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  • @KnaveMurdok
    @KnaveMurdok Рік тому +1360

    I loved this movie because it dares to ask the question "What if the thing standing in your way isn't necessarily just homophobia, but the fact that you're genuinely off-putting and your vibes are way off?"

    • @mayaneff3728
      @mayaneff3728 Рік тому +164

      The teenage cringe was so real.

    • @Milonification
      @Milonification Рік тому +112

      yeh, cause queer or not, that is often why nobody wants to date certain people.

    • @flowerpower250
      @flowerpower250 Рік тому +15

      This sums it up perfectly

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 Рік тому +77

      @@mayaneff3728teenage cringe knows no gender or sexual orientation 😂

    • @reginahaxley2659
      @reginahaxley2659 Рік тому +5

      666th like.

  • @raveneskridge3143
    @raveneskridge3143 Рік тому +1046

    i love queer media, almost no matter who's playing who. i love to see actors represented in their roles but to expect that only out queer actors to take parts is asking a lot of performers in a time were it is so unsafe to be queer. and with Wayne Brady recently coming out as pansexual, it's just a really great reminder that we never know. it doesn't matter how long someone's in the spot light. no actor owes us being out.

    • @TheRazorTongue
      @TheRazorTongue Рік тому +29

      Didn’t expect to learn that today about Wayne Brady. Good for him living his truth.

    • @apinchofdisappointment
      @apinchofdisappointment Рік тому +5

      @Villealt ?

    • @raveneskridge3143
      @raveneskridge3143 Рік тому +7

      @@brolybroly4485 you don't seem to know what rainbow capitalism is bud

  • @NagromSukpad
    @NagromSukpad Рік тому +77

    As a nonbinary lesbian who went to this movie with my two queer friends, we were laughing our asses off. We saw the movie opening week in a FULL theater of queer friend groups and it was SUCH an incredibly uniting and delightful experience. The crowd erupted with laughter at certain jokes, letting everyone feel comfortable and surrounded by fellow queer people enjoying the humor FINALLY WRITTEN FOR US!!!!! As an aspiring queer filmmaker, this movie really was HUGE. My friends and I left the theater with our fists pounding in the air shouting "CINEMA IS BACK BAYBEY!"

  • @LillyAnarkitty
    @LillyAnarkitty Рік тому +611

    The “what’s the sexuality of the actors” thing is interesting because I remember reading an interview with Viggo Mortensen where he defended playing a gay man, saying basically, “You don’t know what my sexuality is. I could be anything, and demanding that only openly queer people play queer roles is essentially demanding that all queer actors out themselves.” Which sounded like a really cringe, straight thing to say, but also seemed like it made sense, and it’s always stuck in my brain cause of that.

    • @faigler
      @faigler Рік тому +68

      see where I hear that and immediately go "hmm, I wonder if he's NOT totally straight". Which, I mean, it could equally just be that he's aware enough of the issues and his queer allies that he realizes why it's stupid, but also with what I do know about Viggo Mortensen, I doubt he particularly enjoys labels.

    • @meaganpinkard6039
      @meaganpinkard6039 8 місяців тому +1

      I need to know what movie this is ASAP I love Viggo😮

    • @VeronicaHSong
      @VeronicaHSong 7 місяців тому +11

      It actually sounds very honest and fair to me, and also- it totally sounds like Vigo wasn't REALLY hiding his queer identity, no matter what his life and relationship choices are🩷

    • @NoFirstNoLastName
      @NoFirstNoLastName 7 місяців тому +23

      Totally agree with his statements, and recent events (such as Kit Conner being forced to out himself) have revealed to me that we can’t limit queer roles to queer people because we don’t know who is queer.
      Viggo could be, or he could be pointing out that if he was or was not, backlash would be forcing him to publicize a private matter. Queer people deserve privacy.
      As well, I believe everyone deserves to be able to experience queerness even if they ultimately decide they are not queer. Film allows this.

    • @xxglowenxx
      @xxglowenxx 6 місяців тому +16

      Obviously historical/important queer roles should be saved for queer actors, but if ALL queer roles should be played by ONLY queer actors, it's like saying straight characters should only be played by straight actors. We should never pigeonhole someone due to their sexuality, and that goes both ways

  • @eypu999
    @eypu999 Рік тому +465

    You’re absolutely right about cishet ppl thinking we’re more sensitive than how we actually are 😂
    I feel like a line like
    “Could the ugly untalented gays please report to the principle’s office”
    Is absolutely fine done by lgbt writers, but others won’t think we’d like it cuz we’re presumably “sensitive”.
    Idk if that made sense.

    • @Bairinde
      @Bairinde Рік тому +1

      I think that might be because oftentimes cishet people get offended on behalf of the queers and that creates this "sensitive snowflake" narrative.

