Does anyone else see a pattern of typical male activities being presented as something bad? If you play video games for a couple hours you're a loser, but it's fine to endlessly scroll social media for hours. God forbid you go fishing with some buds for a couple hours, but shopping at the mall with your girlfriends for hours is okay. The list goes on.
@@huntergman8338 it's hard to love someone when your life is dedicated to "fixing them" because you see them as the problem. Misogyny certainly exists but maybe getting mad at random people ain't gonna create lasting change in any industry.
@@huntergman8338 I wouldn’t say that. Social media making everyone angry so they can virtue signal. That or there’s something seriously wrong with the people who got angry at this. I think it’s like maladaptive daydreaming
@@sonattyp6171 No, thing with social media and the Internet is that it's merely a tool. In a better world, these sites would be far more pleasant, but the main reason why people don't like them is the result of the ideas people have, especially the ones that own the sites and a majority of the users of certain sites like reddit and Twitter. Both of which are highly infested with identity politics, which is used to justify their actions. It's one's ideas and beliefs that dictate their actions, especially any political, ideological, and religious ideals. And everyone has those.
I bet it would've been overlooked if he used his phone instead, that seems more accepted compared to video games. Some people just hate on hobbies they don't understand or try out. I've heard people complaining about adults playing video games for an hour a day, yet the ones complaining are the ones watching tv for hours or spending their day glued to the phone.
Facts also I just wanna say I guarantee you if the genders were reversed and it was a man holding the child with his wife in the background on the games she’d be getting blessed in the comments and all the dudes would he calling him a lucky man bc he has a “gamer wife wow” “LUCKY DUDE” 🤓 😐
I just read the comments on the video and there were a lot of people, mostly women, making the dad out to be "bad" but there were also lots of comments defending him. And then I saw her response video and lo and behold, a whole bunch of people saying "that she's trapped", "she'll realise one day and free herself" and that "she's just making excuses to gaslight us". These people r delusional. And it's mostly women. Suddenly everyone became a relationship expert cos they saw a 1 min video of their life. No one took into account that maybe she wanted to hold her baby or that she could've put the baby down whilst eating but no, let's blame the dad just cos he's playing games and being stress free.
I'am no professional single parent that raised a millionaire, but if the baby is not crying or you need to do a duty (like feed and diaper change) then it's your sign that you have free time and do anything you want. Maybe if you want to teach something productive then let them listen to nursery rhymes, or if you really want to calm them down use squeaky toys. To be honest what do I expect from Gen Z kids? The politics they bring today is boring!
My dad was a great father he was a doctor and every dad after work we would eat dinner then he’d go to his office and play video games locked in his office we understood it wasn’t him being a “bad dad” he had to unwind after work he was introverted and he had to relax alone sometimes but the second we needed him he would drop everything and be there because he was a father but being a parent wasn’t easy for him nor is it for any decent parent it’s hard and sometimes you just need a break
I just imagined a 30 second clip a dude painting a wall with a brush and just looking it over. "He's useless he's just sitting around looking at a wall that's finished!" "he's legit looking at a wall, more important things to do than stare at wall fr." dudes probably looking for paint run lines lol.
@@faith1614 Why does he need to know? She posted about herself not him. Do you know how many people post videos of babies just ruining ishh? Stop blaming her for living her life and being in social media just like any other young person.
Non video game players when someone they know uses their free time to play video games 😱😱😱😱 meanwhile they watch just as much Netflix as the person plays video games
For real! As a gamer myself, when I'm off work I either play video games, listen to music, read a book or watch a couple of UA-cam videos. TV bores me these days and I never liked most social media. But people be spending hours on tiktok, Instagram or watching Netflix series but God forbid you play a video game for more than an hour.😱😱 That means you got issues
The people mad at him spending (apparently) all day being an EPIC gamer are also the same people complaining all day on social media, which is even more a waste of time by their logic.
As a married man and father. You can't have hobbies. The world wont let you. I work 65-90 (I work nights) hours a week take my kids to school every morning, take them to all their activities , do all the cooking and take care of my wife with helping around the house and giving her a massage everyday when she gets home. But the second I sit down to play a game, i get $h!t for it. It's just how it goes. And to be clear it's not from my wife she works hard to. The hate comes from her friends or randoms that find out I like playing games. I once streamed with a friend of mine and every comment was "why are you playing games? Go take care of your kids."
