10 Things you should keep private. Move in Silence and keep them out of your business

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  • Опубліковано 3 лют 2025

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  • @zariayong
    @zariayong  2 роки тому +5

    Do you share too much like me? What are you keeping private? Watch the videos mentioned here: Self Improvement: ua-cam.com/play/PLYMgYoTu7VO65ts50Rcb0h2xDqNJL8stl.html

  • @Milly_in_denmark
    @Milly_in_denmark Рік тому +35

    Yes I don’t even make Instagram stories while on vacation. And like you i share my vacation photos after I have come home

  • @lmusima3275
    @lmusima3275 6 місяців тому +2

    I’m so glad I came across this content. I used to over share a lot of stories via instagram and WhatsApp. I did unfortunately share too much about my favourite places to eat, hangout, venting moments, holidays and languages. I was just about to share some deeper stuff until I realised I was unnecessarily oversharing. I noticed that my viewers would never contact me or ask how I’m doing. Plus it didn’t add value to my status

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  6 місяців тому

      Wow. Glad you didn’t share. Thanks for the feedback

  • @TravelinRosy2025
    @TravelinRosy2025 Рік тому +15

    I need to relearn this I'm open book n need to b more private ..

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  Рік тому +3

      Thanks Rosey. Post this video I have actually decided to not even trust a closed friend. They always tell your business sis. If you are not comfortable with 2 others knowing from that bestie don't share to anyone but therapist.

    • @jacquelllawrence1419
      @jacquelllawrence1419 3 місяці тому

      You are not by yourself. I am to.

  • @MG20024
    @MG20024 7 днів тому

    Thanks for sharing this. Other things I'd add to this list to keep private would be.....
    Your finances, your dating/relationship information and keep your spouse off your social media, what items you own, your pregnancy/baby bump, your future plans and goals.

  • @dorothytulah263
    @dorothytulah263 2 роки тому +5

    My sister even when you trust talk them go still go trust talk oh. Very painful. Thanks for these. Needed video

  • @BullitCake
    @BullitCake 2 роки тому +26

    Real G's move in silence like lasagna

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  2 роки тому +2

      Haha Totally Ryzo. Thank you!

  • @BossLady-w2g
    @BossLady-w2g 6 місяців тому

    Thank you

  • @sharlaamysamuel
    @sharlaamysamuel 9 місяців тому

    Very good advice! That aspect of safety is so true.
    God bless✨

  • @chingangsandra716
    @chingangsandra716 2 роки тому +5

    Learned my lessons about sharing. Heard about the Nigerian lady. It's a pity. I do really have to do better and keep more to myself. Oya they always reshape and pretend they didn't. Sometimes I have had the 3rd party come back to say X Said you said and it my heart I am like but x wasn't supposed to do that. Thanks Zaria

  • @bossladyghana6303
    @bossladyghana6303 7 місяців тому

    Love this video
    And I'm looking forward to be more private 🙂

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  7 місяців тому +1

      Thank you sis.

  • @sarah.marco888
    @sarah.marco888 Рік тому +3

    ❤ this is great. Thank you 😊 I agree with the bit on kids especially and legal matters

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  Рік тому

      Thank you for your feedback.

  • @bangibabs
    @bangibabs 2 роки тому +4

    Such an informative video and you listed things many do not discuss especially about birth dates and passwords and security cameras. Great vid👌🏾💯💝

  • @kemiquadri1708
    @kemiquadri1708 Рік тому +1

    Thank you sis

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  Рік тому

      You are welcome. I appreciate you clicking on the video dear so thank you too!!

  • @princessmalope6759
    @princessmalope6759 2 роки тому +2

    Very true

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you Princess. Princess Awe!

  • @sm7657
    @sm7657 2 роки тому +8

    My mom and dad and a lot of my relatives and friends bully me when I keep things in private 😢

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  2 роки тому +2

      Omg that is going too far. S M They don't own you. They don't care about your boundaries or what makes you happy?

    • @kimberlyfowler5748
      @kimberlyfowler5748 Рік тому +1

      That’s a sign to stay quiet, neutral, when people are intent on knowing your thoughts, protect yourself

    • @kimberlyfowler5748
      @kimberlyfowler5748 Рік тому

      Wait I gave you this advice assuming you are over 18? Lol

  • @sm7657
    @sm7657 2 роки тому +4

    What should I do since all my family , friends and community bully me for being private ?

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  2 роки тому +3

      Sorry you are going through this. You can stand up to them politely, create boundaries with consequences if they don't respect, worst case remove yourself from the situation. You can also find a family member who they respect and explain to them how they are hurting you and hopefully they can talk to them. Bullying is not okay and not good for your wellbeing. Also consider therapy

  • @BRATdhq
    @BRATdhq Рік тому +3

    Blood type

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  Рік тому

      What about it my friend? Thanks for watching

    • @milkandcigarettes
      @milkandcigarettes Рік тому +2

      @@zariayong I think they meant you shouldn't share your blood type 🙏🏼

    • @zariayong
      @zariayong  Рік тому +2

      @@milkandcigarettes oh that clicks now. Thank you

  • @Officialriamia
    @Officialriamia 10 місяців тому

    I think u should keep your relationship status private