    • @alyssapinon9670
      @alyssapinon9670 Рік тому

      As a cishet, the cishet people who think that about lgbt people are hard projecting. I mean call most cishets a cishet and they go wild 😂

    • @perrisavallon5170
      @perrisavallon5170 4 місяці тому +8

      They're always like "YOU GUYS COULD NEVER HANDLE A CALL OF DUTY LOBBY FULL OF HOMOPHOBIC SLURS LMAO, WHILE I, A STRAIGHT MAN, AM NOT OFFENDED BY THOSE SLURS AT ALL!"
      You put salt on your food and think yourself stronger than the snail

  • @cassandra_desainde
    @cassandra_desainde Рік тому +114

    The way queer people speak to each other being more edgy and gritty than straight ppl assume is so real, I've definitely seen straight people's jaws drops when they hear the way my friends and I speak to each other

  • @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554
    @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554 Рік тому +146

    18:20 ANYONE who would try to call anything around this movie "queerbaiting" *CLEARLY* does NOT understand the term. Sherlock is queerbaited, a film about ACTUAL LESBIANS by definition canNOT be queerbaiting! 😄
    (That doesnt mean someone won't try, but the orientation of the ACTORS has f-all to do with the movie...)

  • @bananapuding866
    @bananapuding866 Рік тому +573

    i relate to ayo. she definitely hinted at the fact that she isn't exactly straight and knowing the fact that she comes from a stricter religious background i understand her frustrations and fears as they are the same feelings i feel whenever the more religious part of my family comes to visit me. however, i also understand that a lot of queer people want to see themselves represented beyond the story told on screen and wanna see queer people actually included in the project's making.

    • @aishambengue3024
      @aishambengue3024 Рік тому +33

      I truly relate to her as well and also freaking love Ayo!!

    • @keisix03
      @keisix03 Рік тому +37

      I also relate to her! I live in a religious and conservative country, with a very religious family too, so i never told anyone that i'm bi. I really want to tell at least my best friends, but i'm so scared of losing them, so i just kept quiet 🥲

    • @trashfashiondotcom
      @trashfashiondotcom 8 місяців тому +1

      wait when did she hint at not being straight?

    • @bananapuding866
      @bananapuding866 8 місяців тому +5

      @@trashfashiondotcom i forgot the name of the publucation that published the article but it's kind of an indepth interview of her and rachel sennott where she subtly mentions religious guilt of hiding cut outs of girls she deemed pretty and she also mentioned repeatedly watching mvs of pop artists with fascination possibly only a young queer child could possess.

    • @trashfashiondotcom
      @trashfashiondotcom 8 місяців тому +1

      @@bananapuding866 oh okay. that's really interesting. thank you!

  • @evilbob9970
    @evilbob9970 Рік тому +109

    Clarification on the Kit Conner situation for anyone who may have missed it, he posted the tweet shown at 13:56 because of the harassment he experienced after candid pictures of him on a date with a woman started to circulate, so it's much more deeply fucked up and explicitly biphobic than him just being pestered with questions about his sexuality

  • @dictionarygoat9156
    @dictionarygoat9156 Рік тому +370

    Fun fact, me and my boyfriend got into a fight after watching this movie that led to me breaking up with him and coming out as a lesbian

    • @balaynganiyebe
      @balaynganiyebe Рік тому +77

      that didn't really sound fun :c /lh but congrats on coming out !!

    • @CHEEZE369
      @CHEEZE369 Рік тому +5

      If u don’t mind me asking why?

    • @dictionarygoat9156
      @dictionarygoat9156 Рік тому +123

      @@CHEEZE369 Long story short I wouldn't shut up about Hazel and he was like "why do you only ever get obssessed with fictional women" and I was like "that's not true I also get obssessed with men like... uh... ya know...um..." but no men jumped to mind. So then I went and read the lesbian masterdoc and was like "oh you're right actually"

    • @marlenymusto3687
      @marlenymusto3687 Рік тому +19

      See, Kat blaque had me thiiiiiinking about watching this movie w this vid, but now I know I need to watch Bottoms

    • @hallehuckleberry
      @hallehuckleberry Рік тому +10

      slay

  • @disc0duck
    @disc0duck Рік тому +96

    Whats crazy is that bottoms had such a limited release but still made 10mil This is for sure gonna become a go to sleepover movie

  • @flowerbit4137
    @flowerbit4137 Рік тому +388

    I definitely feel like you don’t need to be gay/queer or out as gay/queer to play a gay or sapphic character. If the writing and direction is authentically queer, I think a person of any sexuality could play a gay or sapphic character. And I think that it wouldn’t be right for actors to be forced to come out in order to get a role. As much as I love people being out and being representation for the younger people, it’s a personal thing for a lot of people and coming out in the industry can be a big deal.

    • @xxglowenxx
      @xxglowenxx 6 місяців тому +1

      Plus, omg. That opens up a very dangerous possibility of only straight actors being allowed to play straight characters. It's not like actors HAVE to be attracted to their love interest

  • @roziefero
    @roziefero Рік тому +70

    It has grossed over $12M now!! As a sapphic woman, I saw it during opening week and absolutely loved it!! it felt so real and relatable because I was out in high school. It was so great and refreshing!!