As a dad who also plays video games, my wife isn’t always with the kids. Yea I’m at work a lot, my job requires long hours and my wife is more than happy to let me take an hour or two for some video games, and I’m more than happy to watch the kids so she can go do her own thing too. Can’t believe these people are blowing this WAY out of proportion
Im late to the party but these people tend to always fail to notice the house people live in , like how else are they able to live in a home like that . And then seeing his set up for a gaming station is the least of everyones concern . That dude clearly got his priorties in place !
And you better believe that the same people making these claims saying he's a bad dad would be at the women's defense if she was playing games and being borderline negligent towards the baby. These smoother than smooth brains and their double standards are so annoying.
Ironically when I got my ex pregnant that’s what her and her family told me, I needed to drop everything. Hobbies, dreams, and interests, to take care of my ex and child. I had to pay all the bills myself too. Her family hated me because I suggested we go 50/50 on the bills, because they are “traditional values” type of people. But she was allowed to have hobbies, go out, sleep over at random peoples houses, and leave me watching our kid.
There are wham3n today saying they're traditional; what they really mean is you as the man have to be traditional and working for her needs 24/7 with no down time so she can relax and live like royalty, stress-free. They're really just F3h-min-ists
people who say theyre traditional arent really traditional and lastly Traditional people are dictated to the environment if times are rough you and your spouse will get together to figure it out thats traditional back in the day man said I will provide and the woman was okay with that and vice versa cuz it was possible but now we live in times where its hard to provide and its up to a "traditional" woman to say its okay ill help provide whether man likes it or not, cuz traditional men and women is by nature not by society
growing up my dad played a lot of video games, it never had a bad influence on me, it just made me interested in video games. i mean if he had been playing 24/7 not spending time with his family or working it would’ve been bad but it’s just a hobby.
Social media got these younger people thinking that the only way to have a happy lifestyle is to always be seen going above and beyond in every single video that’s filmed
Sad thing is he seems like a good dad. I know my cousins and my cousins baby daddies be gaming 24/7 as their wives/gf’s do everything. Had my cousin even stay in his room to play MW the entire time at his daughters 6th birthday party. She kept asking for him and trynna open the door. Eventually my cousin made him come out to do the candles, can’t believe anyone would put up with that 🤦🏻♀️
Keep in mind, this man is probably off work or has a day off, and he decided that he'll dedicate a few hours to playing and relaxing with video games. If men can't have hobbies, then good lord help us if all of us if men didn't commit sudoku. Huge props to the girl for defending her man, because ngl, I don't know how many would do the same.
Dude, he's just minding his own business having a HOBBY. Can people really not have hobbies anymore according to social media as a parent without being labeled as a "Bad parent"?????? Like it'd be one thing if there's EVIDENCE this man cares more about video games than his own family. But this particular tiktok only showed this man playing games for *less than a minutes or so* That is NOT enough time to ictate if someone is a bad parent or not unless they REALLY did something terrible for real
They should capitalize on this. Every video have him in back playing. Then go out to a park and bam....a desk and him facing away from us with a TV gaming. Talk to local small restaurant owner for permission and record her and baby at table eating and there he is....in background.....with small TV at a different table gaming. They are grocery shopping.....his back is facing us and she's pulling a second cart with him in it as he is playing on laptop. Every scenario...run with it. Hahahaha. Baby doctor for check up.....there he is with his back to us and gaming. Genius.
When playing games, you likely are: - improving your eye-hand coordinate - improving your reflexes - bonding with friends - enjoying an interactive story - brain storming to solve puzzles - challenging gods and whatever supernatural forces (Souls veterans rise!) - etc. And what do you get for being on tiktok? - becoming cringey af - shortening your attention span
fr tiktok is way worse for your brain than video games. you can create longterm goals that can take you weeks or months to complete but tiktok gives you instant dopamine. one of the reasons i dont use it a lot.
All the idiots jumping the dad's case are just chronically online. They can't handle a man enjoying himself at all. We're always the bad guys in their eyes
I worked 14 hours yesterday, came home and built my 2 year old son a drum set even before taking a shower. My wife appreciates all I give and she will watch him so I can game for a couple hours this weekend. It’s all give and take
Props to the woman standing up for her man, god forbid a guy would want some time to himself playing a video game or anything. I wanna know what's is people's beef with gamers in general?
My dad plays video games and he’s one of the most inspirational and strongest role models that I have. He fought in desert storm and created his own successful small business. He plays Destiny, OW, Borderlands, and Gran Turismo in his free time, when he’s not doing that he’s working, doing something with my wonderful mom, or exercising. I want to provide for my future family the way my father does for ours.
