As a woman, I actually DO believe a woman’s place is in the home! I think if things had stayed that way, we’d be a lot better off in a lot of ways as society! Just my opinion and it is also Biblical way.
Now tell the rest of the government, SOYciety, and your sisterhood the same thing. Tell women they don't need work education or voting rights, and men and women can be spouses again.
If a woman wants to work then go for it. If they can financially survive on just husband income that's fine. However if anything happens to hubby and she never worked. She cannot collect his social security until she is 65yo after 10 years of marriage.
Unfortunately some women insist on having a job outside and sending kids to babysitters but they just end up paying the babysitter over half their income and feed them from McDonald's because they're too tired to cook.
Everybody's rattled over the metaphor "stay at home mom". My wife was a stay at home mom for 7 years (two kids) and she did everything but stay at home. She took the kids to the Zoo, Disneyland, Knott's Berry Farm, The Fair, countless museums, the beach, water parks, library and taught the kiddos how to read and write. My wife simply turned the title of stay at home mom upside down to WOW!!! Years later both kids have "useful degrees" and are both contributors to society. Well Done Mom Well Done...
Hard working stay at home momma here! I've got 3 kiddos, my husband is a farmer, we have FFA, scouts, baseball, homework and I still have time to work a few hours a day from home and have supper on the table when hubby gets out of the fields at night. I'm proud of our family dynamic and wouldn't have it any other way! ❤
The government counts on women working so they'll PAY TAXES and CONSUME. In the 1950's the average house was 928 sq. ft., the average family had one car and one telephone. There were no internet or cable bills. You mowed your own lawn. Going out to eat was a treat! People used the library and read books! We had small parties and visited each other for entertainment. We could get back to that and life wouldn't be so insanely expensive.
Real women should be showed respect ! Been married 38 years, 3 major arguments and very few small ones ! My wife is a real woman and gets respect!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yes, a woman’s place is doing exactly what she was designed to do mother homemaker, and everything that that entails. That doesn’t mean that she should be mistreated or run over, but respected with reverence. All we have to do is look back in history and see how much lower the crime rate was when the family unit was strong united, and the mother stayed home with the children.
Back to the days when if you neighbor said " little Johnny was out throwing eggs at cars" your mom make you go get a switch or a belt while you got a spanking..BUT you never did it again :)
Actually, the men were the revered ones.. The mother was more of the support staff,and the do everything else that he couldn't, wouldn't, or didn't know how to member... Patriarchal societies work,and work better than any other since the beginning of mankind... Once feminazism came along,ridicule of men went rampant, and all of the good,hard working,providing,strong men were shoved off of the throne by society at those nazis whining screaming whim and now look at America...
We married in 72 and had our 5 children by 82. My wife was a stay at home Mother and yes we gave up some things but nothing that was more valuable than the things our children learned with her home. All our children own their homes but i don't have to worry about them asking me for money....they all make more than me.
I love that!!! Mine makes more than me & I couldnt be prouder..saving 2buy a home & doesnt want to owe on everythng forever like the world teaches them to do. 💪 🙏
We also married in 72. Our families sound so much the same. Homemakers and Mothers and great Dads too make for a good family and great kids who become great parents. Celebrating 52 years in June. Regards from Ontario.
My Mom stayed home by choice. She did it all for us by choice. Raising 9 children was like her working 2 full time jobs. We all had chores but she was up early and went to bed late.
The Rothschilds wont let it happen. In the middle ages, usery was illegal. The standard of living wasn't matched again, until the 1800s. Don't believe me? Look at what history has done to every nation or person that promotes a State-run bank, with usery and speculation being outlawed.
I believe this is one of the areas that sent the American family on the road to falling apart. Yes, cut back, eat out less, cut your cable, and stay home to raise a good family. Dads could step up more too. Partnership!
This is exactly what my family has done for me to be able to stay at home with my son! Second hand clothing for him and only one vaca a year. I used to make really good money in corporate America but my new life is 1000x better with much less materialism!
@@lemmdus2119Unfortunately, that is all far too many dads do. More money isn’t as important as more presence by dad. I have coached baseball and soccer, been active in Boy Scouts and taught in public schools and was a your pastor. Far too many kids have a dad who is awol from the family because he is “focusing on his career”. Dads need to balance their careers and families. Same is true for a lot of moms, as well. When you have one or both parents over-emphasizing their careers, the kids suffer. No need to believe in the “Stress for Success” mentality that has been created here in the US.
The happiest time of my life was the 12 years I was wife mother homemaker. Had he not kept telling me I should get a job, which I did, then we would probably still be married.
I used to buy into the idea that I had to have this thriving career AND have a happy husband, wonderful children that I could pour into, take care of the home, the budget, etc. IT. WAS. EXHAUSTING! I was essentially working to afford childcare so someone else could raise my kids. NO THANK YOU! My husband picked up extra hours so I could stay home. Now, I homeschool two kids, volunteer, help out with their troops, work part-time at our church, and I have never been happier or more fulfilled! I am so thankful that I stopped listening to all the “noise” and that my husband and I decided to do what worked for US.
Both men and women are to thrive and excel and help the other ! Let each work in Their God gifting and leadership skills whether that be at home or outside the home. Proverbs 31.
The title of English poet William Ross Wallace's poem 'The Hand That Rocks the Cradle is the Hand that Rules the World' has become a stand-in proverb to demonstrate the power of motherhood and how it can bring about sweeping changes across generations.
Amen brother! My wife took care of our 3 girls when they were younger since I was working full time. We didn't have to worry about daycare, nor could we afford it. Now, our daughter's are in their 20's and always look back at the times my wife took care of them on a day to day basis. Daddy's time was when I came home from work...all the way to the time I put them to bed. I believe because we were there for our children they will hold the same principles as we did. God bless you!
Amen buddy. I stayed at home and raised five children, and we made sacrifices because that was what was good for the children. We didn’t have car payments and all the latest crap, and they didn’t care they had what they needed, and they were happy.
