New Chapter After Monster Boyfriend Cleaning a Destroyed Life for Free 🙏

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  • Опубліковано 14 тра 2024
  • Hi I’m Aurikatariina and I deep clean my followers' homes for free! ❤️
    Today were are back in Sweden!! This is part two of helping niki. Last week we cleaned her kitchen and today we clean the rest of the home. We started from the hallway because there was so much trash that we couldn’t really walk around the apartment. But there was also a lot of rotten food surprises. And as you guys know I love everything rotten and moldy. The bedroom was probably the most filled with trash but it was amazing. I hope niki is happy with the transformation that we gave her home because now her home is so beautiful.
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    Summary:
    00:00 intro
    01:25 coming up
    01:48 collecting trashes from hallway
    02:36 collecting trashes from the closet
    03:12 Washing the hallway mirror
    03:32 Washing the hallway desk
    04:05 more trashes
    04:57 cleaning the carpet and floor
    06:06 collecting trashe from the bathroom
    06:33 Washing the sink
    07:22 Washing the toilet
    08:34 Washing the bathroom drawers
    10:15 Washing the shower
    11:26 collecting trashes from the bedroom
    12:22 making the bed
    13:10 Washing the nightstand
    13:43 Washing the floor
    14:09 Washing the dresser
    15:32 collecting trashes from the living room
    16:56 cleaning the couch
    17:37 Washing the table
    18:07 cleaning the carpet
    19:48 more trashes
    20:45 before and after pictures

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  • @tonyaclaxton4925
    @tonyaclaxton4925 7 місяців тому +241

    Nicki if you’re reading this….I too lost my husband to suicide at 31 yrs of age. He was abusive and a drug addict. I finally left him and he took his life. Leaving me to raise our 2 children and one being autistic. I got medical help and picked myself back up piece by piece. When you’re in the thick of it, it seem impossible to get through. Time is a healer just a slow one. It’s been almost 20 yrs since he passed and my life is much better. That day will always haunt me but I can cope with it today. Death was a friend to me. I’m able to live today and have a beautiful grand baby. A friend once told me “this to shall pass” and you know what Nicki……it has. I wish you a wonderful happy life. Tonya🌺

  • @lorenstribling6096
    @lorenstribling6096 8 місяців тому +2076

    How can anyone criticize you for not washing the windows? Just removing the garbage and cleaning the kitchen and bathroom make a world of difference.

    • @nancycosgrove4005
      @nancycosgrove4005 8 місяців тому +95

      And getting rid of the rotten, stinky food! Ugh

    • @sarah3796
      @sarah3796 8 місяців тому +59

      What a huge job she dose!!

    • @hellogawgous
      @hellogawgous 8 місяців тому +165

      Right. She does 99% of the cleaning and people will always find something to criticize 🙄🙄

    • @vielka503
      @vielka503 8 місяців тому +122

      And it's a FREE cleaning!

    • @georgielancaster1356
      @georgielancaster1356 8 місяців тому +72

      The great thing about Nikki, is as she has a great job, now she has a home that is able to be seen by anyone, without any upset, she can pay someone to come at least one day a week, to keep everything okay.
      This should be a happy outcome, ongoing.

  • @JenaEmerald
    @JenaEmerald 8 місяців тому +1302

    How can someone complain that you don’t do enough work for free? Especially when you recycle their cans and buy everybody new sheets and pillows as well as new food and free cleaning products?
    Thank you Auri, Sini, and scrub Daddy!

    • @esterbengoa6077
      @esterbengoa6077 8 місяців тому +138

      Those who cannot shine try to darken those who do. And Auri is a very, very bright light.

    • @vynidalopes251
      @vynidalopes251 8 місяців тому +19

      ⁠Totally agree!!!!

    • @DarkKittycat
      @DarkKittycat 8 місяців тому +10

      she could sell one of her luxury bags and pay for a window cleaner if she is really out of money

    • @momkatmax
      @momkatmax 8 місяців тому +18

      There are always some who want to suck joy out of things. And I have seen her dust walls and clean windows as needed. Take that, Trolls!

    • @Widdekuu91
      @Widdekuu91 8 місяців тому +26

      @@DarkKittycat It is not the people that she helps that complain.
      It is people online that complain.
      And she was not out of money, Aurii mentioned that, but she was ashamed to pay local help, because they'd know her.

  • @rachelcarey7478
    @rachelcarey7478 8 місяців тому +431

    Auri, it would be amazing if a mattress manufacturer would team up with you to provide clean and fresh mattresses for your free cleans. Keep cleaning and helping people!

    • @xXluluchanelXx
      @xXluluchanelXx 6 місяців тому +25

      if she is ever in Houston, the world famous Mattress Mack would be SO on board for donating mattresses to this kind of cause if it was explained to him. he is really smart about doing good charity and PR.

    • @Anna-te5qc
      @Anna-te5qc 2 місяці тому +1

      Its too much already what shes doing. Those people should do something too. It wasnt that hard to make own garbage, but cleaning it?! If they really want new fresh life, they will buy whatever they need

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 2 місяці тому

      A mattress company isn't just going to give away mattresses for nothing. Auri makes money from UA-cam doing this.

    • @sarahholland2600
      @sarahholland2600 2 місяці тому +2

      There are so many factory direct matress places these days. A new mattress isnt the big expense it used to be. ( Unless you want a branded orthapedic one).She's already saved them the massive fee a professional cleaning company would have charged .

