bahut se parents hoge jo live in relationship bke liya mana karte hoge
I think live in is a better option you can know your partner & what will gonna happen if you marry him like all the pros & cons also will know the compatibility & if it didn't work out you can just move on without taking divorce any legal thing or talking to parents or relatives bcuz as we all know in india after a divorce a female specially seen as a bad women society will judge you not as a victim if you've faced violence or anything else then a divorcee female will end up marrying again a lower or not compatible partner or just be single for whole life.
As per my experience - marriage is much more better than any live in relationship bcos live in koi mutual responsiblity ni smjhta apne partner ko ... Unko pta hota hai ki wo kabhi bhi chd k ja skte hai ya unke liye aur bhi options hote hai ... Toh wo apne emotions invest ni karte hai ... Toh specially girls ... Live in jaise trap me kabhi bhi mat fasna ... Aap apni age se pehle bht kuch akele akle krne lag jaoge family friends sab se dheere dheere krke disconnect ho jaoge . Toh pehle apne aap ko strong karo fir shadi jaisi chiz k bare me sochna ... Bhagne ka bhi dicision kbhi mat lena kyuki suffering sirf tumhari hi hogi ...
Apne jo kaha wo sahi hai 100% .agar dono couple main pyar hai trust hai commitment hai to bo shadi karle live in main kyun rahe .ye live in ek western culture hai jisme couple maze karte hain uske bad break up karke chale jate hain unko fark nehi padta.
👍ofcourse i agree, parents are everything for us, if parents are happy, it brings satisfaction to us also, live in just too uncertain, parents are intentionally always right.
@@samreentarique5054 yes you are correct dear sister Actually these live in relationship culture are destroying our own culture and sanskar of ancient India that is called golden bird at the time of mauryan and gupta empire Actually live in culture is just like animal culture where a dog or cat be pregnant by another dog and cate and they live on I know marriage may also have some problem but the easy solution is that be the good friend of your future partner because a friend in friendship can extract real Character of human being rather than being nude before someone or engage in sex because it is common nature of some boys (not all because there too are some boys who follow their culture and dharm)that they full fill their sexual desire in the name of live in relationship and move on with another girl for marriage
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Both face same
Please next video on how UA-cam is destroying
Hi mam
Can you explain what is happening in srilanka in upcoming vedio?
@@angryprashlikevideoenlishtv destroying what??
POV : You're single but still watching this video 😂
Haa 😅
POV means???
@@Indianfootball18 point of view
Lol true
😅😅
She is helping the youth to go on right way❤️❤️
Right way?
Kaise?
We want rendi muqt bharat.
And she's making rendis
Not at all
Live in relationship is good but only when the partners are educated and knows it's pros and cons and can know that they can handle them..
Nice video..
@@viralbajpai8027 I'm sorry u r taking it in a wrong sense. He's saying that couples should know the pros and cons while they r in live-in relationship. If u know the cons then both the partners can handle the situation hand in hand so it won't come out a problem in the society or the parents
@@arpitasamanta2153 thanks I read parents
Tina dabi and ather Amir Khan boath are toppers 2015 batch ias but after 2 year married divorse why ???
@@kajalgautam5652 dude..u cant just take some handful of examples and comment against on something. I've seen my frds being 12yrs of live in relationship since class 10 and now they got married and have kids
@@arpitasamanta2153 ohh super 👍🏽
Everyone is commenting about future generations but tbh , let's focus on present and start to try the change the society from present generation only!!
Now a days even in arrange marraige there is a gap of one year between the engagement and marraige so that a couple can know each other better. And also there is consent of brind or groom in arrange marrage for chooseing their partners😇😀
Tbh marriage is actually shit what if after time u come to hate them?? All money for marriage waste and at the end divorce rather in live in a person can just simply break up
@@milkwhite5483 us bro us😂
@@milkwhite5483 hahaha... Even today in south arranged marriages are held and partners are happy too.
Having multiple partner may look morden but it's not atall ok!!! Indias love following shits from west
@@milkwhite5483 then you don't value a person's feeling. Kiuki bore to tum honge hi kabhi na kabhi lekin the love will make you live with the person forever. Also divorce is not easy to take everytime.
Lauda mera sab kehne ki baate hai
I just want to live as Single & die as virgin.
I just want peace.
I keep myself busy by job and freelancing. Saturday spent doing social service and Sunday with family.
Since my childhood I have seen my parents fighting a lot all arguments and vocal violence put me into a situation where I don't want to get married just to avoid all bullshit that I personally gone through so I decided to be alone but I love to think about my own family and kids. So,a person like me with all doubts and insecurities living relationship is the only solution where you don't have pressure like need to proof the society that I m a suitable mate and to showcase best couple all those pressure where you forgot yourself and mental peace good topic to think about carry on girl love ur channel
I literally feel you , i have gone through the same situation and you put my points very nicely thanks.
You just described my life
Count me into this also.
Nd now my family is not a family anymore 💔 I've also gone through all this 💔 I can feel ur words 💔
You literally described my point of view ..... I also went through the same thing
I'm a single parent child. My mom really works hard for me so I can get sufficient things. I'm really grateful to my mom
Excellent 👏 👏 👏 👏 you already have so much power ! Lots of power and support to you guys !!
@Aarushi Mehrotra wish a very happy life
Papa kha gye😵
Its good to be single parent or not ??
@@terabaap3437 he probably went to buy milk
Live-in Relationship may be good or may be destructive but all this just depands on our generation, their mentality, ideology and feelings. For some people love means just having s*x, for some it means just marrying.
Isnt few men and women in our society marry to just have offical accepted s*x
👍 right
Exactly
And I don't think someone is this mad to be in a live in relationship without knowing both pros and cons of it that also in India where you know maybe even your own parents are not going to support you.
