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  • Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
  • #fil #fyp #alcohol #alcoholfree #life #change #fresh

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  • @ashleighwalton26
    @ashleighwalton26 10 днів тому +48

    You’ve got so much going for you FIL. You’ve got this in the bag, I’ll be watching no matter what👌🏻

    • @dashdashdash_
      @dashdashdash_ 5 днів тому

      speaking of bags I spotted him in the pub hitting one yesterday #fail

    • @janjansen4239
      @janjansen4239 12 годин тому

      Poo bag?

  • @RaulRogba
    @RaulRogba 8 днів тому +25

    It’s beautiful transparency FIL and many people also will be going through the same. The good part is you still have your life together and you have understood your issue. Best wishes FIL

  • @bdog89
    @bdog89 7 днів тому +16

    I've been sober for nearly 8 years and this just made me cry............honestly mate I pray to God you fo it

  • @Halcy_n
    @Halcy_n День тому +6

    Stumbled on this, much respect for you mate- If you keep honest with yourself like this you've got it for sure. Stay strong man

  • @ThatGuyMoves
    @ThatGuyMoves 8 днів тому +17

    You got this pal. Keep going. You won't recognise yourself in 30 days!
    I ruined christmas for the 12th time last year. Decided I have ruined christmas for the last time and that I have drank enough alcohol for a lifetime.
    39days sober and going strong. My hobbies are fun again, strength training from home, getting 10k steps daily, going for cycles, talking to friends & family, playing video games, listening to audibooks, watching movies, and tv shows.
    Before I quit the booze, I would always have drink before, during, or after the above hobbies^ Suddenly, I lost interest in all my hobbies, my only hobby, or thought in my mind was to sit in the house/pub and drink. Always looking forward to the next time I would get to have a drink.
    All the best to you Fil.

    • @Algorithm347
      @Algorithm347 8 днів тому +2

      What happens after 30 days ? Does his eyesight go ? 😂

    • @Bathingwookie
      @Bathingwookie 10 годин тому

      Bro you can definitely ruin another Christmas, 13 in a row has got a nice ring to it. We believe in you.

  • @darrenball5977
    @darrenball5977 10 днів тому +16

    Damn FIL I'm sorry man I feel like we have been egging you on all this time 😢 you are a good and genuinely funny person man and you have seen me through some tough times for sure so I support your efforts, one day at a time bud you got this, much love

  • @benjaminthishandleistaken
    @benjaminthishandleistaken 3 дні тому +8

    10+ years sober. Get to 90 meetings in 90 days. I promise you it’s worth the grind to start.

  • @jedmpery891
    @jedmpery891 2 дні тому +3

    Fil, I'm 35 and going through the same thing.
    I haven't so far this year, and everything is better. My general happiness, my relationships, reaching goals.
    Your an absolute legend for trying to do this. Stick with it. Day by day and it will start to get easier and then better.
    I'm speaking to myself a bit when writing this to you.
    Come on, Fil. You've got this mate

  • @GeoWizard
    @GeoWizard 2 години тому

    Good luck mate. The next chapter in the adventure that is your life begins.

  • @benhaynes3411
    @benhaynes3411 2 дні тому +3

    2.5 years sober for me, sounds like you're in the same place i was. 100% you're doing the right thing and stopping while you still have the choice to do so, once you breach that line you've had it. Good luck

  • @rafstafarian9692
    @rafstafarian9692 22 години тому +2

    I can relate to a lot of what you’re going through. , I struggled myself to where I was a homeless street drinker for years. I did many detox’s but I always went back to drinking. I was in aa and na for years too. I finally got clean from alcohol threw a reab called acorn
    I’m not fully off stuff. I’m struggling with weed now.
    Stay strong pal your not alone with this
    You got a funny persona that’s very relatable.
    Many many people don’t just stop most people fail a good few time before they get it. Don’t be tough on yourself my mate. At Least your acknowledging your problem and putting in action. I believe you’re gonna get sober and maintain it. It just takes time. 👍🏼

  • @NorthWales93
    @NorthWales93 8 днів тому +4

    It will be hard but don't give up. Getting clean will give you a fresh perspective on life. We are all here waiting for your progress reports!

