OPs dearly departed mom's ghost laid a curse on her former husband to punish him for nearly destroying the precious child she died for in order to bring into this world.
Right off the bat, throughout all of this, I want to know what Jake's perspective is. You can't tell me that he was coming over so often, spending so much time with the dad that he didn't realize himself that he was replacing this man's own son. Because of that, I'm wondering what kind of person Jake is, because it takes a type of person to either be okay with this or to be entirely oblivious
@@Rorschachqp That's true, but I'll take a guess and say he didn't start out like that. The father is enabling Behavior turned him into that. However, when he was still a kid and started realizing that there was a difference between how he was being treated and how OP was being treated, I wonder what his reaction was.
Honestly op dad should have gone to therapy to help with his grief instead of alienating from his own son his late wife would be very disappointed on how he's treating op now I know not everybody can afford therapy I believe find a support group for widow/widower
The whole family saw this all happening including the aunt and did nothing about it. That one neighbor of OP's was better than that whole rotten bunch.
I think the aunt took advantage of the dads (not trying to justify AH) grief to implant her son so her son could get everything based off her response at the family gathering also knowing the sperm donor and son relationship.
My response would be, "Why don't you go to Jake, he is your everything, as for me, I'm a nobody, and I don't matter, you made sure of that." Then my last ever conversation with him would be " Why are you coming to me to try to fix things?, There is no point in that now. You do not give a vaccine to a carcass, and you don't try to patch up a boat that done sunk. Call Jake, not me, he is your son, not me." Then I would block him.
OP needs to answer this: Would his dad, feel remorseful as he's now if everything is going well with Jack's business? It's probably not. OP just a backup.
"he was still my father" nope op is an orphan their mother died when they were a little kid and their father died shortly after and was raised by a loveless care taker
I guarantee if your mother is looking down; she is in shock and sever disappointment of the sorry excuse of father she left you with.. What really upsets me, is I know damn well other family members saw how lonely and unloved you were; and they are ALL sorry excuses for humans for not telling your father that is not what his beloved wife would've wanted; that she would want him to give her son double love to make up for her being gone.. You have done the right thing by not helping your dad: he made his choices and it's up to him to be that manly man he thought you never were and deal with those choices himself..
I worked with a guy that had a community college degree. Went to night school after that and ground it out. Left the company for a Fortune 100. Became the CIO of the Fortune 100. Took about 15 years. Had about 4000 people he was responsible for. He was a real go-getter. His brother worked at the same company as me. Came to work in jeans everyday. Told me "I wouldn't take his job for twice the pay". I guessing twice the pay would probably be around 600 grand a year. "When I'm done here, I can turn off the work switch, he can't". "Ruined" education doesn't mean you can't get an education. I truly believe the brother in jeans had a happier work life.
i'd be suprised if 'Jake' was 'nt his secret child. Or possibly its the other way round and the uncle got his wife pregnant. its one of the two for that level of indifference to OP. .
No it happens a lot people will blame the child when the wife dies It's very common men do that. Even women will blame their children if the Dad is killed working say for instance in the mine or in the military or police because they think the provider took that job because it paid better or it was the only work they could get but it was dangerous.
One of my Mum's best friend's did this to one of her children. The father died young, and her middle boy was the spitting image of his father, becoming his replica as he went into adulthood. My Mum said that the older he got the more her friend rejected him because he reminded her too much of the love of her life who tragically died too young. We were all friends and I used to see firsthand the way she treated him. He was a good son and understood but damn, I wanted to give him a hug sometimes, and tell his mum off.
You reap what you sow. OP owes his emotionally improvident dad NOTHING. The man only contacted him because he needed money. Serves his dad right. OP should only say something along the lines of “You’ll get nothing, and like it!” before blocking him.
OP's father deserves the curse laid upon him. I wish nothing but peace, success, and wealth throughout OP's life. I hope he finds a beautiful wife with an even bigger heart. I wish him beautiful and joyful children. He will be a great husband and an even better father.
Dad got what he deserves. Alone, miserable, with debt and scammed by his golden child nephew. He failed in life. Op should really do nothing. Be indifferent and tell him to get therapy and sort his money issue by himself.
The dad never cared about the son. He chose his cousin over his direct son and had the nerve to turn to OP for help? I would have done the same thing. You didn't care about him then, why should he care about you now?
That 1st call from Dad. Would piss me off. I would definitely have to find out what kind of a bind and why. Me being.......Me. I would play that AH. Then again I am a Vindictive B.
