These CHILD SUPPORT Rules will Surprise You!

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  • In this eye-opening video, we delve into the often-overlooked issue of how child support treats men in America. Join us as we unravel the harsh reality faced by countless fathers across the nation.
    We explore the complexities of the child support system, examining the biased practices and their impact on men. Through insightful interviews with affected individuals, legal experts, and professionals, we shed light on the untold stories of those subjected to its limitations.
    Discover the shocking anecdotes that present a comprehensive picture of the challenges men face within the American child support framework. Gain a deeper understanding of the financial, emotional, and societal burdens inflicted on fathers striving to fulfill their responsibilities.
    Our aim is to promote awareness and foster an open discussion on this critical issue. We invite you to join the conversation, share your experiences, and help create a fairer system for all parties involved.
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  • @tvs9978
    @tvs9978 9 місяців тому +8

    The lesson in this guys is be very, very careful who you spread your seed with. I watched my father waste his life away entrapped by a woman who knew how to use babies to keep a chain around his neck. Think, think, think. It's not just about laying down for pleasure. If you don't think a woman could potentially make a good mother, don't even think of sleeping with her for fun in case something happens. You owe your future children the gift of an organized, caring, forward-thinking mother

  • @rehaanamisir9987
    @rehaanamisir9987 9 місяців тому +3

    Even if the guy wasn’t perfect in the relationship first doesn’t mean he has to go trough all the hard ships. Men is really facing hard ships in USA

  • @muchit3629
    @muchit3629 9 місяців тому +2

    It is not just a lack of communication. It is simply disrespectful that she will take $1,200 monthly but have the audacity to block his phone. It really is a reminder that a few moments of fun can ruin your life. The only redeeming thing is he has a daughter he loves. Kudos to him. Mistakes happen.

    • @144k_Kingdom_Living
      @144k_Kingdom_Living 8 місяців тому +1

      The while system is created to create future generations of slaves. If you think people are not slaves, you are spiritually blind.

  • @BigBadKahuna1
    @BigBadKahuna1 10 місяців тому +5

    My situation is very similar to this brother, over &40k spent on lawyer fees & basically no time with my daughter.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  10 місяців тому +2

      That’s sad. It is a very unfair to many men. Hopefully it will change one day. Stay strong !

    • @steelelevenue127
      @steelelevenue127 9 місяців тому +4

      Same here. Story is almost identical to mine. My daughter is older now and it is only getting worse.

    • @kingbakaar3208
      @kingbakaar3208 9 місяців тому

      @@IvainTuresthanks, trying my best to stay strong 💪🏾

    • @kingbakaar3208
      @kingbakaar3208 9 місяців тому

      @@steelelevenue127you telling me, it seems it’s just getting worse

  • @skysimba8953
    @skysimba8953 9 місяців тому +1

    Great interview! Thanks for highlighting this issue.
    My story is a mirror image of this brother's. Unbelievable.
    I spent $20k total on lawyer fees. She took to me court the first time, despite the fact that I was giving her money weekly (what ended to be much more than what the child support order would eventually be). It was still a lot of money per month.
    The second time she took me back to court was 10 months after the first summons. This time I demanded that she too must have an attorney. She eventually did because the communication had totally broken down between her and my lawyer. So the court also demanded it. She ended up spending upwards of $10k out of pocket for her lawyer.
    The only good thing about having the lawyer on my end. I requested and my daughter's mom consented that there was to be no retro CS payments that I had made directly to her for 4 years. It was written in the final judgment.
    For the brother, hang in there. It is not easy. It will all come to pass.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks so much for watching and for the feedback. This is a terrible issue and I hope that one day things change.

  • @rehaanamisir9987
    @rehaanamisir9987 9 місяців тому

    Ivan I really wish I can gave that guy a hug and tell him how all his pain will go away 🙏❤️

  • @beatricebolger9824
    @beatricebolger9824 9 місяців тому +1

    Wow Ivan this was very educational. The boy child has been marginalized by handling demanding ridiculous child support funds. A child belongs to both parents. Responsibility should not be burdened to the men. This should be a shared responsibility, love from Philadephia Pennsylvania.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks so much for watching!