    • @angelec
      @angelec Місяць тому

      They do it for PR. As do the sponsors. They all make money in increased sales. @@lillierose5304

  • @Ross99999
    @Ross99999 8 місяців тому +634

    While I thoroughly enjoy Auri’s cleaning and her many cleaning tips, what sets her apart is her deep compassion and understanding of the people she is helping. She is nonjudgmental about the problems the homeowner have, it is always the humaneness that keeps me subscribed and watching. Thank you, Auri.

    • @Jibbie49
      @Jibbie49 8 місяців тому +26

      In an early video she explained how she had depression from age 18 to 24 and then she took a job as a cleaner for a large company and found it to be like therapy for her, so that is the reason she understands these people and also, how cleaning helps her.

    • @amberallen4181
      @amberallen4181 8 місяців тому +11

      Yes Auri is such a sweet person and has so much compassion.❤

    • @charissecrenshaw1577
      @charissecrenshaw1577 8 місяців тому +13

      This is what keeps me coming back as well. It’s like therapy for me to hear her empathy.

    • @lazzatalixan
      @lazzatalixan 8 місяців тому +1

      @@Jibbie49 ж

  • @DVD927
    @DVD927 8 місяців тому +1021

    Nikki is going to be ok, because she asked for help. And she will probably “pay it forward,” helping someone else going through a similar situation. I believe in her.

    • @Coffeecup.0110
      @Coffeecup.0110 8 місяців тому +27

      I too believe in her! ❤️🌎☮️💪

    • @marshabrubaker185
      @marshabrubaker185 8 місяців тому +25

      Incredible transformation. I hope it's the new beginning that Nikki deserves.

    • @KatrenaS
      @KatrenaS 8 місяців тому +11

      Absolutely

    • @aydanmamunlu4122
      @aydanmamunlu4122 7 місяців тому +2

      We all do

  • @raivynmoon
    @raivynmoon 8 місяців тому +163

    Sometimes having money to pay for a cleaning service isn’t enough since the shame that comes with mental health issues makes it terrifying to ask for help, so it makes sense to ask someone who they can trust and feel like they won’t be shamed by. Nicki and everyone else in this situation deserve help from someone like Auri, and I wish everyone could get it regardless of their financial situation ♥️

  • @bridgwll
    @bridgwll 8 місяців тому +149

    To the people that want the walls & windows cleaned. You go & do it. The man part is to declutter & tidy up. What Auri does makes such a difference.

    • @ezekielc604
      @ezekielc604 5 місяців тому +6

      yes, it's easy for ther to say it's not enough when they are just watching from their screen, but wait until they actually try cleaning that

    • @user-rx3pt4tv8d
      @user-rx3pt4tv8d 5 місяців тому +3

      yes, I'm pretty sure they don't have the guts to clean homes like these.

  • @questionmark9819
    @questionmark9819 8 місяців тому +161

    Omg are people really complaining that you're not cleaning windows in a major clean up operation that you're doing for free, i mean seriously?! Priorities, people!!

    • @AutisMinasClearingClutter
      @AutisMinasClearingClutter 8 місяців тому +19

      Yep, how often I see people commenting on why she didn't do the windows, didn't remove the fridge to clean behind it, or even why she didn't buy so and so for the person 🙈

    • @animeangel1983
      @animeangel1983 8 місяців тому +10

      It's never enough, for some who constantly do that it's all or nothing. I watch Chinese house cleaners who do all that but then again they work in teams of five or six so a lot more gets done with more hands on it. And they have a supervisor come through after to evaluate their work and sterilize the environment with a UV blue light mister.

    • @questionmark9819
      @questionmark9819 8 місяців тому +11

      @@animeangel1983 yes, I watched those videos too and you're right, they work in a huge team of people and they're paid but Auri is one person, I mean I think it's more important to have a hygienic kitchen or bathroom rather than a clean window or clean underneath a fridge, if I were to choose.

    • @questionmark9819
      @questionmark9819 8 місяців тому +5

      @@AutisMinasClearingClutter that is just a bit of liberty, tbh i mean it's lovely if she were to buy something but that's just a really sweet gesture and absolutely she should not be expected to do this. The audacity.

    • @animeangel1983
      @animeangel1983 8 місяців тому +3

      @@questionmark9819 It is. A clean kitchen and bathroom is more important than a completely spotless house/apartment.

  • @HannaOsk96
    @HannaOsk96 8 місяців тому +47

    Often when people experience trauma, their bodies are constantly on high alert, using up a lot of energy just to get through the day.
    Then, when they get out of the traumatic situation, it's common to feel very exhausted for a long time, because the body is worn out and no longer in survival mode.
    If you have any friends who have gotten out of abusive relationships, it might be a good idea to check up on them afterwards and help them out with chores if you can.