My grandparents who born during the "lost generation" helped my baby boomer mom raise us kids, they were the traditionalist generation but once my mom and her siblings grew up, grandma went and found a job keep her busy while still maintaining the home, taking care grandpa and grandkids. She worked on the farm during the 20's as a kid and later raising kids, hard times back then working hard farm life. Grandpa was head of the house, Alpha adult kids still respected he never told grandma she had to be at home if she wanted to work he never stopped her. My grandparents were my history books I learned a lot from them.
@@Angelica-me4fj Full of wisdom and knowledge. I would always ask my grandma what it was like during the depression she said, mostly the city folks who had it bad being raised on the farm and having money on hand, never trusting banks they managed. Always had food on the farm and they processed it themselves and sold it. Everything freshley made, baking, canning, made sausage and pork, milk from cows and water. Grew Everything and grandpa made his moonshine 🤣
I was married two months after graduating from high school. I’ve been happily married for 42 years. I have worked at time at my leisure and we do not have children. I married my husband because I knew i wanted to live my life by his side. He is a thorn in my side at time but, so am I to him. We laugh and still have more fun and enjoy each other’s company more than most couples we know.
We also have no children (20 yrs married) but I was raised by stay at home mom/working dad. I am SO grateful for this fact. If we had children, we would've done the same.
Stay at home mom and now mamaw. I enjoyed being home . I now help homeschool my twin grands. I worked and my oldest son, the only one at the time, cried for me to stay home with him. Broke my heart. Apparently my wonderful husband too. He told me one day that I could quit work and stay home with him if I wanted too. I did. Had and having a wonderful life. Look at the disrespectful kids these days.
I have been on both sides of the stay at home thing. I worked when my wife could not, and I stayed at home when she could. I took care of her when she was unable to do so herself. I never thought about who should stay at home and who should not. So long as there is at least someone who maintains the house and the property, and someone willing to work outside of the house, then things remain efficient on the home front. Being someone who has worked hard for most of his adult life, I can honestly say that having someone to come home to beats out coming home to an empty house ten times out of ten.
I'm a boomer, and I loved my mom and rarely spoke a harsh word to her, but on hindsight I could have shown my appreciation of her a lot more! She backed me my entire life no matter what foolishness I got myself into!
I'm at the tail end of raising 9 kids. My husband's salary for most of those years was not much, but we managed, and I was able to be with them day in and day out. Two are still at home, under 18. They all learned the value of hard work and independence.
I was raised by a God fearing woman and man, that's the Blessing in a nutshell! I raised 4 daughters on my own, became a weldor to support us all, I was father and mother, it wasn't all tea and honey, believe me! But now I'm blessed with 13 grandbabies and 3 Great grandbabies... And I give all the Glory to God!! Thank you Buddy for such wisdom, God bless you and yours, and the young wise football player! 🙏
I’m a boomer and I grew up in a home where mom was in the home. She was a homaker that we all grew up to expect just like almost everyone I knew back then. Then my wife stayed home to raise the kids and keep the books for our family farm. I knew nothing more than seeing stable households that women ran very well. I think that single parent homes would be reduced if more two parent families adopted the traditional roles that families hold dear. We need more strong women like stay at home and run the household. I believe in everything that the pro football player said in his graduation address. That idea alone makes America great again!
The Bible does indicate that a woman belongs in the family and in the community, where she can do best, as the man belongs out in the field in the world and in the forest. My shoulders are bigger than hers for a reason and that is to carry a bigger load, it is to defend her, and it is to lead her
I was a stay at home mom to 2 boys. And living in a mountain community, mom to about 50 other children. Always a hot meal from scratch, & hubby went to work with a meal not sandwiches. I became a community leader for teens, worked closely with schools & still ran a home. I’m now76 & have so dang many memories to look back on. Reminds me of the Ol Woman Who Lived In A Shoe 🤪🤪🤪🤪. Our home was always full. I am a blessed mom! 👵🏻👩🌾❣️
I’m 38, grew up Catholic and my family is returning to the faith with the way the world has gone. I never wanted a career, all I wanted was to be a wife and mother, but even in the late 1990’s I couldn’t say that in public school because it was already vilified and shamed at that point. I was forced to keep my true life goal quiet, to myself, lest I be shamed for wanting to be degraded, and plan for college and a career even though I knew I’d never work outside the home with kids
Glad to hear you had a basic goal. I'm getting in debt for college is not a good idea for anybody. However being educated and being a stay-at-home mom are not incompatible
Similar thing here. Except in 2nd grade (in the 80's) when we talked about what we might want to be when we grew up I said "a mom". My teacher told me that wasn't a job and I needed to pick something else. I then said a teacher. I got a smile from her with that answer. All these years later I am both, a mom and I homeschool my children. 😊
@@heatheraz4680 similar experience when I was around 9. I wanted to be a musician, since my grandparents had their own country duet. The teacher said that wasn't a job, which, can't completely blame her, cause at the time it wasn't, but that was part of why I went to college. So I could have a good paying job while I looked for someone to sing back up for. Too late for me, but if we would get behind more girls like Landon Starbuck , who is about to have 4 kids, or even Floor Jansen who doesn't do religion but recently had a second, is always well spoken and kind to people, maybe we wouldn't have to worry about girls getting sucked into Satanic Hollywood or being cheated out of a family.
I was born in '77. My mom worked for our local board of education and this was before there were 12-month employees. So, as soon as school was out for the summer, she was off work for the summer up until I was old enough to basically take care of myself during the summer. It was great. The left hates the stay at home mom because, just like you said, they can raise their own children and not the gov't. Also, the "stay at home mom" is aligned with traditional family values and the gub'ment just can't have that..........
I married my "southern wife" in 84, we had almost forty years of good marriage before she died from long term multiple sclerosis and COPD. She worked more than half of it because she wanted to feel like she was earning her way. I was an active duty Marine for twenty of it, held one or two jobs on the side the whole time, and our best years were all with her at home not working. She spent years pursuing a job with the post office, finally got it, and hated it to the end. She went to work at two in the morning, and the worst part was she never got good sleep until she left the post office behind. I've had four other family members work in the post office, and it's been miserable for each of the families involved. My brother and sister in law both did so, and are not retired and finally happy after forty years. We will never get back all those years.
My wife has a PHD in environmental engineering. God has blessed us and when we had kids she stayed home to take care of the family. We did not spend money on tv’s or fancy things, and so far with how our children are turning out it is so worth it.