  • @looney1023
    @looney1023 Рік тому +46

    "You may be a black republican, but you're the smartest out of all of us."
    Loved this movie. I really love the idea of making a film that is explicitly (but not panderingly) feminist, about women who are exploiting feminism to get laid. To me it felt like an inversion of the "Girl at a Bar" SNL sketch, or the teen sex comedies where a male character will be SUPER into women's health issues because women will appreciate that and reward him with sex (and maybe it doesn't work and he "grows" and gets the girl that way). Like they're kind of reclaiming that trope and doing it expertly, but more gay, more aware of how shitty that behavior actually is, and all the while making a feminist point that the characters are too sex obsessed to actually notice. I'm sure I'm overanalyzing it and they were probably like "hey this would be funny and stupid let's do that," but it's really smart stupidity.
    Also Ayo Edibiri's rant about her heterosexual Christian future and her son Hezekiah was the hardest I've laughed in years.

  • @kaikai9652
    @kaikai9652 Рік тому +252

    I had so much fun when I saw this movie in theaters. I think I just loved seeing teenage lesbians be horny idiots because I was a horny idiot when I was in high school! I’m probably still a horny idiot! And I never get to see that on screen because so many queer films are sad and serious. We don’t get to see queer characters and their individual relationships with sex and desire laid out in fun ways very often.

    • @KatBlaque
      @KatBlaque  Рік тому +84

      So true. Everything is always sad and series, never just gross and stupid aahaha. I appreciated seeing that.

  • @cor_56
    @cor_56 8 місяців тому +14

    I also appreciated that Brittany (PJ's crush) had that moment of confirming she was straight while affirming the intimacy of female platonic friendship. Even at the end during the kiss at the game, her reaffirming this rather than somehow having all the characters learn they are a lesbian or bi felt real. I know I (as a lesbian) have had to contend with the fact that throughout high school I had incredibly intense and intimate relationships with other girls that I (who didn't at the time know I was a lesbian) certainly had a different expectation for than the other party. Some of them, like me, did find out later they were bi or lesbian, but others were just straight and saw what I imagined as romantic love as platonic. Learning how to understand that and appreciate the platonic love they did give me and knowing that was enough took time. And I appreciate a glimpse of that with PJ and Brittany

    • @alainer0611
      @alainer0611 2 місяці тому +2

      I saw so many people give criticism during their reactions that Brittany was leading her on but… if we rewatch it i think it’s proof that the point the writers were trying to make is valid, Brittany says herself in the movie that her identity is literally attached to Isabel, she doesn’t have very many friendships or emotional substance, and just because the few times we see her growing emotionally and in her relationships is with PJ doesn’t mean it’s romantic or sexual. She said she would make her a bracelet, she owns a jewelry business so of course she would probably give out freebies to her friends, especially one she’s building a friendship with, she invites her over to hang out and study, something many girls straight or gay do all the time, she engages in playful banter, the same way she always has with everyone else throughout the film. Through PJ’s eyes, of course she’s looking into all these behaviors, shes had a several year long infatuation with her, it makes sense but to see so many people say Brittany was leading her on is proof that we need more films like this!

  • @Lionfrog13
    @Lionfrog13 Рік тому +55

    That point on how queer people talk to each other hit close to home. I saw one of my lesbian friends last night and the first thing I showed her was a picture of a hamburger with the f slur over it in white text.

  • @whatcanidooo
    @whatcanidooo Рік тому +462

    I genuinely couldn’t care less what the sexuality of the lead actors is. The director is queer, plenty of the actors are, and most importantly, it’s probably my new favorite queer movie and I wouldn’t want it any different than it is

  • @grmgt
    @grmgt Рік тому +52

    To answer your question, i loved it! As a bi girl who was a very horny teen (lol), i appreciated having my s3xual desires validated because more often than not women's wants are made to appear so bland when we can actually be pretty intense.

  • @evilbob9970
    @evilbob9970 Рік тому +33

    You touched on the reality of how queer people talk to each other and how much edgier it is than how it's portrayed in most media and I think it's also worth drawing comparisons to how the queer community (and especially trans and nb people) have been smeared as hypersensitive, particularly in the past decade. We're no more or less averse to dark and offensive humor than any other group of people, but we're constantly called snowflakes for expecting to be treated in a way that acknowledges and respects our humanity and autonomy

  • @jillroberge4088
    @jillroberge4088 Рік тому +104

    Oh such a strong point about the way Queer women's dialogue is portayed vs reality! I grew up within Lesbian community with an out Lesbian mom and one strong cultural element of that community that i think has informed who i am as an adult is that "edgy" gritty humour.

  • @allywon
    @allywon Рік тому +117

    watched this with my lesbiasian friend group, had a blast! it really felt like this movie was made for me because of the 2000s teen movie vibes I’m nostalgic for + the type of queer humor/dialogue I have with my friends as an adult.

  • @beautybygita2917
    @beautybygita2917 Рік тому +70

    I’m 31 and only realized I was bi at 26 and started dating or openly having sex with women/people of other genders and when I was a teen I would have loved to have movies like these. Bottoms had me doubled over laughing, I saw it in theaters twice with my friends. I want to see more of these silly fun queer stories get told and not only the ones with heartbreak and death and struggle.

