@@catmaxwell6691 OP also mentioned if she went after him for child support it'd be more than what she got from the sale of the land, that's also ignoring the fact the MIL has been giving money to OP & the daughter. Either way you are right Hayden owes his mom money so he's going to be terrified if his mom made him pay her back especially since he was horrified when he realizes his mom left him with a very neglected house. Whether or not he pays OP or his mom that smugness is going to be removed quickly.
I don't understand this either. This is a fictional story, but I've heard of men doing this all the time. Why? We're their ex wives that terrible? Do they think an affair wife will be a better one? Marriage is marriage. It comes with daily friction, fights, ego checks, compromise, and plenty of boring steady expectations. That's kind of the deal.
🎵Seems that dipstick hick thinks he'll take over after ten years / we got news for him / he'll do nothin' of that sort 'round here🎵 (to the tune of "Hick Chick" by Cowboy Troy)
Surely. That cheating man is more of a braggart then a peacock and if he thought for one second that his his mother was not going to punish him for what he did a decade ago he won't see it coming and unfortunately he didn't. Hayden should stay with his wife and forgot all about that girl but now he decides to run off with her to Spain of all places. Beautiful get has very dirty water that is Spain
I graduated with my associates degree when I was 18. I then went on to graduate with a bachelor's degree at 20. I was taking college courses while I was in high school.
Why did he think that he can go back to a house he left 10 years ago. If his Ex moved out , the state would have taken it for taxes long ago. Plus the house would be returning back to nature in 10 years? If he was gone and couldn't be found and the wife stayed, sure the house would be put in her name. How stupid could this guy be? Glad it had been in his mother's name and destroyed.
From what can be understood Mabel gave her ex-DIL more than enough money for her & OP's daughter. However Hayden DOES owe his mom for her paying in his place so that'd be interesting to see.
After 7 years she could have had him declared dead. He would have had some explaining to do with the courts to get "resurrected." Which is actually funny with how the story is going.
Omg Hayden's laugh is very annoying. Who could put up with that everyday. But I do love the karma in these stories.😂 And Mabel is just a sweetheart. Hayden doesn't deserve her. Lmao I got to the ending and it's perfect. 😂
Hayden is lucky that his mom is giving him a chance. Yes, he is spoiled and will probably have a hard time since he never takes anything seriously (from the story) so by working hard and giving him enough time, he could make the place livable. He is lucky that his mom is staying overseas LONGER which gives him more time (his mom still loves him and giving him a chance) but if he slack off, I am sure Maddy will report and mom will come right back, but as long Hayden keep on working on the house (with random spot checks from afar) Mom will probably "stay away" until he is done. She got the money and she can have fun and just read reports of Hayden's progress.
I love the idea of the house showing ten years of abandonment. But I wish it had been a good, sturdy house, that was absolutely lovely and livable (with photos to prove it!) at the time she bought it. "Look, son, what you would have had, had you come back right away. Just like your marriage, a sturdy, comfortable, lovely home. But, like your marriage, and your relationships with your daughter and your mother, you now have a home that is overgrown, dusty, dilapidated, and hard to handle. Can you restore the house to what it was before? Can you restore your relationships?" I'd like to hear from the daughter, who was just graduating college. Does she even care that her father is back in town? Does she want to see him? Or does she want to spit on him?
Actually an amusing story. One “tell” that it did not originate in the US is tearing down the house, then selling the land. Usually, house and land are sold together and the new owner decides to demolish or not.
Demolishing the house, clearing off the debris and leaving the property in 'ready to build' condition might make it a more attractive property to buyers esp in a high demand area.
Usually the presence of a structure (like a house) on a piece of land increases the value of the property. If the buyer is looking to buy several adjacent properties, to build a shopping mall or something big; then having the land vacant would be preferable.