My main problem is live in not having any commitment. It's a risk tbh. Idk how people have the energy to invest in multiple people both emotionally & physically in a live-in
Hey Nikita, is everything alright ? Are you eating and sleeping properly ?? Today you look a little dull like always your are too enthusiastic... But still you're doing a great job... 👏👏❤️
Yes, everything is going great. Thank you for asking!! Hope you are doing good too
@@nikitaksthakur ooh my god you replied !! And that's so sweet of you to ask. I am doing good too... ❤️❤️❤️
@@_es284 You're so lucky!
Bro/Sis
I want luck like you.
@@tuntun_mausi I know right...😄😄
According to India, the children have complete rights over their parents property even after they breakup . So it's very much safe in India.
I feel live in relationship could be done in a good way too... Only if the two people agree after the engagement they should live together for a yr but without getting intimate with each other to develop an bonding of understanding within each other... I feel this would be the right thing for the Indian society to move in the right way too🇮🇳
LoL. They will go out and have BIRYANI... Without intimating, they cant live...
It should be without intemacy so that live in ka maryada bhi bna rhe
Yeah to have better bonding physical intimacy isn't necessary. They can discuss about their physical needs before marriage that's fine.
What abt sexual compatibility? Isn't that required in a romantic relationship too? How do u knw if ur partner can satisfy u. If u both can fulfill each other's intimate needs, shldnt that be considered an important pillar before marriage too? And before u come at me abt Indian culture traditions n all remember we r over the age of virginity and it's direct relation to honor...... Any man or woman is as honorable virgin as non virgin so don't come at me with that crap...... All I mean to say is consent between partners and discussion abt all these concepts prior to live in is important
@@supriyaojha8716 every man in our india are sexuallly very active....sb bhare pre h....bs girl ki thinking dekhni pregi ki how she consider about being physical....
I am well independent by money but can’t live without Family!!! ❤️ Because I’m love with someone after 4 years She engaged to someone else And then after 2 years of timing I’m agreeing to arrange marriage!!! And now after 8 years of Happily marriage and she is Just Devine by her actions;value and emotion and now my parents take side of her insisted of me! No work done in our home without her Awareness and agree on that topic!!! Sometimes feel like I’m done good karma in past life😅
Chaliye aaap to khush hai na
Kismat wale hai
As parents said we will help uh if uh fought with ur partner but when i see people around me parents always scold their daughter for misbehaving and forces them to live with him even if he is abusive . In this case we should be independent a make our own discissions bcoz our parents only thinks about society
To each his/her own. We can't really generalise anything and everything. Personally I would prefer a live-in relationship to marriage..
7:22 It's absolutely true Di.......my parents aren't very strict but I don't know why they don't trust me , they don't like my male friends , they always wants to control my life....and this is really very irritating for me and I can't take it anymore
They are just have concern for you. You can't blame them at their time men are not friends with women.
You have male friends and you are a female LOL I am male lekin mere to male friends bhi nhi hain #sadlife
They are concerned about you maybe all your male friends are not good. There are many boys which are not good I'm a student and many of my classmates have female friends but many of those who have female friends are not good
Jab yeah baat mai bolta hu toh merey parents boltey hai ki jab khudh baap bano gaye Tab patachaley ga abhi samjh nahi aayega. Parents Kay prospective say soach behen
Maybe try to think from their perspective too.
Worst case senario mey bhi parents bolte hai "adjust karlo beta" chahe aapki zindagi jhand kyu na ho
Adjust Karene Zindagi, Jhand Kyu Ho Jayegi?
Live in relationship is nothing but a way to escape commitment
😂😂 short , simple and correct 👍🏻👍🏻. Well written.
Exactly
@@writersart2488 thanks
@Precious Moment see if we have to proof that we r a better generation than our parents then we have to understand things more deeply. Main problem is that our generation doesn't goes deep into the reality , just by watching what our parents and grandparents are doing we have made a narrative that this is our Indian culture. But if we good really into facts we all will discover something new. Basically what I'm saying is ki hmlog ko ek hybrid model leke chalna hoga. Thoda modernization and thoda traditional 😌. Warna aaj kal modern hone ke naam par sab American bante jaa rahe hai. Sorry for writing so big 😅😅....kyuki mereko laga shayad aap India ke marriage system se pareshan ho. Overall I agree with u on the point ki 25 ke baad shadi karna is more preferable 👌😀.
@Precious Momentlove drama is fake 👀👀......phir aapne love ko samjha nhi hai. Khair 😂 rehne dete hai iss baat ko. But relationship ke baare me starting se hi itna negative rahogi toh baad me dikkat hoga,,.,.. anyways life hai it's own ways just move along with it 😌.
I'm in live in relationship with my bf since 2013 and we are very happy we live our life freely if your partner loves you it's doesn't matter if you are married or in a live in relationship only happiness and peace matter
Next video Bollywood dark truths that actress are safe or not over there??
Yeah!! This is required
Nice topic suggestion 💯
@@mahanbharatiyasabhyata3834 not at all infact teenage dating should be allowed .
I want to say only one thing that, we(you may guess yourself who are this "we" in Indian society!) want to know about these worthy and brave-enough topics more and more! As always, please keep this impartiality intact for ever.... Hats off to the team 🥳🥳🥳
In india
If a man has sex on the pretext of marriage and doesn't marry, it amounts to r@pe. But if a women has s£x on pretext of marriage and doesn't marry, it is nothing.
No other country except india define this consensual relationship as r@pe.
If the law were gender reversed, there will be millions and millions of women who can be charged, who dump their bf.
Promisr day - i will marry u
After breakup - r@pe case.
A wise woman have said that I won't do it but I don't judge people. I think if two people love endlessly they'll never go for things like live in . And respect your culture and parents they never want anything for us intentionally but it doesn't mean there ways are always right.
@Precious Moment well everything is your choice whether its watching porn or doing it before marriage but it's lust and it's also not
Like if once you'll do it you will get satisfied with your life.
Marriage and love is something pure thing we should respect it. we should be loyal to our future life partner
Besides everything is your choice i don't judge.