TikTok assuming the dad is terrible for playing video games in the background reminds me of the story where a kid was having an online class, and his brother in the background who wasn't part of the class "shoots" a gun. Teacher notices this and notifies the district. Later it's confirmed it was a toy gun by police. Of course, just like TikTokers believing that the dad is a terrible person, the school believed that a toy gun being played with in the background was bad enough to suspend the kid, all because his brother was playing around (The brother was also suspended from his school). What a world we live in🤦♂🤦♂
That boy did not deserve to get suspended because his brother was pretending to shoot that toy gun like it was a real gun. Wow, I feel really bad for him!
Last year I saw a Tweet of this guy that broke a world record. His record was how many days he stayed at Disneyland. I don't remember the exact number of days but it was very close to a decade. The internet being the internet was spamming over and over in the comments saying the guy looks like a pedophiles, keep him away from the kids there, etc. Some of them were jokes but a good chunk of them were just flat out stating he's a pedophiles for simply liking Disneyland. I don't know what causes people to look at a harmless tweet like that and immediately jump to the worst possibly assumption but I see it everywhere. Everyone since quarantine has just become a bitter and spiteful person for internet likes.
These people will actually harass him and call him a bad dad, completely ignoring that these same people probably spend half their life scrolling on UA-cam Shorts, or TikTok, some idiot celebrity’s Snapchat Story, or on Instagram. And of all the dads who play video games in this world, they attack this guy. No wonder people lose their minds these days.
I have to imagine the wife I'm assuming was scrolling through comments and then reading freaking comments just tearing her hubby apart doing something he enjoys
My dad literally used to play video games with me and some of his childhood friends when he wasn’t busy and it was actually fun. Don’t ruin fun for others when it’s something actually nice. There’s nothing wrong having a good paying job, kids, a wife and being able to have fun with your friends in your free time.
When my first kid was born, I made a rule that I will never play video games while they are awake unless I am playing with them or if they are out of the house and grandma's house or something. I still get to play a couple of hours a night and my kids are 11 and 9 now and we spend so much time together and have a great relationship. Mom started playing games with us now too so it's family time
the people calling him things like deadbeat don't know his work schedule. he could be working 10+ hours a day for 6 days a week. nothing wrong with having a hobby and taking a break from a chaotic day
My dad plays Black ops 4 Blackout literally every single day, sometimes for hours on end, and he still puts aside time for everyone around him WHILE running his own business, he’s the best dad I could ever ask for.
These are probably people who also complain about not being able to do what they want all the time as they get older and become an adult. They want everyone to be working but them.
If the dad doesn't work and or provide for the family, then yeah it is understandable to grill the man. BUUUUT if the dad is a sole provider of the family (assuming the mom is a stay at home to take care of the baby) then it make sense that he should have time to himself and do what he wants to help him BREATHE. There is so many scenarios we can assume but the man has a hobby.
You clearly ignored the fact that the mother vouched for him and said he was a good dad. There's nothing to assume you dimwitted abuser so actuallt watch the video and stop being ignorant to the woman's opinion.
Holy Optimus I’m so glad you were able to get out of Guantanamo bay after getting raided by bomb boy,the Cheeto and sleepy joe I thought you were a goner!!
I just realized why the heck did she even made the clip in the first place without even explaining what it supposed to be & she literally could have caused him his job & his life.
me and my girl was 13 when we met and now we are 18 are when i met her she was cool with me playing game then after 1 2 year she only wanted me to play when she was not around. Now when she saw my passion and how good of a hobby gaming is she too playes with me sometimes. a warzone duo with ur gf right beside you aw man its the best
What? You mean dad's can't have fun in this world? Dude my dad plays mario golf, mario kart and other classic games all the time Though he also loves playing a good pinball machine at the arcades When I'm his age I'll probably play lots of video games with my kids if I have any
It’s hilarious to me that the equivalent to playing games for people who don’t play games would probably be scrolling on their phone for hours or watching a show on a streaming service
Tiktok is wild when it comes to assumptions. They see a 10 second video, and they think they know EVERYTHING about you lol. Also, people who are in parenthood have very extreme beliefs and thoughts that make me not even want to interact with them. 😬 It is very, very rare when you find chill moms.
I'm a grown Man, married and have teenage kids. After working 8 to 12hrs each day I go home, do yard work, projects around the house, talk with the kids and help em out with whatever it is, have dinner or go out to eat with the wife, then couple hrs before bed I get on the ps4 and kick these rude kids butt's on GTA-Online. My Kid's sometimes log on and play in same session or watch.
