How do I prove to you that I am Transgender?
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- Опубліковано 28 лис 2024
- To Dr Webberley, you have nothing you need to prove. Care and attention based on what you need. No dresses need be worn ;-)
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If someone is desperate enough for hormones that they are willing to lie, it makes you wonder if it's a lie at all?
Honestly im glad to watch this
When i go to the gp i feel like im having a debate rather that a chat
I have a difficult time understanding myself but i have to feel like i need to prove otherwise "I'm faking"
Not sure if this is still active, but I know for sure I am trans & have much history to 'prove', I am a full adult too. So none of that is a problem. The issue I have, is I want to be in control of how I transition, so I am socially safe. The NHS route 10 years ago didn't work for me due to the requirement (at the time) to live 'in role' for two years, while obviously being female bodied. I couldn't go around insisting on pronouns etc looking like a butch female when I have always felt like a gay man. Also this idea of 'in role', its not a role, its me, its who I have always been, I don't need to pretend to fit their idea. I have never been feminine but I try not to look like a lesiban either, because I am not one, & thats double dysphoria. I wanted top surgery before hormones so I didn't look like a man with breasts, I had to do this privately abroad. I have now done this so I can move on to the next stage, but I really want a clinic that helps me be the individual I am, & understands that first I will stay androgynous until the hormones work well enough to present as full male. This is because of safety & the way I am comfortable, the NHS way held me back for so long. I also need a good check of my hormones because I have something up with my metabolism & need an endocrinologist for that too, one to see the big full picture, not one who is transphobic & another who only looks at sex hormones. I really want someone who will listen to me & work with me, to get me in a place where I finally can feel like me. Please reply if you see this.
Just to note, Charing Cross DID approve me, comfirm I was trans & sane etc, they just refused to allow me to have top surgery first or early in transition, & the idea of living in that space of looking so obviously trans, without a more androgynous & stealth transition, was too much more me. I live my life in the shadows already because I am uncomfortable in my female body, I didn't want to stand out as even more odd & still female. I live on baggy tracksuits, & avoid going places unless its somewhere I can just be invisible in. This isn't a life. I don't date, I did in the past, but the men I dated wanted me to be feminine & I ended it, sex was awful dysphoria, & I have always been attracted to gay men, not straight ones, well rarely. I know many gay men won't touch a transman, I know my dating options are limited, but currently I can't date anyone because no one sees me as I feel inside, they just see a scuffy masculine female. Its alwful.
Hi there, this sounds like something that is best dealt with if you reach out to our team via our website. We may be able to assist you further
I love the way you say this it's so perfect and correct! thanks for understanding us. :)
The salient question is hardly how would our most masculine and feminine friend feel if told that wearuing the cloths of the other sex would be good for them the point would be imagine you most feminine male friend and comnsider how he might feel if you suggested he wear the cloths of the opposite sex. That is who would tell you what you expect to get those hormones even though it would not be good for him.
Femininity in males and masculinity in females related to feelings and hormonal levels secondary sex characteristics
thanks that helped a lot as i was really scared to tell my Family
So sensible, after what I came from. Thank you.
I uh so I'm a 12 year old. A tiny child and I think not for sure but think I might be transgender and I don't know if it's a phase or not.
You most likely are not Transgender as it is such a rare disorder. What makes you feel as though you are Trans?
Entrepreneurship Consulting ya I'm thinking it's a phase honestly
Iv been thinking about it and it's probably a phase I'm going through
Good for you :)
1 person in 200 is not rare
Where have all the comments gone?
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I am A Trans Male . The NHS refus to help . I was born A Trans Male , I should have had sex reassignment at birth en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_assignment at birth . The nurse refused to change my sex at birth by law . I have been self medicating on T supplements for 8 years . I need private treatment . I am above . I will not wait on a waiting list behind silly women . I cannot live this way any longer I need to start treatment immediately privately .