Just want to say the BIGGEST thank you to everyone for your incredibly kind and thoughtful and supportive comments 😭❤ just sitting here with tears in my eyes wondering how I got so lucky to have people like you all in my life. THANK YOU THANK YOU 💞
If I could give you any tip - be kind to yourself moving forward with your PCOS journey. It’s a long road, and it takes time as you’ll realise what works for me won’t necessarily work for you and visa versa. Be kind to your mental health, stress never helps. If that means you need to take a break from finding ways to help your symptoms, then do that too. Much love from your fellow PCOS girlies around the world 🌍 ❤
I cannot even express how truly happy I am for you and finally getting answers for your health. Being affirmed in your symptoms and having a doctor believe you makes such a difference! Celebrating with you, friend! 🎉🎉🎉
Girl, don’t be mean to yourself for talking. You don’t “go on for too long,” we are here to listen to you chat about life 🧡 you’re lovely and doing a wonderful job
I am so proud to be your follower - THANK YOU FOR BEING A TRUE INFLUENCER AND DELETING TIKTOK! Honestly, I think if anyone wants to boost their emotional, mental, and yes, physical health, deleting that app would be a HUGE step in the right direction! ❤
I remember the horror story from 2021 and remember thinking that my Gyno was saying the same things and I thought it was my fault. I finally saw a new Gyno in November and she finally listened and said “your body and your weight isn’t the problem, it’s a side affect of a disorder that you didn’t ask to have and you need to stop blaming yourself” and when I tell you I sobbed in her office, it was the most validating thing. I now have gotten 2 sonograms and a PAP done to get everything checked out and absolutely love her and everyone in her office. They’re so kind and make you feel so welcomed when you come in. There is no fatphobic vibes at all and it’s so nice to feel comfortable in a space that can feel so uncomfortable. I am SO happy to hear that you finally got the diagnosis you have needed for several years. Cheers to all the ladies on here dealing with the same crap, we got this.
Here is to you getting your health back! You are going to feel much better soon I hope. I have been there and done that, doctors don’t like to listen to women much and they steal years of our lives from us by not listening.
I'm so happy for you! Getting my Endo diagnosis was one of the happiest days of my life. No longer feeling gaslit, getting to take the steps for a better life, knowing it's not something you can help- just so life changing! Hopefully now you can have some peace
You give me hope as a 42 yr old woman who has been struggling with similar health issues since puberty that there is help out there. Thank you for sharing your story.
As someone with multiple chronic illnesses, who has also spent years of searching for answers, terrible experiences seeking medical care, and living with disabling symptoms, I fully know what you’re talking about. I was crying along with you in this video. Hugs from Tennessee from a viewer since 2018/2019. ❤️
1. You look AMAZING in that color blue, keep stealing Drew’s sweaters 2. Been here since 2018, I remember the 2021 doctor horror story😖 made my stomach flip especially as a healthcare worker. So so happy you finally found a doctor to listen to you and respects you!
So glad you have some answers!! I dealt with pain for 5+ years and eventually my period was only coming maybeee 4 times a year. Finally found a doctor who said, let’s do the surgery..if we find something we will get rid of it and if we don’t then we will keep trying to find the diagnosis. I had my surgery in August of 2022 and when I woke up the nurse told me they found endo lesions and I just started crying and saying I knew I wasn’t crazy over and over again.. having my diagnosis has been a life saver for me, and I’m so so glad you are talking about it on your platform. Keep advocating for yourself!!
As a woman with health issues trying to navigate the American medical system, I totally get being emotional from diagnoses! It’s SO COMMON for your issues to be ignored or explained away when there is a legitimate issue that needs to be addressed. So happy for you!
so happy that you got a diagnosis and can get help!! i was diagnosed with pcod at 15, struggled for 7 years.. finally last year I decided enough is enough and started to work on my health! slowly getting better each day ♥️
I'm happy you have a diagnosis & a doctor who takes the time to sit with you ,hear you & properly take care of your diagnosis ....hang in there Carrie ...things will get better from here ...i had endometriosis & it was absolutely horrific ....take care of you xo💙🐾💙
Breathing a HUGE sigh of relief for you for your diagnosis!!!!! I remember how awful your appointments were in Arizona and wow such a blessing for someone to actually listen and confirm what you’ve been feeling for so long ❤
I just want to say how happy i am that you kept advocating for yourself about having Endo and PCOS. i remember watching that vlog and feeling so much rage that the one doctor dimissed your concerns and told you to just lose weight when you were in so much pain. It makes me want to get look at again for Endo and PCOS bc i was very discouraged after i got an ultrasound and nothing showed up but i knew there was something wrong. I'm so so so happy for you Carrie!!
Endometriosis doesn't show up on ultrasounds, unfortunately. If you have strong pain monthly and in combination with a physical exam, that might be enough for a diagnosis but to really determine it you'd have to get laparoscopic surgery. It's a little scary but it's a fast recovery and afterwards you know what's up. In certain cases they can even remove the problem on the spot.
Carrie I'm so happy for you!! Don't ever feel like you didn't do enough, that it's too late, or that a diagnosis doesn't mean anything. It means so much, it means you can finally get the help you need and feel better and focus on other, more fun life things! What a great way to start the year. 💖
I remember that horror story from 2021 - I’ve repeated it to several people to illustrate that the medical profession has a serious attitude problem around weight. Glad you found a good doctor!
I sobbed with relief after waking up from surgery and receiving my Endometriosis diagnosis. It took me 10 years to find someone who took my pain seriously and helped me. I absolutely understand crying after finding out about your diagnosis, I am so happy that you're finally getting answers and being listened to!! Your feelings and emotions are absolutely valid 💛
i love how you and your friend had a great time making vision boards and mocktails! i've been on a similar journey lately. i've been struggling with infertility due to pcos, and it's been quite challenging. but i've found hope with Aspect Health. their approach to addressing insulin resistance and enhancing fertility has made a significant difference for me. i'm now feeling more positive about my journey towards motherhood.