Does anyone else see a pattern of typical male activities being presented as something bad? If you play video games for a couple hours you're a loser, but it's fine to endlessly scroll social media for hours. God forbid you go fishing with some buds for a couple hours, but shopping at the mall with your girlfriends for hours is okay. The list goes on.
Men are the greatest evil in the world apparently.
Ideologies like feminism are the main source. Thanks to such ideas, a lot of people don't care about men and if men have fun, it's deemed bad.
@@huntergman8338 it's hard to love someone when your life is dedicated to "fixing them" because you see them as the problem. Misogyny certainly exists but maybe getting mad at random people ain't gonna create lasting change in any industry.
@@huntergman8338 I wouldn’t say that. Social media making everyone angry so they can virtue signal. That or there’s something seriously wrong with the people who got angry at this. I think it’s like maladaptive daydreaming
@@sonattyp6171 No, thing with social media and the Internet is that it's merely a tool. In a better world, these sites would be far more pleasant, but the main reason why people don't like them is the result of the ideas people have, especially the ones that own the sites and a majority of the users of certain sites like reddit and Twitter. Both of which are highly infested with identity politics, which is used to justify their actions.
It's one's ideas and beliefs that dictate their actions, especially any political, ideological, and religious ideals. And everyone has those.
It's called having hobbies, It really is amazing what the internet will find to get mad at
I bet if it was a woman people would probably praise her
entire post is just peak twitter
@@00Grimreaper00exactly
Playing games is no diff than watching movies and UA-cam after work
I bet it would've been overlooked if he used his phone instead, that seems more accepted compared to video games. Some people just hate on hobbies they don't understand or try out. I've heard people complaining about adults playing video games for an hour a day, yet the ones complaining are the ones watching tv for hours or spending their day glued to the phone.
I'd rather be a gamer than an attention seeking tik toker creating unnecessary drama.
Facts also I just wanna say I guarantee you if the genders were reversed and it was a man holding the child with his wife in the background on the games she’d be getting blessed in the comments and all the dudes would he calling him a lucky man bc he has a “gamer wife wow” “LUCKY DUDE” 🤓
😐
My girlfriend prefers that
@@emma6648 you are probably the smartest women in this comment section..
@@emma6648 Exactly, just highlights the double standards.
Yes
Weirdest thing about this to me is that people just video tape their entire lives to show to strangers on tiktok
This is obviously a saved Snapchat my friend. Cmon now.
@@falcon1378quite similar but ye ig 🤷🏾♂️
@@Destiny15 not really, she thought it was funny so she decided to post it
@@brandonbjoern9390oh what's funny in that really?
It's the same for twitch etc.
At least she came out and defended her man, y’know? Props to her
That's good
@@audreyharris7643 And at least she revealed that it wasn’t her intention to make him out like a bad guy ☺️☺️☺️
Yeah you don't really get women like that at least not as much as people used to
She’s a keeper
Kudos to her for doing that.
Being single sure is a blessing in disguise
You got that right dude, go your own way!
Peaceful 😊
Facts….and also a way to cope 🥹
Okay loner
@@dddripz okay stoner
I just read the comments on the video and there were a lot of people, mostly women, making the dad out to be "bad" but there were also lots of comments defending him. And then I saw her response video and lo and behold, a whole bunch of people saying "that she's trapped", "she'll realise one day and free herself" and that "she's just making excuses to gaslight us". These people r delusional. And it's mostly women. Suddenly everyone became a relationship expert cos they saw a 1 min video of their life. No one took into account that maybe she wanted to hold her baby or that she could've put the baby down whilst eating but no, let's blame the dad just cos he's playing games and being stress free.
Thanos & Ultron were right.
It's always them- but then, they're so oppressed. The poor, weak, and defenseless women who, at the same time, are also strong and independent queens.
@@Andrink I’m sensing you have some underlying mental issues you need to work out.
I'am no professional single parent that raised a millionaire, but if the baby is not crying or you need to do a duty (like feed and diaper change) then it's your sign that you have free time and do anything you want. Maybe if you want to teach something productive then let them listen to nursery rhymes, or if you really want to calm them down use squeaky toys. To be honest what do I expect from Gen Z kids? The politics they bring today is boring!
I called a girl overweight,
I got insulted and threatened,
I called a guy overweight,
Everyone agreed with me
I guess us men can’t have hobbies anymore 🤷♂️
More like nobody can
Being a man is the toughest job in the world
I mean it’s TikTok I have a TikTok page and I lose brain cells when people comment on my TikTok videos
Because people are brainwashed to adult who player video games are ''losers''.