Another great story! Loved this one! I Love working on old houses, and I tend to belive, that heyden and his new wife will come around to it! Loverly place for a kid! :)
Damn his mum really said Well I ain't a-gonna need this house no longer Ain't a-gonna need this house no more Ain't got time to fix the shingles Ain't got time to fix the floor Ain't got time to oil the hinges Nor to mend the window panes Ain't a-gonna need this house no longer I'm gettin' ready to meet the saints
Found out the other day the difference in giving birth in America vs abroad. Who’d choose to come here & pay for everything when the cost would be less in Spain? 😮
Guy is complaining real hard about a free house. Maybe it's just because i grew up in fixer uppers, but seriously??? First obviously get house inspection, but assuming you don't have termites and the house isn't about to go up in flames from bad wiring/faulty hookups or flood from the pipes... Buy a gallon or two of fabuloso, some commet, a few space heaters and some box fans. give everything inside a mop/wipe down and disinfect the sinks. Rent a carpet shampooer and deep clean any carpet. Put any left behind furniture outside to sit in the sun and clean it. See if the fridge is any good, if not find a used one or get a minifridge until you can get a new one. Note any roof damage, broken windows, major exterior danage, patch it and see if it needs proper repairwork. Pick up any big debris from the yard. Mow the lawn. Get the house exterior power washed. BOOM everything major is settled and the rest can be handled as you have time and funds. Hell give me the house I'll take it.
I personally know nothing about renovating a house. If that was me after making sure it could pass inspection as a fixer upper I would get in writing everything that needed to be done. I would naturally start by getting an actual job so I could earn the money to pay for the repairs. I also think I would lease a trailer or something I could have on the property to live in with all the necessary utilities hooked up during this time. While I’m working during the week on the weekends I would be busy with the repairs on the house. Not knowing how to go about such things I believe I would start with the foundation first. After the foundation is up to code I would work on the walls and finally the roof. Such things as plumbing, electricity, etc I will either handle as I go along with the repairs or afterwards. I would make sure everything was in tiptop shape and passes inspection before I started painting and decorating the house. Of course during this time I would make sure to do the yard work to keep that in check. After the house is finished I can decide what I want to do to make the yard look nice.
Me: 🎵Hayden was tryin' to kill a ten year ache / tried to take over after a full decade / the mistress said🎵 Mabel: 🎵When is he gonna gimme some room🎵 Addison: 🎵Here's hopin' we can get him to see reality soon🎵 Me: 🎵But there's somethin' strange in that old house / he might wanna call🎵 Crowd: 🎵GHOSTBUSTERS🎵 Mabel: 🎵Yeah there's somethin' weird freakin' my boy toy out / should we call🎵 Crowd: 🎵GHOSTBUSTERS🎵 (References to Rosanne Cash's "7 Year Ache" and Ray Parker Jr's "Ghostbusters" theme at the same time)
I'd been getting child support for my 2 sons when i'd married again. I moved to Germany as a military spouse. "They" stopped collecting my child support since i was going to be overseas. 4 yrs later we returned to conus (continental united states) and "they" wanted to go after the ex for 4 yrs of back payments. I signed paperwork to "forgive" the amount of money they were going for because it didn't seem right to me to do that, and my "new" husband agreed with me.
How Hayden expect to raise his 2nd child with his mistress if he didn't bother taking care of his first child? Unless he was disappointed that he was stuck with a daughter and not a son than something is wrong with him.
And if he was disappointed enough to ditch them both, just because he was stuck with a daughter and not a son, then something is wrong with him. Even the English royal family allow daughters to inherit thrones nowadays. You don't have to pull a Henry VIII to get a male heir.
A unfinished renovated haunted house...I would have added some random halloween sound machines and projectors. Upon all honesty I'd fix the house and live there, I dont mind the company
Most of these channels do stories from foreign language channels (why some of the references like divorcing amicably in a couple days). Some pay some don't but none are exclusive sales. So, sooner or later, all of them will do a version.
"NO matter what I do, mom will be there to bail me out".. here lies the problem. If mom is always there to bail him out, how would he learn Responsibilities and accountability?... He's a useless bum. You can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. He's a grown ass man. I personally would've let him sleep on a bus bench, he should've been thanking his mom for giving him a house.. no matter how decrepit it is. I. really love that his mom wasn't a moron. She just birthed and raised one..