    • @beautybygita2917
      @beautybygita2917 Рік тому +4

      I also totally relate to the dialogue thing haha maybe not in the exact same way but w/ my queer friends we say all kinds of off the wall shit lmao

  • @JordanSullivanadventures
    @JordanSullivanadventures Рік тому +33

    When the archdiocese tries to ban you from filming locations, you know you're doing something right

  • @bb-px7rf
    @bb-px7rf Рік тому +17

    as a sapphic teen girl, this movie made me feel so seen and fulfilled. it had my favorite actors, it was funny and entertaining, it was a good mixture of seriousness and unserious. 10000/10 i loved bottoms and i need a second movie and i need more movies like this

  • @littleboots7629
    @littleboots7629 Рік тому +29

    Finally the black lesbian got the girl at the end. That what my thoughts were

  • @princessjellyfish98
    @princessjellyfish98 Рік тому +32

    It's so true that this is how queer women talk to each other irl 😭 like I feel like my brain didn't even clock this movie as edgy cuz this is just how me and my friends talk lmao

  • @eypu999
    @eypu999 Рік тому +82

    I absolutely loved bottoms
    Maybe that’s weird to say but most sapphic movie doesn’t feel gay to me
    And it’s amazing to see something so relatable even tho I’ve never did anything they did in the movie

    • @Alto-hf6rd
      @Alto-hf6rd Рік тому +3

      Not weird at all. I feel the same way lol

  • @imfamoushero
    @imfamoushero Рік тому +16

    As a gay woman, yeah the movie felt self-aware and very camp. The two leads get publicly outed and shamed for their sinister intentions to start the club. PJ is written intentionally horrible and doesn’t get her girl but apologizes and begrudgingly recognizes her mistakes and gets an another, unexpected girl. 100/10 movie, can’t believe it was filmed in 27 days and got denied filming locations. Hoping they’re able to make another project together

  • @littleboots7629
    @littleboots7629 Рік тому +20

    And I loved the natural hair unapologetic representation

  • @ariapetrova9801
    @ariapetrova9801 Рік тому +87

    I lovvvvvvvvved this movie so much
    it was fun and kinda freeing?? like. I watched it two times in a day
    in sapphic media everything about sex and desire often very awkward; it has to be innocent or have ""grace"", otherwise it's a slope into objectification or a predator trope, nothing fun, everything is very compressed by an invisible border, and you just can't do it right
    so when it's clear in the first scene that they're both assholes, it's a blessing
    they suck and they're losers and they dream about cheerleaders and it's not the end of the world! nothing creepy and a lot of stupidity and they are like. two silly teens
    and its true about language jhrgudihdlrutjoi
    like im ace, and my friend is "shy" one, and still when some _new_ cishet people around - suddenly Everything we say is a little too piquant. I dont even know-
    its funny
    and movie was just that - funny and light, about untalented ugly gay girls. great job there, yep, loved it

  • @eypu999
    @eypu999 Рік тому +80

    I’ve stopped caring about “gay roles for gay actors😡” once I stopped using Twitter, noticed queer baiting has declined and finally (and most importantly) realizing not everything is about me lol
    Cuz at first what frustrated me is seeing presumably or self identified cishets not only playing the gay roles but also act stupid in interviews just to get fame and money while simultaneously seeming like they’re making fun of lgbt ppl, they can leave the interview or finish the movie and live their happy cishet life while I could be killed or jailed any minute, I was taking the anger and frustration on them when I shouldn’t have.
    But like I said, I realized not everything is about me and I’m just one person in a planet of 8 billions. It’s ok for others to not feel like they want to come out, or not feel rushed to do so. Or even be cishet. And it’s even sad to think some can’t possibly come out.

    • @bryanstivengomezmontoya9376
      @bryanstivengomezmontoya9376 Рік тому +8

      Realizing not everything is about oneself is the character development we all get when we stay out of Twitter 😂

  • @sangoluvsmiroku4eva
    @sangoluvsmiroku4eva Рік тому +12

    Also keep in mind this came around the time after the SAG AFTRA strikes started and they had limited movie theater releases. I saw so many social media comments saying the nearest theater playing it was an hour or more away. I think it was fantastic they were able to make as much as they did considering all these factors as well!!

  • @josephmanning3179
    @josephmanning3179 Рік тому +19

    I think the recent """coming out""" of sufjan stevens is a good barometer for this. Clearly he wasn't near any closests for his life, and a lot of music had pretty clear queer subtext. But at the same time he chose to keep his personal life private, and i think that is something we have to respect.

  • @allurajane4979
    @allurajane4979 Рік тому +7

    i never even questioned if the ppl involved in the project were actually queer or not, like you said the representation of how queer women act is so accurate that i just automatically assumed that they were fruity lmaoo

  • @karminyates3261
    @karminyates3261 Рік тому +9

    As a lesbian I felt so happy. It’s happy to see a movie that was willing to push up against the boundaries of female sexuality, while simultaneously being honest. I’m glad they didn’t k*ll our gays 😚💗✨

  • @starbucksthiholsters
    @starbucksthiholsters Рік тому +47

    I’m sapphic and saw it at a drive in with my girlfriend. We thought it was silly and interesting! I appreciated that it didn’t care about being realistic. I also appreciated that Hazel was very autistic coded (when they took everything literally) and that’s what caused some of the plot points with explosives.