If men are not serving women at all times then we are not real men and are failures in every way.
My dad was a great father he was a doctor and every dad after work we would eat dinner then he’d go to his office and play video games locked in his office we understood it wasn’t him being a “bad dad” he had to unwind after work he was introverted and he had to relax alone sometimes but the second we needed him he would drop everything and be there because he was a father but being a parent wasn’t easy for him nor is it for any decent parent it’s hard and sometimes you just need a break
Same with my dad and I agree with you
@@damusaetrum6742 that’s how you know your parents raise you right you can have empathy for others. It’s not just me, me , me.
@@LilDre15 fr
Ya thats true fr tho
Fr I relate to this a lot bro.
But if a woman would of done it people would of called it vacation
These comments are so annoying. I'm sure a lot of women don't want special treatment
Double standard at its finest
true
@@turboshazed7370 ur my fav optimus watcher
@@turboshazed7370 It's not about whether all women want the special treatment or not. It's about the fact it exists.
Still better than being a grown adult using tiktok
For validation no less, meanwhile my man wants to relax and have some fun
tiktok is targetted towards adults and teens, nothing wrong with using it unless ur like the person in the video
I use tiktok.
@@anonisnoone6125cool
Shots fired lol I don’t even have a tik tok account just to be clear
At this point the internet will get mad over a 10 second clip of someone just sitting down enjoying life 💀
Or just an image of someone smiling
Just a matter of time
That already happens lol
I just imagined a 30 second clip a dude painting a wall with a brush and just looking it over. "He's useless he's just sitting around looking at a wall that's finished!" "he's legit looking at a wall, more important things to do than stare at wall fr." dudes probably looking for paint run lines lol.
She posted something out of frustration, but she wasn't insulting her man and defended him. Good for her.
Why is she posting her business without him even knowing. That’s weird.
@@faith1614 Why does he need to know? She posted about herself not him. Do you know how many people post videos of babies just ruining ishh? Stop blaming her for living her life and being in social media just like any other young person.
@@gdaebb9179 She posted him. He wasn’t aware. It’s weird and you’re obviously a weird one too if you think that is normal.
@@faith1614 Posted what, his back? You are being dramatic buddy
@@gdaebb9179 Not dramatic. You’re just weird. Not my fault your weird just like that woman.
Non video game players when someone they know uses their free time to play video games 😱😱😱😱 meanwhile they watch just as much Netflix as the person plays video games
Or they binge watch Fox News 2000 hours a week.
@@alessandro6885 fr
For real! As a gamer myself, when I'm off work I either play video games, listen to music, read a book or watch a couple of UA-cam videos.
TV bores me these days and I never liked most social media. But people be spending hours on tiktok, Instagram or watching Netflix series but God forbid you play a video game for more than an hour.😱😱 That means you got issues
Even better is playing video games keeps your brain active compared to watching TV and media
@@alessandro6885 not anymore
The people mad at him spending (apparently) all day being an EPIC gamer are also the same people complaining all day on social media, which is even more a waste of time by their logic.
The man just wanted to have him time
thank god Optimus is still alive. I was worried he was gone
After the President snuffing incident.
What are you talking about this content AI generated 💀💀💀💀 RIP Optimus
@@raptorbait2472 Even ai Optimus is smarter than the average chronically online assumer of random things
@@Destiny15 I wasn't there
As a married man and father. You can't have hobbies. The world wont let you. I work 65-90 (I work nights) hours a week take my kids to school every morning, take them to all their activities , do all the cooking and take care of my wife with helping around the house and giving her a massage everyday when she gets home. But the second I sit down to play a game, i get $h!t for it. It's just how it goes. And to be clear it's not from my wife she works hard to. The hate comes from her friends or randoms that find out I like playing games. I once streamed with a friend of mine and every comment was "why are you playing games? Go take care of your kids."
As a dad who also plays video games, my wife isn’t always with the kids. Yea I’m at work a lot, my job requires long hours and my wife is more than happy to let me take an hour or two for some video games, and I’m more than happy to watch the kids so she can go do her own thing too. Can’t believe these people are blowing this WAY out of proportion
Im late to the party but these people tend to always fail to notice the house people live in , like how else are they able to live in a home like that . And then seeing his set up for a gaming station is the least of everyones concern . That dude clearly got his priorties in place !
I dont like the way people are roasting this family thats low, but when I heard the words "no chains no riches" I laughed for like 2 minutes straight
God forbid me and or my old man wanna play our ps5s when we get home from work 💀💀
That's illegal
You can. He can't.
Not with an independent girlboss at home
@@godking5201 why?
