How To Do NOTHING So Men Fall In Love With You (Relationship Advice & Dating Advice)

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  • @1111ScorpQn
    @1111ScorpQn 27 днів тому +79

    Don’t forget that while doing nothing men will call your bluff! The key is to stay grounded in doing nothing until he offers way more than the crumbs you’ve accepted in the past. Also while doing “nothing”, pamper yourself and always look good and stay busy doing something for yourself. 🥂💯

  • @kristalvoigt5942
    @kristalvoigt5942 22 дні тому +2

    Ive learned more froM Tomisin than i have my entire life about men amd im 50! Thank you Tomisin, you have a powerful impact on this world. 💖

  • @Bodangers
    @Bodangers 22 дні тому +3

    From my experience, doing nothing makes a man like and give me more. When I reciprocate is when things go out the window.

  • @Tara-ClaireMintakaL
    @Tara-ClaireMintakaL 23 дні тому +2

    🌙 I love how Tomi knows women so well ?! 💘💘

  • @patsya9826
    @patsya9826 26 днів тому +6

    I just wanna say Thanks Tom for Helping us, so Enlightened 🙏😊

  • @elena-jp6ge
    @elena-jp6ge 26 днів тому +7

    i like how tom is presenting the each topic brutally honest and real. ty tom 🙏🏻🌌

    • @Camillyahreal
      @Camillyahreal 26 днів тому +3

      I don’t think his brutal at all. Honestly doesn’t have to be brutal.

    • @elena-jp6ge
      @elena-jp6ge 26 днів тому +1

      @@Camillyahreali appretiate your opinion

  • @claudiapirani8948
    @claudiapirani8948 27 днів тому +8

    You are the big bro or father never explained things so clearly.
    I really appreciate your work❤😊

  • @lenag5828
    @lenag5828 26 днів тому +8

    Tomisin what would be super interesting to watch is to hear your commentary (and watch your live reactions) while you watch shows like love is blind or the ultimatum. I swear when I watch those dating reality shows, you see everything you talk about getting played out 😹😹😹 everything you say is true

  • @user-rj1vj5wk9f
    @user-rj1vj5wk9f 17 днів тому +1

    Tomasin The Great

  • @НастяБудковская-м4я
    @НастяБудковская-м4я 27 днів тому +20

    Tomisin, can you please record the video "why men don't approach". F.ex. I don't understand why men don't approach me as I take a lot of care of myself physically and mentally: go to the gym, study at uni. I can say that many people see me funny, beautiful and confident. I don't want to approach them, but it seems that some may be interested, but don't take any actions. What am I supposed to do with that?

    • @nomecognome9823
      @nomecognome9823 26 днів тому +15

      They think you are out their league

    • @noname-lk1mw
      @noname-lk1mw 26 днів тому

      ​@@nomecognome9823 yes, but if you want to you can do the first move 😊

    • @S-jy4fd
      @S-jy4fd 25 днів тому +4

      Bruh this keeps happening to me too, I literally have stalkers at the gym but I even found one or two attractive and tried to show interest through body language but nope they refuse to approach 😂

    • @Lpbaby-x2c
      @Lpbaby-x2c 24 дні тому +1

      LMAOOOO “THOMAS” 😅@tomisin hehehe

    • @Nikki_Nicole_
      @Nikki_Nicole_ 24 дні тому +1

      same! I'd love to learn more about this

  • @marleenmathews
    @marleenmathews 26 днів тому +3

    My favorite mindset with texting men these days is: TLDR
    Ain't got no time for screentime, byeee

  • @aliade7517
    @aliade7517 26 днів тому +3

    "Say that 10x"😂

  • @rollinggstonee
    @rollinggstonee 26 днів тому +1

    Tomisin I love you so much 😂😂😂 your reaction was 👌🏼 1:30:05

  • @Lpbaby-x2c
    @Lpbaby-x2c 24 дні тому +1

    Discord time @ 1:46:10

  • @SpiritualWellnessCenter
    @SpiritualWellnessCenter 27 днів тому +3

    Ty love❤

  • @ColaBaby888
    @ColaBaby888 21 день тому

    Wish I could stay for the show...

  • @mariaqueen488
    @mariaqueen488 27 днів тому +6

    I don't feel good 💔

    • @judnaclecidor3555
      @judnaclecidor3555 27 днів тому +14

      It’s a temporary feeling. Do things that uplift your spirit. better things are coming.

    • @mariaqueen488
      @mariaqueen488 26 днів тому

      @@judnaclecidor3555 thank you I wish u best in life

  • @gigijenner5932
    @gigijenner5932 21 день тому

    2:29:26

  • @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes
    @nurseannesinspirationalwellnes 27 днів тому +4

  • @miki410
    @miki410 27 днів тому +6

    If I followed this method, I would only be stuck with the men I don't desire. Which is far far worse than being alone. Because in the end, the men you don't desire who simply execute these various pursuit-related administrative tasks, once you eventually choose one of them for a relationship, that man will fully expect you to do all the emotional, mental, and domestic labor that a hot guy would, so how is that even a reward for the woman? You don't know about this part because you are a man. It's also antiquated thinking to presume that society cannot be shaped properly so that men are disincentivized to demand they always be the pursuer. To coddle that kind of king-baby thinking and instruct women to suppress our own aspirations and agency, and outright ignore our will to pursue who and what we want in life, is ultimately misogynistic and unhelpful to a single woman looking for a true love that reflects her self-identity and vision.

    • @ABC-jq7ve
      @ABC-jq7ve 27 днів тому +10

      I think you’re automatically assuming that only an undesirable man will pursue you, and if a man is desirable, that you must pursue. Because if a man is undesirable, you don’t even have to date him. Only date men who are desirable AND chase.

    • @miki410
      @miki410 27 днів тому

      @ABC-jq7ve ideally, you would only date men who are desirable and chase. But only an extremely small percentage of women experience the overlap of that Venn diagram. So to have a 2 hour 40 minute instructional video for .01% of women is unhelpful. That said, I appreciate the work he puts into it as well as his communicative ability to lay out the concepts. It's just not a method that most women can successfully implement.

    • @olgakuchukov6981
      @olgakuchukov6981 27 днів тому +1

      Polarity is a biological reality, ignore it and suffer.

    • @miki410
      @miki410 27 днів тому

      @@olgakuchukov6981 we used to say that about men graping and physically abusing us too, but guess what, society progressed to a point where we realized that was unacceptable, so we set up legal guardrails to disincentivize that behavior. That's what civilization is, and it's what separates humanity from animals. When we know better, we change for the better. If you want to stay behind with the neanderthals, that's your choice.

    • @miki410
      @miki410 27 днів тому

      @@olgakuchukov6981 that's what we used to say about men graping us and physically abusing us whenever they wanted. But eventually society progressed to a point where we realized that was unacceptable, and we set up legal guardrails to disincentivize that behavior. When we know better, we change. If you want to stay behind with the neanderthals, that's your choice.

  • @Lpbaby-x2c
    @Lpbaby-x2c 27 днів тому +3

    TOMI IT’S LIKE YOU KNOW ME! 😅😂❤ @tomisin catching the replay now