  • @djtonylee
    @djtonylee 4 години тому

    I have been there. Drank 10-12 cans per night, every night. It caught up with me in 2004 when i was 24 years old, i developed pancreatitis and spent a week in intensive care with another 3 weeks in hospital.
    My family was told to prepare for the worst with a 1 in 10 chance of recovery at best, but i made it through leaving me type 1 diabetic, and was told drinking alcohol again may cause another inflammation which i would almost certainly not survive for a second time.
    Was my 20th year anniversary of sobriety August 25th 2024.
    You cannot mess around mate, when illness sets in it can happen real fast. Do the right thing for yourself and your loved ones.
    Choose life.

  • @JKAtTheInn
    @JKAtTheInn 9 днів тому +5

    Emtional one pal thanks for sharing it. I found a drink down diary helped me a lot. we're all still gonna be here pal we got you, Good luck and godspeed.

  • @theelitoneenjoyer
    @theelitoneenjoyer 10 днів тому +10

    Good luck FIL mate, inspirational stuff, you’ll smash it but don’t put too much pressure on yourself! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @zephyrgarnett8203
    @zephyrgarnett8203 День тому +1

    never seen this channel before, and ill never meet you fil. but you seem to be incredibly self aware in your troubles. most people go through life without much self reflection at all. but i think its a great foundation for overcoming addiction. from across the pond I believe in you mate!

  • @fitchy2.02
    @fitchy2.02 3 дні тому +6

    Take up running… most people with addictions/dependancy issues actually lock in to running and end up doing mega distances… I’m speaking from experience here.. used to drink 6 nights a week, now I run 2 marathons a month… and can go up to 4 months without a drink.. literally can take it or leave it now. I understand that some people are lot deeper with their problems but I really believe running can help.. also when you’ve ran 4 hours on a Sunday morning last you thing you want to do is go to the pub for super Sunday

    • @cgavin1
      @cgavin1 2 дні тому

      Nothing I want more after a 6 mile jog than a few nice cold beers. Before dinner.

    • @RobbieB2606
      @RobbieB2606 11 годин тому +1

      100% - for me its lifting at the gym. Drinking seems insanely counter productive when you have good fitness goals, and are making strong progress.

  • @DuckmansRevenge
    @DuckmansRevenge 10 днів тому +6

    Lad, honestly well done. Big step but sounds like its in the right direction. Props to you mate you've got it

  • @MrAlio101
    @MrAlio101 День тому +11

    Pick up your beer bottle top...

  • @nofapking1858
    @nofapking1858 5 днів тому +8

    If this isn’t some sort of brilliant parody sketch then wish you the best of luck. You are a funny dude with bags of charisma, sometimes it’s hard to give up alcohol when your seen as the funny guy at the party but believe me from someone who’s been there it will be the best thing you have ever done FIL I wish you the begs of luck and have subscribed to take inspiration from your journey, it’s has inspired me to make my own very much needed changes.

  • @TheTelblackwell
    @TheTelblackwell 9 годин тому

    I was a heavy drinker for about 20 odd years, smoked weed every day too. I've managed to quit weed for 6 months now, and only drink at the weekend when up the legion playing snooker. I only had one pint of thatchers today, and didn't really want it. It's hard, but at least you've admitted your problem, and that's the first step to recovery. I wish you all the best.

  • @mreuclid223
    @mreuclid223 14 годин тому +1

    Feel for you FIL. I'm 45 years old... Feeling like I've been fighting with one addiction or another since I was about 14 years old. Think this year is the year that I might go tee total forever. Did 109 days at beginning of last year (found the TryDry app great for keeping me on track)... Aiming for 150 days dry at the beginning of this year (at least) and that may just turn into never drinking again.
    Good luck on your journey. Your body will thank you

  • @snakewad123
    @snakewad123 2 дні тому +3

    I replaced alcohol addiction wirh weed addiction after many drunken arrests and car accidents. Then i quit weed. Now i just have the occasional beer or joint just fine.

    • @tc8066
      @tc8066 День тому

      Then you were never an alcoholic were you genius, if you were then another drink would set you back on the road to hell.

    • @englishmenintown8622
      @englishmenintown8622 13 годин тому

      I used weed to get me off meth and it helped. It was more of a distraction. I am not advocating for weed but that is just my experience.
      Smoke a joint every Friday and that's me for the week.