Hayden is lucky his mom even left him that house, at least he & his girlfriend are learning from this. I know it said the girlfriend got kicked out cause she hadn't contacted her family in 10 years & expected them to take care of her but I hope it was also cause they learned she's a homewrecker & they chewed her out about it before slamming the door in her face. I hope Hayden & his girlfriend learn from this & change for the better mostly because I worry about their unborn son who shouldn't have to deal with a dad that met his mom by cheating on his wife before abandoning her & their daughter along with having a homewrecking mom that was willing to abandon the dad cause she wasn't willing to stand by his side while he suffered. On top of that both expected to mooch off Hayden's mom & the mom was expecting her parents to care for her & deal with the baby for her, this is all despite the fact they've been gone & haven't contacted anyone in 10 years. I'm glad Mabel had OP & her daughter's backs, she is a good person & knows how to deal with her son. I hope she has a good time on her travels, from what was said she has enough money to enjoy living in all sorts of countries for a long time. Something tells me OP & her daughter are getting a share of the inheritance even if Hayden manages to stay in the will. A part of me wants to imagine Mabel put some money aside for Hayden's son when he's older cause she knows he's going to need it eventually & shouldn't have to suffer cause of his parents. I know OP doesn't need a new guy but I hope if she ever chooses to date again she finds someone that cares about her & her daughter(her daughter is in collage but still deserves a better dad) cause Hayden obviously needed work.
10 years?! Countries get fallen apart in much less then that and he thought he can just come back like nothing happend and he was out for an hour to get some ice cream? Charge him with 10 years worth of child support and the comensation he never paid He thought she will just sitt back in the old house and wait for him? He is one of the people who think the time and the world stops when they leave and people dont eat, dont spend money, dont pay for their expences or bills. And as soon as he comes back everything will continue where they left it He didn't even consider that his daughther also had right on that house And why is he still contacting his ex??!
What is it with all these male chauvinist antagonists bleating about how their wives should be thankful that they were being allowed to live in the man’s house for free? This is just one of the things that make these stories boring.
Ask him for ten years back child support, see how smug he is then.
Oh yeah. I bet he won't be feeling saucy afterward.
I like that she kept her hands clean and all her good karma
It would be better to take him to court, and have a judge make him the back child support. Pay it or go to jail.
Except the op acknowledged that the MIL paid it on his behalf, so the only person he owes is his mommy.
@@catmaxwell6691 OP also mentioned if she went after him for child support it'd be more than what she got from the sale of the land, that's also ignoring the fact the MIL has been giving money to OP & the daughter.
Either way you are right Hayden owes his mom money so he's going to be terrified if his mom made him pay her back especially since he was horrified when he realizes his mom left him with a very neglected house. Whether or not he pays OP or his mom that smugness is going to be removed quickly.
I love the idea of the house being a symbol of ten years of neglect and abandonment.
yes and it's supposed HAUNTINGS makes it all the BETTER I hope Hayden and his new BRIDE enjoy there GHOSTLY ROOM MATES
@@nerdygeekgamer5528 Yeah, spooks make it all the more delicious
@@jteal6251 if forcing your ex and his new bride to live in a haunted home isn't the best revenge I don't know what is
@@nerdygeekgamer5528making them live AND work in a haunted building is better 😂
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WOW he didn't want to raise his own child with his first wife, but chose to get another woman pregnant and raise that child , make it make sense.
Maybe he wanted a son?
Exactly
I don't understand this either. This is a fictional story, but I've heard of men doing this all the time.
Why? We're their ex wives that terrible? Do they think an affair wife will be a better one? Marriage is marriage. It comes with daily friction, fights, ego checks, compromise, and plenty of boring steady expectations. That's kind of the deal.
Hayden: “I can’t live in this place. I’m on my own here too now.”
- But won’t the ghosts keep you company? 👻
Personally I feel sorry for the poor ghosts. What did they ever do to get stuck in the same house as someone as awful as Hayden? 👻
“the only house waiting for you is a cardboard box in the park” 🤭
Once you leave a house for a DECADE, it’s no longer your house. DIPSTICK HICK
Love this comment A LOT! Hahahahaha!
