DIY Spa Day for my 5 year old!
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- I planned a mommy / daughter day with Ziya so that we could spend some quality time together--getting mani pedis, going to her favorite restaurant, and maybe do some shopping. Well, it didn't exactly turn out the way I thought it would...
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BIRTHDAY: September 1993
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DAUGHTER: Named Ziya, born April 2016
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I love how you've acknowledged how Ziya is personality-wise and go after that instead of kind of forcing her to be outgoing and stuff which some parents do. As a person that was a typical shy kid and has been told all my life to be outgoing and stuff, this really touched my heart since you really show Ziya that it's okay to be a more homebody person and that it's nothing wrong with it. I would've really needed someone to tell and show me that it's okay to be a more homebody person so I wouldn't have spent years thinking something was wrong with me for not being outgoing and stuff.
Right! Love how she allows and respects Ziya’s opinion and isn’t forceful. I wish my parents were like that growing up
Right!? I am exactly like Ziya and growing up my mom acknowledged that as my personality and I am grateful every day
You can tell the difference between people who were raised understanding that and those who weren't. I think people push their children to be more open because it just makes life easier when you're more sociable.
Yes i was extremely shy growing up and my mom would constantly push me to do “outgoing” things. I would get nose bleeds and headaches for having to get out of my comfort zone. Now that i have a daughter that’s 5 i let her lead tell me what she wants to do and what she is comfortable with
Quality time is important and Mason knows how to make it fun
This was so sweet and will be an everlasting memory.
Ms. Ziya took me our talking about her husband 🤣 “YOUR WHO-????”
This was cute! Ziya played her part and thoroughly enjoyed her spa day and then she ran out on the plug & didn’t pay. 😆😆
LOL!!
The storyline in the “spa” is great 😂
Of course she can splurge on the bath-bomb.
So precious! She'll for sure remember this experience and how special you made this for her. 💕
Not Ziya out here having a whole husband and family! Too cute 😂 Way to pivot and still have a fun day! 🙌🏾
i was smiling throughout this video , so cute , she was even falling asleep . 🥺🥺to show she’s enjoying herself .
She has a great imagination. So there always ways to fit her personality. Good job mom.
Awww this is so cute ur such a good mom love how you embrace her shyness/anxiety and don't force her to be "outgoing" & Ziya is a character talking about her husband Shawn & her kids Ella & Zylie lol I died at her storylines she's too cute 😂😂
You guys make me so happy! Mommy daughter goals ❤️❤️❤️❤️
When she said her “tattoo” meant “scribble scrabble not alive” 🤣🤣 Ziya is actually lowkey hilarious - thank you for sharing these snippets of her at home spa day with us 🥰
I Absolutely LOVED that you did this for ziya!!!
So cute and creative!! Such a good mom Raven!
i like how you make ziya comfortable
This is so sweet your so a good mom 💝
Awe this video was so precious, I love how you turned the day around Rae
Raven you forgot the cucumbers! Lol this was an awesome video, the bond you have with Ziya is beautiful. You both will be best friends as she gets older. Thank you for the awesome content.
This was great what you did for her you made a fun 🤩 positive experience for her
Not ziya making you a mother in law and a grandmother in one breath at this spa day 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I’m a homebody as well..this was the cutest video ever!! ❤️
Ziya straight dipped when she got the bill 😂😂
This video just made me smile. As an licensed aesthetician I usually don’t recommend taking young kids to a spa because they don’t appreciate it. But this video might have changed my mind. However I think it was more special because you, her mommy, made her feel special by actually doing the services. Keep making time for the ‘more important things’ spending quality time with your baby because she will never forget it 🥰♥️😍
Such a great mommy
You are such a great mom 💕
20:26 Ziya & her husband n 2 kids😭😭😂😂😂😂
Not Boujee being the Karen 😂😂😂😂
I wish more parents were like this 😔
💎👸💎 HAPPY HOLIDAYZZZZ!!! 💃🌹💃🌹💃🌹 BEAUTIFUL YOUNG BOZZZZ QUEEN!!! 😇😇😇AND . . .PRINCESS . . .ZIYA 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 HAVE A BLESSED WEEK!!!