Carrie I’m so proud of you! You’re bringing awareness to so many women. As someone with Endometriosis and a subseptate uterus I feel you girl so so much! Having a diagnosis of anything is so bitter sweet but a relief at the same time. I really hope you get the rest of your answers soon. Sending so much love always 💜
I recently had a “you may have endo” moment too at a women’s health clinic and it was like the biggest feeling of relief to feel validated and heard instead of my symptoms being brushed off as normal! I’m glad someone heard you (finally!). Validation and knowledge are crucial in seeking answers and treatment so I’m emotional FOR YOU that you got that!!! ❤❤
So happy to hear about you finally being validated. I got diagnosed with PCOS at 15, unfortunately a difficult thing to manage but something that has really helped me is myo inositol. It’s a natural supplement (basically form of carb/sugar) so not medication, and it helps manage PCOS flare ups by keeping your insulin and blood sugars more level which reduces symptoms. you just have it with breakfast and dinner - but no pressure, it’s your body and you know what you need and what works with you. All the best ❤
I've been watching you for a long time, and I am SO PROUD of you for being persistent and getting a diagnosis! The first doctors you saw should be ashamed of themselves. Not only for brushing you off and making you feel like this was your fault, but making you shy away from seeking another opinion for so long. Good for you for being your own advocate. Let the healing begin!!!❤
I got diagnosed a couple years ago with PCOS and dude it's so validating to have an answer! 💗 Magnesium, berberine and Ovasitol has been a game changer for me!
Not me holding back tears the entire time you talked about your diagnosis and past medical experiences. I am so happy for you!!! How amazing when medical professionals actually do their jobs!! 🎉❤ I so hope you can find relief with the new rescources and treatment plan available to you!!
I am currently trying to get a diagnosis for pain/shaking/weakness and it is a JOURNEY. I went from a healthy 34 year old dancer to barely being able to function overnight. Finding a doctor or a team of doctors that actually listen and do the tests is sooooo hard, but so validating once it happens. So happy for you and excited to see the changes this can make in your life
I have struggled with many health issues and I find it difficult to be honest about my feelings. I'm so proud of you for owning the emotions of finding not exactly a health issue, but finding an answer. Keep advocating for yourself. ❤
I am SO happy for you and PROUD of you for continuing to pursue a medical diagnosis even after being so gaslit and treated so poorly. You deserve this validation and I hope you're able to feel better now that you have the diagnosis/treatment options!
I'm really glad you're finally getting and working toward diagnoses! It's not ridiculous or weird at all to feel this emotional about the reassurance that comes with it. Being gaslit by medical professionals is really frustrating. We love the good ol' "you're a woman and you have medical problems? Must be because you're overweight!" Doc., I don't think my weight directly correlates to the migraines I'm experiencing but I'm not the medical doctor so idk... I'm 30 just a year ago was the first time I ever brought my lifelong issues with headaches, migraines, GERD, and sleep to my doctor since I tried when I was like 12 and was told, "migraines are totally normals for a girl starting puberty." My doctor was shocked that I was just telling him about all these issues after seeing him for about 4 years, but it took me that long to realize that he actually listens to me! There are good medical practitioners out there... You just have to find them :(
what i will say is that for me, i had to take both the medical and natural paths together. one didn't cancel out the other. good luck and i hope so much love and light follows your journey
Getting a diagnosis can be so incredibly validating and empowering. It's like a big "I f***n told you so!!!!" to everyone who gaslit you. When I got my Hashimoto's disease diagnosis I was like THANKYOU, now I know why I have been a sad sloth for 2 years.
ugh i feel this so hard. diagnoses are so validating. i have SIBO (twins!) and when i got that diagnosis it made so many things make sense. same with my anxiety disorder diagnosis. so happy you’re getting the help you deserve❤
I’m so happy for you to finally have a diagnosis! In January 2023 I was diagnosed with PCOS and in June 2023 I was diagnosed with endometriosis. Doctors can be so discouraging but I am so glad someone finally listened to your concerns. When I finally got my diagnosis I felt so validated. I hope this year will be healing for you 💗 it’s a journey for sure but I’m proud of you
I have PCOS and endometriosis and the validation of just being diagnosed is so good!!! It's much easier to handle once you know the WHAT! So happy for you!
Thank you for being strong enough to share your medical struggles. I had a similar experience with invisible diagnoses and it is so frustrating to feel invalidated. Im sorry you have medical issues but im so glad you can now move forward with a plan of care! ❤
Whew! I know you must be relieved for a diagnosis and now able to move forward! Thank you for being so open and sharing your story with us. There are literally millions of women who are ignored or belittled for having legitimate medical issues. You set a terrific example of how to advocate for oneself ❤
I’m so glad you’ve found supportive doctors and have some answers. It’s so hard to get people to listen about PCOS symptoms and so much of it is tied to anti fat bias. It’s “oh, just lose weight” or “well you’re not fat so it’s not PCOS.”
i’m so happy you have found answers!!! i was gaslight my entire life with my stomach issues! chocked up to IBS- had to be homeschooled due to how much school i was missing, end of highschool i started having GI bleeds i struggled with massive clots for over 3 YEARS!!! going to drs to tell them how absolutely horrible i felt and what i was eliminating… finally got a colonoscopy, DR NEVER WENT IN FAR ENOUGH!! and i was told i was fine again! i went through 4 GI drs and finally requested to go to mayo clinic where i was FINALLY diagnosed with crohn’s disease. i am struggling daily with multiple other symptoms of other things that ive been still fighting for to get help and finally got another referral to mayo. doctoring can be so so disheartening when you KNOW there is something seriously wrong but they never listen or do enough to genuinely help. i’m so so glad you have a diagnosis dear!!!
Carrie I’m so proud of you for advocating for yourself!! I suffered from Endo for 6yrs before getting a hysterectomy at age 30. I’m 34 now and my quality of life has changed for the better.
SO SO happy for you carrie ! i’ve had such a similar experience of having doctors insist my pain was “normal” for a decade and i had given up for a while but im taking this as my sign to look for a new doctor and try again ❤
I am so glad you are finally validated, it's awful how much we have to advocate for the simplest things! I had to tell my doctor I thought I had PCOS before he even considered it and then said, "Oh yeah, I agree, let's verify that." There's no cure, but with a diagnosis the symptoms can be managed.