Well said
There is nothing against the culture ir wrong live in relationhip. If two people love each other they can live the way they feel right abd how they want to go about it. Most people today who are endlessly in love are comfortable with live in and then go for marriage. The civilization falls when you encourage people to stay I bad relationhships which promotes mire toxic behaviors in the society to destroy it.
@Jedi Kickass there is no relationhsiip with animals here but a human thing. If you are in bad relationhship or marriage you have to move our of it. Else the structure itself is questionable uf the whole idea to keep people in relationhships where they are not being treated rightly
@@aka9629 it is not suitable for country like India where people give importance to family..People who do live in relationship dump yes dump their parents in old-age home...As a doctor i have seen in geriatric psychiatric problem...Current generation have become narcissistic in terms of so called freedom..If you not have your own family to support evem death in most expensive hospital is painful...life is not Bollywood movie....People are discussing live in relationship but what about your parents....Live in relationship is fancy thing with a lot aftermath effect
We live in a country where our parents think the lord Krishna and Radha did was fair but they did not allow us to do same thing. Yar jab tak experience nahi karenge to problem ka solution kaise milega? Ek hi to life hai na bar bar kisi ko mauka thodo na milta hai. Kya hum bhi zindagi bhar apne man mutabik partner na paane se khud ko regret feel karwaye?!!🙃
Hello Radha Krishna had such a pure love that today's generation doesn't have a 1% of that
If it's a true love why they did not married
@@palanichinnaguruswamy4188 if you love God, do you need to marry God? Does it make any sense??
There are different forms of love, mother love, father live, brother love, sister love, lovers..nd love towards God.
india me Parents he apne bacche ki adhi life kharab kar dete hai . Baccho pe pressure dekar .. aur baccho ke disicison khud le kar .. padhai kya karega se leke job kya karega , shaadi kis se karega yo bhi .. india me baccha apni life khud ji bhi nai sakta .. because of parental pressure and society ...
U r right but lord Krishna is a God so unke liya problem kuh ni h h....tum or hum insaan h or jis din tum parent banogy uss din samjogy because bhaut hurt hota jab aapka baccha takleef Mai ya kisi problem mai Ho samje mere khena yeah h ki saare parent bure ni hote bss rape case ko yeah duniya ki galat cheezo ko dekh k woh baccho ko khona ni chahte.... Mai aisa isliya bol re hu q ki meri ek billi h or 3 dogs h unko mai apne bacche maanti hu Lekin Agar woh ghar c bahar jate h tho mujhe dar laga rehta h ki unko kuh ho na jay so jab parent banogy tab samjogy. How they feel 🤧or marriage pe Mai kuh ni bolugi q ki marriage Mai love affection hona zaroori h or meko love mai interest ni h or meko marriage b ni krni 😌😌
I'm live in gujarat {jamnagar} and I'm also live in relationship since 2018 and trust me it's more healthy I feel really free and my partner is also felt same 👍😊😍❤️
That's wonderful! All the best you guys 😄
@@aka9629 tnq u so much for your blessings 🥰
me gujrati(Ahmedbad) and still single........but hook ups and live in relationship is ofc not my cup of tea........and marriage is not my dream............any suggestions for me?
I hope bro tumahra katega hi🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bhai mummy papa ae kai rite ha padi?? 😂
Ane bhai same caste ni che ke nahi?
Nake parents lagan nahi karva de😂
Amara patel na toh nahi karva deta alag caste ma😂
The positive sides of arrange marriage is that
Parents help the couple when they fought
They are not actually helping they are forcing girl to be quit or sote the thing quick because itna uper niche to sabhi k sath hota h koi bat nhi
@@lipipachadhri720 how did you assume that only girl is one suffering
@@viviul2003 aisa he hota hai!! Bachpan se yahe dekhte aarahe sooo🤷♀️
@@viviul2003 Coz my parents had divorce in arrange marriage and my mother faced 2x more struggels and hardships to raise 3 children as a single mother and even parents of that bride too gives her temporary sympathy and on other hand that groom is open free and even loved by his parents and quickly marries other women which z hard for a women coz she handles herself and her children too being a single parent which men don't.
@@lipipachadhri720 u r absolutely right I am against arrange marriage coz they don't worked well in my family and always choice of my grandparents failed badly and then even they forced their girls too compromise which a Boy's parents don't do so arrange marriage and our Parents choice sucks coz they r getting their girl to marry a complete stranger coz in love marriage the girl and boy both knows each other alredy and they can handle their things well after marriage without blame game and without unnecessary drama of their parents and them.
Thank you so much ma'am for giving us this useful information.
@@prakharsingh7010 because you can't do anything on your own that's why you gave it up to them completely
I'm not against parental control
Listen Nikita when i was a teenager that time I thought my parents r wrong but at my adulthood I believed whatever they did that was good for me and now I can live much better life.
For us, our parents are as much (or more degree wise) educated than us, naturally our IQ is also somewhat similar... and obviously they have lived 2-3times more than us... So it's unlikely that they are every going to be more wrong than us.
Plus they are much more social than me, so it would be dumb for me to every believe that I can understand people better than them.
IDK about people from rural areas or backward areas...
Didi mene ye video mere papa ko send ki or mene bola isko dekhne ko but unhone living relation ship ka title pada to wo bolte hai bewakuf hai.
Ye Indian parents ki mentality hai even wo chizo ko ek baar fir se dekhna bhi nahi dekhna chahte.
Wo apne mind ko change nahi Krna chahte hai.
Thank you di aap hume society ke baare mai batati ho. Seriously India need people like you. ❤️❤️❤️
Iska solution ye hai ki parents apne bacho ko moral and sex education de
Or saath hi relationship ko kese nibhate hai or ladke ladki ki kya responsibility honi chahiye relationship mai wo sikhna chahiye
@UCdxXFG1VVlQkQEcWmE9D02g mai kisi bhi relationship mai believe nahi rakhta Mera kehna ye tha ki bacho or parents ke beech jo bound hai aaj kl wo door ho rahi hai or isi wjh se se relationship mai break ups and divorce zyada ho rahe hai
Because parents didn't teach there children.