I really wish my mom did this with me. But one day I will do this kind of stuff for My kids
My anxiety is really bad had it since a kid and had to tough it out anxiety wasn’t something my parents acknowledged as a adult I get anxious getting my toes done I like them to be nice but it’s not worth a panic attack for me so I’ve been doing it at home and my daughters actually enjoy it it’s not this fancy lol but it’s the time together and practicing self care and self love
Wow I remember when Ziya could barely talk now look at her 😩😭
I enjoyed this so much you really are a great mom and you can tell she loves every moment spent with you. This is a great idea for party as you said and I was wondering if your celebrity guest requested some snacks also..lol #greatvlog #trinisubscriber:)
by far....my fav !!!!
I love that place you guys are so cute 👱🏿♀️👧🏾👩🏾👨✈️👰🏿♀️👰🏿🧝🏿♀️🤰🏽🤱🏾💅🏾💃🏿👯♀️
It was so funny when ziya said that she has a husband
It's the husband and kids for me lol ziya-lee is such a good name too lol
LOL!!
I wish my husband clipped my toenails.. shoot I wish I had a husband 😂 Go Ziya !
It's funny cause I'm an Aries (April 16) and I'm like Ziya. Granted im 30 now but certain things just don't excite me. I love being creative, graphic design, crafts, making gift baskets, prepping for a party, I LOVE organizing things etc but too many people in my space is a red flag for me lol but I do enjoy doing things but there's a limit to everything.
Love this video.
You guys are so cute together 😊❤️ Xx
I smiled the entire video. Someone who strives to understand a childs psyche ,this makes my heart warm. Raven, you often say you’re learning as you go but you sweet lady were destined to be Ziya’s mommy. You consider her character and encourage her, you don’t seem to push her. Your positive reassurance will build Ziya up to be such an amazing human. I’m sure you enjoyed this experience but I may have enjoyed it more lol, it’s truly wholesome!
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“My husband clips them for me” had me dead ngl 😂😂😂
Listen!! Ziya is manifesting her future!!
Shaun be treating her right 😭😂
Lol
😂😂😂
Yssssss
As an adult who was a very shy and apprehensive child this is appreciated. Even at my big age I still feel so awkward when I have to tell people I don’t really like new experiences I’m simply just too shy and anxious in new situations. You’re doing great and I know She is going to appreciate the attention you payed to her emotions and feelings at such a young age.
“We are remodeling” 🤣😂
“Would you like Lavender or Lavender cause we only have Lavender” 🤣🤣🤣😂
This was even better than going out to the actual salon, she can relax in the comfort of her own home with her mommy 😊
Soooo cute!!!
Literally the two moments I cracked up 😂
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Raven, yu ar so clever to invent this whole thing at a moment's notice, I wish I was the next client, but I got wait my turn. And for another occasion, the rest of her girlfriends, is even better. I think I will give myself a pedi-mini-cure.
I’m only half through this video but a little teary eyed. This was such a mommy win, the effort and love that went into creating a comfortable saline experience for Ziyah after the meltdown is so cute and I’m sure she will remember it ❤️ thanks for being an example for women like me who don’t yet have children of their own but aspire to be
Raven is the best zivah❤❤
Maybe giving her a heads up on the plans, like a day or two in advance might help. It'll give her a chance to ask questions, maybe watch a YT video of another kid doing the activity(s), thereby giving her a better sense of control. ❤
Ooo yea seeing other kids enjoying it may warm her up to it! I know I always watch videos of people doing scary things before I do it too 😅😂
My mum does the same thing with me and i’m a teenager 😭 i’m very shy and quiet at times so i really appreciate it
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That’s a good point.
Great idea!
Raven: these toe nails look like they have been clipped, did you clip them at home?
no one:
NO ONE EVER:
*Ziya: yes my husband clipped them for me*
Im so proud of Raven, ive been watching her since she was in college doing diy videos. Shes come so far and is still killin it❤❤❤❤
Same !
Etc
And ziya always so pretty & polished
Ziya's husband Sean sounds like a keeper 😂
This was so cute and creative!!! 💕 Ziya is such a sweetie
Yessss! So true a beautiful young girl
This honestly melted my heart. I was exactly like Ziya at her age and i would’ve appreciated something like this and not being pressured to be outgoing! Great job Raven! You’re doing amazing 🥲!
Alright Ziya I see you out here living that luxury diy spa life💅👀*Raven your killing it with raising Ziya*
Not Ziya having a husband and two kids 😂 so cute lol
What a wonderful mother-daughter spa day. My mother is 95 and we did this at the basement beauty shop in back in the 60's :^)
Wow! Cool memory!
