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  • @ThePatientStory
    @ThePatientStory  Рік тому +2

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  • @JenniferFernandes-d8e
    @JenniferFernandes-d8e Місяць тому +5

    A month ago I had been diagnosed for triple negative breast cancer. I had my surgery first and soon will start chemotherapy and then radiation. You have been so brave and makes me feel I will get through this hurdle as well. Thank you.

  • @cristianasaras6898
    @cristianasaras6898 Рік тому +58

    Well spoken eloquent young lady after all she’s been through. I wish her the best

  • @mariavassallo9591
    @mariavassallo9591 Рік тому +47

    I had double mastectomy and I’m not interested having reconstruction. We are a true warriors ❤

    • @vocalone8182
      @vocalone8182 11 місяців тому +4

      I didn't have reconstruction either. No bra is totally great!!

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah 10 місяців тому +4

      My friend just wears prosthetic bra. Implants cause cancer lol

    • @americafirst6628
      @americafirst6628 6 місяців тому +2

      I DID THE SAME AS WELL. DOUBLE MASTECTOMY AND DOING GREAT

    • @ISDS_Mosaico
      @ISDS_Mosaico 4 місяці тому +4

      Double mastectomy two days ago, will keep it this way, no reconstruction!

  • @kirstyrogers40
    @kirstyrogers40 11 місяців тому +18

    I had my full hysterectomy New Year’s Eve of 2015 at age 25. You are so right, I’d much rather have that surgery and be alive today than not have had the surgery and I would most likely have been dead by now. I was so lucky to have my partner by my side even though we had only been together for 9 months, and now almost 9 years later we are still happily together. Chance you are such an amazing and beautiful soul and I wish you well xx

  • @sierragold
    @sierragold Рік тому +23

    Brave, eloquent, smart, beautiful woman. I wish her the best!

  • @Kranhu
    @Kranhu 11 місяців тому +12

    I was diagnosed in 2007 withTNBC. I was 58. Sending prayers your way.

    • @Kranhu
      @Kranhu 11 місяців тому

      My daughter was diagnosed in 2020 withTPBC at the age of 40.

    • @YeshuaKingMessiah
      @YeshuaKingMessiah 10 місяців тому

      My friend has survived TNBC since her dx in 2006 w/a nursing baby
      Her mom died of BC when she was in 2nd grade
      My friend went on to have 2 more babies after tx was over. She had quit the tx after about 18 mos as it was killing her.
      You Can Do This!

  • @M5098
    @M5098 3 місяці тому +5

    Just diagnosed with triple negative. One night I woke up to what felt like a bee sting in my breast. I’ve read repeatedly that most breast cancer is not painful so I assumed this pain and newly found lump was a burst cyst. Nope, I am triple negative, awaiting my surgery and chemo. 😩 I feel as though I am in good hands though. I am extremely thankful for people like you put your story out there! You’ve made it so much easier to walk this journey! ❤️

  • @spiritualrabbitt3765
    @spiritualrabbitt3765 5 місяців тому +6

    I am stunned at the number young people with breast cancer.

  • @paulineacosta8409
    @paulineacosta8409 Рік тому +11

    Never loose hope. I’ve been in this position and so far 13 years since…

  • @treespirit2000
    @treespirit2000 9 місяців тому +6

    Wow, just wow! You are an amazing young woman -- intelligent, upbeat, beautiful. I'm in awe of you, truly!

  • @lorikw
    @lorikw Рік тому +6

    I too had my port inserted too close to my heart and went into Afib. It happened right after they had put it in, in the operating room! They did not know what was causing it! When I went in to talk to my Oncologist I mentioned the Afib and she was shocked and told me right off what it was! Like you, had it removed and a new one put in. You are the only one I have heard of going through the same thing!
    Hugs from Idaho

  • @nicolebarnes3617
    @nicolebarnes3617 Рік тому +18

    God bless you and your strength and resilience! My daughter was dx with triple negative breast cancer at 27 and is doing chemotherapy now.