  • @marccallaghan7997
    @marccallaghan7997 3 дні тому +2

    You done right mate! I'd wish I had the willpower to do it like that. I stopped drinking in a hospital bed, shaking like a shitting dog after a bout of alcohol induced pancreatitis left me unable to hold down enough watered down vodka to stop me having a seizure. I was 33, just about functioning but not living. I'm 39 in a couple of weeks. I've forgotten what it feels like now and I couldn't give a fuck!

  • @cgavin1
    @cgavin1 2 дні тому +2

    For me it was the perfect procrastination tool. Get home from work, need to do 10000 things to make my life better.. nope.. drink.
    When you start to run out of life it becomes ridiculous and you know it. Good on you for not waiting another 10 years.

  • @nia.d33
    @nia.d33 16 годин тому +1

    the number one diffrence ive noticed in people who get better vs never do is ability to speak about and admit their problem. Alot of poor souls never get past the denial and cant quite bring themselves to admit to themself they have a problem. The first step in fixing it is addressing it.

  • @robbiedolan340
    @robbiedolan340 8 днів тому +4

    My brother in law is quite similar to you, in terms of being a high functioning alcoholic although hes more of a heavy heavy binger on weekends. He has turned to alcohol free beer to sort of get that 'hit' and they're actually still quite tasty.

  • @trueblue5324
    @trueblue5324 14 годин тому +1

    Brother I feel your pain. I could have screwed my whole life up on many of nights out. Now I can’t manage alcohol a lot better after speaking with a professional. Now in some social events mate I take magic mushroom chocolate. You feel completely at ease in situations everything becomes super funny and you’re fully relaxed mate. Can’t see how this is still categorised as illegal as it has so many benefits to peoples mental health and overall well being etc. Good luck tho fella you’ve already jumped the biggest hurdle!

  • @harveysavin2780
    @harveysavin2780 10 днів тому +5

    Yo what a gem of a find🤣this is class mate but stay strong and remember its fine to be UNCOMFORTABLE it’s easier than you think🫡stay strong stay classy get comfortable with doing new things bud

  • @jaydonmanton5463
    @jaydonmanton5463 10 днів тому +3

    good luck fil. enjoy this new chapter, you’ll learn a lot about yourself

  • @Vlog4dogs
    @Vlog4dogs 8 днів тому +5

    Needed this today

  • @snail19
    @snail19 9 днів тому +3

    Good luck mate. Take it step by step, day by day. You got this

  • @andycole366
    @andycole366 14 годин тому +2

    Keep going, big man.
    I was drinking a bottle of vodka a night last few years. Felt awful, but had to get that taste and hit. I'm 36, i've got three kids, my Mrs said it's not just going to kill me psychically but, it'll destroy my family. Also I was spending over £100 a week on vodka.
    Since I stopped I've saved so much money and feel so much better.
    I've not drank since before Christmas. 2024. We can all do this together.
    Wishing you all the best 🙏🤝

    • @englishmenintown8622
      @englishmenintown8622 13 годин тому +1

      Fucking good on you man!!!!!!
      Drunk around the family all the time is never going to end well.
      Your family is going to be so much happier.
      Had this in our distant family and it's terrible.
      Really happy for you guys.
      I know I'm a stranger and this comes across strange but I am honestly being serious.

    • @andycole366
      @andycole366 13 годин тому

      @englishmenintown8622 appreciate the words of support.
      Alcohol is such a nightmare when it's abused. I never woke up wanting a drink. I couldn't think of anything worse, but after a long day at work, it was hard to ignore.

  • @gabrielyates8738
    @gabrielyates8738 10 днів тому +6

    Good luck mate, rootin for ya

  • @mongoose621
    @mongoose621 8 днів тому +3

    I'm where you are right now, mate. I'm 44. Don't be me.
    Went to the pub yesterday for the first time in 10 days, bought a Guinness, and sat at the bar with the same blokes, talking the same shit in the same pub. Wasn't even enjoying the pint. Got halfway and walked out.
    I don't want to go back.
    It's not fun anymore, and nothing good ever happens.
    It's a rough road. But we've both been down worse roads than this.
    One foot in front of the other Reg 🤙

  • @Bi0l3g
    @Bi0l3g 3 дні тому +1

    Praying for you FIL 🙏🏻

  • @LouisPhillips
    @LouisPhillips 8 днів тому +1

    fairplay to you dude for realising you have a problem and going ahead to fix it!

