Saying "NO" to Children: Why & How? | Salman Asif Siddiqui | بچوں کو منع کیوں اور کیسے کریں؟

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  • Опубліковано 2 тра 2023
  • In this video, Salman Asif Siddiqui talks about the importance of saying "no" to the unreasonable demands of children and explains its necessity for their emotional development.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 28

  • @sarwatansari4597
    @sarwatansari4597 Рік тому +5

    SubhanAllah, May Allah Subhanau Taala always increase you in Elm and Amal.

  • @blessingsoflife.1812
    @blessingsoflife.1812 7 місяців тому +1

    Your videos always helpful for me for the terbiya of my kids jazak Allah kharann...

  • @MuhammadAli-dg7nq
    @MuhammadAli-dg7nq 10 місяців тому +3

    Sir, you are doing a great job, keep it up!
    Stay Blessed

  • @AyeshaUsman-s9f
    @AyeshaUsman-s9f Місяць тому

    Allah ap ko behtreen jaza day

  • @light-seeker1
    @light-seeker1 6 місяців тому +1

    Jazak allah Waqai Dua hu asal hathiar hai or phir sincere knowledge according to our dern ,spread by sincere people like you.Allah apko dunia akhrat main behad khush rakhe,apk piaron k sath,ameen

  • @MS-fw6kg
    @MS-fw6kg Рік тому +22

    In our society, a major contribution towards parents being submissive is from the grandparents, especially the dada and dadi who humiliate the mother for trying to discipline the child, even softly. Grandparents need to be educated and stopped from interfering where it isn't required.

    • @AbdulMutaaalAhmed-nm4cg
      @AbdulMutaaalAhmed-nm4cg Рік тому

      Uts damn true in our society... 😢

    • @Faizan-A-Khan
      @Faizan-A-Khan Рік тому +1

      It would have been great if you would have mentioned Nana & Nani as well along with Dada and Dadi to sound more rational, isn't it?

    • @MS-fw6kg
      @MS-fw6kg Рік тому +3

      @@Faizan-A-Khan You have your opinion, I have my own based on what I have faced and seen all around me. I have rarely seen parents humiliate their daughter for her way of parenting because they understand their daughter is also learning and growing as a person and as a mother based on the challenges life throws at her. The in laws on the other hand, are usually not so understanding. Hence the reason I mentioned "Dada Dadi" specifically. You may have a different opinion based on whatever you have experienced. Not everything has to be according to your way of thinking to sound "rational".

    • @MS-fw6kg
      @MS-fw6kg Рік тому +1

      To MuhammadFaizan5900 or whoever he is, I can't reply directly to him since he has insulted and then prevented me from replying like a coward. Shows your emotional maturity. You are blowing the whole thing out of proportions and taking a simple comment in some extremely unrelated direction. I haven't cursed my parents in law and I am not married to an idiot, watch your insolent mouth please. Don't make a spectacle of your "tarbiyat" and "level of education". You seem to be approaching this whole thing with prejudice in mind which is why you are getting highly worked up, rude and offensive over it. You need to understand everyone has an opinion and you can't misinterpret and then degrade someone for not thinking like you. Everyone has unique life experiences that help them form an outlook on life and one comment cannot give you an insight into that person's personality, their nature or their experiences. You need to start thinking practically and not immediately turn into a big crybaby who insults everyone who will not think their way. You can come back for discussions when you grow up, I cannot waste time on the likes of you. Bye.

    • @Faizan-A-Khan
      @Faizan-A-Khan Рік тому +1

      Haha.. Peace..
      You don't want to waste your time and wrote an essay..
      You are contradicting with your own words at many places.. Anyway, didn't want to hurt you or anyone.
      Stay blessed.