The father had the choice to see the loss of his wife in one of two ways. Cherish the child as the last part of his wife, and the most important thing she left behind... Or blame the child for the loss. What a fool.
Thanks you. I lost respect for OP at the end reaching out to his dad. Worse was that he was trying to play hard ball instead cutting him out completely, which pretty much means he’ll end up forgiving his dad. Like dude, he chose your cousin over you and he’s only coming to you because that cousin screwed him over. He never gave a 💩 about him even his aunt told when she asked for him.
Something I find funny is how you feel bad denying money to a man you haven’t spoken to in 3 years you don’t know that man anymore so why are you feeling bad ? He could have wrote , kept tabs by asking family or friends how are you but no the moment he needs money he reaches out and you feel bad for denying comedy 🎭
Tired. I have a big family. There are so many people who need help. Too many people think I am doing great just because I am getting by. Just made it to a point, after so many years, not living paycheck to paycheck. So many people upset with me because I can't help.
f that father, he betray his son and could not even send him to college but he could bankrupt himself for the kid who is not his lol, then he has the audacity to ask the kid he throw out, I would block him for life and when I made it I would drive up to his house in my shinny new car to ask him how he is doing just to rub it in his face.
There was a similar story like this one on Reddit the ops father neglected op in favor of his cousin and aunt, the uncle that it was a good gesture of his brother to look out for his son but what he didn’t know was that ops father and his wife where having a affair resulting in ops dad being his cousins father as well when the uncle found out it was an explosion, the uncle payed for ops college as a revenge against his brother and wife, op sued for the house and won because his late mom left it for him while dad wanted to give the house to the cousin kicking them all out, and ops dad drowning in debt after putting the cousin through college
OP is weak, now I hope Jake comes back to steal his daddy again since OP pretty much sounded like he’s gonna forgive him. Why else would he reach out to him about what he found out? He’s trying to play hard ball with a father that couldn’t give two 💩s about him.
Manager of a book store? Like a brick-and-mortar store for dead-tree books? They still have those? OP - “Well, there’s a Blockbuster Video in the back, next to the Starbucks. This whole town was set up as a retirement community. Gotta be 60 or older to live here. So they wanted paper bookstores, physical DVDs, and there’s a really high ratio of doctors per resident. And anybody who works here is too young to live here.”
Bailing out his father is bailing out jack. Maybe op father was never his bio father. His mother cheated that’s why father is cold to him. If father love his wife so much, why would he treat the only thing she left him so poorly. It doesn’t make sense
Sadly this is not very uncommon when the mother dies in childbirth 😢 Very often does the father, or even the whoe famiky, blame the child and either neglect, abuse or both. Until its to late
I am sorry man i kinda understand. My father always compared me with my cousins too and my sister was the favorite child. But on the other hand my father did help me study abroad. So I guess I was lucky about that. But up until my father passed away he was still the same. Only good thing is my father left me a lots of money way more than my sister.
@@shells500tutubo scary how some guy in Europe could know everything about you, meanwhile you could be stuck with a parent who couldn't be bothered to care about you.
After your dad choosing your cousin over you and forcing you to pay for school on your own then once you walked away that's it. Why tf should you come back and help let alone even care about what's going on with your father hell he made his choice so let him deal with the consequences on his own. Since Jake refuses to help him pay back what he owes then let him lie in the bed he made why because it's called Karma so deal with it. Don't help him let him figure it out like he made you. Cut your losses and move tf on never look back
Golden children are a bad investment. Also don't over support your kids. The dad was at fault for pushing aside the child that his wife worked for and died for.
Bro it sounds like hes his mothers son, like she was obviously bookish, why is dad mad at his son for being like his mom he so blames his son for being like his mom that the son "killed".
It's not your fault it's your dad's fault because he treated your cousin better than him and his dad ruined his own son's career and he said that his own son was a mistake in the first place and he funded his cousin's college tuition over his own son and he didn't give his own son anything and that's not right and he should be ashamed of himself and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for treating his own cousin better than his own son and ruining his own son's career and not given his own son anything and telling his own son that he was a mistake and you don't have to apologize for anything that's his dad's fault not his own son's fault.
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OPs dearly departed mom's ghost laid a curse on her former husband to punish him for nearly destroying the precious child she died for in order to bring into this world.
Lol good
Imagine if Op said this to his father.. Would probably feel like an actual punch to the gut/chest....
That man brought on himself by softening his nephew into a spoiled brat it has nothing to do with any curses
@@Solokhnir369 bro let people have their fun like damn.