Being diagnosed with Endo takes FOREVER and it's such an overwhelming feeling when your thoughts are confirmed. You finally feel heard. I balled when I was validated and my surgery was booked to remove the endo. I was ignored for 2 decades. I have a heart shaped (uterus bicornuate uterus) as well. No test show you Endo. So surgery is the only confirmation. I am no 10 years from my lap and experiencing pain, weight game, among other things and I am back to tests to see if I need another surgery. The weight gain is so frustrating with PCOS, Endo, all of it. The chronic pain and all the systems are exhausting mentally, emotionally, and physically. I am so happy that you have answers, but I am so sorry that you also struggle with these horrible diseases.
I totally know the feelings you’re having. It shouldn’t be great news but it is because now you have answers and can get help and feel better and the VALIDATION! Totally get it and I’m glad you chose to share because it seems like many of us have also been there. I hope only the best for you and your health in 2024 and beyond! As much as you choose to share I’ll be here for it.
I'm glad that you got your diagnosis. I had PCOS AND ENDOMETRIOSIS. Drs kept brushing me off for over 25 years. I finally got diagnosed at 42 years old and had a hysterectomy at 43. Changed my life! I love life now.
A diagnosis is so huge and such a relief. I’ve been struggling with knee pain for almost 2 years as a 22 year old. Finally after 3 different doctors, I have a torn meniscus and possible acl and will get surgery 😭❤️ can finally go back to living life without my knee holding me back! Happy for you Carrie ☺️
I absolutely sobbed when I finally got my for sure PCOS diagnosis- happy and sad tears. I was diagnosed with possible endo & PCOS by a different doctor years ago and it was so frustrating not knowing for sure. I’m so so happy that you continued to advocate for yourself, it’s so hard when multiple doctors are saying there’s nothing wrong with you. Now you can do the research and get all the help you need!! 🥰
Carrie, I’m so proud of you for continuing to advocate for your health. It’s wild that it’s taken so long to get this diagnosis but I’m so happy for you that you finally have an answer and you can make a path forward.
im so sorry for your medical experience 😢 hopefully things get better from here! and a diagnosis can change a lot: the validation! a name! a community! a solution!
SO happy for you getting confirmation and resources. It's exhausting to advocate for yourself for years. Wishing for so much healing - physical and emotional. Your pain and story is valid and you're not alone, even though hormonal/health challenges like this can feel so isolating.
I also almost cried when I got the same answers and was referred to a specialist. Its absolutely unreal how much of a difference it makes to feel like you are heard and have your suspicions confirmed. Congratulations on getting more info!! ❤
I'm so happy you feel so validated! I know when I got my endo diagnosis I also cried. Like a release of all the stress, negativity, and BS from not being believed for years. Your crying is so normal you are so amazing - showing your journey on youtube and your strength with medical BS has shown your audience the importance of standing up and advocating for oneself. Thank you for all you do.
A diagnosis is a huge deal! Im waiting on one myself so I can feel better! I’m so happy to finally see women’s health at the forefront. As a more mature woman, I’m happy they are really diving into menopause as well which is great for women your age to know what to expect going into it.
I’m so happy for you that you finally got a diagnosis and are on the road to getting some relief. I was here in 2021 and have had similar experiences with doctors and it’s terrible but nice to see that you aren’t the only one going thru this stuff. Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable when you have no obligation to, and I wish you the absolute best in finding treatment ❤
As somebody who is still fighting for a diagnosis amongst doctors who don’t listen, I am SO HAPPY for you. Crying happy tears. So big. You are so strong!
Confusing medical appointments are the worst! I am so glad you have gotten some clarity, but it pisses me off that you had to go through all that first! Good for you for being on your own side and advocating for yourself. Thank you for being willing to share this moment. I am sure that it will help a lot of people! Ladies! Don’t let people talk down to you, especially about your own health!❤❤❤
So happy for you! I got diagnosed with PCOS recently and it sucked but was validating to have an answer. Hoping 2024 is a great year for you and your health ❤
So happy you were finally able to get a diagnosis! Thank you for all the updates! 2024 is starting off wonderfully for you and you deserve it!! I deleted Tik Tok a few months ago and it was one of the best things I’ve done.
I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2021 and PCOS just a few months ago. I’m only 25 and I feel privileged to have found doctors who made me feel heard. I have such sympathy for those who have to wait years or even decades for a diagnosis! Ladies, if you’re in excruciating pain, speak up! Unfortunately we live in a world where we have to advocate for ourselves 😔
Don't know if you will read this but I'm so happy you got diagnosed!!! AND I completely get being validated!!! In 2011 found out I had an endometriosis cyst on my left ovary & in 2012 had to go it for surgery to get it removed! Then finding out I also have PCOS afterwards. I was truly blessed not just getting pregnant 1x (2015) but 2x (2018) was amazing!!! However, still being in pain and underwent a full hysterectomy (2021)!!! But when having my follow up with my doctor, she had pictures of all endometriosis they found inside me plus my other ovary had a cyst growing. All the pain I had felt was real! I cried too!!! Best thing I did for myself and family!
The medical gaslighting we do to ourselves is debilitating after years of doctors telling us nothing is wrong. Having a diagnosis validates every time you thought “am I making this up?” I get that feeling. I’m so glad you got a diagnosis and now you can move forward with treatment. Wishing you all the best 🤍
so glad you were finally able to get a PCOS diagnosis!! i got mine ~8 years ago and it’s def a weird journey with ups and downs, but i hope for you at least knowing what’s going on will illuminate things and you can get the help you deserve!
Aww Carrie, wishing you well on this new journey! I was diagnosed at 16 and I’ve found PCOS is so individual and there’s some trial and error in figuring out what’s best for you. However, (by far!) the thing that helped me the most was acupuncture. That and determining if I was insulin resistant vs non insulin resistant.
My periods were so incredibly painful, and the only thing that has helped was being on birth control for the past five years. I’m honestly scared to come off of it when I try to get pregnant. The normal dose of ibuprofen doesn’t help the pain much, and acetaminophen does nothing at all. Sometimes I throw up or pass out from pain. I never really talked to my obgyn about how bad my pain is, but watching this is making me realize that I should. Carrie, I hope your diagnosis helps you find a good treatment! Thanks for sharing your story
I've passed out and thrown up from periods as well and the only thing that helped relieve it all was... getting pregnant and having kids. Hope you have the same experience.
