Got up at 3AM! Spend all day with me COOKING, SHOPPING, CLEANING! EASY MEALS ON A BUDGET
Вставка
- Опубліковано 10 лют 2025
- Hey guys! In today's video I am running lots of errands and sharing it all with you! COOKING, SHOPPING, CLEANING! EASY MEALS ON A BUDGET! Video details are below! Thanks so much for watching and I hope you enjoy!
Interested in making money with Nuskin? email me here abbythedford@gmail.com
IF YOU WANT TO JOIN MY SKINCARE GROUP www.facebook.c...
PINK LUMISPA nskn.co/F03KzW
BLUE LUMISPA nskn.co/9b6En2
My budgeting planner?
BUY HERE! the-simplified...
make sure to turn your phone sideways to see the cart to checkout
GUT DRINK store76108238....
MY HAT amzn.to/40XOgBz
BABY BAG amzn.to/3KuTi15
BABY MONITOR FOR CAR amzn.to/3mmMyKX
LIQUID IV amzn.to/3Up1l4h
STANLEY CUP amzn.to/3UGZpEB
GREASE SPRAY amzn.to/419LJ6W
MY CARSEAT amzn.to/3zOCrBD
BRONZING PEARLS store76108238....
moisturizer with sunscreen: nskn.co/zbWphn
bb cream: nskn.co/JWQV1j
concealer: amzn.to/3yrPTv5
beauty blender: amzn.to/3Vcn7Iy
brow gel: amzn.to/3Vf2tYb
brown eyeliner: amzn.to/3VpMfvA
lip stick: nskn.co/vu0kZB. (being discontinued soon)
thickening mascara: amzn.to/3ekoEM2
lengthening mascara: nskn.co/cvCqJA
soap sets: nskn.co/RdWdK3
eye sets: nskn.co/8t7fFi
naked palette amzn.to/3o2A4bP
email me me at abbythedford@gmail.com if you have any questions!
MAKE SURE TO CHECK YOUR SPAM FOLDER!!!!
THE SIMPLE LIFE MERCHANDISE www.bonfire.co...
all music from www.epidemicsound.com
MY AMAZON STOREFRONT:
www.amazon.com...
FOR BUSINESS INQUIRIES:
abbythedford@gmail.com
LET'S CONNECT!
INSTAGRAM: abby_thed / abby_thed
SOME OF MY FAVORITE THINGS: :)
VEGGIE CHOPPER amzn.to/3rQ5fnS
PASTA STRAINER amzn.to/3rWjWW8
MY VACUUM: amzn.to/3AIM3w6
MY CROCKPOT: amzn.to/3jVvu9w
MY NESPRESSO: amzn.to/31fgxHp
MY INSTANTPOT: amzn.to/34hNfcU
MY SPIN MOP: amzn.to/3CTEJzz
MY FAVORITE CLEANING RAGS: amzn.to/3mduDnk
KITCHEN RAGS amzn.to/37SEqXH
MY FOUNDATION: amzn.to/31enLep
MY CONCEALER: amzn.to/34vCVyj
(Amazon Affiliate Links)
CROCKPOT SHEPHERD'S PIE
2 lb ground beef cooked
1 small can of tomato sauce
seasoning of your choice
2 cans of mixed vegetables or frozen
mashed potatoes on top
cook on low for 6 hours
top with shredded cheese
Abby, yes! I think it’s just a mother thing. You are a good mom! You are not selfish. I’m 56 years old and my children are 32, 30 and 20. When they were teenagers I would still feel guilty if I was out by myself and I bought me something to eat. I would be like I should have bought some for everyone, but they would have had something to eat at home already. Even when I would buy clothes that I needed and my children had enough clothes, I would feel guilty. I have one son and he’s my middle child, when he was still living at home in his early 20’s, he gave me $100 one day and said “Mom, go buy yourself something nice!” He said, “Just for you, no one else!” He said, “I know you, you will take that money and buy something for one of us or for the house. Mom, just on yourself”. I cried tears of joy because I knew then how much I gave and sacrificed over the years was truly appreciated. My kids always tell me how good a mom I’ve been to them. Abby, I said all of that to say try not to feel guilty because you do have to do for yourself sometimes, but how you feel is because you love your children and you want to always put them first and there’s nothing wrong with that. They will let you know one day how much you are appreciated. My husband I never feels guilty!😂😂
That is so nice of your son - thank you for sharing!