    • @americafirst6628
      @americafirst6628 6 місяців тому

      GOD BLESS U. I WILL NEVER RECOMMEND CHEMO TO ANYONE. PRAYERS UP

  • @bugsybird8619
    @bugsybird8619 Рік тому +16

    You have been through it, but you came through. You are strong and smart. I wish you the best of health and a very wonderful life. You deserve it. Thank you for sharing your story. It will help a lot of women.

  • @anglophils645
    @anglophils645 9 місяців тому +2

    This is a very informative video, thank you for sharing.

  • @jellams1317
    @jellams1317 Рік тому +12

    So glad your comfortable with your body. Best wishes. Keep your strength

  • @denise5169
    @denise5169 10 місяців тому +3

    You are truly a rockstar. Your Mom is so proud. You are a beautiful and smart human

  • @janegordon6536
    @janegordon6536 10 місяців тому +1

    Your video was a "chance meet" for me tonight. I am way older than you are and have watched two of my friends (young and older) fight the fight against their unique breast cancers with GREAT POISE, KNOWLEDGE, AND A DETERMINATION THAT SURPASSES A NORMAL HUMAN RESPONSE -- just like you have! You are so right -- every path, every choice -- EVERYTHING is so very personal and unique for breast cancer warriors. Keep fighting and choosing the perfect physicians, medical support teams, and friends that willl support you. You are wise eyond your years dear one.

  • @victoriabutler2796
    @victoriabutler2796 9 місяців тому +1

    You are such a bright ray of hope and inspiration young lady. Stay blessed.

  • @torino428cj
    @torino428cj 10 місяців тому +1

    Your so beatful and so brave . I pray for you that your alway's cancer free forever.

  • @user-gr6xz7ri8b
    @user-gr6xz7ri8b Рік тому +25

    I am so proud of you. I am a triple negative survivor in 2024 I will celebrate my 10th year. I had Chemotherapy. Me too on the Chemo. I did not think I would make it. My port was in my arm. It was so much better. God bless you I wish you a long life as a survivor. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @reshma5002
      @reshma5002 10 місяців тому

      Hey what combination of chemo was given to u dear! It wud b helpful

    • @anglophils645
      @anglophils645 9 місяців тому +1

      Reshma, she stated every chemo drug that she took. But as she said, chemo regimens have evolved since she had hers. You should follow your own doctor's advice.

    • @user-gr6xz7ri8b
      @user-gr6xz7ri8b 8 місяців тому +1

      I took carbo platinum and taxadol I think I am spelling it incorrectly sorry about that. I had double treatments spaced out between 2-3 weeks. My tumor grade was a 3 but the stage was 1 my KI67 was at 70%. That is why I went with the one sided mastectomy. I am glad I did as another tumor was found in that breast. I was lucky. 🍀.

  • @sophiejackson7148
    @sophiejackson7148 Рік тому +9

    Such a helpful and informative video from an inspirational young woman. Thank you.

  • @4BarbaraJ
    @4BarbaraJ Рік тому +9

    Thank you for sharing your story. All important information and i am certain it will be helpful to those watching. Wish you all the best.

  • @vickimarlene4905
    @vickimarlene4905 Рік тому +7

    Hi Chance. You’re such a trooper. So beautiful as well. You’ve done so well and been through the wringer. So glad you’re doing well. Love from Oz. ❤

  • @shafromRI2024
    @shafromRI2024 Рік тому +4

    You are an inspiration! Thank you for your story! God Bless you always.! (I am brca 1 positive. My mom had breast cancer. Then passed from ovarian cancer). You are strong and resilient and your story will resonate with me always.

    • @ThePatientStory
      @ThePatientStory  Рік тому

      Sharon, if you ever want to share your story to help others understand the importance of genetic testing, please message us! Stephanie@thepatientstory.com ❤️

  • @lisat9802
    @lisat9802 Рік тому +11

    So glad that you are on the other side of it now. TNBC is very aggressive. I thought it was a cyst and within a few months time I was diagnosed with stage3 TNBC. So glad you had such an amazing support team. I was not bracca positive. AC chemo was super hard, but the 12 weeks of taxol did permanent damage to both my feet. Stay strong, I know you will make that 5 yrs mark NED. I will have to ask my dr about that blood test that you spoke of.