  • @Chris-mn7yy
    @Chris-mn7yy День тому +1

    It gets easier….its a slow creep where the cravings eventually get less and less until you get to a point where drinking is what other people do. My advice….got to AA, then you’ll realise how common this is and you’re not alone. Be strong.

  • @ChunkyBe
    @ChunkyBe 2 дні тому

    This was a fantastic send off for our good friend beer. We'll all be with you mate you're dong more than you could ever imagine with your vids FIL.

  • @JM69_
    @JM69_ 2 дні тому +1

    Driving somewhere to have your last alcoholic beverage is so british i love it 🤣🤣🤣, i hope you smash it mate, well done to you 👏👏

  • @jeansmith3367
    @jeansmith3367 12 годин тому +1

    You're only young, you've realised it's a problem - you've got a good life ahead of you, alcohol is absolutely no good for you. Good luck! Will be hoping you can succeed! You can do it

  • @Vorlitch
    @Vorlitch 8 днів тому +3

    Keep strong bro

  • @chuddledollops
    @chuddledollops 10 годин тому

    Every drink is borrowed happiness from tomorrow. Do the 10 - 10 - 10 thing. If you drink a beer, how will you feel in 10 minutes, 10 hours and then 10 years (10 mins - disappointed you drank, 10 hours - hungover, 10 years - dead or f**ked). Took me to 40 to get a hang of it!

  • @TheDiamond-sw3qp
    @TheDiamond-sw3qp 10 днів тому +4

    Surely you need to do your last ever pint FIL? Only messing😂 We all love your drinking content but at the end of the day we want the best for you mate, you’ve got this FIL!

  • @englishmenintown8622
    @englishmenintown8622 13 годин тому

    Mate you seem like a good dude, and watching a few of your vids i came across your trip to London with your bird.The only thing i could think of is i bet she wishes he wasnt drinking.
    Some people cant stop once they start and you have admitted to that .
    Booze is not your friend and it fucks up everyone else's day around you.
    Stay strong mate and believe me you not alone and you stronger than you think.
    I am a drug addict and i lost everything in a matter of 3 years to addiction and didnt see a way out and here i sit back on track and drug free.
    Meth is straight from satan i swear its fucking evil and alcohol abuse is the devils close mate.
    Good luck mate and i sincerely mean that because it's not easy but definitely achievable!!!!

  • @janjansen4239
    @janjansen4239 11 годин тому

    32 too I've quit pot couple years back and now finally live to my full potential, never understood why drinkers want to make themselves dumb with rotten fruits, go throught guilty trips suffer hangovers with substance that is more harmful than heroin. Not worth the effort

  • @cervelo9465
    @cervelo9465 16 годин тому

    Nice guy. Giving up beer/alcohol is a very good choice for a very good life. I recommend it.

  • @zeelakeela
    @zeelakeela День тому

    damn just started work, that beer looks good - im the same as fil - there are the odd days i go without beers but i do love them

  • @Redsnapper123
    @Redsnapper123 4 дні тому +2

    Wow !! Funny video. How is it going 6 days later?

  • @aizakku420
    @aizakku420 2 дні тому +1

    yo keith, im 29 in the same boat. hats off to you mate you're on youtube admitting to having a poo fetish so that's a good turning point. i see that board! replace the good feeling from beer with good feeling from skating/cruising.

  • @danielmorgan104dm
    @danielmorgan104dm День тому

    All the best mate, you got this!!

  • @smoll.miniatures
    @smoll.miniatures 9 годин тому

    I’ve somehow turned into an alcoholic during lockdown. I started my own small business so work from home. have no real responsibilities either so I just get paralytic every night. Wake up at 2pm barely work and do the same again that night. I feel more confused than anything. It’s not how I thought I’d feel as an alcoholic tbh.