    • @allurajane4979
      @allurajane4979 Рік тому +5

      yesss her special interest is probably bombs and that is why she is able to literally make them plus she is rich so she can actually afford to

  • @kiw.9805
    @kiw.9805 Рік тому +57

    I LOVED Bottoms! I watched it with my wife on my honeymoon weekend and we almost pissed ourselves laughing. One thing I love is the exclusion of queer sex scenes. Like it didn’t feel like a PornHub category and I loved that! It was so damn gay and so fucking silly 🤣🤣🤣 it just felt like looking back on my high school memories with my best friend. I want more fun, weird gay movies!

  • @allym2787
    @allym2787 Рік тому +31

    I don't really have a hat in the ring when it comes to discussions about when people should come out, though I strongly agree with you that it should be done when the person is safe. But I have long felt that we as a society are waaaaaay too invested in the private lives of celebrities, and in particular young celebrities. I have never understood the obsession with knowing all the minute details about their lives, especially the details they want to keep private. It's like people forget that they are real people, and deserve the same consideration as anyone else. If they don't want to share, then it's none of our damn business.
    On a side note, I kind of went through the opposite experience as the viewers you mentioned that drop you when they find out you're trans. I forget how I stumbled onto your channel (I think the BDSMer's take on 50 Shades video?), but I remember being thrilled when I found out you were trans. I'm Christian, raised in the Bible Belt, living in the Bible Belt, with several of my closest family members being trans or enby, and I was clueless. Finding out you were trans and openly talked about your experiences is why I subscribed. I feel sorry for the people who are too brainwashed to realize how informative your content can be.

  • @uppercut147
    @uppercut147 Рік тому +22

    OH MY GOD IT'S MARSHAWN LYNCH. I knew in my lil lesbian heart, I always liked that guy 🥹🥹Very cute and fun of him to have joined this movie.

    • @Whackadoo1
      @Whackadoo1 Рік тому +2

      He needs to be in more things. He hilarious!

    • @winosandbar5077
      @winosandbar5077 Рік тому +8

      It's actually really cute why he is in the film... I guess he was a teen when his sister came out.... And I guess he has always regretted how he responded and wanted to be a part of the film to make it up to his sister. I love Marshawn and I want him in every movie.

  • @gracedamiani8007
    @gracedamiani8007 Рік тому +13

    As a teenage lesbian, I saw this in the theater with my two friends who are also queer and we had a fucking blast!! We could not stop laughing and crushing on Hazel(and Isabelle for me personally)

  • @firstlast8310
    @firstlast8310 Рік тому +15

    me and friends went to see this movie in an empty theater and had a fantastic time, the friendships and communication felt so familiar to us like you were saying in the beginning!!!

  • @voidify3
    @voidify3 9 місяців тому +2

    As a sapphic who was once a rizzless lonely teen I felt this movie deeply

  • @Bairinde
    @Bairinde Рік тому +13

    The hijacking of the term "queerbaiting" to apply it to real people gotta be the most toxic shit I have seen in a while. I think you said it elsewhere in another video but especially since sexuality can be very fluid and therefore change throughout one's life (like the real life Piper who is fictionalised in Orange is the New Black, to name just one example) makes it so very screwed up to force someone at the age of 18 to basically set it in stone, not to mention jeopardise their whole career and possibly endangering themselves in the current political climate in the US.
    That being said, I haven't seen the movie but I'm looking forward to see a silly lesbian sex comedy!

  • @hallehuckleberry
    @hallehuckleberry Рік тому +6

    i saw this movie with my self-proclaimed conservative christian mom 🥰 idk if she loves & supports it as much as i do, but she watched the whole thing, laughed at several of the jokes, and listened to me rave about it all the way home ❤️

  • @cleoclaus69
    @cleoclaus69 Рік тому +20

    Back when I was a youngster, my entire queer experience was through the movies, because there were consequences to being open in my real life. Regardless of whether I enjoyed the film (not as much as I wanted to), I do applaud that this film was made, that it had a wider release, and that the gay high school experience is depicted as so much more open than my time. I am seeing more progress on that front than I ever thought I would see in my lifetime (especially being a resident of regressive Florida), and it is so encouraging to see.

  • @Lonelyallie
    @Lonelyallie Рік тому +14

    As a bi woman I loved it! It was so silly and fun and the jokes were hilarious. I also liked that it didn’t shy away from being horny lol cause I feel like sometimes people think queer women just look at each other in the eyes for hours and don’t want to do anything else?? So yeah that was fun!

