Semen Retention And Relapse (It’s OK) ☀️

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  • @BeyondTheAlchemy
    @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +1

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  • @dexter5567
    @dexter5567 6 місяців тому +6

    needed this, i fell once again.... :/

  • @sof0001
    @sof0001 2 роки тому +47

    honestly perfect timing for me, relapsed yesterday after a 28 day streak, feeling abit down , but always gives me time to reflect and just focus on how far ive come in this journey, im far from mastering it, but im more conscious and finding ways to transmute, this is really the only habit I have left to conquer, these vids have definitely helped. Keep em coming!

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +13

      Thats the right attitude. Its the highest attitude actually!

    • @anotheryoutubeaccount8122
      @anotheryoutubeaccount8122 7 місяців тому

      I remember going a week was a challenge for me by the grace if God i am going 2 weeks with moderate- low difficulty. I now realize its a marathon not a race. But God does listen

    • @christophermichaelson1598
      @christophermichaelson1598 9 днів тому

      I was definately doing that Taoist Technique, but now no, Im goiing for the next level of no lust period... wish me luck. no edging no checking out girls, respecting them when they bend over and turning the other way. because it definately is becoming harder since I stop edging my mind wants to check out girls more.

  • @uvoemrosuanlie
    @uvoemrosuanlie Рік тому +13

    What a powerful message! I've been at SR and Nofap for years with varying degrees of failure; though it wasn't until this year when shit got really real and a relationship ended with me knowing it was my pmo and lust addiction, and loss of ojas that caused the relationship to inevitably crumble. That moment of knowing I was DONE with that shit hit home for me. Now I'm certain temptation will continue to tug at my lusting and desiring tendencies from time to time and edging in the mind will have to be accepted and dealt with as fast as I can...I'll do my best...but I believe I have a rock bottom I can refer to to give me reason to not go back there again. Plus I have a high aim of virtues I'm cultivating to keep me busy and grounded...Thanks again for the great wisdom you share🙏

  • @lone_sigma
    @lone_sigma 10 місяців тому +4

    Just relapsed after 13 days and I will say this journey is very hard but I’m going strong this time, 90 day challenge

  • @anotheryoutubeaccount8122
    @anotheryoutubeaccount8122 9 місяців тому +4

    i can definitely say the grace of GOD is the only thing that will free you, every time i think in my mind ive “made it” life humbles me again. so i just try to chill now, i try my best to avoid the stupid shit (pmo) but i have to chill

  • @DemetriusMilton-dcbaudiomix
    @DemetriusMilton-dcbaudiomix Рік тому +6

    Just relapsed after 30 days, and I feel horrible. Got to learn to give myself some grace.

  • @SOULTRIBE_T
    @SOULTRIBE_T 3 місяці тому

    52 day streak of SR ended yesterday man , I gotta shake back . She got me man . Back to day 1 and coming back stronger

  • @RudiSuce
    @RudiSuce Місяць тому

    I relapsed after 5 days. Damn I can’t even say how I feel. I need to stay away from social media and focus on me thanks bro

  • @aaronrich9483
    @aaronrich9483 2 роки тому +13

    Dude everything you say resonates with truth.

  • @movingon8819
    @movingon8819 Рік тому +5

    I have found that so many people go for life long celibacy too early, on this journey. That is why they give up, easily when they slip. I know, because I have spent years, up until recently, doing that. I think this journey takes time, and will always be an ongoing process of learning. I think your letter writer is trying to do what the monks are doing, and I am not saying he'll never do it, but I do not believe this can be achieved straight away. I know, because I have been trying and failing for many years. Thanks for your insightful video.

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  Рік тому +7

      exactly. I also couldnt do it until the law of evolution and Grace made it time to do it. It takes more than just determination and willpower. We need Grace and also need to allow this process of inner transformation and transcendence.

