Be a man of value. Value yourself by taking care of your body and mind. Value your time but not chasing women or texting and calling all the time. It works .
Basic personal hygiene, a bit of muscle, and decent fitting clothes can go a long way. Also, patience and the ability to give time and space to a woman is essential. Using that time to work out, have adventures on your own, and learn something new makes you more interesting than texting her or calling her all the time. Mystery and strength are highly important elements to generate attraction. Desperation and feeling inferior to a woman are complete attraction killers.
Just in case this sends the wrong message. Shaved heads are attractive, yes. But short hair is equally attractive. Don’t watch this and feel compelled to shave your head (unless you have a receding hairline or you’re going bald).
Remember this extract from the book, it's the one I remember the most, I remember when I would like a girl I would hang around just like Peter and not say anything then to nervously try to start up a conversation which led to no results. After reading the book I just said "Fuck it" I would approach women like I was the president even though inside didn't feel the same, even to women that I didn't like just to get practice. Results followed and a confident first impression confuses a woman and makes her more receptive.
Also, this happened to me at my previous job--and not just once, but twice! There were two women on the lower floor who I just had to meet. The older one was so cute and sexy and feminine that it drove me crazy (and I LOVED it!). I tried to meet her a couple of times, but I turned to mush and aborted my mission. Then I finally decided to do it. I was sooo nervous, but by golly, she was really sweet and she genuinely liked me. We even chatted for more than an hour after work one evening. Sadly, she was married. I'm a gentleman, and gentlemen are absolutely forbidden from tempting married women. So we just remained friendly coworkers. The other woman was extremely tall and slim, like a female volleyball player. I know that she noticed me staring at her again and again. Luckily, we finally met. She, too, liked me a lot. However, she also was married, and was way too young. Alas!
I got my girlfriend back by pulling away from her. You want to be happy for the rest of your life with the women you love? you have to play mind trick, it’s the way it is.
@@enternaldragon1 Then you move on with you're life. if she leaves you that quickly, she will leave you sooner or later in the long run. so you saved yourself from a shitty relationship.
@@enternaldragon1 If she doesn't come back to you after you give her the space and freedom by pulling back, then she was never that into you in the first place. You did yourself a favor and saved yourself from an embarrassing break up down the line or worse yet, a financially crippling divorce
Confidence goes a long way even if you’re in a bar talking to your friends females across the floor will notice it and maybe even come up you and say hi
Excellent points. Peter might be an Alpha in the business world, but not in the dating world. It is better to be a Chad than an Alpha in the dating world. Paul was a Chad. He might not have been as rich and successful in business as Peter, but Paul knew what women want. Peter could easily become a Chad if he read Atomic Attraction.
Become a manager( at McDonald's or where ever is easy) and full you employees. This is a sure fire way to get women. All they are looking for is a man that's a leader it don't Matter in what fashion.
This video isn't the best. I explain. 1. You can be fat, short, etc. As long as you do chase a healthier lifestyle, dress decent, have good hygiene, it's fine. Stop shaming people or yourself for beeing what they/you are today! It's right, you still achieve more with better appereance, but see it as a bonus. 2. The main key is confidence, and only confidence. You need to achieve this, because even a perfect body won't do much if you are not confident about yourself. 3. Stop chasing a dreaming about a specific girl. You see one, just approach her friendly and natural with eye contact. "The coffee smells good, what you've got?" Just to break the ice. You pick your coffee, go to her, if she is alone, comments again about the coffee and have some conversation. And after that, if it sparks, it sparks. If not, well, you did what you did! Stop chasing girls, you are the price!
I had an insecure guy who’s girl was interested in me ask me when I started going bald. I replied the same time as you, I just decided to shave my head. Lol. His chick was on it . This video rings a 100% true.
1) Why is this called "The Alpha Trap"? What is the trap? 2) Why is her name "Jane"? If the men are named Peter and Paul, shouldn't her name be "Mary"? 3) Is there such a thing as "designer stubble" (2:26)? Clothes can be designer, but stubble? It is not designed. It's natural. 4) I *like* how this is based on a true story. The authenticity hightens the relevance!