Btw aap ko kisi bhi mother or sister ko ye baat nahi karna chahiye
I hope aap apni mother or sister ki izzat krte ho kyuki Jo Banda kisi ki ma behen ko izzat nahi krta iska mtlb wo apni ma ya behen ki izzat nahi krta
After all wo bhi to female hai na
Apni ye tone please saaf kare aapki mother ki parwarish ki laaj rakhiye
God bless you friend
@Find It freaking nonsense. Just because female's independent hona chahti hai is liye divorce, i just can't understand what a typical mentality!! You're directly saying that womens ko independent hone ka haq nhi hai or humesa kisi ki seva karna or unke kadmo main pade rehna unka kaam hai. Tum jaise mardo ki problem mujhe samaj nhi ati tumhe kisi ke development se kya problem haii!! Huhh!!
@@ParkYn-he2wn female tuchiya h baat khatam 🧐
@Find It but you wrote that divorce is happening cause of females can support them by own, i know i over reacted but this I don't think divorce is happening cause of this
@Find It I think it mainly happens cause of 2 reason's -
1. Misunderstanding
2. Third person
I don't like the concept of live in relationship 😕.
Im a 14 yr boi and i don't like live in relationships
@Precious Moment live in is uncommitted form they can just go away like it's no big deal
@@pop7633 bda hoja phle
Love without commitment is timepass
Same
I think the main motive of a marriage is to be a happy and socially secure being (atleast for a girl) and the other one is to build a progressive society... Live in is an unnecessary stuff i feel... If you want to live with your loved one then go and get Married nah... It will be beneficial for you and the society... And your upcoming children also.... The point is try to choose wisely before marriage... marriage ke bad bhi or bachhe hone ke bad bhi agar tum seperation ke decision me kabhi ha kabhi na ke beech me latakna padhe to tumhari life hell h... Ye chiz life me grow krne nhi degi bilkul bhi... So choose wisely... Actually humara society me divorce or separation ka concept hi nhi tha... Ye aya hi h foreign cultural se... And see iska apna hi nuksaan h .... Our culture taught us to grow spiritually together not to indulge in 'abhi tum pasand ho kal achhi nhi bhi lag sakti ho'... Ek baar sadhi karo apne hisab se and be with each other till the end and ek dusre ke adhatmik growth me saath do . That is our society and our culture ✨
Why don't you go back to 1950s
@@arijitroy4792 bhai she is just viewing her opinion and she is not wrong.
I would like say that modern bano but itna modern mat bano ki apna culture hi bhul jao.
That's why I respect indian girls. They are the ones who protect our culture
Otherwise we boys have literally forgotten our roots
@@tushar5332what I don't like about Indian society is that they judge so much, otherwise Indian culture is great
@@Pussy-b3u well some judge for good reason and some judge for bad reason and at the end it's upto us how we take it.
Love precedes intimacy and lasts longer than life. If only we understand this fact we'll save our generation and the future ones from destroying the institution of family.
Marriage is old school but that doesn't mean it's outdated
These days log movies dekh k filmy pyaar Tho krte h Lekin woh kuh saal he tikta h so think hundred time before trusting anyone
These days का क्या मतलब होता है? मैं ये सब बातें 90 के दशक से सुनता आ रहां हूँ..और उससे के पहले के लोग भी यही बोलते थे..
😂Yahi to hai western culture
@@raghav0116 😂😂 har generation mein aise hi log hote the lol
Ek baat h
"Parents kabhi humara bura nahi sochte."
I strongly believe this.
Aise hi nahi bolte kuchh.
Aajkal toh parents love marriage k liye v mann jate h.
Humein v apne parents k sath openly baat karni chahiye.
They will obviously understand us.
Aisa nahi ki unko kuchh nahi pata. Woh jo bolenge bass tumhe rokne k liye hi bolenge. Aisa nahi hota.
You are their most precious gift.
Aise kaise woh tumhe barbad hone de.
Woh achcha hi sochte he
Achcha hi suggest karte h.
🙂
My opinion 🙂
@Khyalo Ki Duniya that's called illusion and lust total disconnection from reality and making your own fantasy world... Capable of this thinking itself makes human different from other species... Infact true love never exist it's.. true love exists but that love is what parents do to their children that is helping them to reach to their goal.. for ex.. when tulsidas wife gone to visit her mother, tuslidas relentlessly had wanting to meet her in any situation as he wasn't able to live without his wife and to do so he gone out during heavy storm, and crossed lake with human bones thinking those as sticks and climbed house with help of snakes tail thinking it as rope then finally met her then he realised, his wife was annoyed bout it and then she told that if you have invested your love for just 1% in bhagwan ram then he would have got to u.. so this itself is true love
@Varun 100%agree,,if they are parent, doesn't mean that they can not make mistake in taking decisions,, but yes their intension is mostly pure.
Best line : aise kaise vo tumhe barbad hone de ! 👍
Yes, but not a single person in the universe can understand you properly, not parents also. Parents do everything for us what they think is good. But if parents doesn't understand us we should talk to them what we really want
Not necessary
Di basically I feel like live-in relationships are good only if there's a proper commitment.
Uk otherwise as u said there'll be a lot of cons especially for females as they'll get pregnant, also the financial condition for both the genders.
99% Indians live-in relationship ko nibhaana toh durr, accept bhi karte nahi unlike US and UK!