  • @Btchipz
    @Btchipz 7 днів тому +2

    Laughed my head off at the poo fetish mate hahaha best of luck dude

  • @sammuddel7751
    @sammuddel7751 2 дні тому

    GOOD LUCK FIL. YOURE A GREAT GUY. WERE ROOTING FOR YA SON

  • @calamitysam4931
    @calamitysam4931 12 годин тому

    From one to another, if you think you are a functioning alcoholic - you aren't

  • @AA-vy3js
    @AA-vy3js 6 днів тому +2

    Where's our update brother, interested to see what happened after this video dude 💪

  • @Biellushi
    @Biellushi 7 днів тому +1

    You got it, Fil. You don't need this shit. Let's go!!!

  • @LyK0sa
    @LyK0sa 10 днів тому +3

    Good luck to you mate!

  • @Bathingwookie
    @Bathingwookie 10 годин тому

    If beer didn’t exist I wouldn’t care about alcohol. Never drank anything but beer because I like the taste.

  • @on_the_mooch2708
    @on_the_mooch2708 17 годин тому

    Make it happen man. There's more to life than the bottom of a beer bottle. Do it while you still got your health.

  • @mikestinyshedofdreams
    @mikestinyshedofdreams День тому

    I hope you are doing ok. Think how much more time and money you will have to spend now you're not spending it on alcohol. Think about how much more energy, health and love you can spend on your friends and family and how much happier yours and their lives will be now you've stopped wasting time with alcohol. Keep it up. life is so much better without it. Mike (3 years sober)

  • @FreddieYorke-Brooks
    @FreddieYorke-Brooks 7 днів тому

    You’ve got this Fil ❤️

  • @OCwild1
    @OCwild1 18 годин тому

    U got this dude

  • @ellissharpe3916
    @ellissharpe3916 10 днів тому

    We love you FIL look after yourself mate ❤

  • @alexclements6238
    @alexclements6238 10 днів тому

    Il watch regardless FIL, you do you!

  • @owenbell307
    @owenbell307 День тому

    I noticed I had a drink problem before it became a problem. My mam was an alcoholic and I saw myself going down a similar path. I was an idiot. Luckily I caught myself early, say 23/24. People will say that's not a problem and fair enough but I saw the road it could lead to and that was enough for me. Unfortunately my crux is food and I have an unhealthy relationship with food and this is beating me. I'm morbidly obese and scared for my life. Knocked back from surgery as I weigh so much, weight loss injections not working for me. Scared if I get the surgery I will end up switching addiction.
    Don't know your life story mate but if you can beat the path of addiction you're a better man than me. It's a hard road wish you all the best

    • @BIG_FIL_PRODUCTIONS
      @BIG_FIL_PRODUCTIONS  День тому

      Thank you mate, I hope you work it out, temptation is everywhere

  • @jxtuzz1866
    @jxtuzz1866 8 днів тому

    1:00 i been there man still am sometimes, i found that as soon as i questioned why i was drinking, the penny dropped and i realised it wasnt just for the taste anymore. keep it in moderation. mostly always its not the beer thats the problem, its yourself. hang in there

  • @kadstro3392
    @kadstro3392 9 днів тому

    we love you FIL

  • @christyjordan8768
    @christyjordan8768 2 дні тому

    Good luck man. Lot of people in that same place.

  • @ScabiusSalamingus
    @ScabiusSalamingus 15 годин тому

    Some can't handle booze, some coke, some heroin, and whatever else. Know thyself.

  • @dylansmith7320
    @dylansmith7320 День тому

    Big up yourself FIL

  • @callummc1988
    @callummc1988 12 годин тому

    Staying sober for the rest of your life sounds impossible. Stayin sober for 1 day is easy, you just have to do that each day

  • @pajerotim
    @pajerotim 13 годин тому

    Your 30s are a good time to stop. Don’t give yourself any get outs and stick to it through thick and thin. It gets easier and more importantly, makes more and more sense as you go along. “Put away childish things”

  • @jamespearce8098
    @jamespearce8098 8 днів тому

    Have you any advice for me on dealing with my brother. He's in exactly the same situation as you (at least I presume as I don't know you...). When we go out all he thinks about is alocohol. He's extremely paranoid all the time. He gets really angry and acts like a horrible person when he hasn't had a drink (but he can't see it). Finding it really hard to deal with him as when you bring up anything remotely negative about him he jumps straight to denial and gets defense. Any advice appreciated...