  • @Joestar66
    @Joestar66 Рік тому +4

    Yeah thats exactly what i feel why do i have to Go through this nonsense i feel sometimes i got it but Then i fail. Yesterday i failed so hard it hurts so much and i know That but i do it anyways its so strange especially the First days when i feel some power is Coming in 1 second i feel like something is Pulling me back something dont want to let Go . There Are Moments where i feel like i am starting to realize it and let Go of it but i always catch myself Looking in the mirror and See if i get attraction but i dont even want to do it its so annoying i dont know what to do anymore. But im still trying again i dont want to be a simp my whole life i just dont want this

  • @noone6953
    @noone6953 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for the video, Yash. It really resonated with me. I knew I wanted to quit PMO. Tried to quit but always failed. It was on a day when I actually hit my bottom and surrendered, I kind of received guidance ? I don’t know how to explain but I’ve been having longer and easier streaks after I surrendered. I learnt how to overcome it and I learnt that willpower alone isn’t enough. Somehow it’s exactly what you have said. It’s worth noting that your channel came in my feed after I surrendered to God to solve this problem. I think your advice on “surrendering” is absolutely crucial especially to gain guidance to help us solve the issue in our unique way. And to surrender, we must hit our bottom. We must be able to see how damaging it is to our life and hit bottom. I think this is crucial before surrendering 100%.

  • @david7416
    @david7416 Місяць тому

    Thank you for your truth 14 days and counting. 14TH September 2024

  • @mannyrodriguez3933
    @mannyrodriguez3933 8 місяців тому +3

    I finally got to almost one month. Mere 3 days away from
    One month of semen retention and I relapsed twice in one day. I feel a complete moron right now

  • @Jorisloubert
    @Jorisloubert Місяць тому

    Im 17 been on half long streaks 4 about to times but recently it was more 1 month streaks and I relapsed like I just did its pretty hard because I’m an addictive personality so when I do it the urges are super hard but I know I can get through this and be the best version anyways I love your videos and wisdom thank you

  • @mariohermosillabienvenido
    @mariohermosillabienvenido 7 місяців тому +2

    I relapse today, after 6 months, i really feel i will never do this again, yet i understand something, it was the same situacion but i was different, the god presense was there and i did not put my self low for doing it, it was god will, and no matter what deep i go GOD IS THERE, trusting god in all ways, yet i dont want to do that enymore, at least that what i feel right now😅

  • @petrprochazka1696
    @petrprochazka1696 7 місяців тому

    This is one of the best videos you have ever made! All of the videos are awesome but this one talks straight to my heart and my soul! I love your work, Yash! No compromise and directly to the point!! 👍👍👍Thank you Yash!! 💚💚💚🙏🙏🙏

  • @loxarloxi4958
    @loxarloxi4958 11 місяців тому +1

    you are awesome man, thanks for being real. everything you say resonates with me

  • @yf4453
    @yf4453 Рік тому +4

    A relapse with someone you love I think is justified. But if you're on this path, retaining as much as possible is the key.
    When I relapsed, I remember the short period of guilt, but in perspective, 1 time out of however many days is still an accomplish ment.
    I got back on the horse with renewed vigor. And yes you do feel the energy drain, quite so in the morning after. I needed more sleep, but after a day your good to go!
    I still carried with me the mindset of not releasing for pleasure, not watching corn, and generally avoiding lust and being true to my partner.
    God speed and stay on the journey

  • @Joestar66
    @Joestar66 Рік тому +1

    Thank u very much things are making more sense now

  • @charlie943
    @charlie943 Рік тому +2

    Great video as usual, resonates after a recent relapse after 16 days, I felt done in my core as you say, but it came back one day when I wasn't so strong. Oh well back on the wagon. Would love to know where the thumbnail art comes from

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  Рік тому +1

      That was a painting that my teacher in India made..:)

    • @charlie943
      @charlie943 Рік тому

      ​@@BeyondTheAlchemyawesome, thank you

  • @Ytcjstar1015
    @Ytcjstar1015 Місяць тому

    I just relapsed went 4 days and my mind is beating me up for it I went back to PMO and after I done it I just sit there and ask why did I really do that but I’m getting back up stronger 🔥

  • @August_Mannaz
    @August_Mannaz 4 місяці тому

    I appreciate your insight and wisdom

  • @Mindbender0
    @Mindbender0 2 роки тому +3

    Powerful

  • @vishnulalwani5283
    @vishnulalwani5283 2 роки тому +7

    I too feel that rock bottom, I'm done moment may be the only way. I have done 45 min headstands, freezing my balls, bland food. Nothing worked.