This is the best Buddy Brown comment I've heard. America needs to take a giant step backwards if she expects to move forward. Our children are our future, and they need the security of a loving mother to nurture them. Their greater need is a father who loves mother and provides godly leadership.
I've been a stay at home mother for the past 25 years. Of course. They're all grown now, but I think my kids are better off than those that were raised by strangers.
Not only did I try to be a stay-at-home mom as much as possible when my kids were growing up but I home taught them whenever I could. That was about half of their schooling. And now my daughter is grown and has a child of her own. She is a stay at home mom and I'm very proud of her!
If women would learn to garden and cook from scratch and stop running to McDonald's they'd save a lot of money and be able to stay at home and raise their own kids
the disappearing seedbank is putting a squeeze on available & viable seed stock. gardening is not merely a toss n grow venture anymore. dealing with pesticide run off, chemspraying, available water (also affordable), pests, varmints, engineered weather, mrna jabs to farm animals... ask me how i know.
I am a 63 year old women who stayed home with my 3 girls and now take care of my 5 grandbabies .. no day care needed would have it no other way..we ranch and farm and work together as a family being here for my family has always been rewarding and I am doing what God created me to do. My girls have to work now so my roll is to be the best mom and grandma I can be.
My momma was a true believer in Christ, always knew what I needed to hear to stay safe in this crazy mixed up world… she’s been gone for 15 years and I wish I could have one more conversation with her. If your mom is still around, call her often .
I was blessed to be able to be a full time stay at home Mom for 3 years. When I did go back to work, purely because of finances, I worked nights. That way I was with my children all day and my husband was with them in the evening. We raised two smart, loving, strong young men!!
I was blessed to be able to stay home and nurture my children in their early years. By age 3, their minds are "set," and it's crucial to teach them all you can and to make them feel secure in the world and with themselves.
I walk beside my husband, not in front of or behind. We are a God fearing, country lovin family and we've raised our son to do the same, idle hands and programmed minds are the devils workshop, be none of that in our house, knowing you've put a little sweat on your brow, kitchen work and raising babies included, helps your head hit that pillow and have a good nights sleep 😁🙌🙌
SAHM for 25 years,homeschooling 13 children (graduated 6 so far),gardening,raising animals,canning,and all the things 😁 I babysit for young single mothers who are struggling and mentor them. I love my life and am so thankful for my hardworking husband who puts in long hours in his construction job to make it possible for me to be home with our children. Dinner around the table together as a family every night,how it should be. I don’t for one second feel like I am deprived of a career or that I could have done better with my life. I’m right where I am meant to be ❤
I am a stay at home Mama! I love that I followed what the good Loard put on my heart 6yrs ago. I have been there for my son and daughter when they needed me. I have also been able to be more resourceful with OUR income that my husband provides. I love that I have been able to use the time my husband has provided to also learn things I would not with the 9-5 grind. Buddy, you have hit the nail on the head again! God bless you and yours brother!
My mother, a farmer's wife, stayed home and raised us five children. I, in turn, did the same. It's not that unusual in Scotland, but more and more females are marrying a whole lot older and then starting (hopefully) a family in their mid to late 30's. To each their own, as they say. Talking ladies.......My husband has a tattoo on his arm that has the sweetest words. Please let me share. "The only woman I ever loved was another man's wife.....my mother." He had his tattoo done in Hong Kong in the seventies when he was a young sailor boy and I love it! Our two sons have the self same tattoo. I'm so blessed.
Yes they do Buddy, I don't know how women do it, like they never sleep much running a household. Then put a full time job on them. Women are awesome. We appreciate all the things you do.
I chose not to have children and have always worked outside the home. However, I have mad respect for women who choose to stay home and raise their kids.
What an appreciated word from a mama that believes it's a loving plan of God for us to embrace loving and caring for our husband, children, and home! I have the t-shirt and I wear it with joy and pride! Thank you!
Thank you for taking this subject on and speaking truth. America's biggest problems can be solved by having unified homes with multi generational family members teaching honor and respect
I am a stay at home momma. I’ve turned our land into an urban homestead. I’ve built my own coops and structures that sit on this land - pond included so we have omegas 3/6. I do a lot of things the old fashioned way. And I am ALWAYS there for the children.
The man is the head of the family for a reason! Glad I had a wonderful dad, and also had a wonderful husband! I miss them both dearly! Dad and my husband both loved John Wayne! God bless Buddy Brown!
I've been married for 39 years to a wonderful MAN. A true gift from God. I was able to take care of our two sons. Now 36and34 yrs old. I have been blessed!! We ladies need to respect Men and they will respect us!!
My wife was a homemaker that started home to care for the kids, and I worked two jobs some of the time. We made it and the kids had their mother when needed.
I am a homemaker and love it! I was blessed to be able to raise my children. It was a struggle sometimes but I wouldn't trade it for anything. My family and I wouldn't have it any other way. God bless!
In nearly 30 years together before my wife Tammie was called Home to be with the Lord she never worked a single day outside the home or off our farm.She cared for our chickens & other poultry while I worked & ran the farm.
I have been a go to work woman, all my life, but it doesn’t take a genius to see how valuable stay at home moms are. I wish I had a stay at home mom to take care of me.
As a man when I hear someone say to a woman. Oh, you're just a wife and stay at home mom. You don't have a job. I jump all over them. I'm 67 years old. The hardest job I have ever seen is a stay-at-home mom. She works from before the kids get up in the morning to long after they have gone to bed. Her job is priceless.
Amen brother!! My wife and I discussed and prayed about her staying home and taking care of our two sons while i worked. As one of the ladies already mentioned in the comments below, this is Biblical. We definitely tightened our belts with our budget, but man did God ever bless our family. He is faithful when we do things His way, and we are so very thankful for His presence in our lives.
Buddy...I wish more men thought like you on this. I ran like a freight train and I didn't get a bit more ahead. I wish we could get back to this but it is going to take more men to think like you. God bless.