I'm so glad I decided to shave my head when I started to go bald. If anything I think it brings out the shape of my face more. I would suggest to any balding man to get to the barbers for a full shave instead of keeping whats left, it'll only hold you back
So the dude came to the coffee shop everyday using pink glasses, he created himself a perfect woman, 😂 and then he struggled. You create an artificial ideal without even knowing her, then you struggle that she's different from what you expected, created for yourself
Peter was a not socially build up enough. He was not maybe handsome or lacked skills. He potentials where of low grade to. When I need a Lady , I don't stress much for everything is set besides, I got all the CHARMS in abundance. But if not willing or not interested needless for showing up for it will become like hunting without eating. LIFE IS A DEAL. On like friendship is concern too, I don't walk with any kind of a person except does of my POTENTIAL and SKILLS. For of I do he or she may stand as a degrade for my deal. I got respect everywhere.
Quick question: how do approach to touch a woman? You said Paul touched her, but where on the arm? How did he do it? I’m such a pushover cause if you touch a woman you are gonna get into trouble if the woman is toxic; like today it’s 50/50 you come out of it unharmed
Any man who touches a woman in the 1st minute of meeting her is going to look desperate (like he heard somewhere that touching a woman "builds attraction.") It would be just plain weird to any sane woman, nothing "toxic" about it.. Save touching her (on the arm, shoulder, upper back) for the 1st date. (Open the door for her, and gently make contact with her back as she walk ahead, for example).
@@karinpowers1018 what I meant is that if they report that as sexual abuse that’s toxic, and touch isn’t a bad thing, you need to have physical contact to show evidence that you have feelings, granted not innapropiate touching
@@gmoneygamer Yes, but if you let the woman clearly give you signals that she likes you, she won't complain about you touching her arm. That's why I suggest that touch should wait until the 1st date...or even if she has agreed to see you again...as long as she has said "yes" to something.
@@gmoneygamer But just looking at her a certain way and talking/laughing for a couple of minutes is enough to let her know initially. A genuine compliment is always good. If she seems receptive, that's a good time to ask her out or offer your number.
Hi Chris, I'm within a 6 weeks of no contact rule period with my girl. But there is an important event in our culture. People wish each other. Should I wish her now? I was waiting to contact her just after 6 weeks just saying "Hi." Thanks.
Be a man of value. Value yourself by taking care of your body and mind. Value your time but not chasing women or texting and calling all the time. It works .
But you should text and call her sometimes. Not every day
@@salamandabiko From The Police Department
yep, basically this.
Thanks your so right stop being thirsty 2020 taking 📝
Keep going brother. You have the right mindset.
She thought the last guy was Jeff Bezos thats why
Manuel Fernando
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Omg this comment,
this comment omg!! 😂🔥
Johnny Sins lol! 😆
😅😅😅😅😅
LOL I was totally thinking that
Basic personal hygiene, a bit of muscle, and decent fitting clothes can go a long way. Also, patience and the ability to give time and space to a woman is essential. Using that time to work out, have adventures on your own, and learn something new makes you more interesting than texting her or calling her all the time. Mystery and strength are highly important elements to generate attraction. Desperation and feeling inferior to a woman are complete attraction killers.
Big facts
Mick, thank you man!!!!! 💪💪🤫
I'm the latter unfortunately I'm planning to buy your book to gain insight
This is so true👍
Amen dude, nailed it. A rare voice of reason in the comments.
Don't linger. When you linger, she knows. Go right away!
Does linger mean 'to insist'?
That is exactly what I’ve been telling so many guys for the longest time don’t linger just walk right up
Sergio Jiménez no linger means basically stand around for a while staring at her unsure whether you should ask her out
Linger can work to your advantage but only if you do it confidently.
1000 analysis paralysis
At 35 I was Peter. Now at 40 I'm Paul. Life is much better. Thank you for your uploads
Lol
5 years to improve?