  • @emclaire7027
    @emclaire7027 Рік тому +14

    I was so so excited when the trailer dropped earlier in the year, and am incredibly thankful that it didn’t disappoint me! Truly the most fun I’ve had watching a movie in a long time, and I totally agree with your assessment of its realism in how the characters interact with each other and joke about things. They committed so fully on every aspect-the comedy, the stunts and violence, the characters, the totally ridiculous satirical setting-and I think that’s what made it so successful. I literally went to see it in theaters twice and have been making friends watch it

  • @wildstartarot
    @wildstartarot Рік тому +8

    I haven’t seen it yet , but I would watch it just based on how you talked about it. I remember when I first seen *But I’m a Cheerleader* it blew my mind seeing that kinda narrative on tv even back then. Great video ❤

  • @eda6654
    @eda6654 Рік тому +7

    i loved the "gray areas count too" joke because it's so real

  • @ThePonderer
    @ThePonderer Рік тому +12

    I’m kinda obsessed with this movie.
    Especially Hazel. Hazel best girl.

  • @Maya-uj6fm
    @Maya-uj6fm Рік тому +15

    Bottoms was sooooo good it was so fun to laugh through the entire thing in theater with my friend! Also It’s crazy to me that people could watch Ayo & Rachel’s work and question them or be unsatisfied without how unapologetic they are… like they don’t have to say the words if you know you know and it is really crazy to me after how many young actors/musicians have literally been not just pressured but genuinely harassed and bullied into coming out to feel like we need them to explicitly confirm anything to be happy with the movie! I mean asking the question once sure but they gave their answer lol that’s that

  • @Maesonjaeson
    @Maesonjaeson Рік тому +17

    Loved this film! I think queer people should be able to have media where the characters can be terrible and raunchy and we still root for them! It’s always Sunny has been on the air for like 15 seasons and it’s wildly beloved! To me, this was the sapphics’ it’s always Sunny moment and that’s great!

  • @marschowdhury7349
    @marschowdhury7349 Рік тому +6

    Sapphic here! loved it just like you said we need more overtly girly queer funny unserious media

  • @irlANG3L
    @irlANG3L 8 місяців тому +1

    Your comments on the way the movie reflected irl gay conversation really put into words one of my favourite things about the movie! As a teen bisexual, with a friend group of mostly bisexuals and lesbians i really felt like they captured the kind of humour we use on a day to day basis. The movie also definitely captured the horniness which i love. Not all young queer people are confused, conflicted and afraid of admitting their desires; some of us are very open about our queerness (when we feel safe to do so). This has definitely become one of my favourite movies. Its just so fun.

  • @carochalu8756
    @carochalu8756 Рік тому +9

    Regarding the discussion of whether actors need to be out queer people to play queer characters, i will say that not only do i not want actors to be forced to out themselves for a role, but as someone who doesn't have a set label i feel comfortable in, i find the idea kind of exclusionary

  • @OldLadyMapleSeed
    @OldLadyMapleSeed Рік тому +3

    I wouldn’t identify myself as queer but I saw this movie with a queer (teenage )group of friends for our weekly movie night and we were all losing our minds. One of the funniest movies I’ve ever seen, the humor really home and everyone was fawning over Hazel

  • @Cal-zone
    @Cal-zone Рік тому +10

    My local Cinemark only played Bottoms for like 2 weeks. I dunno if that was the norm for other regions but it seemed weird to me. I ended up missing it and having to wait to stream it. Really really enjoyed it though!

  • @witchplease9695
    @witchplease9695 Рік тому +5

    Josie being a socially awkward quirky Black girl is so refreshing. We are almost never portrayed this way, with any personality that isn’t sassy comic relief or overly stoic.

  • @robertreed7767
    @robertreed7767 Рік тому +3

    Gay millennial man living in rural southern Missouri here, I had no idea this film existed but I am SO excited to watch this. I will have it waiting on screen to press play when my boyfriend walks through the door from work, thanks so much for the review!

  • @jamesscott305
    @jamesscott305 8 місяців тому +2

    I absolutely L O V E D this film! Think i watched the trailer cos Ayo caught my eye & seen her in a few things & think she’s great & with Bear gonna be her launch into bigger things. Loved the trailer. I took my sister to see it & she had NO idea aboot what the film was. She loved it too! It’s just straight up funny! So cleaver in its story telling & style. Elements of satire & a bit hyper feel & surreal (I felt there was at least 1 or 2 references to Not Another Teen Movie… but that could just be me)
    And I can’t relate to really any of this film. I’m a 38 straight cis white male… & my sister is cis straight too (for the most part?? We’ve never fully talked about it… going from her previous relationships…)… just took her to see a great film. Spend some sibling time together

  • @JordanSullivanadventures
    @JordanSullivanadventures Рік тому +9

    For me, I care a lot less about the particular sexual identity of the actors and a lot more about whether they're telling a good story that's true to queer experience. And generally you're a lot more likely to get that if the writers are queer!

  • @windghost2
    @windghost2 Рік тому +29

    I meant to see this movie in the summer, but unfortunately I was too busy. I’m glad to see that you liked it, I’ll try to check it out sometime.

    • @odevita
      @odevita Рік тому +1

      I wasn't able to because it wasn't showing near me and I don't have a car but bought it as soon as it was available on Amazon. It was unhinged, ridiculous, and adorable so I've been recommending it as much as I can!