Hi Abby, I’m a mom of two toddlers and I just want you to know, I was in such a rut today and watching your video helped me so much. It’s so good to see that I’m not alone in my struggles and stress as a mom. Thank you for your honesty! You are amazing!
thank you so much for watching! You are amazing too ❤
My favorite thing about you is how raw and real you are. So many channels out there I had to stop watching because I couldn’t relate: YOURE increidble!
thank you so much!
Agree!💯💕💯
I felt guilty for buying stuff for myself, until I started budgeting for it. I have a clothes budget, and random spending. Since starting them I don't feel so bad when I do spend on myself
that is a great way to do it!
I know you look at yourself differently but you are just beautiful I think they looked great on you and you are a breath of fresh air for Christian mamas to see we're not alone and life isn't perfect ♡♡♡
thanks so much!
I feel your pain in that dressing room moment. I’m dreading shopping for spring clothes.
It's not usually fun!
It’s absolutely a mom thing that doesn’t go away. I’m 47 both my kids are grown and I now have a 16 month old grandson and I legit still feel guilty when I spend money on myself!
You are not alone in feeling like that!
You are amazing you look beautiful I know it’s hard sometimes trying on those stupid clothes. you’re an inspiration. I love your show and your honesty. Thank you for sharing with us.❤
Thank YOU for watching!
Abby you’re literally the sweetest! I chuckled a few times through out this. You’re very genuine. I use to feel guilty spending money on myself, but we are important too. It’s not like you went and bought yourself something you didn’t need. And after having a baby spending money on clothes is very justifiable. Best wishes to you always!❤️
❤️❤️
Thank you so much!!
I remember tuning in when you were packing the hospital bag for baby number 3. I've been so busy with my 3 little ones and have missed so much of your content. Hope I can tune in more. You are so genuine. Thanks for sharing.
The guilt is real but I'm so glad you got your shorts!
Yes, I go through that every time I get something for myself. Guilt! Most of the time I’ll put back what I got myself and find something for myself! ❤
Glad I am not alone!
I love how you are so relatable as a mom so real.
thank you!
You never ever look tired.! Amazing!
thank you!
@@thesimplifiedsaver :))
You can't get much more real life than this! 😅 Thank you for being raw and authentic! I love your videos.
😊 thank you
Hey there ❤ thanks for sharing your day! Sending love Mama, you are doing awesome!!
thank you for watching!!
I have to tell you, you are doing amazing!!
This is a season that will pass.
I hope you can take a deep breath and give yourself some GRACE!
You deserve it and new clothes! 😉♥️🙏🏻
Thank you!!
I really enjoy your videos. My CFA order is always 12 piece nuggets and large diet lemonade with lite ice. Then I snack on that during my day, in and out of stores.
Sounds great!
I’m a first time mom & I love your videos! So relatable. I love how real you are. You’re a beautiful mom and woman. I struggle with the guilt too when I spend money on myself !:( it’s just me though, my husband tells me I should treat myself all the time! Lol I don’t know where the guilt comes from. But you’re not alone in that. I had to buy basically a new wardrobe after I had my baby.
Oh my goodness.... trying on clothes when you don't feel your best is the absolute worst. I was at my heaviest 4 years ago... and I did not have baby weight to blame. I remember sitting down in the dressing room and crying because shorts two sizes up were way too tight. I felt bloated and miserable. I started Keto/Low carb dieting that week and lost 8 pounds in one week. I continued to lose weight and have been able to maintain my weight/clothes size. There are so many low carb/Keto snacks, breads, sweets, and treats now. I never feel deprived and feel more confident about my body than I did in my 20's... I'm 43 now. If any of you ladies have ever felt the same, please try out Keto/Low Carb lifestyle. It's sustainable and you will never feel hungry. Love this VLOG! Thank you, Abby!!
Thank you for sharing what worked for you!