What's that saying. Friends are God Our Almightys apology for family😊
His wife died and the only thing left that resembles her is his son but chose to put him in the trash instead.
Right off the bat, throughout all of this, I want to know what Jake's perspective is. You can't tell me that he was coming over so often, spending so much time with the dad that he didn't realize himself that he was replacing this man's own son. Because of that, I'm wondering what kind of person Jake is, because it takes a type of person to either be okay with this or to be entirely oblivious
I can tell you...he's the kind of guy who would drive a flashy new car to a guy he owes a ton of money to.
My first thought was Jake was really dad’s bio.🫤
@@Rorschachqp That's true, but I'll take a guess and say he didn't start out like that. The father is enabling Behavior turned him into that. However, when he was still a kid and started realizing that there was a difference between how he was being treated and how OP was being treated, I wonder what his reaction was.
@@dianapickett1690 Fair.
@@JoeyMarx Evidently his reaction was to turn into guy who drives flashy new car in front of guy he owes money to, lol.
OP should never give him a dime, since his Dad did this to himself to fund Jake. Now it is too late to repair that relationship.
Agreed.
Honestly op dad should have gone to therapy to help with his grief instead of alienating from his own son his late wife would be very disappointed on how he's treating op now I know not everybody can afford therapy I believe find a support group for widow/widower
The whole family saw this all happening including the aunt and did nothing about it. That one neighbor of OP's was better than that whole rotten bunch.
I think the aunt took advantage of the dads (not trying to justify AH) grief to implant her son so her son could get everything based off her response at the family gathering also knowing the sperm donor and son relationship.
@@florentinrovira6380 yeah they definitely took advantage but you know karma's it's going to bite them harder
When you are blind by selfishness, you’ll never see great things
When you never love a child, the child is never obligated to love you back
The aunt knew what the dad was doing and how he treated the son was wrong. That’s why she was so distant. It was her guilt that kept her away.
The aunt was despicable too, she should’ve stood up for her nephew, just her own son mattered
My response would be, "Why don't you go to Jake, he is your everything, as for me, I'm a nobody, and I don't matter, you made sure of that." Then my last ever conversation with him would be " Why are you coming to me to try to fix things?, There is no point in that now. You do not give a vaccine to a carcass, and you don't try to patch up a boat that done sunk. Call Jake, not me, he is your son, not me." Then I would block him.
Great response! I personally would use the classic “You’ll get NOTHING and LIKE IT!”, as he would only be deserving of that answer, IMO.
"Sounds like a you problem"😂
OP needs to answer this:
Would his dad, feel remorseful as he's now if everything is going well with Jack's business?
It's probably not. OP just a backup.
"he was still my father" nope op is an orphan their mother died when they were a little kid and their father died shortly after and was raised by a loveless care taker
Yes yes yes fuck that “dad”
Right? Sounds like a doormat justification.
@@princessmarlena1359 𝙰𝚐𝚛𝚎𝚎
I guarantee if your mother is looking down; she is in shock and sever disappointment of the sorry excuse of father she left you with.. What really upsets me, is I know damn well other family members saw how lonely and unloved you were; and they are ALL sorry excuses for humans for not telling your father that is not what his beloved wife would've wanted; that she would want him to give her son double love to make up for her being gone.. You have done the right thing by not helping your dad: he made his choices and it's up to him to be that manly man he thought you never were and deal with those choices himself..
I worked with a guy that had a community college degree. Went to night school after that and ground it out. Left the company for a Fortune 100. Became the CIO of the Fortune 100. Took about 15 years. Had about 4000 people he was responsible for. He was a real go-getter. His brother worked at the same company as me. Came to work in jeans everyday. Told me "I wouldn't take his job for twice the pay". I guessing twice the pay would probably be around 600 grand a year. "When I'm done here, I can turn off the work switch, he can't". "Ruined" education doesn't mean you can't get an education. I truly believe the brother in jeans had a happier work life.
Guy in jeans is the community college degree?
i'd be suprised if 'Jake' was 'nt his secret child. Or possibly its the other way round and the uncle got his wife pregnant. its one of the two for that level of indifference to OP. .
No it happens a lot people will blame the child when the wife dies It's very common men do that. Even women will blame their children if the Dad is killed working say for instance in the mine or in the military or police because they think the provider took that job because it paid better or it was the only work they could get but it was dangerous.
There IS a reddit story where that was the case, but in the story the uncle didn't die.