Love this video so much. When my husband and I first married (30 years ago this year), I worked a full time job. When we had our daughter I became a SAHM. Was it always easy? No. Did we have the biggest and best house in the neighborhood? No. There is sacrifice that was made for me to stay home but it was important for us to do this. Our daughter is grown and married with a baby of her own. She wants to stay home so badly but the economy is against so many people these days. So, because her husband is a firefighter they can vary their days so one of them is pretty much home with their baby at all times. When it can’t be helped, I am there to step in and help. We aren’t perfect over here, but we are dang sure blessed! Be blessed y’all!
When my wife and I had our children, my sister was a stay at home mom. Unfortunately, she had 2 little one's of her own and after several months, she told me she couldn't handle all 4. Well, I sold our new car, I bought a minivan from a relative, and my wife quit her lucrative job and stayed home until our youngest was in all day kindergarten. She took a part time job during the day then but was there while I was at work. I worked every hour of overtime I could and I'll tell you it was tough and had some very lean years but what a blessing when we came out the other side! Yes we sacrificed a lot but it was worth it!😊😊
My wife and I are 54 she stayed home and raised our 2 children and I worked 2 jobs so she could and I would not change one thing raising great adults is better than a new car or big house I love and respect my wife of 30 years
I agree completely. The wife should do as she wishes as long as she is taking care of the home. I stayed home after I had my son. I loved being a mom and homemaker. It wasn’t until he graduated college and moved out that I went to work full time. A happy mom/wife is a happy home.
Always left it up to my lady. So far a homemaker and Mom for 98% of our 16 year marriage. She came close to helping out when we were barely making bill money for a year, but the ship came in and I got the job I was seeking……like many others. Cheers 🍻
Completely agree that true women should be running the day to day operations of their homes. They are the best GM for the home. My X was a feminist, and I was the one doing most of the work in the house… yet, she refused to get (even a part time) a job, causing us to lose our home. It’s almost two years later and my youngest adult son and I are still in a one-room extended stay with our own place not in the foreseeable future. Great piece, Buddy!
My place is in my home making sure my husband and daughter are prepared for their day. I don’t consider myself a housewife, I am a homemaker and it is an important part of their lives. I worked until the year before Covid so I was able to be home with our 7th grader, she’s going into her senior year now. Ladies find the right man and take care of him, men need us just as much as we need them. If you want to have a happy marriage don’t compete with your husband, let him take care of in the way only he can.
Our children were meant to be educated by us parents. Unfortunately we thought getting " Help from the gov." was ideal. It was a trap that has us snared and we see the results today. Heartfelt Cheers to stay home Moms! They stayed home but were not idle. Lot of work and no pay except a great family and an endless generation of God fearing human beings!! Proceless!!! 🤙🏼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌷🌷🌷🌷❤️❤️❤️
Mentioning your love for John Wayne goes a long way for me. He was my television idol as a kid and still is. Our country could use a million John Waynes right now.
I’ve been a stay at home mom/wife/homemaker for 20 years. The rewards are immense and long lasting. It has not been easy, but it has gotten better with time. I’ve learned though that a SAHM must do work that is usually allocated to men. I operate heavy equipment, process our firewood, maintain mountain property. He brings in the bacon, but I build the hog pen, the smoker pit and I get to raise our piglets.😂❤❤❤
i believe it is . i dont mean just in the kitchen either. but with the way the economy has tourned out over the years its really tuff to raise a family on a single income. IMO
As a woman, I earned a secondary teaching degree in English waaaay back in 1981 and later also earned a science endorsement to teach middle school science. I met my life partner at the only school in which I ever taught for my entire career (a very small, rural school), and we married in 1983. Our dream was to have four kids, and my dream was to home school the children and be at home. However, the Lord God had other plans. We were never able to have children, and my husband was reluctant to pursue adoption. Years later, he regretted that decision. Nevertheless, since both of us taught and coached in the same district for decades, we were able to mentor and nurture the children of others! Harrison Butker spoke truth, and there are many women like me who would have loved to have raised and nurtured children in the home. Buddy, your videos and insights are fantastic!! Thank you for your down-home ways and perspectives!!
If women had stayed at home and raised their children the children would not act the way they are today. The home is broken
Yes I agree. And, unfortunately, it's all by design 😞
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That was the plan... read the 1963 Communist Manifesto.
Not a direct correlation. Every person is a sinner and therefore has a choice.
As a woman, I actually DO believe a woman’s place is in the home! I think if things had stayed that way, we’d be a lot better off in a lot of ways as society! Just my opinion and it is also Biblical way.
Amen! 🙏
👍, Caucasian man..!
Now tell the rest of the government, SOYciety, and your sisterhood the same thing. Tell women they don't need work education or voting rights, and men and women can be spouses again.
If a woman wants to work then go for it. If they can financially survive on just husband income that's fine. However if anything happens to hubby and she never worked. She cannot collect his social security until she is 65yo after 10 years of marriage.
Unfortunately some women insist on having a job outside and sending kids to babysitters but they just end up paying the babysitter over half their income and feed them from McDonald's because they're too tired to cook.
Everybody's rattled over the metaphor "stay at home mom". My wife was a stay at home mom for 7 years (two kids) and she did everything but stay at home. She took the kids to the Zoo, Disneyland, Knott's Berry Farm, The Fair, countless museums, the beach, water parks, library and taught the kiddos how to read and write. My wife simply turned the title of stay at home mom upside down to WOW!!!
Years later both kids have "useful degrees" and are both contributors to society. Well Done Mom Well Done...
Hard working stay at home momma here! I've got 3 kiddos, my husband is a farmer, we have FFA, scouts, baseball, homework and I still have time to work a few hours a day from home and have supper on the table when hubby gets out of the fields at night. I'm proud of our family dynamic and wouldn't have it any other way! ❤
You go girl ❤🎉😊
Thank you for your service.😀
Praise the Lord for Y'all and Your efforts to be a normal family...
Thank you Mama and May The Good Lord bless you and your family.
It's a gift from God to have such! 🙏 And God bless our farmers!
The government counts on women working so they'll PAY TAXES and CONSUME. In the 1950's the average house was 928 sq. ft., the average family had one car and one telephone. There were no internet or cable bills. You mowed your own lawn. Going out to eat was a treat! People used the library and read books! We had small parties and visited each other for entertainment. We could get back to that and life wouldn't be so insanely expensive.