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +2

      lol.. Yes, good.. That is the goal to reach the place where we dont have any moves left and see nothing works. We run out of good ideas...

  • @petrprochazka1696
    @petrprochazka1696 Рік тому +1

    Thanks Yash, your videos are outstanding it's unbelievable to me how much knowledge you have. There are so many videos on UA-cam concerning nofap but there are all dull somehow. You go deep with very revealing information to say the least. I am fifty-four and still fighting like a lion!! 🤣Thanks to your videos I jumped from level, let's say three, to level eight. And let's say the ten is the hihgest. I am stuck with edging right now. As soon as the energy is unbearable I must see some "act" on internet but I am not ejaculating. Do you think this edging can be a last rung on the ladder? Let's presume I will not "fall" and I will hold to my powers. Thanks a lot and again thank you very much for everything you do. You are the true light in the darkness! Thanks Yash!! 👍👍👍🙏❤

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  Рік тому +2

      Thanks 🙂 yes I consider edging and the subtleties that it can manifest as is the last and the core rung of the ladder.

    • @petrprochazka1696
      @petrprochazka1696 Рік тому +1

      @@BeyondTheAlchemy Thanks once more Yash and yes I don't have the urge to do it as before but it feels like some sort of a habit or so. But the feeling afterwards is almost the same as after the ejaculation. It just doesn't feel right even now when I can hold it.

    • @petrprochazka1696
      @petrprochazka1696 Рік тому +1

      @@BeyondTheAlchemy I don't know why my reply got cut, but I basically said, that even this edging, and I can feel it, isn't the "place" I want to be. Thanks once more Yash! 👍🙏❤️

  • @Rob-qh4jz
    @Rob-qh4jz 4 місяці тому +1

    Relapsed after 21 days with a lady and after her 10 days then with another women after that it’s just down hill I have to stay off the date apps and porn so hard

  • @Balidou13
    @Balidou13 4 місяці тому

    This is spontaneous powerful stuff really. Thank You 🙏. I have a question pls. I know someone with diabetes and He has erection problems. Can Semen Retention Help Him? Gratitude ❤️.

  • @Joestar66
    @Joestar66 Місяць тому

    Watching this video after 1 Year again and still cant handle the sexual instinct. But guess what ill keep Fighting im still here after all this time .

  • @OnMyGrindEveryDay
    @OnMyGrindEveryDay 9 місяців тому

    Merry Christmas Yash!
    Do you have a video that talks specifically about how to do the “lock?”
    Is this something we already have the ability to do or do we have to practice? For instance kegels?

  • @roflow1794
    @roflow1794 2 роки тому +2

    Great video man!

  • @christophermichaelson1598
    @christophermichaelson1598 9 днів тому

    I'm on day 150 ish perhaps a bit more.

  • @inadream123
    @inadream123 8 місяців тому

    I keep relapsing. It seems I always end up back here, no matter how much I know it’s bad for me. I hope something intervenes

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  8 місяців тому +3

      of course something will intervene. Your attitude should be if something shifts today or 20 years from now, it doesn't matter, i have no choice but to forge ahead...”

  • @mosevondermoos6891
    @mosevondermoos6891 Рік тому +1

    uhhh Yash.,. i have to ask you to reflect on;. whenever this videos are for us. or are they for you. 22:45
    you know, you are your own Universe.

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  Рік тому +1

      the universe is expressing itself to the universe disguised as individuals.

  • @ruggeddiscipline6026
    @ruggeddiscipline6026 2 роки тому +3

    It's not easy I had to do a seven day fast to get it under better control

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +2

      Yes, fasting can definitely help one to gain some traction, at least...