One of my Mum's best friend's did this to one of her children. The father died young, and her middle boy was the spitting image of his father, becoming his replica as he went into adulthood. My Mum said that the older he got the more her friend rejected him because he reminded her too much of the love of her life who tragically died too young. We were all friends and I used to see firsthand the way she treated him. He was a good son and understood but damn, I wanted to give him a hug sometimes, and tell his mum off.
That's the original story 😅
You reap what you sow. OP owes his emotionally improvident dad NOTHING. The man only contacted him because he needed money. Serves his dad right. OP should only say something along the lines of “You’ll get nothing, and like it!” before blocking him.
OP's father deserves the curse laid upon him.
I wish nothing but peace, success, and wealth throughout OP's life. I hope he finds a beautiful wife with an even bigger heart. I wish him beautiful and joyful children. He will be a great husband and an even better father.
It's tough when the people who should support you the most don't, but it seems like you've built a life that works for you.
Dad got what he deserves. Alone, miserable, with debt and scammed by his golden child nephew. He failed in life.
Op should really do nothing. Be indifferent and tell him to get therapy and sort his money issue by himself.
Keep your enemies close. Then you won’t be blind sided.
The dad never cared about the son. He chose his cousin over his direct son and had the nerve to turn to OP for help? I would have done the same thing. You didn't care about him then, why should he care about you now?
That 1st call from Dad. Would piss me off. I would definitely have to find out what kind of a bind and why.
Me being.......Me. I would play that AH.
Then again I am a Vindictive B.
The father had the choice to see the loss of his wife in one of two ways. Cherish the child as the last part of his wife, and the most important thing she left behind... Or blame the child for the loss.
What a fool.
Seriously, she gave her life bringing that child into the world, and this is how her husband repays her sacrifice?
Cmon OP you can't leave us hanging. We need to know, too, what your dad's problem is.
The fact the guy is even in contact with his father blows my mind. That guy is gonna get away with everything he did by giving him your time.
Thanks you. I lost respect for OP at the end reaching out to his dad. Worse was that he was trying to play hard ball instead cutting him out completely, which pretty much means he’ll end up forgiving his dad. Like dude, he chose your cousin over you and he’s only coming to you because that cousin screwed him over. He never gave a 💩 about him even his aunt told when she asked for him.
Where was op's family like grandparents when growing up
10:13 the ai "I came....home that day" 😂😂😂
Opie, he was never your father he was Jake's father. You owe him nothing
The difference was Jake was who he was because of the love & nurturing of his own dad!
Something I find funny is how you feel bad denying money to a man you haven’t spoken to in 3 years you don’t know that man anymore so why are you feeling bad ? He could have wrote , kept tabs by asking family or friends how are you but no the moment he needs money he reaches out and you feel bad for denying comedy 🎭
The father was his only parent. It's hard to break ties with your only immediate family member.
Tired. I have a big family. There are so many people who need help. Too many people think I am doing great just because I am getting by. Just made it to a point, after so many years, not living paycheck to paycheck.
So many people upset with me because I can't help.
f that father, he betray his son and could not even send him to college but he could bankrupt himself for the kid who is not his lol, then he has the audacity to ask the kid he throw out, I would block him for life and when I made it I would drive up to his house in my shinny new car to ask him how he is doing just to rub it in his face.
How much do you want to bet that Jake was also the dad's kid.
Just No. I hope you'd be happy without them. Grief or not why would he make his wife's beloved child feel like trash?
AWESOME OP. You did good!! Many Blessings. And a world of atta boys and good jobs and I'm proud of you's😊
There was a similar story like this one on Reddit the ops father neglected op in favor of his cousin and aunt, the uncle that it was a good gesture of his brother to look out for his son but what he didn’t know was that ops father and his wife where having a affair resulting in ops dad being his cousins father as well when the uncle found out it was an explosion, the uncle payed for ops college as a revenge against his brother and wife, op sued for the house and won because his late mom left it for him while dad wanted to give the house to the cousin kicking them all out, and ops dad drowning in debt after putting the cousin through college
I would have just told the dad, Mom and your brother would be disgusted with the actions you took.
I don’t care if this is fake, it's basically a soap opera 😂😂😂
Damn, the dad should've married Jake at that point.
This story is probably the most sounding like AI generated I've ever heard.
Fr ai will takeover in a few years
I get why OP needed to find out Closure is so important
OP is weak, now I hope Jake comes back to steal his daddy again since OP pretty much sounded like he’s gonna forgive him. Why else would he reach out to him about what he found out? He’s trying to play hard ball with a father that couldn’t give two 💩s about him.