  • @jinz0
    @jinz0 2 дні тому

    At least you chose Asahii 😂

  • @SideburnsTitan882
    @SideburnsTitan882 16 годин тому

    Good luck mate

  • @Algorithm347
    @Algorithm347 8 днів тому

    I can say as an alcoholic, you’ll never have a last beer . It’s all about keeping a happy medium , not too many bad episodes, but definitely let yourself have a beer or two else it’s all you’ll think about .

    • @Btchipz
      @Btchipz 7 днів тому +1

      I'm an alcoholic. If I drink again I'll die. Definitely don't let yourself have another beer

  • @tc8066
    @tc8066 День тому +1

    Nowhere near rock bottom - you'll be back. All for the camera. Good luck.

  • @gowersponger1
    @gowersponger1 5 днів тому +1

    If only it was that easy mate you wouldn’t be an alcoholic. You got a hell of along journey yet iam affraid.

  • @Redsnapper123
    @Redsnapper123 4 дні тому +1

    Have you seen Bat Countries video on functional alcoholism? He says there is no such thing.

  • @kevpage
    @kevpage 2 дні тому +2

    Posting this online, unfortunately you won’t stick to it, you need to take yourself away from everything you had before

  • @chrish1657
    @chrish1657 2 дні тому

    1:55 well didn't see that twist coming. This is a wind up, right?

  • @Chris-fm1rk
    @Chris-fm1rk 15 годин тому

    Oh yeah, nah, yeah...
    I'm er, I'm also drinking my er, last beer... ever.
    😉

  • @travelwithwill1
    @travelwithwill1 2 дні тому

    Find a soft drink you like and fill the house with it. Don’t put booze in the house. Sweets are a good one too

  • @jonahkiely6596
    @jonahkiely6596 10 днів тому

    you got this fil ur a legend mate

  • @Ben-mg3mu
    @Ben-mg3mu 9 днів тому

    good luck FIL, do yourself proud

  • @rmwuk
    @rmwuk 8 днів тому

    I've seen your drinking videos on tiktok before and i won't lie they've given me a good chuckle. But this is the first time I've come across your youtube channel, and i don't want to be a superstitious twat, but I think it has to mean something. You've got a lot to offer the world mate and it doesn't have to revolve around alcohol.

  • @FourtySixG
    @FourtySixG 6 годин тому

    lmao i know i shouldnt be laughing bro but getting naked and playing with your own poop, breaking windows lmfao. that has me cracking up, goodluck on your journey brother! drinkings lame anyway!

  • @aiden121311
    @aiden121311 2 дні тому

    its so hard to quit drinking, i dont even want to quit the drinking, its the bags i sniff when im 2 pints in.......

    • @darbyogill8383
      @darbyogill8383 2 дні тому

      It's poison mate them bags will ruin you💪

  • @christopherjohnson-182
    @christopherjohnson-182 9 днів тому

    Good luck FIL 🍻

  • @mwhitby502
    @mwhitby502 2 дні тому

    Should do another clip of this with you absolutely steaming in weatherspoons beer garden later.

  • @joeboii1able
    @joeboii1able 15 годин тому

    Anyone else think it was Charlie veitch from the thumb nail?

  • @brooksyyyyyyy1541
    @brooksyyyyyyy1541 6 днів тому

    Smash it FIL good on you lad

  • @keithfisher7388
    @keithfisher7388 8 днів тому

    Be careful not to be over the limit when driving the nxt morning/day,plus if your in van at night drinking that can be a problem with the police,stop drinking bro ❤

  • @rich3648
    @rich3648 21 годину тому

    Take Lithium orotate everyday, i started with 10mg for a week then 20 mg after. After about 3 months of taking i have no interest in alcohol , if i do try to drink i dont like the taste now. Wonder drug. goodluck with your sobriety 💪👍

  • @wesleywild-s9x
    @wesleywild-s9x 10 годин тому

    The shitting sounds epic but it's a bit knarley

  • @carkeys3093
    @carkeys3093 10 днів тому

    you got this

  • @RenegadeLoki
    @RenegadeLoki 10 днів тому

    go on FIL you can do it

  • @eddieh5896
    @eddieh5896 9 днів тому

  • @mwhitby502
    @mwhitby502 2 дні тому

    Lol, drinking a beer just before you give up is probably a bad idea.

    • @tc8066
      @tc8066 День тому

      It's a load of bollocks