This is gold. Dipstick hick 😂😂😂
🎵Seems that dipstick hick thinks he'll take over after ten years / we got news for him / he'll do nothin' of that sort 'round here🎵 (to the tune of "Hick Chick" by Cowboy Troy)
👏👏👏👏👏
Surely. That cheating man is more of a braggart then a peacock and if he thought for one second that his his mother was not going to punish him for what he did a decade ago he won't see it coming and unfortunately he didn't. Hayden should stay with his wife and forgot all about that girl but now he decides to run off with her to Spain of all places. Beautiful get has very dirty water that is Spain
I love what Haydens mom didn't do with the house.🤣🤣 Yes, Hayden, your mother really loves you 😂
Oh Hayden,you're back after a 10-year absence . Now get ready for what comes next . It's going to be a rude awakening.
I think I love the mother in law...let's finish watching 👀 😂😂
Spirits in the house, eh? Perhaps he should drink them.
Wrong kind of spirits
10 yrs elementary graduation from college nahhh the math ain’t mathin
Probably associates degree.
If daughter was in 4th/5th grade when he left, she could be in college when he comes back.
I graduated with my associates degree when I was 18. I then went on to graduate with a bachelor's degree at 20. I was taking college courses while I was in high school.
Why did he think that he can go back to a house he left 10 years ago. If his Ex moved out , the state would have taken it for taxes long ago. Plus the house would be returning back to nature in 10 years? If he was gone and couldn't be found and the wife stayed, sure the house would be put in her name. How stupid could this guy be? Glad it had been in his mother's name and destroyed.
Love the house Hayden's mother bought for him.
Why do you like at the feeling that the house that the mother-in-law got for her son is not a good house at all
I know it's not real but the author should of wrote it into the story that she went after her ex for child support.
From what can be understood Mabel gave her ex-DIL more than enough money for her & OP's daughter. However Hayden DOES owe his mom for her paying in his place so that'd be interesting to see.
Good evening, everyone. Not paying child support, jail time as a dead beat dad. Love that mil
"How you BEAN?" Canadian doing a southern accent.
After 7 years she could have had him declared dead. He would have had some explaining to do with the courts to get "resurrected."
Which is actually funny with how the story is going.
If I had been Mabel, I would have given all the inheritance to Hayden's ex-wife and child. Serves him right.
When I grow up I want to be just like Mabel!xx😂
Ma'am you need to take him to court and get all the money that he owes you
I love the voice and laughter of OP. And Miss Mabel rocks.
Omg Hayden's laugh is very annoying. Who could put up with that everyday. But I do love the karma in these stories.😂 And Mabel is just a sweetheart. Hayden doesn't deserve her. Lmao I got to the ending and it's perfect. 😂
Mabel left him what he deserved.
Addison please stick to your guns and don't back down no matter what
You left for ten years who in the would keep paying bills for a house that you abandoned
Evening everyone
It's not like it's haunted~
Or have a rather dark history that would be considered a haunted house.
But a house is a house!
If there's something strange
In your neighborhood
Who you gonna call?
(Ghostbusters)
I like Mabel she's a boss
Hayden is lucky that his mom is giving him a chance. Yes, he is spoiled and will probably have a hard time since he never takes anything seriously (from the story) so by working hard and giving him enough time, he could make the place livable. He is lucky that his mom is staying overseas LONGER which gives him more time (his mom still loves him and giving him a chance) but if he slack off, I am sure Maddy will report and mom will come right back, but as long Hayden keep on working on the house (with random spot checks from afar) Mom will probably "stay away" until he is done. She got the money and she can have fun and just read reports of Hayden's progress.
I love the idea of the house showing ten years of abandonment. But I wish it had been a good, sturdy house, that was absolutely lovely and livable (with photos to prove it!) at the time she bought it.
"Look, son, what you would have had, had you come back right away. Just like your marriage, a sturdy, comfortable, lovely home. But, like your marriage, and your relationships with your daughter and your mother, you now have a home that is overgrown, dusty, dilapidated, and hard to handle. Can you restore the house to what it was before? Can you restore your relationships?"
I'd like to hear from the daughter, who was just graduating college. Does she even care that her father is back in town? Does she want to see him? Or does she want to spit on him?
Actually an amusing story. One “tell” that it did not originate in the US is tearing down the house, then selling the land. Usually, house and land are sold together and the new owner decides to demolish or not.