  • @rehaanamisir9987
    @rehaanamisir9987 9 місяців тому

    Omg Ivan my heart goes out to that guy the mother and the Judge has no hearth .I think you. Doing a great job putting out his story

  • @peggyjoseph3812
    @peggyjoseph3812 9 місяців тому +3

    Men you own your seed, protect yourself. Don't cry over spilled milk.

  • @JasonAndGina
    @JasonAndGina 10 місяців тому +2

    Excellent topic brother 🔥👍🏽

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  10 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for watching bro

  • @Videos-pi6qr
    @Videos-pi6qr 10 місяців тому +2

    Important topic!! Great questions!

  • @mikechin6452
    @mikechin6452 9 місяців тому +1

    Very interesting topic, Ivain. I definitely believe the child support funds are being used by the mother for other things. In the US, the mother will usually get custodial custody unless she's found unfit, which doesn't happen often. The support does have a percentage formula depending on the number of kids you have and the support does go up with cost of living adjustment. Great content. I enjoyed watching 👍👍👍.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому +1

      Thanks a lot for watching and always providing your feedback. Thanks !

  • @swagymom
    @swagymom 9 місяців тому

    Something needs to give . This is another problem that makes it difficult for us to succeed and prosper as a society and the child suffers the most!
    Until we learn how to communicate and treat each other with respect and dignity, we are actually messing up the few chances our children have to be our hope for tomorrow.
    “Children are our most valuable resource “

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      I agree! Thanks so much for watching!

  • @obinnauzochukwu384
    @obinnauzochukwu384 9 місяців тому

    Great video Ivan keep them coming. I really enjoy watching your videos.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for watching ! I appreciate you!

  • @darinbellecollections1197
    @darinbellecollections1197 9 місяців тому +1

    May i humbly inquire this thing called "messing around" is it slang or is that how relationships are described in America?

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      It just means hooking up

  • @JAB58
    @JAB58 9 місяців тому +2

    Fellows know who you are laying down with 😢

  • @smokehouse1369
    @smokehouse1369 8 місяців тому

    I think child support topics would be great content, not just in the States but the world.

  • @kingrastatv802
    @kingrastatv802 9 місяців тому

    Great Video really enjoyed keep em rolling definitely got me second guessing dealing with Women in the US 😅

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      Thanks so much for watching!

  • @steelelevenue127
    @steelelevenue127 9 місяців тому

    Title IV-D passed in 1975 incentivized courts to collect child support pay by reimbursement to the court 0.67 per dollar collected in child support.

  • @andrewgitau1843
    @andrewgitau1843 9 місяців тому +1

    I think California has no cap on child support. Probably, that's why she moved there. Now she awaits you to make more money, and then she will take you back to court and demand more. It's hard being a man. No wonder birth rates and marriages are declining.

  • @kingkhufu6304
    @kingkhufu6304 9 місяців тому

    Yea ever guys story… video needs to go viral

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      Thanks for watching bro!

  • @Homeground38
    @Homeground38 9 місяців тому

    Very unfair for this young bro, being penalized for looking out for his daughter future. Sad outcome is breakdown of families that replicates the cycle.

  • @hikidunm1582
    @hikidunm1582 9 місяців тому

    I can't get pass the recklessness of not strapping on in their intimate moments. He has confessed he didn't know her well enough. She's preggers & you both didn't sit down to draw up a plan of action on how you move on? You get a lawyer & no clauses on your consent if the child moves city, state or country? Who directed you to the lawyer?
    States have gone hard on child support cos for decades, a few men ruined it for the gender - they wouldn't pay child support & more.