Hi Abby, I've been a subscriber for quite a while now, but don't usually leave a comment. Today, though, I saw how emotional you were when talking about feeling guilty when you spend money on yourself, and I recognised that I feel it too, I'm raising 11 year old twins and they get so much but I still feel guilty.You're doing such a great job. You're a really productive woman and should be proud of what you get done each day. I work full-time, too, and the struggle is real! Sending you hugs from Dublin, Ireland, a long way from Texas 😂
I'm glad I am not alone! Thank you for sharing and greetings from Texas!
Wow Abby!!! Your doing a great job!!!🎉 I'm a mom of 7 and grandma of 16!!!! They did not have u tube when my children we here little.. now they are 44, 43, 42, 39, 36, and a baby in heaven and 32! If utube was around back then....I have been doing all the things you all are doing... I could have been on there!!!!😂 God bless your beautiful family!!!!❤
Thank you so much!! ❤
Oh mama. You sitting down in the dressing room… that could have been a video of me doing the same thing postpartum. I eventually got down to my pre pregnancy clothes / size, then I stopped nursing and went back up one size. Postpartum is HAAAARRD! I wore my husbands basketball shorts all of the time because I felt so bad about myself I didn’t want to “buy that size.” Hugs to you. You’re amazing. You’re an amazing mama and put so much good into the world. Give yourself grace. Xo
Thanks for your support and for sharing!
I feel like we are so similar! Love your vlogs.
Thanks for sharing your day with us and I love Chick-fil-A! My go to is 8 count nuggets with fries and a Coke Zero! Yum! You are doing an amazing job! ❤
So good!!
Love your day in the life video! The bacon cracked me up! I think we've all done done things like that before. You're a great mom!
Thanks so much!!
Hi Abby 👋🏻 love your videos. My boys are grown and I still feel guilty at times when I shop for me 🙄 there are SO many things the kids need, you just get conditioned in trying to provide ❤ glad you got your little nap in before heading out for the day. Your new little coffee shoppe looks very nice 👌🏻
Thanks for sharing!!
Ok the bacon in the crockpot ordeal- so relatable!! 🙈😂 Total mom-Brain moment. I feel you!!
Also, I am totally the same whenever I spend money on myself, why are we like that??
You’re such a great, hardworking mom Abby! Keep up the great work 👍🏻😊
Glad I am not alone!
Wow you are truly a rockstar!!!! I know your family is so lucky to have you!
You are so kind!
You literally are just the sweetest person! I love watching your videos!❤️
Thank you so much!!
You are the master of multi tasking!❤
thank you!
I like how you mentioned wanting to go get new clothes instead of waiting around to fit in old ones. I struggled with that a long time after having my son before I started selling stuff that didn’t fit and buying new with that money. I was waiting around for something that I don’t know if will ever come! 3 years PP and I still don’t fit bc I don’t have the time to worry about losing 10 lbs. it is what it is. ❤
I am getting there too!! Thanks for sharing!
Great video!! I must be the exception because I never feel guilty about buying myself anything. I'm a stay at home mom of an adult son with Autism. My hubby works 55-60 hours/wk and I do almost all of the cooking, cleaning, laundry and looking after our son. I go every 3 weeks and get my sns powder manicure, every 6 weeks for my hair color (and highlights every other time). If I need clothes I buy them. I love the motto "Happy Wife, Happy Life". I'm not selfish because if my hubby or son needs anything I get those items too. Thankfully my dh likes me to pamper myself. 😍
You shouldn't feel guilty at all! That is a great motto, haha 💜
Ah you did amazing!! And the guilt.. yep I know that but his we are so worth it!! Enjoy those shorts u bloody earned them! X
thank you!! You earned it too!
Totally relatable day! Love your diaper bag Abby ❤
Thank you!! 😊
You are such a sweet soul. Love your videos and you have a great family and just take care of yourself ❤
Thank you so much!
Sometimes, I just need to drink something other than plain water. I love lemon water or sparkling water.
Those are great options!
Abby, you cannot feel guilty for loving yourself, and treating yourself. You sacrifice for your family, but sometimes it’s okay to put yourself first. It needs to happen on the regular,too!! Ok, I’m off my soapbox.😂 Sending lots of hugs!❤❤
Yes! Thank you!
Abby you are so funny! You're just so and your self thank you for all the great videos just keep being you
Thank you! Will do!