Woh accept nahi karte because we indians have a very incorrect mentality of judging couples. Agar ek ladka ladki saath ghoom rahe hain toh ham maan lete hain ki woh lovers hain and phir unke character aur sanskaar ko judge karne lagte hain. Aise mein agar koi couple accept kar le ki woh relationship mein hain and live in mein hain, toh ye society na keval unhe but unke parents ko bhi bhala bura sunaayegi. And ham log ek baar ke liye khud ke liye bura sun lein but apne parents ko bura thodi na banne denge. Isiliye, jab tak hamari socitey ko apne kaam se kaam rakhna nahi aayega, live in taboo hi rahega!!!
@@melovesjenniekim6430 Agree.
@@melovesjenniekim6430 i agree 👍 society ki thinking change hone ka tym aa gya h 😇 i hope future gen will do better , kyuki old gen se to kya hi expect kre
@@LoveMaze-kw1le future is depend on present initiative:))
@@LoveMaze-kw1le So true!! I know old gen ka apne kuch concerns hote hain and they were really conservative but they shld understand ki time ke saath saath logon ke jeene ke andaaz bhi badal jaate hain. Our gen is more of a 'pehle istemaal karein phir vishwaas karein' sort of gen. We r more practical than them. I hope we don't judge our kids or anyone like tht
Allowed *
Population: 💯🔝🔥
This channel always give me worthful content☺☺☺
The other day, I saw a video in which some women were saying they just need babies and not husband. And, sadly, many are thinking like this these days. They think being single parent is some fashion. May God bless them.🙏
@@Crazy_shipper your father and brother is also men. Men and women both are respected
@@Crazy_shipper Then u are lesbian
@@Crazy_shipper 👍🏻. Is everything fine?
@@Crazy_shipper you don't need anyone.you can be happy alone also . practice yoga and believe in God
@@Crazy_shipper as your wish sis
Relationship with out being physical is all ok, i think
that's their choice
@@athul7545 no it's society's cultural idiology, when you are living in society, so you should do according to it, being alone or in secret do whatever you want but that shouldn't come out
Yes before marriage virginity should maintained
Experience teaches a lot.
Parents have seen what youth have yet to see. Live in is a need for sex, a hormonal thing, not some relationship development thing. Otherwise even in arranged marriages, the engagement is done and some time is allowed for girl & boy to understand each other. Many engagements do not materialise in marriage.
If a girl or boy wants to gain experience, instead of relying on experience of parents, he or she is becoming the guinea pig/test tube of that experiment.
If all goes well...too good.
But if things go wrong, you will be left with emotional scars for life.
Most boys are dogs. Most girls are gold diggers. Sad fact of life.
Ok but if in live in relationship people see any red flag, they should move on
Living in itself describes you are not confident with each others...and very insecure about handling the pressure of relationship
How the hell do even people think it will work out..
Yes that's why people go for live in, what's your problem. Should they take risk that after marriage there will be no problem?
Live in relationship💏 is correct✅ because many people cheat on marriage looks and also we will know that mindset of bride👰 and groom🤵
I agree
Yes you can get real Character, be the friend of your future partner because a friend in friendship can extract real Character of human being rather than being nude before marriage or have sex before marriage because of the problem that they start doing you blackmail and destroy your happy married or single life.
I feel the only logical advantage of live in over marriage is if a relationship doesn't work out partners can easily move on without going through any legal hassles for divorce.. rest all pros n cons are very superficial n can interchangeably happen in both cases..
SO right
There is another advantage that in live you get to.the know if the person is bad before kids, while in a marriage, kids are faster . So you have to do a divorce with kids .
I WANT A LIVE IN RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU 😂😂😂😜😜
@@Hafiz_G_Lumber_1teri ma ka chu chat bulle
I am 19 , but I completely accept and somewhat like parental intervention in my life.
They are wiser than us .
Jai Hind
Cuz you're a boy
@@Roachh2877
Are you a girl?
Boy?
Man?
If you are You might agree .
If you are #### you will never agree.
if you aint gonna make mistakes and learn from them yourself how arte you gonna become a good pparent , you shall take advicce from them rather to just ask them your every next move
You need to focus more on your studies rather than these infatuations.
@@Abhinav_krishnan
Kripya lambi lambi na phenke .
Ham already padh rahe hai.
P.T.: Cracked Jee Mains.
Kamsekam sabashi de dena
I like the fact that you leave the answer on us that Whether LIVE-IN should allowed or not...but we would really love to know your opinion on this too..make sure to share your opinion
You are the only one who gives right information
Yes you are right
I think it has more benefits for boys because I saw several boys who didn't get married to girls with whom they are living in the last they just easily say my parents are not ready for this marriage. In the end, girls have no other choice. She can't go anywhere for justice.so I think if we have bf or gf it's ok but doesn't live with them before marriage
It can be ok with parents concern. Always listen to your parents
My goals is quite life without any financial problems, good health and little heppy femily... Nathing more i want...
You need school first
Bhai/ bhen hindi hi likhle yaar kyu English krni h
Single parents exist through divorces as well. In india there are more single parents than America. But many haven't divorced. They dontbget alimony and the husband is living with someone with seperate kids. Till now all my maids are single moms. None of them ate divorced. Their husband's are with some other woman
Spending life alone is the best😂❤
yes, seal packed maal aaj kal bahut nazib walo ko milta hai😌
@@manasavaranasifan ye saab doesn't matters but ladkiyan badmein dhokha de deti hai issliye boys are happy alone😂😂
@@jindersingh2268 For me, a virgin girl matters as I'm also a Virgin guy. which is quite impossible nowadays.
that's why I chose to be single forever.
haath chalake adjust krlunga😌
@@manasavaranasifan bhai if it's joke then okay... But it's not good thing... Sex is a necessity
@@ekanshsharma5248
mai ek vaishya ko apna nahi sakta.
I can have kids without marriage.