I'm so glad you got a diagnosis! I too have PCOS so I look forward to hearing what you find that helps. I started crying from relief also when I was diagnosed with polyps in my uterus because I learned it wasn't my fault. I also had a doctor fat shame me and ask if my depression was "cured" from being on antidepressants. I hope you find things to help and start healing!
Why am I cryingggg lol I am so happy you got some answers! I’m trying to get my health in order this year and it’s so rewarding when you are able to find treatments that work for you ❤️
I’m so happy that you’ve got a diagnosis, Carrie. This has been such a long journey for you. That doctor you saw in 2021 was so awful. It must be a huge relief and so validating to receive this information. I hope that you continue to get supportive care from now on.
Carrie - I am so proud of you. This vlog all I could think was “I’m so proud of her”. You got this!! I’m so happy you got the relief of a proper diagnosis!
I'm crying with you, baby girl. ❤ You are seen and valued and now heard. Praying for you, thank you for being vulnerable. Because you are right, there are many of us out there too with PCOS and mental health and digestive issues. I relate so much to you and love your content. You have a friend here in Washington State, girlie. Hugs.
welcome to the gang, also got diagnosed with endo/pcos a few years ago after having laparoscopic surgery. my endo had spread so bad it was latched onto my bladder and my intestines & causing a lot of issues. the best thing i’ve done for my endo was getting on nexplanon, i don’t get a period anymore which means no more flare ups and constant pain, in fact after i had gotten my wisdom teeth taken out the dentist was horrified to know i was prescribed tramadol for period pains. it just goes to show how painful all of this can be! i hope you find the right remedy for you! sending love. ❤
Awww Pine & Crane is my high school classmate’s restaurant! She’s the best and deserves the high praise her restaurants are getting! Try Joy on York in Highland Park too!
I'm so happy you got a diagnosis. I hope you find relief. I stopped getting my period 3 years ago (I'm 52, young for menopause) and it's great. The best. Periods suck.
I’m literally almost crying with you. Congrats on finally being heard, taken seriously, and getting your diagnosis. I hope the road to treatment is much easier than the road to a diagnosis. 2024 is your year, much love!
Having a diagnosis makes a huge difference and is So validating!! I’m 36 and had a similar experience over the years with endometriosis and am doing so much better after finally receiving proper care! I’m so happy you finally found helpful doctors and hope you find relief! ❤🙌🏻
So happy you finally have a medical provider who listens and took the necessary steps to find you answers. I really would support you calling that other doctor who weight shamed you and neglected to give you adequate care. That doctor needs to know the damage she caused.
I’m so glad you got a diagnosis!! I know it’s been so hard on you. My gyno blows me off every time I ask for further testing. I have these symptoms and I just stopped asking because no one would help me. It sucks we have to go through this ❤
I feel like emotions are totally valid here! It was such a huge step for you to even go to the doctor and I'm SO happy someone has listened, and that you advocated for YOU! ❤❤ also, consider Drew's sweater yours now. LOVE that color on you!
I am so happy you found out what you have I know I felt better once I was diagnosed with POF and you feel like a weight has been lifted and that you are not going insane feeling that something is wrong. Wishing the best for you and sending positive vibes your way
Biggest congratulations on getting a diagnosis finally! I'm sorry you're part of the Endo club :( I got diagnosed at 21 (30 now) after years of debilitating pain as well and being dismissed by countless doctors. I was only diagnosed because my ovary burst and I needed emergency surgery- women's healthcare is ridiculous. Sending love!
I feel emotional for you Carrie. I have followed along in this journey with you and have felt similar stuff in my own life. I am glad you are finally being heard and taken seriously. You deserve that. Love you girl❤
So so happy for you on the feeling validated and heard front!! I've been following for a while so I know it's been a journey, and I know it's ongoing but WHAT a milestone! Way to go advocating for yourself!!
Sending love and support your way ❤ thank you for being a light at the end of the tunnel for those of us also seeking understanding of debilitating symptoms. It’s exhausting and frustrating and infuriating, but it’s reassuring to see that there are some doctors out there that listen.
I’m so proud of you girl! I have real insurance for the first time in my life at 24 almost 25 years old and I’m finally doing all the things I’ve needed to do for years now that were brushed off by my parents as fine. Doing labs and seeing a cardiologist and doing all kinds of tests and seeing a psychiatrist and trying meds. It’s all terrifying but GO US FOR DOING THE DAMN THING.
So happy for you!! I think I’ve commented before to say that I had a really bad experience around getting diagnosed with endometriosis. I was also gaslit and the doctor mansplained to me what ovulation pain is. Long story short, I saw an endometriosis specialist and she is AMAZING. I’m on a treatment plan and it’s helping!! I hope the same for you for the management of your endo. We are warriors!!
I also have PCOS as well as Hashimotos (hypothyroid). It seems every doctor I've seen in the last few years as been so focused on my thyroid numbers that they don't want even talk about the PCOS. When I bring up, "yes, my thyroid numbers are great but I still have symptoms and feel like crap" I get "oh, you need more sleep" or "you're a mom, of course you're tire all the time!". I totally hear you on being frustrated with medical personnel. I can't tell you the number of appointments I've left and hours later realized I got brushed off on the PCOS again! So glad you finally have a diagnosis and a medical team that works for you!
Just want to say the BIGGEST thank you to everyone for your incredibly kind and thoughtful and supportive comments 😭❤ just sitting here with tears in my eyes wondering how I got so lucky to have people like you all in my life. THANK YOU THANK YOU 💞
If I could give you any tip - be kind to yourself moving forward with your PCOS journey. It’s a long road, and it takes time as you’ll realise what works for me won’t necessarily work for you and visa versa. Be kind to your mental health, stress never helps. If that means you need to take a break from finding ways to help your symptoms, then do that too. Much love from your fellow PCOS girlies around the world 🌍 ❤
I cannot even express how truly happy I am for you and finally getting answers for your health. Being affirmed in your symptoms and having a doctor believe you makes such a difference! Celebrating with you, friend! 🎉🎉🎉
this comment made my week - thank you SO MUCH FOR BEING SO KIND 😭💞
Girl, don’t be mean to yourself for talking. You don’t “go on for too long,” we are here to listen to you chat about life 🧡 you’re lovely and doing a wonderful job
this is so kind, thank you 🥺❤
SO proud of you for persisting, advocating for yourself, and getting a diagnosis ❤
thank you SO much!!!