    • @VeganLiving247
      @VeganLiving247 6 місяців тому +3

      That’s a very thoughtful suggestion. 💜

  • @childofshadow38
    @childofshadow38 8 місяців тому +402

    I love her channel so much, I learned so much from her physically and mentally.
    I suffer from severe depression and constantly lose a purpose to live each day, 7 years of r@pe by a pedo did SO much damage to me mentally and physically. I lost so much of my spark and happiness. Whenever I watch her videos I feel happy, I feel good, i feel like I’m accepted for who I am as a person, in a way I feel like she’s my guardian angel who cheers me on to clean, I feel motivated to clean. Then I clean, even if it’s little, that little cleaning turns to deep cleaning and I feel INCREDIBLE. I fall into such a deep sleep where I don’t need to wake up and be afraid, I feel refreshed and recharged. Even if it’s temporary, it goes a long way. I adore this woman so much and hope one day I get to help clean houses for those who are struggling just like me, I don’t want them to think they’re alone.
    Because of her, she’s the reason why I find the energy to clean

    • @NicoleEivissa
      @NicoleEivissa 8 місяців тому +33

      I’m proud of you!! Keep going, mini step after another mini step, they all counts🩵

    • @Christina.N.
      @Christina.N. 8 місяців тому +10

      There’s been relatively new research that depression is linked to the gut microbiome and problems/ imbalances with it. I’m wondering if you’ve ever heard of this? Of course I’m not suggesting you stop your current regimes, but trying to eat good portions of fermented food and/ or taking probiotics might help you. I’ve never had severe depression but I know what it’s like to suffer with mental health. Take a look into the microbiome and depression if you can. Wishing you the best 😊

    • @littlebumgorf
      @littlebumgorf 8 місяців тому +5

      I feel the exact same way…

    • @appleandboo
      @appleandboo 8 місяців тому +5

      Keep going!❤

    • @F.uckyou69_7
      @F.uckyou69_7 8 місяців тому +5

      Keep going❤ I hope you'll be doing better!

  • @Lilazn216
    @Lilazn216 8 місяців тому +191

    You can be surrounded by people but still be alone. Social Media is a tool where we can project the perfect life, relationship but it's only a snippet. Nicki is a survivor and she's spent so long surviving. I love this restart that you've given her.

  • @rejectgirl1
    @rejectgirl1 8 місяців тому +202

    I grew up in a very toxic and abusive home, and I'll be the first to admit that the stress from traumatic events rarely hits you while you're in survival mode. You can't afford to show weakness around someone that will take advantage of it and exert their power over you, so once you leave or escape that situation, it can hit you like a tonne of bricks. Sometimes my home gets cluttered or messy (no where near this level), and that's when I know that I'm struggling with something inside, and the mess I feel in my mind leaks out into the physical home. It's very hard to feel like you're making any progress overcoming the trauma of abuse when your home is a wreck. Auri, you're truly an angel helping all these people. You're one of the only content creators that I truly believe to be 100% genuine and a really good person. I hope you get to clean for the rest of your days

    • @Desert-Dweller
      @Desert-Dweller 8 місяців тому +24

      I love how you said the mess in your mind leaks out into your home. It's so true, this helped me see things in a different way. 🤗

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 8 місяців тому +28

      You're also severely burnt out from just surviving.
      Sometimes just getting up, getting cleaned, and feeding and watering yourself takes EVERYTHING.
      Trauma is no joke.

    • @momkatmax
      @momkatmax 8 місяців тому +6

      ❤ to you!

    • @swiinka
      @swiinka 8 місяців тому +12

      I came here to say the exact same thing: the depression comes *after* the trauma-inducing situation ends. While it pertains your high adrenaline level is keeping you upright, once things calm down, the tension that was keeping you going is disappearing and you have no energy left.

    • @sapphirerain70
      @sapphirerain70 8 місяців тому +5

      My problem isn’t my house ,it’s my room! It’s always everything else needs done first! When it’s time for bed I’m out, but like you I feel deep down my room represents my mind set. Maybe that’s why I dream of tornadoes lol

  • @laradrechsler1966
    @laradrechsler1966 8 місяців тому +89

    Hey Auri! I´m normally not that type of person that writes comments but I wantet to thank you. A year ago i struggled very much with cleaning my own apartment because of my mental health. I moved out from my parents home and lived the first time without them. At home I didn´t really learn how to clean because my mum did everything. Your videos helped me a lot with cleaning and now most of the time I enjoy it. You don´t just help the people from your videos, you also help your community. You are such a wonderful person. Thank you for what you are doing. xoxo Lara

  • @kariegeiger6655
    @kariegeiger6655 8 місяців тому +170

    This is one of the most nicely appointed homes you've cleaned. You've given your client a clean new slate, which I hope gives her the fresh start she needs.

    • @jenniferm.4412
      @jenniferm.4412 8 місяців тому +29

      Yes, you can tell the homeowner really cares about her home and surrounding herself with lovely things. She just had a really hard time and needed a little help to start fresh. Auri gave her a new start on life.

  • @annawallis1528
    @annawallis1528 8 місяців тому +96

    I have a theory about why people struggle to keep up with housework after a violent relationship- when you leave a highly controlled environment, that control and structure is no longer there, and suddenly the person is expected to create their own structure and routine which they are not used to. I struggled massively with my housework after leaving a domestic violence relationship- what helped me was establishing a routine and doing a small amount of cleaning every day. But it is hard when you are traumatised and have no self-esteem to pick yourself up and realise you are worthy of a good life and clean house.

  • @andersdottir1111
    @andersdottir1111 8 місяців тому +70

    I recently helped my messy son clean his house- it was almost as bad as this one.
    I filled his 2 bins then stacked about 50 large garbage bags on the back porch.
    He is actually getting rid of 1 bag a week.
    His father lived the same way but he was mostly with me and I am clean, tidy and organised.
    Anyway my point is- he is recognising that the rubbish needs to go; sometimes people just need help at the start to get them moving.

  • @My.mamallama
    @My.mamallama 8 місяців тому +21

    Thank you, Auri❤
    My dad was a hoarder. He died a month ago😢
    But now I have to clean up his house, and your videos help me go through the cleaning so much

    • @hushhush85
      @hushhush85 Місяць тому

      I'm so sorry for your loss. And I wish you all the best, power and support during this tough task.