If there is true love and sex is not considering as love but part of love then you can go with live in relationship. Even many times they tied the knot in marriage 😇❤
@@Crazy_shipper ok as per your choice 👍🏻
Kisne pucha
@@aqua0187 tujhe kisne kaha bolne ko
@@Crazy_shipper 😂😂
Koi tumse pategi bhi nahi
To be honest these things can't be judged whether the love marriage life will be happier or arrange marriage life will be happier. Until your spouse is loyal to you, no matter what you will be ended up being broken. That's why sometimes love marriages are mess and sometimes arrange
Honestly, may this video is very beneficial for all of the people who are watching it and they will gain a vary nice knowledge for there minset if they want to change it...
I soooooo lucky, even one of the luckiest Indian child. My mother has given never told me, log kya kahenge and she lets me do anything I want, anybody I want to make friends. That's why I am never ever afraid to share the series of events I am going through and of course I never need to be desperate or stubborn. I love my mom the most and I have promised myself that I will never break her trust☺☺😇😇
The 2 major problems you talked about can be handled maturely: pregnancy ka risk.. Protected sex. Finance issues can be handled nicely if both of the partners are working and knows their finances well..
And live in can be treated as trial marriage successfully.
ALWAYS USE BEST QUALITY CONDOMS+ MENSES PILLS = 0 CHANCE OF PREGNANCY 😂
What if one of the partner leaves the other emotionally and financially broken and there won't be any legal binding to safeguard the other person??
This could also result in becoming single parent as a consequence of it and women most likely become one.
So, women in a way was getting protected from state by marriage acts.
Live-in and marriage are 2 institutions and unfortunately, only one of them is binded by laws.
@@kumarabhishek1064 first of all there are chances of being single parent in marriage too. If the spouse dies, has extra marital affair, wants divorce, etc. There are many cases where that person is ultimately left alone only and becomes a single parent even when they avoided live in and chose marriage over it. So neither live in nor marriage can secure you of your relationship with the other person. If someone wants to cheat, they will do it even after marriage, if someone looses interest in you, they will loose it after marriage too/you may loose interest in them either.
Talking about laws, there are many laws applicable on live in couple that are applicable on married couple too. Some lacks but day by day the mindset of Judges are also changing, so they are also giving more rights and laws to protect live in couples. I remember a few months back I read a case where judiciary accepted that a child out of live in is also legitimate the way child out of marriage is. Though, not all marriage laws are applicable on live in couple right now, but I am sure with the changing mindset, judges will understand and will grant all the rights and laws for live in too.
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642
Every measure has its pros and cons.
The basic difference in both of them is marriage is binding by law and live-in is non binding.
Single parent and their off-spring won't have following things:
There is no inheritance rights
There is no financial security(if woman is not capable to earn)
No family support from deceased person's family as it is non-binding.
If people wants to leave the other person, there is a provision of divorce and person who is earning less will get the alimony.
The reason people choose this they can get free at any time whenever they want.
So, this mindset of having an option to get free more or less sounds like time-pass.
In marriage, people would think atleast once but here, get-set-leave.
There can be exceptions but the idea is it's anti of committed relationship.
@@kumarabhishek1064 Bro please read law. I am a law student and I just read a few months back a judgement where it was mentioned that children out of live in are legitimate as much as a child out of marriage is. Thus, such children are given inheritance rights too and live in legal and live in couple is given protection against family/society/neighbours too in India.
Well not true people choose may choose it for different reasons. The reason I have heard mostly is you get to know your partner well. I don't agree with it since you never know how that person changes after marriage and it goes the same for both marriage and live in. You can never know how a person is.
It is not anti committed relationship unless you make it, any relationship, ideology, thing needs people, if the people are anti committed relationship, live in will be the same for them but if they want a committed relationship with the person they love, then live in will be different for them. So it just depends on the people involved. A person can make marriage anti committed too by having extra marital affair too. Thus you can not generalise live in to be anti committed whereas marriage to be a committed relationship ever.
Live in/ Arranged or love marriage , all the institutions have its own pros and cons. Security wise Arranged is the best. Freedom wise Live in. But at the end, IT ALL DEPENDS ON THE PERSON YOU ARE WITH. Sadly these institution do not stress well on choosing the right person for you or most importantly being the right person for someone.
According to me it should be allowed since it has many cons still it have some pros
Yeah, sb situation pr depend krta h jruri nhi h ki sbke liye marriage shi h, ya sbke liye living relationship shi h,it totally depends on situation..
But the main thing is this that we should know our goals,, we should always be focused on our goals , and our goals should be clear
I think ek law banna chahiye jisme live in relationship me rahne walo ko bachche paida karne ki permission na ho jab tak ki unki shaadi na ho jaye. aur boys ke favour me bhi law banna chahiye.
Ye bhi thik hai
@@kashitakhalate9116 As per me , I think ek age limit bhi honi chahiye ....
I m 100% agree with you bro 👊👊👊
Shaadi k baad divorce nahi hoga uski kya guarantee?
@@gaytriba...2320 this is different problem, yaha maine sirf live-in relationship ke baare me kaha hai, kyuki divorce to arrange marriage aur love marriage me bhi hote hai
Marrege is better then live in relationship ❤️
Modernization ki jgh Westernistaion ho rahi h. liv in relation bilkul alg nhi Adam (aadimanav)jamane ke relation se .
I feel even Saudi Arabia is correct sometimes ,,
Cause if live-in relationships should Allow then why not child marriage and even what the heck of minimum age of 21 yrs 🧐
Cause last m kha na kisi k liye direct marriage prefer karega kisi k liye live in so the same logic kam se kam 10-15% log child marriage ko preference dete h so ?? Wo bhi Legel karde ?
I support love marrige but live-in is nothing more than a piece of shit , just use and throw formulla for both boys and girls.
Either both are supported or both are banned
Divorce is pretty easy there
@@ayonticabanerjee8326 I don't really like this word especially in west there people just divorce like it's nothing no responsibility nothing just sex
@@gamingcreatesworlddd2425 divorce is difficult even in West. Don't assume anything by watching celebrities. That's why they don't marry
@@muktadixit 1st of all sorry to say sister but i cant read your whole essay ,, and great i didnt support live-in and you are the one who support live-in still im the who think women's are sexual object .