  • @mehbubpanwala9823
    @mehbubpanwala9823 11 днів тому

    Good❤

  • @abdurrahman-yt9ly
    @abdurrahman-yt9ly 8 місяців тому

    Jazakallah khair sir

  • @Shahwali91
    @Shahwali91 10 місяців тому +1

    👍 great

  • @nikahjannah8972
    @nikahjannah8972 7 місяців тому +1

    Plz share tht training.. How to give tht training where kids develop tht sense of listening to parents. N where kids develop tht respect for parents. Plz sbare complete lecture

  • @Cartoon_Psychologist
    @Cartoon_Psychologist Рік тому

    Really good talks, I want to be your pupil, Sir.

  • @faheemhind
    @faheemhind 11 місяців тому

    ☺️☺️☺️.

  • @rosyrose968
    @rosyrose968 17 днів тому

    Full video of this clip?

  • @benishzulfiqar1520
    @benishzulfiqar1520 11 місяців тому

    Sir assalamualaikum
    Bacho me patience kese peda keren 4 years k hn

  • @mariaramzan9363
    @mariaramzan9363 Рік тому +2

    Dear Sir, I try say no when it is required and try to stick with ot regardless of my 4 year old daughter’s tantrums. But I feel her tone is very commanding sometimes she behaves so on track and do all the things I make her learn to do but sometimes she just refuses to do everything. I feel not sure what is wrong am I doing. I am not very strict, friendly but in terms of respect and some other important things I am firm. Please guide .
    Thank you

    • @erdcsocialmedia
      @erdcsocialmedia Рік тому

      Handling Children's Misbehaviour: ua-cam.com/users/liveDR2Gms0jyRM?feature=share

  • @kishwersadaqat2054
    @kishwersadaqat2054 Рік тому +3

    جزاک اللہ خیرا آمین
    میرے اور میری بیٹیوں کے کھلونے ڈائریاں ۔قلم ۔واٹر تھرماس اور اسی طرح کا سامان ہے ۔۔۔۔۔جب بھی گھر میں ایسا کوئی تحفہ آجائے ہم سب میں یہ طے پاتا ہے کہ جس کے پاس نہیں ان کو یہ ڈائری یا تھرماس ملے گا ۔۔۔۔۔لیکن پھر بھی ہم للچائی ہوئی نظروں سے دیکھ رہے ہوتے ہیں 😊
    ہر ایک کی کوشش ہوتی ہے ۔۔۔نئے سال کی ڈائری مجھے ملے ۔۔۔خواہ میری چھوٹی بیٹی ہوں یا میں ۔۔۔😊😊

  • @plantslover123
    @plantslover123 Місяць тому

    A.o.a sir mera bucha zkhm krta h theek nh hony dta pori body p nishan hn smjhao to ak time ruk jta h phr start hojta h khana mangta h do to nh khata zid krta h na pyar s manta h na gusy h jb acha mod ho tb thk hota h mother s ziada zid krta h

  • @sirateayesha3448
    @sirateayesha3448 Рік тому

    Asslamoalikum! Sir... Agr humara bacha baat nai Maan raha to hum narazgi ka izhar kr skte hain..... 2.5years ka he.... Or hum os ko kahain k hum naraz hain

    • @erdcsocialmedia
      @erdcsocialmedia Рік тому

      Why Children Don't Listen: ua-cam.com/video/7DHZtUSKqUE/v-deo.html | 7 Reasons Why Children Don't Listen: ua-cam.com/video/99Hg-EmcB-o/v-deo.html | 12 Ways To Make Your Children Listen: ua-cam.com/video/UcWsQE-kQTQ/v-deo.html

  • @mansoorahmad8409
    @mansoorahmad8409 Рік тому +2

    JzakaAllah o khaira ♥️
    "parents are always wrong or children are always right" is a wrong secular psychological concept.

  • @user-vh2nz5dj2t
    @user-vh2nz5dj2t Місяць тому

    میرا بیٹا 11 سال کا ہے ۔4 جماعت سے بّھا گ رہا ہے ۔بہت پریشان ہو ن