Demolishing the house, clearing off the debris and leaving the property in 'ready to build' condition might make it a more attractive property to buyers esp in a high demand area.
Usually the presence of a structure (like a house) on a piece of land increases the value of the property.
If the buyer is looking to buy several adjacent properties, to build a shopping mall or something big; then having the land vacant would be preferable.
Another great story! Loved this one! I Love working on old houses, and I tend to belive, that heyden and his new wife will come around to it! Loverly place for a kid! :)
Abandoned house as punishment? No no no no he will definitely reflect on hiss actions
Damn his mum really said
Well I ain't a-gonna need this house no longer
Ain't a-gonna need this house no more
Ain't got time to fix the shingles
Ain't got time to fix the floor
Ain't got time to oil the hinges
Nor to mend the window panes
Ain't a-gonna need this house no longer
I'm gettin' ready to meet the saints
Nice!
I feel like deja vu.
Cause it is. Different twist with the ghost but same disappear husband
Different voices though
Found out the other day the difference in giving birth in America vs abroad. Who’d choose to come here & pay for everything when the cost would be less in Spain? 😮
People who don’t know. Even I would rather have a kid outside of the US.
Maybe they expected the parents to pay for everything?
Op's laugh is infectious 😂😂😂
Judy? He have ten years taxes to pay too
Guy is complaining real hard about a free house. Maybe it's just because i grew up in fixer uppers, but seriously???
First obviously get house inspection, but assuming you don't have termites and the house isn't about to go up in flames from bad wiring/faulty hookups or flood from the pipes...
Buy a gallon or two of fabuloso, some commet, a few space heaters and some box fans. give everything inside a mop/wipe down and disinfect the sinks.
Rent a carpet shampooer and deep clean any carpet. Put any left behind furniture outside to sit in the sun and clean it.
See if the fridge is any good, if not find a used one or get a minifridge until you can get a new one.
Note any roof damage, broken windows, major exterior danage, patch it and see if it needs proper repairwork.
Pick up any big debris from the yard. Mow the lawn.
Get the house exterior power washed.
BOOM everything major is settled and the rest can be handled as you have time and funds. Hell give me the house I'll take it.
I personally know nothing about renovating a house. If that was me after making sure it could pass inspection as a fixer upper I would get in writing everything that needed to be done. I would naturally start by getting an actual job so I could earn the money to pay for the repairs. I also think I would lease a trailer or something I could have on the property to live in with all the necessary utilities hooked up during this time. While I’m working during the week on the weekends I would be busy with the repairs on the house. Not knowing how to go about such things I believe I would start with the foundation first. After the foundation is up to code I would work on the walls and finally the roof. Such things as plumbing, electricity, etc I will either handle as I go along with the repairs or afterwards. I would make sure everything was in tiptop shape and passes inspection before I started painting and decorating the house. Of course during this time I would make sure to do the yard work to keep that in check. After the house is finished I can decide what I want to do to make the yard look nice.
Me: 🎵Hayden was tryin' to kill a ten year ache / tried to take over after a full decade / the mistress said🎵
Mabel: 🎵When is he gonna gimme some room🎵
Addison: 🎵Here's hopin' we can get him to see reality soon🎵
Me: 🎵But there's somethin' strange in that old house / he might wanna call🎵
Crowd: 🎵GHOSTBUSTERS🎵
Mabel: 🎵Yeah there's somethin' weird freakin' my boy toy out / should we call🎵
Crowd: 🎵GHOSTBUSTERS🎵
(References to Rosanne Cash's "7 Year Ache" and Ray Parker Jr's "Ghostbusters" theme at the same time)
Bravo! Bravo! A 2fer
Mabel is one heck of an iron maiden. 😅😅😅
Did he leave America for the Wild West?
Hayden's southern accent is one of the worst I've heard.
I'd been getting child support for my 2 sons when i'd married again. I moved to Germany as a military spouse. "They" stopped collecting my child support since i was going to be overseas.
4 yrs later we returned to conus (continental united states) and "they" wanted to go after the ex for 4 yrs of back payments. I signed paperwork to "forgive" the amount of money they were going for because it didn't seem right to me to do that, and my "new" husband agreed with me.