R.I.P LOGIC
and i never support child marriage ,, I just say Support both or Ban both
2nd who the heck told you that you can manipulate 18 yrs old HUMAN easily ??? if you can then sorry to say the human who are manupulated easily altough in 18 yrs old maybe he had too LOW IQ otherwise we'll able to marry in 18+ .
1.Happy or sad Chances is 50-50 (livein) because you know you have to chance that you can change ur partner.
2.Happy or sad Chances is (70-30) or (80-20) (incase of marriage) because U accept that this is your fate.🤔🤔
I Don't Believe In This Living Relationship
A True Pure Love Always Ends With marriage 💑 I mean I don't have a any problem from living Relationship but for me I don't like this stuff..
I agree with you sir..
True pure love doesn't exist ... it's just how much u can trust a person and how much they have understanding that's how should be a husband wife ...and it's should be their choice how they find their partner ... they will be responsible for their own choice
@@Crazy_shipper Bhawno ko samjho wo kuch aur kehna chte hai
I think we will see more voluntary single living than marriages or live-ins in the future. People value their independence and freedom, and most younger generations are ready to forgo the benefits of companionship for peace of mind.
yes you are correct dear sister
Actually these live in relationship culture are destroying our own culture and sanskar of ancient India that is called golden bird at the time of mauryan and gupta empire
Actually live in culture is just like animal culture where a dog or cat be pregnant by another dog and cate and they live on
I know marriage may also have some problem but the easy solution is that be the good friend of your future partner because a friend in friendship can extract real Character of human being rather than being nude before someone or engage in sex because it is common nature of some boys (not all because there too are some boys who follow their culture and dharm)that they full fill their sexual desire in the name of live in relationship and move on with another girl for marriage
I believe in Brahmcharria 🙌
❤❤
Aur brahmachariya ka Gyan deke koi faida nhi 140 crore ho Chuka ha population aur Kuch yrs baad no1 populated country in the world ho Jayega
@@mrditkovich9571
It's not my problem
@@youngmoney1346 Jab tak sex education nhi ata iss desh me tab tak kuch nhi ho skta iss desh ka
Jitna bhi brahmachari kr lo
I like this ,vidio because you change topic of advertising from cripto currency ,I am tried of listening it.
I think marriage is best because yeh agar livin ke chakkar mai couple faste reh gaye toh buddhe hojayenge lekin fir bhi match nahi hoga. Livin sirf 2/3 years takke ki thik hai
🤣🤣🤣 toh tu mat kar 😂😂
Indian parenting system has to change...
Sex education is compulsary...
Single parenting must be given acceptance and govt must help.
Nikita mam the way you deliver the messeges in the video is just awesome!!!❤️❤️
@Precious Moment I think India mei legal consent ki age 18 hai.....or baat india ki ho toh gharwale ki darr ki mare iss umr mei physical relation .....iske liye ghar se nhi sidha desh denge mummy papa😂
umm i disagree with the point that its wrong to say live-in as trail marraige just based on china's example, china has always pushed the limits for career and women there are more interested in working than having a family, which was also covered by wion as how theres a new law for women to marry before 27 in china or else they will be married to low economic boys. India is a different country ALTOGETHER, where many women consesually want to get married, we use live-in so as we can complete higher education , work and secure ourselves financially and then get married, and so many times to prove to our parents that our love marraige can be succesful......
Di please collaborat with gourav bhaiya...
BTW we love you...
Keep it up...
The first and foremost thing for any boy and a girl is to be financially independent and rather than going into a relationship. Because no one is permanent for any person, life is full of ups and downs only your blood relations withstand you, have some exceptions also but true love is mothers love others are for mean only. It's up to what you choose you can't judge a person in live in or in arrange marriage completely because in every situation persons reaction are different. If you are independent than you can manage everything no one forced you to do. But making your life better one should have some principles that should be followed which is given by our culture.
We see European countries are falling these days and they adopt our sanatan religion because the poison of live in - sex- marriage and than divorce broke them deeply. Sanatan culture promotes peace and enlightenment.
Live in relationship ke liye naye rules ban ne chahiye, jo sabko suit kare.
रूल्स या laws??
@@raghav0116 you are correct, laws
If you're loving each other, why there is a problem with not getting married,,,? I know sometimes we regrete after married,,,, but we can manage our problems by discussion with our partners,,,, getting divorced is foolish things ever,,
I would only like to be in Friendship with Nikita mam
to be bitterly honest, we all want to validate things which favors us and our desires
Your videos are mind blowing ❤️❤️
Agar Aap Itne Samajhdaar yaa Mature nahi hai k Life ka sahi Decision kaise liya jaaye to behtar hai ki Live In Relationships me naa jaaye...Aur agar Aap apni life ka sahi Decision lene laayak hai to Live In Relationships me jaane ki zarurat hi nahi.
Haa, agar kisi bhi tarah ki Zimmedari ka Farz nahi nibhaana chahte yaa life me Sirf personal excitement chahte hai yaa puri life bina kisi Rishte se Bandhe Akele, ekdum Azaad rehkar, bilkul Freedom k saath jeena chahte hai to aap Live In Relationships me zarur Jaaye.
Jaisa jeena hai Waise jeeye, jiske saath jeena hai uske saath jeeye, Jitno k saath jeena hai utno k saath jeeye Kyuki.., Live In Relationships me aap par Committed Relationship ka Bojh nahi hoga, Aakhir Live In ka yahi to Faayda hai... Kyu?