I am so proud to be your follower - THANK YOU FOR BEING A TRUE INFLUENCER AND DELETING TIKTOK! Honestly, I think if anyone wants to boost their emotional, mental, and yes, physical health, deleting that app would be a HUGE step in the right direction! ❤
I remember the horror story from 2021 and remember thinking that my Gyno was saying the same things and I thought it was my fault. I finally saw a new Gyno in November and she finally listened and said “your body and your weight isn’t the problem, it’s a side affect of a disorder that you didn’t ask to have and you need to stop blaming yourself” and when I tell you I sobbed in her office, it was the most validating thing. I now have gotten 2 sonograms and a PAP done to get everything checked out and absolutely love her and everyone in her office. They’re so kind and make you feel so welcomed when you come in. There is no fatphobic vibes at all and it’s so nice to feel comfortable in a space that can feel so uncomfortable. I am SO happy to hear that you finally got the diagnosis you have needed for several years. Cheers to all the ladies on here dealing with the same crap, we got this.
I remember that too i was here too she was so sad and cried 😢
Here is to you getting your health back! You are going to feel much better soon I hope. I have been there and done that, doctors don’t like to listen to women much and they steal years of our lives from us by not listening.
I am genuinely so happy you got a diagnosis & can slowly get help ❤ Being heard & understood is amazing
I'm so happy for you! Getting my Endo diagnosis was one of the happiest days of my life. No longer feeling gaslit, getting to take the steps for a better life, knowing it's not something you can help- just so life changing! Hopefully now you can have some peace
You give me hope as a 42 yr old woman who has been struggling with similar health issues since puberty that there is help out there. Thank you for sharing your story.
As someone with multiple chronic illnesses, who has also spent years of searching for answers, terrible experiences seeking medical care, and living with disabling symptoms, I fully know what you’re talking about. I was crying along with you in this video. Hugs from Tennessee from a viewer since 2018/2019. ❤️
1. You look AMAZING in that color blue, keep stealing Drew’s sweaters
2. Been here since 2018, I remember the 2021 doctor horror story😖 made my stomach flip especially as a healthcare worker. So so happy you finally found a doctor to listen to you and respects you!
So glad you have some answers!! I dealt with pain for 5+ years and eventually my period was only coming maybeee 4 times a year.
Finally found a doctor who said, let’s do the surgery..if we find something we will get rid of it and if we don’t then we will keep trying to find the diagnosis.
I had my surgery in August of 2022 and when I woke up the nurse told me they found endo lesions and I just started crying and saying I knew I wasn’t crazy over and over again..
having my diagnosis has been a life saver for me, and I’m so so glad you are talking about it on your platform.
Keep advocating for yourself!!
As a woman with health issues trying to navigate the American medical system, I totally get being emotional from diagnoses! It’s SO COMMON for your issues to be ignored or explained away when there is a legitimate issue that needs to be addressed. So happy for you!
so happy that you got a diagnosis and can get help!! i was diagnosed with pcod at 15, struggled for 7 years.. finally last year I decided enough is enough and started to work on my health! slowly getting better each day ♥️
I'm happy you have a diagnosis & a doctor who takes the time to sit with you ,hear you & properly take care of your diagnosis ....hang in there Carrie ...things will get better from here ...i had endometriosis & it was absolutely horrific ....take care of you xo💙🐾💙
Breathing a HUGE sigh of relief for you for your diagnosis!!!!! I remember how awful your appointments were in Arizona and wow such a blessing for someone to actually listen and confirm what you’ve been feeling for so long ❤
I just want to say how happy i am that you kept advocating for yourself about having Endo and PCOS. i remember watching that vlog and feeling so much rage that the one doctor dimissed your concerns and told you to just lose weight when you were in so much pain. It makes me want to get look at again for Endo and PCOS bc i was very discouraged after i got an ultrasound and nothing showed up but i knew there was something wrong. I'm so so so happy for you Carrie!!
Endometriosis doesn't show up on ultrasounds, unfortunately. If you have strong pain monthly and in combination with a physical exam, that might be enough for a diagnosis but to really determine it you'd have to get laparoscopic surgery. It's a little scary but it's a fast recovery and afterwards you know what's up. In certain cases they can even remove the problem on the spot.
Carrie I'm so happy for you!! Don't ever feel like you didn't do enough, that it's too late, or that a diagnosis doesn't mean anything. It means so much, it means you can finally get the help you need and feel better and focus on other, more fun life things! What a great way to start the year. 💖
I remember that horror story from 2021 - I’ve repeated it to several people to illustrate that the medical profession has a serious attitude problem around weight. Glad you found a good doctor!
especially when it comes to womens health like not everything has to do with weight
I sobbed with relief after waking up from surgery and receiving my Endometriosis diagnosis. It took me 10 years to find someone who took my pain seriously and helped me. I absolutely understand crying after finding out about your diagnosis, I am so happy that you're finally getting answers and being listened to!! Your feelings and emotions are absolutely valid 💛
i love how you and your friend had a great time making vision boards and mocktails! i've been on a similar journey lately. i've been struggling with infertility due to pcos, and it's been quite challenging. but i've found hope with Aspect Health. their approach to addressing insulin resistance and enhancing fertility has made a significant difference for me. i'm now feeling more positive about my journey towards motherhood.
Carrie I’m so proud of you! You’re bringing awareness to so many women. As someone with Endometriosis and a subseptate uterus I feel you girl so so much! Having a diagnosis of anything is so bitter sweet but a relief at the same time. I really hope you get the rest of your answers soon. Sending so much love always 💜
I recently had a “you may have endo” moment too at a women’s health clinic and it was like the biggest feeling of relief to feel validated and heard instead of my symptoms being brushed off as normal! I’m glad someone heard you (finally!). Validation and knowledge are crucial in seeking answers and treatment so I’m emotional FOR YOU that you got that!!! ❤❤
So happy to hear about you finally being validated. I got diagnosed with PCOS at 15, unfortunately a difficult thing to manage but something that has really helped me is myo inositol. It’s a natural supplement (basically form of carb/sugar) so not medication, and it helps manage PCOS flare ups by keeping your insulin and blood sugars more level which reduces symptoms. you just have it with breakfast and dinner - but no pressure, it’s your body and you know what you need and what works with you. All the best ❤
I've been watching you for a long time, and I am SO PROUD of you for being persistent and getting a diagnosis! The first doctors you saw should be ashamed of themselves. Not only for brushing you off and making you feel like this was your fault, but making you shy away from seeking another opinion for so long.