  • @melvinglick9446
    @melvinglick9446 8 місяців тому +55

    I’ve cleaned houses like this for friends and family..drug and alcohol ,finally in remission,long term cancer and death in family..all kinds of struggles..I love that you plow through with no judgement..

  • @patriciaoestreich3750
    @patriciaoestreich3750 8 місяців тому +30

    I still don't get it, why so many people are saying, Auri stages everything. How does that work? Does she go up to random people and be like, "Hey, can I ruin your place for a couple years to build up dirt and stuff. You have to live in there though. I will fix it somewhen in the future!"???

    • @hepapu
      @hepapu 8 місяців тому +7

      Yeah! They are those "smart" people, not the sheeps who believe everything. I'm Finnish and solely procuring those cans would be infeasible in Finland due to the deposit system that we have. It would just be to expensive to buy all those cans and empty them. Beer and other soft drinks are quite pricy here. And of course every other thing that just is crazy to think that you can stage.

  • @gilliannerogers1527
    @gilliannerogers1527 8 місяців тому +32

    Wow. This video really hit differently today. It just goes to show that from the outside someone can be portraying the lifestyle that everyone thinks they want and deep down they are hiding so much pain. Thank you Auri for telling Nikkis story with such compassion and trying to help us understand what your clients go through. Money or no money people can still be hurt and damaged. I hope that Nikkis illness is somewhat manageable for her and she is able to enjoy her new clean home and find some peace. 💞

  • @pandaloves17
    @pandaloves17 8 місяців тому +19

    Nikki has a beautiful home. She is the same age as me. I pray she continues to ask for help when needed. My best friend and I go over to each others homes just to help each other clean our own homes lol. We struggle sometimes by ourselves as adhd and depression are hard on both of us. Keep strong Nikki if you do see this video and messages!

  • @KouriBlkasm
    @KouriBlkasm 8 місяців тому +166

    Finally, I am not the only one who loves deep cleaning. Thank you for making me feel that I am not the only one like this ❤

    • @pamboone6921
      @pamboone6921 8 місяців тому +15

      I’m One of those deep cleaners also, I feel like there’s no reason to clean at all unless it’s deep cleaned 🤷‍♀️. Works for me. Lol

    • @KouriBlkasm
      @KouriBlkasm 8 місяців тому +3

      @@pamboone6921 me too 😂💗

    • @guldestesahin7728
      @guldestesahin7728 8 місяців тому +1

      Turkcesini izlemek istoyorum😢

    • @janicesosh8643
      @janicesosh8643 8 місяців тому +1

      Me too!

    • @eaglewings8206
      @eaglewings8206 8 місяців тому +3

      I do deep cleaning and organizing for my friends who need help, and it is so satisfying.

  • @Altarior
    @Altarior 8 місяців тому +27

    I will never understand how people can complain about you not cleaning more, especially when it's all for free. This is A LOT of hard work and you're an amazing human being!

  • @westernwagal9493
    @westernwagal9493 5 місяців тому +6

    I completely feel for this woman. My life has had a ton of trauma and then in 2020, I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis when I was 27 or 28. It has been soooo hard for me to keep my apartment clean. Thankfully, my MS is mild right now so I have some energy and I have been doing a lot better with keeping it up.

  • @biblio_nosleep
    @biblio_nosleep 4 місяці тому +5

    I struggle with keeping my spaces organized and I’ve harbored a lot of shame for most of my life. Hearing the way you talk about the messes you clean and the people you help is more healing than any therapy I’ve ever had for this (although it’s not as bad these days). Don’t ever stop. I’ll be using these videos as my body-double for cleaning in the future which is also something invaluable to me. Thank you.

  • @kathleenbrown1395
    @kathleenbrown1395 8 місяців тому +39

    Auri, you clean like 99.99999% of a totally trashed home. It is pathetic how people complain that you don't clean absolutely everything. How dare you not wipe smudges off the wall! It's just ridiculous! You do it all for free, and you leave a few personal things and sometimes garbage for them to get rid of.
    You keep doing you and ignore the jealous ignorance. ❤

    • @mathildewesendonck7225
      @mathildewesendonck7225 5 місяців тому +1

      So true!! Especially since she said she flew to Sweden, maybe she just ran out of time because she had a flight to catch. You are right, it’s so ridiculous to criticize Auri for not doing everything

  • @TheNinnyfee
    @TheNinnyfee 8 місяців тому +5

    There's an important saying "You survived the abuse, you are going to survive the recovery."
    Violent partners or parents also often shame their victims for not keeping perfect order, that can backfire. And if she is chronically ill and was abused she may have adrenal fatigue on top. The disorder translates to, "My home is not safe."
    Poor Nikki, I get how her Instagram became her comfort. ❤❤❤😢😢😢

  • @fil0sofia
    @fil0sofia 6 місяців тому +3

    This story made me cry. I know how hard it can be to take care of yourself and your home when you're chronically ill, and how your life gets turned upside down when you get a diagnosis like that. I just did my dishes that had been piling up for a few days because I had a crappy episode and a cold. It happens so fast when you're thinking "I'll do that tomorrow" every day.
    Thank you for helping people!

  • @curlyk2425
    @curlyk2425 8 місяців тому +23

    No one should say anything negative about what you do. You turned her home from "trash to treasure", and it's clean enough to hire a cleaning service who is paid to do windows and walls and all the stuff you don't have time for. Love your videos.