Such a journey
You have to acknowledge that the guy knows how to summon interest. What have you done these 5 years?
How did you do it? I am trying exercise but have little results
Just in case this sends the wrong message. Shaved heads are attractive, yes. But short hair is equally attractive. Don’t watch this and feel compelled to shave your head (unless you have a receding hairline or you’re going bald).
Lol
Develop Attraction what if she messages you indirectly during no contact .let’s talk about it pls reply
I started to shave my head 8 years ago and my dates rocketed since then.
some women actually prefer a shaved head.
@MackDaddy OfJustice on GDN, I ain't shaven my head. These how's better shave they fucking head
Lex Luthor is the guy at the end.
Prof Charles Xavier
Hahahaha lol
Yes lex Luthor
"you must never hesitate" - Sean Connery
you mush never heshitate
Remember this extract from the book, it's the one I remember the most, I remember when I would like a girl I would hang around just like Peter and not say anything then to nervously try to start up a conversation which led to no results. After reading the book I just said "Fuck it" I would approach women like I was the president even though inside didn't feel the same, even to women that I didn't like just to get practice. Results followed and a confident first impression confuses a woman and makes her more receptive.
True
So she went off with agent 47 lol
And she "disappered" while on holiday with him..
Because he’s a badass duh
Also, this happened to me at my previous job--and not just once, but twice! There were two women on the lower floor who I just had to meet. The older one was so cute and sexy and feminine that it drove me crazy (and I LOVED it!). I tried to meet her a couple of times, but I turned to mush and aborted my mission. Then I finally decided to do it. I was sooo nervous, but by golly, she was really sweet and she genuinely liked me. We even chatted for more than an hour after work one evening. Sadly, she was married. I'm a gentleman, and gentlemen are absolutely forbidden from tempting married women. So we just remained friendly coworkers. The other woman was extremely tall and slim, like a female volleyball player. I know that she noticed me staring at her again and again. Luckily, we finally met. She, too, liked me a lot. However, she also was married, and was way too young. Alas!
I got my girlfriend back by pulling away from her. You want to be happy for the rest of your life with the women you love? you have to play mind trick, it’s the way it is.
What if she moves on before you and gets into another relationship?
@@enternaldragon1 Then you move on with you're life. if she leaves you that quickly, she will leave you sooner or later in the long run. so you saved yourself from a shitty relationship.
@@enternaldragon1 then find another women, there are millions of them.
yup! you have to be willing to walk away and tell yourself you will never see her again. be strong, if you ae not then you do not deserve her anyway!
@@enternaldragon1 If she doesn't come back to you after you give her the space and freedom by pulling back, then she was never that into you in the first place. You did yourself a favor and saved yourself from an embarrassing break up down the line or worse yet, a financially crippling divorce
Appreciate it bro. Keep the staff going.
videos are getting better and better Chris thank you for your amazing content
I love the new video format bro! Great storytelling
She taught he was johnny sins thats why
Bruh!!!!😅😅
LMAO
You need a doctor.
Confidence goes a long way even if you’re in a bar talking to your friends females across the floor will notice it and maybe even come up you and say hi
It's all about looks 🙌✨
And confidence
The presentation of these videos is great. Keep it up
This guy's voice is relaxing af
Excellent points. Peter might be an Alpha in the business world, but not in the dating world. It is better to be a Chad than an Alpha in the dating world. Paul was a Chad. He might not have been as rich and successful in business as Peter, but Paul knew what women want. Peter could easily become a Chad if he read Atomic Attraction.
I love your advice , it's always works for me
Women love the person who expose to fear and overcome it
Love your videos and the way you explain yourself.
Who else gets scott's ad before watching this?
Become a manager( at McDonald's or where ever is easy) and full you employees. This is a sure fire way to get women. All they are looking for is a man that's a leader it don't Matter in what fashion.
Be a high value man run behind success invest in yourself Be a challenge I think that is enough to attract a woman
This video isn't the best. I explain.