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +2

      @@33TRG of course, after one gets some traction with retaining semen on a gross level then the next stage that will be difficult is “not edging”. It progresses like that. More and more subtle...

  • @Jason.L.M.
    @Jason.L.M. 5 місяців тому

    I feel this physical body ego earth self is feminine and the Heavenly spirtual True self is masculine and in order to be centered, merged or balanced or ONE is by true celibacy, semen retention or dying to self or being reborn. This is the only way i believe deep within my being is the way to become complete. Honor you Mother (physical duality earth self) and Father (spirtual non-dual self) We are only physically dual. Either male or female. Spirtualy are True Self is both feminine and masculine combined as ONE

  • @christophermichaelson1598
    @christophermichaelson1598 9 днів тому

    Sounds like he is at the early stages of retaining

  • @Trenchtown__O__O
    @Trenchtown__O__O 7 місяців тому

    Hey yash when you had your longest streaks, where u busy or you just decided you where just done watching it.

  • @jahiemsmith6362
    @jahiemsmith6362 2 роки тому +2

    💯

  • @nitz1734
    @nitz1734 5 місяців тому

    I have replaced after over 2 year of retention
    And I can't get it out, this has engulfed me, since last tweek
    I'm meditating twice a day.. Still I'm not able to stop it
    Please help me

  • @shaneeuropa
    @shaneeuropa 2 роки тому +4

    Yash! do you think its a mistake to want rewards for retaining?

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +7

      its not a mistake. Its fine and natural for awhile. But be careful you dont set yourself up for expectations that dont get met because then the mind will say its not working as a clever tactic to convince one to go back to losing their energy. Semen retention is one powerful tool, but when our whole life (our good habits and a spiritual practice) is in alignment with our higher nature then we will be content with the rewards.

    • @shaneeuropa
      @shaneeuropa 2 роки тому +4

      @@BeyondTheAlchemy
      Yes i suspected this is what happened, as i relapsed after 30 days to porn yesterday! Towards the end i was fustrated with the practice. And relapsed not even because of an urge! But out of annoyance..... the ego wanted power from the practice! Was hard to see! but its what happened...

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому +3

      @@shaneeuropa Yes this is a totally normal and necessary part of the process. We just keep becoming more and more aware of the deceiving self-talk mental voice and catch it out...

    • @shaneeuropa
      @shaneeuropa 2 роки тому +2

      @@BeyondTheAlchemy
      Thank you yash. I appreciate the replies! And i assume your feeling well and doing well yourself?

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  2 роки тому

      @@shaneeuropa All is Good!

  • @RowanGordon
    @RowanGordon 6 місяців тому

    Can i ask u an honest question? Can you still get benefits on semen retention while edging? I barely even masturbate now but the longest I've went was two months and two weeks but deep down I really feel like I can go a full year without masterbation even if i do it once one twice.

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  6 місяців тому

      obviously best is no PMO and no edging. But you dont have the power to not do that right now. So just keep growing and going and it will unfold organically in the right time

  • @BasedHellDiver.
    @BasedHellDiver. 5 місяців тому

    Hey, what is that tumbnail for the video? Whats it mean?

    • @BeyondTheAlchemy
      @BeyondTheAlchemy  5 місяців тому

      Kali and shiva. Kali is feminine energy dancing and shiva is masculine Energy holding space for her to dance

    • @BasedHellDiver.
      @BasedHellDiver. 5 місяців тому

      @@BeyondTheAlchemy oh, ok, thanks

  • @daleferia1640
    @daleferia1640 5 місяців тому

    I relapsed after 11 days

  • @Joestar66
    @Joestar66 Місяць тому

    I absolutely understand the need for the sexual instinct but dear god could you just turn it down a little bit why has it has to be so strong 😂

  • @Stvn44
    @Stvn44 Рік тому

    14:59 u didn’t unload the clip!!!

  • @AttilaSzabo1982
    @AttilaSzabo1982 6 місяців тому

    +