  • @ktrayn78
    @ktrayn78 8 місяців тому +16

    Auri, I dont know if you guys do this in Europe, but in the US sometimes we do a sage smudge or burn palo santo in a home where there has been sadness and tragedy. Even if the benefits are just attributable to the placebo effect, it really does make a difference in the perceived atmosphere of the home. Watching this video, I really wish I could send Nikki a bottle of sage water to mist around to mark the beginning of a new relationship with her home! Thank you for what you have done for her!

    • @SIC647
      @SIC647 8 місяців тому +4

      Isn't that native American? We aren't.
      The equivalent would probably be to place offerings to the vættir (spirits) or the tomte/nisse (house spirits). But people don't really do that anymore, other than sometimes symbolically at Yul.

    • @ktrayn78
      @ktrayn78 8 місяців тому +8

      @@SIC647 Yes, the indigenous people of Peru discovered the benefits of Palo Santo and it was the native people of the western US who used Sage ceremonially. My grandmother was Cherokee, but I believe anyone can learn from the indigenous peoples of the world, who have retained wisdom about nature and spirituality that Westerners have forgotten. 😊💕

    • @SpecsMcGee
      @SpecsMcGee 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@SIC647maybe that's why Auri often leaves a little plant? For the house spirits 😊

    • @Stopthisrightnow560
      @Stopthisrightnow560 8 місяців тому +3

      This is a really beautiful sentiment. 🩷

    • @SIC647
      @SIC647 8 місяців тому

      @ktrayn78 That Westerner have forgotten about? You must mean USAmericans.
      Because by your definition, we Nordics are both Indigenous and Western. We didn't lose our original, prehistoric culture, but we also were winners in that awful "game" of who gets to keep their own lands, and rule themselves.

  • @momkatmax
    @momkatmax 8 місяців тому +22

    As someone who has fibromyalgia, I understand the wait until tomorrow to do the dishes and such. My husband is supportive and a darling, but I have felt guilt because I berate myself for being "lazy". She has had a tragic situation of an abusive man who built his ego on her pain. Asking for your help is a wonderful step. I hope she is getting counseling too. Interesting, my husband worked with women escaping abusive men, often he was the first man they could trust.

  • @carolynwatkins4058
    @carolynwatkins4058 8 місяців тому +48

    I've never had a serious cleaning problem like this but I know how debilitating depression and sickness can be. Thank you for helping this girl, I hope it helps her. Before I found your videos I never heard.of Scrub daddy products, but they are now my favorites! I'm in the US so we don't have Sink products....yet! Thanks for making me love to clean!

  • @lisachaput2952
    @lisachaput2952 8 місяців тому +30

    The body picks up sadness and grief and stores them in our heart/ lungs, etc. We hear of people dying of a broken heart, but maybe the situation with Nikki's husband was so shocking to her, it helped facilitate this illness. My Mom got really sick when she divorced my Dad for 4 years and they thought she had cancer, but when my Mom's Outlook on life improved, so did her illness. She is still enjoying life now, 40 years later! So, I hope Nikki also is that way. Fixing her home and getting her life back in track helps her health as well!❤

  • @denisadellinger4543
    @denisadellinger4543 8 місяців тому +13

    This is such a beautiful home. All she needed was a helping hand. When you don't feel good, it's hard to keep things clean. And the more you bring into the house, the worse it gets. every little thing on a table ends up on the floor. I can track bits of paper into other parts of the house on my shoes. So I know how it can get. Nikki was very blessed to get you to come and help her.

  • @sarahluczyk2262
    @sarahluczyk2262 8 місяців тому +15

    Imagine the loss this woman experienced right before a global pandemic. So much love to her 💜

  • @violentcat345
    @violentcat345 8 місяців тому +64

    It doesn't matter if Nikki is wealthy or not, she needed help and you and your lovely team helped her! I hope she is able to pick up where you left off and reclaim her home.

  • @lorettacampbell7261
    @lorettacampbell7261 8 місяців тому +17

    You don't have to defend yourself. You do an incredible job....every single time. Be proud of what you do. ..every single time.

  • @labbrockington7854
    @labbrockington7854 8 місяців тому +3

    Auri, thank you for helping make Nikki life a little better.
    I don't always wash my own windows.
    I know that dealing with the passing of my husband a month ago, I've lost interest in keeping my home clean. If I get the dishes done and the litter boxes clean in a day, then I'm doing good.
    God bless you, Auri, and your team of workers.🧡🦋

  • @Sotweetie
    @Sotweetie 8 місяців тому +39

    What a nice home and beautiful decor that was lost under all of the trash! Lovely transformation.

  • @vanessap7393
    @vanessap7393 8 місяців тому +28

    Nikki’s home is beautiful and I’m so glad she can finally experience that. Good job to the cleaners ❤. People like Auri, Barbie and others make me wish I could help somebody by cleaning their apartment and giving a fresh start.

  • @ezekielc604
    @ezekielc604 5 місяців тому +2

    The decluttering and cleaning work you do *for free* is way more than enough. Some paid workers would refuse to do that (I'm not judging them). So you don't have to justify yourself to people who are just sat, watching you behind a screen. Plus the tenants would more likely want to go though their own stuff and organize by themselves since it's their personnal possessions.
    You're already making a huge difference and are well documented about mental health and other factors that might interfere with people's ability to take care of their environment. I want to thank you for this. I also see homes in really bad conditions in my internship (as a social worker). And if we don't do the cleaning ourselves, we try to offer to call some specialised services to help the person.