1. You can be fat, short, etc. As long as you do chase a healthier lifestyle, dress decent, have good hygiene, it's fine. Stop shaming people or yourself for beeing what they/you are today! It's right, you still achieve more with better appereance, but see it as a bonus.
2. The main key is confidence, and only confidence. You need to achieve this, because even a perfect body won't do much if you are not confident about yourself.
3. Stop chasing a dreaming about a specific girl. You see one, just approach her friendly and natural with eye contact. "The coffee smells good, what you've got?" Just to break the ice. You pick your coffee, go to her, if she is alone, comments again about the coffee and have some conversation. And after that, if it sparks, it sparks. If not, well, you did what you did!
Stop chasing girls, you are the price!
khthebestfan 💯
priZe
i remember reading this story in your book.
Wow! Nice production values with this video!
Peter's clothes scared him at 3:06 😂
So Basically it gets down to looks first... And then the by product or good looking and fit is the self confidence
Great video. Thanks
Very insightful
I had an insecure guy who’s girl was interested in me ask me when I started going bald. I replied the same time as you, I just decided to shave my head. Lol. His chick was on it . This video rings a 100% true.
Peter should have had balls and asked her out the first time he saw her. Also, he shouldn't put her on a pedestal.
Lesson learned: Be like Jhonny sins
Professor Charles xavier
Bruce Willis
1) Why is this called "The Alpha Trap"? What is the trap?
2) Why is her name "Jane"? If the men are named Peter and Paul, shouldn't her name be "Mary"?
3) Is there such a thing as "designer stubble" (2:26)? Clothes can be designer, but stubble? It is not designed. It's natural.
4) I *like* how this is based on a true story. The authenticity hightens the relevance!
Ask all these questions and i doubt u gonna get laid anytimr
well made sir , 10000%
NoFap gives you confidence.
so everyone who have no confidence always fap? some people were shy.
Paul was Johnny Sins
Dress well ,be confident while talking don't break eye contact...and don't approch after 1 week of chasing approch should be direct ...
But it wasn't his weight. It was his lack of confidence.
You didn’t get the point, it was the chubbyness that made her loose interest
@@nicestuff8755 wrong it was his lack of confidence. Someone's weight has little to do with it.
ya looks matter
Jane, 35, post wall town bicycle.
Pater’s look made him look like he is broke and Paul look like Jeff Bezos so that gold digger choose Paul 😂😂😂
Peter looks 50. He looks like my father and I'm 40.
Right lol
Thank you
So the whole point of this is....
To be skinny and bald !!! Plus confidence !!!
THEONEANDONLY100100 no only good looking
I have noticed a lot of the same people in these animations. Small town.
So this teaches us that attraction its not a choise.
Love your videos😘😘
Man in Thumbnail is low key Jason Statham.
Change me mind...
Sir can you please add English subtitles with the vedio please
So now you know boys, the key to get the attention of a girl is to be someone that your not ;)... all about the surface.
Another grim reality was that if Peter was ugly, fat and not confident, he would have still gotten Jane if only she saw him with a Lamborghini.
Great info
So a good sense of style a muscular body and lots of confidence is the key to attraction ?
Thanks
Actually no it's not the key, it helps with a good first impression because at the end of the day humans are shallow creatures.
You just found out her word is worth nothing, she has done you a huge favor.
She thought the first guy was Penn from Penn and Teller.
Nice i am from india and its work here too
Exactly it works buddy. Same from India... Check it out ( Ironman lifestyle ) channel..
@@Uday.chavan ok
Works everywhere
@@fitnesspoint2006 hit the gym Peter
@@fitnesspoint2006 wanna sniff ma pit doggo
She thought Paul was Jeff Besos😂😂
Probably Johnny sins
I haven't had ass for 3 years but now I'm learning from you thanks brother
Warya nin kaan haa dhaagysn be good man to your women be yourself 😂
In this day n age, alphas don't have money. Betas do
I'm so glad I decided to shave my head when I started to go bald. If anything I think it brings out the shape of my face more. I would suggest to any balding man to get to the barbers for a full shave instead of keeping whats left, it'll only hold you back
I have two first names.