It is a common thing to feel so much mom guilt and be selfless for our families. The struggle is real ❤
The struggle is real and you are not alone!
Ps I absolutely love how stoic you are. I wish I had the same patience you have!
thank you!
Enjoyed the video Abby!💕💕I ALWAYS enjoy your videos!😍
Thank you so much!!
No do not feel guilty think of it as rewarding yourself ❤❤you work hard you deserve it
We all deserve it!
I definitely feel guilty when I spend money on myself or take time for myself (which I hardly ever do).
Same
Same!! You are not alone
Here's something I've learned take all your clothes out of the dryer and put them somewhere and then fold them so you don't have to bend down so many times
Good thinking!
I can totally relate to feeling guilty for spending money. After so many years living on a very tight budget, I just can't stand to spend on myself. I will say what my aunt said to me once when I was feeling guilty for needing clothes. "You can't just go through the world naked so you have to buy them sometimes."
🤣 very good point
Mothers always feel guilty. Especially w littles in the home.
Yes we do!
Great video! I can never find clothes especially bottoms at Target either. I end up at Kohl’s.
Kohl's is great!
Oh wow!! I know what you are feeling as far as not wanting to spend money on yourself or feeling bad about it. I still feel that way even tho we are now empty nesters. You mite find this helpful- I have an envelope that I put in 20
Dollars each payday and if I need a new top or bras etc I save for a bit and use that money. It recently built up to 300 dollars and I bought some much needed sneakers and jeans and I didn’t feel bad because I had
My envelope $$. Maybe that will work for u! Anyway great video. I hope you get a good night sleep
That is a GREAT idea!
Favorite thing at Chick-fil-A is the grilled spicy southwest salad with light Italian dressing. It's super spicy if you add the toppings it comes with but so good!
YUM!
I have the same pioneer woman crock pot, only took 4 hours on low to cook a pork loin of 3lbs
It's an awesome slow cooker!
I absolutely love your cooking videos!! Do you have an instant pot? I'd love more recipes!!
I do! I need to incorporate it more. Love to make rice in there
I immediately click on your videos when I see them on my home page! Love the normalcy of them compared to other channels. ☺️ and you are a super mom! My favorite Chick-fil-A order is 12 count nuggets with sweet tea extra ice or the Cobb salad :) & Chick-fil-A sauce or Ranch! ❤
Yay! Thank you!
Fun fact that I learned not sure if you or anyone else did but what we call shepherds pie is really called cottage pie. Shepherds pie is made with lamb because shepherds watch over lambs. Cottage pie is made it’s beef because there are no shepherds in the cattle fields. I love watching you. You’re amazing. And I always feel guilty when I buy myself ANYTHING lol. ❤much love
I did not know that! thank you for watching ❤
Don’t feel guilt about taking care of yourself!❤
Absolutely don't feel any guilt, take care of yourself first, so you can take care of your kids and husband ❤
So true!! 💜
Hey Abby! Ask Mr. Trey to switch the door on your washer so it’s less awkward for you when you’re flipping laundry!
Great idea!!
I liked the shorts!!!
thank you!!
Omg! The bacon part had me rolling😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Although you spent money on some new clothes, you'll feel so good in them when you get ready to go out ☀️ you'll quickly wonder how you did it without buying them 🤔 when you feel better, you'll be even more inspired to keep going strong toward
new goals 💪🏻❤😁
I hope so! ❤
OMG OMG OMG...... The baby so cute and I personally think he looks just like Sybil
❤❤❤
You do a great job I enjoy your videos 👍
Glad you like them!
I love watching your videos as I get ready for work. I feel guilty for spending money on myself. My husband gave me money to buy myself clothes. I got me a pair of jeans and kids clothes and saved the other half of the money lol
Glad to hear I am not alone! And that you treated yourself :)
I love the robe where did you find it? I am looking for a new one.
Amazon! I'm sorry I couldn't find the link for you
It's a mom thing for sure and if I do buy myself something, I always get my kids stuff too. Helps with the guilt 😂
Haha that's a good way to do it!