    • @windghost2
      @windghost2 Рік тому +1

      @@odevita Thanks for the great review, I'll definitely check it out!

  • @cass422
    @cass422 Рік тому +3

    as a sapphic woman, i enjoyed this movie a lot! i thought it was hilarious and loved the soundtrack and cinematography. though i did feel a few plot points kind of got pushed to the side or completely forgotten about by the end. but i agree that we need more silly gay movies! and i feel these kind of movies get held to a higher standard by a non lgbt audience, even when its obviously campy and meant to be silly. so for what bottoms was trying to be, it was perfect and i loved it!

  • @jaybrielz
    @jaybrielz Рік тому +9

    I definitely need to check this movie out soon. From some of the clips I've seen Josie is so incredibly relatable lol

  • @alylopez3721
    @alylopez3721 Рік тому +16

    Idk why but I was kind of turned off from this movie when I first heard about it. From the trailer i was afraid it was just one of those films that all it does is just take straight roles/stereotypes and just replace them with queer people so all it is just repackaged bs and pandering. But your review means a lot to me especially as as a recently come out bisexual and as someone who wants to focus on consuming queer media by queer people. I’m def gonna go watch it rn!

    • @Arrrrrrrrrrbbbbbbbbbb
      @Arrrrrrrrrrbbbbbbbbbb Рік тому +4

      I had the same fears as you did, and I am happy to say all of my fears were unfounded. It's really, REALLY great.

    • @milsthebard1085
      @milsthebard1085 Рік тому +2

      I'm fascinated, because I saw a trailer and was immediately like 'ew', since it looked like a gross stereotype filled mess. I probably won't watch it anyway, as I'm not into high school based media, but there could certainly be discourse on whether this film was done dirty by the marketing team or not - wouldn't be the first time.

  • @theeviljames
    @theeviljames 11 місяців тому +2

    I think this might be the funniest film I've seen this year. Maybe for a few years. Cannot wait to see the next project from Rachel Sennott and Emma Seligman

  • @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554
    @brendaleelydon-carpenter1554 Рік тому +7

    As a not-currently-working SW, I related to your comments about people's opinion changing the moment they learn you're trans. *ANY* time it comes up in conversation & I mention something about previous work, I'm all of a sudden s:xuaIzed to an ungodly degree & I'm like, "Pete, you've known me for 3 years - why do you think it's appropriate to make comments to me like THAT, simply because I've done SW? You NEVER spoke to me like that prior to learning that part of my past..."
    I don't get why people would think you being trans would have anything to do with the validity of your opinion on...well, anything (other than trans-specific topics, obv)? Why are people like this? 🤦🏻‍♀️
    Thanks for bringing this movie to my attention! It sounds right up my alley & I can't wait to see it; too bad I couldn't see it in the theater, tho!

  • @manytinyboxes
    @manytinyboxes Рік тому +14

    god i fucking adore this kind of queer representation

  • @under20over40
    @under20over40 Рік тому +6

    Just for future reference Shiva (Jewish mourning period) is pronounced like the weapon Shiv with ah at the end not ay.

  • @Artlesbi
    @Artlesbi Рік тому +5

    I never felt totally connected to heterosexual media as a queer woman. I never found it relatable. from how the characters act / their priorities / even their gesturing and speaking style never spoke to me but something about queer media always feels so much more magnetizing maybe because I can see myself represented in the characters like straight guys do watching 90% of all films ever. yeah bottoms is campy and goofy but so am I.

  • @sirius1696
    @sirius1696 7 днів тому

    I really felt that last part, you're so right we need more silly gay films. Especially ones I can watch with the rest of my gay guy friends

  • @gbassman5341
    @gbassman5341 Рік тому +3

    This Cis-Het guy LOVED it

    • @winosandbar5077
      @winosandbar5077 Рік тому

      Same here. I laughed so hard my stomach hurt. I think every group of people should get their "superbad" movie. Lol.

  • @SEmme-ov6yy
    @SEmme-ov6yy Рік тому +8

    I’m not sapphic, I’m just a hetero trans woman but this movie was hilarious 😂😂😂

  • @Lu0718
    @Lu0718 Рік тому +4

    Oh I really loved this review! Thank you for making it!
    As a transmasc non-binary person, I *really* loved Bottoms! It's so unapologetically gay and dumb and takes all the risks while being very aware of what it is.

  • @Alina_Schmidt
    @Alina_Schmidt Рік тому +1

    The premise sounds like both so very absurd and brilliant and original. Oh and the camp thing. Wanna watch it!

  • @elluchadork
    @elluchadork Рік тому +2

    I fugging love this movie!!! I love that it was told through surrealism and that it gave representation in a way that felt real

  • @kaylajohnson8478
    @kaylajohnson8478 Рік тому +4

    this movie made me cackle so loud in the theatre. this and polite society have been such a goddamn vibe I hope we see more campy dumb fighting films centered around woc

  • @Medallion88_
    @Medallion88_ Рік тому +1

    The softness and the lighting! How’d you do it??!