Good for you for being your own advocate. Let the healing begin!!!❤
so happy you finally found an answer, and professionals that are willing to actually listen to you and help! wishing you a bright path to healing ❤
I got diagnosed a couple years ago with PCOS and dude it's so validating to have an answer! 💗 Magnesium, berberine and Ovasitol has been a game changer for me!
Not me holding back tears the entire time you talked about your diagnosis and past medical experiences. I am so happy for you!!! How amazing when medical professionals actually do their jobs!! 🎉❤ I so hope you can find relief with the new rescources and treatment plan available to you!!
I am currently trying to get a diagnosis for pain/shaking/weakness and it is a JOURNEY. I went from a healthy 34 year old dancer to barely being able to function overnight. Finding a doctor or a team of doctors that actually listen and do the tests is sooooo hard, but so validating once it happens. So happy for you and excited to see the changes this can make in your life
I have struggled with many health issues and I find it difficult to be honest about my feelings. I'm so proud of you for owning the emotions of finding not exactly a health issue, but finding an answer. Keep advocating for yourself. ❤
I am SO happy for you and PROUD of you for continuing to pursue a medical diagnosis even after being so gaslit and treated so poorly. You deserve this validation and I hope you're able to feel better now that you have the diagnosis/treatment options!
I'm really glad you're finally getting and working toward diagnoses! It's not ridiculous or weird at all to feel this emotional about the reassurance that comes with it. Being gaslit by medical professionals is really frustrating. We love the good ol' "you're a woman and you have medical problems? Must be because you're overweight!" Doc., I don't think my weight directly correlates to the migraines I'm experiencing but I'm not the medical doctor so idk... I'm 30 just a year ago was the first time I ever brought my lifelong issues with headaches, migraines, GERD, and sleep to my doctor since I tried when I was like 12 and was told, "migraines are totally normals for a girl starting puberty." My doctor was shocked that I was just telling him about all these issues after seeing him for about 4 years, but it took me that long to realize that he actually listens to me! There are good medical practitioners out there... You just have to find them :(
what i will say is that for me, i had to take both the medical and natural paths together. one didn't cancel out the other. good luck and i hope so much love and light follows your journey
Getting a diagnosis can be so incredibly validating and empowering. It's like a big "I f***n told you so!!!!" to everyone who gaslit you. When I got my Hashimoto's disease diagnosis I was like THANKYOU, now I know why I have been a sad sloth for 2 years.
ugh i feel this so hard. diagnoses are so validating. i have SIBO (twins!) and when i got that diagnosis it made so many things make sense. same with my anxiety disorder diagnosis. so happy you’re getting the help you deserve❤
Having a healthcare professional who actually LISTENS is sucha gift, wish it where the or
Answers can be so validating. I'm glad you finally found someone to give a name to your issues. ❤
I’m so happy for you to finally have a diagnosis! In January 2023 I was diagnosed with PCOS and in June 2023 I was diagnosed with endometriosis. Doctors can be so discouraging but I am so glad someone finally listened to your concerns. When I finally got my diagnosis I felt so validated. I hope this year will be healing for you 💗 it’s a journey for sure but I’m proud of you
Thank you for being so open and sharing your journey 💗💗
I have PCOS and endometriosis and the validation of just being diagnosed is so good!!! It's much easier to handle once you know the WHAT! So happy for you!
Thank you for being strong enough to share your medical struggles. I had a similar experience with invisible diagnoses and it is so frustrating to feel invalidated. Im sorry you have medical issues but im so glad you can now move forward with a plan of care! ❤
Whew! I know you must be relieved for a diagnosis and now able to move forward! Thank you for being so open and sharing your story with us. There are literally millions of women who are ignored or belittled for having legitimate medical issues. You set a terrific example of how to advocate for oneself ❤
I’m so glad you’ve found supportive doctors and have some answers. It’s so hard to get people to listen about PCOS symptoms and so much of it is tied to anti fat bias. It’s “oh, just lose weight” or “well you’re not fat so it’s not PCOS.”
i’m so happy you have found answers!!! i was gaslight my entire life with my stomach issues! chocked up to IBS- had to be homeschooled due to how much school i was missing, end of highschool i started having GI bleeds i struggled with massive clots for over 3 YEARS!!! going to drs to tell them how absolutely horrible i felt and what i was eliminating… finally got a colonoscopy, DR NEVER WENT IN FAR ENOUGH!! and i was told i was fine again! i went through 4 GI drs and finally requested to go to mayo clinic where i was FINALLY diagnosed with crohn’s disease. i am struggling daily with multiple other symptoms of other things that ive been still fighting for to get help and finally got another referral to mayo. doctoring can be so so disheartening when you KNOW there is something seriously wrong but they never listen or do enough to genuinely help. i’m so so glad you have a diagnosis dear!!!
Carrie I’m so proud of you for advocating for yourself!! I suffered from Endo for 6yrs before getting a hysterectomy at age 30. I’m 34 now and my quality of life has changed for the better.
SO SO happy for you carrie ! i’ve had such a similar experience of having doctors insist my pain was “normal” for a decade and i had given up for a while but im taking this as my sign to look for a new doctor and try again ❤
I am so glad you are finally validated, it's awful how much we have to advocate for the simplest things! I had to tell my doctor I thought I had PCOS before he even considered it and then said, "Oh yeah, I agree, let's verify that." There's no cure, but with a diagnosis the symptoms can be managed.
Being diagnosed with Endo takes FOREVER and it's such an overwhelming feeling when your thoughts are confirmed. You finally feel heard. I balled when I was validated and my surgery was booked to remove the endo. I was ignored for 2 decades. I have a heart shaped (uterus bicornuate uterus) as well. No test show you Endo. So surgery is the only confirmation. I am no 10 years from my lap and experiencing pain, weight game, among other things and I am back to tests to see if I need another surgery. The weight gain is so frustrating with PCOS, Endo, all of it. The chronic pain and all the systems are exhausting mentally, emotionally, and physically. I am so happy that you have answers, but I am so sorry that you also struggle with these horrible diseases.