  • @LolySapara
    @LolySapara 10 місяців тому +1

    Don't worry your daughter will come looking for you when she grows up try to be friendly with your daughter's mum so you can able to visit and see 🙈 her going to court we not solve any problems it will be complicate that is why its better to separate in a friendly way

  • @bobroberts2581
    @bobroberts2581 9 місяців тому

    Here tk see if any mention is made of cases like Shane Seyer or Nick Olivas from statutory CSA results in 12-15 year old boys having to pay child support to women aged 18-36.
    Look up “Justia San Luis Obispo V Nathanial J” of “Justia Shane Seyer.” Justia is a case law archive that has fairly comprehensive common speak descriptions of the cases that showed truly how far the system will go to protect mothers getting child support.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      Wow that’s insane. I’ll check it out for sure. Thanks so much for watching!

  • @octaviajapians4436
    @octaviajapians4436 9 місяців тому +1

    IF YOUR A MAN FROM USA, BETTER GO TO AFRICA, SOUTH AMERICA,OR ASIA AND GET YOURSELF A REAL WOMAN THAT WILL TREAT YOU LIKE A KING.

  • @rehaanamisir9987
    @rehaanamisir9987 9 місяців тому

    I think he deserves to get his daughter to lives with him sometimes off the year he wants a better life for his kid and the judge still couldn’t see that .Really the law is blind. Even I am a woman but I can’t believe other women doing so hard and mean

  • @davidm9908
    @davidm9908 10 місяців тому

    👍

  • @tvs9978
    @tvs9978 9 місяців тому +1

    Wait, she didnt have a kawyer and she still won? She must have been killer in court😂. Or his lawyer was rippijg him off he was the more stable parent with a stable home and job.

  • @NickTravels0
    @NickTravels0 9 місяців тому

    Child support is not suppose to be on your credit, there’s law that says so

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  9 місяців тому

      That’s interesting. Many men I spoke to still indicate that it is reported. Also, check out the article below.
      heathbakerlaw.com/will-unpaid-child-support-appear-on-my-credit-report/

  • @carysteele61
    @carysteele61 9 місяців тому +3

    So dude had unprotected sex with a person that he didn't know that well. SMDH ! I have no sympathy nor empathy .

  • @meenafree5931
    @meenafree5931 9 місяців тому

    Your friends needs to tune into Ms Faye’s World! What happens to the innocent children being born out of wedlock in Africa ie Cameroon! Having sex before marriage ‘hmmm we pay child support in charity donations!

  • @steelelevenue127
    @steelelevenue127 9 місяців тому +2

    Lawyers in general look more to get paid than for the good of the child.

  • @kentnormhr
    @kentnormhr 9 місяців тому +2

    With the laws against the men in general, Leave these western women alone. Get your passport fellas. 🖐

    • @144k_Kingdom_Living
      @144k_Kingdom_Living 8 місяців тому +1

      I was also a victim. Eventually I have to leave the United States altogether.

  • @meenafree5931
    @meenafree5931 9 місяців тому

    Bro please contact Dr Umar Johnson! Why didn’t you marry the mom?

    • @tvs9978
      @tvs9978 9 місяців тому

      Seems they were just hooking up. He said he'd known her for less than a year and he wasnt looking for any commitment when the lady fell pregnant

    • @meenafree5931
      @meenafree5931 9 місяців тому

      @@tvs9978 This is what I adore abt Islam ☪️ no hooking up before Marriages! The women are covered and respected!

  • @inyason2671
    @inyason2671 9 місяців тому +1

    That's America's way of controlling your population. They make it most difficult for you to move on with your life, talkless of having a family (another wife and children) again.

  • @youlikethesound
    @youlikethesound 8 місяців тому

    The wear a condom part was very immature, guys. You’re contradicting being a responsible dad. We don’t have to get into the details. If you wore the condom, you don’t have the same exact child. Come on, man. Those mentions messed this whole thing up.

    • @IvainTures
      @IvainTures  8 місяців тому

      No it didn’t. Wearing a condom is better than having children unexpectedly. In fact, it is the RESPONSIBLE thing to do. It doesn’t take away from the love he has for his child. What a narrow view you got there.. I’ll say it again WEAR A CONDOM!!!!