Simpler times and happier times for sure
Amen
Been explaining this to the young people who think we all lived in 2700 sq ft homes on minimum wage back in the 50s and 60s
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Also the government has more control over the children
Real women should be showed respect ! Been married 38 years, 3 major arguments and very few small ones ! My wife is a real woman and gets respect!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤
I've been married 38yrs and loved being a stay at home mom.
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Men like you are a rare find! Gives me hope! God bless you both!
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@@spiderwebb7944 Great to hear.
Yes, a woman’s place is doing exactly what she was designed to do mother homemaker, and everything that that entails. That doesn’t mean that she should be mistreated or run over, but respected with reverence. All we have to do is look back in history and see how much lower the crime rate was when the family unit was strong united, and the mother stayed home with the children.
Back to the days when if you neighbor said " little Johnny was out throwing eggs at cars" your mom make you go get a switch or a belt while you got a spanking..BUT you never did it again :)
Actually, the men were the revered ones.. The mother was more of the support staff,and the do everything else that he couldn't, wouldn't, or didn't know how to member...
Patriarchal societies work,and work better than any other since the beginning of mankind... Once feminazism came along,ridicule of men went rampant, and all of the good,hard working,providing,strong men were shoved off of the throne by society at those nazis whining screaming whim and now look at America...
She should really be the actual boss; man go gather
@@markcatcash4688 I was blessed to have parents that cared enough to take a switch to my legs when I did wrong
AND the divorce rate was much lower too
We married in 72 and had our 5 children by 82. My wife was a stay at home Mother and yes we gave up some things but nothing that was more valuable than the things our children learned with her home.
All our children own their homes but i don't have to worry about them asking me for money....they all make more than me.
I love that!!! Mine makes more than me & I couldnt be prouder..saving 2buy a home & doesnt want to owe on everythng forever like the world teaches them to do. 💪 🙏
Used to be the American Dream, especially the part of your kids being better off.
Well done😊
We also married in 72. Our families sound so much the same. Homemakers and Mothers and great Dads too make for a good family and great kids who become great parents. Celebrating 52 years in June. Regards from Ontario.
My Mom stayed home by choice. She did it all for us by choice. Raising 9 children was like her working 2 full time jobs. We all had chores but she was up early and went to bed late.
Hense came the old proverb, A man works from sun to sun, a womans work is never done.
I'm thankful that there are still REAL men out there like you who aren't afraid to say it like it is and, more importantly, live it!!!
DITTO!
It's simple math, the more women that can be stay at home moms the less income tax the gov machine gets
Good, then government gets smaller the way it should be.
@@stevea6722 it'd be nice but I'm not holding my breath
The Rothschilds wont let it happen.
In the middle ages, usery was illegal.
The standard of living wasn't matched again, until the 1800s.
Don't believe me? Look at what history has done to every nation or person that promotes a State-run bank, with usery and speculation being outlawed.
Yes! My place is with my babies. When Daddy gets home, his whole world is here, happy & so excited he’s back to us. ❤
I believe this is one of the areas that sent the American family on the road to falling apart. Yes, cut back, eat out less, cut your cable, and stay home to raise a good family. Dads could step up more too. Partnership!
This is exactly what my family has done for me to be able to stay at home with my son! Second hand clothing for him and only one vaca a year. I used to make really good money in corporate America but my new life is 1000x better with much less materialism!
The husband can then concentrate on his career bringing in more money
Yes! And we arent arguing with each other all of the time because we are both overtaxed!
@@lemmdus2119Unfortunately, that is all far too many dads do. More money isn’t as important as more presence by dad. I have coached baseball and soccer, been active in Boy Scouts and taught in public schools and was a your pastor. Far too many kids have a dad who is awol from the family because he is “focusing on his career”. Dads need to balance their careers and families. Same is true for a lot of moms, as well. When you have one or both parents over-emphasizing their careers, the kids suffer. No need to believe in the “Stress for Success” mentality that has been created here in the US.
Wives and Mothers are truly a gift…and should be cherished,
Honored and appreciated
AMEN!!!!
Being a stay home mom is a big and most important job .
The happiest time of my life was the 12 years I was wife mother homemaker. Had he not kept telling me I should get a job, which I did, then we would probably still be married.
What a shame. I hope you are better off now.
@@eltonyancey6426 still divorced. Never remarried. I loved him. He's on his 3rd wife now. I was his first.
SAME story here too.
I was his waif,and it was the Happiest memories with our healthy, joyful bright children💐
@@Sue-zf5uuIdentical with me, too 🫂
love that Backyard butchers hires stay at home moms to fill orders, RESPECT
I used to buy into the idea that I had to have this thriving career AND have a happy husband, wonderful children that I could pour into, take care of the home, the budget, etc. IT. WAS. EXHAUSTING!
I was essentially working to afford childcare so someone else could raise my kids. NO THANK YOU!
My husband picked up extra hours so I could stay home. Now, I homeschool two kids, volunteer, help out with their troops, work part-time at our church, and I have never been happier or more fulfilled! I am so thankful that I stopped listening to all the “noise” and that my husband and I decided to do what worked for US.
Amen Buddy Amen .
Because we are the backbone of the family and we help our men excel. It’s what God intended. 🙌🏼❤️🙌🏼
Both men and women are to thrive and excel and help the other ! Let each work in Their God gifting and leadership skills whether that be at home or outside the home. Proverbs 31.
Fully agree! Mothers need to be home for their children!
The title of English poet William Ross Wallace's poem 'The Hand That Rocks the Cradle is the Hand that Rules the World' has become a stand-in proverb to demonstrate the power of motherhood and how it can bring about sweeping changes across generations.
Amen brother! My wife took care of our 3 girls when they were younger since I was working full time. We didn't have to worry about daycare, nor could we afford it. Now, our daughter's are in their 20's and always look back at the times my wife took care of them on a day to day basis. Daddy's time was when I came home from work...all the way to the time I put them to bed. I believe because we were there for our children they will hold the same principles as we did. God bless you!
Women being a "stay at home" mom is why children WERE well behaved, respectful, happy and NOT confused !!