I feel the exact same way all the time! My husband took me to get new tennis shoes and new jeans because the tennis shoes I was wearing were 10 years old and falling apart and my 1 pair of jeans that I own had major holes in them. I went to 3 different stores, finally my husband says "Do they really not fit or have you been looking at the price tags?"
😔 I had been looking at the tags, I couldn't wrap my head around spending $70 on a pair of shoes or jeans for myself, when I could use that to get my husband or daughter something instead. Has to be a mom thing.
Has to be! I've been there before
I use to feel guilty about things like that, then I got older and said, girl please, you need that stuff. ❤❤
So true!! We need stuff too 💜
I have been awake since 3am today. I dont usually feel nauseous but emotionally I am a mess and my mind is not in a good place.
Oh my goodness! I went to Target and tried some clothes on. I am 53 mind you but when I tried the summer dresses on last summer, all of the dresses made me look like the good year blimp with arms and legs. Lol. 😂 That store is for tall skinny teenagers and young adults. I will never shop there for clothes.
I feel guilty spending money on myself too. Must be a woman/mom thing.
I have been wearing bras that were 10yrs old that did not fit well. 😳 My husband made me go get some new ones, of course at Victoria Secrets. Got 4 new bras and I also needed panties. Spent way too much money. Felt a huge amount of guilt at first but now I am wearing panties and bras that fit like they are suppose to. They make me feel special and nice. 😊
Be kind to yourself. You have bacon for tomorrow. 🥓🥓🥓
I made a crockpot roast on Sunday for Easter and forgot to plug it in. Thank goodness I noticed after an our or 2 before I went to church.🙄😬
I laugh at myself and the silly things I do. I am trying to be more kind to myself and not so critical.
You are doing a great job! 🖐
thanks so much for sharing!
Baby is adorable ❤
thank you!
Love the content!
thank you!
Please don’t feel guilty you sacrificed your body to carry a baby and while your transitioning your clothes don’t fit. Completely normal and perfectly fine! You look amazing and don’t sweat it! I am sure Trey totally supports that! Embrace that it’s okay to take care of you ❤many hugs!
thank you!! Trey does support me he's the best ❤
I felt guilty spending anything on myself lol. eventually you will get over it! 😊
You and me both!
In your defense on the bacon, I've never seen it packaged like that before! 😂 You are one busy momma! I also relate to the guilt...every time I think about buying myself something I mentally calculate how much groceries I could buy with that money🤦♀️
So glad i'm not alone! And I'll take the bacon defense, haha
I get the same way when I buy for myself too. Idk why…maybe it’s just a mom thing lol your not alone!!
Glad I am not alone!
Maybe Wal-Mart has some comfy shorts. I go to Plato's closet. Used... But cheap and cute & comfy!
I need shorts too!! Today was 75° tmrw 80's!!
My last baby is 6 and I still have weight to lose lol mostly tummy.
Great idea!! Used is the way to shop. Thank you for watching!
Omg girl I'm the same. If I buy something I need, I'll feel guilty too! Must be a mom thing 😂
Must be!
@Fashionluvr15 not sure if you will see this, but my vote is the transition from 1 to 2 kids, was more difficult than 0 to 1. I have three kiddos. Age differences can also play a part. In the end families are a blessing!
I had a 4 yr old and a 2 1/2 yr old when we were blessed with our twins and I still say going from 1 to 2 was harder than 2 to 4! I always say every family is it's own recipe so I know not everyone will say the same thing, but this girl agrees with you! lol
they are a blessing!
Oh my gosh yes, I always feel guilty when I buy myself things even knowing I work and deserve to buy myself something, then I'm like you could have used it for the kids. Even though like you said mine don't need anything. LOL For my birthday last month I treated myself by getting my hair done because I usually do it myself and oh my gosh I felt so guilty. Just means you're a great mom!! 💜💜💜
Glad I'm not alone! You deserve to treat yourself too 💜
@@thesimplifiedsaver definitely not alone. You're so right. 💜💜💜💜
That guilt is REAL!!! I know it well! (But not necessary). And btw……bacon in the crockpot?? Who woulda thunk it???😂. Way to be prepared for breakfast tomorrow!!!🎉
Right!! At least breakfast was handled, haha.