Manager of a book store? Like a brick-and-mortar store for dead-tree books? They still have those?
OP - “Well, there’s a Blockbuster Video in the back, next to the Starbucks. This whole town was set up as a retirement community. Gotta be 60 or older to live here. So they wanted paper bookstores, physical DVDs, and there’s a really high ratio of doctors per resident. And anybody who works here is too young to live here.”
I'm 5 minutes in and I'm praying he doesn't break and let them back in to his life. But emotional abuse is one hell of a drug.
The dad might be an adult but he needs to grow tf up
Sounds like your cousin is his child
i love reddit stroies
Bailing out his father is bailing out jack. Maybe op father was never his bio father. His mother cheated that’s why father is cold to him. If father love his wife so much, why would he treat the only thing she left him so poorly. It doesn’t make sense
I am beginning to see why he funded the cousin. But it does not matter with this fake story.
They always blame the innocent kid rather than themselves for getting their SO pregnant in the first place.
Gone with another Sarah 😂
Jake is probably dada affair child
bruh . thats like caring a life of an ant instead of you son.
Sadly this is not very uncommon when the mother dies in childbirth 😢
Very often does the father, or even the whoe famiky, blame the child and either neglect, abuse or both. Until its to late
I am sorry man i kinda understand. My father always compared me with my cousins too and my sister was the favorite child. But on the other hand my father did help me study abroad. So I guess I was lucky about that. But up until my father passed away he was still the same. Only good thing is my father left me a lots of money way more than my sister.
Ops “dad” is a disgrace
These ai stories are getting better
How do you know what Jake was doing IF you’ve cut them out of your life???
People gossip and social media exists. You don't have to personally interact with a person to basically know what is going on with them.
@@shells500tutubo scary how some guy in Europe could know everything about you, meanwhile you could be stuck with a parent who couldn't be bothered to care about you.
I liked this.
After your dad choosing your cousin over you and forcing you to pay for school on your own then once you walked away that's it. Why tf should you come back and help let alone even care about what's going on with your father hell he made his choice so let him deal with the consequences on his own. Since Jake refuses to help him pay back what he owes then let him lie in the bed he made why because it's called Karma so deal with it. Don't help him let him figure it out like he made you. Cut your losses and move tf on never look back
This is probably an AI story.
Dad can take out bankruptcy
Golden children are a bad investment. Also don't over support your kids. The dad was at fault for pushing aside the child that his wife worked for and died for.
The golden boy is a pyrite boy…
Weird how everyone says "flood of memories"
Man smh OP must look like his mom and my son lost his dad and it made me love him more stronger because I would have to give twice as much
You lost me at kicker and left me behind at boy was I wrong. This is an AI story 😕
"Its not perfect but its mine" is what gave it away as an AI. Ive seen that sh8 before
Yea the latter part... Definitely AI
Bro it sounds like hes his mothers son, like she was obviously bookish, why is dad mad at his son for being like his mom he so blames his son for being like his mom that the son "killed".
The AI added a bunch of stories to the original lol
It's not your fault it's your dad's fault because he treated your cousin better than him and his dad ruined his own son's career and he said that his own son was a mistake in the first place and he funded his cousin's college tuition over his own son and he didn't give his own son anything and that's not right and he should be ashamed of himself and he should pay for his actions and go to hell for what he has done to him and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and he doesn't deserve anything for treating his own cousin better than his own son and ruining his own son's career and not given his own son anything and telling his own son that he was a mistake and you don't have to apologize for anything that's his dad's fault not his own son's fault.
I believe if OPs mother was alive, she would’ve been so angered and disgusted over how he treated the child she gave her life for.
Update?
Dharrman ahh story 😂
Jake is 100% father's bastard.
Hey, i lived off cheap navy coffee lol
why is this written like a tma episode???
Womp womp, keep crying lil bro. Just get a new father.
Story sounds fake
It's sad how majy of this stories are fake and how easy it is to notice that xd
this was written by a woman
All those ai stories sound the same.
Video completely annoying.
God, these reddit stories are all the same.
Is this guy really trying to flex that he got a promotion at a bookstore 🤣
Jesus
When you have nothing, anything is a triumph. Be thankful you don't know what it's like.
@@Autobot032 pay attention to the story.
Ah great a conclusionless joke of a story
The aunt knew what the dad was doing and how he treated the son was wrong. That’s why she was so distant. It was her guilt that kept her away.