  • @lblack1961
    @lblack1961 Рік тому +2

    Ohhh...I knew I recognized Ayo. She is in the Hulu show "The Bear". I love her presence...I think she has a great future career as an actress.

  • @216pink
    @216pink 9 місяців тому +1

    When I heard that Ayo was from a very religious background that hit so hard because not being able to be fully out to my family due to that is super real but this and other films like it are a great path to take just a load off some days. Life can’t always be serious. We’re ugly and untalented too

  • @me-mj9du
    @me-mj9du Рік тому +1

    I watched it twice in theaters it was FANTASTIC

  • @arayategan9218
    @arayategan9218 Місяць тому

    How did I miss this till now?!?! I love your work!

  • @nguyengirl7684
    @nguyengirl7684 Рік тому +2

    I really enjoyed this film! couldn't catch it in theaters but bought it for on demand streaming the minute it was available. For me a queer character being played by a cis straight actor doesn't take away from my enjoyment of the media, but when it is a queer actor, it's does feel special/ is an added bonus not lost on me. As a bisexual asian american, finding out the actress who plays Josie's love interest, Isabel (played by Havana Rose Liu), is actually pansexual was cool to see and made me love the character of Isabel even more.

  • @jacobaeden
    @jacobaeden Рік тому +4

    i love how every queer youtubers and movie reaction youtubers are enjoying this movie

  • @zebibabr
    @zebibabr 4 місяці тому

    sapphic woman here, I LOVED THIS MOVIE! I think you nailed why it is awesome, and also the complexity of queer roles/queer actors!

  • @VeronicaHSong
    @VeronicaHSong 7 місяців тому

    Thank you for this! I never heard of this movie, and now I know I HAVE to watch it! If it's anything like "Jennifer's Body" in relation to women loving women+ slightly gory humour, it's definitely my kind of movie!

  • @MassimoConnolli
    @MassimoConnolli Рік тому +3

    I loved Bottoms! I think it’s possibly gonna join the high school classics pantheon :)
    Kat have you seen Rotting In The Sun? I’d love to hear your opinion on that one

  • @puzzles7413
    @puzzles7413 8 місяців тому +1

    I feel like there's no better representation of what you said about the edginess of how queer people talk to each other than the homophobic dog meme. We eat that shit up.

  • @kaley5730
    @kaley5730 Рік тому +1

    The first time I saw a trailer for this film I knew I needed to see it. It looks hilarious! Definitely on my list to see soon.

  • @curiosfiligree8479
    @curiosfiligree8479 Рік тому +1

    Kat you are so funny, you had me cackling throughout this video!
    I think the expectation for all actors who portray queer experiences to queer themselves and be out to the world to be very short sighted.
    Prioritising trans actors to play trans characters makes sense because of the history of cis people being cast as trans characters and making accidentally or purposefully transphobic messaging.
    I'd understand casting more openly LGBTQ+ actors in roles about LGBTQ+ characters and experiences. But to only have openly LGBTQ+ actors portray queer characters doesn't make sense.
    No one is entitled to know other people's sexualities, even though same gender marriage is legal in most western english speaking countries that doesn't mean globally everyone is safe physically and emotionally if they are openly LGBTQ+. I've heard so many accounts of actors and writers discovering and exploring their sexuality and gender through make LGBTQ+ media.
    Honestly I don't care if straight people play queer characters as long as they are LGBTQ+ allies and not funding homophobic and transphobic charities.

  • @marymitchell6257
    @marymitchell6257 Рік тому +10

    This movie captures the energy of teenage horniness and stupidity so well. I love it

  • @ThaetusZain
    @ThaetusZain Рік тому +1

    Ahhh I like Ruby Cruz. I was really wishing Willow would get a second season, the first was rough but it wasn't without merit and just needed some more time in the oven.

  • @naomiyanos
    @naomiyanos Рік тому

    loved this movie. It was crazy to be in the theatre like oh this is what it is like to be represented. Also I totally agree that the way the characters talk to each other is really real. They captured the messiness of the friend group well, without making it serious and exhausting (which is fine but like there's so many movies like that)

  • @jessicawalton3497
    @jessicawalton3497 Рік тому +2

    Yay! I'm stoked on hearing your positive review! I will rent this movie this weekend.

  • @lorcannagle
    @lorcannagle Рік тому

    This is opening in Ireland in a couple of weeks and I am so here for it, the trailer made me laugh my head off.

  • @Oryx7000
    @Oryx7000 10 місяців тому +1

    I can’t wait to watch this movie.
    And I feel like FC is definitely queer coded so this is a perfect “twist”. Thank you!

  • @ThatFlamingFroggo
    @ThatFlamingFroggo Рік тому +13

    Aye, us Gays/Queer folk do be pretty edgy.

  • @chappellroanplsgotomanilaibeg
    @chappellroanplsgotomanilaibeg Рік тому +2

    this is such a well done review, as a lesbian who cant for the love of god be as eloquent as you, we thank you for putting these thoughts into words

  • @asterismos5451
    @asterismos5451 Рік тому +24

    I think this has a great potential to become a cult classic and make back its money later on.