I think it's totally normal. Once you are momma, you tend to put everyone 1st and you last. I had 3 children and with everyone...here comes the guilty. 😊 Hope the you get more rest
So true!
Man that bacon package was deceiving!
Lol it really was!
Is it legal to drive and use the phone in the US? I know in a lot of countries isn't but not sure about the USA
Hello!
I think your get it all done videos should always have a nap scheduled in! Be kind to yourself!!!
Also I feel you with the shorts! It’s hard the postpartum body changes!
Also I’m from Australia (5 hours west of Sydney)- what is dirty rice and routelle?
Yes- so tired at the moment but this breastfeeding all the time is exhausting! But I know this shall pass!!
It's kind of like a cajun/spicy rice- it's really good!
Oh my goodness girl, you've just had a baby! Rest and feel guilty about nothing. If your children have clean clothes on their backs, food in their bellies and go to bed feeling loved and safe - you have done your job. As for housework.....it has the patience of a saint and will silently wait till someone wants to tackle it. 😊
Yes! Thank you!
TSS If you run into some inexpensive jeans, cut them off and make shorts… 💕
Great tip!
Hi Abby. I get it that you feel guilty but you should not! If you need clothes or whatever, it is something you need and not a frivolous purchase. Take a deep breath and tell yourself you are worth it!! I ordered your gut drink because have been having bloating issues lately. Also went to order the mascara and it is out of stock. When do you think it will be in? I watch you all the time--love you and your beautiful family. Have a blessed day.
Hi!! Send me an email at abbythedford@gmail.com about the mascara and I can check for you. Hope you enjoy the gut drink! And thank you for sharing 💜
LOL if I had made that bacon mistake I probably would have pretended I meant to do that and served BLTs for dinner, or breakfast for dinner
That's a good way to handle it! Haha
What is the thing on the side of your washer that you moved to the door ?
It keeps the door opened so it doesn’t mildew!
The bacon!😆
LOL I can laugh about it now
Liquid IV is a life saver
I swear by it
I had covid and it was the only thing that wld make me feel normal again . Side note, I literally cry when I spend money on myself but would spend hundreds on my kids and husband without batting an eye!! It's real mom guilt. Don't do it though, ur a good person for even thinking u shld feel guilty.
Glad I am not alone!! Thank you for sharing
The struggle is real with a newborn 😅 . I can’t wear Target juniors anymore either it all looks ridiculous on me . It’s ok just have to finally shop my own age.
It's a struggle for all of us!
My favorite Chick-fil-a is the chicken sandwich with just the pickle and ketchup or the chicken salad with sunflower seeds.😋 So if any representative from chick-fil-a is reading this🤭please open a franchise in my country🇧🇸
Both are so good!!
Give yourself grace!! You have a husband, 4 children and a main job and with UA-cam and your makeup one, plus having a husband who works long hours, I don’t know why you haven’t crashed yet!! As far as your clothes, you have 4 jobs that bring in income to the household so why are you not deserving for a treat time and time again. When I had our two boys, I was almost in the same situation but didn’t have but two. My mother-in-law told me all the time that they will grow up and you’ll miss it. Yes, I do and when I think back on it, I don’t know how I did it. Plus my boys showed cattle and you could go to a show every weekend if you wanted. That is what I miss the most because of the fellow people we met a long the way! Grace is on your side!!!
thank you so much -- well said!
All the time mama!!!!!... I could buy a $20 purse & feel guilty 😢
Always!!
If you get up that early what time do you go to bed?
I don’t usually get up this early. I just got up this early because the baby got up this early and I never went back to bed. But I try to go to bed at 9 o’clock.
Supermom 💯
💜
💪🏻
:)
Abby, I think women are programmed to feel guilt about a LOT of things. Not having the cleanest house, sometimes serving fast food as a meal, taking time for self care, etc., etc., etc. Guilt is a useless emotion which doesn't do you any good. Let it go. It does take some time to do that, but it is so worth it. Do the best you can and that is good enough.
So true!! It really is a useless emotion.
❤
❤
I have never been able to find clothes at target. Ever. Not 1 thing.
Oh I'm sorry! I can sometimes find a good deal :)
I think it is just being a mom. We are programmed to do for others not ourselves
❤❤
💜