  • @user-rx3pt4tv8d
    @user-rx3pt4tv8d 5 місяців тому +8

    The before and after pics are stunning! You are totally changing lives!

  • @magalimertens7601
    @magalimertens7601 8 місяців тому +48

    I hope Nikki will hire somebody to clean her house every week

  • @LeoInAMillion
    @LeoInAMillion 8 місяців тому +34

    PTSD is real, I hope this girl gets the help she needs and heals xx

  • @Sailor_Samara
    @Sailor_Samara 8 місяців тому +10

    Wow! She really has a lovely apartment. I hope this gives the owner some peace of mind to restart their life. You and your team, did an amazing job!

  • @emilyw530
    @emilyw530 8 місяців тому +6

    As someone with bipolar 2 and depression, God bless you for what you do

  • @Aquaghost302
    @Aquaghost302 8 місяців тому +6

    Not only are they letting strangers into their home to help, they're letting all of us in to see it as well. Every one of them is afraid of others seeing the mess, but that's exactly what happens here. They're all so brave!

  • @hollmersydney
    @hollmersydney 3 місяці тому

    It makes me so sad when people comment that you could do more. I struggled with severe post partum depression and even then my home was not to this magnitude. But I fully and deeply understand how health problems, addiction, mental health trouble, all of the things that life can dump on you and can really affect one's ability to keep up a home. You are such a blessing and give people a beautiful new start. Sometimes that's all it takes ❤

  • @LokiSherry
    @LokiSherry 5 місяців тому +2

    "I don't know if it helped, but she at least tried " ❤❤❤ I love your compassion and perception

  • @BlackPearlMinistries
    @BlackPearlMinistries 8 місяців тому +25

    I love how you put a positive spin on all of it and truly care about their well-being. ❤

  • @cc.s3850
    @cc.s3850 8 місяців тому +6

    Hello Auri and your friends! You did a wonderful work! Nikki will have a new start with her home cleaned. I wish her all the best in her life. Depression and anxiety expressed differently in people. I suffered deep depression and OCD I started to clean for 10 to 15 hours a day! I was unemployed which upset me so much! Even when i found a tiny bit of dust, i started to clean the whole apartment again! I was so crazy that i cleaned the kitchen and the bathroom floors with a tooth brush and iron everything and even steamed cleaning towels! I was totally crazy.
    My family, friends and professional help got me out of that situation.
    Best regards chrissy

  • @garnettilalexandrosxvii
    @garnettilalexandrosxvii 8 місяців тому +10

    I’m so sorry for all you’ve had to endure, Nikki 😢 I wish you health and happiness. Another amazing clean Auri!!❤

  • @razbitom
    @razbitom 8 місяців тому +29

    oh, auri... your heart is so big and your cleaning is SO satisfying!

  • @Floppyearsmomma
    @Floppyearsmomma 8 місяців тому +3

    Auri, this is definitely the most beautiful home you have cleaned. I hope she can work through her trauma, and finds mental wellness.

  • @rebeccalohnes4016
    @rebeccalohnes4016 8 місяців тому +15

    Now that everything is cleaned up maybe Nikki can hire someone to come in once a week to help her keep up with the more difficult cleaning.

  • @MSHoneybee210
    @MSHoneybee210 8 місяців тому +2

    When she read that the woman said she didn’t want to be here anymore because of this 😢. I hope she feels like a classy elegant lady now that can do anything.

  • @spinningplates4000
    @spinningplates4000 6 місяців тому +4

    9:46 thank you for your videos! I know how hard it can be to take care of your home with mental illness. But your videos have helped me immensely! I do one room at a time using your tips and my home is much easier to clean. Plus my attitude towards cleaning has changed just watching how much fun you have! Bless you! You are doing Gods work!

  • @mell11.
    @mell11. 8 місяців тому +4

    Auri you are such an amazing person❤ the fact that you are putting all that time and energy to help a person in need is amazing. You really deserve all the praise. Before i found your channel i didn't knew the connection between cleaning and mental health. But when i was depressed i did understand how hard it is to do the smallest things. Thank you for helping them and being compassionate. I love you and your channel girl💗🌸

  • @cintalopez-teijeiro5683
    @cintalopez-teijeiro5683 8 місяців тому +44

    Best wishes for Nikki sure this helps and gives her huge relief! ❤

  • @mathildewesendonck7225
    @mathildewesendonck7225 5 місяців тому +1

    This is wonderful, Auri! If I were Nikki, this would give me so much hope. It would be great if the people you helped immediately reached out for some cleaning help to come once a week. They could invite them over when the apartment is still clean and beautiful after you left, to avoid getting into the same circle again.
    Good luck everyone out there ❤

  • @anadoripanther3196
    @anadoripanther3196 5 місяців тому +1

    I wonder if the reason people often spiral after leaving abusive relationships is that their contant fight or flight is disengaged and they find themselves inert and exhausted after being on edge for so long in the relationship. Thank you Auri for all you do and giving people a chance at a fresh start 💖 World's best cleaner

  • @rachellpaula3859
    @rachellpaula3859 8 місяців тому +22

    Seu trabalho é uma ajuda humanitária. Você devolve a dignidade às pessoas e a possibilidade de reconstrução psíquica. Trabalho irretocável! Aprendo muito! Gratidão!