Amen buddy. I stayed at home and raised five children, and we made sacrifices because that was what was good for the children. We didn’t have car payments and all the latest crap, and they didn’t care they had what they needed, and they were happy.
My grandparents who born during the "lost generation" helped my baby boomer mom raise us kids, they were the traditionalist generation but once my mom and her siblings grew up, grandma went and found a job keep her busy while still maintaining the home, taking care grandpa and grandkids. She worked on the farm during the 20's as a kid and later raising kids, hard times back then working hard farm life. Grandpa was head of the house, Alpha adult kids still respected he never told grandma she had to be at home if she wanted to work he never stopped her. My grandparents were my history books I learned a lot from them.
Wonderful!
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I was raised by my Granny and glad for it!
@@Angelica-me4fj Full of wisdom and knowledge. I would always ask my grandma what it was like during the depression she said, mostly the city folks who had it bad being raised on the farm and having money on hand, never trusting banks they managed. Always had food on the farm and they processed it themselves and sold it. Everything freshley made, baking, canning, made sausage and pork, milk from cows and water. Grew Everything and grandpa made his moonshine 🤣
I was married two months after graduating from high school. I’ve been happily married for 42 years. I have worked at time at my leisure and we do not have children. I married my husband because I knew i wanted to live my life by his side. He is a thorn in my side at time but, so am I to him. We laugh and still have more fun and enjoy each other’s company more than most couples we know.
We also have no children (20 yrs married) but I was raised by stay at home mom/working dad. I am SO grateful for this fact. If we had children, we would've done the same.
Stay at home mom and now mamaw. I enjoyed being home . I now help homeschool my twin grands. I worked and my oldest son, the only one at the time, cried for me to stay home with him. Broke my heart. Apparently my wonderful husband too. He told me one day that I could quit work and stay home with him if I wanted too. I did. Had and having a wonderful life. Look at the disrespectful kids these days.
I have been on both sides of the stay at home thing. I worked when my wife could not, and I stayed at home when she could. I took care of her when she was unable to do so herself. I never thought about who should stay at home and who should not. So long as there is at least someone who maintains the house and the property, and someone willing to work outside of the house, then things remain efficient on the home front.
Being someone who has worked hard for most of his adult life, I can honestly say that having someone to come home to beats out coming home to an empty house ten times out of ten.
I'm a boomer, and I loved my mom and rarely spoke a harsh word to her, but on hindsight I could have shown my appreciation of her a lot more! She backed me my entire life no matter what foolishness I got myself into!
I'm at the tail end of raising 9 kids. My husband's salary for most of those years was not much, but we managed, and I was able to be with them day in and day out. Two are still at home, under 18. They all learned the value of hard work and independence.
I was raised by a God fearing woman and man, that's the Blessing in a nutshell! I raised 4 daughters on my own, became a weldor to support us all, I was father and mother, it wasn't all tea and honey, believe me! But now I'm blessed with 13 grandbabies and 3 Great grandbabies... And I give all the Glory to God!! Thank you Buddy for such wisdom, God bless you and yours, and the young wise football player! 🙏
I’m a boomer and I grew up in a home where mom was in the home. She was a homaker that we all grew up to expect just like almost everyone I knew back then. Then my wife stayed home to raise the kids and keep the books for our family farm. I knew nothing more than seeing stable households that women ran very well.
I think that single parent homes would be reduced if more two parent families adopted the traditional roles that families hold dear. We need more strong women like stay at home and run the household. I believe in everything that the pro football player said in his graduation address. That idea alone makes America great again!
The Bible does indicate that a woman belongs in the family and in the community, where she can do best, as the man belongs out in the field in the world and in the forest. My shoulders are bigger than hers for a reason and that is to carry a bigger load, it is to defend her, and it is to lead her
I was a stay at home mom to 2 boys. And living in a mountain community, mom to about 50 other children. Always a hot meal from scratch, & hubby went to work with a meal not sandwiches. I became a community leader for teens, worked closely with schools & still ran a home.
I’m now76 & have so dang many memories to look back on. Reminds me of the Ol Woman Who Lived In A Shoe 🤪🤪🤪🤪. Our home was always full. I am a blessed mom!
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I have done both and I loved staying at home with my children and planning dinner for my family.
❤ so did I, I hated leaving my kids 😢
I’m 38, grew up Catholic and my family is returning to the faith with the way the world has gone. I never wanted a career, all I wanted was to be a wife and mother, but even in the late 1990’s I couldn’t say that in public school because it was already vilified and shamed at that point. I was forced to keep my true life goal quiet, to myself, lest I be shamed for wanting to be degraded, and plan for college and a career even though I knew I’d never work outside the home with kids
I know how that feels. 😢
Glad to hear you had a basic goal. I'm getting in debt for college is not a good idea for anybody. However being educated and being a stay-at-home mom are not incompatible
Similar thing here. Except in 2nd grade (in the 80's) when we talked about what we might want to be when we grew up I said "a mom". My teacher told me that wasn't a job and I needed to pick something else. I then said a teacher. I got a smile from her with that answer.
All these years later I am both, a mom and I homeschool my children. 😊
@@heatheraz4680 similar experience when I was around 9. I wanted to be a musician, since my grandparents had their own country duet. The teacher said that wasn't a job, which, can't completely blame her, cause at the time it wasn't, but that was part of why I went to college. So I could have a good paying job while I looked for someone to sing back up for. Too late for me, but if we would get behind more girls like Landon Starbuck , who is about to have 4 kids, or even Floor Jansen who doesn't do religion but recently had a second, is always well spoken and kind to people, maybe we wouldn't have to worry about girls getting sucked into Satanic Hollywood or being cheated out of a family.
I was born in '77. My mom worked for our local board of education and this was before there were 12-month employees. So, as soon as school was out for the summer, she was off work for the summer up until I was old enough to basically take care of myself during the summer. It was great. The left hates the stay at home mom because, just like you said, they can raise their own children and not the gov't. Also, the "stay at home mom" is aligned with traditional family values and the gub'ment just can't have that..........