  • @ralphiesmom2
    @ralphiesmom2 3 дні тому

    Excellent! Cheers and a long life to you, Chance. 👍

  • @c.c.6930
    @c.c.6930 Рік тому +9

    Very eloquent, I wish her well!

  • @barbaracasta5579
    @barbaracasta5579 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this important story. Your message should be heard by all women. ❤

  • @vilmavelazquez1979
    @vilmavelazquez1979 5 місяців тому +1

    Wow! So sorry, Chance. Thank you for sharing your story ❤

  • @wendykelcey1246
    @wendykelcey1246 9 місяців тому +3

    You are so well-spoken and informative!:thank you for sharing your story!

  • @deborahlanyi5535
    @deborahlanyi5535 2 місяці тому

    I soooo appreciate your statement "there is no wrong choice,," This has been a huge worry of mine. Be well. 💐

  • @peterchivers6312
    @peterchivers6312 2 місяці тому

    Thanks so much for this. I’m supporting my wife at the moment, a recent diagnosis. Your video has really helped.

  • @MariaSpina-ds9ev
    @MariaSpina-ds9ev 10 місяців тому +2

    You are truly amazing! God bless you and keep you in good health. You have been through so much!

  • @Esthetician106
    @Esthetician106 11 місяців тому +7

    Had a double mastectomy 3 weeks ago on January 10th, exactly one year and one day after finding the lump. I also had grade 3, stage 2, triple negative cancer. I refused immediately to let it keep me down or even get me down.
    We are warriors! Keep going! Let yourself have your feelings and then get up, dry your tears, and commence to kick butt! 🎀🩷🎀

  • @doodleacademy
    @doodleacademy Рік тому +7

    Blessings to you. Thank you for sharing your story 💛

  • @AnneMoshtael
    @AnneMoshtael Рік тому +6

    Beautiful courage and strength! Thank you for generously sharing your story ♥️🙏🏼🌹🌟

  • @GS-om4xk
    @GS-om4xk Рік тому +5

    Thank you for sharing your story/journey. Will keep you in prayer🙏🏼🩷

  • @nancylombera978
    @nancylombera978 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story. May G*d continue to bless you and guide you in your endeavors.🙏🏼💓

  • @callmekells802
    @callmekells802 Рік тому +6

    This girl has a super cool name. It’s very powerful. I’m glad to know she’s doing well. 24 is very young. I

    • @sl4983
      @sl4983 Рік тому

      It's almost unheard of young.

  • @dollsofvalley
    @dollsofvalley 9 місяців тому +1

    Beautiful beautiful person thank you!

  • @shaltin90
    @shaltin90 11 місяців тому +3

    Thank you for sharing your story. I'm currently getting chemotherapy and immunotherapy for stage 4 triple-negative breast cancer. I see your hair has grown back fully. I guess it's okay not to do the cold cap rherapy.

  • @AnneMarieBibby1966
    @AnneMarieBibby1966 Рік тому +1

    What an amazing young lady. Thank you for sharing your story. Wishing you a blessed future. ❤

  • @Petitestyling
    @Petitestyling 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your story!

  • @Tilliemac
    @Tilliemac Місяць тому

    Thank you for sharing. Sending you so much love ❤️

  • @patriciaanderson1679
    @patriciaanderson1679 Рік тому +3

    Thank you for your story. ❤

  • @conniewrightsman9122
    @conniewrightsman9122 10 місяців тому +1

    So glad you had a good outcome!

  • @CecMorris
    @CecMorris 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing. You are amazing.

    • @CecMorris
      @CecMorris 7 місяців тому

      I hope in some way, my opinion can help someone.

  • @tanyapalmer3911
    @tanyapalmer3911 9 місяців тому +2

    You are amazing ❤

  • @rjrobinson9067
    @rjrobinson9067 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you for sharing, bless you for being a warrior ❤

  • @Ceerads
    @Ceerads Рік тому +2

    Thank you for sharing this.

  • @sl4983
    @sl4983 Рік тому +1

    I'm so thankful I'm out of the cancer paradigm. 🙏

  • @bayanya8724
    @bayanya8724 Рік тому +5

    Very brave!