Honestly the dad is a chill guy. Gamer parents are the best
ehhhhhh
Gamer parents can be chill ngl, they understand most of what their kids are talking about because they still game and have to keep up
And you better believe that the same people making these claims saying he's a bad dad would be at the women's defense if she was playing games and being borderline negligent towards the baby. These smoother than smooth brains and their double standards are so annoying.
Ironically when I got my ex pregnant that’s what her and her family told me, I needed to drop everything. Hobbies, dreams, and interests, to take care of my ex and child. I had to pay all the bills myself too. Her family hated me because I suggested we go 50/50 on the bills, because they are “traditional values” type of people. But she was allowed to have hobbies, go out, sleep over at random peoples houses, and leave me watching our kid.
Yeah their not traditional ONE BIT if they let her do stuff like that.
There are wham3n today saying they're traditional; what they really mean is you as the man have to be traditional and working for her needs 24/7 with no down time so she can relax and live like royalty, stress-free. They're really just F3h-min-ists
people who say theyre traditional arent really traditional and lastly Traditional people are dictated to the environment if times are rough you and your spouse will get together to figure it out thats traditional
back in the day man said I will provide and the woman was okay with that and vice versa cuz it was possible but now we live in times where its hard to provide and its up to a "traditional" woman to say its okay ill help provide whether man likes it or not, cuz traditional men and women is by nature not by society
You said ex, means you're divorced a long time ago?
Optimus feels like a mix of Upper Echelon and OMGitsBirdman. Most respectable commentary channels i could think of.
The internet clearly doesn’t know what a dead beat is.
The people giving this dad a hard time might be the same people who cheered the mother that set her grade school aged son's pokemon cards in fire.
Imagine having no other responsibilities at all that you are totally free to spend time ripping on a father just chilling playing video games.
growing up my dad played a lot of video games, it never had a bad influence on me, it just made me interested in video games. i mean if he had been playing 24/7 not spending time with his family or working it would’ve been bad but it’s just a hobby.
This is hella goofy! I’m telling you social media making problems out of thin air.
It is mostly people who find the littlest thing to complain or cause drama.
Social media got these younger people thinking that the only way to have a happy lifestyle is to always be seen going above and beyond in every single video that’s filmed
Everyday I am amazed we're still a species
“Species’
Nah. Wolves are species, were a evolutionary screwup
@@2049571 some of us are an absolute success
I am amazed we haven't destroyed ourselves already
Everyday I'm more surprised were still alive and moving after stuff like this occurs smh
@@GlowBerryPumpkin
Please excuse me while I rest because my sides have fallen off
Man only if they made seats for babies to sit at the table when the parents are eating
Many reason for her to be holding her baby, but you decided to be dumb and make this comment 🤦♂️🤦♂️
People really don't understand how fortunate they are to complain about this being poor fathership.
Better than having a child grow up in a house with no dad
I'd rather have no parents than neglectful ones. Speaking from experience.
@@mitleid_en
Who is neglectful in the video did you even watch the full video
@@SaintDonquixoteRose the father obviously
@@mitleid_en Watch the vid again, Kid
@@mitleid_enfacts
Yo, this isn't the real optimus. He died last video.
Sad thing is he seems like a good dad. I know my cousins and my cousins baby daddies be gaming 24/7 as their wives/gf’s do everything. Had my cousin even stay in his room to play MW the entire time at his daughters 6th birthday party. She kept asking for him and trynna open the door. Eventually my cousin made him come out to do the candles, can’t believe anyone would put up with that 🤦🏻♀️
Nah that’s wild
Keep in mind, this man is probably off work or has a day off, and he decided that he'll dedicate a few hours to playing and relaxing with video games. If men can't have hobbies, then good lord help us if all of us if men didn't commit sudoku. Huge props to the girl for defending her man, because ngl, I don't know how many would do the same.
Dude, he's just minding his own business having a HOBBY. Can people really not have hobbies anymore according to social media as a parent without being labeled as a "Bad parent"??????
Like it'd be one thing if there's EVIDENCE this man cares more about video games than his own family. But this particular tiktok only showed this man playing games for *less than a minutes or so*
That is NOT enough time to ictate if someone is a bad parent or not unless they REALLY did something terrible for real
People can have hobbies. MEN in relationships cannot, apparently.
*gasp!* Men having hobbies. The nerve!