Di thank you for making video on this there are many factors which affect relationships
First those who say that it's not aur culture
I absolutely belive that aur culture is great we have aur sanskriti but you know lord Krishna said that change is nature of world everything changes jo log kehte hai culture hi follow karo to kya ap 100 shadiya karenge ?? Kikuki phele ke kai Raza aisa kar chuke hai and I'm not saying ki ye galat hai Kiuki us time bohoooot se reasons ki vajah se hi unhone aisa kia but at this moment we can't do that and we should also not do that vaise hi Kai chize change hoti hai time ke sath aur culture bhi aur ye sab kuch mai nahi keh Raha swayam bhagwan shri krishn ji ne inte salo phele kaha tha, vusi tarah relationship hamare culture me phele nahi thi but iska matlab ye nahi ki ye galat hai ha uske kuch galat parinaam bhi hai but ye puri tarah Galat nahi,
Mai bus itna kehna chahunga agar ap relationship me jana chahte hai to jayiye agar ap nahi jana chahte to mat jayiye lekin koi aur agar ja raha hai to usko mat rukie uske bare me galat mat sochiye ya kahiye Kiuki relationship Galat nahi hai 👍
I hope ap meri bat samaj sare ho 🤗
Jai shree krishn🤗
Solution for unwanted pregnancy is vasectomy or tubal ligation, Later the couple can adopt a child who is orphan. or one of the partner can opt for surrogacy or sperm bank. To make sure both couple's parents are happy try living with them with your partner. And introduce each other's parents.
Pregnancy risk is in every kind of relationship. It can be avoided by contraceptives and if that fails then abortion is legal in India.
Educated adults can handle livin relationship.. Not every couple in livin relationship gets pregnant it depends on your education and future planning. It's good to be in livin rltnshp at least you can back off if things doesn't go well. But in case of marriage we all know divorce is a huge issue for society and it affects the child too.. So if you're thinking to be in a livin rltnshp you must be RESPONSIBLE.
I think Live in relationship is somehow correct
@@utkarsh4424 for concupisent
Love you for a couple of reasons.
1 You speak with your hands.
2 You are young and beautiful.
3 clear diction.
4 well researched.
5 great visuals
6 can't contact you.
Hi Didi love your videos.Very informative lesson for today's world lol❤️
Live in relationship allowed but also two side companion building knowing each other but the problem of one children child pregnancy happens and person can leave
As much as I love my partner I would only be together if we get married. Both think on the se lines. Live-in relationships are trash and the highest form of emotional abuse one can get themselves into in case the relationship doesn't work.
god bless you sister 😀
Love from #INDIA
I have experienced that my parents never liked my friends , i kept changing on my friends but my parents still found something bad in them . They just want all my attention to themselves. They don't want me to be friends with anyone
Real to ye hai duniya Bharat ka traditional apna Rahi hai or hamare desh ka ek bhut gyani log in jesi western culture apnana chahta hai ...😂😂
I think live in relationship is the best for everyone's life before marriage
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Thank god.. Almost all your vdos and your advises and suggestions are there in islam..alhamdulillah already we have all these rules.. Islam is also against live-in because of these reasons u have mentioned...
Mai kudh sadhi se pahale live in relationship Mai rahana chahat hoo jis se mujhe achh partner mil sake par family isko Kabhi Nahi manegj sayad India Mai Aish bahut se parents hoge jo live in relationship bke liya mana karte hoge
5th clear karle pahle munna
@@sahilbhardwaz4852 😂Bhai pehle mujhe laga koi mature aadmi hai. Phir uski profile photo pe nazar padi. 🤣
I think live in is a better option you can know your partner & what will gonna happen if you marry him like all the pros & cons also will know the compatibility & if it didn't work out you can just move on without taking divorce any legal thing or talking to parents or relatives bcuz as we all know in india after a divorce a female specially seen as a bad women society will judge you not as a victim if you've faced violence or anything else then a divorcee female will end up marrying again a lower or not compatible partner or just be single for whole life.
Living in relationship before marriage यह भारत की संस्कृति के खिलाफ है 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Hame sadhu Mahatma nahin nanna hai sanskriti se
Hame sadhu Mahatma nahin banna hai sanskriti ko apna ke
Hame sadhu Mahatma nahin banna hai sanskriti ko apna ke
Hame sadhu Mahatma nahin banna hai sanskriti ko apna ke
Hame sadhu Mahatma nahin banna hai sanskriti ko apna ke
As per my experience - marriage is much more better than any live in relationship bcos live in koi mutual responsiblity ni smjhta apne partner ko ... Unko pta hota hai ki wo kabhi bhi chd k ja skte hai ya unke liye aur bhi options hote hai ... Toh wo apne emotions invest ni karte hai ... Toh specially girls ... Live in jaise trap me kabhi bhi mat fasna ... Aap apni age se pehle bht kuch akele akle krne lag jaoge family friends sab se dheere dheere krke disconnect ho jaoge . Toh pehle apne aap ko strong karo fir shadi jaisi chiz k bare me sochna ... Bhagne ka bhi dicision kbhi mat lena kyuki suffering sirf tumhari hi hogi ...
Apne jo kaha wo sahi hai 100% .agar dono couple main pyar hai trust hai commitment hai to bo shadi karle live in main kyun rahe .ye live in ek western culture hai jisme couple maze karte hain uske bad break up karke chale jate hain unko fark nehi padta.
Parents are always correct 👍. I would never like to be in a living relationship.
Ri88
👍ofcourse i agree, parents are everything for us, if parents are happy, it brings satisfaction to us also, live in just too uncertain, parents are intentionally always right.
@@samreentarique5054 yes you are correct dear sister
Actually these live in relationship culture are destroying our own culture and sanskar of ancient India that is called golden bird at the time of mauryan and gupta empire
Actually live in culture is just like animal culture where a dog or cat be pregnant by another dog and cate and they live on
I know marriage may also have some problem but the easy solution is that be the good friend of your future partner because a friend in friendship can extract real Character of human being rather than being nude before someone or engage in sex because it is common nature of some boys (not all because there too are some boys who follow their culture and dharm)that they full fill their sexual desire in the name of live in relationship and move on with another girl for marriage
Sister you are doing fabulous work! Salute to every team member of your team. 🙏