    • @yasmimS14
      @yasmimS14 8 місяців тому +2

      Que milagre achei um brasileiro pelos comentários deste canal! Kkkkkkkk

  • @elianeduarteleivas9191
    @elianeduarteleivas9191 8 місяців тому +13

    God bless the work you do for people in need
    Wilmington-NC🇺🇸

  • @BeeElle-rt8qf
    @BeeElle-rt8qf 8 місяців тому +1

    (Trying again to leave a comment. It said it saved. Am not sure.) Thank you for helping others reclaim their lives and their dignity. It's important. Have done the same for others. Your helps people to be able to be functional as a human being again. Your compassion is very healing and it will heal their entire life. Thank you.

  • @sallyadams3981
    @sallyadams3981 6 місяців тому +2

    You are a truly compassionate and loving person. Your kindness and non judgemental personality is what makes this channel so special. It cannot be easy to clean up layers of ancient filth and rubbish. Please remember you are one of this worlds angels. Much love Sally xxxxx

  • @crystalconnors2607
    @crystalconnors2607 8 місяців тому +3

    Auri I completely understand you. I understand that you do what you can and you travel great distances to help ppl for free. I used to live in a very messy place and always felt ashamed to ask for help. I was always thankful when I was able to pay for someone to help me clean. I am still messy and there is clutter but it was not as bad as it used to be. Thank you for your kind heart, hard work and so much more. You are one of 4 youtubers that I rely on for cleaning motivation. If you ever find yourself in British Columbia, Canada, I know of many ppl that could use your help!

  • @EdnaAdvincula
    @EdnaAdvincula 8 місяців тому +3

    Why bashers !has to question your cleaning ,my gosh

  • @pattygrigsby2132
    @pattygrigsby2132 3 місяці тому

    I loved when you said you don’t care if it gets dirty again. You are so kind and understanding of the people you help. One of the hardest things that I have had happen was paying a family member to help me clean, I have a hard time with keeping things clean for a lot of reasons, and having that person say if I come over again and it’s messy again I’m going to kill you. Said in jest, but so hurtful. I never wanted to let them come again. I paid for their help, but they mocked me, such a hurtful experience. So many hurtful family memories revolve around clutter and cleaning, I just love seeing your patience and kindness.

  • @JuliaRomeoLove
    @JuliaRomeoLove 8 місяців тому +9

    You are the sweetest person in the hole universe ❤❤❤

  • @Sici3
    @Sici3 8 місяців тому +37

    Thank you so much for your hard work Auri! ❤

  • @socalsal627
    @socalsal627 8 місяців тому +8

    What a beautiful home that Nikki can now take pride in. I hope it gives her that boost of motivation and when it isn't overwhelming it is easier to just commit to 15 minutes at least of picking up and cleaning per day.

    • @amacauley8000
      @amacauley8000 8 місяців тому

      I try to pick one room daily to focus on , dusting, picking up items that happen to end up on the dressers, etc. the rest get a quick going over. It’s never really messy or dirty, things have been neglected lately due to decline in my husbands health ❤

  • @debbiebowles7001
    @debbiebowles7001 8 місяців тому +1

    In the USA, our mattresses are so thick. Sometimes we lay memory foam toppers on them that looks like what you refer to as the mattress. We use fitted sheets over the mattress and the topper. Interesting to see how other parts of the globe do things. I love the bathrooms that can be rinsed down with the shower sprayer! We have a separated washer and dryer to clean clothes. In USA they are in a small laundry room or closet, not in bathroom. In Sweden your homes are very useful spaces! Fun to see it all transform into beautiful, healing space! ❤

  • @findingkelly
    @findingkelly 8 місяців тому +6

    Thank you. These videos are like a weekly treat/therapy. Also, please ask SINI to sell their products in the USA.

  • @ichigood5453
    @ichigood5453 8 місяців тому +3

    it surprises me with all these people that they don't get physically ill more, from all the germs, i think you are a fantastic person to do all these, with no judgement on the people, i wish there were more people like you in the world

  • @bobbishuemaker7973
    @bobbishuemaker7973 8 місяців тому +7

    Poor girl. I hope she feels better. Amazing job!!

  • @TheNinnyfee
    @TheNinnyfee 8 місяців тому +2

    You are wearing a mask. ❤ Thank you for protecting yourself! We love and need you as our cheerleader, and Nikki does as well. ❤❤❤
    Thank you, Sini Cleaning!
    Shopping doesn't help that much, but it's something to hold onto when people aren't available for a reason.

  • @elsac.972
    @elsac.972 8 місяців тому +62

    do you know if sini cleaning will ever be available in the US? I want to try their products so badly because of you 🥺

    • @ninjasipad7924
      @ninjasipad7924 8 місяців тому +15

      Me too! I emailed them and they are working on expanding their products internationally ❤

    • @elsac.972
      @elsac.972 8 місяців тому +7

      @@ninjasipad7924 omg yay!! so glad to hear that :)

    • @wot4me2
      @wot4me2 8 місяців тому +17

      It will be great to support a company that not only has great products, but especially great values!

    • @ninjasipad7924
      @ninjasipad7924 8 місяців тому +5

      @@wot4me2 I agree!

    • @maire1889
      @maire1889 8 місяців тому +3

      ​@@ninjasipad7924 Thank you so much for reaching out to them love their products especially the scraper

  • @tashnik
    @tashnik 8 місяців тому +2

    You did a great job Auri..Nikki's home is beautiful..I only hope that she can get someone to come in once or twice a week to help her keep it clean..

  • @angelahayden4324
    @angelahayden4324 8 місяців тому +22

    What a beautiful apartment! This was an awesome transformation!