  • @valerielee9106
    @valerielee9106 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing! God bless! 🙏🏾

  • @vocalone8182
    @vocalone8182 11 місяців тому +3

    I was about 2 years before you with stage 2 TNBC. Chemo constipation was awful!!! Did the lab give you a residual cancer burden score after your surgery? Gonna look up the signa terra test. Next month i complete 4 years after diagnosis and begin my 5th year

  • @jellams1317
    @jellams1317 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing

  • @CecMorris
    @CecMorris 8 місяців тому +7

    My choice was double mastectomy. 100% no regrets. If I had just one removed, think about the aging process and always having to balance the prothesis with the natural breast in a bra.

    • @CecMorris
      @CecMorris 7 місяців тому +1

      That's exactly what I thought. However, if I was much younger my decision might have been different.

    • @americafirst6628
      @americafirst6628 6 місяців тому +1

      EXACTLY. ME AS WELL

  • @martijobarrett4527
    @martijobarrett4527 Рік тому +3

    Yoo are lovely. May God bless all of your days.
    💜✝️💜

  • @dejesusvandever1198
    @dejesusvandever1198 9 місяців тому +1

    Gracias mi querida Señorita . Usted es una guerrera. Dios le de muchos. Años más de vida . Disfruta. Día a día con la compañía De Dios . El te fortalece y no te dejará de la mano . Gracias por su historia, pár bien de toda las mujeres. Yo perdí a mi nuera. Y ahora está. 2 jovenes una De 20 y otra de 18 . Tienen que estar alerta y h dr e el mamograma cuando sea la edad necesaria y el doctor la recomiende . Dios. Bendiga siempre tu camino . Gracias ❤🇨🇷🇺🇸🇨🇷🇺🇸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷💕❤️🌹🌹🌹

  • @Badkittys4
    @Badkittys4 Рік тому +7

    Like you mentioned, everyone's cancer journey is different, my best friend also diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer, went through pretty much the same chemo regime, the red devil almost killed her too she said. She went into remission for 8 years, out of the blue had lower back pain, the cancer had come back with a fury, in her spine, brain and bones, 9 months she was gone, one of the most horrible things I've witnessed in my lifetime,

    • @sl4983
      @sl4983 Рік тому +1

      😮

    • @dutchgirlfarida
      @dutchgirlfarida 11 місяців тому +2

      My babysitter daughter cancer killed her also
      But my aunt had breast cancer as a teenager
      She is in her 60 now
      On many pain killer thou

  • @laurapittman7452
    @laurapittman7452 10 місяців тому

    God bless you always 🙏 ❤️

  • @sweetbeep
    @sweetbeep 10 місяців тому +2

    If people are so sick they can't work, then how do they have health insurance to pay for the cancer treatment?

  • @kathyerb3134
    @kathyerb3134 Місяць тому

    My daughter age 39 has BRCA1 as does her youngest daughter age 6. Not all her kids have been tested. She had her ovaries removed.

  • @user-gr6xz7ri8b
    @user-gr6xz7ri8b Рік тому +2

    PS I have implants and my implants were recalled for a second cancer. So I agree on the implants.

  • @SarahHoward-h9n
    @SarahHoward-h9n 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing.I’m on tamoxifen I did get biopsy done its out.last week I had sharp pain on my right side which I got done for 3 days not sure if it’s normal thank you

  • @marilynsue4273
    @marilynsue4273 Місяць тому +1

    On May 4, 2024, a lump popped up by my left nipple while I was standing up at home. Triple negative; surgery done; now in chemo.

    • @maribelhernandez380
      @maribelhernandez380 29 днів тому +1

      I hope everything is going well for you🙏 I was just diagnosed and get the port put in to start treatment in a few weeks. I’m putting everything in God’s hands and hoping for the best… Blessings!

  • @orlyjj
    @orlyjj 8 місяців тому

    Hi! Im wondering why a hysterectomy and not just have ovaries removed? That way, you could have frozen eggs and do IVF in the future? Would the pregnancy itself be inevitable?

  • @sweetbeep
    @sweetbeep 10 місяців тому +2

    Too much cancer these days is not acceptable. I dont think they are investigating the many cases of "spontaneous regression".....