They should capitalize on this. Every video have him in back playing. Then go out to a park and bam....a desk and him facing away from us with a TV gaming. Talk to local small restaurant owner for permission and record her and baby at table eating and there he is....in background.....with small TV at a different table gaming. They are grocery shopping.....his back is facing us and she's pulling a second cart with him in it as he is playing on laptop. Every scenario...run with it. Hahahaha. Baby doctor for check up.....there he is with his back to us and gaming. Genius.
People are acting like his baby got burned for touching a hot stove but he didn't notice because he was playing video games or something.
When playing games, you likely are:
- improving your eye-hand coordinate
- improving your reflexes
- bonding with friends
- enjoying an interactive story
- brain storming to solve puzzles
- challenging gods and whatever supernatural forces (Souls veterans rise!)
- etc.
And what do you get for being on tiktok?
- becoming cringey af
- shortening your attention span
fr tiktok is way worse for your brain than video games. you can create longterm goals that can take you weeks or months to complete but tiktok gives you instant dopamine. one of the reasons i dont use it a lot.
Glad to see the real, and totally not cloned Optimus back and making videos after exposing the government in that video a few days ago
We know the truth!
All the idiots jumping the dad's case are just chronically online.
They can't handle a man enjoying himself at all. We're always the bad guys in their eyes
I worked 14 hours yesterday, came home and built my 2 year old son a drum set even before taking a shower. My wife appreciates all I give and she will watch him so I can game for a couple hours this weekend. It’s all give and take
No mercy was given at 4:55 😂😂😂😂😂
Oh come on, she really thought she wasn't gonna get those kinds of responses from tik tok?
Props to the woman standing up for her man, god forbid a guy would want some time to himself playing a video game or anything. I wanna know what's is people's beef with gamers in general?
Nah, the way she just "defen" her ""husband""" sounded that she was forced to do this to avoid any assault
who tf "exposes" their husband in a weird way like that though!?
No one bringing up the fact that Optimus is a ghost?
My dad plays video games and he’s one of the most inspirational and strongest role models that I have. He fought in desert storm and created his own successful small business. He plays Destiny, OW, Borderlands, and Gran Turismo in his free time, when he’s not doing that he’s working, doing something with my wonderful mom, or exercising. I want to provide for my future family the way my father does for ours.
Saw the Walmart vest and name tag....
my condolences to her.
Walmart is probably the most stressful place I worked at.
TikTok assuming the dad is terrible for playing video games in the background reminds me of the story where a kid was having an online class, and his brother in the background who wasn't part of the class "shoots" a gun. Teacher notices this and notifies the district. Later it's confirmed it was a toy gun by police. Of course, just like TikTokers believing that the dad is a terrible person, the school believed that a toy gun being played with in the background was bad enough to suspend the kid, all because his brother was playing around (The brother was also suspended from his school). What a world we live in🤦♂🤦♂
That boy did not deserve to get suspended because his brother was pretending to shoot that toy gun like it was a real gun. Wow, I feel really bad for him!
@@marissawolff8491 Me too!
Last year I saw a Tweet of this guy that broke a world record. His record was how many days he stayed at Disneyland. I don't remember the exact number of days but it was very close to a decade. The internet being the internet was spamming over and over in the comments saying the guy looks like a pedophiles, keep him away from the kids there, etc. Some of them were jokes but a good chunk of them were just flat out stating he's a pedophiles for simply liking Disneyland. I don't know what causes people to look at a harmless tweet like that and immediately jump to the worst possibly assumption but I see it everywhere. Everyone since quarantine has just become a bitter and spiteful person for internet likes.
clearly
These people will actually harass him and call him a bad dad, completely ignoring that these same people probably spend half their life scrolling on UA-cam Shorts, or TikTok, some idiot celebrity’s Snapchat Story, or on Instagram. And of all the dads who play video games in this world, they attack this guy. No wonder people lose their minds these days.
It is called a Non-traversy.
Glad to see you survived the robbery. Thoughts and prayers 🙏
And people still wonder why I don't want the braindead Tik Tok
I have to imagine the wife I'm assuming was scrolling through comments and then reading freaking comments just tearing her hubby apart doing something he enjoys
My dad literally used to play video games with me and some of his childhood friends when he wasn’t busy and it was actually fun. Don’t ruin fun for others when it’s something actually nice. There’s nothing wrong having a good paying job, kids, a wife and being able to have fun with your friends in your free time.
Thank god you’re okay man, Biden folded
Dude just trying to play some Dead Island 2, he just started.
TikTok users: If you can’t find something to be mad at, just make it up.
Being single and never using tiktok or twatter is a blessing nowadays.