I totally know the feelings you’re having. It shouldn’t be great news but it is because now you have answers and can get help and feel better and the VALIDATION!
Totally get it and I’m glad you chose to share because it seems like many of us have also been there. I hope only the best for you and your health in 2024 and beyond! As much as you choose to share I’ll be here for it.
I’ve been following you since around 2016 and I am SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! I’m glad a doctor finally took you seriously and listened to your concerns ❤
I'm glad that you got your diagnosis. I had PCOS AND ENDOMETRIOSIS. Drs kept brushing me off for over 25 years. I finally got diagnosed at 42 years old and had a hysterectomy at 43. Changed my life! I love life now.
A diagnosis is so huge and such a relief. I’ve been struggling with knee pain for almost 2 years as a 22 year old. Finally after 3 different doctors, I have a torn meniscus and possible acl and will get surgery 😭❤️ can finally go back to living life without my knee holding me back! Happy for you Carrie ☺️
I'm so happy you finally got answers. Being a woman and trying to get answers sometimes is so difficult.
so so happy you finally got a diagnoses!!!!!
I absolutely sobbed when I finally got my for sure PCOS diagnosis- happy and sad tears. I was diagnosed with possible endo & PCOS by a different doctor years ago and it was so frustrating not knowing for sure. I’m so so happy that you continued to advocate for yourself, it’s so hard when multiple doctors are saying there’s nothing wrong with you. Now you can do the research and get all the help you need!! 🥰
Carrie, I’m so proud of you for continuing to advocate for your health. It’s wild that it’s taken so long to get this diagnosis but I’m so happy for you that you finally have an answer and you can make a path forward.
im so sorry for your medical experience 😢 hopefully things get better from here! and a diagnosis can change a lot: the validation! a name! a community! a solution!
SO happy for you getting confirmation and resources. It's exhausting to advocate for yourself for years. Wishing for so much healing - physical and emotional. Your pain and story is valid and you're not alone, even though hormonal/health challenges like this can feel so isolating.
I also almost cried when I got the same answers and was referred to a specialist. Its absolutely unreal how much of a difference it makes to feel like you are heard and have your suspicions confirmed. Congratulations on getting more info!! ❤
After my diagnosis and removal of endo after surgery I cannot tell you how much better I felt! Go for it!
I'm so happy you feel so validated! I know when I got my endo diagnosis I also cried. Like a release of all the stress, negativity, and BS from not being believed for years. Your crying is so normal you are so amazing - showing your journey on youtube and your strength with medical BS has shown your audience the importance of standing up and advocating for oneself. Thank you for all you do.
I am thrilled that you’ve finally been heard. It took far too long, but I’m glad it finally happened. Congratulations!
I’m so happy you’ve FINALLY gotten your answers! Should not have been this painful of a process 😢 lots of love! ❤️
A diagnosis is a huge deal! Im waiting on one myself so I can feel better! I’m so happy to finally see women’s health at the forefront. As a more mature woman, I’m happy they are really diving into menopause as well which is great for women your age to know what to expect going into it.
I’m so happy for you that you finally got a diagnosis and are on the road to getting some relief. I was here in 2021 and have had similar experiences with doctors and it’s terrible but nice to see that you aren’t the only one going thru this stuff. Thank you for sharing and being so vulnerable when you have no obligation to, and I wish you the absolute best in finding treatment ❤
As somebody who is still fighting for a diagnosis amongst doctors who don’t listen, I am SO HAPPY for you. Crying happy tears. So big. You are so strong!
i'm keeping you in my thoughts!!! i hope you're able to find someone who listens to you so soon 💞 don't give up!
Confusing medical appointments are the worst! I am so glad you have gotten some clarity, but it pisses me off that you had to go through all that first! Good for you for being on your own side and advocating for yourself. Thank you for being willing to share this moment. I am sure that it will help a lot of people! Ladies! Don’t let people talk down to you, especially about your own health!❤❤❤
So happy for you! I got diagnosed with PCOS recently and it sucked but was validating to have an answer. Hoping 2024 is a great year for you and your health ❤
So happy you were finally able to get a diagnosis! Thank you for all the updates! 2024 is starting off wonderfully for you and you deserve it!! I deleted Tik Tok a few months ago and it was one of the best things I’ve done.
I was diagnosed with endometriosis in 2021 and PCOS just a few months ago. I’m only 25 and I feel privileged to have found doctors who made me feel heard. I have such sympathy for those who have to wait years or even decades for a diagnosis! Ladies, if you’re in excruciating pain, speak up! Unfortunately we live in a world where we have to advocate for ourselves 😔
Don't know if you will read this but I'm so happy you got diagnosed!!! AND I completely get being validated!!!
In 2011 found out I had an endometriosis cyst on my left ovary & in 2012 had to go it for surgery to get it removed! Then finding out I also have PCOS afterwards. I was truly blessed not just getting pregnant 1x (2015) but 2x (2018) was amazing!!! However, still being in pain and underwent a full hysterectomy (2021)!!! But when having my follow up with my doctor, she had pictures of all endometriosis they found inside me plus my other ovary had a cyst growing. All the pain I had felt was real! I cried too!!!
Best thing I did for myself and family!
The medical gaslighting we do to ourselves is debilitating after years of doctors telling us nothing is wrong. Having a diagnosis validates every time you thought “am I making this up?” I get that feeling. I’m so glad you got a diagnosis and now you can move forward with treatment. Wishing you all the best 🤍
so glad you were finally able to get a PCOS diagnosis!! i got mine ~8 years ago and it’s def a weird journey with ups and downs, but i hope for you at least knowing what’s going on will illuminate things and you can get the help you deserve!
Aww Carrie, wishing you well on this new journey! I was diagnosed at 16 and I’ve found PCOS is so individual and there’s some trial and error in figuring out what’s best for you. However, (by far!) the thing that helped me the most was acupuncture. That and determining if I was insulin resistant vs non insulin resistant.