I married my "southern wife" in 84, we had almost forty years of good marriage before she died from long term multiple sclerosis and COPD. She worked more than half of it because she wanted to feel like she was earning her way. I was an active duty Marine for twenty of it, held one or two jobs on the side the whole time, and our best years were all with her at home not working. She spent years pursuing a job with the post office, finally got it, and hated it to the end. She went to work at two in the morning, and the worst part was she never got good sleep until she left the post office behind. I've had four other family members work in the post office, and it's been miserable for each of the families involved. My brother and sister in law both did so, and are not retired and finally happy after forty years. We will never get back all those years.
Amen Buddy Amen 😀
My wife has a PHD in environmental engineering. God has blessed us and when we had kids she stayed home to take care of the family. We did not spend money on tv’s or fancy things, and so far with how our children are turning out it is so worth it.
This is the best Buddy Brown comment I've heard. America needs to take a giant step backwards if she expects to move forward. Our children are our future, and they need the security of a loving mother to nurture them. Their greater need is a father who loves mother and provides godly leadership.
I've been a stay at home mother for the past 25 years. Of course. They're all grown now, but I think my kids are better off than those that were raised by strangers.
We KNOW they're better off... Especially if you taught them values ❣️
Not only did I try to be a stay-at-home mom as much as possible when my kids were growing up but I home taught them whenever I could. That was about half of their schooling. And now my daughter is grown and has a child of her own. She is a stay at home mom and I'm very proud of her!
Yes at home!
If women would learn to garden and cook from scratch and stop running to McDonald's they'd save a lot of money and be able to stay at home and raise their own kids
the disappearing seedbank is putting a squeeze on available & viable seed stock. gardening is not merely a toss n grow venture anymore. dealing with pesticide run off, chemspraying, available water (also affordable), pests, varmints, engineered weather, mrna jabs to farm animals... ask me how i know.
5:06 is AMAZING and hits so HARD!!!! love that Buddy put that in
I am a 63 year old women who stayed home with my 3 girls and now take care of my 5 grandbabies .. no day care needed would have it no other way..we ranch and farm and work together as a family being here for my family has always been rewarding and I am doing what God created me to do. My girls have to work now so my roll is to be the best mom and grandma I can be.
Yes it is! Downfall of society all started with this insanity.
My momma was a true believer in Christ, always knew what I needed to hear to stay safe in this crazy mixed up world… she’s been gone for 15 years and I wish I could have one more conversation with her. If your mom is still around, call her often .
I was blessed to be able to be a full time stay at home Mom for 3 years. When I did go back to work, purely because of finances, I worked nights. That way I was with my children all day and my husband was with them in the evening. We raised two smart, loving, strong young men!!
I was blessed to be able to stay home and nurture my children in their early years. By age 3, their minds are "set," and it's crucial to teach them all you can and to make them feel secure in the world and with themselves.
I walk beside my husband, not in front of or behind. We are a God fearing, country lovin family and we've raised our son to do the same, idle hands and programmed minds are the devils workshop, be none of that in our house, knowing you've put a little sweat on your brow, kitchen work and raising babies included, helps your head hit that pillow and have a good nights sleep 😁🙌🙌
SAHM for 25 years,homeschooling 13 children (graduated 6 so far),gardening,raising animals,canning,and all the things 😁 I babysit for young single mothers who are struggling and mentor them. I love my life and am so thankful for my hardworking husband who puts in long hours in his construction job to make it possible for me to be home with our children. Dinner around the table together as a family every night,how it should be. I don’t for one second feel like I am deprived of a career or that I could have done better with my life. I’m right where I am meant to be ❤
It’s other women who get snarky and snippy when they ask what I do and I reply stay at home wife 😂😂😂 I feel very very lucky my Hubby is awesome.
I am a stay at home Mama! I love that I followed what the good Loard put on my heart 6yrs ago. I have been there for my son and daughter when they needed me. I have also been able to be more resourceful with OUR income that my husband provides. I love that I have been able to use the time my husband has provided to also learn things I would not with the 9-5 grind.
Buddy, you have hit the nail on the head again!
God bless you and yours brother!
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My mother, a farmer's wife, stayed home and raised us five children. I, in turn, did the same. It's not that unusual in Scotland, but more and more females are marrying a whole lot older and then starting (hopefully) a family in their mid to late 30's. To each their own, as they say.
Talking ladies.......My husband has a tattoo on his arm that has the sweetest words. Please let me share. "The only woman I ever loved was another man's wife.....my mother." He had his tattoo done in Hong Kong in the seventies when he was a young sailor boy and I love it! Our two sons have the self same tattoo. I'm so blessed.
Indeed! 🙏
Love this! Spot on!
Yes they do Buddy, I don't know how women do it, like they never sleep much running a household. Then put a full time job on them. Women are awesome. We appreciate all the things you do.
It is a crazy world that we live in for sure!
I chose not to have children and have always worked outside the home. However, I have mad respect for women who choose to stay home and raise their kids.
What an appreciated word from a mama that believes it's a loving plan of God for us to embrace loving and caring for our husband, children, and home! I have the t-shirt and I wear it with joy and pride! Thank you!
Go Stay at home Mom’s ! God is with us ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Truth be told, I’d rather be at home than working 2 pt jobs so my husband & I can afford the retirement we want. It’s pathetic!
more than ever
Thank you for taking this subject on and speaking truth. America's biggest problems can be solved by having unified homes with multi generational family members teaching honor and respect
I am a stay at home momma. I’ve turned our land into an urban homestead. I’ve built my own coops and structures that sit on this land - pond included so we have omegas 3/6.
I do a lot of things the old fashioned way. And I am ALWAYS there for the children.
The man is the head of the family for a reason! Glad I had a wonderful dad, and also had a wonderful husband! I miss them both dearly! Dad and my husband both loved John Wayne! God bless Buddy Brown!
I've been married for 39 years to a wonderful MAN. A true gift from God. I was able to take care of our two sons. Now 36and34 yrs old. I have been blessed!! We ladies need to respect Men and they will respect us!!
My mom stayed at home and I stayed at home and when our family needed extra money I got my license as a State Daycare and worked from home!
My wife was a homemaker that started home to care for the kids, and I worked two jobs some of the time. We made it and the kids had their mother when needed.