Paul Peter. It's kind of crazy
Make more animation...u r the best...
So the dude came to the coffee shop everyday using pink glasses, he created himself a perfect woman, 😂 and then he struggled.
You create an artificial ideal without even knowing her, then you struggle that she's different from what you expected, created for yourself
The cafe burnt to ashes
WHAT THE ANIMATION LOGICIEL you use
What does Peter do...go to no contact?? :)
🤣🤣🤣
Peter was a not socially build up enough. He was not maybe handsome or lacked skills. He potentials where of low grade to. When I need a Lady , I don't stress much for everything is set besides, I got all the CHARMS in abundance. But if not willing or not interested needless for showing up for it will become like hunting without eating. LIFE IS A DEAL. On like friendship is concern too, I don't walk with any kind of a person except does of my POTENTIAL and SKILLS. For of I do he or she may stand as a degrade for my deal. I got respect everywhere.
Is that on audible yet?
Mike Gates getting ready for the audible release. It will be out this month.
Appearance doesn't matter. Self confidence does.
1:47 she is prof x's daughter
2:21 Definitely Jeff Bezos.
Idc what woman like.. I smoke weed😂😂
Poor peter. Age 35 with a receding hair-line lol looks about right for todays stressful world xD
Quick question: how do approach to touch a woman? You said Paul touched her, but where on the arm? How did he do it?
I’m such a pushover cause if you touch a woman you are gonna get into trouble if the woman is toxic; like today it’s 50/50 you come out of it unharmed
Any man who touches a woman in the 1st minute of meeting her is going to look desperate (like he heard somewhere that touching a woman "builds attraction.") It would be just plain weird to any sane woman, nothing "toxic" about it..
Save touching her (on the arm, shoulder, upper back) for the 1st date. (Open the door for her, and gently make contact with her back as she walk ahead, for example).
@@karinpowers1018 what I meant is that if they report that as sexual abuse that’s toxic, and touch isn’t a bad thing, you need to have physical contact to show evidence that you have feelings, granted not innapropiate touching
@@gmoneygamer Yes, but if you let the woman clearly give you signals that she likes you, she won't complain about you touching her arm.
That's why I suggest that touch should wait until the 1st date...or even if she has agreed to see you again...as long as she has said "yes" to something.
@@gmoneygamer But just looking at her a certain way and talking/laughing for a couple of minutes is enough to let her know initially. A genuine compliment is always good. If she seems receptive, that's a good time to ask her out or offer your number.
@@karinpowers1018 thanks again for the dating advice
It wasn’t cause Peter was overweight it was CAuse he took 3 fucking weeks to build up courage
so woman are like us ? they chose based on ur looks ?
Bottom line is looks
He had Oneitis. Don't be that guy. Spin those plates, have options.
M good looking in long hair.. should I shave my hair.?
Yes all of it
@@CityofDreams95 lol I'll never. Short hair doesn't make any sense..
@@Uday.chavan 😂😂
She just watched Jonny sins, and figured Paul would be the guy
1:50 is really funny
please keep using translate in your videos Sir
Why was the coffee floating when she walked out??...she had super natural powers!!!! Jk
Paul looks like Jeff bezos
Second man looks like Jeff bezos
Women will stomp on your heart and rip it out for one reason and one reason only. Because they can.
Hi Chris,
I'm within a 6 weeks of no contact rule period with my girl. But there is an important event in our culture. People wish each other. Should I wish her now?
I was waiting to contact her just after 6 weeks just saying "Hi."
Thanks.
Lex Luthor 👌
which software do you use for making the video
Powtoon
He was a Russian hitman .
I identify as Paul
Wait that’s a different guy.
I have high T nd nooo facial hair at all.. so its rly not a sign of testestron.. i also have natural muscles and V shape thanks to my high T
Yeah same with me. Had strong jawline and broad chin but dont have facial hair.
Then you are producing estrogen and your balls will disappear in one week
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I need subs, english or indonesia
no wonder she was not interested shes a witch making the cup float on 1:47