  • @HoaxIndustry
    @HoaxIndustry 3 місяці тому

    Wow this apartment is gorgeous! If Nikki happens to be reading this, I have to say that I love her taste in furnishings! I hope she kept up with the whole 'starting over' thing... I totally get it. I'm in the midst of it myself. Best wishes to her.

  • @saroneaimah8854
    @saroneaimah8854 6 місяців тому +2

    Even if someone has money I can see why they’d want you to clean instead of someone else. You have so much empathy and I’m sure people feel safe knowing that you won’t judge them.

  • @LimegreenSnowstorm
    @LimegreenSnowstorm 8 місяців тому +6

    Nikki has immaculate style! I have the best of hopes for her!

  • @ninjasipad7924
    @ninjasipad7924 8 місяців тому +3

    Amazing job❤. This fresh start will be just what Nikki needs and I’m sure she is beyond grateful for your help and for caring at a difficult time in her life. Thank you for changing one life at a time!

  • @gracietilert8952
    @gracietilert8952 3 місяці тому

    What I love the very most about you Auri is that you give the voiceless sufferers a voice with such compassion and selfless love.

  • @georgielancaster1356
    @georgielancaster1356 8 місяців тому +1

    Auri is approaching 3 MILLION. Subscribers! Isn't that fantastic.
    I am in Australia and have seen SCRUB DADDY popping up in smaller towns in the country!!!
    It is spreading around the world!

  • @dekeriamack1387
    @dekeriamack1387 8 місяців тому +23

    I just love your cleaning vids just an amazing transformations ❤❤❤

  • @kleinfaf
    @kleinfaf 8 місяців тому +3

    You seem to be one of the most pure-hearted people I have ever witnessed! It is incredible what you do and I love how you react to criticism. Keep on rocking, Auri!

  • @arty04
    @arty04 8 місяців тому +1

    I say this in almost all videos but thank you for doing this for people. You will be blessed over and over.

  • @ruthpabellon4366
    @ruthpabellon4366 3 місяці тому

    Whoever says you don't do this or that has no idea the kind of work time and dedication it takes to do the work you do. I used to work cleaning apartments for an apartment complex for five years. Believe me, some of the apartments were deplorable and I did it all. Some days I wanted to quit go home and cry. I could not understand how people would live in such conditions. You are amazing keep up your lives saving job.

  • @marciapickens7444
    @marciapickens7444 8 місяців тому +3

    Wow, what a beautiful apartment! She has nice style in decorating too. She just needs a hamper for her clothes, & to remember to throw away her garbage when she gets up. I wish her the best. Another fabulous job!❤

  • @rhyfelwrDuw
    @rhyfelwrDuw 8 місяців тому +14

    I love watching your videos! I suffer from depression and it is so difficult to get motivated to do anything! I also work in a bakery which is really busy and physically demanding so when I get home from work, I'm so tired, then on my days off I just chill out! My house is untidy (not asking for help lol), but that's my fault because I get things out and I don't put them back, although my floor isn't cluttered - it's just every flat surface has stuff on them!

  • @mamabear-gu4oo
    @mamabear-gu4oo 3 місяці тому

    Bless you for helping Nikki ... she is an amazing strong woman and has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to be ashamed of. Reaching out for help took amazing strength.

  • @nikis1254
    @nikis1254 3 місяці тому

    This video made me cry. You are such a wonderful person. I wish more people like you existed. I don't mean to compare myself to Nikki, because each person suffers their own problems uniquely, but I too have suffered from a long term emotional and psychologically abusive relationship. I'm now a month free from what had been my permanent burden to carry for so long, losing myself to ensure someone elses happiness and feeling hopeful that someday things would have been better. There is nothing worse than feeling stuck and looking at yourself in the mirror and not recognizing yourself, while having so many past memories and wondering when all the happiness went away. Thank you for your words and your actions, they made me realize how proud I have to be of myself for picking myself up again.

  • @NicoleEivissa
    @NicoleEivissa 8 місяців тому +8

    A random cleaning tip for a sandwich maker that doesn’t have removable plates: put on the plate a little bit of water (where you normally put sandwiches), close it and turn on the sandwich maker so it heats just a little. The warmth and the water vaporizing will make the stuck bits of food easily removable after a couple of minutes :) Might sound obvious but not for those who don’t know this easy trick - happy cleaning people😁🫶

  • @Necklace2
    @Necklace2 8 місяців тому +6

    You’re so awesome! It’s so beautiful how you care and clean and help!!

  • @ssunita9253
    @ssunita9253 8 місяців тому +8

    Looking at the before and after pictures I was thinking how does one not die of shock when they enter their home after the cleaning 😊

  • @snudder.s.m.l.5026
    @snudder.s.m.l.5026 8 місяців тому +1

    Thank you too your sponsor, your work are amazing.
    Nobody should judge, that condition can get to us all, sickness, depression, abuse and other things in life that we can't controle.
    Great job ❤❤
    Big hugs from Denmark ❤❤❤

  • @rebeccab942
    @rebeccab942 8 місяців тому +1

    Auri- What you do for people is incredible. You offer hope, a new beginning and for some you save them. Your compassion is beautiful and inspiring.
    Nikki - you have had an incredibly difficult journey and you are still fighting! Never be ashamed of what it takes to survive because it truly doesn’t matter. What matters is your life, your smile, your heart. I was touched by your story because it so closely matches a very close family member. Anyone close to you would never judge you, if anything they would want to help. I hope you find peace and joy on the rest of your journey.

  • @jennetrose566
    @jennetrose566 8 місяців тому +5

    You are the only youtuber for whose videos I eargerly wait every week