I am a homemaker and love it! I was blessed to be able to raise my children. It was a struggle sometimes but I wouldn't trade it for anything. My family and I wouldn't have it any other way. God bless!
In nearly 30 years together before my wife Tammie was called Home to be with the Lord she never worked a single day outside the home or off our farm.She cared for our chickens & other poultry while I worked & ran the farm.
Yes I agree. Hope you have a good memorable day. As a veteran I will be cleaning veteran stones up. God bless.
Absolutely Correct and they know that but still here we are 😮
God bless you Buddy... there were times when I was able to stay home it sure makes a difference
I watched that interview… Miss you Duke❤️❤️❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
I have been a go to work woman, all my life, but it doesn’t take a genius to see how valuable stay at home moms are. I wish I had a stay at home mom to take care of me.
As a man when I hear someone say to a woman. Oh, you're just a wife and stay at home mom. You don't have a job. I jump all over them. I'm 67 years old. The hardest job I have ever seen is a stay-at-home mom. She works from before the kids get up in the morning to long after they have gone to bed. Her job is priceless.
Amen brother!!
My wife and I discussed and prayed about her staying home and taking care of our two sons while i worked. As one of the ladies already mentioned in the comments below, this is Biblical.
We definitely tightened our belts with our budget, but man did God ever bless our family. He is faithful when we do things His way, and we are so very thankful for His presence in our lives.
Buddy...I wish more men thought like you on this. I ran like a freight train and I didn't get a bit more ahead. I wish we could get back to this but it is going to take more men to think like you. God bless.
Amen Buddy Brown on that long live John Wayne and Elvis Presley God Bless America Godspeed
On point 💯💯💯
Love this video so much. When my husband and I first married (30 years ago this year), I worked a full time job. When we had our daughter I became a SAHM. Was it always easy? No. Did we have the biggest and best house in the neighborhood? No. There is sacrifice that was made for me to stay home but it was important for us to do this. Our daughter is grown and married with a baby of her own. She wants to stay home so badly but the economy is against so many people these days. So, because her husband is a firefighter they can vary their days so one of them is pretty much home with their baby at all times. When it can’t be helped, I am there to step in and help. We aren’t perfect over here, but we are dang sure blessed! Be blessed y’all!
GOD bless you, Buddy! Keep speaking the TRUTH!
When my wife and I had our children, my sister was a stay at home mom. Unfortunately, she had 2 little one's of her own and after several months, she told me she couldn't handle all 4. Well, I sold our new car, I bought a minivan from a relative, and my wife quit her lucrative job and stayed home until our youngest was in all day kindergarten. She took a part time job during the day then but was there while I was at work. I worked every hour of overtime I could and I'll tell you it was tough and had some very lean years but what a blessing when we came out the other side! Yes we sacrificed a lot but it was worth it!😊😊
I agree Buddy and I’m a female!
My wife and I are 54 she stayed home and raised our 2 children and I worked 2 jobs so she could and I would not change one thing raising great adults is better than a new car or big house I love and respect my wife of 30 years
I agree completely. The wife should do as she wishes as long as she is taking care of the home. I stayed home after I had my son. I loved being a mom and homemaker. It wasn’t until he graduated college and moved out that I went to work full time. A happy mom/wife is a happy home.
Yes, women should be with their babies. Woman of the 50s, 60s, and 70s.
Always left it up to my lady. So far a homemaker and Mom for 98% of our 16 year marriage. She came close to helping out when we were barely making bill money for a year, but the ship came in and I got the job I was seeking……like many others. Cheers 🍻
Completely agree that true women should be running the day to day operations of their homes. They are the best GM for the home. My X was a feminist, and I was the one doing most of the work in the house… yet, she refused to get (even a part time) a job, causing us to lose our home. It’s almost two years later and my youngest adult son and I are still in a one-room extended stay with our own place not in the foreseeable future. Great piece, Buddy!
My place is in my home making sure my husband and daughter are prepared for their day. I don’t consider myself a housewife, I am a homemaker and it is an important part of their lives. I worked until the year before Covid so I was able to be home with our 7th grader, she’s going into her senior year now. Ladies find the right man and take care of him, men need us just as much as we need them. If you want to have a happy marriage don’t compete with your husband, let him take care of in the way only he can.
Our children were meant to be educated by us parents. Unfortunately we thought getting " Help from the gov." was ideal. It was a trap that has us snared and we see the results today. Heartfelt Cheers to stay home Moms! They stayed home but were not idle. Lot of work and no pay except a great family and an endless generation of God fearing human beings!! Proceless!!! 🤙🏼👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌷🌷🌷🌷❤️❤️❤️
Mentioning your love for John Wayne goes a long way for me. He was my television idol as a kid and still is. Our country could use a million John Waynes right now.
Because they know stay at home moms are love much more than they are.🌻
I’ve been a stay at home mom/wife/homemaker for 20 years. The rewards are immense and long lasting. It has not been easy, but it has gotten better with time. I’ve learned though that a SAHM must do work that is usually allocated to men. I operate heavy equipment, process our firewood, maintain mountain property. He brings in the bacon, but I build the hog pen, the smoker pit and I get to raise our piglets.😂❤❤❤
i believe it is . i dont mean just in the kitchen either. but with the way the economy has tourned out over the years its really tuff to raise a family on a single income. IMO
that's why Buddy was talking about part time jobs at home. Even Buddy's wife helps him
All purposely orchestrated to destroy the family.
@@DavisWilson1387 you thats about the only way to go nowadays .
Isn’t crazy how God pulls someone from a venue no one suspected! Love this
As a woman, I earned a secondary teaching degree in English waaaay back in 1981 and later also earned a science endorsement to teach middle school science. I met my life partner at the only school in which I ever taught for my entire career (a very small, rural school), and we married in 1983. Our dream was to have four kids, and my dream was to home school the children and be at home. However, the Lord God had other plans. We were never able to have children, and my husband was reluctant to pursue adoption. Years later, he regretted that decision. Nevertheless, since both of us taught and coached in the same district for decades, we were able to mentor and nurture the children of others! Harrison Butker spoke truth, and there are many women like me who would have loved to have raised and nurtured children in the home. Buddy, your videos and insights are fantastic!! Thank you for your down-home ways and perspectives!!