OPTIMIS YOURE ALIVE
She had to let bro cook, he was on L4D, can’t just hop out on a game like that😂
Average twitter moment
When my first kid was born, I made a rule that I will never play video games while they are awake unless I am playing with them or if they are out of the house and grandma's house or something. I still get to play a couple of hours a night and my kids are 11 and 9 now and we spend so much time together and have a great relationship. Mom started playing games with us now too so it's family time
the people calling him things like deadbeat don't know his work schedule. he could be working 10+ hours a day for 6 days a week. nothing wrong with having a hobby and taking a break from a chaotic day
My dad plays Black ops 4 Blackout literally every single day, sometimes for hours on end, and he still puts aside time for everyone around him WHILE running his own business, he’s the best dad I could ever ask for.
These are probably people who also complain about not being able to do what they want all the time as they get older and become an adult. They want everyone to be working but them.
I'm not paying attention to what the video is about.
I'm paying attention to the gameplay.
I want that map.
If the dad doesn't work and or provide for the family, then yeah it is understandable to grill the man. BUUUUT if the dad is a sole provider of the family (assuming the mom is a stay at home to take care of the baby) then it make sense that he should have time to himself and do what he wants to help him BREATHE. There is so many scenarios we can assume but the man has a hobby.
You clearly ignored the fact that the mother vouched for him and said he was a good dad. There's nothing to assume you dimwitted abuser so actuallt watch the video and stop being ignorant to the woman's opinion.
Yes thank you for bringing those points up.
Probably because this generation feels like their rewarded for having a victim mentality, and now it's a competition to see who is more oppressed.
Dude you killed me with “they don’t smoke gooder than me”😂😂😂 you’re awesome👍
Holy Optimus I’m so glad you were able to get out of Guantanamo bay after getting raided by bomb boy,the Cheeto and sleepy joe I thought you were a goner!!
this reminds me of a david goggins quote it goes something like "you will never meet a hater who is doing better than you"
Tiktok try not to be mad about anything challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)
I just realized why the heck did she even made the clip in the first place without even explaining what it supposed to be & she literally could have caused him his job & his life.
Imagine unironically using tik Tok
me and my girl was 13 when we met and now we are 18 are when i met her she was cool with me playing game then after 1 2 year she only wanted me to play when she was not around. Now when she saw my passion and how good of a hobby gaming is she too playes with me sometimes. a warzone duo with ur gf right beside you
aw man its the best
What? You mean dad's can't have fun in this world?
Dude my dad plays mario golf, mario kart and other classic games all the time
Though he also loves playing a good pinball machine at the arcades
When I'm his age I'll probably play lots of video games with my kids if I have any
It’s hilarious to me that the equivalent to playing games for people who don’t play games would probably be scrolling on their phone for hours or watching a show on a streaming service
Tiktok is wild when it comes to assumptions. They see a 10 second video, and they think they know EVERYTHING about you lol.
Also, people who are in parenthood have very extreme beliefs and thoughts that make me not even want to interact with them. 😬 It is very, very rare when you find chill moms.
They are projecting 😂
She filmed what her kid did. Sounds intentional. She wanted attention. She got it.
"All women evil"
what are you on abt mate
a yes she can see the future and predict what the baby is going to do and begin filming ahead of time
I'm a grown Man, married and have teenage kids. After working 8 to 12hrs each day I go home, do yard work, projects around the house, talk with the kids and help em out with whatever it is, have dinner or go out to eat with the wife, then couple hrs before bed I get on the ps4 and kick these rude kids butt's on GTA-Online. My Kid's sometimes log on and play in same session or watch.
I thought you died during United States government. We deserve better video yesterday.
It’s a clone
Ai voice
At this point I guess playing video games make you more of a deadbeat instead of drinking and taking drugs daily
That’s the best dad ever in my book
“They don’t smoke gooder than me.” Classic 😂
This is why i could care less if they ban tik tok
At this point I'm pretty sure half the world will throw a party.
I think some countries already banned it😂
Dining room gaming setup, peak performance.
I have a 4 year old daughter and she loves gaming with me. Currently playing Ninja Turtles
Turtles in Time?
8:12 this is kinda random but when she took a sip out of the Jack and the box cup made me want to get sum Jack in the box
This is getting out of hand
She knows what she doing, now is blowing up
yo wait your alive
Finally got my notifications fixed
as long as you don’t neglect your family and have a job, you can game as an adult
Seriously! Bills are paid, my child is safe, and I spend time with the family. Let it be, I just need some R&R once in a while 😂.
Hey at least he's a dad, most TikTok users won't even become a dad
Not everyone should anyway