My periods were so incredibly painful, and the only thing that has helped was being on birth control for the past five years. I’m honestly scared to come off of it when I try to get pregnant. The normal dose of ibuprofen doesn’t help the pain much, and acetaminophen does nothing at all. Sometimes I throw up or pass out from pain. I never really talked to my obgyn about how bad my pain is, but watching this is making me realize that I should. Carrie, I hope your diagnosis helps you find a good treatment! Thanks for sharing your story
I've passed out and thrown up from periods as well and the only thing that helped relieve it all was... getting pregnant and having kids. Hope you have the same experience.
@@le4905 that gives me a lot of hope, thank you! I hope the same will happen for me
I'm so glad you got a diagnosis! I too have PCOS so I look forward to hearing what you find that helps. I started crying from relief also when I was diagnosed with polyps in my uterus because I learned it wasn't my fault. I also had a doctor fat shame me and ask if my depression was "cured" from being on antidepressants. I hope you find things to help and start healing!
Why am I cryingggg lol I am so happy you got some answers! I’m trying to get my health in order this year and it’s so rewarding when you are able to find treatments that work for you ❤️
I’m so happy that you’ve got a diagnosis, Carrie. This has been such a long journey for you. That doctor you saw in 2021 was so awful. It must be a huge relief and so validating to receive this information. I hope that you continue to get supportive care from now on.
Carrie - I am so proud of you. This vlog all I could think was “I’m so proud of her”. You got this!! I’m so happy you got the relief of a proper diagnosis!
I'm crying with you, baby girl. ❤ You are seen and valued and now heard. Praying for you, thank you for being vulnerable. Because you are right, there are many of us out there too with PCOS and mental health and digestive issues. I relate so much to you and love your content. You have a friend here in Washington State, girlie. Hugs.
welcome to the gang, also got diagnosed with endo/pcos a few years ago after having laparoscopic surgery. my endo had spread so bad it was latched onto my bladder and my intestines & causing a lot of issues. the best thing i’ve done for my endo was getting on nexplanon, i don’t get a period anymore which means no more flare ups and constant pain, in fact after i had gotten my wisdom teeth taken out the dentist was horrified to know i was prescribed tramadol for period pains. it just goes to show how painful all of this can be! i hope you find the right remedy for you! sending love. ❤
Awww Pine & Crane is my high school classmate’s restaurant! She’s the best and deserves the high praise her restaurants are getting! Try Joy on York in Highland Park too!
I'm so happy you got a diagnosis. I hope you find relief. I stopped getting my period 3 years ago (I'm 52, young for menopause) and it's great. The best. Periods suck.
I’m literally almost crying with you. Congrats on finally being heard, taken seriously, and getting your diagnosis. I hope the road to treatment is much easier than the road to a diagnosis. 2024 is your year, much love!
So much relief comes from diagnosis because that means direction for care to hopefully start feeling better. I'm happy for you. Xoxo
Having a diagnosis makes a huge difference and is So validating!! I’m 36 and had a similar experience over the years with endometriosis and am doing so much better after finally receiving proper care! I’m so happy you finally found helpful doctors and hope you find relief! ❤🙌🏻
So happy you finally have a medical provider who listens and took the necessary steps to find you answers. I really would support you calling that other doctor who weight shamed you and neglected to give you adequate care. That doctor needs to know the damage she caused.
I’m so glad you got a diagnosis!! I know it’s been so hard on you. My gyno blows me off every time I ask for further testing. I have these symptoms and I just stopped asking because no one would help me. It sucks we have to go through this ❤
I feel like emotions are totally valid here! It was such a huge step for you to even go to the doctor and I'm SO happy someone has listened, and that you advocated for YOU! ❤❤ also, consider Drew's sweater yours now. LOVE that color on you!
I am so happy you found out what you have I know I felt better once I was diagnosed with POF and you feel like a weight has been lifted and that you are not going insane feeling that something is wrong. Wishing the best for you and sending positive vibes your way
Biggest congratulations on getting a diagnosis finally! I'm sorry you're part of the Endo club :( I got diagnosed at 21 (30 now) after years of debilitating pain as well and being dismissed by countless doctors. I was only diagnosed because my ovary burst and I needed emergency surgery- women's healthcare is ridiculous. Sending love!
I feel emotional for you Carrie. I have followed along in this journey with you and have felt similar stuff in my own life. I am glad you are finally being heard and taken seriously. You deserve that. Love you girl❤
a diagnosis changes everything
So happy that you have the diagnosis so you can start treatment to feel better. Thank you for sharing
Around 15:20 when you showed up in Drew's blue sweater, I literally gasped and was like THAT LOOKS *SO GOOD* ON CARRIE
I am so so excited for you and glad you are finally finding affirming, actuate, supportive medical care.
So so happy for you on the feeling validated and heard front!! I've been following for a while so I know it's been a journey, and I know it's ongoing but WHAT a milestone! Way to go advocating for yourself!!
Sending love and support your way ❤ thank you for being a light at the end of the tunnel for those of us also seeking understanding of debilitating symptoms. It’s exhausting and frustrating and infuriating, but it’s reassuring to see that there are some doctors out there that listen.
I’m so proud of you girl! I have real insurance for the first time in my life at 24 almost 25 years old and I’m finally doing all the things I’ve needed to do for years now that were brushed off by my parents as fine. Doing labs and seeing a cardiologist and doing all kinds of tests and seeing a psychiatrist and trying meds. It’s all terrifying but GO US FOR DOING THE DAMN THING.
So happy for you!! I think I’ve commented before to say that I had a really bad experience around getting diagnosed with endometriosis. I was also gaslit and the doctor mansplained to me what ovulation pain is. Long story short, I saw an endometriosis specialist and she is AMAZING. I’m on a treatment plan and it’s helping!! I hope the same for you for the management of your endo. We are warriors!!
I also have PCOS as well as Hashimotos (hypothyroid). It seems every doctor I've seen in the last few years as been so focused on my thyroid numbers that they don't want even talk about the PCOS. When I bring up, "yes, my thyroid numbers are great but I still have symptoms and feel like crap" I get "oh, you need more sleep" or "you're a mom, of course you're tire all the time!". I totally hear you on being frustrated with medical personnel. I can't tell you the number of appointments I've left and hours later realized I got brushed off on the PCOS again! So glad you finally have a diagnosis and a medical team that works for you!