Wow cool
This is so adorable. The fact that Ziya’s feeling were acknowledged and respected by Raven is everything! I definitely feel the love. Shout out to all the mothers who truly care. 💕
Ziya’s family had me dying laughing. A whole husband and two kids.
Truly a priceless mother and daughter time well-spent...
Raven's ratchet nail salon is expensive, lol
Ziya's exit strategy and explanation for how she will pay was on point...
Ziya’s personality really shows when she’s comfortable 🥰 so smart, funny and imaginative. Thx for sharing Raven !
Pretty sure I’ve commented this before, but you are an amazing mom Raven! Ziya is blessed to have you.
I’m dying at Ziyas imaginary husband Shawn who clips her toe nails and her 2 children Ella and Ziya Lee, one of which was born with a bow on her head and the other whose first birthday was today and she just so happens to have the same wallpaper at her house 😂
This is the most I have ever heard Ziya speak on any thing- good job mommy. I am normally a silent viewer but this one I really had to comment. I love the home spa , ziya has such a vivid personality , when she said my husband clips my toe nails and her grandmas cat that she lets out along with her tatoo. I was in love all over again. This was really a great video
Raven please adopt me chile…. I am self sufficient, I cook, I work, and I just mind my business until you need me.
This is so cute 🥰 . Her memories will be filled with you being the best mom ever! You are doing amazing and we are here for it!
Too funny!
😂😂
Just a suggestion, not sure if it will work - Maybe next time you can try and book someone to come to the house and do her nails/give her a Spa treatment at the house. Maybe that could be easier for her. But I think the fact that you did it for her that was more than pleasing (&memorable) for her.
I love that you acknowledged her feelings and emotions. My son is very similar, if we’re out too long… he’ll say, “mommy I want to go home.” And I find that’s perfectly okay because children do take after their parents in many ways. Great job Raven, you’re such an amazing mommy. 💛😊
The thing is, sadly people confuse social anxiety WAY too much with introversion. Ziya is obviously an introverted kid, which there is nothing wrong with. But usually parents and teacher confuse them not wanting to be the center of attention with them being scared and think 'Oh no there something wrong with them.' I was an introverted kid and my mom and siblings would make fun of me when I would be standing in a corner on the stage at a school play when all the other kids where dancing and eventually my introversion turned into social anxiety because I obviously thought something was wrong with me. One day Ziya is going to turn into a confident young woman who is happy with who she is all thanks to your absolutely amazing way of raising her. I seriously look up to you, Raven.
When she answered SEAN....like why she answer so quickly 😂😂😂😂😂😂 good job mama. I too set aside a specific day each week for a mommy and me date.
As being a mom we don’t always get everything right and that’s okay, however, Raven you are an amazing mom.
She really is 🥰
Ziya said “In my apartment in this hotel” literally 😆 she’s so cute.
I also really love that you ended up giving her the same experience in a comfortable environment for her. So when she is ready to go the actual salon she already knows the process.♥️
I saw the video from last week. I was stressed and I was just watching the video. I love how you set aside some time for Ziya, you are such a great mother. Love you both!
*I vividly remember when I was like 7 I was so upset when my parents took my sisters and I to Disneyland lol! It's such hard emotions to process and share as a child because even then I knew how much money they were spending and I knew this was such a big deal and I didn't want to come off as a brat...but I just simply didn't want to go. I LOVED being at home with just my parents or riding in the back seat while my mom did errands. To me, at that little age, that was my happy place. Now as a 23-year-old woman, it's the exact same and I'm totally ok with that!*
You are an amazing mom, keep up the great work. Only you understand what Ziya like and don't. We always quick to tell parents what to do with their children when we don't know what the children personalities. That said you are an awesome mom🥰👏🙌
I can only imagine when Ziya grows up being able to watch these back is going to be special!!!
Did she just say in and out is overrated? I feel so attacked because in and out is the vibe (joking!) As for Ziya’s meltdown, I related 1000 percent.
Being an introvert and Aries myself, this reminds me a lot with my childhood 🤣🤣 but honestly I missed out a lot.