    • @PerryNight-gc3fp
      @PerryNight-gc3fp 4 місяці тому

      Too much cancer these days a lot of the cancer is self-inflicted

  • @ashimamohapatra8242
    @ashimamohapatra8242 Рік тому

    Mam pTNM staging -pT2N1aMx what stage it is?

    • @L-pz9dv
      @L-pz9dv 11 місяців тому

      If you search for Susan G. Komen and staging, there are explanations about some of the components you shared. It's important that you get detailed information about staging directly from your oncologist.

  • @ayttiiie7
    @ayttiiie7 Рік тому +15

    So scary how cancer is taking over all these young adults. 💔💔💔 seems to be more and more .

    • @222lanna
      @222lanna Рік тому +6

      Vax'd young adults.

    • @lashhimes2570
      @lashhimes2570 Рік тому +8

      She has the BRCA 1 gene mutation 🫠

    • @ayttiiie7
      @ayttiiie7 Рік тому

      @@lashhimes2570 and.. that's cancer! 🙏

    • @Andrea-ue7gv
      @Andrea-ue7gv Рік тому +2

      @@222lanna yeah cause young adults never got cancer before the vaccine 🤦🏼‍♀️

    • @sl4983
      @sl4983 Рік тому +3

      Shh whatever you do don't talk about the 🐘 in the room

  • @marcK599.
    @marcK599. Рік тому

    Please do self exams

  • @ericachitwood2465
    @ericachitwood2465 10 місяців тому

    I love you!!!

  • @hollym9302
    @hollym9302 Рік тому +5

    I don't understand being BRCA positive and having a strong family history, yet rolling the dice and not getting a preventive mastectomy.

    • @A---ti3zz
      @A---ti3zz 11 місяців тому +3

      I have a friend and a lot of her family members are brca positive. She refuses to even find out. I also don’t understand it. If I knew I had that high of a risk of cancer I would have had the surgeries.

  • @anonanon1982
    @anonanon1982 Рік тому +1

  • @whosaidthat4299
    @whosaidthat4299 Рік тому +1

  • @pm2886
    @pm2886 8 місяців тому

    It's a tangent, but what is a "nurse practitioner"? And how do you have one you call "MY nurse practitioner"? America's healthcare system is both mysterious and barbaric.
    I wish so much that you good people were able to just go to any local doctor, and from there be taken care of. All this complexity and bullshit (nurses instead of doctors?) is cruel beyond belief, when you have a serious illness.

  • @kathleenbrown6734
    @kathleenbrown6734 Рік тому +3

    those preventive scans can and do cause breast cancer too!

    • @melhepburn4095
      @melhepburn4095 11 місяців тому

      Do U have research to back up this fact, M’am??

    • @kathleenbrown6734
      @kathleenbrown6734 11 місяців тому

      @@melhepburn4095 M’am! inform yourself as I did. There is lots to research and learn, You wouldn’t believe anyone so do the work. Radiation is radiation. You must know very little or close to nothing about medical tests. There is risk to everything, Inform and weigh the odds in each case.

    • @boinecastillo7455
      @boinecastillo7455 10 місяців тому

      Just Google it anything other then an MRI cause secondary cancer .. Even chemo has just been proving . Stop being lazy and expect pp ppl to teach you research on your own and learn... I've gone thru many doctor ks all of which over look these symptoms ..i have lymphoma and they won't believe me. Be your own advocate

  • @sl4983
    @sl4983 Рік тому +29

    Were you vaxed?

    • @222lanna
      @222lanna Рік тому +8

      ​@c.c.6930 oh u must have gotten it too🫣

    • @sl4983
      @sl4983 Рік тому +11

      @@c.c.6930 And why is it silly?

    • @andreabontempo643
      @andreabontempo643 Рік тому +9

      @@c.c.6930 no it's not

    • @sueu6263
      @sueu6263 Рік тому

      The “vaccine”? I’m assuming this is in reference to the Covid vaccine ?🤔

    • @matthewthomasjames
      @matthewthomasjames Рік тому

      Turbo cancers are on the rise. Nothing silly about that question except that it won’t be answered truthfully or with decency.