How Hayden expect to raise his 2nd child with his mistress if he didn't bother taking care of his first child? Unless he was disappointed that he was stuck with a daughter and not a son than something is wrong with him.
And if he was disappointed enough to ditch them both, just because he was stuck with a daughter and not a son, then something is wrong with him.
Even the English royal family allow daughters to inherit thrones nowadays. You don't have to pull a Henry VIII to get a male heir.
A unfinished renovated haunted house...I would have added some random halloween sound machines and projectors.
Upon all honesty I'd fix the house and live there, I dont mind the company
Rehash. Same story, different voices.
Most of these channels do stories from foreign language channels (why some of the references like divorcing amicably in a couple days). Some pay some don't but none are exclusive sales. So, sooner or later, all of them will do a version.
"NO matter what I do, mom will be there to bail me out".. here lies the problem. If mom is always there to bail him out, how would he learn Responsibilities and accountability?... He's a useless bum. You can't help someone that doesn't want to help themselves. He's a grown ass man. I personally would've let him sleep on a bus bench, he should've been thanking his mom for giving him a house.. no matter how decrepit it is. I. really love that his mom wasn't a moron. She just birthed and raised one..
I’m her precious son 🤢🤮
Hayden is lucky his mom even left him that house, at least he & his girlfriend are learning from this. I know it said the girlfriend got kicked out cause she hadn't contacted her family in 10 years & expected them to take care of her but I hope it was also cause they learned she's a homewrecker & they chewed her out about it before slamming the door in her face.
I hope Hayden & his girlfriend learn from this & change for the better mostly because I worry about their unborn son who shouldn't have to deal with a dad that met his mom by cheating on his wife before abandoning her & their daughter along with having a homewrecking mom that was willing to abandon the dad cause she wasn't willing to stand by his side while he suffered. On top of that both expected to mooch off Hayden's mom & the mom was expecting her parents to care for her & deal with the baby for her, this is all despite the fact they've been gone & haven't contacted anyone in 10 years.
I'm glad Mabel had OP & her daughter's backs, she is a good person & knows how to deal with her son. I hope she has a good time on her travels, from what was said she has enough money to enjoy living in all sorts of countries for a long time. Something tells me OP & her daughter are getting a share of the inheritance even if Hayden manages to stay in the will. A part of me wants to imagine Mabel put some money aside for Hayden's son when he's older cause she knows he's going to need it eventually & shouldn't have to suffer cause of his parents. I know OP doesn't need a new guy but I hope if she ever chooses to date again she finds someone that cares about her & her daughter(her daughter is in collage but still deserves a better dad) cause Hayden obviously needed work.
10 years?! Countries get fallen apart in much less then that and he thought he can just come back like nothing happend and he was out for an hour to get some ice cream?
Charge him with 10 years worth of child support and the comensation he never paid
He thought she will just sitt back in the old house and wait for him? He is one of the people who think the time and the world stops when they leave and people dont eat, dont spend money, dont pay for their expences or bills. And as soon as he comes back everything will continue where they left it
He didn't even consider that his daughther also had right on that house
And why is he still contacting his ex??!
I wouldn't have told him about the house. I would have said OK. Then blocked him on everything
Lord….stories like this make me sooooo happy I’m gay.
👍 Really enjoyed this one
The demon laugh again
Ok, so does a poorly executed southern accent annoy anyone else or is it just me? Edited for spelling.
Can't stand he thinks everything is funny.
He is so false. So pathic.
We need more stories lile this and less of the spineless dil and evil mil with the bowing and kneeling
Oh dude. Please take a class on Southern accents. Or better yet let one of us do the voice. 🤦🏻♀️
Painful, isn't it?
Please Ma'aam, I'll take a free house even it it needs work. As for the ghosts, only idiots and children believe in those :)
What is it with all these male chauvinist antagonists bleating about how their wives should be thankful that they were being allowed to live in the man’s house for free? This is just one of the things that make these stories boring.
Showing someone putting bullets in a magazine is stupid,with all the shootings in America
Be the son of the same quality of the house she gave you. They see you that way, so may as well keep playing the part.
Tsk, tsk, maybe the media needs to know his mom is a slumlord, providing such low quality housing.
Damnnnnnnn his mom is petty 😂😂