This may have been a backup plan but it was PERFECT!! 😭 I would’ve lost my mind if my mom did something like this for me. Kudos to you, Raven! Ziya’s storytelling is on point. 😂😂😂 and her mix match feet are a whole vibe, I’m about to do that to myself lol. I’m mad that she said she was ballin for the extra pedicure services and then dipped on the bill. I’m cracking up. 😂😂😂
Well at least Sean is a good husband lol. Hope he continues to treat Ziya like the queen she is 😂😂😂😂😂
This was literally so cute 😭 omg. I’m glad you guys had this special time. It’s so important to know what your child is going to be comfortable with! I love this and it shows that she enjoyed it!
Raven, you are an awesome mom!!!
I am an introvert through and through and my home and solitude are my sanctuary. I am not a big fan of social events or gatherings either. I get a little anxious when I have to hang out with new people too. When I do go out, after like 2 hours of hanging out I need to just be by myself to recharge. The crowds and the socializing drains me mentally and emotionally.
This is so adorable🥺❤. Raven is such an inspiring and amazing mother👸🏾❤👑I love u guys
I smiled the entire video🥺not only was this was a super cute mommy/daughter activity, but it’s sooo refreshing to see a parent really put effort into acknowledging the child’s feelings, personality, and wants. Validating her choices and thoughts is something so many of us wish we had growing up and as cliche/corny as it sounds lol it really gives me hope for the babies being raised right now. You’re doing doing great sweetie!!😭❤️
I love how Ziya said “her husband cut her nails.” 😂
This video truly touched my heart , it actually made me cry (happy tears of course).. as a child I had such a huge personality but often played alone b|c it was a safe place for me , my mom allowed me to use my imagination such as Ziya with the my husband & kids lol but the acknowledgment & the playing along she gave me always stuck with me . Raven , I’ve been watching you for yearsssss now , even met you at BeautyCon 2018 & I just wanna say Thank You , Thank You for being you 🥺 & allowing us into your life .. you’re such an amazing mommy ! 💓
Such a sweet mom. Good job Raven!
Ziya is different and people should not comment with a child's personality. My son is not into alot of things either he gets shy and he's easily bored so there is only certain things he enjoys. I totally understand I'm glad you planned an alternative 😊
Lol the intro “your husband?”
Wow Zyas smile when you showed her the surprise diy room at home was just pure “you get me mom thank god” All in one little look.. she’s a great, very unique kid your very blessed.
This was so fun to watch and so on time because my step daughter birthday is the 24th and I’ve been promising her a spa day as well. Thank you for sharing this. This is what Ziya will always remember, time is precious and so is y’all bond!
This makes me feel good ❤️ to see another child like mine. My son is the same way and people always make me feel like it’s not normal and I’m always like 🤨
Raven you are such an amazing mom! This is everything
I love how raven was understanding of Ziya’s anxiety and discomfort. Not a lot of parents sympathize with their kids in those types of situations so shout out to her for that 🙌🙌
Raven I love how intentional you are about being present with Ziya, it so beautiful and wholesome to see. You are doing amazing❤️. She is blessed to have you!!!
Lots of love from South Africa🇿🇦
I LOVE this !!!! I was a VERY shy kid I love that you didn’t force her to do anything she’ll try new things as she’s ready !!
Halfway through the video and I’m not crying! Are you crying?? 😭 I love how Raven paused and was like ok this is not fun for her so I’m not going to force it. She could’ve stopped right there but instead, she set up a whole spa in her glam room for Ziya!! This is so beautiful!! 😍
Ziya is so blessed to have such a creative loving understanding mommy ! I love everything about this
My eighth birthday I told my mom I wanted a spa day and she’s a cosmetologist and her friends set it all up we had custom robes with our initials embroidered. And we all had our own pedicure bowls and and chairs and we had fruit water and cucumber sandwiches. That’s was in the early 2000s so I know you could actually pull something together.
Ziya got a whole husband and 2 kids 😆🤣. And an apartment. They grow up so fast 😢 lol!
And she's inked!!! 😆 Ziya Papaya really is living her best life.
This was too cute.
Too grown! LOL!!
This is so sweet. I know you’ll pull all the stops for her spa day birthday party! That will be so fun to see. 🧖🏾♀️❤️
I love how you put Ziya first and put her in a comfortable space. My daughter was the same way.You are a great mom.
Awww 🥰 that’s so sweet of Raven to still make a at home spa for Ziya even though she wasn’t comfortable in an actual setting.. 🥲🥲 maybe next time you try she’ll be more excited for it
That was so nice. Ziya had a great time in her own environment,