  • @user-cs6jt6sz4g
    @user-cs6jt6sz4g Рік тому +1

    Please don’t share your lack of knowledge😊

  • @andreabontempo643
    @andreabontempo643 Рік тому +7

    So if you have a lump in your breast and then have a mammogram the cancer will spread

    • @user-cs6jt6sz4g
      @user-cs6jt6sz4g Рік тому +5

      Really???

    • @andreabontempo643
      @andreabontempo643 Рік тому

      @@user-cs6jt6sz4g yes

    • @Ceerads
      @Ceerads Рік тому +10

      Untrue and very unhelpful.

    • @andreabontempo643
      @andreabontempo643 Рік тому +2

      @@Ceerads what us untrue ? Your breast being smashed like a pancake and radiated to death ? Figure that one out ! Words to me from an ex radiologist .!mammograms over time cause cancer . They don’t prevent it . Medical industry and cancer industry is for their profit only . They gain, we lose ☹️

    • @Andrea-ue7gv
      @Andrea-ue7gv Рік тому +1

      ignorant

  • @curtc2194
    @curtc2194 4 місяці тому

    Triple negative breast cancer is the worst...less treatment options. Lost my sister to it last year. She went through the hell of surgery, chemo, and radiation until she said enough is enough and passed. Heart breaking scourge😢

  • @melissacorn8821
    @melissacorn8821 Місяць тому

    You are a beautiful, strong young woman. I pray that God fills you with healing and love. My breast cancer also seemed to develop overnight and diagnosed at stage IV by the time my symptoms showed up. We are all in this fight together. 🩷🙏

  • @wandashields6764
    @wandashields6764 Рік тому +1

    love u

  • @rockstar4444
    @rockstar4444 Рік тому

    Protocol I would apply in the event of cancer:
    - a low-carb diet outside the fasting period (total elimination of carbohydrates/sugars) and eating OMAD (One Meal A Day) crucifers, garlic, onions, avocados, walnuts/almonds, olive oil and oily fish to avoid losing too much weight (avoid meat and cheese)
    - taking specific food supplements (available over the counter to the general public) that Guy TENENBAUM has called TCC (The Cancer Cure) which correspond to his 5 essentials, with the dosage he took:
    * High-dose melatonin 30 mgr before going to bed (Phycocyanine or Lithotamne, but the most powerful would be melatonin): inhibition of SCOT (I also supplement during the day with pure phycocyanine and lithotamne to increase the volume of SCOT inhibitors in addition to melatonin).
    * Allicin (either as a 2400 mg quality concentrated pill, or with crushed raw garlic): upstream or downstream inhibition of SCOT.
    * Matcha green tea (with turmeric and ginger): upstream or downstream inhibition of SCOT.
    * Metabolic treatment (metabloc): Alpha Lipoic Acid (or Sodium R Lipoate, 600mg 3 times a day, 1800mg in total) + Garcinia Cambodgia (Hydroxycitric Acid, 600mg 3 times a day, 1800mg in total) + CoQ10 (the transporter, 100mg morning noon evening).
    * Omega 3 in a DHA - EPA ratio (500mg DHA/200mg EPA): to combat keto paradox during ketogenic diet phases or the youth phase.
    * Bromelain (850mg to 5000 GDU) and Quercetin (500mg) for nodules
    * Berberine and Curcumin to block several additional metabolic pathways
    - Alkalinise the body with a combination of bicarbonate of soda and cider vinegar (see Guy TENENBAUM's videos showing how to make this mixture).
    - if the body allows it: long fasting (14 days) then the following month followed by short fasting (7 days) and intermittent fasting + taking nutrients and minerals to avoid deficiencies in the young phase (vitamin D3, Magnesium Bisglycinate and multivatimes)

  • @rachelconradie8480
    @rachelconradie8480 11 місяців тому

    Were you vaxed?

    • @chart461
      @chart461 11 місяців тому +2

      Seriously, stop, look up BRAC 1 is something you inherit not developed. Has nothing to do with vaccinations. DNA it is in our DNA.

    • @A---ti3zz
      @A---ti3zz 11 місяців тому +2

      She literally said there is a family history and she has a genetic mutation. Stop blaming everything on the covid vaccine …it makes you look ignorant